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195. Gemini × Sagittarius: The Chaotic Best-Friend Duo the Zodiac Warned You About 😈🌶️ · She Rises with Ashy & Tijana

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  Speaker 1: Apogee Production. Welcome to the She Rises Podcast. I'm Ashi
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  Speaker 1: and I'm Tiana.
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  Speaker 2: This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to
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  Speaker 1: everyone else is too afraid to talk about.
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  Speaker 2: Get ready for your next level of self.
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  Speaker 1: Hello everybody, have you Wednesday? And welcome back to she Writes.
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  Speaker 1: It's good of a fun episode today and one of
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  Speaker 1: our main questions that comes through is like where do
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  Speaker 1: we meet? How does our friendship work? Do we have
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  Speaker 1: any flaws? And we love our friendship? How we met,
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  Speaker 1: the story, how everything's evolved, how we communicate, how much
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  Speaker 1: fun we always have, how safe we feel? We feel
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  Speaker 1: that we know that both thought we'd naice chat GPT
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  Speaker 1: about our star signs because we're so big on star
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  Speaker 1: signs at the moment. It shows so much about personality
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  Speaker 1: and why it works.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're sending each other stuff all the time for
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  Speaker 2: both of our star science and then whenever anything comes
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  Speaker 2: up with Gemini and saj, which is who we are.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a Gemini as she's a saggy Yes, Sagittarius, and
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  Speaker 2: we just love the way that it works, and so
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  Speaker 2: when we see it together, we're like, oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 2: this is why it works so much. This is exactly
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  Speaker 2: what we feel. So we thought we'd bring it into
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  Speaker 2: an episode today.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm going to be reading a lot of the
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  Speaker 1: notes of what chat to BT said, and we encourage
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  Speaker 1: you to do this with your best friend. I also
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  Speaker 1: did it with Steve, so he's a Libra. We have
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  Speaker 1: a great message too with Steve, myself and Tiana, and
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  Speaker 1: sometimes you send each other things and it's just super
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  Speaker 1: interesting because a lot of the traits of like say,
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  Speaker 1: with Steve Libra, I'm like, oh, that makes sense because
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  Speaker 1: he behaves like that or he thinks that or he
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  Speaker 1: believes that. But my Sagittarian's like, ooh no, I do
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  Speaker 1: it like this. And you can see where you clash
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  Speaker 1: and where it also really works. So Gemini and Sagittarius,
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  Speaker 1: the chaotic best friend duo the zodiac signs warned you about.
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  Speaker 1: They're very similar. Actually, Sagittarians and Geminis. We both value freedom,
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  Speaker 1: we're both quite spicy. You're a air sign, I'm a
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  Speaker 1: fire sign. Both don't like being told what to do.
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  Speaker 1: You can put us in a box. They say you
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  Speaker 1: have commitment issues, which you do relate to.
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  Speaker 2: Something I do relate to in some but like if
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  Speaker 2: I'm all in, then it's a different story. Yes, but
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  Speaker 2: that doesn't I don't feel like that's happened very often.
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  Speaker 1: No, You've got like twenty seven personalities.
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  Speaker 2: That's at least minimum.
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  Speaker 1: Geminis change their mind a lot.
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  Speaker 2: People would think it's indecisive, but I just I like variety. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and that's also something else we both love variety.
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  Speaker 1: Variety is huge. Although I feel like makes this Gemini
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  Speaker 1: and she changes her mind a lot, like different projects,
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  Speaker 1: what she wants to do, and how she wants to
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  Speaker 1: run a business. Do you feel like that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say I used to be more like
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  Speaker 2: that past. Now I feel more disciplined in my know
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  Speaker 2: whereas like, I feel like that has really helped me.
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  Speaker 2: I've had to learn how to have internal boundaries with
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  Speaker 2: myself to not jump from thing to thing. Yeah, especially
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  Speaker 2: even in relationships and stuff like that. Yeah, so that's
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  Speaker 2: definitely showed up for me before as well. But I
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  Speaker 2: think now if I do have multiple projects, that comes
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  Speaker 2: from a place of design and want and like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: do I have the capacity to do?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so that traits not relatable, will ignore that part,
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  Speaker 1: cut that out. No, I'm kidding. Sagittarians, we love freedom
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  Speaker 1: of variety as well. We're very brutally honest, to the
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  Speaker 1: point that sometimes people think we're quite harsh or aggressive,
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  Speaker 1: but would just kind of say how it is, don't
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  Speaker 1: think before we speak, which I definitely relate to, and
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  Speaker 1: something I've tried to learn over these to like hold
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  Speaker 1: back or take a breath before I respond.
