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Sunday Funday: Coworkers to Best Friends · Mom Gone Mild

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Hi everybody, welcome to mom gone mild.
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I'm Lex your house today we have a very special guest, Cindy,
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everyone. I talked about Cindy in the
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past. She is my one friend that I made
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as an adult that actually has stuck.
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Actually, I have a lot more adult friends.
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I shouldn't say that, but like we're really close.
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We talk almost everyday. Yeah, she has like 5-10 like
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best friend so. Well, you're one of them, so
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good job. You landed good anyways.
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So, Cindy, how are you doing today?
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What's new? What's the gossip?
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I'm doing good. I feel like I haven't seen you
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in a while. Yeah, it has been.
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She hasn't come to visit me since like, Axel's been like
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little, little little. Yeah, I accidentally kissed his
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little tiny feet and she was like, don't.
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That's funny, but I don't know in my book.
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But it's OK. Yeah, I get it.
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We moved on. I feel like when you're a first
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time mom, you are so overprotective because you want
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to do everything the right way. Yeah.
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So I mean, I mean, I feel like my sister was like, all my
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sisters were like, yeah, so. Yeah, well I'm just glad that
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you didn't get mad at me. Like my grandpa, he got mad at
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me and like hung out in the backyard for like 3 hours in the
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heat by the way. So he was pissed.
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He's finally over it. So I have like four other
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sisters. So I went through it like a
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couple times for me to like, not take it so personal, yeah.
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It really isn't personal. I mean, I don't know.
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Yeah, but anyway, so Cindy, she's the my Co worker.
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First of all, we literally bonded over having the worst job
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ever, having some of the worst bosses.
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I don't care if you're listening, kiss my ass.
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No, she didn't. So yeah, we brought bonded over
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that. And then what 1st, I have talked
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about you, but I have to make an amends because is that the word
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addendum because I said that I knew you for two years.
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I'm actually. Yeah, I don't know.
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I think because COVID was happening she probably.
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First of all, I'm really bad with dates.
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I feel like I say that all the time.
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I don't remember anything. I feel like everything just
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happened. We've known each other.
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For four, I think we met back in 2020. 2 Here we go with the
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dates. Yeah, probably 2022.
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That sounds about right. Yeah.
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So yeah, we've known each other for like 4 years, so I'm sorry
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Cindy. Yes, you've been my best friend
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since then. Yeah, she kind of texted me and
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she was upset. I was like wait.
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Like I did not just meet you two years ago.
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Like what is wrong with? You I'm like.
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What do you mean my bachelor? It just happened.
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I was like, I've been at this job for like 2 years but I know.
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I know, my bad. Oh, so now she is working at an
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amazing place in Beverly Hills. You want to talk about that?
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So I manage a nail salon. It's a very luxurious nail
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salon. Don't look at my nails by the
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way, because they're not from her.
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So I'm not promoting my nails. But she has really pretty.
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I don't know why she doesn't like to go out there, but.
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Beverly Hills girl, how about a brand new baby?
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What am I going to do? You need to go out.
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I feel like self-care is very important and I've been telling
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you, you need to go out there. Ladies, please like when you
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have time, I know if you're a mom, if you're a new mom, or if
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you have like kids that are, please take some time to go and
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do some self-care. I think it's very important.
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That is very. Important.
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So, but yeah. And so I manage a nail salon.
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I used to manage the Beverly Hills location, but now I'm
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managing in West Hollywood, which is like 5 minutes down the
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street from the Beverly Hills location.
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So yeah, I've been doing that for the past two years and
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hopefully, you know, things go good with that company.
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Slowly we are expanding. They're based out of the UK with
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over, I want to say like 60 locations in the UK and they
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have 4 locations in the US, 2 in LA and two in New York.
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And. Hopefully, yeah, one day I'll be
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able to manage managers for the salons and I won't have to deal
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with. You know, yes, yes, I know what
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you mean. I know what you mean.
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We are so proud of Cindy. She has come so far.
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I mean, we as in me and my husband, you know, we talk about
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you. Obviously not bad, but yeah,
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we're always like, oh, she's doing so good.
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She's working Beverly Hills. She's a little bougie now, but
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you know she's good. I feel like I've always have
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been just a. Little yes, definitely.
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I used to come into work at the AT assisted.
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I was in like sweats, mind you, because I was like non-stop
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working. And then how are you with her?
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Like, what is that walking in like it's Devil Wears Prada.
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Like honestly, like especially with your walk.
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I was like office siren. Is that what they call it?
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Yeah. Girl, by the way, no one called
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her that. She called herself that.
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But I remember, I feel like that's probably why you didn't
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like me in the beginning when you first met.
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Yeah, yeah. I felt like I was a little too
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much. And it's OK, honestly.
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I mean, you should always be yourself.
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But I was just like, I think I just came back and I had like,
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just gone through COVID and you were so energetic and I'm like,
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no, no, no, no, no. Like I barely like to even come
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here. And like, I don't need this in
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my life. I was so excited to be there,
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honestly, and with some of our other Co workers.
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Yeah, Co workers. I had met her first and she was
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so sweet. She's still so sweet.
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Oh no, she's a liar. She's not sweet.
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I mean. If you're listening, you owe me
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a lunch from like maybe a year and a half ago.
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You know, we actually, sorry not to interrupt, but we actually
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worked down the street from each other.
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Oh my God. And then I was like, you know
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how she likes to go to that? Whatever, that little bar.
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I was like, I'll meet you there, girl.
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She never hit me up. I was like, forget you then, we
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love you, but you got to be around more.
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You're a new mom now. I don't know.
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I'm. Just kidding, that's what she's
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thinking. She's like, well, you're a new
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mom now, so I got to hang out with someone else.
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She's like, I only hang out with a young this is.
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All love because we honestly this is how we word her.
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Oh my God I just had an image. I feel like I'm going to post
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this video as a clip of I think like broke her leg Oh my.
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God. So she like broke her leg or
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something and Cindy, that's fine.
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And then Cindy, like, walked around with her boot all day and
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it was the most funniest thing I've ever seen, honestly.
