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Episode 595: 3 Signs Your Ex Is Starting To Regret The Breakup · The Art of Love With Lucia

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  Hi. This is Luke here with the art
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  of love. I'm a dating and relationship.
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  Experts specializing in helping you get your ex back or to get
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  over your ex this week. I want to talk about three
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  signs, your ex is starting to regret The Break-Up isn't that
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  what we all want? When we've been dumped and we
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  want our ex back, we want them to regret The Break-Up because
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  that's the beginning of them wanting to get back together
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  because if they don't regret The Break-Up then how can they want
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  to get back together? Well, they can't.
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  So here are three signs. Sides.
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  But first, I want to welcome back my beautiful.
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  Okay. The three signs your exes, don't
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  regret the break-up. So one is, as I've talked about
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  many times before social media, this is why those of you who are
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  not on social media, you're missing out and this means that
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  they are starting if they weren't already chewed, look at
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  your stories or your Snapchats. Or whatever, especially if they
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  weren't looking them at them before.
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  And now all of a sudden they're looking at them more often or
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  all the time, And I actually did a poll today on my Instagram.
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  If you want to follow me on social media, all the links are
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  beneath my YouTube channel in the comments and I asked, why do
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  you keep watching a Nexus stories and almost a third, 27
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  percent of people said because they want their extra reach out.
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  Now, the only thing is we don't know the people answering
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  whether they were the dumper or the dumpee but still that's
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  really Good, I didn't expect it to be that high.
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  So 27% want the person story that they're watching?
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  They want that person to reach out.
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  So there is a possibility that they want you to reach out
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  however 52 percent of the time. It's just curiosity.
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  So you have to keep that in mind and then only 21% of people
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  said, well not only only, but only 20 21 percent of people
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  said, it's because they missed them.
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  But hey, even missing. Someone is the beginning of
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  regretting, a breakup and wanting them back.
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  So that was really positive news to see that.
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  So lucky you, now you can control the narrative and show
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  them whatever you want them to see.
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  Whether it's that you're not sitting around and that you're
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  happily moving on. Or that you've changed your
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  look, and you look better or that you're more successful.
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  And, yes, even that you may be on a date with someone.
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  If you use my to drink trick, which I've talked about in other
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  videos, you never blatantly want to post someone as in looking
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  like, you're on a date with some like, you're on their lab or
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  something, you're kissing them. If you're trying to get your ex
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  back, if you're not trying to get your ex back, do what you
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  want. If you're trying to make sure
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  you don't get your ex back, you can do that.
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  But if you are turning a direct Back then you need to be more
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  subtle. So you do the to drink tricks,
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  you post a picture of two drinks or video in your location and
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  you tag it. So it looks like you're on a
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  date, you're going to assume your own date.
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  Not necessarily dinner plates because you could be a dinner
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  with a family member or friend, but usually drinks.
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  It's a little more romantic or intimate.
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  And if you remember the video that I'm probably going to be
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  referring to Forever of the guy who he did everything wrong
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  with, then he got his ex back. So even though she dumped him,
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  His ex-girlfriend two weeks later, she posted a rose because
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  he wanted to know contract right away, he did the right thing,
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  two weeks later, she posted a rose and then being out to
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  dinner and he freaked out assume that she was moving on and
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  showed up at her house begging for her to come out and talk to
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  him. So, Quite possibly.
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  If your ex is regretting the breakup and you post the true
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  drinks or maybe even a rose, then you chew have the pleasure
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  of having your ex show up at your house and begging you to
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  come outside and talk to them. We can only hope right?
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  Okay. The next sign is that you're
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  trying to find out if you're seeing someone.
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  So if you're in contact with them because you have kids
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  together or you work together or something, they made directly
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  ask you, like I hate using anybody.
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  Or if they don't directly ask your if they can't because
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  you're not in contact, then they may ask a mutual friend or if
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  they're in touch with one of your family members.
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  So why would they be asking if you're seeing someone if they
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  broke up with you. Hmm.
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  Well, if you break up with someone, you have absolutely no
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  interest in getting back together with them.
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  You really don't care if they're seeing someone right, if
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  anything, you hope that they are seeing someone.
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  So, they'll leave you alone. If you bugged your ex or so that
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  they won't have to feel guilty about the break-up.
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  So, If your ex wants to know is either for Eagle reasons because
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  they want to see if you already replace them or not or because
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  they're starting to have second thoughts about The Break-Up,
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  they're starting to regret the breakup and they want to see if
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  the coast is clear. If they want to make a move,
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  they want to ask you out. What are the chances of you're
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  going to say? Yes, you do want to see them,
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  right? So they're going to find, not
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  try to find out. If you're seeing someone and
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  then, finally, a third sign that your ex is going to regret The
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  Break-Up Up is that they will reach out with my favorite word
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  insignificant messages, otherwise known as bread crumbs.
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  And so this is going to be one of the first things they do
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  because they're just dipping their toe.
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  So they'll send, you know, the hey how are you doing?
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  Or they'll send a meme, they'll send an old photo.
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  But I still stick to the plan of not responding to insignificant
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  messages because this is just in the early stages.
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  So if you've been a no-contact they haven't contacted you and
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  now they reach out, they may be starting to regret The Break-Up.
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  They may not So you can't just assume out they reached out
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  there. Shouldn't regret to break up.
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  Yeah. But starting to does it mean
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  they totally regret The Break-Up?
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  That's why we're waiting for escalation consistency and
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  escalation with the messages and that shows you that now it's not
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  just that they're starting to regret The Break-Up, they really
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  do regret their breakup now, because now they're sending more
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  messages when you ignore their bread crumbs.
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  And then they finally say something significant, And when
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  you finally get that significant message just like such a relief
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  and all that no-contact was worth Italy.
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  Chia was, right? It was worth waiting for.
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  So to recap the three signs we have, they're looking at your
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  social media, your stories, your Snapchats.
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  They're trying to find out if you are seeing someone and
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  finally, they are sending breadcrumbs insignificant
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  messages. Obviously, if they send a
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  significant message, it means that they do regret.
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  Break up, that should shouldn't need to be said for just in
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  case. All right?
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  So if you want to hear from you first actually, have you seen
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  any of these signs? Please let us know if you've
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  seen one or all three of them and if you would like my help to
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  get your ex back, you can contact me at the art of love
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