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  Speaker 2: That's a fire.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's definitely a fire in me. And I've always
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  Speaker 1: kind of not liked my fire because growing up people
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  Speaker 1: have said it's too much or too loud, too aggressive.
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  Speaker 1: But then I remember coach Ronce sent to me. He's like,
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't be able to get up on stage in
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  Speaker 1: front of two thousand women if you didn't have that fire.
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  Speaker 1: So true, that's what everyone loves about you, Like, don't
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  Speaker 1: ever dim that, and the right people will put more
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  Speaker 1: fuel into your flames, like yeah, bigger, I know that.
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  Speaker 1: That's such a cool description. Yeah, very fiery, but they're
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  Speaker 1: very compatible Jeminis and Zacharians, and like most of the
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  Speaker 1: people in my life are geminis. Crazy. My mum's a virgo,
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  Speaker 1: Steve's a Libra. Taj is also a Libra, but Tala's
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  Speaker 1: a Gemini and it's cool as well.
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  Speaker 2: Geminis are like ideas girls, and then Sagittarians are vision girls.
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  Speaker 2: So when we come together and what we've learned just
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  Speaker 2: to chatch Ebt and also the way that we work
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  Speaker 2: is like we bring our strength together and then it
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  Speaker 2: creates something really beautiful together expands, Yeah, which is what
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  Speaker 2: thows up what we've seen inside Chee rises.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, we also trigger a lot of people. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: we're very open, honest deray how it is to.
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  Speaker 2: Evolved, Yeah, I would say unapologetic as well to some degree,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes that certainty that I find you
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  Speaker 2: and I both have like is triggering for people. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, always comes from a good place. Hey for sure,
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  Speaker 1: she reads some of this out. Absolutely. It's even given
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  Speaker 1: us ratings, so overall compatibility nine out of ten. Both
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  Speaker 1: our mutual signs mean they crave change, adventure and new experiences.
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  Speaker 1: Is why I can't live in a house longer than
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  Speaker 1: three years. This creates an easy flowing connection built on
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  Speaker 1: shared curiosity humor, and exploration. They're both lifelong learners who
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  Speaker 1: hate stagnation, and when together, their energy feels alive, witty,
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  Speaker 1: and constantly evolving.
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  Speaker 2: Very true those last three things, alive, witty, and constantly evolving.
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  Speaker 2: I love that.
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  Speaker 1: So the next part is the vibe.
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  Speaker 2: So Gemini rules air, which is ideas said that before,
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  Speaker 2: conversation and flexibility, and Sagittarius rules fire, which is passion,
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  Speaker 2: adventure and philosophy. Together, air feels fire. Gemini adds sparkly
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  Speaker 2: mental stimulation to sajiz big picture energy, while Sagittarius pushes
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  Speaker 2: Gemini to expand beyond small talk and into real wisdom.
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  Speaker 2: This duo can talk for hours, travel the world together,
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  Speaker 2: and hype each other up into trying new wild things.
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  Speaker 2: It's the kind of friendship that feels like endless summer nights, spontaneous,
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  Speaker 2: slightly chaotic but unforgettable.
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  Speaker 1: Yo, where the juror that walks in they go, oh fuck,
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  Speaker 1: there's two of them.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, And this feels really true to the talking
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  Speaker 2: for hours, gap all the time, not love to travel together,
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  Speaker 2: and we definitely hype each other up into constant We
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  Speaker 2: hype each other up into new adventures. But things that
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  Speaker 2: expand us.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: True, they're very big on experience.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, aren't we Ever, we're always planning the next trip.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Where they clash because they mirror each other's restlessness, This
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  Speaker 1: friendship can easily swing between deep connection and emotional distance. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't felt that yet.
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  Speaker 2: No, neither of I.
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  Speaker 1: Gemini's curiosity can scatter, and Sagitario's freedom can make them flaky.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if I relate to that. Oh, describe
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  Speaker 1: me as flaky, would you? I'll be honest, I'm like, yes, no,
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  Speaker 1: just kidding. No, I don't find it makes you flaky.
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  Speaker 1: I think your freedom.
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  Speaker 2: Pulls you in the direction in where you want to go,
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  Speaker 2: so you will follow that. You will follow where your
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  Speaker 2: freedom wants to take you do this, you'll go over there.
