5 Things That Cheaters Say When Confronted

REDHEADREVEAL with Jenn Pinkerton · Oct 19, 2026 · 17m

What happens after you confront someone about cheating can tell you a lot about whether they’re moving toward accountability—or still trying to control the story.In this video, psychotherapist Jenn Pinkerton breaks down five common things cheaters say when they’re confronted, including “It’s not what you think,” “Why were you looking through my phone?” and “You weren’t there for me.” She explains what may be happening underneath these statements, why minimizing and blame-shifting can prevent real repair, and what genuine accountability actually sounds like. You’ll also learn why trickle truth…