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Listen, I was in my mid 20s, like now, my late 20s.
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I was a little immature and I thought it was the funniest shit
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ever. This girl would walk in with
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like a big ass boot looking like she came from the moon.
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I I kid you not. And she would come in and
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limping and I'm like stop, you're overreacting you.
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Are like, it already happened a while ago, Like I don't know why
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you're still limping in here anyways.
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It's all that attention, like always.
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Yeah, literally. You always need the attention.
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We love you, though. We missed you.
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In all seriousness, yeah. So Cindy, I know that right now,
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like you're really into your nail thing and everything going
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on, but I wanted to know a little bit, like, I know you're
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going into the process right now.
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Like, you know, we talked about motherhood here.
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Yes. So everyone, you know, that we
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talked about like, you know, like natural birth loss.
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And I know that right now you're kind of going through your own
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thing, which is awesome. It's adoption.
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So do you want it? Can you talk, tell us a little
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bit about that? I know you can't go into great
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detail, but. So currently right now, I did
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take custody over one of my nieces.
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That was back in September. Unfortunately, the parents
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weren't fit to, you know, take care of her.
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So I did step in. So I'm currently going through
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that process right now, going through the courts with DCF,
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trying to get approved because I don't know if you know this
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before you even. It doesn't matter if it's a
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family member, but when you take custody over a child, they do
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like so many different background checks.
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Yeah. Yeah, I mean, I can only
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imagine, to be honest, I have no idea about adoption.
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So that's why like, you know, I was thinking about it like if we
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weren't able to have a kid, then we would go that route.
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But I don't even know like where it starts or anything.
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Yeah, no, so they, it's a lot of like, like background checks.
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So it's a lot of like mental health backgrounds, like and
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even like legal backgrounds, like to see if like you've been
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arrested, you've had tickets or anything like that.
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They asked for like your medical records, your big state.
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Dang, like that's how deep it goes.
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Like I didn't even know this, but it almost felt like, Oh my
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God, like why are you guys like looking through my stuff?
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Like I didn't do anything wrong. But no, I totally get it with
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like cases that have gone like wrong, unfortunately.
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So I understand why DCF does like the extensive background
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checks on people. But yeah, I know it's been,
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honestly, it's been a blessing because I'm not a mom, you know?
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And I'm 33 years old. I still don't have kids.
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I'm 33. But mentally I'm like 18.
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I'm 30. Six.
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Mentally I think I'm 10 but. No, but it's it's been a big
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change. As soon as I got her she was non
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verbal. Yeah, that was a huge yeah.
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That was that was a big thing. So she would only say like one
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or two words and out of every sentence.
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I'm sorry really quickly. How old is she?
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She's four years old. OK, yeah.
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So she's 4, but her mental like state is of a 2 year old.
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She thinks like a 2 year old. So when I first got her, she
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would say a lot of things to me, a lot of things that she
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witnessed growing up. Unfortunately, she did go
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through some traumatic things, which, you know, I feel like
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when, if anyone out there that does deal with this, you know,
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as soon as I did get her, get her in my, you know, care, I got
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her the correct support that she needed.
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I got her in therapy. I have her in speech therapy.
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I have her in behavioral therapy.
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I did get her diagnosed with autism level 2.
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So that's a lot to deal with too, because I don't understand
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it as much. Again, I don't have kids, so,
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you know, I, I don't know how to correct things.
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I'm. I'm starting to educate myself
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on that. Yeah, yeah, basically, you know,
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the way a child with autism things, they're not the way you
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would think. So we have to keep that in mind
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that whatever we may say something to the child with
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autism, but that doesn't mean that they're going to
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understand. It the way we're saying, of
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course. Their brain is wired completely
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different. Right.
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But I think he's taken the correct steps.
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Yeah, like you said, like you don't know, but you're educating
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yourself, which is like huge because I'm sure, you know, like
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not always. I mean even like parents and
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stuff, they don't always educate.
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They kind of just like disregard like the diagnosis and keep
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going. But it's really good that you
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are addressing it and doing what you can.
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I think maybe because it's scary to think that, Oh, my child has
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autism. Autism doesn't mean that your
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child is dumb or stupid or anything like that.
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A lot of autistic kids are actually very, very smart.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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Again, their brain is just wired completely different, right?
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But it's OK. Again, if there's anyone out
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there that you know, you feel like something isn't right or
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your child isn't hitting their milestone, definitely, you know,
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speak to your provider and see what they recommend.
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Right. But me, I have another niece who
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has autism, so I kind of saw similar things.
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So that's what kind of triggered like, okay, I let me go get her
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checked out. Okay, so you know, things have
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been going really good. She's in school now, she goes to
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pre-K. It's such a cute age.
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We won't say her name or anything, but she is so
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beautiful. Oh my gosh, it makes me want a
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girl. But then I think now I don't
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want to get anymore like since they look at like my friends
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have girls. I'm like Oh my God, I want like
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a little mini me and stuff like that.
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And I see like the way you dress her.
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I'm like, yes, oh, I'm obsessed. But then I'm like, quickly, I'm
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like, I'll go visit her, yeah. No, she definitely loves to be
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very girly. Yeah, she she sees me with a
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purse. She wants a purse.
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Yeah, I got her a purse. I love that.
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You know, she sees me wearing makeup.
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Of course she's a little girl. She can't wear makeup.
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But I do get her like, like little kid, like lip lip gloss.
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Yeah, lip gloss like that. Yeah, for sure.
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But yeah, no, it's exciting. It's very different, especially
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because, again, I know I keep saying this.
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I don't have kids. Yeah.
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So, you know, I'm used to just going out and doing whatever I
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wanted. Yeah.
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Now I have to like, think about her and whatever, like who's
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going to watch her? Yeah, it's different.
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Definitely a change because when we first like met each other,
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you know, I obviously I was dating Randy, but I still would
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like go out all the time. Party girl.
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I was like, girl, let's go. And she was always like, I don't
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go. Out that much?
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When we first like, that's going to.
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Change. Yeah, yes, yeah.
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I was like always coming over, like coming back to work, like
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hungover, like I was like, I don't want to do this.