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  Speaker 2: If you want to do something, you do you know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: I won't go somewhere because society tells me to go somewhere.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, like, no, I want to go and based on
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  Speaker 2: what you want to do, you'll do it. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean. I wouldn't call that flaky. And
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  Speaker 2: in terms of the curiosity and it can scatter, furious human,
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  Speaker 2: I definitely am a very curious human. Always have been.
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  Speaker 2: But in terms of it making me scattered, I can
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  Speaker 2: understand why, because I can get too excited of too
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  Speaker 2: many ideas because I'm like, oh, but this is a
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  Speaker 2: good idea, This is a good idea. There have been
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  Speaker 2: a couple of times in business where you've had to
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  Speaker 2: ground me and they'd be like, oh, but what about
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  Speaker 2: this or should we think.
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  Speaker 1: About that first? Well, let's finish this project and then
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  Speaker 1: we'll move on to that.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yea.
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  Speaker 1: Sagittari's values blunt honesty, while geminized adaptability sometimes looks inconsistent
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  Speaker 1: or avoidant. I definitely value blunt honesty. I don't like
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  Speaker 1: when people tiptoe around the fucking bush, like, just tell
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  Speaker 1: me how it is. Yeah, I need you to tell
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  Speaker 1: me a three minute voice message about something like just
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  Speaker 1: get straight to the point and be honest about it.
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  Speaker 1: Or you know when someone you can feel their upset
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  Speaker 1: and then they're like, oh, no, it'll be okay. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: just tell me they're upset.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, just be honest with me, tell me what Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: straight up, that's true. And I find you're very direct
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  Speaker 2: and honest yourself, Like, be direct in what it is
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  Speaker 2: that you want. What is that you need. You're very
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  Speaker 2: open in that sense, so I can see why when
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  Speaker 2: somebody doesn't give it back.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, also, I'm not for everyone, Like I'm not
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  Speaker 1: everyone's cup of tea. I think I am quite a
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  Speaker 1: strong personality and I am brutally honest. I think it
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  Speaker 1: can feel a lot for some people. But I'm also
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  Speaker 1: not here to be everyone's cup of tea.
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  Speaker 2: Like, IM okay with that.
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  Speaker 1: I think I used to try to be, but that's
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  Speaker 1: when I wasn't being authentic. I was trying to be
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  Speaker 1: the nice girl, the cool girl, the quiet girl, like
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  Speaker 1: the people please are like, I'll say yes to everything,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, that's fucking exhausting.
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  Speaker 2: Trying to dampen your fire.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like now I just like this is who I am. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the love me or hate me, and that's okay. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: used to that.
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  Speaker 2: And you also do your fire in a respectful way too,
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  Speaker 2: like you're being bitchy. Yeah yeah, it's like it's brought
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  Speaker 2: out in a really positive way.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so too. Gemini's adaptability sometimes look inconsistent or avoidant.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think that with you.
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  Speaker 2: I definitely can see how my adaptability can look inconsistent
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  Speaker 2: because I do find that I can. I used to
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  Speaker 2: really be a big chameleon, and I can find myself
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  Speaker 2: adapting to different personalities and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 1: But I around certain people. Yes, yes, I think I've
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  Speaker 1: noticed that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can definitely do that. But I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I match the energy of people. But I still, now
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  Speaker 2: at this point in my life, feel more consistent and
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  Speaker 2: certain in myself, so that I have like a grounded rock.
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  Speaker 2: Whereas before I would literally mold to other people because
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  Speaker 2: I didn't get strong in myself inconsistency, I don't feel
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  Speaker 2: that now I used to and avoidant. I would feel
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  Speaker 2: like I'm pretty neutral.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't avoidant.
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  Speaker 2: I actually feel like I lean in more than I
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  Speaker 2: lean out.
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  Speaker 1: Yesh. I think so as well. If one feels judged
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  Speaker 1: or boxed in, they'll disappear fus. Yeah, I don't like
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  Speaker 1: being boxed Look, I'll agree with that. I don't like
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  Speaker 1: to feel that. But I think that's why Gemini and
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  Speaker 1: Saturtois work so well. As because we're both the same,
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  Speaker 1: we wouldn't try to box each other or tell each
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  Speaker 1: other to be a certain way. It's like almost the opposite.
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  Speaker 1: It's like more of you, more, louder, more opinionated.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you really think, Yeah, like there's so much space
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  Speaker 2: for growth, yes, and for like how we truly think
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  Speaker 2: and feel.
