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How to talk about sex: Asking your partner for what you really want | Ally Iseman

How do you talk to your partner about sex when you’re not even sure how to explain what you want? You can be confident at work, clear about your opinions and capable in so many parts of your life, yet still struggle to say what feels good, what’s missing or what you’d like to try.

Relationship coach and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, Ally Iseman, joins me to explore why our own pleasure can feel so difficult to prioritise. We talk about the messages we grew up with, the habit of putting someone else’s experience first, and the difference between having sex and actually enjoying it. I also…

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