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- 0:00Speaker 1: She's on the Money. She's on the Money. Hello, and
- 0:12Speaker 1: welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast for millennials
- 0:15Speaker 1: who want financial freedom. My name is Georgia King. I'm
- 0:18Speaker 1: a copywriter and journalism student, and every week I chat
- 0:21Speaker 1: money and how we can make it work for us
- 0:23Speaker 1: with millennial finance whiz Victoria Devine.
- 0:26Speaker 2: Hello Fee, Hello friends.
- 0:27Speaker 1: Now today on the show, we are going to be
- 0:29Speaker 1: chatting through everything you need to know when it comes
- 0:31Speaker 1: to budgeting for Christmas, which is wild to me because
- 0:34Speaker 1: the Christmas episode was actually the first one I did
- 0:37Speaker 1: with She's on the Money last year, Fee and.
- 0:39Speaker 2: A happy anniversary.
- 0:40Speaker 1: Hoy far, happy anniversary. Right back to you now, if
- 0:44Speaker 1: you are feeling a little bit stressed about how to
- 0:47Speaker 1: get through the festive period without draining all of your finances,
- 0:50Speaker 1: then this is absolutely the episode for you. Before we
- 0:54Speaker 1: do head into our money wins and confessions from the week,
- 0:56Speaker 1: though a little reminder to everyone as well to please
- 1:00Speaker 1: in the listener Choice Awards, which we yup don about
- 1:03Speaker 1: a little bit last week.
- 1:04Speaker 2: Like we've been very self indulgent here by promoting ourselves,
- 1:08Speaker 2: but genuinely win. You were talking about this earlier, Georgia
- 1:11Speaker 2: and literally like, I'm so grateful to be nominated for
- 1:14Speaker 2: the other awards, but really the one I care about
- 1:17Speaker 2: is the listener's choice. That's because you guys actually get
- 1:20Speaker 2: to say and that's important to us, isn't it.
- 1:23Speaker 1: So we'll put the link in the show notes as well,
- 1:26Speaker 1: so you can click through by just scrolling down the
- 1:28Speaker 1: little show artwork and then you'll find it. Go Friends,
- 1:31Speaker 1: Go please, Money Wins, Confessions, Vicky D. You talk to me.
- 1:35Speaker 2: If you call me Vicky D again, there will not
- 1:37Speaker 2: be another Christmas episode. But if you want to do
- 1:40Speaker 2: they I don't know. I actually know they do because
- 1:43Speaker 2: so many of them respond to our newsletter emails and
- 1:47Speaker 2: they always say, hey, we love this. Also, you have
- 1:50Speaker 2: to apologize before we move on to Money Wins and Confessions.
- 1:54Speaker 2: In our newsletter every week, friends, Georgia King, does George's
- 1:57Speaker 2: unsolicited recommendations? Did you put one in last week? Georgia?
- 2:02Speaker 3: No?
- 2:02Speaker 1: So the newsletter was like really long this week?
- 2:05Speaker 2: Do you know why?
- 2:06Speaker 1: I know?
- 2:07Speaker 4: How do you know?
- 2:07Speaker 2: Because so many people emailed me saying, where's George's unsolicited recommendation?
- 2:12Speaker 2: Really yes? And then they also offered their own suggestions,
- 2:15Speaker 2: one person saying tuna, another person saying that Pana ice
- 2:19Speaker 2: cream was on sale at cold this week. Yeah, like
- 2:22Speaker 2: all of these things could have been included, yet you
- 2:25Speaker 2: chose not to share your unsolicited recommendation.
- 2:28Speaker 1: Sorry to everyone who does feel cheated there. I won't
- 2:31Speaker 1: let it happen again, and that's on me, and I'll
- 2:32Speaker 1: reflect on that overnight, and you know it won't. Just
- 2:35Speaker 1: Just watch out Friday, you're in box around twelve pm.
- 2:38Speaker 1: There'll be something sparkly for you in there.
- 2:40Speaker 2: Thank you. Georgia. Feedback is very big part of shares
- 2:42Speaker 2: and the money's culture.
