Latest / The Hotmomz Lifestyle Podcast / Ep. #564: The REAL reason your lower belly won't budge
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- 0:00Hello.
- 0:00Casey here, creator of Hot Moms Lifestyle.
- 0:02My robe, my hair is still drying.
- 0:04I just got off a live and I didn't even know I had one at at 2 o'clock and I was like, you know what, I'm just gonna stay in my robe and just be real because I'll cover that in a second.
- 0:12I'll cover that in a second.
- 0:12But this is the real reason why you have stubborn belly fat.
- 0:16Like, why it won't budge.
- 0:17This is the real reason why your lower belly fat, your belly fat won't budge.
- 0:21And it's time to stop blaming your diet.
- 0:22It's time to stop blaming your diet.
- 0:24And thinking you need to do all this stuff.
- 0:26And I'm just gonna do it real, real straight up.
- 0:28I'm not like most coaches you find on here.
- 0:30I do cuss.
- 0:31I'm not trying to act a certain way because I think you're gonna like me more.
- 0:35Matter of fact, you're not gonna like me because you're gonna be like, who does she think she is?
- 0:39But yeah, for every woman that I trigger I call in five soulmate clients that are like, where have you been my whole life?
- 0:45It's like nobody was saying this shit.
- 0:47And here we are.
- 0:47And I'm also in the free group.
- 0:49I was not going to go live on Insta because they'd be so like, sometimes sensitive to the things that I say.
- 0:56But, if you're not in my free group, go there.
- 0:59Go on the link in the bio and go to the free group.
- 1:01We just got off a training called Beyond the Mirror.
- 1:03If you're not, if you did not get that, get it.
- 1:06Thanks.
- 1:06I think it's 22 bucks.
- 1:07Holy shit.
- 1:08What a powerful training.
- 1:09We covered deep, deep stuff.
- 1:11I know you don't like deep stuff.
- 1:12I know you want surface level, which is what we're talking about.
- 1:14Why your stubborn belly fat won't budge and it's not your diet's fault.
- 1:18So we're going to cover some real shit.
- 1:19Some real shit real quick while we're here.
- 1:21And then I'll get on with my business.
- 1:23A couple things have come up and I'm going to try to be, it's so hard for me to try to reel it in to 10 minutes.
- 1:27It's so hard.
- 1:28Like I could talk for a whole hour and giving you all the good shit.
- 1:30But here's the facts.
- 1:31Here's the facts.
- 1:32Number one.
- 1:33Your nervous system is fucked.
- 1:34It's very dysregulated for many reasons.
- 1:36We'll cover that in a second.
- 1:37You're not on the right hormones.
- 1:38Even if you say that, I go to the hormone doctor and on HRT, obviously they're not working.
- 1:43And there's a reason why I'm going to expose that as well.
- 1:44When it comes to diet, here's the deal.
- 1:46This lady was just saying, I just fear putting the weight back on.
- 1:49I've lost weight before and now it's back on and I just, I fear that and I'm like let's break that down, shall we, because the reason why women love working with me and why we get fucking good results is because I'm not some basic bitch like, oh, let's just eat healthier and stress less and deep breathe and do stuff like, I'm gonna show you the how to clearing out your nervous system and here's the deal.
- 2:05I know some trauma shit.
- 2:07I've had some lived experiences, near death experiences.
- 2:09Me being here right now is a miracle.
- 2:12And the things that we covered today about boundaries, I've got women that are like, I'm so ready for change.
- 2:15I'm, I have a, I have another mastermind called Magic Bee.
- 2:18And it's for woo.
- 2:19It's for very intuitive women.
- 2:21We go over feminine wounds and feminine rites of passage and womb clearing and all that stuff.
- 2:26And then we have hot moms, which is fitness, nutrition, hormones, All of that.
- 2:29Then we've got Millionaire Matrix.
- 2:31It's my business offer where I help women make shit tons of money online and really just pull out their authenticity because right now everybody's trying to be like everybody else and if you're like that, it's just It's why you're not getting the right people and money blocks, honestly Money is a big reason why I was so stressed out.
