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Note 65: You Were Made for the Room · Notes to Her

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  Hey,
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  girl.
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  Hey.
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  Welcome
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  back
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  to
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  Notes
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  to
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  her,
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  the
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  daily
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  pep
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  talk.
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  I'm
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  Yaya,
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  your
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  confidence
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  and
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  mindset
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  coach,
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  here
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  to
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  remind
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  you
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  that
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  you
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  belong
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  in
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  every
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  room,
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  every
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  opportunity,
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  and
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  every
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  space
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  you've
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  been
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  called
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  into.
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  I've
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  been
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  thinking
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  about
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  something
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  lately,
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  and
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  I
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  need
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  to
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  talk
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  to
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  you
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  about
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  it
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  because
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  I
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  keep
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  seeing
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  women
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  getting
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  the
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  invite,
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  getting
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  the
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  opportunity,
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  getting
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  the
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  seat
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  at
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  the
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  table.
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  And
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  instead
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  of
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  celebrating,
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  she's
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  standing
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  outside
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  the
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  door
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  asking
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  herself,
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  wait,
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  should
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  I
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  actually
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  be
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  here?
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  And
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  if
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  that's
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  ever
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  been
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  you,
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  stay
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  with
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  me.
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  Because
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  the
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  answer
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  is
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  yes.
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  And
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  tell
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  you
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  exactly
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  why.
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  Then
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  let
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  me
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  tell
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  you
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  a
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  story.
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  So,
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  in
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  my
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  corporate
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  career,
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  towards
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  the
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  end
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  of
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  it,
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  actually,
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  I
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  got
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  invited
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  to
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  a
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  meeting.
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  And
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  not
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  just
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  any
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  meeting.
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  We're
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  talking
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  executives,
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  directors,
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  people
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  with
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  titles
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  that
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  would
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  make
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  you
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  straighten
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  up
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  when
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  they
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  walked
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  in
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  the
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  room.
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  And
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  then
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  there
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  was
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  me.
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  I
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  was
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  junior
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  level
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  compared
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  to
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  them.
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  And
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  I
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  was
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  in
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  a
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  room
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  full
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  of
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  women
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  that
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  outranked
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  me
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  in
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  every
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  which
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  way.
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  I
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  remember
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  when
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  the
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  invite
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  first
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  came
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  through
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  my
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  calendar
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  and
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  my
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  first
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  thought
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  wasn't
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  excitement.
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  It
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  wasn't,
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  let's
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  go.
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  It
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  was
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  more
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  like,
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  why
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  am
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  I
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  here?
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  Do
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  I
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  even
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  need
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  to
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  be
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  there?
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  Is
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  this
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  a
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  mistake?
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  I
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  almost
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  talk
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  myself
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  out
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  of
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  the
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  room
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  before
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  I
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  even
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  walked
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  in.
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  But
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  here's
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  what
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  I
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  had
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  to
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  remind
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  myself
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  and
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  what
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  I
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  need
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  you
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  to
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  hear
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  right
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  now.
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  I
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  wasn't
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  in
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  that
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  room
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  by
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  accident.
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  My
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  stakeholder
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  needed
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  my
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  expertise,
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  my
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  knowledge
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  on
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  specific
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  projects,
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  my
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  insight.
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  They
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  didn't
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  invite
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  my
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  title.
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  They
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  invited
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  me.
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  And,
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  sis,
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  the
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  same
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  is
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  true
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  for
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  you.
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  Okay,
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  so
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  let's
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  be
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  honest
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  about
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  what
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  that
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  question
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  do
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  I
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  really
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  belong
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  here?
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  Is
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  really
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  doing.
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  Because
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  it
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  sounds
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  like
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  a
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  relatable
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  question.
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  It
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  sounds
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  like
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  self
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  awareness,
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  like
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  humility,
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  like
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  being
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  responsible.
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  But
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  most
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  of
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  the
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  time,
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  it's
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  not
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  a
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  question.
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  It's
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  a
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  defense
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  mechanism.
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  It's
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  your
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  nervous
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  system
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  trying
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  to
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  protect
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  you
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  from
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  potential
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  embarrassment,
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  from
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  judgment,
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  from
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  being
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  found
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  out,
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  from
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  taking
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  up
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  space
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  and
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  having
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  someone
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  decide
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  you
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  don't
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  deserve
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  it.
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  It's
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  impostor
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  syndrome.
