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The HOW Is Not Your Job — Here’s What Is | EP 299 · Confident and Empowered Women

• 0:05
  I
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  was
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  staring
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  at
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  my
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  vision
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  board
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  for
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  what
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  seemed
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  like
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  the
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  gazillion
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  time,
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  and
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  even
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  with
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  everything
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  I
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  wanted.
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  Staring
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  right
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  back
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  at
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  me,
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  there
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  was
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  still
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  this
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  quiet
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  ache
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  of
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  doubt
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  sitting
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  underneath
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  all
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  of
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  it.
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  I
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  had
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  done
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  everything
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  right,
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  the
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  affirmations,
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  the
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  journaling,
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  the
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  plan
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  I
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  had,
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  it
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  mapped
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  out
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  exactly
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  how
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  it
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  was
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  supposed
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  to
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  happen,
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  and
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  I
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  was
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  holding
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  onto
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  that
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  how.
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  For
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  dear
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  life,
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  but
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  here's
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  what
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  I
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  did
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  not
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  realize,
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  the
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  how
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  I
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  was
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  gripping
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  so
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  tightly.
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  It
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  was
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  the
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  very
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  thing
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  keeping
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  my
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  breakthrough
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  from
• 0:45
  landing.
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  So
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  I
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  planned
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  more,
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  controlled
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  more,
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  got
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  even
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  more
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  specific
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  about
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  how
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  it
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  was
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  supposed
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  to
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  happen.
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  And
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  the
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  more
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  I
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  gripped,
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  the
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  further
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  away
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  I
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  felt
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  friend,
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  why
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  do
• 0:58
  we
• 0:59
  torture
• 0:59
  ourselves?
• 1:00
  Trying
• 1:00
  to
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  control
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  every
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  single
• 1:01
  thing?
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  Well
• 1:04
  listen,
• 1:05
  by
• 1:05
  the
• 1:05
  time
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  we're
• 1:06
  done,
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  you're
• 1:07
  gonna
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  be
• 1:07
  able
• 1:07
  to
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  put
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  something
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  down
• 1:10
  that
• 1:10
  you've
• 1:10
  been
• 1:10
  carrying
• 1:11
  for
• 1:11
  way
• 1:12
  too
• 1:12
  long.
• 1:12
  So
• 1:13
  let's
• 1:13
  get
• 1:14
  into
• 1:14
  it.
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  Hey,
• 1:16
  friend,
• 1:16
  real
• 1:16
  quick,
• 1:17
  if
• 1:17
  you
• 1:18
  have
• 1:18
  not
• 1:18
  yet
• 1:18
  subscribed
• 1:19
  to
• 1:19
  the
• 1:19
  Confident
• 1:20
  and
• 1:20
  Empowered
• 1:20
  Women
• 1:21
  Podcast,
• 1:22
  what
• 1:22
  are
• 1:22
  we
• 1:22
  even
• 1:22
  doing?
• 1:23
  Okay,
• 1:25
  we
• 1:26
  are
• 1:26
  here
• 1:27
  every
• 1:27
  single
• 1:27
  Tuesday
• 1:28
  and
• 1:28
  Thursday,
• 1:29
  and
• 1:29
  this
• 1:29
  is
• 1:30
  not
• 1:30
  just
• 1:30
  a
• 1:30
  podcast.
• 1:31
  This
• 1:32
  is
• 1:32
  a
• 1:32
  community
• 1:33
  of
• 1:33
  women
• 1:33
  who
• 1:34
  are
• 1:34
  done
• 1:34
  shrinking,
• 1:35
  settling
• 1:36
  people,
• 1:36
  pleasing,
• 1:37
  performing,
• 1:38
  putting
• 1:38
  herself
• 1:39
  last.
• 1:40
  This
• 1:40
  is
• 1:41
  where
• 1:41
  we
• 1:41
  come
• 1:41
  to
• 1:42
  remember
• 1:43
  who
• 1:44
  we
• 1:44
  actually
• 1:45
  are
• 1:46
  and
• 1:46
  build
• 1:47
  the
• 1:47
  life
• 1:47
  that
• 1:47
  reflects
• 1:48
  her.
• 1:49
  We
• 1:49
  are
• 1:50
  becoming
• 1:50
  together,
• 1:51
  friend,
• 1:51
  and
• 1:52
  if
• 1:52
  you're
• 1:52
  not
• 1:52
  subscribed
• 1:53
  yet,
• 1:54
  today
• 1:54
  is
• 1:54
  the
• 1:55
  day.
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  Hey,
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  hey,
• 1:57
  hey,
• 1:58
  friend.
• 1:58
  Welcome
• 1:59
  back.
• 2:00
  Listen,
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  I'm
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  coming
• 2:02
  in
• 2:02
  hot.
• 2:02
  I'm
• 2:02
  coming
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  in
• 2:03
  with
• 2:03
  love
• 2:03
  today
• 2:04
  too.
• 2:04
  Straight
• 2:04
  up,
• 2:05
  no
• 2:05
  chaser,
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  but
• 2:06
  with
• 2:06
  so
• 2:06
  much
• 2:07
  love,
• 2:07
  I
• 2:08
  want
• 2:08
  you
• 2:08
  to
• 2:09
  know
• 2:09
  I'm
• 2:09
  not
• 2:10
  just
• 2:10
  talking
• 2:10
  to
• 2:11
  you,
• 2:11
  okay?
• 2:12
  I
• 2:12
  call
• 2:12
  myself
• 2:13
  out
• 2:13
  like
• 2:13
  this
• 2:13
  all
• 2:14
  the
• 2:14
  time.
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  But
• 2:17
  I
• 2:17
  don't
• 2:18
  really
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  look
• 2:18
  at
• 2:18
  it
• 2:19
  like
• 2:19
  I'm
• 2:19
  calling
• 2:19
  me
• 2:20
  out.
• 2:20
  It's
• 2:21
  really
• 2:21
  calling
• 2:21
  me
• 2:22
  up
• 2:23
  and
• 2:23
  I
• 2:23
  wanna
• 2:24
  speak
• 2:24
  to
• 2:24
  the
• 2:25
  best
• 2:25
  of
• 2:25
  you.
• 2:26
  And
• 2:26
  in
• 2:26
  doing
• 2:27
  that,
• 2:27
  we
• 2:27
  have
• 2:28
  to
• 2:28
  be
• 2:28
  able
• 2:28
  to
• 2:28
  recognize
• 2:29
  ourselves
• 2:30
  in
• 2:31
  our
• 2:31
  fullness,
• 2:32
  and
• 2:32
  at
• 2:33
  the
• 2:33
  same
• 2:33
  time
• 2:34
  recognize
• 2:35
  when
• 2:36
  we
• 2:36
  are
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  the
• 2:37
  one
• 2:37
  blocking
• 2:38
  that
• 2:38
  wholeness
• 2:39
  from
• 2:39
  shining
• 2:40
  in
• 2:40
  the
• 2:40
  first
• 2:40
  place.
• 2:41
  We
• 2:41
  often
• 2:42
  think
• 2:42
  we
• 2:43
  have
• 2:43
  to
• 2:43
  do
• 2:44
  everything
• 2:45
  on
• 2:45
  our
• 2:46
  own.
• 2:47
  It's
• 2:47
  like
• 2:47
  if
• 2:48
  it's
• 2:48
  gonna
• 2:48
  happen,
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  it's
• 2:49
  because
• 2:49
  we
• 2:50
  had
• 2:50
  the
• 2:50
  perfect
• 2:51
  plan.
• 2:51
  We
• 2:52
  did
• 2:52
  everything
• 2:53
  perfectly,
• 2:54
  every
• 2:54
  step
• 2:55
  done
• 2:55
  to
• 2:55
  the
• 2:55
  T,
• 2:56
  executed
• 2:57
  to
• 2:57
  perfection.
• 2:59
  We
• 2:59
  packaged
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  it
• 3:00
  up
• 3:00
  beautifully
• 3:01
  and
• 3:01
  placed
• 3:01
  it
• 3:01
  in
• 3:02
  our
• 3:02
  own
• 3:02
  lap,
• 3:03
  and
• 3:03
  I
• 3:03
  get
• 3:04
  it.
• 3:04
  I've
• 3:04
  been
• 3:05
  there.
• 3:06
  I
• 3:06
  can
• 3:06
  remember
• 3:07
  staring
• 3:08
  at
• 3:08
  my
• 3:08
  vision
• 3:08
  board
• 3:09
  for
• 3:09
  what
• 3:09
  felt
• 3:10
  like
• 3:10
  the
• 3:10
  gazillion
• 3:11
  time
• 3:12
  and
• 3:12
  everything
• 3:13
  I
• 3:13
  wanted,
• 3:13
  it
• 3:14
  was
• 3:14
  right
• 3:15
  there
• 3:15
  staring
• 3:16
  back
• 3:16
  at
• 3:16
  me.
• 3:17
  And
• 3:17
  even
• 3:18
  with
• 3:18
  all
• 3:19
  of
• 3:19
  that,
• 3:19
  even
• 3:20
  with
• 3:20
  all
• 3:21
  the
• 3:21
  clarity,
• 3:22
  the
• 3:22
  intention,
• 3:23
  and
• 3:23
  the
• 3:23
  beautiful
• 3:24
  pictures
• 3:24
  on
• 3:25
  the
• 3:25
  board,
• 3:26
  there
• 3:26
  was
• 3:27
  still
• 3:27
  this
• 3:28
  ache,
• 3:28
  this
• 3:29
  quiet
• 3:30
  doubt
• 3:30
  sitting
• 3:31
  right
• 3:32
  underneath
• 3:32
  everything.
• 3:33
  And
• 3:34
  the
• 3:34
  more
• 3:35
  I
• 3:35
  felt
• 3:35
  it.
• 3:36
  The
• 3:36
  more
• 3:36
  I
• 3:36
  listened
• 3:37
  to
• 3:37
  it,
• 3:38
  the
• 3:38
  more
• 3:39
  my
• 3:39
  shoulders
• 3:40
  went
• 3:40
  limp,
• 3:41
  my
• 3:42
  hope
• 3:42
  deflated,
• 3:43
  and
• 3:44
  all
• 3:44
  of
• 3:44
  that
• 3:45
  doubt
• 3:45
  just
• 3:45
  got
• 3:45
  louder
• 3:46
  than
• 3:47
  me
• 3:47
  wanting
• 3:48
  it
• 3:48
  in
• 3:48
  the
• 3:48
  first
• 3:49
  place.