- 2:44Speaker 1: Wins and confessions.
- 2:45Speaker 2: Talk to me, all right, I have one from a
- 2:47Speaker 2: little bit of left field, right, so I have at
- 2:50Speaker 2: home and iMac and I have had that since twenty twelve.
- 2:54Speaker 2: It was the computer that I wrote my thesis on
- 2:56Speaker 2: Georgia King, which is very exciting, smartest smarty, and I
- 2:59Speaker 2: stopped you using it because the hinge on it broke,
- 3:02Speaker 2: so like where the stand is and the screen is,
- 3:05Speaker 2: the hinge stopped working, and so I got a quote
- 3:08Speaker 2: from Apple to get it fixed ages ago, and it
- 3:11Speaker 2: was gonna be I think it was like seven or
- 3:13Speaker 2: eight hundred dollars, and I was like that it's just
- 3:15Speaker 2: not happening. So for a very long time I had
- 3:17Speaker 2: a jar or an empty jar of peanut butter holding
- 3:19Speaker 2: the screen up, and then I migrated to just using
- 3:22Speaker 2: my work laptop for everything. So during IO, I realized
- 3:26Speaker 2: I do really like having a home office, but I
- 3:28Speaker 2: would like to have my computer there full time. So
- 3:31Speaker 2: I started googling how to fix it myself. Turns out
- 3:34Speaker 2: that's next to impossible, but someone online sells a little
- 3:38Speaker 2: plastic hinge that solves the problem perfectly. So instead of
- 3:42Speaker 2: spending seven hundred dollars on getting my iMac fixed, which
- 3:45Speaker 2: arguably is a great money win, I spent like forty
- 3:48Speaker 2: dollars or something on this little plastic hinge online that
- 3:51Speaker 2: is gorgeous. Yeah, it was actually really helpful, and Eclipse
- 3:53Speaker 2: onto the back and you're none the wiser.
- 3:56Speaker 1: How can Apple possibly charge eight hundred bucks for that?
- 3:59Speaker 2: By the way, I think it was because it was
- 4:00Speaker 2: completely out of warranty, and from watching numerous YouTube videos
- 4:04Speaker 2: my friend, I've realized it means pulling the entire computer
- 4:07Speaker 2: apart and putting it back together, which I clearly do
- 4:10Speaker 2: not have the skill for, so I didn't do it.
- 4:12Speaker 2: I bought a plastic hinge. So that's my money win
- 4:15Speaker 2: this week. I know you guys are so enthusiastic about it,
- 4:18Speaker 2: but Georgia King, do you have a money win or
- 4:20Speaker 2: confession for us that's arguably better than mine?
- 4:23Speaker 1: Look, mine is kind of boring as well, just kidding,
- 4:26Speaker 1: Yours wasn't boring. So I've been selling stuff online recently, Guys.
- 4:32Speaker 1: I've never done that before because I'm lazy. I've had
- 4:35Speaker 1: this box of clothes sitting in my room since probably
- 4:38Speaker 1: year twelve. There's a couple of formal dresses in there
- 4:40Speaker 1: that are mine. If anyone is interested, Mgking me up, yep, yep,
- 4:45Speaker 1: I'll sign it for you. Just kidding. No one would
- 4:47Speaker 1: be interested in that. But no, I've made some money,
- 4:51Speaker 1: not that much money, like one hundred and twenty bucks,
- 4:53Speaker 1: but put that in me saving.
- 4:55Speaker 2: Why do you look at me like you're so surprised?
- 4:57Speaker 2: We are literally the poster of women of selling things
- 5:01Speaker 2: online side hustling getting extra card. It felt good, Yeah,
- 5:04Speaker 2: it feels good, But I'm just shocked that you're so
- 5:07Speaker 2: surprised it actually worked. It's such an easy solution.
- 5:11Speaker 1: The only downside was postage though. I forgot to put
- 5:14Speaker 1: that into the price and it's like ten dollars to
- 5:16Speaker 1: post some mail. I didn't. I just haven't done that
- 5:20Speaker 1: in a long time.