- 2:46And so I covered that in Hot Moms Mastermind and in Millionaire Matrix.
- 2:49But a lot of people get triggered in just that of hearing about money.
- 2:52They're like, what are you talking about?
- 2:53I need to lose weight.
- 2:54I'm like, all right, let's look at your money shit.
- 2:56I guarantee most of you have money blocks that come around, self worth, worthiness, spending, guilt, all that stuff.
- 3:02And if that's there, it's in your nervous system.
- 3:03It means that it's not safe.
- 3:05There's something that doesn't feel safe and that's going to trip up your nervous system and cause stress.
- 3:08But.
- 3:09This one lady that was like, I just don't, I'm afraid that I'm going to gain the weight back.
- 3:13Anybody else?
- 3:14Anybody else afraid you're going to gain the weight back after you lose it?
- 3:16I said, valid.
- 3:17Let's cover that, shall we?
- 3:18I said, it's no different than saying you're afraid to make money because you may lose it or get the money because you're going to lose it.
- 3:23Now, number one, when you first lost the weight, When you first lost the weight, I guarantee you, you probably did it in some stupid ass way.
- 3:30Intermittent fasting, trying to do some trainer's diet that you saw online.
- 3:34Oh no, Casey, they're really good.
- 3:36They're very like, they have every, they have more degrees than a thermometer.
- 3:40I worked with this specific Diane Summers doctor.
- 3:42I don't give a shit.
- 3:44Look at your life and your body right now and you have no energy, you can't shit, you have low libido, you're comparing yourself to everybody online, and you feel overburdened, can't get anything done, sleep is shitty, and you're wondering why your quads aren't popping.
- 3:54Weigh your ego with your cellulite or whatever your body's not doing and listen up because I'm going to tell you why you're struggling with that body fat and how to actually Clear the shit, finally.
- 4:03Aren't you tired of buying programs?
- 4:04It's because you're not handling the soul.
- 4:06That's literally it.
- 4:06The nervous system, but beyond fucking breath work.
- 4:09And, meditation and shit.
- 4:11There's a reason why you can't even sit still to meditate.
- 4:14There's a reason why.
- 4:14Ahem.
- 4:16So we go down to the fractals of the fucking soul teaching you why and then giving you the tools, the hormones, the actual testing that we do, the biohacks.
- 4:25I had a physician come in yesterday and she was like, the fact you cover everything.
- 4:29She goes, cause I had it.
- 4:30I knew what to do.
- 4:31It was just, I needed just a little help to crack the code.
- 4:33And it's, we pay attention to the soul of the human, the soul.
- 4:36There's a reason why women struggle with self care.
- 4:39It's why they can't stick to anything.
- 4:40There's a reason why and I cover that in my training.
- 4:42If you haven't gotten the training, DM me strategy and I'll send it to you.
- 4:45But today, I want to tell you the story about the lady who was afraid to gain the weight back and what it really meant.
- 4:49I said first of all, you lost the weight by doing one of those stupid ass diets like we all do.
- 4:53Paying some fancy schmancy coach online.
- 4:55You probably got really motivated for a second and you went all in and done things.
- 4:59And then life kicked your ass, something happened, somebody died, the kids got sick, the holidays came around, you moved, you, your relationship did this, something happened, life happened, period, end of story, life happened.
- 5:10And then some weight came back on, you got stressed out, something happened, and the weight came back on.
- 5:15You can lose it again, you could just do the same thing, or, here's what happens, it's like money.
- 5:20If you are Scared of losing the money.
- 5:22Definitely I suggest lose it because then you realize you can just make it back.
- 5:25And this time you're going to get smarter.
- 5:27Think about it.
- 5:27Because I've done both.
- 5:28I've lost money, gotten it back.
- 5:30Lost weight, gained it back and figured out how to avoid the yo.
- 5:33That's why I teach in Hot Moms Mastermind.
- 5:34We clear out the reason.
- 5:35What we teach here you could literally not even need to buy anything anymore.