• 3:49
  And
• 3:50
  you
• 3:50
  know
• 3:50
  what?
• 3:50
  I
• 3:50
  did
• 3:51
  exactly
• 3:51
  what
• 3:52
  we've
• 3:52
  always
• 3:52
  been
• 3:52
  taught
• 3:53
  to
• 3:53
  do,
• 3:54
  we
• 3:54
  try
• 3:55
  harder.
• 3:55
  Listen,
• 3:56
  I
• 3:56
  actually
• 3:57
  just
• 3:57
  made
• 3:58
  a
• 3:58
  YouTube
• 3:58
  video
• 3:59
  about
• 3:59
  this
• 3:59
  called
• 4:00
  Stop
• 4:00
  Trying.
• 4:01
  There's
• 4:01
  a
• 4:01
  Better
• 4:01
  Way,
• 4:02
  and
• 4:02
  Friend,
• 4:03
  I
• 4:03
  will
• 4:03
  make
• 4:03
  sure
• 4:03
  it's
• 4:04
  linked
• 4:04
  for
• 4:04
  you
• 4:05
  in
• 4:05
  the
• 4:05
  show
• 4:05
  notes
• 4:06
  because
• 4:06
  we
• 4:07
  are
• 4:07
  reducing
• 4:08
  the
• 4:08
  usage
• 4:09
  of
• 4:09
  the
• 4:09
  word
• 4:09
  trying
• 4:11
  because
• 4:11
  that
• 4:12
  energy,
• 4:12
  it
• 4:12
  holds
• 4:13
  frustration,
• 4:14
  scarcity,
• 4:15
  and
• 4:16
  it's
• 4:16
  focused
• 4:16
  on
• 4:17
  what's
• 4:17
  not
• 4:17
  here
• 4:18
  yet.
• 4:19
  So.
• 4:19
  Let's
• 4:20
  go
• 4:20
  light
• 4:21
  on
• 4:21
  the
• 4:21
  trying
• 4:22
  and
• 4:22
  heavy
• 4:23
  on
• 4:23
  the
• 4:23
  doing
• 4:23
  because
• 4:24
  you're
• 4:24
  doing
• 4:25
  it,
• 4:25
  friend.
• 4:27
  And
• 4:27
  let
• 4:27
  me
• 4:28
  just
• 4:28
  pause
• 4:28
  here
• 4:28
  for
• 4:29
  a
• 4:29
  moment.
• 4:29
  Let's
• 4:30
  ease
• 4:30
  into
• 4:31
  this
• 4:31
  with
• 4:31
  some
• 4:32
  grace
• 4:32
  as
• 4:32
  I
• 4:33
  give
• 4:33
  you
• 4:33
  this
• 4:33
  truth.
• 4:34
  The
• 4:35
  reason
• 4:35
  we
• 4:35
  try
• 4:35
  to
• 4:36
  control
• 4:37
  how
• 4:37
  it's
• 4:38
  supposed
• 4:38
  to
• 4:38
  happen
• 4:39
  is
• 4:40
  not
• 4:40
  because
• 4:40
  we're
• 4:41
  women
• 4:41
  and
• 4:41
  we
• 4:41
  just
• 4:42
  wanna
• 4:42
  be
• 4:42
  in
• 4:42
  control
• 4:42
  of
• 4:43
  everything,
• 4:43
  okay?
• 4:44
  Contrary
• 4:45
  to
• 4:45
  popular
• 4:45
  belief,
• 4:47
  it's
• 4:48
  because
• 4:48
  our
• 4:49
  brain
• 4:49
  is
• 4:49
  literally
• 4:50
  wired
• 4:51
  for
• 4:51
  this.
• 4:52
  Okay?
• 4:52
  So
• 4:52
  geek
• 4:53
  out
• 4:53
  with
• 4:53
  me
• 4:53
  here
• 4:53
  for
• 4:54
  a
• 4:54
  minute.
• 4:54
  Science
• 4:55
  has
• 4:55
  found
• 4:56
  that
• 4:56
  uncertainty
• 4:57
  activates
• 4:58
  the
• 4:58
  part
• 4:59
  of
• 4:59
  our
• 4:59
  brain
• 5:00
  that's
• 5:00
  responsible
• 5:01
  for
• 5:01
  fear
• 5:01
  and
• 5:02
  anxiety.
• 5:03
  And
• 5:03
  when
• 5:04
  your
• 5:04
  brain
• 5:04
  doesn't
• 5:05
  know
• 5:05
  what's
• 5:05
  coming,
• 5:06
  it
• 5:07
  interprets
• 5:07
  that
• 5:08
  as
• 5:08
  a
• 5:08
  danger.
• 5:09
  Okay,
• 5:10
  somebody
• 5:10
  cute,
• 5:11
  mystical
• 5:12
  danger.
• 5:17
  Y'all
• 5:17
  know
• 5:17
  I
• 5:17
  play
• 5:17
  too
• 5:18
  much,
• 5:18
  but
• 5:18
  that's
• 5:18
  what
• 5:19
  your
• 5:19
  brain
• 5:19
  is
• 5:19
  doing.
• 5:22
  It
• 5:23
  goes
• 5:23
  on
• 5:23
  the
• 5:24
  hunt
• 5:24
  looking
• 5:25
  for
• 5:25
  certainty
• 5:26
  anywhere
• 5:27
  it
• 5:27
  can
• 5:27
  find
• 5:28
  it.
• 5:28
  It
• 5:28
  pushes
• 5:29
  you
• 5:29
  into
• 5:30
  planning
• 5:30
  mode,
• 5:31
  problem
• 5:32
  solving
• 5:33
  mode.
• 5:34
  It
• 5:34
  sets
• 5:34
  you
• 5:35
  up
• 5:35
  so
• 5:36
  that
• 5:36
  you're
• 5:36
  controlling
• 5:37
  everything
• 5:37
  you
• 5:38
  possibly
• 5:38
  can
• 5:38
  control.
• 5:39
  On
• 5:40
  repeat,
• 5:41
  not
• 5:41
  because
• 5:41
  you're
• 5:42
  the
• 5:42
  only
• 5:42
  one
• 5:43
  who
• 5:43
  can
• 5:43
  do
• 5:43
  it,
• 5:44
  right?
• 5:44
  It's
• 5:45
  your
• 5:45
  brain
• 5:46
  working
• 5:46
  to
• 5:46
  keep
• 5:47
  you
• 5:47
  safe.
• 5:48
  So
• 5:48
  when
• 5:49
  you
• 5:49
  are
• 5:49
  up
• 5:49
  at
• 5:49
  11:00
• 5:50
  PM
• 5:51
  mapping
• 5:51
  out
• 5:51
  every
• 5:52
  single
• 5:52
  possible
• 5:53
  scenario
• 5:54
  of
• 5:54
  how
• 5:55
  something
• 5:55
  could
• 5:55
  unfold,
• 5:56
  your
• 5:57
  brain
• 5:57
  is
• 5:58
  not
• 5:58
  being
• 5:58
  dramatic.
• 5:59
  Okay?
• 6:00
  Listen.
• 6:00
  Low
• 6:00
  key.
• 6:01
  Maybe
• 6:01
  it
• 6:01
  is.
• 6:02
  Okay.
• 6:02
  You
• 6:02
  know
• 6:02
  your
• 6:02
  brain
• 6:03
  better
• 6:03
  than
• 6:03
  I
• 6:03
  do.
• 6:06
  But
• 6:06
  according
• 6:06
  to
• 6:07
  science,
• 6:08
  your
• 6:09
  brain
• 6:09
  is
• 6:10
  doing
• 6:10
  exactly
• 6:11
  what
• 6:11
  it's
• 6:11
  designed
• 6:12
  to
• 6:12
  do.
• 6:13
  And
• 6:14
  then
• 6:14
  because
• 6:14
  we
• 6:15
  are
• 6:15
  women,
• 6:15
  we
• 6:16
  add
• 6:16
  on
• 6:16
  another
• 6:16
  layer,
• 6:17
  honey,
• 6:17
  because
• 6:18
  that's
• 6:18
  just
• 6:18
  what
• 6:18
  we
• 6:18
  do.
• 6:20
  We
• 6:21
  were
• 6:21
  socialized
• 6:23
  to
• 6:23
  manage
• 6:24
  everything
• 6:25
  Even
• 6:25
  when
• 6:25
  we're
• 6:25
  criticized
• 6:26
  for
• 6:26
  it.
• 6:27
  You
• 6:27
  were
• 6:28
  a
• 6:28
  momager
• 6:29
  before
• 6:29
  Kris
• 6:29
  Jenner
• 6:30
  coined
• 6:31
  the
• 6:31
  phrase.
• 6:31
  Okay.
• 6:32
  Because
• 6:32
  we
• 6:33
  manage
• 6:33
  the
• 6:33
  household,
• 6:34
  the
• 6:34
  relationships,
• 6:35
  the
• 6:35
  schedule,
• 6:36
  social
• 6:36
  media
• 6:37
  and
• 6:37
  social
• 6:38
  events,
• 6:39
  the
• 6:39
  emotions
• 6:39
  of
• 6:40
  everyone
• 6:40
  around
• 6:41
  us,
• 6:41
  we
• 6:41
  have
• 6:42
  been
• 6:42
  carrying
• 6:42
  it
• 6:43
  all
• 6:43
  for
• 6:43
  so
• 6:44
  long
• 6:45
  that
• 6:45
  managing
• 6:46
  outcomes
• 6:47
  just
• 6:48
  becomes
• 6:48
  second
• 6:48
  nature.
• 6:49
  And
• 6:49
  nobody
• 6:50
  ever
• 6:50
  sat
• 6:50
  us
• 6:51
  down
• 6:51
  and
• 6:51
  said,
• 6:52
  hey,
• 6:52
  beloved,
• 6:53
  you
• 6:53
  don't
• 6:53
  have
• 6:54
  to
• 6:54
  hold
• 6:54
  all
• 6:54
  of
• 6:54
  this.