- 5:21Speaker 2: Yeah, it is actually quite expensive. Hot tip for you
- 5:24Speaker 2: guys selling online, either say postages included or I'd say
- 5:29Speaker 2: the price yeah, or say plus postage yeah, because it
- 5:33Speaker 2: often looks more attractive that way.
- 5:35Speaker 1: Marketing.
- 5:35Speaker 2: Well, actually, I don't know, because I'm like, now we're
- 5:38Speaker 2: heading down behavioral finance road, which is not this episode.
- 5:42Speaker 2: But like, I'm more likely to buy something if I
- 5:44Speaker 2: get free that free shipping.
- 5:46Speaker 1: Yes, yeah.
- 5:47Speaker 2: If you say it's free postage, I'll.
- 5:48Speaker 1: Be like, yes, thank you money.
- 5:50Speaker 2: If you say it's four dollars postage, I'll be like, ooh,
- 5:52Speaker 2: do I really want to spend four dollars on postage?
- 5:54Speaker 4: Right?
- 5:55Speaker 1: That's a hot tip and a hot tip to all
- 5:56Speaker 1: the ladies out there.
- 5:58Speaker 2: Bump up your price slightly and say free postage. Clever.
- 6:01Speaker 2: It's what would get me by anyway. Let's move on.
- 6:04Speaker 1: Let's move on.
- 6:05Speaker 2: You go first. Oh no, you didn't introduce it. I'll
- 6:07Speaker 2: introduce it. Guys. Time for the community shout out.
- 6:10Speaker 1: It certainly is, VICKI d you can go first, Sorry
- 6:12Speaker 1: to stop, Okay, all right, rap, I actually have a
- 6:15Speaker 1: money win from our friend Jessica, and I actually really
- 6:18Speaker 1: like this one for a number of reasons.
- 6:20Speaker 2: You guys will see why. She said after listening to
- 6:23Speaker 2: the Christmas episode of She's on the Money last year,
- 6:25Speaker 2: she was inspired to set up a Christmas twenty twenty
- 6:27Speaker 2: savings account, and she was transferring fifty dollars and she
- 6:30Speaker 2: said sometimes more each fortnight from her pay into it.
- 6:35Speaker 2: And she created this saver on the twenty third of
- 6:37Speaker 2: December twenty nineteen, and then she just hit her goal
- 6:40Speaker 2: of fifteen hundred today. She said that she didn't really
- 6:42Speaker 2: notice the money being taken out, and she's just found
- 6:45Speaker 2: out that she also has two hundred dollars worth of
- 6:48Speaker 2: Flybys points, which can also help contribute towards food or
- 6:51Speaker 2: beverage over Christmas. She simultaneously hit another major savings goal
- 6:55Speaker 2: overall today, so it's a pretty big old money win
- 6:58Speaker 2: for her. That's you. Honestly, I love this for so
- 7:01Speaker 2: many reasons. First reason, Georgia, is that one she hit
- 7:04Speaker 2: a money goal. Fantastic. Heck yeah, they're my favorite.
- 7:08Speaker 4: Two.
- 7:08Speaker 2: When she was doing her Christmas budgeting, it didn't just
- 7:11Speaker 2: include gifts. It was like food and beverages, And I
- 7:14Speaker 2: really like that because a little more Yeah, those are
- 7:17Speaker 2: the things that catch us out, Like we forget how
- 7:20Speaker 2: much we actually spend on extra drinks around Christmas, or
- 7:23Speaker 2: like if you have to take a plate to your
- 7:25Speaker 2: aunt's place, like you might end up spending forty dollars
- 7:28Speaker 2: on a cheese platter or you know, twenty five if
- 7:30Speaker 2: you actually do the l detail. But that's not the point,
- 7:33Speaker 2: is it. Anyway? I really loved that, and I hope
- 7:36Speaker 2: that you've got one as good as I found.
- 7:38Speaker 1: Look I do. Mine is from ash Actually, just back
- 7:41Speaker 1: on that. I love when we see posts like this
- 7:45Speaker 1: off the back of episodes like she took the advice
- 7:47Speaker 1: from last year's Christmas episode and has made She's killed
- 7:51Speaker 1: that money goal. Looks amazing.