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  Dressed
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  up
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  in
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  a
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  blazer,
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  sitting
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  right
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  next
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  to
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  you,
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  whispering,
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  you
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  don't
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  really
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  belong
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  here.
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  And
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  imposter
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  syndrome
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  is
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  sneaky
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  because
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  it
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  doesn't
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  show
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  up
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  when
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  things
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  are
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  going
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  badly.
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  It
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  shows
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  up
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  when
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  things
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  are
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  going
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  well.
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  When
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  you
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  get
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  the
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  promotion,
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  when
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  the
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  opportunity
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  lands
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  in
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  your
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  lap,
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  when
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  you're
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  chosen,
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  that's
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  when
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  the
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  voice
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  gets
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  louder.
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  Was
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  his.
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  Look,
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  they're
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  gonna
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  figure
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  out
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  I
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  don't
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  know
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  as
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  much
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  as
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  they
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  think,
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  what
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  if
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  I
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  say
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  the
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  wrong
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  thing.
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  That
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  voice
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  is
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  not
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  wisdom.
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  That
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  voice
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  is
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  fear.
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  Wearing
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  a
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  very
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  convincing
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  costume,
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  and
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  you
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  don't
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  have
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  to
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  listen
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  to
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  it.
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  Let
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  me
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  tell
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  you
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  what
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  actually
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  got
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  you
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  here.
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  Not
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  luck.
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  Not
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  someone
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  feeling
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  sorry
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  for
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  you.
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  Not
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  a
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  fluke
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  or
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  a
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  favor
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  or
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  a
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  one
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  time
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  exception.
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  It
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  was
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  your
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  skills.
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  Your
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  work
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  ethic.
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  The
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  hours
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  you've
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  been
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  putting
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  in
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  when
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  nobody
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  was
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  watching.
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  The
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  preparation,
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  the
• 3:38
  dedication,
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  the
• 3:39
  showing
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  up
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  even
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  when
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  it
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  was
• 3:41
  hard.
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  The
• 3:42
  expertise
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  you
• 3:43
  build.
• 3:43
  Sometimes
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  even
• 3:44
  without
• 3:44
  even
• 3:45
  realizing
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  that
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  you're
• 3:46
  building
• 3:46
  it.
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  Someone
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  saw
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  that
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  and
• 3:48
  they
• 3:48
  extended
• 3:49
  the
• 3:49
  invitation.
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  You
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  didn't
• 3:51
  stumble
• 3:52
  into
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  the
• 3:52
  room.
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  You
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  earned
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  your
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  way
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  into
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  it.
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  You
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  have
• 3:56
  worked
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  hard,
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  learned
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  too
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  much,
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  and
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  come
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  too
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  far.
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  To
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  stand
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  outside
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  a
• 4:01
  door
• 4:01
  that
• 4:01
  was
• 4:02
  open
• 4:02
  for
• 4:02
  you
• 4:03
  and
• 4:03
  question
• 4:03
  whether
• 4:04
  you
• 4:04
  deserve
• 4:04
  to
• 4:04
  walk
• 4:04
  through
• 4:05
  it.
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  The
• 4:06
  woman
• 4:06
  who
• 4:06
  invited
• 4:07
  you
• 4:07
  to
• 4:07
  the
• 4:07
  table,
• 4:08
  she
• 4:08
  wasn't
• 4:09
  confused.
• 4:10
  The
• 4:10
  person
• 4:11
  who
• 4:11
  gave
• 4:11
  you
• 4:11
  the
• 4:11
  opportunity,
• 4:12
  they
• 4:13
  weren't
• 4:13
  making
• 4:13
  a
• 4:13
  mistake.
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  They
• 4:14
  chose
• 4:15
  you
• 4:15
  because
• 4:15
  of
• 4:15
  who
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  you
• 4:16
  are
• 4:16
  and
• 4:17
  what
• 4:17
  you
• 4:17
  bring.
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  The
• 4:19
  only
• 4:19
  one
• 4:20
  second
• 4:20
  guessing
• 4:20
  it
• 4:21
  is
• 4:21
  you.
• 4:23
  Now,
• 4:23
  here's
• 4:24
  what
• 4:24
  nobody
• 4:24
  really
• 4:24
  talks
• 4:25
  about.
• 4:25
  But
• 4:25
  you
• 4:25
  know
• 4:26
  I
• 4:26
  am.