• 6:55
  And
• 6:56
  friend,
• 6:56
  this
• 6:57
  is
• 6:57
  where
• 6:57
  we
• 6:57
  release
• 6:58
  the
• 6:59
  shame.
• 7:00
  You
• 7:00
  were
• 7:00
  never
• 7:00
  wrong
• 7:01
  for
• 7:01
  trying
• 7:02
  to
• 7:02
  control
• 7:03
  how
• 7:03
  everything
• 7:03
  is
• 7:04
  supposed
• 7:04
  to
• 7:04
  happen.
• 7:05
  You
• 7:05
  just
• 7:06
  weren't
• 7:06
  shown
• 7:07
  that
• 7:07
  there's
• 7:07
  another
• 7:08
  way
• 7:08
  until
• 7:09
  right
• 7:10
  now.
• 7:10
  Okay?
• 7:13
  And
• 7:13
  this
• 7:13
  is
• 7:14
  where
• 7:14
  Grace
• 7:14
  is
• 7:15
  given
• 7:15
  because
• 7:16
  we
• 7:16
  gotta
• 7:16
  talk
• 7:17
  about
• 7:17
  what
• 7:17
  it's
• 7:17
  actually
• 7:18
  costing
• 7:19
  you
• 7:19
  Here's
• 7:20
  what's
• 7:20
  really
• 7:20
  playing
• 7:21
  out
• 7:21
  in
• 7:21
  real
• 7:22
  life.
• 7:23
  You
• 7:23
  try
• 7:23
  to
• 7:23
  convince
• 7:25
  somebody
• 7:26
  that
• 7:26
  you're
• 7:26
  the
• 7:26
  perfect
• 7:27
  woman
• 7:27
  for
• 7:27
  them.
• 7:28
  You
• 7:28
  take
• 7:29
  on
• 7:29
  extra
• 7:30
  projects
• 7:30
  at
• 7:31
  work
• 7:31
  to
• 7:31
  prove
• 7:31
  you're
• 7:32
  the
• 7:32
  perfect
• 7:32
  candidate
• 7:33
  for
• 7:33
  the
• 7:33
  promotion,
• 7:34
  even
• 7:35
  though
• 7:35
  you
• 7:35
  are
• 7:36
  already
• 7:36
  burnt
• 7:37
  to
• 7:37
  a
• 7:37
  crisp.
• 7:41
  You
• 7:41
  always
• 7:42
  volunteer
• 7:43
  to
• 7:43
  help
• 7:43
  a
• 7:43
  friend.
• 7:44
  You
• 7:44
  know,
• 7:44
  the
• 7:45
  one
• 7:45
  who
• 7:45
  always
• 7:46
  got
• 7:46
  something
• 7:46
  going
• 7:46
  on.
• 7:49
  You
• 7:50
  show
• 7:50
  up,
• 7:50
  you
• 7:50
  give
• 7:51
  you
• 7:51
  pour,
• 7:52
  but
• 7:52
  then
• 7:52
  you
• 7:52
  realize
• 7:53
  they
• 7:54
  never
• 7:54
  really
• 7:54
  volunteer
• 7:55
  for
• 7:55
  you.
• 7:56
  And
• 7:57
  why
• 7:57
  do
• 7:57
  we
• 7:57
  do
• 7:58
  all
• 7:58
  this?
• 7:59
  Because
• 7:59
  we
• 8:00
  think
• 8:00
  that
• 8:01
  is
• 8:01
  how
• 8:02
  we
• 8:02
  get
• 8:03
  the
• 8:03
  guy
• 8:04
  to
• 8:04
  fall
• 8:04
  in
• 8:04
  love
• 8:04
  with
• 8:04
  us.
• 8:05
  That
• 8:06
  is
• 8:06
  how
• 8:07
  we
• 8:07
  get
• 8:07
  the
• 8:07
  promotion.
• 8:08
  That
• 8:08
  is
• 8:08
  how.
• 8:09
  We
• 8:09
  get
• 8:10
  the
• 8:10
  friend
• 8:10
  to
• 8:10
  finally
• 8:11
  reciprocate
• 8:12
  everything
• 8:13
  that
• 8:13
  we
• 8:13
  give
• 8:14
  when
• 8:14
  really
• 8:15
  that
• 8:16
  is
• 8:16
  just
• 8:16
  how
• 8:17
  we
• 8:17
  end
• 8:18
  up
• 8:18
  white
• 8:18
  knuckling
• 8:19
  our
• 8:19
  way
• 8:20
  straight
• 8:20
  into
• 8:21
  exhaustion,
• 8:22
  frustration,
• 8:23
  feeling
• 8:23
  unappreciated,
• 8:24
  and
• 8:25
  starting
• 8:25
  to
• 8:25
  wonder
• 8:26
  if
• 8:26
  our
• 8:27
  time
• 8:27
  is
• 8:27
  ever
• 8:28
  really
• 8:28
  gonna
• 8:29
  come.
• 8:30
  And
• 8:30
  listen,
• 8:30
  I
• 8:30
  know
• 8:31
  soon
• 8:31
  as
• 8:31
  we
• 8:31
  hear
• 8:32
  Janet
• 8:32
  Jackson
• 8:32
  singing
• 8:33
  control,
• 8:36
  we
• 8:36
  forget
• 8:37
  this
• 8:37
  is
• 8:37
  not
• 8:37
  what
• 8:38
  she
• 8:38
  had
• 8:38
  in
• 8:38
  mind.
• 8:42
  A
• 8:42
  friend,
• 8:42
  when
• 8:42
  you
• 8:43
  have
• 8:43
  been
• 8:43
  so
• 8:44
  specific
• 8:45
  about
• 8:45
  the
• 8:45
  how,
• 8:46
  when
• 8:47
  your
• 8:47
  preferences
• 8:48
  and
• 8:48
  your
• 8:48
  nice
• 8:49
  to
• 8:49
  haves
• 8:50
  become
• 8:50
  the
• 8:50
  facts
• 8:51
  you
• 8:51
  live
• 8:51
  by,
• 8:52
  you
• 8:52
  quietly
• 8:53
  put
• 8:54
  a
• 8:54
  ceiling
• 8:55
  on
• 8:55
  the
• 8:55
  very
• 8:56
  thing
• 8:56
  you've
• 8:57
  been
• 8:57
  believing
• 8:57
  for.
• 8:58
  Because
• 8:59
  what
• 8:59
  if
• 9:00
  what
• 9:00
  you
• 9:00
  want.
• 9:02
  Is
• 9:02
  going
• 9:03
  to
• 9:03
  come
• 9:03
  to
• 9:03
  you
• 9:04
  in
• 9:04
  a
• 9:04
  different
• 9:05
  way.
• 9:06
  What
• 9:07
  if
• 9:07
  God's
• 9:08
  version
• 9:08
  or
• 9:09
  source
• 9:10
  or
• 9:10
  universe,
• 9:11
  whom
• 9:11
  it
• 9:11
  is
• 9:11
  you
• 9:11
  believe
• 9:12
  in?
• 9:13
  And
• 9:13
  for
• 9:13
  me,
• 9:14
  I'm
• 9:14
  a
• 9:14
  God's
• 9:14
  girl.
• 9:15
  So
• 9:15
  what
• 9:16
  if
• 9:16
  God's
• 9:16
  version
• 9:17
  of
• 9:17
  the
• 9:17
  how
• 9:18
  is
• 9:19
  so
• 9:19
  much
• 9:20
  bigger,
• 9:20
  so
• 9:20
  much
• 9:21
  better
• 9:21
  creative,
• 9:22
  surprising
• 9:23
  and
• 9:24
  delightful
• 9:25
  than
• 9:25
  the
• 9:25
  version,
• 9:26
  you
• 9:26
  are
• 9:26
  very
• 9:27
  capable,
• 9:28
  very
• 9:28
  thorough,
• 9:29
  very
• 9:29
  tired,
• 9:30
  brain
• 9:30
  came
• 9:31
  up
• 9:31
  with,
• 9:31
  you've
• 9:32
  been
• 9:32
  so
• 9:33
  busy
• 9:34
  managing
• 9:34
  the
• 9:34
  route,
• 9:35
  you
• 9:36
  haven't
• 9:36
  left
• 9:36
  any
• 9:37
  room
• 9:37
  for
• 9:37
  the
• 9:37
  destination
• 9:38
  to
• 9:38
  arrive
• 9:39
  differently
• 9:40
  than
• 9:40
  you
• 9:40
  planned.
• 9:41
  And
• 9:41
  here's.
• 9:42
  The
• 9:42
  thing
• 9:43
  that
• 9:43
  got
• 9:43
  me
• 9:44
  control
• 9:45
  is
• 9:45
  not
• 9:45
  faith.
• 9:46
  It
• 9:47
  is
• 9:47
  fear
• 9:48
  dressed
• 9:48
  up
• 9:48
  in
• 9:48
  a
• 9:49
  business
• 9:49
  suit,
• 9:49
  okay?
• 9:50
  Because
• 9:50
  it
• 9:50
  means
• 9:51
  business.
• 9:54
  And
• 9:54
  when
• 9:55
  you
• 9:55
  are
• 9:55
  gripping
• 9:55
  on
• 9:56
  to
• 9:57
  the
• 9:57
  how
• 9:58
  that
• 9:58
  tightly,
• 9:59
  what
• 9:59
  you're
• 10:00
  really
• 10:00
  saying
• 10:01
  underneath
• 10:01
  all
• 10:01
  of
• 10:02
  that
• 10:02
  planning
• 10:02
  is,
• 10:03
  I
• 10:04
  don't
• 10:04
  trust
• 10:04
  that
• 10:05
  it's
• 10:05
  coming
• 10:06
  unless
• 10:07
  I
• 10:07
  make
• 10:08
  it
• 10:08
  happen
• 10:08
  myself.
• 10:09
  And
• 10:10
  that
• 10:10
  underlying
• 10:11
  energy
• 10:12
  is
• 10:12
  loud.
• 10:12
  Okay?
• 10:13
  That
• 10:13
  frequency
• 10:14
  of
• 10:14
  I
• 10:14
  don't
• 10:14
  trust
• 10:15
  it,
• 10:15
  it's
• 10:16
  screaming
• 10:17
  louder
• 10:18
  than
• 10:18
  every
• 10:19
  vision
• 10:19
  board.
