225: Am I lovable?

I think we've been asking ourselves the wrong questions.

We waste an awful lot of time asking and wondering:

Do I look ok?

Does my hair look alright?

Am I wearing enough makeup? Or too much?

Does my body look ok? Does it tell the 'right' story?

Am I doing this right?

When really, I think, what we've been trying to ask along is:

Am I relevant?

Do I matter?

Does anyone see me?

Am I lovable?

I wonder if we start to ask a different question if we'll finally be able to give ourselves a different answer.

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