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It was awful, but fine at the same time.
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But. She did want to do it.
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I mean, I, I didn't want to work.
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I wanted to keep like, partying. Yeah.
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Yeah, yeah. That was like, my biggest thing
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is like I used to love to party. You know what?
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I didn't think you partied that hard until it was my birthday
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boy so. We're not gonna name names or
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anything. No, we won't.
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Yeah, but. All our stories.
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It was my 30th birthday. That's when I really partied
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with you. And honestly, like hearing back
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on her stories on this podcast, it just reminds me like this
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girl always falls down no matter what.
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Always, always, always. I don't understand.
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I literally even till this day, sometimes I like just randomly
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my foot rolls. I'm like, I don't know if that's
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normal, actually, but I fall all the time.
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And yeah, her birthday was one for the books.
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I mean, you can ask my husband. He definitely was a part of it,
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too. And I know you guys probably
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hear these stories and you're like, Oh my God, does your
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husband know? Yeah, He's the one that would
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pick me up. But honestly, that's what I love
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about Randy, that like he knows you like and he's like, I don't
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care, like I love Alexis. Yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely.
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He is like he knows everything of me and somehow he still is
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like ear. So that's good.
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You want to talk about that day and what happened?
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Yeah, yeah. I mean, honestly, that's what
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we're here for, right? Like mom gone mild.
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But like, this is a story before me being mom, so I don't, I'm
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not like this at all anymore. Actually, I haven't had a drunk
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moment yet. I haven't really drank drink.
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I mean, I'll have a couple of drinks here and then, but I
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haven't drank drinks since, like, before I was pregnant.
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So were you here for that Christmas party?
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I was when I was dancing on the chairs.
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That was the last time. And yeah, I was dancing on
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chairs and almost broke the table.
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It's a dining. Room table left by that time.
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Oh probably, probably. OK so I don't know, like if
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people, if you're out there losing weight, I if you don't
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let anybody knock you down on it.
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If you're like on like a GLP one yeah yeah.
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So that's what I was on in a GLP one yeah.
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Which honestly, I loved it, but the only downside of it was that
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I you couldn't drink. The thing is OK, so I was on GLP
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2 or no GLP one also. And the thing with me is like,
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so basically it's like you don't really eat right.
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And then I could drink. So the problem was I wasn't
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eating and then I was overly drinking so I had like nothing
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in my stomach. So basically my brain was like,
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oh. My God.
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Well, it was. Different.
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Oh my God, don't talk to me like, Oh my God, I'm worried
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about you. Like, I think you have a
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problem. No, I think you were on Ozempic
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though, right? Yeah, Ozempic is a little bit.
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Different, yeah. Yeah.
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Because I wish that I would have had that one, then shoot.
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No, you lose way more weight on that one.
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To be honest, I kind of plateaued.
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So anyway, well, so we went to, it was like her 30th, as you
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say. We went to her house.
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We got like a party limo and party party limo.
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Yeah, it was a limousine and we pregamed at my house.
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That was where. We.
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That's where I should. I to be honest, that is the part
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where because remember I went to like the corner of your room and
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I was just like drinking non-stop.
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I don't know why with my sister and then my other friend, but
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yeah, we were like drinking non-stop and like we should have
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stopped at that. Yeah.
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Because honestly, it has. Struck like as you did because I
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was thinking shots with you, too.
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I have no idea, but it went downhill quick after that.
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For me, lesson learned for me too.
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Like never pre game with your older friends.
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First of all, she acts like I'm that much older, not that much.
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Older three years. No, I'm kidding.
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And by the way, my. Sister is really young.
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I'm halfway kidding. It's because I was.
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I didn't think us pre. I'm thinking like we're pre
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gaming. It's going to be fun.
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No, OK, so we pregame, we get in the limo and we're still pre
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gaming inside the limo. So we're singing, we're dancing
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in the limo. Mind you, at this point I was
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already gone. Yeah, and I didn't go.
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You hide it pretty good. I do.
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I do. So we get to the club.
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Do you remember the name of the club?
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Yeah, but we won't talk about it here.
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All right, fine. It was bogeys in Westlake.
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In Westlake. But it's a new name now.
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I I think it's called Louise or something like that.
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I haven't been in a while. So if you want to treat us to a
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lunch or brunch, you're more than welcome to yes.
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But so we went there. We went there.
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She got like a little table and it was like really fun, you
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know, and I'm going to be honest, like once we got to the
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table, I really don't remember anything.
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So you kind of got to fill that little part in without saying
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names. So so we get to the table, I
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will to our private section because I ended up getting like
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the booth, like the private booth that's like in in the
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back. If you've been to bogeys or
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Louise or whatever, you know what I'm talking about.
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It's like a little private room. So I got us that there was
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already drinks waiting for us there.
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So we're just sitting there mixing drinks.
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I think we had. Was it champagne or OK, so I
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know at your house because you're super into tequila.
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We had tequila at home. Yeah, but I think when we got
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there, we had champagne and we had vodka.
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I do remember vodka somehow being brought up and I was like,
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oh boy. Yeah, so we all started have,
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you know, drinking, started having a good time.
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And then like I want to say maybe 30-40 minutes into it, I'm
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looking around and I don't see Alexis anywhere.
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And I'm like, where is Alexis? I'm like, I'm telling everybody,
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where's Alexis? Where's Alexis?
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Oh, she's in the bathroom. She's in the bathroom.
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And I'm like, what the hell? But it's been a long time
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because I haven't seen her. So then I go to the bathroom, I
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don't see her anywhere. And I'm like, where the hell is
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she? One of our friends, well, she's
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like really close to. You.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. I could you know, I consider her
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one of my friends too, because. She is really sweet, yeah.
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She comes out to me. She's like, Oh my God, Alexis
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got kicked out. And I'm like, what do you mean
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she got kicked out? I had no, because I was already
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dancing like I'm in a blast, whatever.
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So I'm like, what the hell? What do you mean she got kicked
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out? Yeah.
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And then so you want. To kind of tell you, So what
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happened there? So I get kicked out.