• 10:20
  Affirmation
• 10:21
  and
• 10:21
  prayer.
• 10:21
  Okay?
• 10:22
  Your
• 10:23
  dreams
• 10:23
  cannot
• 10:24
  land
• 10:25
  in
• 10:25
  clenched
• 10:25
  fist.
• 10:27
  They
• 10:27
  land
• 10:27
  in
• 10:28
  open
• 10:28
  hands,
• 10:29
  and
• 10:29
  I
• 10:29
  mentioned
• 10:30
  this
• 10:30
  in
• 10:30
  an
• 10:31
  episode
• 10:31
  recently.
• 10:32
  Because
• 10:33
  Sway
• 10:33
  Calloway
• 10:34
  said
• 10:34
  something
• 10:35
  I
• 10:35
  can't
• 10:35
  stop
• 10:36
  thinking
• 10:36
  about.
• 10:37
  He
• 10:37
  said,
• 10:38
  the
• 10:38
  process
• 10:39
  is
• 10:40
  a
• 10:40
  part
• 10:41
  of
• 10:41
  the
• 10:41
  dream.
• 10:42
  You
• 10:43
  are
• 10:43
  in
• 10:43
  the
• 10:43
  dream
• 10:43
  now.
• 10:45
  And
• 10:46
  friend,
• 10:46
  when
• 10:47
  you
• 10:47
  are
• 10:47
  white
• 10:48
  knuckling
• 10:48
  the
• 10:48
  how
• 10:49
  you
• 10:50
  miss
• 10:50
  this
• 10:51
  completely.
• 10:52
  You've
• 10:53
  been
• 10:53
  so
• 10:53
  focused
• 10:54
  on
• 10:54
  getting
• 10:54
  to
• 10:55
  the
• 10:55
  dream
• 10:56
  that
• 10:56
  you
• 10:56
  don't
• 10:56
  realize
• 10:57
  that
• 10:57
  you're
• 10:57
  already
• 10:58
  inside
• 10:59
  of
• 10:59
  it.
• 11:00
  The
• 11:00
  becoming
• 11:01
  is
• 11:01
  part
• 11:01
  of
• 11:01
  the
• 11:02
  dream.
• 11:03
  The
• 11:03
  building
• 11:04
  is
• 11:04
  part
• 11:04
  of
• 11:05
  the
• 11:05
  dream.
• 11:06
  That
• 11:06
  Tuesday
• 11:06
  morning
• 11:07
  where
• 11:07
  you
• 11:07
  found
• 11:08
  20
• 11:08
  minutes
• 11:09
  in
• 11:09
  the
• 11:09
  middle
• 11:09
  of
• 11:10
  your
• 11:10
  regular
• 11:11
  life
• 11:11
  to
• 11:12
  work
• 11:12
  on
• 11:12
  what
• 11:12
  you
• 11:13
  love.
• 11:13
  That
• 11:14
  is
• 11:15
  the
• 11:15
  dream.
• 11:16
  And
• 11:17
  if
• 11:17
  you
• 11:17
  wanna
• 11:17
  fight
• 11:17
  me
• 11:18
  on
• 11:18
  this,
• 11:18
  it's
• 11:18
  okay.
• 11:20
  You
• 11:21
  are
• 11:21
  welcome
• 11:21
  to
• 11:21
  hang
• 11:22
  on
• 11:22
  to
• 11:22
  your
• 11:22
  limitations
• 11:23
  for
• 11:23
  as
• 11:23
  long
• 11:24
  as
• 11:24
  you
• 11:24
  want
• 11:24
  to.
• 11:24
  Okay?
• 11:27
  But
• 11:27
  listen,
• 11:28
  when
• 11:28
  you
• 11:29
  have
• 11:30
  the
• 11:30
  dream,
• 11:31
  you
• 11:31
  get
• 11:31
  glimpses,
• 11:32
  you
• 11:32
  get
• 11:33
  to
• 11:33
  see.
• 11:33
  Picture
• 11:34
  frames,
• 11:35
  if
• 11:35
  you
• 11:35
  will,
• 11:36
  of
• 11:37
  what
• 11:37
  your
• 11:37
  dream
• 11:38
  actually
• 11:38
  is.
• 11:39
  Some
• 11:40
  of
• 11:40
  us
• 11:40
  have
• 11:40
  a
• 11:40
  very
• 11:41
  vivid
• 11:41
  imagination
• 11:42
  and
• 11:42
  you
• 11:43
  might
• 11:43
  be
• 11:43
  able
• 11:43
  to
• 11:44
  see
• 11:44
  this
• 11:45
  whole
• 11:45
  thing
• 11:45
  play
• 11:46
  out.
• 11:47
  And
• 11:47
  even
• 11:48
  then,
• 11:49
  friend,
• 11:50
  you
• 11:51
  are
• 11:51
  seeing
• 11:52
  the
• 11:52
  preview,
• 11:53
  you
• 11:53
  are
• 11:53
  seeing
• 11:54
  the
• 11:54
  highlight
• 11:55
  reel
• 11:55
  of
• 11:56
  your
• 11:56
  dream.
• 11:57
  It's
• 11:57
  like
• 11:58
  when
• 11:58
  you're
• 11:58
  asleep
• 11:59
  at
• 11:59
  night
• 12:00
  and
• 12:00
  you
• 12:00
  have
• 12:01
  a
• 12:01
  dream
• 12:01
  and
• 12:02
  the
• 12:02
  next
• 12:02
  morning
• 12:02
  you're
• 12:03
  trying
• 12:03
  to
• 12:03
  remember
• 12:04
  everything
• 12:04
  that
• 12:05
  happened
• 12:05
  in
• 12:05
  the
• 12:05
  dream.
• 12:06
  But
• 12:07
  there's
• 12:07
  some
• 12:07
  parts
• 12:08
  that
• 12:08
  either
• 12:08
  you
• 12:08
  can't
• 12:09
  remember,
• 12:09
  or
• 12:09
  maybe
• 12:10
  they're
• 12:10
  fuzzy.
• 12:11
  That's
• 12:12
  what
• 12:12
  the
• 12:12
  dream
• 12:13
  is
• 12:13
  in
• 12:13
  real
• 12:14
  life,
• 12:14
  friend.
• 12:15
  You
• 12:15
  don't
• 12:15
  see.
• 12:16
  Everything
• 12:17
  that
• 12:17
  has
• 12:17
  to
• 12:17
  go
• 12:18
  into
• 12:18
  the
• 12:18
  dream
• 12:19
  in
• 12:20
  order
• 12:20
  for
• 12:20
  that
• 12:21
  dream
• 12:21
  to
• 12:21
  come
• 12:22
  true.
• 12:22
  That's
• 12:23
  why
• 12:23
  the
• 12:23
  becoming,
• 12:24
  the
• 12:24
  building,
• 12:25
  all
• 12:25
  of
• 12:25
  it
• 12:26
  is
• 12:26
  a
• 12:26
  part
• 12:27
  of
• 12:27
  it.
• 12:28
  And
• 12:28
  if
• 12:28
  you
• 12:29
  spend
• 12:29
  the
• 12:30
  whole
• 12:30
  process
• 12:32
  managing
• 12:32
  and
• 12:33
  controlling
• 12:34
  and
• 12:34
  exhausting
• 12:35
  yourself,
• 12:35
  okay,
• 12:36
  you
• 12:37
  are
• 12:37
  going
• 12:37
  to
• 12:37
  cross
• 12:38
  the
• 12:38
  finish
• 12:39
  line
• 12:39
  and
• 12:40
  still
• 12:40
  feel
• 12:41
  empty,
• 12:42
  hollow,
• 12:43
  and
• 12:43
  unfulfilled.
• 12:45
  And
• 12:45
  we
• 12:45
  don't
• 12:45
  do
• 12:46
  that
• 12:46
  around
• 12:46
  here.
• 12:47
  Okay.
• 12:49
  And
• 12:49
  real
• 12:50
  talk.
• 12:50
  The
• 12:51
  how
• 12:51
  belongs
• 12:52
  to
• 12:52
  God.
• 12:53
  And
• 12:54
  if
• 12:54
  God
• 12:54
  isn't
• 12:54
  your
• 12:55
  jam,
• 12:55
  it
• 12:55
  belongs
• 12:56
  to
• 12:56
  the
• 12:56
  source,
• 12:57
  the
• 12:57
  universe
• 12:58
  whom
• 12:59
  it
• 12:59
  is
• 12:59
  that
• 13:00
  you
• 13:00
  believe
• 13:01
  in
• 13:02
  your
• 13:02
  job,
• 13:03
  thankfully.
• 13:04
  Actually
• 13:05
  very
• 13:05
  gratefully
• 13:07
  is
• 13:07
  not
• 13:08
  the
• 13:08
  how
• 13:09
  because
• 13:09
  there's
• 13:09
  so
• 13:10
  many
• 13:10
  pieces
• 13:11
  and
• 13:11
  parts
• 13:11
  to
• 13:11
  the
• 13:12
  puzzle
• 13:12
  that
• 13:12
  have
• 13:12
  to
• 13:13
  align
• 13:13
  and
• 13:14
  come
• 13:14
  together.
• 13:15
  Do
• 13:15
  you
• 13:15
  know
• 13:16
  how
• 13:16
  much
• 13:16
  work
• 13:16
  that
• 13:16
  is?
• 13:16
  Do
• 13:16
  you
• 13:17
  know
• 13:17
  how
• 13:17
  much
• 13:17
  stress
• 13:18
  that
• 13:18
  can
• 13:18
  be?
• 13:19
  Friend?
• 13:20
  Especially
• 13:20
  on
• 13:20
  us
• 13:21
  humans.
• 13:23
  Be
• 13:23
  glad.
• 13:24
  We
• 13:24
  are
• 13:24
  not
• 13:25
  responsible
• 13:25
  for
• 13:26
  the
• 13:26
  how,
• 13:28
  but
• 13:29
  one
• 13:29
  thing
• 13:29
  about
• 13:29
  us
• 13:30
  humans,
• 13:30
  we
• 13:31
  love
• 13:31
  trying
• 13:32
  to
• 13:32
  mind
• 13:32
  God's
• 13:32
  business,
• 13:33
  don't
• 13:33
  we
• 13:36
  like
• 13:37
  friend?