• 4:27
  When
• 4:27
  you
• 4:27
  shrink
• 4:27
  into
• 4:28
  rooms
• 4:28
  that
• 4:28
  you
• 4:28
  were
• 4:28
  made
• 4:29
  for,
• 4:29
  you
• 4:29
  don't
• 4:29
  just
• 4:30
  hold
• 4:30
  yourself
• 4:30
  back.
• 4:31
  You
• 4:31
  withhold
• 4:32
  something
• 4:32
  from
• 4:32
  the
• 4:33
  room.
• 4:34
  Think
• 4:34
  about
• 4:34
  that
• 4:35
  meeting
• 4:35
  I
• 4:35
  told
• 4:36
  you
• 4:36
  about.
• 4:37
  If
• 4:37
  I
• 4:37
  had
• 4:37
  let
• 4:38
  that
• 4:38
  voice
• 4:38
  win,
• 4:39
  if
• 4:39
  I
• 4:39
  had
• 4:39
  played
• 4:40
  small,
• 4:40
  stayed
• 4:41
  quiet,
• 4:41
  and
• 4:41
  decided
• 4:42
  my
• 4:42
  presence
• 4:42
  didn't
• 4:43
  matter,
• 4:44
  the
• 4:44
  stakeholder
• 4:44
  wouldn't
• 4:45
  have
• 4:45
  got
• 4:45
  the
• 4:45
  information
• 4:45
  that
• 4:46
  they
• 4:46
  needed.
• 4:47
  The
• 4:47
  room
• 4:47
  wouldn't
• 4:48
  have
• 4:48
  had
• 4:48
  the
• 4:48
  right
• 4:48
  perspective
• 4:49
  that
• 4:49
  I
• 4:49
  brought
• 4:50
  in,
• 4:51
  and
• 4:51
  the
• 4:51
  people
• 4:52
  who
• 4:52
  needed
• 4:52
  my
• 4:52
  expertise
• 4:53
  wouldn't
• 4:53
  have
• 4:54
  had
• 4:54
  access
• 4:54
  to
• 4:55
  it.
• 4:55
  Your
• 4:56
  presence
• 4:56
  in
• 4:56
  that
• 4:57
  room
• 4:57
  is
• 4:57
  not
• 4:57
  just
• 4:58
  about
• 4:58
  you.
• 4:58
  It's
• 4:59
  about
• 4:59
  what
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  you
• 5:00
  contribute.
• 5:00
  When
• 5:01
  you
• 5:01
  show
• 5:01
  up
• 5:01
  fully,
• 5:02
  the
• 5:02
  ideas
• 5:03
  that
• 5:03
  you
• 5:03
  share
• 5:04
  will
• 5:04
  change.
• 5:04
  The
• 5:05
  direction
• 5:05
  of
• 5:05
  the
• 5:05
  conversation.
• 5:06
  The
• 5:07
  questions
• 5:07
  you
• 5:07
  ask
• 5:08
  that
• 5:08
  nobody
• 5:08
  else
• 5:09
  thought
• 5:09
  to
• 5:09
  ask.
• 5:10
  The
• 5:10
  experience
• 5:11
  that
• 5:11
  fills
• 5:12
  up
• 5:12
  a
• 5:12
  gap
• 5:12
  that
• 5:13
  no
• 5:13
  one
• 5:13
  even
• 5:13
  knew
• 5:14
  existed.
• 5:15
  When
• 5:15
  you
• 5:15
  shrink,
• 5:16
  the
• 5:16
  room
• 5:17
  loses.
• 5:17
  And
• 5:18
  you
• 5:18
  lose.
• 5:19
  You
• 5:19
  lose
• 5:19
  the
• 5:20
  opportunity
• 5:20
  to
• 5:20
  be
• 5:21
  seen,
• 5:21
  to
• 5:21
  grow.
• 5:22
  To
• 5:23
  prove
• 5:23
  to
• 5:23
  yourself,
• 5:24
  not
• 5:24
  anyone
• 5:25
  else,
• 5:25
  that
• 5:25
  you
• 5:26
  can
• 5:26
  handle
• 5:26
  this.
• 5:28
  Every
• 5:28
  time
• 5:28
  you
• 5:28
  walk
• 5:28
  into
• 5:29
  a
• 5:29
  room
• 5:29
  and
• 5:29
  show
• 5:29
  up
• 5:30
  fully,
• 5:30
  you
• 5:31
  build
• 5:31
  evidence.