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I don't really remember much but like bits and pieces so mind
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you. So I'm kicked out and for some
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reason once again I have no shoes.
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I don't know where any of my shoes go when I'm drunk because
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literally they freaking disappear.
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So I go outside like towards the back because they didn't let me
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go out like in the front. And I meet this couple and it's
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so funny because the one girl has the same name as one of our
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friends, but she was with Herman or whatever.
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And they were like just sitting with me.
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They're like, we want to make sure you're OK, Like, you know,
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get a ride. Random people that you met.
21:17
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So it was so funny because I
21:19
called my husband to pick me up and he's like, who are you with?
21:23
And I say the name and he thought it was her.
21:27
So when he gets there, he's like, what the fuck?
21:29
What are you doing? And then I was like, no, no, no,
21:33
this is like my friends. And by the way.
21:35
Randall, I'm so sorry because she snuck away from me and you
21:40
know damn well I would be watching over her, but that you
21:43
just snuck. I do that all the time.
21:45
If you notice, like, I run away a lot.
21:48
When I used to rave, it was really actually bad because when
21:50
I used to rave, I used to go with like, a group of my friends
21:53
and I would just disappear. Like, that was the biggest joke.
21:57
Like, I don't know. But yeah, I mean, that's scary,
22:00
actually disappearing in a rave because there's no cell phone
22:02
service anyways. But that's just my thing.
22:04
Like I like to like wander off and do my own thing.
22:07
Sometimes it gets me in trouble. But do you, do you ever like
22:11
question? Why do you think it's because,
22:13
like you, you get bored with the piano?
22:15
Yeah, to be honest, I'm like, I want to do my own thing and then
22:18
somehow I make like the most random friends and it's just so
22:22
weird. It's like, I'm not obviously
22:23
bored of you guys, but I kind of just.
22:25
I'm like next. I know.
22:29
But anyway, so my husband comes to get me.
22:32
Mind you, my sister's still with you guys.
22:34
Yeah, so. Oh my God.
22:36
Shout out to Sophia, she's such a fun blast like.
22:39
We love her. She's my baby.
22:42
Anyways, so we get he comes to pick me up.
22:44
He doesn't know who I'm with. He gets me in the car and all of
22:47
a sudden I'm like, uh, I'm going to puke.
22:50
And he's like we're literally almost there.
22:52
And I was like, no, right now I'm going to puke, girl.
22:55
When I went to puke outside of my car, I flipped over.
22:58
Do you remember that like scar I had?
23:00
I mean like, I literally couldn't.
23:02
See you till the next. Yeah, I think like.
23:03
On Monday, On Monday. So there was like a huge like
23:06
gash on me. And then like my sister happened
23:09
to take us because my husband was like, where's your sister?
23:11
And I was like, oh, I forgot about her.
23:14
And then we got to the house and I was like, I'm sure she's with
23:17
somebody. She ended up being there.
23:20
She comes to get me, like, carry me out, girl.
23:22
I fall on top of her. She falls into a Bush.
23:25
She I mind you, I'm heavier than my sister, so she sprains her
23:30
wrist. It's like a whole thing.
23:32
We couldn't find her shoes. I don't know why.
23:34
She was dropped off at Chichi's. You guys dropped her off at
23:38
Chichi's, the pizza place. I don't know.
23:43
I don't remember like. I just remember like, OK, look,
23:47
this is what I remember Once I realized you were not there, I'm
23:51
like, OK, let's sorry, but we paid for this.
23:54
I was like, let's finish this bottle and then I would do.
23:57
The same thing, yeah, I would do the same thing for sure.
23:59
So. We finished our drinks and we
24:02
actually, we ended up being out of there I think by like 12.
24:05
O'clock. Yeah, I know, sorry.
24:07
That's my biggest thing. I feel like sometimes I ruin
24:09
nights. And, you know, it just didn't
24:11
feel right because I'm like, I'm sitting there and I'm partying.
24:14
I'm like, wait, I'm already home girl.
24:16
And yeah, no, I end up calling her and she's like, yeah, no,
24:18
I'm home. Like ready picked me up.
24:21
My sister's here. I'm like, wait, what?
24:23
OK, So then I'm like, OK, she's gone, let's finish our drinks.
24:27
And I'm like, at this point, like, I just want to go because,
24:29
yeah, you know, she's my my girl.
24:31
And honestly, like I have so much fun with Alexis.
24:35
If I don't run away. Yeah, if she doesn't run away,
24:38
but like I just, I honestly like I truly share like a lot of good
24:41
laughs with you. Yeah.
24:42
So like I'm like, it doesn't feel the same.
24:44
So then I'm like, no, like let's just go.
24:47
So then I got your best friend or we got her in the car and we
24:51
ended up taking her home and then I ended up going home.
24:56
Yeah, it was. Just so I have to tell you, it's
24:58
so funny. So I I don't know if I ever told
25:00
you this part, but I guess you guys had dropped off my sister
25:04
at the pizza place that's across the.
25:06
Street for that. I don't even know.
25:08
She doesn't remember either. But Oh my gosh, the next day
25:10
she's like my shoes, my shoes are missing.
25:12
I'm like, oh girl, like who's losing?
25:15
Who loses their shoes? I.
25:16
Was. Like, they might be in the limo
25:19
and I'm like, oh, who loses their shoes, girl?
25:21
And she's like you all the time. And I was like, OK, so she's on
25:24
her way. She's like whatever, like Lost
25:27
Cause girl. The shoes are right in front of
25:29
my front door. I was like, did you leave them
25:33
there? She's like, no, did you guys go
25:36
back and drop? No, maybe it was like the limo
25:39
driver. But oh, but how would he know
25:42
where I live? Yeah, So I don't know.
25:43
We walk out and, like, her shoes are literally placed there.
25:46
So you. Know what it was probably the.
25:49
Limo Dr. Maybe. Maybe he knew the address and he
25:51
couldn't get in. No, I'm telling you like I
25:56
don't. I don't know.
25:57
It was a crazy night. It was a crazy night.
25:58
Both blacked out but I mean I didn't fall.