• 13:37
  That
• 13:37
  is
• 13:42
  But
• 13:42
  here
• 13:43
  is
• 13:43
  actually
• 13:44
  what
• 13:44
  belongs
• 13:45
  to
• 13:45
  us.
• 13:46
  Okay?
• 13:46
  Because
• 13:46
  this
• 13:46
  is
• 13:47
  the
• 13:47
  part
• 13:47
  that
• 13:47
  we've
• 13:48
  all
• 13:48
  been
• 13:48
  waiting
• 13:49
  for,
• 13:49
  because
• 13:50
  I
• 13:50
  don't
• 13:51
  just
• 13:51
  wanna
• 13:51
  tell
• 13:51
  you.
• 13:52
  To
• 13:53
  put
• 13:53
  the
• 13:53
  how
• 13:54
  down.
• 13:55
  I
• 13:55
  want
• 13:55
  to
• 13:55
  tell
• 13:56
  you
• 13:56
  exactly
• 13:57
  what
• 13:57
  to
• 13:57
  pick
• 13:57
  up
• 13:58
  instead,
• 13:58
  because
• 13:59
  your
• 13:59
  job
• 14:00
  is
• 14:00
  actually
• 14:01
  three
• 14:01
  things.
• 14:02
  It
• 14:02
  is
• 14:03
  to
• 14:03
  hold
• 14:04
  the
• 14:04
  vision,
• 14:05
  not
• 14:05
  the
• 14:06
  how,
• 14:06
  not
• 14:07
  strangle
• 14:07
  it.
• 14:08
  Okay?
• 14:08
  Not
• 14:09
  cut
• 14:09
  off
• 14:09
  its
• 14:09
  air
• 14:09
  supply.
• 14:12
  Your
• 14:13
  job
• 14:13
  is
• 14:13
  to
• 14:13
  hold
• 14:14
  the
• 14:14
  vision.
• 14:15
  The
• 14:16
  vision
• 14:16
  is
• 14:16
  the
• 14:17
  what?
• 14:17
  It's
• 14:17
  the
• 14:18
  why.
• 14:18
  It's
• 14:19
  the
• 14:19
  feeling,
• 14:20
  the
• 14:21
  life
• 14:21
  it
• 14:21
  creates,
• 14:22
  the
• 14:22
  woman
• 14:23
  you
• 14:23
  become
• 14:24
  in
• 14:24
  the
• 14:25
  living
• 14:26
  of
• 14:26
  it.
• 14:26
  Here's
• 14:27
  why
• 14:27
  this
• 14:27
  matters
• 14:28
  so
• 14:28
  much,
• 14:29
  and
• 14:29
  I
• 14:29
  love
• 14:30
  it
• 14:30
  because
• 14:31
  once
• 14:31
  again.
• 14:32
  Science
• 14:32
  actually
• 14:33
  confirmed
• 14:34
  what
• 14:34
  I
• 14:34
  already
• 14:34
  knew
• 14:35
  in
• 14:35
  my
• 14:35
  spirit,
• 14:36
  and
• 14:37
  you've
• 14:37
  heard
• 14:37
  this
• 14:37
  before,
• 14:38
  you
• 14:38
  know
• 14:38
  it
• 14:39
  too,
• 14:39
  but
• 14:39
  this
• 14:40
  time
• 14:40
  when
• 14:40
  you
• 14:41
  hear
• 14:41
  it,
• 14:41
  I
• 14:41
  want
• 14:42
  you
• 14:43
  to
• 14:43
  embody
• 14:44
  it
• 14:45
  Research
• 14:45
  has
• 14:46
  found
• 14:46
  that
• 14:46
  your
• 14:46
  brain
• 14:47
  does
• 14:47
  not
• 14:47
  fully
• 14:48
  distinguish
• 14:49
  between
• 14:49
  a
• 14:49
  real
• 14:50
  lived
• 14:51
  experience
• 14:52
  and
• 14:52
  one
• 14:53
  that
• 14:53
  is
• 14:53
  vividly
• 14:54
  imagined.
• 14:55
  Which
• 14:56
  means
• 14:56
  when
• 14:57
  you
• 14:57
  hold
• 14:57
  the
• 14:57
  vision,
• 14:58
  when
• 14:59
  you
• 14:59
  really
• 14:59
  feel
• 15:00
  it
• 15:00
  inhabit
• 15:01
  it,
• 15:02
  make
• 15:02
  it
• 15:02
  vivid
• 15:03
  and
• 15:03
  real
• 15:03
  inside
• 15:04
  of
• 15:04
  you,
• 15:05
  Your
• 15:05
  brain
• 15:06
  begins
• 15:06
  to
• 15:06
  treat
• 15:07
  it
• 15:07
  as
• 15:07
  if
• 15:08
  it's
• 15:08
  real.
• 15:09
  It
• 15:09
  starts
• 15:10
  building
• 15:10
  pathways
• 15:11
  towards
• 15:12
  it.
• 15:12
  It
• 15:13
  starts
• 15:13
  priming
• 15:14
  you
• 15:14
  to
• 15:14
  recognize
• 15:15
  the
• 15:15
  opportunities
• 15:16
  that
• 15:16
  are
• 15:17
  already
• 15:17
  moving
• 15:18
  in
• 15:18
  that
• 15:18
  direction.
• 15:19
  You're
• 15:19
  not
• 15:19
  daydreaming
• 15:20
  friend.
• 15:21
  You're
• 15:21
  literally
• 15:22
  training
• 15:22
  your
• 15:22
  brain
• 15:23
  for
• 15:23
  the
• 15:23
  future.
• 15:24
  You're
• 15:24
  already
• 15:25
  moving
• 15:25
  towards
• 15:26
  you.
• 15:27
  So
• 15:27
  hold
• 15:28
  the
• 15:28
  vision,
• 15:29
  keep
• 15:29
  it
• 15:29
  clear
• 15:30
  and
• 15:30
  vivid.
• 15:32
  Okay?
• 15:32
  So
• 15:33
  remember
• 15:34
  the
• 15:34
  how
• 15:34
  belongs
• 15:35
  to
• 15:35
  God's
• 15:36
  source
• 15:36
  universe.
• 15:37
  Okay,
• 15:38
  that
• 15:38
  higher
• 15:39
  power,
• 15:39
  but
• 15:40
  the
• 15:40
  vision
• 15:41
  belongs
• 15:41
  to
• 15:42
  you.
• 15:42
  Your
• 15:43
  next
• 15:43
  job
• 15:43
  is
• 15:44
  to
• 15:44
  touch
• 15:44
  the
• 15:44
  dream
• 15:45
  daily.
• 15:47
  I
• 15:47
  love
• 15:48
  this
• 15:48
  one
• 15:48
  so
• 15:48
  much,
• 15:49
  and
• 15:49
  I
• 15:49
  think
• 15:49
  we
• 15:49
  completely
• 15:50
  underestimate
• 15:51
  it.
• 15:52
  You
• 15:52
  have
• 15:52
  to
• 15:52
  stay
• 15:53
  connected
• 15:54
  to
• 15:54
  the
• 15:54
  dream,
• 15:55
  not
• 15:55
  just
• 15:55
  on
• 15:56
  your
• 15:56
  motivated
• 15:56
  days
• 15:57
  or
• 15:57
  when
• 15:57
  things
• 15:57
  are
• 15:57
  going
• 15:58
  well.
• 15:58
  I'm
• 15:59
  talking
• 15:59
  every
• 16:00
  single
• 16:01
  day.
• 16:02
  Once
• 16:02
  again,
• 16:03
  research
• 16:04
  shows
• 16:05
  that
• 16:05
  it's
• 16:05
  the
• 16:05
  consistency
• 16:07
  of
• 16:07
  touching
• 16:07
  the
• 16:08
  dream,
• 16:08
  not
• 16:09
  the
• 16:09
  intensity
• 16:10
  of
• 16:10
  one
• 16:11
  really
• 16:11
  good
• 16:11
  session.
• 16:12
  But
• 16:12
  touching
• 16:13
  the
• 16:13
  dream
• 16:14
  regularly,
• 16:15
  that
• 16:16
  builds
• 16:16
  the
• 16:16
  pathway
• 16:17
  in
• 16:17
  your
• 16:17
  brain
• 16:18
  that
• 16:18
  keeps
• 16:18
  you
• 16:19
  moving
• 16:19
  toward
• 16:19
  it,
• 16:20
  even
• 16:20
  on
• 16:21
  the
• 16:21
  days
• 16:21
  you
• 16:21
  don't
• 16:21
  feel
• 16:22
  like
• 16:22
  it.
• 16:22
  So
• 16:23
  what
• 16:23
  does
• 16:23
  touching
• 16:24
  the
• 16:24
  dream
• 16:24
  look
• 16:25
  like?
• 16:25
  It
• 16:26
  might
• 16:26
  be
• 16:27
  30
• 16:27
  seconds
• 16:27
  in
• 16:28
  the
• 16:28
  morning
• 16:28
  before
• 16:29
  you
• 16:29
  open
• 16:29
  up
• 16:29
  your
• 16:29
  phone,
• 16:30
  when
• 16:31
  you
• 16:31
  actually
• 16:32
  just
• 16:32
  close
• 16:33
  your
• 16:33
  eyes
• 16:34
  And
• 16:34
  feel
• 16:35
  what
• 16:35
  it
• 16:35
  feels
• 16:36
  like
• 16:36
  to
• 16:37
  already
• 16:37
  have
• 16:38
  it.
• 16:38
  It
• 16:38
  might
• 16:39
  be
• 16:39
  one
• 16:39
  sentence
• 16:40
  in
• 16:40
  your
• 16:40
  journal
• 16:41
  written
• 16:42
  as
• 16:42
  the
• 16:42
  woman
• 16:42
  who
• 16:43
  already
• 16:43
  has
• 16:44
  it.
• 16:44
  It
• 16:44
  might
• 16:44
  be
• 16:45
  a
• 16:45
  song
• 16:45
  that
• 16:45
  puts
• 16:46
  you
• 16:46
  right
• 16:46
  back
• 16:46
  in
• 16:47
  the
• 16:47
  energy
• 16:47
  of
• 16:47
  the
• 16:48
  moment.