• 5:32
  Evidence
• 5:32
  that
• 5:32
  you
• 5:33
  belong.
• 5:33
  Evidence
• 5:34
  that
• 5:34
  you
• 5:34
  can
• 5:34
  do
• 5:35
  this.
• 5:35
  Evidence
• 5:36
  that
• 5:36
  you
• 5:36
  are
• 5:37
  that
• 5:37
  woman.
• 5:38
  But
• 5:38
  you
• 5:38
  have
• 5:38
  to
• 5:39
  show
• 5:39
  up
• 5:39
  first.
• 5:41
  Now,
• 5:41
  because
• 5:41
  I
• 5:42
  know
• 5:42
  some
• 5:42
  of
• 5:42
  you
• 5:42
  are
• 5:42
  in
• 5:43
  a
• 5:43
  room
• 5:43
  right
• 5:44
  now,
• 5:44
  literally
• 5:44
  or
• 5:45
  figuratively,
• 5:46
  and
• 5:46
  you're
• 5:47
  not
• 5:47
  sure
• 5:47
  that
• 5:47
  you
• 5:47
  should
• 5:47
  be
• 5:48
  there.
• 5:49
  First,
• 5:49
  remind
• 5:50
  yourself
• 5:50
  of
• 5:51
  the
• 5:51
  receipts.
• 5:52
  Not
• 5:52
  the
• 5:53
  doubts,
• 5:53
  not
• 5:54
  the
• 5:54
  fears,
• 5:55
  the
• 5:55
  receipts.
• 5:57
  What
• 5:57
  do
• 5:57
  you
• 5:57
  know?
• 5:59
  What
• 5:59
  have
• 5:59
  you
• 5:59
  done?
• 6:01
  What
• 6:01
  have
• 6:01
  you
• 6:01
  built?
• 6:03
  What
• 6:03
  have
• 6:03
  you
• 6:03
  figured
• 6:04
  out
• 6:04
  that
• 6:04
  nobody
• 6:05
  handed
• 6:05
  you?
• 6:07
  That's
• 6:07
  evidence
• 6:08
  that
• 6:08
  you
• 6:08
  belong.
• 6:10
  Second,
• 6:11
  change
• 6:12
  the
• 6:12
  question.
• 6:13
  Instead
• 6:13
  of
• 6:14
  why
• 6:14
  am
• 6:14
  I
• 6:15
  here?
• 6:15
  Ask,
• 6:16
  what
• 6:16
  can
• 6:17
  I
• 6:17
  contribute?
• 6:19
  That
• 6:19
  shift
• 6:20
  moves
• 6:20
  you
• 6:21
  out
• 6:21
  of
• 6:21
  your
• 6:21
  head
• 6:21
  and
• 6:22
  into
• 6:22
  action.
• 6:23
  From
• 6:24
  observer
• 6:24
  to
• 6:24
  participant,
• 6:26
  from
• 6:26
  questioning
• 6:27
  to
• 6:27
  contributing.
• 6:28
  And
• 6:29
  third,
• 6:30
  give
• 6:30
  yourself
• 6:31
  permission
• 6:31
  to
• 6:32
  to
• 6:32
  not
• 6:32
  know
• 6:33
  everything.
• 6:34
  You
• 6:35
  don't
• 6:35
  have
• 6:35
  to
• 6:35
  have
• 6:35
  all
• 6:36
  the
• 6:36
  answers
• 6:36
  to
• 6:36
  deserve
• 6:37
  a
• 6:37
  seat
• 6:37
  at
• 6:37
  the
• 6:37
  table.
• 6:38
  You
• 6:38
  are
• 6:38
  invited
• 6:39
  for
• 6:39
  what
• 6:40
  you
• 6:40
  know,
• 6:41
  not
• 6:41
  for
• 6:41
  what
• 6:42
  you
• 6:42
  don't.
• 6:43
  Even
• 6:43
  the
• 6:44
  most
• 6:44
  senior
• 6:44
  person
• 6:45
  in
• 6:45
  that
• 6:45
  room
• 6:45
  doesn't
• 6:46
  know
• 6:46
  everything.
• 6:47
  That's
• 6:48
  why
• 6:48
  there
• 6:48
  are
• 6:48
  multiple
• 6:49
  people
• 6:49
  in
• 6:49
  the
• 6:49
  room.