- 5:38Because the struggle will literally be wiped clean of your DNA.
- 5:42Alright.
- 5:42See So if you hate results, then don't work with me.
- 5:45So I said, alright, let's look at this.
- 5:46Money.
- 5:46So you made money, you're scared of losing it.
- 5:48So let's go look at how you made the money first.
- 5:50Probably was out of soul alignment.
- 5:52For example, maybe you didn't made the money in a way where you weren't really happy with how you're making it.
- 5:57You're forcing to go to work.
- 5:58You're forcing You're just forcing it.
- 6:00Same with weight.
- 6:01You probably forced yourself.
- 6:03Did things that you were too tired to do.
- 6:05Or you just made yourself eat a certain way.
- 6:06The foods you hated.
- 6:07All this stuff.
- 6:08Same thing with money.
- 6:08You probably did it in a way that wasn't in line with your soul.
- 6:11And what that means is truly deep down, you just didn't want to do those things.
- 6:14You just didn't want to do it.
- 6:15It goes beyond motivation.
- 6:17Okay, so next.
- 6:18When you got the money, you're probably scared of the money.
- 6:20A lot of women when they lose weight, they get scared of looking hot.
- 6:23Being over sexualized.
- 6:25Comments from people.
- 6:26What it may trigger in others.
- 6:28You name it.
- 6:29We went over this in today's training, Beyond the Mirror.
- 6:31If you want Beyond the Mirror, I can't explain to you.
- 6:33It will clear, what it will clear out, it is like 10 years of personal growth and therapy in one session.
- 6:38Incredible.
- 6:38Just DM me, we don't even have, yeah we do it.
- 6:40I think it's 22 bucks.
- 6:41for the training.
- 6:42Just DM me beyond the mirror and we'll send it.
- 6:44Anyway, I said, and you're probably scared of when you, when the weight's here.
- 6:48So you are not only doing things out of alignment with your soul, going against your soul, forcing a stupid ass diet you saw online, working with a doctor that's supposed to know what they're doing all these things, but deep down you weren't trusting you.
- 6:59You weren't trusting like what you know you need to do and honoring your body and where you're at in life.
- 7:03By the way, if you're, Let's just say a new mommy.
- 7:06You don't need to be training the way that a 20 year old trains.
- 7:09If you're post menopause, perimenopause, I have a total hysterectomy.
- 7:12You train different.
- 7:14You need to be training different where your nervous system's at to slowly get you back into parasympathetic so that when life does come and kick your A$s you don't fall off and gain all the weight back.
- 7:22Same thing with money.
- 7:22So that when you make the money, now you don't feel like you need to just quit and burn it down.
- 7:27Been there to not make the money because now it's so aligned.
- 7:30You feel like you, it's actually easy.
- 7:31Can you imagine losing weight and it's easy?
- 7:33You don't need to feel like, Oh, I just can't do it another day.
- 7:35I just need to take off.
- 7:36Or when one little thing happens, you just quit.
- 7:38That's actually possible.
- 7:40That's actually in the realm of possibilities and it's just what I teach.
- 7:43In the work that I do.
- 7:44That's what I'm saying.
- 7:44Once you taste it, once you go here, you don't go backwards.
- 7:48Once you're stretched, you don't go backwards.
- 7:49Once you experience this new concept, this new paradigm, this new way of being healthy and fit, you don't go back to your old ways.
- 7:57It's just a matter of constant compounding and evolution from where you're at and continuing to go up.
- 8:02The fall offs get easier.
- 8:04The fall offs become less frequent.
- 8:06That's what happens.
- 8:07Look at when you lost the weight.
- 8:09How did you lose the weight?
- 8:10Just go back, do your own research.
- 8:11Go back and see how you lost the weight.
- 8:13How you made the money.
- 8:14Was it in alignment with your soul?
- 8:15Were you really happy?
- 8:16Is it something you could do forever?
- 8:18No.
- 8:18Or else you would have done it.
- 8:19You would have been capable of, you would have had the tools to do what you need to do.