• 16:48
  It
• 16:48
  starts
• 16:49
  playing.
• 16:50
  It
• 16:50
  doesn't
• 16:50
  need
• 16:51
  to
• 16:51
  be
• 16:51
  elaborate.
• 16:52
  It
• 16:52
  don't
• 16:52
  need
• 16:53
  to
• 16:53
  be
• 16:53
  50,
• 16:54
  11
• 16:54
  hours.
• 16:55
  Okay?
• 16:58
  It
• 16:58
  just
• 16:58
  needs
• 16:58
  to
• 16:59
  be
• 16:59
  daily.
• 17:00
  Your
• 17:00
  dream,
• 17:01
  needs
• 17:01
  your
• 17:02
  commitment,
• 17:02
  and
• 17:03
  recommitment.
• 17:04
  That
• 17:04
  is
• 17:05
  your
• 17:05
  job,
• 17:06
  and
• 17:06
  the
• 17:06
  third
• 17:07
  job
• 17:07
  is
• 17:07
  to
• 17:08
  believe
• 17:08
  you
• 17:08
  are
• 17:09
  moving
• 17:09
  toward
• 17:10
  it,
• 17:10
  not
• 17:11
  hoping,
• 17:11
  desperately
• 17:12
  wishing
• 17:13
  and
• 17:13
  praying,
• 17:14
  not
• 17:15
  checking
• 17:15
  the
• 17:16
  vision
• 17:16
  board
• 17:16
  every
• 17:17
  hour,
• 17:17
  just
• 17:18
  to
• 17:18
  make
• 17:18
  sure
• 17:18
  it's
• 17:18
  still
• 17:18
  there.
• 17:19
  Okay?
• 17:20
  Pure
• 17:21
  believing.
• 17:22
  And
• 17:22
  here's
• 17:23
  the
• 17:23
  distinction
• 17:24
  that
• 17:25
  shifts
• 17:26
  so
• 17:26
  many
• 17:26
  things
• 17:27
  because
• 17:28
  belief
• 17:28
  is
• 17:28
  not
• 17:29
  having
• 17:29
  full
• 17:29
  certainty
• 17:31
  about
• 17:31
  how
• 17:31
  it's
• 17:31
  going
• 17:32
  to
• 17:32
  happen.
• 17:33
  Belief
• 17:33
  is
• 17:33
  a
• 17:34
  settled
• 17:34
  knowing,
• 17:35
  a
• 17:36
  confirmation,
• 17:37
  if
• 17:37
  you
• 17:37
  will,
• 17:38
  that
• 17:38
  something
• 17:38
  is
• 17:39
  already
• 17:39
  in
• 17:39
  motion,
• 17:40
  that
• 17:40
  it's
• 17:40
  already
• 17:41
  working
• 17:42
  even
• 17:42
  when
• 17:42
  you
• 17:42
  can't
• 17:43
  see
• 17:43
  it.
• 17:44
  That's
• 17:44
  the
• 17:45
  process
• 17:46
  and
• 17:46
  it's
• 17:46
  unfolding.
• 17:48
  Even
• 17:48
  when
• 17:48
  the
• 17:48
  evidence
• 17:49
  hasn't
• 17:50
  shown
• 17:50
  up
• 17:50
  in
• 17:51
  your
• 17:51
  physical
• 17:51
  reality
• 17:52
  yet,
• 17:53
  heavy
• 17:54
  on
• 17:54
  the
• 17:54
  yet,
• 17:55
  research
• 17:56
  also
• 17:56
  confirms.
• 17:57
  People
• 17:58
  who
• 17:58
  genuinely
• 17:59
  believe
• 17:59
  they're
• 18:00
  moving
• 18:00
  towards
• 18:00
  something.
• 18:01
  Invest
• 18:02
  more
• 18:02
  effort,
• 18:03
  stay
• 18:03
  more
• 18:04
  consistent,
• 18:05
  recognize
• 18:05
  more
• 18:06
  opportunities
• 18:07
  along
• 18:07
  the
• 18:07
  way.
• 18:08
  Belief
• 18:09
  is
• 18:09
  what
• 18:09
  changes
• 18:10
  what
• 18:10
  you
• 18:10
  see,
• 18:11
  which
• 18:11
  changes
• 18:12
  what
• 18:12
  you
• 18:12
  do,
• 18:13
  which
• 18:14
  changes.
• 18:15
  What
• 18:15
  you
• 18:15
  receive.
• 18:17
  So
• 18:17
  your
• 18:17
  job
• 18:18
  is
• 18:18
  not
• 18:18
  to
• 18:18
  know
• 18:19
  how
• 18:19
  it
• 18:19
  happens.
• 18:20
  Your
• 18:20
  job
• 18:21
  is
• 18:21
  to
• 18:21
  believe
• 18:22
  with
• 18:22
  every
• 18:23
  part
• 18:23
  of
• 18:23
  you
• 18:24
  that
• 18:24
  it
• 18:25
  is
• 18:25
  in
• 18:26
  fact
• 18:26
  happening.
• 18:27
  Hold
• 18:28
  the
• 18:28
  vision,
• 18:29
  touch
• 18:29
  the
• 18:29
  dream
• 18:29
  daily.
• 18:30
  Believe
• 18:31
  you're
• 18:31
  moving
• 18:32
  towards
• 18:32
  it.
• 18:33
  That's
• 18:33
  the
• 18:34
  whole
• 18:34
  job
• 18:34
  description.
• 18:35
  The
• 18:35
  how
• 18:36
  was
• 18:37
  never
• 18:37
  on
• 18:37
  your
• 18:37
  list.
• 18:41
  When
• 18:41
  was
• 18:41
  the
• 18:41
  last
• 18:41
  time
• 18:42
  you
• 18:42
  sat
• 18:43
  down
• 18:43
  and
• 18:43
  really
• 18:44
  asked
• 18:44
  yourself?
• 18:45
  What
• 18:45
  do
• 18:45
  I
• 18:46
  need?
• 18:47
  Not
• 18:47
  what
• 18:47
  everybody
• 18:48
  else
• 18:48
  needs,
• 18:49
  not
• 18:49
  what's
• 18:49
  on
• 18:50
  the
• 18:50
  to-do
• 18:50
  list,
• 18:51
  but
• 18:51
  what
• 18:51
  you
• 18:52
  need,
• 18:53
  what
• 18:53
  you
• 18:54
  want,
• 18:55
  what
• 18:55
  you
• 18:56
  actually
• 18:57
  believe
• 18:57
  about
• 18:57
  yourself
• 18:58
  right
• 18:58
  now.
• 18:59
  Because
• 18:59
  here's
• 18:59
  what
• 18:59
  I
• 19:00
  know,
• 19:00
  clarity
• 19:01
  does
• 19:01
  not
• 19:01
  come
• 19:02
  from
• 19:02
  thinking
• 19:03
  harder.
• 19:03
  It
• 19:03
  comes
• 19:04
  from
• 19:04
  asking
• 19:04
  better
• 19:05
  questions
• 19:06
  and
• 19:06
  taking
• 19:06
  action,
• 19:07
  and
• 19:08
  the
• 19:08
  moments
• 19:08
  I
• 19:08
  feel
• 19:08
  most
• 19:09
  stuck
• 19:10
  are
• 19:10
  usually
• 19:10
  the
• 19:10
  moments
• 19:11
  when
• 19:11
  I've
• 19:11
  just
• 19:12
  been
• 19:12
  asking
• 19:12
  myself
• 19:13
  the
• 19:13
  wrong
• 19:13
  questions.
• 19:14
  You
• 19:14
  know,
• 19:15
  the
• 19:15
  low
• 19:15
  vibration
• 19:16
  kind
• 19:16
  that
• 19:17
  just
• 19:17
  keep
• 19:17
  you
• 19:17
  stuck
• 19:19
  The
• 19:19
  Main
• 19:19
  character
• 19:20
  Energy
• 19:20
  Journal
• 19:21
  Prompts
• 19:21
  create
• 19:22
  that
• 19:22
  space.
• 19:23
  They
• 19:23
  help
• 19:23
  you
• 19:23
  get
• 19:24
  quiet
• 19:24
  enough
• 19:25
  to
• 19:25
  hear
• 19:25
  yourself
• 19:25
  clearly
• 19:26
  and
• 19:27
  ask
• 19:27
  the
• 19:27
  kind
• 19:28
  of
• 19:28
  questions
• 19:28
  that
• 19:28
  actually
• 19:29
  move
• 19:29
  you
• 19:29
  forward.
• 19:30
  Connecting
• 19:31
  you
• 19:31
  back
• 19:32
  to
• 19:32
  yourself,
• 19:33
  and
• 19:33
  reminding
• 19:34
  you
• 19:34
  of
• 19:34
  who
• 19:35
  you
• 19:35
  actually
• 19:35
  are,
• 19:36
  not
• 19:37
  who
• 19:37
  you've
• 19:37
  been
• 19:37
  performing
• 19:38
  to
• 19:38
  be.
• 19:39
  I've
• 19:39
  linked
• 19:39
  them
• 19:40
  for
• 19:40
  you
• 19:40
  down
• 19:40
  below
• 19:41
  in
• 19:41
  the
• 19:41
  show
• 19:41
  notes
• 19:42
  and
• 19:42
  friend,
• 19:43
  I
• 19:43
  think
• 19:43
  you're
• 19:44
  ready.
• 19:46
  Okay,
• 19:47
  friend,
• 19:47
  it's
• 19:47
  time
• 19:48
  for
• 19:48
  our
• 19:48
  favorite,
• 19:49
  the
• 19:49
  Self
• 19:50
  Love
• 19:50
  two
• 19:51
  step
• 19:51
  with
• 19:52
  the
• 19:52
  remix,
• 19:54
  and
• 19:54
  we
• 19:54
  are
• 19:55
  just
• 19:55
  gonna
• 19:55
  jump
• 19:55
  right
• 19:56
  into
• 19:56
  it.
• 19:56
  Okay.
• 19:57
  Step
• 19:57
  one.
• 19:58
  Is
• 19:59
  the
• 19:59
  open
• 20:00
  hand
• 20:01
  practice
• 20:02
  every
• 20:02
  single
• 20:03
  time
• 20:03
  today
• 20:04
  that
• 20:04
  you
• 20:04
  feel
• 20:05
  that
• 20:05
  urge
• 20:05
  to
• 20:05
  control.