• 6:50
  So
• 6:50
  let
• 6:51
  yourself
• 6:51
  be
• 6:51
  one
• 6:51
  of
• 6:52
  them.
• 6:52
  Walk
• 6:53
  in,
• 6:53
  sit
• 6:54
  down,
• 6:54
  contribute.
• 6:56
  Because
• 6:56
  you
• 6:57
  were
• 6:57
  made
• 6:57
  to
• 6:57
  be
• 6:58
  in
• 6:58
  the
• 6:58
  room.
• 7:00
  Now,
• 7:01
  imposter
• 7:01
  syndrome
• 7:02
  doesn't
• 7:02
  mean
• 7:03
  that
• 7:03
  you're
• 7:03
  unqualified.
• 7:04
  Remember
• 7:04
  that.
• 7:05
  It
• 7:05
  means
• 7:05
  that
• 7:05
  you
• 7:06
  care.
• 7:06
  It
• 7:06
  means
• 7:07
  that
• 7:07
  you're
• 7:07
  growing.
• 7:08
  It
• 7:08
  means
• 7:08
  that
• 7:08
  you
• 7:09
  have
• 7:09
  stepped
• 7:09
  into
• 7:09
  a
• 7:10
  level
• 7:10
  that's
• 7:10
  stretching
• 7:11
  you
• 7:11
  and
• 7:11
  that's
• 7:12
  exactly
• 7:12
  where
• 7:12
  you
• 7:13
  need
• 7:13
  to
• 7:13
  be.
• 7:14
  The
• 7:15
  room
• 7:15
  did
• 7:15
  not
• 7:15
  call
• 7:16
  for
• 7:16
  someone
• 7:16
  who
• 7:17
  has
• 7:17
  it
• 7:17
  all
• 7:17
  figured
• 7:18
  out.
• 7:18
  It
• 7:18
  called
• 7:19
  for
• 7:19
  you.
• 7:20
  So
• 7:20
  this
• 7:20
  week,
• 7:21
  wherever
• 7:21
  you're
• 7:22
  being
• 7:22
  called,
• 7:23
  walk
• 7:23
  in
• 7:23
  like
• 7:23
  you
• 7:24
  belong
• 7:24
  there.
• 7:24
  Because
• 7:24
  you
• 7:25
  do.
• 7:26
  Stop
• 7:26
  waiting
• 7:26
  to
• 7:27
  feel
• 7:27
  ready.
• 7:28
  Stop
• 7:28
  waiting
• 7:28
  for
• 7:29
  the
• 7:29
  doubt
• 7:29
  to
• 7:29
  disappear.
• 7:30
  Stop
• 7:31
  minimizing
• 7:31
  the
• 7:32
  work
• 7:32
  and
• 7:32
  skill
• 7:33
  and
• 7:33
  excellence
• 7:34
  that
• 7:34
  got
• 7:34
  you
• 7:34
  the
• 7:35
  invitation
• 7:35
  in
• 7:35
  the
• 7:35
  first
• 7:36
  place.
• 7:37
  You
• 7:37
  have
• 7:37
  always
• 7:37
  been
• 7:38
  that
• 7:38
  woman.
• 7:39
  You're
• 7:39
  just
• 7:39
  finally
• 7:40
  walking
• 7:40
  into
• 7:40
  rooms
• 7:41
  that
• 7:41
  are
• 7:41
  starting
• 7:41
  to
• 7:42
  match
• 7:42
  it.
• 7:44
  Share
• 7:44
  this
• 7:44
  with
• 7:44
  somebody
• 7:45
  today
• 7:45
  who
• 7:45
  needs
• 7:45
  to
• 7:46
  hear
• 7:46
  it.
• 7:46
  And
• 7:46
  if
• 7:46
  it
• 7:47
  hit
• 7:47
  you,
• 7:47
  I
• 7:48
  would
• 7:48
  love
• 7:48
  for
• 7:48
  you
• 7:48
  to
• 7:48
  tag
• 7:49
  me
• 7:49
  at
• 7:49
  Notes
• 7:50
  to
• 7:50
  Her
• 7:51
  Daily.
• 7:52
  I
• 7:52
  want
• 7:52
  to
• 7:52
  hear
• 7:52
  from
• 7:52
  you.
• 7:53
  With
• 7:54
  love,
• 7:54
  Yaya.