- 8:22But we didn't.
- 8:23So what do we do?
- 8:24We blame ourselves.
- 8:24I must be stupid.
- 8:25I'm not good enough.
- 8:26See, I can't do anything.
- 8:27I spend money and I do this.
- 8:28No you're literally sounding like a child right now, blaming everything on yourself.
- 8:32Kids always think it must be something wrong with me.
- 8:35If mommy said, it must be my fault.
- 8:36That's what kids do.
- 8:37They internalize everything means something about them.
- 8:38So stop sounding like a child first and foremost, first stop sounding like a child with your weight and your money and forgive yourself.
- 8:45You're, you feel guilty because you didn't know what you didn't know.
- 8:48You are operating of past light lived experiences, who knows what kind of trauma, in a fucked up nervous system and you're trying to force something at surface level when you're looking under, you're looking at the brake pads when you need to be looking under the fucking hood.
- 9:01So this is why you have stubborn fat.
- 9:03Period.
- 9:03Next.
- 9:04Next.
- 9:05Obviously now that looking back, I forgive myself.
- 9:07Cause I realize I've been feeling guilty for not knowing everything.
- 9:10So let's clear that if you want to clear that I have a whole entire course called clear my shit Got it.
- 9:14Literally the tools for everything.
- 9:15This is why we're talking right now Because you don't have to struggle anymore Now you can get on with your life build your business do your thing and like literally create the reality that you choose You are that powerful?
- 9:22So now that you have that and you've cleared the guilt You're like, okay, now I'm going to lose weight this time, but I'm not going to do it the same way because clearly that wasn't sustainable.
- 9:30Clearly, this didn't feel right, this didn't feel right.
- 9:33Okay, how's it going to be this time?
- 9:34You get to call the shots.
- 9:35Because deep down, I know you.
- 9:37You are a top, you are a high performing, performance type female.
- 9:41Okay, most of you have extremely, very important careers, entrepreneurs.
- 9:45At the core of you, it's not like you want to sit on the couch all day and eat Little Debbies.
- 9:49That's some emotional eating.
- 9:51You're not like that.
- 9:52You truly do.
- 9:53You're doing all the right things, something's off, and you're tired of the struggle up and down.
- 9:56It's what the fuck gives, right?
- 9:58Once again, go back to the first thing.
- 9:59You have to create it in a way that works for you.
- 10:02Same with business.
- 10:03You can't sit here and funnel hack me.
- 10:05You can, but I see people copying all the time.
- 10:08I've tried to copy people.
- 10:09When you copy people.
- 10:10You water down your own message because you don't even know your message.
- 10:12You don't even know you.
- 10:13There is no sense of self, nothing.
- 10:15You have to unbury what you, what is there to get to the real you.
- 10:18Same with diet.
- 10:18You have to unbury yourself to find out, this feels aligned.
- 10:21This feels good.
- 10:23If it feels good, your body will start to feel safe and it will release the weight.
- 10:27Sounds too good to be true, but that's actually how it gets to be.
- 10:29And people like me and other people on my team that actually are like getting results and it's very easy for them.
- 10:33Don't hate us because we say it's easy.
- 10:35It's very easy.
- 10:36Once you understand the energetics and the emotional intelligence work and just the energetics, the mindset work, the soul body work, having the right tools, resourcing, understand science on a little bit like simple shit that we teach.
- 10:48It's very easy.
- 10:48It's just minor tweaks.
- 10:50Everything you've always done.
- 10:51You're doing it way too much, way too hard.
- 10:52I teach the things that are way fucking easier.
- 10:55But see, that trips people up.
- 10:56If it's easy, must be off.
- 10:57Must be that cause how dare you be, enjoy your life and live in pleasure cause you don't even know how to be a woman.
- 11:02Cause you don't even like being a woman.
- 11:03Women are weak.
- 11:04You think women are weak and you need to go and do and compete with men.
- 11:06Who's gonna do it if I don't do it?
- 11:08Got martyr complex.