- 7:52Speaker 2: I actually love that because like, small things add up
- 7:55Speaker 2: and it doesn't feel like a lot when you just start. No,
- 7:58Speaker 2: but now Jess has fifteen hundred dollars to spend on
- 8:01Speaker 2: Christmas and she's not going to be stressed about it
- 8:03Speaker 2: in the slightest. And I know that lots of people
- 8:05Speaker 2: who are listening to this today are going to be
- 8:07Speaker 2: stressed about Christmas, which is coming up now. So it's
- 8:10Speaker 2: kind of just a little kick in the bottom and
- 8:12Speaker 2: to let you know that you probably should start a
- 8:13Speaker 2: Christmas savings account. We actually have a savings template or
- 8:18Speaker 2: a Christmas goal chart that is going to be dropped
- 8:21Speaker 2: or should actually Georgia already have been dropped in our
- 8:24Speaker 2: podcast group for you guys to download, so you can
- 8:27Speaker 2: actually track it and work out how much you need
- 8:29Speaker 2: to be saving for Christmas, whether that's next year or
- 8:32Speaker 2: even this year, just so you can be on top
- 8:34Speaker 2: of it. But we hear your money.
- 8:36Speaker 4: We can.
- 8:37Speaker 1: The group Miney is from ash So a while ago
- 8:39Speaker 1: a girl posted in the group about the my seven
- 8:42Speaker 1: eleven app where you can lock fuel prices to save
- 8:45Speaker 1: you money, plus you can get some other freebies, which
- 8:48Speaker 1: is already a score. As she said, so then she
- 8:51Speaker 1: saw a collab opportunity with seven to eleven to promote
- 8:54Speaker 1: this app, and she's scored heaps of money from it.
- 8:57Speaker 1: She loves it for her, I love it for her,
- 8:59Speaker 1: and she wishes everyone a happy weekend. How does that happen?
- 9:02Speaker 2: I actually don't know because I've never seen a collabor
- 9:06Speaker 2: opportunity for seven eleven, albeit maybe I did accidentally have
- 9:10Speaker 2: one the other week because they sent me a box
- 9:12Speaker 2: of donuts for Halloween.
- 9:13Speaker 1: Heaven.
- 9:14Speaker 2: Honestly, I didn't consume any of them. You wouldn't be
- 9:17Speaker 2: allowed to. Honestly, I couldn't stuff. But you best believe
- 9:19Speaker 2: my partner inhaled for donuts, and I'm assuming by how
- 9:24Speaker 2: quickly they were gone it means he liked them.
- 9:27Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, happy for you, Stevie. I wonder if I
- 9:30Speaker 1: could collap with seven eleven. I've got about one hundred
- 9:33Speaker 1: and fifty followers, So if you're listening seven to eleven,
- 9:35Speaker 1: do get in touch. Cheeking on tour. We can work together.
- 9:39Speaker 1: Shall we move on to the main topic of today's show?
- 9:41Speaker 2: V We absolutely can. I'm really excited about this one.
- 9:44Speaker 1: Actually would be a good one.
- 9:45Speaker 2: Let's jump straight in.
- 9:47Speaker 1: Alrighty guys, So Christmas, it will come as a surprise
- 9:49Speaker 1: to precisely no one is an extremely expensive time of
- 9:52Speaker 1: the year, and last year Ozzie's actually spent a total
- 9:55Speaker 1: of eighteen point eight billion dollars bill has of dollars.