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  Speaker 1: There's no boxy. I don't think the dynamic would work
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  Speaker 1: if one of us try to do that to each other.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I think even from the get go, let's say,
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  Speaker 2: like take it back a couple of years when I
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  Speaker 2: was in that relationship and you were like, Babe, your
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  Speaker 2: wings are just like clipped a little bit, Like I
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  Speaker 2: want you to be able to spread your wings and
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  Speaker 2: be all of yourself. So even from the get go,
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  Speaker 2: the cadence of our friendship was literally like I want
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  Speaker 2: you to be the biggest version of yourself. And then
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  Speaker 2: when you would bring in your fire and you apologize
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  Speaker 2: for it, I'd be like, Babe, I don't ever want
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  Speaker 2: to hear you apologize for that. I want more of that. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So I think that's cool.
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  Speaker 1: That's just so true, isn't it.
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  Speaker 2: The permission to be all of who we are?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: A lot of that here.
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  Speaker 1: Even when you're coming on the podcast, the Tiana that
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  Speaker 1: I saw behind the scenes, I was like, bring her on. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think she's lots of fun. Yeah, tell her stories,
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  Speaker 1: like the depth of her rather than who you thought
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  Speaker 1: you needed to be seeing as coach. Oh yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: been really cool to watch you the last twelve months,
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  Speaker 1: like just being more comfortable with who you are.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely show you that I feel that playful personality.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like they need to like perform, like obviously
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  Speaker 2: I still have moments of it and stuff like that,
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  Speaker 2: but I don't feel like I need to present myself
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  Speaker 2: a certain way. This podcast especially, and like your support
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  Speaker 2: as a friend has really helped me be like the
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  Speaker 2: fuck take it or leave it? Yeah you know, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: love me for who I am.
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  Speaker 1: So to balance, Gemini learns to go deeper and commit
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  Speaker 1: to shared growth. Sagittarius learns to listen without lecturing and
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  Speaker 1: honor geminized different variety. Oh the lecturing. Yeah, I'm calling
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  Speaker 1: myself out here. I definitely have done that in the past.
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  Speaker 1: I try not to now, or like even Bef, we're
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  Speaker 1: talking about relationship, like we did it last night and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, don't let me when I'm saying influence
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  Speaker 1: you take it with a fucking grain of salt. But
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  Speaker 1: he's too young. Yeah, x y Z.
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  Speaker 2: Like bring, it's true. She's not wrong, she's not wrong.
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  Speaker 2: It's not a lecturer, if it's true.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm aware of that lecturing thing, and I've done
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  Speaker 1: it with Steve too, and I do it with Taj
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  Speaker 1: times as well. I'm super aware of it now, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to not do it like that.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you can. I feel like you in
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  Speaker 2: any times that you have felt that you have done it,
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  Speaker 2: you've clocked it and put it in and be like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: I realize that maybe I could have.
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  Speaker 1: To take it. Calm down, she said, out of energy. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it does got a lot to say. I was not calm.
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  Speaker 2: And then Gemini learns to go deeper and commit to
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  Speaker 2: shared growth. I feel like I like to go deep,
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  Speaker 2: but I also like a deep deep I do, I
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  Speaker 2: really do. It's been a dry spell guy.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, everything gets turned sexual these days.
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  Speaker 2: So I do find that I go deep, but I
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  Speaker 2: also can see how when I'm in my very playful
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  Speaker 2: mode it's not as deep.
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  Speaker 1: But that's fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Both, I feel like I can do both. I like
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  Speaker 1: that because sometimes you don't always want to go deep.
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  Speaker 1: I want to just have playful, silly fun and act
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  Speaker 1: like five year olds. Yes, you know, I do like that.
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  Speaker 2: And then the commitment to shared growth I feel like,
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  Speaker 2: for a really long time, I always thought that has
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  Speaker 2: to do life on my own. And also I've had
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  Speaker 2: that committal energy of like, oh, like fear of abandonment,
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  Speaker 2: so I just wouldn't attach super close and then, you know,
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  Speaker 2: because I'd be scared of loss or whatever. But I
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  Speaker 2: don't feel that anymore.
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  Speaker 1: So that's cool.
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  Speaker 2: The best part of the bond go ashy.
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  Speaker 1: They genuinely inspire each other's evolution. Very true. Love that
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  Speaker 1: Gemini teaches Sagittarius to see nuance and humor in everything.
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  Speaker 1: Sagittarius helps Gemini find meaning and direction. When aligned, this
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  Speaker 1: friendship feels like an adventure of the mind and spirit.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I feel that. I definitely feel that.
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  Speaker 1: That's really cool growth lesson.
