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The Life That Looks Perfect From the Outside Feels Empty Because It Was Never Actually Yours — Here’s What Nelanthini Rajesan Says to Do About That

People pleasing rarely announces itself. It looks like the good degree, the good job, the good relationship — and a private sense that none of it is actually yours. That emptiness is not ingratitude. It is what happens after years of handing your preferences to whoever was in the room, building a life that fits everyone else’s idea of what your life should look like while your own sense of self quietly disappears. Nelanthini Rajesan is a coach and speaker who rebuilt her own identity after her own life stopped fitting, and she joins Stacey Chillemi to walk through what it actually takes to…

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