- 10:01Speaker 1: That average is out to be nine hundred and sixty
- 10:03Speaker 1: nine dollars per household. And crazily, another little stat I
- 10:07Speaker 1: found was that five point eight million Australians didn't have
- 10:10Speaker 1: enough cash in the bank to cover Christmas and had
- 10:13Speaker 1: to actually rely on credit. Now that figure did break
- 10:16Speaker 1: my heart feet but it also just makes sense because
- 10:18Speaker 1: there is so much pressure at this time of year
- 10:21Speaker 1: to spend, spend, spend, And we will talk about that
- 10:24Speaker 1: pressure a little bit later on in the show, but
- 10:26Speaker 1: before we do that, and before we jump into our
- 10:29Speaker 1: Christmas budgeting hacks, talk me through why you think Australians
- 10:33Speaker 1: continue to spend so much at this time of year,
- 10:36Speaker 1: even though it does seem like our financial literacy has
- 10:39Speaker 1: improved so much.
- 10:40Speaker 2: I would hope it has. I mean, we've got people
- 10:42Speaker 2: implementing our advice from twelve months ago exactly. That's impact
- 10:46Speaker 2: right there. But as you said, Georgia, it is an
- 10:48Speaker 2: incredibly expensive time of the year. Ozzie. Spend billions and
- 10:52Speaker 2: billions of dollars each and every single year on the
- 10:54Speaker 2: festive season. It's honestly on so much more than just
- 10:57Speaker 2: the gifts as well as we know, it's the food,
- 10:59Speaker 2: it's parties, it's the additional travel and petrol money you
- 11:03Speaker 2: didn't actually put in the budget. The list of things
- 11:06Speaker 2: actually goes on and on when Christmas comes along and
- 11:09Speaker 2: in a year where most of us haven't really been
- 11:11Speaker 2: spending as much as we would in usual times, my
- 11:14Speaker 2: prediction is that it's probably going to be a little
- 11:16Speaker 2: bit more over the top than usual when it really
- 11:19Speaker 2: shouldn't be. In fact, I've been thinking about this obviously
- 11:22Speaker 2: because we planned this episode, and I think that the
- 11:26Speaker 2: main reason we just keep continuing to spend it this
- 11:28Speaker 2: time of the year is because it's what we've always done.
- 11:31Speaker 2: It's that most of us are so used to dropping
- 11:33Speaker 2: hundreds each year without really pausing to question the tradition
- 11:36Speaker 2: of it, or if we should be spending at this
- 11:38Speaker 2: time of the year, or if we should be spending
- 11:40Speaker 2: less at this time of the year. The other key
- 11:43Speaker 2: thing I think is the marketing Georgia, which absolutely goes
- 11:47Speaker 2: overdrive at this time of the year. And it might
- 11:49Speaker 2: sound really obvious to those working in sales or marketing,
- 11:52Speaker 2: of which I know there are many of you, but
- 11:54Speaker 2: the average Joe blow it's very easy to become completely
- 11:57Speaker 2: overwhelmed and full victim to the ads that are literally
- 12:00Speaker 2: everywhere that are telling us to spend span span span spend.
- 12:03Speaker 5: Look.
- 12:04Speaker 2: We spoke about the psychology of sales and advertising on
- 12:06Speaker 2: last week's show, so I won't harp on it too much,
- 12:09Speaker 2: but if you do want to brush up on why
- 12:10Speaker 2: our brains are wired to respond to ads the way
- 12:13Speaker 2: that they do, I would recommend going back and listening
- 12:15Speaker 2: to it, And if you've already listened to it, listen again,
- 12:18Speaker 2: listen again. Or maybe we actually just need another episode
- 12:21Speaker 2: on the psychology of spending. But even I, as someone
- 12:24Speaker 2: who is quite obviously, I would say across finance right
- 12:28Speaker 2: like I mean, I don't I'm not perfect, but I
- 12:31Speaker 2: do know a little bit about personal finance. It's more
- 12:34Speaker 2: of a do as I say, not as I do,
- 12:36Speaker 2: kind of mentality. But I do find myself spending more
- 12:39Speaker 2: at this time of the year. Yes, I do actually
- 12:41Speaker 2: plan for it, and I do budget for it in
- 12:43Speaker 2: advance because I know historically what my spending has been
- 12:46Speaker 2: like over this period. But for the most financially savvy
- 12:49Speaker 2: of us, it can also be a time that we
- 12:50Speaker 2: get really swept up. I'm not gonna lie. I did
- 12:52Speaker 2: end up going over budget for Christmas last year because
- 12:55Speaker 2: I ended up just doing some last minute shopping. And
- 12:57Speaker 2: as we all know, this isn't a statistic, it's real.