26:02
Oh my gosh, no. And then do you remember it on
26:03
Monday? We go to work and everyone's
26:05
like so how was the and I had like a huge gash like to tell
26:10
you and I was like the party was good.
26:13
Thank you for asking. No, honestly I feel like you're
26:17
such a blast though. Like.
26:19
I'm a blast and a glass just like my girl Dina.
26:22
Crazy like the, the the difference now, like now that
26:24
you're a mom, I'm like, is this the real you?
26:29
I know the real Lexus is in there I feel like.
26:32
Everyone says that. It's so funny.
26:33
It's just like it's so different now to be a mom, to be honest,
26:37
like and it's so funny because I feel like I tell my mom, my
26:40
friends that are moms, like you are so boring.
26:43
Like you changed so much, but you really do.
26:45
It's like you have to think now, like you said, like about a
26:47
babysitter or like if you go out, like will I be drunk coming
26:51
back in? It's like, I don't really want
26:53
him to see that, but it's just, it's so different.
26:56
I actually remember having a conversation with you where you
26:59
were saying that you were scared if you were to, you know, start
27:05
your family, that your friends would just kind of slowly go
27:08
away. Yeah.
27:09
Yeah. Because, you know, you're you.
27:12
You've even admitted you're like, because I'm guilty of
27:13
that. Like, once my friends have
27:15
babies, like, it's like, I can't really call them.
27:17
Yeah. Yeah.
27:19
And it's so funny. I'm like, damn, I'm the biggest
27:21
hypocrite of this. No, I am like, like, because
27:25
it's like I feel like when you aren't in that, like you don't
27:29
really, it's not like you don't have anything in common anymore,
27:31
but it's just like your lives have changed, your priorities
27:34
have changed. And it's like I still value
27:36
those friendships obviously, but it's just so different because
27:40
like, I don't think about like, oh, what am I going to do on
27:42
Friday and Saturday? Let's have Sunday fun day.
27:44
I mean, today is like a different kind of vibe because I
27:47
haven't seen her in a while. But like, it's just like, it
27:50
used to be like every weekend, you know?
27:52
And it's just, it's such a weird transition because I'm still
27:55
kind of trying to, like, get through it, like, you know what
27:59
I mean? Like even for, like, my birthday
28:01
planning it, I'm like, like, I want to get drunk, but then I
28:03
have to come back and be a mom and take care of him, you know?
28:07
It's crazy. So yeah.
28:10
I want to say, do you remember? Don't start getting what?
28:15
Do you remember your Bachelorette?
28:17
Party girlfriend, you're going to get sentimental.
28:21
Do I remember my Bachelorette? Yes.
28:24
I was pretty much sober the whole time because I love
28:29
everyone that went, but it was really wild and I feel like I
28:33
had to babysit a lot of the time.
28:35
And I mean, I've had conversations with the people
28:40
obviously, and it's different now because we're older, but
28:44
that was like really crazy. I mean literally I felt like bad
28:47
thing after bad thing was happening first.
28:48
The bad thing was I had to drive myself to my Bachelorette.
28:51
So that really sucked. Did you drive yourself?
28:54
I did and everyone was like drinking in the back and I was
28:57
like, what the hell is going on here?
29:00
So that's how it started. I didn't know that.
29:02
Because I ended up driving there with so yeah, I mean, yeah, I
29:07
was there. OK, Yeah.
29:09
She. Was already feeling good when
29:10
she got there, let's just say that, but no so I I had to drive
29:14
and I mean it, whatever that was fine, but I thought that kind of
29:18
set the whole tone for the whole weekend.
29:20
Like I got drunk that one night at the club because that was
29:22
fun. But then remember that night
29:25
like our friend got her cell phone, take it like stolen.
29:29
And it was like so dramatic and I just and I it's so crazy
29:32
because like where we went, I won't say where we went, but
29:36
there was like posters everywhere.
29:38
That's like watch out for your phone being taken watch out for
29:40
money being taken. I was like what?
29:42
Where did I? Bring these girls.
29:44
Say it. I don't care if you're in San
29:46
Diego in like lab district. What is it called?
29:48
The gas lamp district. Gas lamp district.
29:51
Be careful. Apparently there's like pit
29:53
pocketers or whatever that we like.
29:55
Yeah. And do you remember, like we
29:57
literally told the security guard and they're like, oh, that
30:00
happens all the time. I'm like, what?
30:02
Like, I mean, I've had my stuff stolen like Hollywood, but it's
30:06
not like everything, but it's like.
30:07
Go. Boom, yeah.
30:09
Like when you have your, that's like your life.
30:11
Yeah, like we were following the person, remember, like on the my
30:14
iPhone and all of a sudden, oh, you weren't there.
30:16
I had, we were following it and like all of a sudden they were
30:19
like in like another country like Japan.
30:22
And I was like, what? What the heck?
30:24
They were just across the street.
30:25
So obviously they had like jail broken it or whatever the hell
30:28
it's called. But yeah, that was, it was
30:30
really bad. And then I just remember like it
30:33
was like waking up at 6:00 in the morning to the same dance
30:37
song like that. What was it?
30:41
Barbies don't eat. Oh yeah.
30:43
Barbie. Oh, I don't even know if we can
30:45
sing songs on here. It's copyrighted.
30:47
Yeah, OK, never mind. Forget the part.
30:49
But yeah, you see if it. Sounds that big because I swear
30:52
to God I've never heard. Yeah, now that I heard it from
30:55
these. Barbies don't sleep.
30:58
And honestly, we don't even sound anything like the person
31:01
singing, so hopefully it's not copyrighted.
31:03
But anyways, so that waking up to it at 6:00 in the morning, it
31:07
was just like hilarious. Like now, now I think about it,
31:10
it's really funny. But at the moment I was like.
31:13
Fine, Yeah, no, at the moment. Go to sleep.
31:16
Me too. Because we were so far away from
31:18
home and I was like, paranoid. I'm like, what if Alexis falls
31:22
again? What if like this up?
31:24
I think we were at the club. I couldn't really like get
31:27
really like that drunk. I got drunk.