• 20:07
  I
• 20:07
  want
• 20:07
  you
• 20:07
  to
• 20:08
  physically
• 20:09
  open
• 20:09
  your
• 20:09
  hands,
• 20:10
  even
• 20:11
  if
• 20:11
  it's
• 20:11
  just
• 20:11
  for
• 20:12
  a
• 20:12
  few
• 20:12
  seconds
• 20:13
  and
• 20:14
  say,
• 20:14
  this
• 20:15
  is
• 20:15
  mine
• 20:16
  to
• 20:16
  co-create,
• 20:17
  not
• 20:18
  to
• 20:18
  control.
• 20:19
  And
• 20:19
  do
• 20:19
  that
• 20:20
  as
• 20:20
  many
• 20:20
  times
• 20:20
  as
• 20:21
  you
• 20:21
  need
• 20:21
  to.
• 20:22
  That
• 20:22
  physical
• 20:23
  act
• 20:23
  of
• 20:24
  opening
• 20:24
  your
• 20:24
  hands
• 20:25
  is
• 20:25
  you
• 20:26
  allowing
• 20:27
  and
• 20:27
  being
• 20:28
  ready
• 20:28
  to
• 20:29
  receive.
• 20:30
  Step
• 20:30
  two.
• 20:31
  The
• 20:31
  one
• 20:32
  thing,
• 20:33
  write
• 20:33
  down
• 20:33
  the
• 20:34
  one
• 20:34
  thing
• 20:35
  you
• 20:35
  are
• 20:35
  co-creating,
• 20:37
  not
• 20:37
  controlling.
• 20:38
  Starting
• 20:38
  today,
• 20:39
  just
• 20:40
  one.
• 20:40
  Okay?
• 20:41
  And
• 20:41
  next
• 20:42
  to
• 20:42
  it,
• 20:42
  write.
• 20:43
  One
• 20:43
  action.
• 20:44
  That
• 20:44
  is
• 20:45
  your
• 20:45
  part
• 20:46
  of
• 20:46
  the
• 20:46
  co-creation.
• 20:47
  Just
• 20:48
  yours.
• 20:48
  Okay.
• 20:49
  Not
• 20:49
  God's
• 20:50
  part.
• 20:50
  We
• 20:50
  not
• 20:50
  mine
• 20:51
  and
• 20:51
  his
• 20:51
  business.
• 20:54
  Not
• 20:54
  anybody
• 20:54
  else's
• 20:55
  part.
• 20:55
  Okay.
• 20:56
  Just
• 20:56
  yours.
• 20:57
  And
• 20:57
  do
• 20:57
  that
• 20:58
  one
• 20:58
  thing
• 20:58
  today.
• 20:59
  And
• 20:59
  then
• 20:59
  step
• 21:00
  three
• 21:00
  is
• 21:01
  the
• 21:01
  YOU
• 21:01
  step.
• 21:02
  You
• 21:02
  get
• 21:03
  still,
• 21:04
  you
• 21:04
  get
• 21:04
  quiet
• 21:05
  and
• 21:05
  you
• 21:05
  ask
• 21:06
  yourself,
• 21:07
  what
• 21:07
  is
• 21:07
  my
• 21:07
  heart
• 21:08
  telling
• 21:08
  me
• 21:09
  to
• 21:09
  do
• 21:10
  next?
• 21:10
  Because
• 21:11
  whatever
• 21:11
  comes
• 21:12
  up,
• 21:13
  that
• 21:13
  is
• 21:14
  your
• 21:14
  next
• 21:15
  right
• 21:15
  aligned
• 21:16
  step.
• 21:17
  You
• 21:17
  never
• 21:17
  needed
• 21:18
  the
• 21:18
  whole
• 21:18
  plan,
• 21:19
  just
• 21:19
  the
• 21:19
  next
• 21:20
  move.
• 21:20
  Trust
• 21:21
  her
• 21:21
  friend.
• 21:22
  She
• 21:22
  already
• 21:23
  knows.
• 21:24
  Ooh,
• 21:25
  friend.
• 21:25
  Now
• 21:25
  lemme
• 21:26
  pour
• 21:26
  into
• 21:26
  you
• 21:27
  real
• 21:27
  quick.
• 21:28
  Okay.
• 21:28
  Listen,
• 21:29
  I
• 21:29
  know
• 21:30
  you
• 21:30
  might
• 21:30
  be
• 21:30
  sitting
• 21:31
  there
• 21:31
  thinking,
• 21:31
  listen,
• 21:32
  but
• 21:33
  Letitia,
• 21:33
  if
• 21:34
  I
• 21:34
  let
• 21:34
  go
• 21:34
  of
• 21:35
  the
• 21:35
  how,
• 21:36
  what
• 21:36
  if
• 21:36
  nothing
• 21:36
  happens?
• 21:37
  What
• 21:38
  if
• 21:38
  letting
• 21:38
  go
• 21:39
  is
• 21:39
  the
• 21:39
  same
• 21:40
  as
• 21:41
  giving
• 21:41
  up?
• 21:42
  And
• 21:42
  I
• 21:42
  really
• 21:42
  want
• 21:43
  to
• 21:43
  address
• 21:43
  this
• 21:44
  because
• 21:45
  letting
• 21:45
  go
• 21:46
  of
• 21:46
  the
• 21:46
  how
• 21:47
  is
• 21:47
  not
• 21:48
  the
• 21:48
  same
• 21:49
  as
• 21:49
  giving
• 21:49
  up
• 21:49
  on
• 21:50
  your
• 21:50
  dream.
• 21:51
  Let
• 21:51
  me
• 21:52
  make
• 21:52
  that
• 21:52
  plane.
• 21:53
  You
• 21:53
  show
• 21:54
  up,
• 21:54
  you
• 21:55
  still
• 21:55
  do
• 21:55
  your
• 21:55
  part
• 21:56
  1000%.
• 21:58
  You
• 21:58
  still
• 21:59
  take
• 22:00
  the
• 22:00
  steps,
• 22:01
  you
• 22:01
  still
• 22:01
  do
• 22:02
  the
• 22:02
  work.
• 22:03
  Because
• 22:03
  we
• 22:03
  all
• 22:03
  know
• 22:04
  faith
• 22:04
  without
• 22:04
  works
• 22:05
  is
• 22:05
  dead.
• 22:08
  The
• 22:08
  difference
• 22:08
  is
• 22:09
  you
• 22:10
  have
• 22:10
  been
• 22:10
  locked
• 22:10
  into
• 22:11
  a
• 22:11
  belief
• 22:12
  that
• 22:12
  doesn't
• 22:13
  serve
• 22:13
  you,
• 22:14
  that
• 22:14
  your
• 22:15
  vision
• 22:15
  of
• 22:15
  how
• 22:16
  it's
• 22:16
  supposed
• 22:16
  to
• 22:16
  unfold
• 22:17
  is
• 22:18
  the
• 22:18
  only
• 22:19
  acceptable
• 22:20
  version
• 22:21
  and
• 22:21
  friend.
• 22:22
  That's
• 22:22
  just
• 22:23
  not
• 22:23
  true.
• 22:24
  When
• 22:24
  you
• 22:24
  have
• 22:25
  not
• 22:25
  decided
• 22:26
  to
• 22:26
  trust
• 22:27
  the
• 22:27
  process
• 22:28
  ahead
• 22:28
  of
• 22:28
  the
• 22:28
  results,
• 22:30
  when
• 22:30
  you
• 22:30
  have
• 22:30
  not
• 22:31
  decided
• 22:32
  to
• 22:32
  trust
• 22:32
  yourself,
• 22:33
  that
• 22:34
  you
• 22:34
  will
• 22:34
  do
• 22:34
  your
• 22:35
  part
• 22:35
  and
• 22:36
  still
• 22:36
  allow
• 22:38
  the
• 22:38
  beauty
• 22:38
  of
• 22:38
  life
• 22:39
  to
• 22:39
  unfold
• 22:40
  in
• 22:40
  the
• 22:40
  ways
• 22:41
  beyond
• 22:41
  your
• 22:41
  comprehension.
• 22:43
  You
• 22:43
  miss
• 22:44
  it.
• 22:44
  You
• 22:45
  miss
• 22:45
  the
• 22:45
  surprise,
• 22:46
  the
• 22:46
  delight,
• 22:47
  and
• 22:47
  the
• 22:47
  version
• 22:48
  of
• 22:48
  your
• 22:48
  dream.
• 22:50
  That
• 22:50
  was
• 22:50
  always
• 22:51
  better
• 22:52
  than
• 22:52
  the
• 22:52
  one
• 22:53
  you
• 22:53
  scripted
• 22:54
  And
• 22:55
  friend,
• 22:55
  let's
• 22:56
  not
• 22:56
  skip
• 22:56
  this
• 22:56
  part,
• 22:57
  okay?
• 22:57
  Because
• 22:57
  your
• 22:57
  way
• 22:58
  is
• 22:58
  good.
• 22:59
  Your
• 23:00
  way
• 23:00
  is
• 23:00
  also
• 23:02
  an
• 23:02
  option.
• 23:03
  I'm
• 23:03
  not
• 23:03
  dismissing
• 23:04
  your
• 23:04
  vision
• 23:05
  or
• 23:05
  your
• 23:05
  plan,
• 23:06
  but
• 23:06
  hear
• 23:07
  me
• 23:07
  with
• 23:07
  your
• 23:07
  whole
• 23:08
  heart
• 23:09
  when
• 23:09
  I
• 23:09
  say
• 23:09
  this.
• 23:10
  There
• 23:10
  is
• 23:11
  more
• 23:11
  than
• 23:12
  one
• 23:12
  way.
• 23:13
  There
• 23:13
  is
• 23:13
  definitely
• 23:14
  more
• 23:14
  than
• 23:14
  your
• 23:15
  way.
• 23:15
  There
• 23:16
  are
• 23:16
  infinite
• 23:18
  ways,
• 23:18
  infinite
• 23:19
  possibilities,
• 23:21
  and
• 23:21
  the
• 23:21
  most
• 23:22
  magical
• 23:23
  things
• 23:23
  in
• 23:23
  your
• 23:24
  life.