- 13:00Speaker 2: But like I would say, one hundred percent of us
- 13:02Speaker 2: who last minute shop spend more than they should have.
- 13:04Speaker 1: Oh for sure?
- 13:05Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think that's she's on the money
- 13:07Speaker 2: stat just so you know, legitimate as hell certified by
- 13:10Speaker 2: VICKI d Yeah.
- 13:11Speaker 1: Now do you think that is a pressure of being like, oh,
- 13:14Speaker 1: I'm so far behind, better spend more, don't want to
- 13:16Speaker 1: miss anything?
- 13:17Speaker 3: Like?
- 13:17Speaker 1: Is that what that is? Or not sure? Move on?
- 13:19Speaker 2: If I'm being honest, I don't know entirely what it is.
- 13:22Speaker 2: I think it's the psychology behind wanting to give and
- 13:25Speaker 2: wanting to share and just feeling like your love ends
- 13:28Speaker 2: up being bundled up into an item, which it absolutely
- 13:32Speaker 2: cannot be. But often lots of us feel like, genuinely,
- 13:35Speaker 2: if we don't get a good gift, it must mean
- 13:37Speaker 2: we don't love that person. A bit of a hippie
- 13:39Speaker 2: when it comes to stuff like this as well, because
- 13:42Speaker 2: there are some people and I don't know if you
- 13:43Speaker 2: guys are into this, This is totally left field. This
- 13:46Speaker 2: is such a fluffy episode. I do apologize, but I
- 13:49Speaker 2: really like love languages and understanding people's love languages, and
- 13:52Speaker 2: some of you are going to have the love language
- 13:54Speaker 2: of gift giving, right so that means that you genuinely
- 13:57Speaker 2: want to give and receive gifts as sign of affection
- 14:00Speaker 2: and love, and that is totally okay. But if that
- 14:03Speaker 2: is you, you really need to go above and beyond to
- 14:05Speaker 2: make sure that you are staying on budget and that
- 14:07Speaker 2: you're really thinking about these gifts so that those gifts
- 14:10Speaker 2: don't become just really really expensive because you feel the
- 14:13Speaker 2: need to do that because that's your way of showing love.
- 14:15Speaker 2: So for me, I think it's genuinely about just not
- 14:18Speaker 2: getting caught up in the hype and just really thinking
- 14:21Speaker 2: about it. And that is why this week we have
- 14:22Speaker 2: created our Christmas spending list so that you can keep
- 14:25Speaker 2: track of it and stay on budget and have a
- 14:27Speaker 2: little bit of reflection time around how to save the
- 14:30Speaker 2: most on this. And given there is what just under
- 14:33Speaker 2: two months to Christmas, we actually have the time to
- 14:35Speaker 2: plan and still buy things online and have it arrive
- 14:38Speaker 2: and you know, actually we've got time to make sure
- 14:40Speaker 2: that we're making the right decisions.
- 14:41Speaker 4: Here.
- 14:42Speaker 1: Back on the love languages, think just for a minute,
- 14:45Speaker 1: you would be gift givery, wouldn't you. I feel like
- 14:48Speaker 1: that is very much your vibe. Why would you say that, Well,
- 14:51Speaker 1: you have given me a few things if you wrote
- 14:53Speaker 1: lattes in the past time.
- 14:54Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a bit of a gift giver. I'm definitely
- 14:57Speaker 2: a gift giver. And I'm a bit of a words
- 14:59Speaker 2: of affirmation person and as well, like I really like
- 15:01Speaker 2: telling people how much I appreciate them, which you probably
- 15:03Speaker 2: have experienced as well well. Jokes on you. I've never
- 15:07Speaker 2: said anything because I have no appreciation for you. I'm
- 15:10Speaker 2: also an active service person. Like I feel like all
- 15:12Speaker 2: these love languages. If you guys haven't looked into it,
- 15:14Speaker 2: it's actually really awesome to understand yourself and your partner
- 15:18Speaker 2: or your friends and like how they like to communicate
- 15:21Speaker 2: and the actions you can do to have the biggest
- 15:23Speaker 2: impact on them. It's just kind of cool. Like there's
- 15:25Speaker 2: I think it's five.