31:30
Because people were crying and then people were like, like
31:33
running away. And I'm like, I'm sitting there.
31:35
I'm like thinking about my friend, like here, my best
31:37
friend. Like, yeah, like it's her
31:38
Bachelorette. Like, I'm not gonna get fucked
31:41
up. Like she should be the one.
31:42
It's just it's. Just so funny because I feel
31:43
like that Bachelorette was like, so full of tears.
31:46
Yeah. So full of yeah, like, drama,
31:49
but not drama between us. Thank goodness.
31:51
Like not just us, but like, the whole group.
31:53
Like we all vibe. It was funny, but it was like
31:55
drama within, like other things, like outside things.
31:59
Yeah, like people were just like, I mean, it's normal.
32:01
I mean, we're in a comfortable group.
32:02
Settings And mind you, thank goodness that I booked a place
32:05
that was like in the middle of nowhere.
32:07
Oh my God, and that was so cool. Yeah, that place was really
32:10
nice. I loved it.
32:11
Yeah. And the Air BME guy was super
32:13
nice. Escondido.
32:14
Escondido. So it was.
32:15
That's another problem that I had.
32:17
It was a little far from. Bougie, she got us like a whole
32:20
vineyard, like property, and it was like the most beautiful,
32:24
yeah. That pool party was really fun
32:26
though with like the want. That guy, that was so cool.
32:28
Yeah, that was fun. That was fun.
32:30
But there was no AC, which really sucked.
32:32
Do you remember that? It was so hot.
32:34
Well, we stayed upstairs and it was just really hot.
32:36
Oh, it wasn't hot upstairs, but no, not downstairs.
32:38
Yeah, 'cause like the heat was rising or whatever.
32:40
That was the adventure of my Bachelorette, and yeah, we
32:44
didn't. Really even say all of it 'cause
32:46
there was a lot of like things that I, I swear to God, was.
32:49
OK, like there is some kind of crazy stuff.
32:53
Honestly, no. Like our breakfast?
32:54
It was beautiful, yeah. Had breakfast?
32:56
Remember we all like pitched in and contributed to like cooking.
32:59
Something. Oh, yeah.
32:59
Yeah, yeah, yeah. We set up the table like nice
33:02
and it was fine like and we we're still getting.
33:04
That's like a pool party. And yeah, we were.
33:06
Getting lit, yeah it was fun, but I felt like we were still
33:10
like we couldn't get too drunk cuz like we were like in the we
33:14
were trying to be responsible. Yeah, yeah.
33:16
I didn't want to get kicked out of an Airbnb.
33:19
Yeah, it would have been really bad.
33:20
Could you imagine? And it was kind of like it was
33:23
in the boondocks, a little bit like kind of like, yeah, far
33:26
away from. Like well, I could have find it
33:28
when I first thought that no I. Actually went into someone elses
33:31
property and I was like this literally has like chickens,
33:35
cows. This is not the property I.
33:37
Mounted like we're in Kentucky, it was like.
33:41
Are we on the simple life or what's going on here?
33:44
No, yeah. But yeah, I was really fun.
33:47
And so I also want to bring up something that's like, huge.
33:51
I feel like this is such an accomplishment because like,
33:54
it's really hard. I've always talked about this,
33:56
but like, it's easy to make friends when you're young
34:00
because you guys go to the same school, you guys have like the
34:02
same interests and things like that.
34:04
So us being friends at this age, like really does mean a lot
34:08
because it's like we're chosen friends, you know what I mean?
34:10
Like, not because like we fell into like things that we had in
34:14
common and. Things and we've had
34:15
disagreements too, and I feel like when you get past.
34:19
Bitch. Yeah, that she hurt my feelings.
34:23
Maybe get her right up. If you guys know Alexis
34:26
personally, you know she's not. It takes like it takes a lot for
34:31
her to really show her emotions. But when she does show it, one,
34:35
I don't ever like try to like, like I'm just like, I like, I
34:38
absorb it and I'm like, she never really does it.
34:41
But when she, you know, she has a very big heart and you're very
34:45
sweet and you're funny and you just get my jokes and we love to
34:49
talk shit. Yeah, no, actually I want to
34:51
talk about that because I forgot why we started arguing or how it
34:58
even came up. It was something stupid related
35:00
to work, but literally first of all, they had put us in like it
35:05
felt like a 6 by 10 room. Yeah.
35:08
We were in there mind. You for like 9 hours OK first of
35:11
all when we first started we were like in a big group like
35:14
you know all of us and I was like OK that's cool Like we we
35:17
were sharing desks but it wasn't like too much.
35:19
Then they were like you guys are so loud, we're going to put you
35:22
in your own room and it's like 2 desks like this.
35:24
So all day we didn't have a window.
35:26
We actually we did, but we were facing the other way.
35:30
We literally, it's so unfair. I know.
35:31
I was like, I can't even get some sunlight in here.
35:34
And yeah, so we were in a room together all day long.
35:38
Like, we sometimes wouldn't even take lunch.
35:40
That was lame. But sometimes we would argue
35:44
because obviously we were only together for like.
35:47
But it wasn't arguments like that.
35:48
It was like personal arguments. It was like.
35:51
About work, yeah. And.
35:53
That's one thing about me even now, which is why I get along
35:56
like so well with Shout out to my boss Yesenia.
35:59
She's amazing. I'm able to separate my work
36:05
with my friendship with my Co workers.
36:07
So like I don't take it personally, like when it comes
36:09
to work, like, oh, I could be like you're a freaking bee, but
36:13
like outside of work, like I just love you.
36:15
Like I love you. Well, that's hilarious because I
36:18
actually did call her a bee and she starts crying and everyone's
36:24
like, what's wrong? What's wrong?
36:26
And I'm like, girl, like why are you taking so seriously?
36:29
And oh, gosh. And then we had called into the
36:32
office like, we're freaking in high school, school, like.
36:36
And then they interrogated us at different times so that like,
36:40
our stories wouldn't match. So I didn't know what she was
36:43
going into saying. And they're like, did you call
36:45
her that? I'm like, yeah.