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  Speaker 2: Oh. This duo's soul contract is freedom with purpose. I
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  Speaker 2: don't think I've ever heard that explains so beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's literally us. Freedom's one of my number one values.
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  Speaker 1: Freedom with purpose, with purpose though, Yeah, that's cool. They're
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  Speaker 1: meant to explore, not escape. If they can ground their
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  Speaker 1: spontaneity with honesty and follow through, this becomes one of
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  Speaker 1: the most expansive lifelong friends in the zodiac.
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  Speaker 2: I love that we know that very cool.
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  Speaker 1: So the next question we asked was what's the other
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  Speaker 1: one out of ten? And why is it not ten
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  Speaker 1: out of ten? Yees?
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  Speaker 2: So, because they rated our compatibility, Chat rated our compatibility
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  Speaker 2: and nine out of ten, and then we ask the question, well,
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  Speaker 2: what's the other one point? Why don't we have a
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  Speaker 2: ten out of tea?
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  Speaker 1: Why are we not a ten out of ten? Okay? Cool?
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  Speaker 1: And Chat said, I love that you ask that, because honestly,
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  Speaker 1: Gemini and Sagittarius feels like a ten when it's flowing.
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  Speaker 1: But the missing one out of ten comes down to
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  Speaker 1: something deeper than compatibility. It's emotional anchoring. Let me explain.
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  Speaker 2: So the one point gap emotional depth verse emotional freedom.
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  Speaker 2: Both Gemini and Sagittarius are explorers of ideas, experience people,
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  Speaker 2: and possibilities. Through that, that's what makes your bond exhilarating.
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  Speaker 2: But that same quality means you can sometimes float above
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  Speaker 2: emotional intimacy instead of landing in it. Gemini intellectualizes feelings,
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  Speaker 2: while Sagittarius spiritualizes them. So Gemini says, let's talk about it.
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  Speaker 2: Sagittarius spiritualizes everything happens. For a reason, neither is naturally
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  Speaker 2: inclined to sit in silence, feel the messy emotions, or
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  Speaker 2: navigate conflicts slowly and vulnerably. So when something real happens,
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  Speaker 2: her betrayal, misunderstanding, both may instinctively reach for space instead
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  Speaker 2: of repair. That's where the one out of ten shows up. Wow,
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  Speaker 2: that is so interesting.
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  Speaker 1: I think I'd probably do that a bit more than you.
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  Speaker 2: But I also have that too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I used to be more anxious and lean
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  Speaker 1: in and overdo it and like almost fall like people please,
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  Speaker 1: and now I need I think I need space, like
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  Speaker 1: calm and regulate again. Otherwise I fire comes about out
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  Speaker 1: a bit too much, or I shut down.
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  Speaker 2: It's like that response of fight in the moment or run.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, but if I go and have space, then I
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  Speaker 1: can come back and have a much more better conversation
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  Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Interesting. I definitely do have the urge, I think, though
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  Speaker 2: I do lean prominently more anxious. So my natural inkling
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  Speaker 2: is to like just lean in even when I want
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  Speaker 2: to run. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, because I can be
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  Speaker 2: avoidant as much as anxious person. Yeah, I think I
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  Speaker 2: just like I'm like, oh this is disgusting. I want
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  Speaker 2: to do this now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so interesting. I love the attachments styles, just a
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  Speaker 1: bit of disorganized. It can be a bit of both.
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  Speaker 1: Oh on who it is? Absolutely how to bridge that?
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  Speaker 1: To make it ten out of ten? Stay present in discomfort,
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  Speaker 1: don't run, breathe for it together. I like not that
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  Speaker 1: balanced talk with feeling. Gemini less analysts, more heart sad
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  Speaker 1: less philosophy, more empathy.
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  Speaker 2: Cool less analysis. That's so right. You do need to
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  Speaker 2: do that.
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  Speaker 1: More empathy, more heart, ground your freedom. Create rituals that
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  Speaker 1: anchor the friendship. Weekly weekly check ins, fucking everyday check ins,
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  Speaker 1: shared projects, do it on it travel tradition. They are
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  Speaker 1: on it.
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  Speaker 2: Wait till twenty twenty seven.
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  Speaker 1: Oh. When you do that, the relationship keeps its wild
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  Speaker 1: electric freedom and gains emotional gravity, the missing one that
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  Speaker 1: turns chemistry into real depth.
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  Speaker 2: Love that.
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  Speaker 1: So then we asked the top ten friendship said, this
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  Speaker 1: is for you guys too. The top ten friendship capatibilities
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  Speaker 1: on star sign This is been ranked from one to ten.