- 11:09You see what's all in the weight of your weight right now?
- 11:11How much shit is in the way of you actually getting the body and health and energy that you want?
- 11:15You feel like you gotta do everything for everybody else.
- 11:16And if you don't, you have guilt.
- 11:17So do you really have a meal plan problem or fucking guilt problem?
- 11:20I'll let you answer.
- 11:21Yeah, exactly.
- 11:22Now, once you get tapped into your soul and you understand, All right, so I can do it this way.
- 11:26This gets to be okay.
- 11:27Wow.
- 11:27You start learning.
- 11:28Here's what you actually need to eat.
- 11:29Quit following these fucking plans that are food that you can't even eat.
- 11:32You don't even know if you can eat apples.
- 11:34So why don't you just figure that out?
- 11:35We'll show you how.
- 11:35When it comes to hormones, get with a doctor that specializes in adrenals, right?
- 11:39Adrenals, where it's actually at the fight or flight, because you're in survival mode.
- 11:42If you're in survival mode and fight or flight, you're not going to lose the weight.
- 11:44Period.
- 11:44You don't know how to let go.
- 11:45It's not safe to let go.
- 11:46You have to have that, but you can't just do one.
- 11:48You can't just do hormones.
- 11:49You can't just do, diets and just workouts and expect it to change.
- 11:53You have to do the soul work of what I was saying first.
- 11:57Let's forgive yourself for judging yourself for thinking you were stupid, not good enough, or whatever, because you failed a few times on the diet.
- 12:03I'm gonna show you something inside of my course that's called Reset and Restore, and Drop the Fuckin Weight Struggle, that will show you why it's been so hard your whole life.
- 12:11When you understand that, you're probably gonna cry, and some shifts will be made, and you'll be like, I 20 years ago.
- 12:16Next time you start to lose the weight, When life happens, because it will.
- 12:20And by the way, we don't do this work.
- 12:21We don't do all of this deep healing and this emotional intelligence work.
- 12:25So that we can handle life's shithole.
- 12:27Hell pits.
- 12:28It's to enjoy life more.
- 12:29That's the thing.
- 12:30You need to learn how to have fun.
- 12:32How to enjoy life.
- 12:33How to feel good.
- 12:34You need to learn how to feel good.
- 12:35That's the thing most of you don't know how to do.
- 12:37You don't know how to embody the woman who feels good in her body.
- 12:40You have shame around it, and guilt around it, and lots of heebie jeebie and fear around it.
- 12:44So you gotta first learn how to feel good in your body as a woman.
- 12:47Divine feminine energy.
- 12:48That is something that is learned.
- 12:50Most of us are taught against that.
- 12:52And you, and it's a scary world out there.
- 12:53Listen, I get it.
- 12:54But once you learn how to do that, and you start to lose weight, and you start to get healthy and do the things that's in alignment with your soul and who you are, that actually works for you, that actually works with your lifestyle versus what a fucking coach has given you online to do and this little fucking plan to do it like them because it, no.
- 13:07This is why nothing's working.
- 13:09And then now you're making it mean something about you.
- 13:11You're being like a kid.
- 13:12I must suck.
- 13:12I must just, I fail everything.
- 13:14I'm gonna spend more money.
- 13:15Jesus.
- 13:16Grow up.
- 13:16And reflect.
- 13:17But you can't grow up because you're still operating with a child's nervous system that's still dysregulated.
- 13:22So you have to learn how to heal this stuff.
- 13:24You have to learn how.
- 13:25And I don't care how big shot you are.
- 13:26If you're so tired right now.
- 13:28Like you have no energy.
- 13:29It's because you're trying to prove your worth.
- 13:32That you're worth something.
- 13:33You don't have any boundaries.
- 13:34You don't know how to say no.
- 13:35There's a guilt there.
- 13:36You're trying to keep everybody else afloat.
- 13:38You have no boundaries with yourself.
- 13:39I work with women who make half a million dollars.
- 13:42They go through the same thing as a woman who makes 20k.
- 13:44It's all the same.