36:46
I think this is worth, I think honestly, Alexis, I think this
36:49
is where you realize like I'm not going to throw you under
36:52
the. Bus No, no.
36:53
But like, I mean, they asked me and I was like, yeah.
36:55
And they're like why? And I was like, because I felt
36:57
like it, she was being one. Can I say when they called me
37:01
in, they asked me what happened and I said nothing happened.
37:04
We're just having a disagreement.
37:06
We're going to get past it. It's just something done between
37:09
us that I'm like, but we're going to be fine.
37:11
And like, Are you sure? And I was like, no, yeah, I'm
37:13
fine. I was like, she just hurt my
37:14
feelings because we're just arguing about work, but it's
37:16
going to be fine. That's literally all I said.
37:19
They're like, Are you sure? I'm like, yes.
37:21
They were like, Are you sure she's not a bully?
37:24
Yeah. I think they were trying to have
37:26
me to say that yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm fine.
37:28
And then and then I walk in and they're like, So what did you
37:31
say? I'm like I called her the B
37:32
word. No, she goes, what happened?
37:34
And then she go. Away.
37:36
Yeah, they were like So what happened?
37:38
I was like, I don't know, she was like pissing me off about
37:40
something. So I called her the B word and
37:41
they're like, that is so inappropriate.
37:45
And I was like, OK, I was like, well, she was being one, but
37:49
yeah. And then our manager at the time
37:51
was actually ended up telling her.
37:53
Don't say name. OK.
37:54
And. Then our manager at the time,
37:57
she ended up telling you that I actually didn't say anything.
38:00
Yeah, yeah, yeah, his. I just feel like it was always
38:04
such a setup at that job. That's why I'm like it.
38:06
Was no, because they, they told you, Loki, they're like, you
38:08
know, she didn't say anything. Yeah.
38:10
And then they're at the same time that she was.
38:11
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. And they were like, as I was
38:14
signing my write up, they're like, just let you know, like
38:16
she didn't say anything. And I'm like, So what is this
38:20
all about? Like why am I?
38:21
Training here and there they trick like honestly, they
38:24
tricked her and she ended up saying and I'm like, girl, I'm
38:26
not going to throw you under the bus like we argued, but like I'm
38:29
not going to sit there and say you.
38:30
Know what it is what it is because like I think 2 weeks
38:33
later I got another write up for like missing work too much.
38:36
Yeah, no, but that was valid. You were like going through OK,
38:39
can we do you want to do you feel comfortable talking about
38:42
that? I think that was that was a time
38:44
where you were having. Pain.
38:47
Oh yeah, yeah, I've talked about it before.
38:49
So like I was having really bad like I had my ovarian cyst and
38:54
Oh my gosh, when those bursts, it's like literally I was
38:58
crawling on the floor and I remember I called my boss and I
39:01
was like, hey, I'm not going to come in because of this.
39:03
And he's like, Are you sure? I was like, I'm about to like
39:07
throw up blood, like, yeah, I'm not going to come in.
39:10
And then I then like, that was fine.
39:12
And then I had the ovary removed and they were like, it was a
39:16
huge thing too. And I was like, I don't know
39:19
what you want me to do? And that kind of suck because I
39:22
was like, I feel like I've always was always like available
39:24
to them. And I was like, all right,
39:26
whatever. You guys obviously don't give a
39:28
shit, and that's fine. And remember, they were like,
39:32
well, if you take off time for your wedding, you're gonna get
39:35
another write up. I was like, yeah, at this point,
39:37
here's my two weeks, I'm over it.
39:38
And then they were like, oh, wait, but we really need you.
39:41
We'll make you a promise. And I was like.
39:43
I'm over it. No, that was not OK, I think.
39:46
And that's kind of why, like now that I'm a manager, I take like
39:51
things like that into consideration.
39:52
Yeah, yeah, I always make sure I document everything.
39:56
I always make sure. Hey, like, you're not feeling
39:58
well. Yeah, please bring a doctor's
39:59
note. So that way, not only are you
40:01
saving, you know, your end, I'm saving my end.
40:03
You're like, hey, like she has a valid excuse.
40:06
This is a doctor's note. You're not gonna get in trouble.
40:09
Yeah, that's another thing. I had literally surgery notes.
40:12
Yeah. And it was like, not even a
40:14
doctor's note. Like, she's not feeling well,
40:16
She's gonna go home. It was like I was literally on
40:18
the table. And they were like, well, you
40:20
shouldn't have been. Yeah, that was a bad place.
40:23
We're not yeah, names, but yeah, we're.
40:24
Not any names but, but yeah. I mean, in this day and age,
40:31
we're in California like you, like people get super.
40:34
I almost feel like that is not like.
40:36
I'm kind of shocked that you didn't.
40:37
I feel like you should have. I actually really didn't want to
40:39
pursue anything because I didn't care that much, but I.
40:42
Did her dirty and honestly like there's and which brings to the
40:46
topic where like jobs should really take in consideration
40:49
like things like that. Like, especially like if, like,
40:52
you go through something so traumatic, yeah.
40:54
Like, isn't it? Wouldn't it be like grieving?
40:57
Yeah, there's like a grievance period or something.
41:00
But I do want to say I'm also a manager.
41:02
So every time that someone tells me like, hey, I'm in the
41:04
hospital, this and that, I'm not like, first of all, why are you
41:08
bugging people when they're in the hospital?
41:10
They're in the hospital. Don't even talk to me until
41:12
you're out. And then we'll figure something
41:14
out because you need to worry about getting better like this.
41:17
In the end, just a job. You know what's funny is that
41:19
when I got in my car accident. Here we go.
41:23
OK so if anyone knows in Beverly Hills on Santa Monica Blvd. the
41:28
streets are very very tiny. So I was driving down Santa
41:33
Monica Blvd. after closing up my shift for the day.
41:37
I'm driving down, it's probably like 8:30 PM and this Audi comes
41:41
out of nowhere and T bones my car.
41:43
Yeah. I remember that.
41:44
And the tell me why like after I, I like lost consciousness and
41:49
I woke up and I started screaming and when I was in the
41:52
ambulance, like the first thing I said was let me call my boss.