- 15:26Speaker 1: I think it's five.
- 15:27Speaker 2: Different love languages. It's like words of affirmation, physical Dutch,
- 15:30Speaker 2: receiving gifts, quality time, and acts of service. And if
- 15:33Speaker 2: you can work out what your partners love language is,
- 15:35Speaker 2: you can usually get them a gift that they will
- 15:38Speaker 2: love the most. So like if their love language is
- 15:40Speaker 2: acts of service, like maybe they'd prefer like a homemade
- 15:43Speaker 2: like gift card where you say that you'll do things
- 15:45Speaker 2: for them and they'd really appreciate that. Whereas if someone
- 15:47Speaker 2: really likes quality time, maybe you say, oh we're going
- 15:50Speaker 2: to go on a picnic, it's better an entire afternoon together. Like,
- 15:53Speaker 2: I know it sounds a little bit fluffy, but it's
- 15:54Speaker 2: a really nice way to understand the person that you're
- 15:58Speaker 2: giving a gift to, so it can be more thought.
- 16:00Speaker 2: And I really like frameworks. I don't know if you
- 16:02Speaker 2: guys knew that.
- 16:03Speaker 1: What is that? Like a psychologist?
- 16:04Speaker 2: No, I just like having structure to everything I create. Yeah,
- 16:08Speaker 2: it's so strange. That is interesting.
- 16:11Speaker 1: We can probably link that in the group or in
- 16:13Speaker 1: the show notes or something, because it is a real thing.
- 16:15Speaker 1: We're not just fappen on here, but we will move on.
- 16:18Speaker 2: Thank you, Joe.
- 16:20Speaker 1: Let's go to our hacks. So the first one I
- 16:23Speaker 1: have here is to plan and use the sales coming up,
- 16:26Speaker 1: which we spoke about last week, to utilize those discounted
- 16:29Speaker 1: prices they elaborate.
- 16:31Speaker 2: Yeah, so this one actually ties perfectly into last week's conversation,
- 16:34Speaker 2: which was no coincidence. Like we've done this mini series.
- 16:37Speaker 2: I hope you guys like it, where we spoke about
- 16:40Speaker 2: making the most of the sales that are coming up,
- 16:42Speaker 2: so we all know the Black Friday is coming up,
- 16:44Speaker 2: and if you have people in mind to buy for,
- 16:46Speaker 2: have a brainstorm about what they would want. I'm not
- 16:48Speaker 2: going to half on about that because we've just spoken
- 16:50Speaker 2: about it, but if you did miss last week's episode
- 16:52Speaker 2: on Black Friday, it's coming up on the twenty seventh
- 16:54Speaker 2: of November, as is Cyber Monday, which is the following Monday.
- 16:57Speaker 2: And as I said to you guys last week, not
- 16:59Speaker 2: only can you save money on sales if you're already
- 17:01Speaker 2: intending on purchasing that product, but it means that if
- 17:05Speaker 2: you're planning, you're not just buying willy nilly and just
- 17:08Speaker 2: buying because you've got a discount where you still get
- 17:10Speaker 2: that inscidant gratification of purchasing. So let's plan it. The
- 17:13Speaker 2: other part is planning, which we spoke about on last
- 17:16Speaker 2: year's episode on Christmas, is to put away money regularly
- 17:19Speaker 2: so you can afford Christmas and have designated funds for
- 17:22Speaker 2: spending at this time of year.
- 17:24Speaker 5: Now.
- 17:24Speaker 2: Obviously Jessica, who I spoke about before, did this, who
- 17:27Speaker 2: I mentioned earlier in the Facebook group. But we can't
- 17:29Speaker 2: all be as organized because we don't have twelve months.