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  Speaker 1: At number one Gemini Sagittarius. Of course, of course we're
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  Speaker 1: topping the charts. Number two Leo in arees. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know any leos? Interesting, No, not do I actually opposite
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  Speaker 1: signs with matching chaos, humor curiosity and adventure. Zero boredom
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  Speaker 1: ever very true.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Leo and Ares fire signs who hype each other endlessly.
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  Speaker 2: They're loyal, passionate, fun and unstoppable together.
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  Speaker 1: Ooh, Taurus and Cancer at number three. Your soft, stable, nurturing, energy, safe, grounding,
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  Speaker 1: emotionally supportive besties. I don't have any Taurus or Cancers
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  Speaker 1: in my life.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know any Taurus women. I've only known Taurus men.
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  Speaker 1: Interesting.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you used to attract a lot of them dating wise,
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  Speaker 2: just interesting. Now. Coming in at number four is Virgo
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  Speaker 2: and Capricorns. So this is a power duo. Practical, honest, reliable,
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  Speaker 2: and deeply respectful of each other's growth.
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  Speaker 1: Cool, so beautiful. Yeah. Number five Libra and Aquarius social,
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  Speaker 1: open minded, playful, and intellectually aligned. They just get each other.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's cute.
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  Speaker 2: Number six Pisces and Scorpio deep intuitive, emotionally connected soul
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  Speaker 2: friendship vibes.
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  Speaker 1: Seven Gemini and Libra sod be if you had a
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  Speaker 1: Libra friend. But you don't need any liber friends.
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  Speaker 2: I don't need any other.
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  Speaker 1: No, you're good. Effortless communication, laughter, ideas, spontaneity, and a
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  Speaker 1: mentally stimulating match. Oh you do oh.
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  Speaker 2: Is it obviously not as much as us. It's for
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  Speaker 2: number one on the charts. Fun Sagittarius and Aries, just
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  Speaker 2: like you don't need any more friends, no adventure twins, bold,
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  Speaker 2: fiery and always saying yes to life. Oh you're bold together.
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  Speaker 1: This is actually mid Dean. I realize the other day
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  Speaker 1: in Nadan's and aries. Oh I do love Nadine. You
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  Speaker 1: do love Nadine. You guys clicked very well.
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  Speaker 2: She's a vibe.
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  Speaker 1: She's bold.
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  Speaker 2: She's very bold, very fiery, very honest. She's just everything
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  Speaker 2: fun personality is.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I love I love that she's very brutally honest.
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  Speaker 1: Like sometimes if you ask her for like advice on
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  Speaker 1: a relationship or a friendship was something, she would just
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  Speaker 1: say how it is.
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  Speaker 2: At least you know you'll get what is true for her.
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  Speaker 1: There's no sugar coating there. Yeah, she's a fire song.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no sandwich approach. There, no sandwich.
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  Speaker 1: She's just straight.
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  Speaker 2: And if like he's the ham.
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  Speaker 1: Say we're in a group environment and like one of
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  Speaker 1: our single friends is like, oh, like this guy said
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  Speaker 1: this to me. I'm honest, but I'd be like, oh shit,
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  Speaker 1: maybe him into like this and We're like, fuck off,
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  Speaker 1: he's just an asshole. Fuck him off, no way, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's just straight shoot. Yeah, I love that her though.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: We do love that It's hilarious. So yeah, I recommend
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: getting into chat to beuteen if you're in a relationship
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  Speaker 1: or your best friend, type it in and see what
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  Speaker 1: they say.
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  Speaker 2: It is really cool to see because I've done this
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  Speaker 2: in intimate relationships as well, and I found it just
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  Speaker 2: both friendship and relationship or work dynamic whatever it is
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  Speaker 2: a thing. It's so cool because you get to understand
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  Speaker 2: what that person really values, what you really value, and
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  Speaker 2: how those things come together or how you could potentially clash.
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  Speaker 2: It almost gives you like a preventative strategy of like
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  Speaker 2: what not to do in the dynamic to make sure
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  Speaker 2: that you maintain the connection.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, this is a win win for everyone.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: It really is so cool, so fun. Well, thanks for
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  Speaker 1: joining us, guys. I hope you enjoyed that fun little leftso.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely let us know if you end up doing this
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  Speaker 2: with your girlfriends, send us a DM on Instagram. We'd
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: love to hear about it.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Love to hear about it. We'll see you guys next time.
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  Speaker 2: Byee