41:56
Oh my God. Because.
41:57
Why No, Because I'm traumatized. Yeah.
41:59
Like work like one, like I'm Hispanic as, as a Hispanic
42:03
woman, like I just like I prioritized my job a lot because
42:07
that's what gets us fed, that gets us a warm roof overrun.
42:09
Yeah, whatever. I called my boss again.
42:13
Shout out to you, Senya. I called her.
42:15
I was like, I'm in an ambulance in love, but I just got in the
42:18
car. She's like, what are you doing?
42:20
Hang up. Yeah, exactly.
42:22
Like that's how it should be. Yeah, yeah.
42:25
Which is why I really, again, I try to like, preach the same
42:29
thing now that I'm a manager and I try to take care of my girls.
42:32
No, I'm a manager. No, I'm just kidding.
42:35
You know what's funny is that I felt like you were my manager
42:37
when we were working. Because like, we actually, we
42:40
actually managed each other, no. You used to teach me a lot of
42:43
things, Alexis. Like honestly, you put me on on
42:46
a lot when it came to like medical, like anything related
42:49
to medical, like even billing and all that.
42:52
Girl, I'm a doctor. No, I.
42:54
Swear to God I'm. A doctor.
42:56
I'm billing on this on that note.
42:58
I swear. Yeah.
42:59
You're so smart, Alexis. And I felt like a lot of the
43:02
knowledge that I have is because of you, because you taught me a
43:04
lot. So like if anything, like if it
43:07
never works out in the nail industry, I always have that
43:10
medical. Not to fall back to and we're so
43:13
good and I have like, not everyone can do that.
43:16
Yeah, honestly at all. No, it's very, very difficult.
43:19
It's a difficult position. I feel like when you work in
43:21
home health and you're dealing with patients that, you know,
43:26
unfortunately they're in their, most of them, they're in their
43:30
ending stages of their life. Yeah.
43:32
You realize, like, that can happen to you at any time.
43:37
And then you see these sad stories where like families
43:40
aren't there for them or they just want the money.
43:43
And it's honestly, it's a very sad, hard industry to work in.
43:47
And my kudos to you. Yeah, I'm actually in Hospice
43:50
now, and it's even sadder, to be honest, because obviously, you
43:54
know, family is like, it's hard to accept.
43:57
Yeah, it's a very hard thing. But, you know, I've been very
44:00
blessed that a lot of the families I work with, like they
44:02
already understand and things like that.
44:04
But yeah, I mean, you know, you just got to keep going.
44:07
To be honest. This is the field I pick.
44:09
So, you know, I love it. There's days that really are
44:13
tough. There's days that I want to quit
44:15
just like anybody. Else as a scheduler and now
44:18
you're a manager. Yes, I know.
44:20
Or you're a director or you're a manager.
44:21
I'm a director because. She's a director, which is like
44:23
the top in the home health that you can get.
44:26
Yeah. Yeah.
44:27
So I, I'm really so proud of you because that's what you've
44:29
always actually wanted to work your way.
44:32
I've. Definitely accomplished my
44:34
goals, so I'm really excited. So you so you're a director,
44:37
you're a mom, you're a wife. Tell me, Mommy, like how how
44:42
does everything feel like now that, you know, you're in this
44:45
new part of your life and and then I'm here still, like,
44:49
supporting you, always cheering you on.
44:51
Yeah. So how does it feel?
44:54
It honestly feels some days like it's really amazing.
44:58
Some days it gets really hard. I mean, I've texted you before
45:01
and I'm like like I need a girls day.
45:04
Because like sometimes it's hard to even like take time out of
45:07
your day to focus on yourself and like really just do what you
45:12
want to do. I mean, it's not like Axel, he
45:14
just turned 6 months, but you know, he's still so dependent on
45:18
me. So it's not like I can just go
45:20
out whenever I want. It's like it's really hard
45:22
still. But there are days where it's
45:25
like damn, like it gets hard. I mean, I can't really explain
45:29
it. I feel like it just gets like
45:32
almost like lonely because really you only have you, your
45:37
baby and your husband. So it does get lonely, of
45:39
course, a lot of the time. But you know, we are thriving.
45:44
He's six months, he's chilling. We just went to Disneyland.
45:47
We just had a little celebration for his halfway to 1.
45:51
So we're doing really good. You know, we have our good days.
45:53
We have some of our bad days, but a lot of time it's really
45:57
good. I love that.
45:59
Yeah. Do you want to talk about any of
46:00
like, the milestones that he's hit so far?
46:03
Yeah. So he's 6.
46:05
Months now, so he has you know, he sits a little sometimes
46:10
assisted, but his really what he impresses me it with is like his
46:15
like speech. So he's a little chunkers.
46:19
So it's kind of hard for him to be like really mobile.
46:22
I mean, he tries his best, but he's really like interactive.
46:25
Like, I mean, at this age, I mean, if your kids are seeing
46:29
words, that's awesome, but mine isn't.
46:31
But he's just like reactive towards us and that, that's just
46:34
awesome. Like he gives kisses, he gives
46:36
love, and that's just all I can ask for.
46:40
So yeah, I'm super excited, but I think that's about the time we
46:44
have. And I am so happy that I had one
46:48
of my best friends here. I love you so much, Cindy, and
46:52
I'm so proud of everything that you've accomplished.
46:55
And she's so beautiful, obviously, and we're so lucky
46:58
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47:08
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47:10
show? Yeah, no, wait, I'm not gonna
47:12
lie. I've been waking up every Monday
47:14
looking forward to it and like I'll sit there and I'll play it
47:17
while I'm getting ready for work early in the morning because we
47:19
post really early and I love. That, yeah.
47:21
So can if you guys want her to post back on Mondays please?
47:25
Yeah, I mean it depends on whatever comment down.
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Below. Girl, you can just listen to it
47:29
the next Monday then. I just like, I'm telling you,
47:33
like when I wake up on Mondays, it's like the first thing and it
47:36
feels honestly like I'm having like my girl catch up with you.
47:40
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47:42
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47:44
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48:18
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