My Daughter Isn't Going to That Funeral.

Ela's Got the Tea · Sep 7, 2026 · 30m · transcript

An advice column with tea. Three real posts a week, and instead of telling you who the villain is, I'll tell you what's actually going on underneath.

This is the first one. New episodes every Monday.

Today we cover:

A woman is dead. And OP won't let their own daughter go to the funeral, because their daughter is the reason she's gone.

Also this week: OP makes their kid ring the coach and quit for themselves, and a widower gets shouted at for finally clearing out his own house.

Chapters

00:00 — Open

01:51 — The Coach Call (r/AmItheAsshole)

10:05 — The Funeral (r/AmItheAsshole)

19:30 — The…