- 13:45It's just an energy.
- 13:45Nobody's better than the other.
- 13:46Once you do this and you reflect on how you started to lose the weight, you're not scared anymore of feeling good in your body.
- 13:53You're not scared anymore of being a happy, healthy female.
- 13:56And you start to tap into that.
- 13:58You're gonna keep it.
- 13:58And then when life comes in, because it will, like I said, you're gonna have the tools this time.
- 14:02You're gonna be emotionally intelligent.
- 14:04You're gonna understand things that you never understood before because you've been there before.
- 14:07And you're gonna go oh.
- 14:08Last time I did it this way, I'm not gonna do that anymore.
- 14:10I'm gonna do it this way.
- 14:10I'm gonna start learning just like with money.
- 14:12I'm gonna actually invest in a wealth coach now.
- 14:14So that when I do get the money, I know what to do.
- 14:15Just like a lot of you.
- 14:16Investing with someone like me that understands energetics and how to help you feel safe in your body, being a happy, healthy, vibrant female, so you can be a better mommy, better in your community, better business owner.
- 14:25That's what the world needs right now.
- 14:27I'm here to help you shine big.
- 14:28And take up more space because it's not working out for you right now.
- 14:31Your body's breaking down, it's hurting, you're not able to do the things, you feel like there's not enough time, but there is.
- 14:36Because what if I told you, take your time.
- 14:38Take your time.
- 14:38You'd be like, whew, okay, let's get started.
- 14:40You just, there's all these pressures.
- 14:41You've got all these pressures and responsibilities.
- 14:43All these things.
- 14:44You've got baggage.
- 14:45Just tons and tons of baggage.
- 14:46You don't actually have extra body fat.
- 14:48It's just baggage.
- 14:49It's baggage.
- 14:50And yes, are you dieting and exercising properly?
- 14:53No.
- 14:53You're doing it, obviously no.
- 14:55There's a lot of things you're doing that's not right.
- 14:57That you just need a few tweaks.
- 14:59Body fat will start melting away.
- 15:01Okay?
- 15:01You will see it in the mirror within a week.
- 15:02You will start to understand why you've struggled for a long time.
- 15:05And why even physicians couldn't give you answers.
- 15:07And some of the things that's on paper you won't have anymore.
- 15:10You'll be like, holy crap, there is something to this.
- 15:13So when you're ready for that type of transformation, you hire me.
- 15:16If you're not, and you're ready to just, you're still in your shit, and you want to stay in the struggle, you can go hire another coach.
- 15:21That's cheaper or that maybe seems like they talk to you a little sweeter or whatever, you know what you need.
- 15:26You know what you need.
- 15:27You need you right now.
- 15:28But the problem is you have been buried under some bullshit.
- 15:31Love to show you.
- 15:32Love to show you what you need to let go of.
- 15:34We've got a few spots open this week for the mastermind.
- 15:37If you want in, if you want the training where I actually break down how the To increase your calories while adjusting your hormones and clearing out that the things that are actually keeping you stuck, DM me or comment below.
- 15:48When this video is done strategy, I'll send you my fat loss secrets video, fill out the application.
- 15:52We'll give you a personalized strategy so that you can get results quickly.
- 15:56Within seven days you will have within 24 hours, you will have an aha moment shift.
- 15:59Women who work with me have instantaneous shifts.
- 16:01You know why?
- 16:02Because we work on a soul level.
- 16:03This is why when you go and you watch my podcast, you go watch anything in the past, you'll say it's like you talk, it's like you know me.
- 16:08It's soul speak.
- 16:10So most of you who are over 35, it's time to wake up.
- 16:14Life's gonna start kicking your ass right about now.
- 16:16Midlife awakening and you can either wake up or stay in the normies and stay asleep and then fall into the autoimmune categories and all this stuff and and just getting old and stuff like that.
- 16:26Or you can rise up to the occasion and do what you came here to do.
- 16:29Got it.
- 16:29All right.
- 16:29You know what to do.
- 16:30I will see you on the inside.