• 23:24
  The
• 23:25
  things
• 23:25
  you
• 23:25
  will
• 23:25
  look
• 23:26
  back
• 23:26
  on
• 23:26
  and
• 23:27
  say,
• 23:28
  I
• 23:28
  could
• 23:28
  have
• 23:28
  never
• 23:29
  planned
• 23:29
  that
• 23:30
  those
• 23:30
  things
• 23:31
  happened
• 23:32
  because
• 23:32
  you
• 23:33
  left
• 23:33
  your
• 23:33
  hands.
• 23:34
  Open
• 23:36
  long
• 23:36
  enough
• 23:36
  to
• 23:36
  receive
• 23:37
  them.
• 23:38
  Grant
• 23:38
  yourself
• 23:39
  permission
• 23:40
  to
• 23:40
  put
• 23:41
  how
• 23:41
  it's
• 23:41
  supposed
• 23:42
  to
• 23:42
  happen
• 23:43
  down,
• 23:44
  not
• 23:45
  tomorrow,
• 23:45
  not
• 23:46
  after
• 23:46
  you
• 23:46
  figured
• 23:47
  out
• 23:47
  a
• 23:47
  backup
• 23:47
  plan.
• 23:48
  Okay,
• 23:50
  but
• 23:50
  right
• 23:50
  now.
• 23:52
  You
• 23:52
  have
• 23:53
  permission
• 23:53
  to
• 23:54
  stop
• 23:54
  needing
• 23:55
  to
• 23:55
  know
• 23:55
  how
• 23:56
  it's
• 23:57
  going
• 23:57
  to
• 23:57
  happen
• 23:58
  before
• 23:59
  you
• 23:59
  can
• 23:59
  still
• 24:00
  believe
• 24:01
  that
• 24:01
  it
• 24:01
  will.
• 24:02
  You
• 24:02
  have
• 24:03
  permission
• 24:03
  to
• 24:04
  let
• 24:04
  life
• 24:04
  surprise
• 24:05
  and
• 24:05
  delight
• 24:06
  you.
• 24:07
  You
• 24:07
  don't
• 24:07
  have
• 24:08
  to
• 24:08
  force
• 24:09
  what's
• 24:09
  for
• 24:10
  you,
• 24:10
  your
• 24:11
  preferences
• 24:11
  and
• 24:12
  vision.
• 24:12
  All
• 24:13
  of
• 24:13
  it's
• 24:13
  real
• 24:14
  and
• 24:14
  there
• 24:14
  is
• 24:15
  room
• 24:15
  for
• 24:15
  all
• 24:16
  of
• 24:16
  the
• 24:17
  pieces
• 24:17
  and
• 24:18
  parts
• 24:18
  to
• 24:19
  come
• 24:19
  together
• 24:20
  without
• 24:21
  any
• 24:21
  of
• 24:21
  them
• 24:22
  becoming
• 24:23
  a
• 24:23
  cage.
• 24:24
  You
• 24:24
  have
• 24:25
  a
• 24:25
  very
• 24:25
  important
• 24:26
  part
• 24:26
  to
• 24:27
  do
• 24:27
  your
• 24:28
  actual
• 24:28
  job,
• 24:29
  the
• 24:29
  one
• 24:30
  that
• 24:30
  has
• 24:30
  always
• 24:31
  been
• 24:31
  yours
• 24:32
  in
• 24:32
  those
• 24:32
  three
• 24:32
  things.
• 24:33
  Hold
• 24:34
  the
• 24:34
  vision,
• 24:34
  touch
• 24:35
  the
• 24:35
  dream
• 24:35
  daily.
• 24:36
  Believe
• 24:37
  you
• 24:38
  are
• 24:38
  moving
• 24:38
  towards
• 24:39
  it.
• 24:39
  Science
• 24:40
  backs
• 24:40
  up.
• 24:41
  Every
• 24:41
  single
• 24:42
  one,
• 24:42
  your
• 24:43
  brain
• 24:43
  is
• 24:43
  being
• 24:44
  trained
• 24:44
  by
• 24:44
  the
• 24:44
  consistency
• 24:46
  of
• 24:46
  your
• 24:46
  belief
• 24:47
  and
• 24:47
  your
• 24:48
  daily
• 24:48
  connection
• 24:49
  to
• 24:49
  what
• 24:49
  you're
• 24:50
  moving
• 24:50
  towards.
• 24:51
  Open
• 24:52
  your
• 24:52
  hands,
• 24:52
  friend.
• 24:53
  That's
• 24:54
  the
• 24:54
  posture.
• 24:55
  Dream
• 24:55
  boldly
• 24:56
  hold
• 24:57
  tightly
• 24:58
  but
• 24:58
  loosely.
• 24:59
  I
• 24:59
  really
• 24:59
  need
• 24:59
  to
• 24:59
  figure
• 25:00
  out
• 25:00
  who
• 25:00
  said
• 25:00
  that
• 25:00
  'cause
• 25:00
  I
• 25:01
  say
• 25:01
  it
• 25:01
  a
• 25:01
  lot.
• 25:04
  And
• 25:04
  remember
• 25:05
  the
• 25:05
  how
• 25:06
  is
• 25:06
  handled
• 25:08
  it
• 25:08
  always
• 25:08
  was.
• 25:10
  and
• 25:10
  listen,
• 25:11
  friend,
• 25:11
  the
• 25:11
  next
• 25:12
  episode
• 25:13
  that's
• 25:13
  coming,
• 25:14
  it's
• 25:14
  a
• 25:14
  milestone,
• 25:15
  episode
• 25:15
  300.
• 25:16
  We're
• 25:17
  gonna
• 25:17
  be
• 25:17
  talking
• 25:17
  about
• 25:18
  how
• 25:18
  to
• 25:18
  encourage
• 25:19
  yourself
• 25:20
  when
• 25:20
  nobody
• 25:20
  else
• 25:20
  is
• 25:21
  in
• 25:21
  the
• 25:21
  room,
• 25:22
  and
• 25:22
  I
• 25:22
  can't
• 25:23
  wait
• 25:23
  to
• 25:23
  share
• 25:24
  it
• 25:24
  with
• 25:24
  you.
• 25:25
  Friend,
• 25:25
  I
• 25:25
  love
• 25:26
  you
• 25:26
  so
• 25:26
  much.
• 25:27
  This
• 25:27
  one
• 25:28
  might've
• 25:28
  been
• 25:28
  a
• 25:28
  heavy
• 25:29
  hitter,
• 25:30
  so
• 25:31
  I
• 25:31
  really
• 25:31
  thank
• 25:32
  you
• 25:32
  for
• 25:32
  being
• 25:33
  here
• 25:33
  with
• 25:33
  me
• 25:33
  today,
• 25:34
  connecting
• 25:35
  to
• 25:35
  your
• 25:36
  heart
• 25:36
  in
• 25:36
  this
• 25:37
  super
• 25:38
  impactful
• 25:39
  way.
• 25:40
  Stay
• 25:40
  focused
• 25:41
  in
• 25:41
  on
• 25:42
  your
• 25:42
  job
• 25:43
  and
• 25:43
  allow
• 25:44
  God
• 25:45
  source
• 25:45
  the
• 25:45
  universe
• 25:46
  to
• 25:46
  do
• 25:47
  they
• 25:47
  thing.
• 25:47
  Okay?
• 25:51
  Now
• 25:51
  go
• 25:51
  find
• 25:52
  a
• 25:52
  woman
• 25:52
  in
• 25:52
  your
• 25:52
  life
• 25:53
  who
• 25:53
  you
• 25:53
  know
• 25:54
  is
• 25:54
  exhausted
• 25:55
  from
• 25:56
  trying
• 25:56
  to
• 25:57
  figure
• 25:57
  out
• 25:57
  how
• 25:58
  this
• 25:58
  is
• 25:58
  all
• 25:58
  supposed
• 25:58
  to
• 25:58
  unfold
• 26:00
  and
• 26:00
  send
• 26:01
  her
• 26:01
  this
• 26:01
  episode.
• 26:02
  Okay?
• 26:03
  No
• 26:03
  notes.
• 26:04
  Just
• 26:04
  send
• 26:04
  it.
• 26:05
  She
• 26:05
  too
• 26:05
  needs
• 26:06
  permission
• 26:06
  to
• 26:07
  put
• 26:07
  it
• 26:07
  down
• 26:07
  today
• 26:09
  and
• 26:09
  then
• 26:09
  come
• 26:09
  continue
• 26:10
  this
• 26:10
  conversation
• 26:11
  with
• 26:11
  me
• 26:11
  over
• 26:11
  on
• 26:12
  YouTube
• 26:12
  and
• 26:12
  drop
• 26:13
  me
• 26:13
  a
• 26:13
  comment.
• 26:14
  Tell
• 26:14
  me
• 26:15
  what,
• 26:15
  how
• 26:16
  are
• 26:16
  you
• 26:17
  ready
• 26:17
  to
• 26:17
  release
• 26:18
  today?
• 26:19
  I
• 26:19
  wanna
• 26:20
  know
• 26:20
  friend,
• 26:20
  and
• 26:20
  I
• 26:20
  can't
• 26:21
  wait
• 26:22
  to
• 26:22
  celebrate
• 26:23
  with
• 26:23
  you
• 26:23
  there.
• 26:24
  Let
• 26:24
  me
• 26:24
  go
• 26:24
  ahead
• 26:25
  and,
• 26:25
  uh,
• 26:25
  fix
• 26:26
  that
• 26:26
  crown
• 26:26
  right
• 26:27
  quick.
• 26:27
  Okay,
• 26:27
  queen,
• 26:29
  because
• 26:30
  that's
• 26:30
  what
• 26:30
  we
• 26:30
  do
• 26:30
  around
• 26:31
  here.
• 26:31
  We
• 26:32
  fix
• 26:32
  each
• 26:32
  other's
• 26:33
  crown
• 26:34
  all
• 26:34
  because
• 26:35
  together
• 26:35
  we
• 26:36
  can
• 26:36
  encourage
• 26:37
  over
• 26:38
  everything.
• 26:39
  I'll
• 26:40
  see
• 26:40
  you
• 26:40
  in
• 26:41
  the
• 26:41
  next
• 26:41
  episode.