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How to Find Comfort Knowing You Can’t Change People

Few things in the Christian life are as painful as watching someone you love refuse to change. You see the danger, you hear the excuses, you offer wisdom, and yet they walk straight toward the cliff. Sometimes you push too hard and break what was fragile; other times you pull back and feel the sting of regret. You wonder, What else can I do? This angst is the discipler’s dilemma: the tension between love and limits. You care deeply, but you cannot control outcomes. You can speak truth, pray fervently, and model grace, but you cannot make a heart repent. That realization can either crush you…

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