- 17:31Speaker 2: We've literally only got eight weeks now. But if you
- 17:34Speaker 2: haven't been as organized as just that's okay, that's what
- 17:36Speaker 2: the hack's on this episode of four Friends.
- 17:39Speaker 1: Exactly right there, V And that does lead perfectly into
- 17:41Speaker 1: our next hack here, which is to cut back on
- 17:44Speaker 1: that non essential spending, which we do talk about all
- 17:46Speaker 1: the time, but it is very important, and it is
- 17:48Speaker 1: especially important if you are wondering how you're going to
- 17:51Speaker 1: pull off Christmas this year, because we can put that
- 17:53Speaker 1: extra money away and allocate that towards our Christmas fund.
- 17:57Speaker 2: Absolutely, we say it literally all the time. But if
- 18:00Speaker 2: you do have trouble identifying where you are spending money unnecessarily,
- 18:03Speaker 2: then do print out the last couple of months of
- 18:05Speaker 2: your statements so that you can clearly see your spending
- 18:08Speaker 2: and then highlight the purchases that you've made that are
- 18:10Speaker 2: non essential. So if you can cut out some or
- 18:13Speaker 2: even have what you ever had that you have, whether
- 18:16Speaker 2: that is lattes or cigarettes I hope not friends sure,
- 18:20Speaker 2: but also Uber eats, let's be honest, then you'll be
- 18:22Speaker 2: able to put lots of extra cash away each week,
- 18:25Speaker 2: which you can put to better use and on things
- 18:27Speaker 2: that you actually value as opposed to you know, extra
- 18:29Speaker 2: uber eats, which is often a convenience thing. Let's start planning, friends.
- 18:34Speaker 1: So would you open up a special Christmas fund account?
- 18:38Speaker 4: Is that?
- 18:38Speaker 2: So lots of people do do this, and I think
- 18:40Speaker 2: it's like it's awesome to have a separate one. I
- 18:43Speaker 2: don't have a Christmas fund because it's in my larger
- 18:46Speaker 2: you know, cash hub that I use that actually holds
- 18:49Speaker 2: all of my savings for different things throughout the year.
- 18:52Speaker 2: But I found that using I know this is not
- 18:55Speaker 2: sponsored by upbank at all, but I really don't like
- 18:58Speaker 2: up the bank. You can break down different savers with them,
- 19:02Speaker 2: so instead of opening an entirely new account, you can
- 19:05Speaker 2: just break down different savings portions of that account and
- 19:08Speaker 2: kind of like have a little Christmas saver, which I
- 19:10Speaker 2: really like. And you can even put emojis in the
- 19:12Speaker 2: name of this. It's just all center in there.
- 19:14Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. That's at the end.
- 19:16Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's the end. That's all I've got.
- 19:18Speaker 1: Sorry, Next, Hakfee, which I love. I love this one,
- 19:22Speaker 1: but I'll let you explain it. It's to say no
- 19:24Speaker 1: more often. Can you talk us through how this can
- 19:26Speaker 1: actually save us money.
- 19:27Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, I mean no, I'm a funny coal Sorry sorry, sorry,
- 19:35Speaker 2: I just think I'm really funny. You don't need to
- 19:37Speaker 2: go to every single event this festive season, my friends.
- 19:40Speaker 2: This is true of summer generally too, and it probably
- 19:43Speaker 2: wouldn't be as much of an issue this year given
- 19:46Speaker 2: now COVID limitations. But you do not need to go
- 19:49Speaker 2: to every festival or concert or Christmas party that is
- 19:51Speaker 2: coming up. And I know you're probably feeling like you
- 19:54Speaker 2: want to because you're making up for lost time. Please
- 19:57Speaker 2: think about your bank account before you make these commitments.
- 20:00Speaker 2: Catch up with friends one thousand percent. But it doesn't
- 20:02Speaker 2: mean you have to go out for drinks, like let's
- 20:05Speaker 2: step back into COVID life for a little bit. Let's
- 20:07Speaker 2: do some more cheese platters, let's do more picnics like
- 20:10Speaker 2: I reckon twenty twenty one should genuinely be about embracing
- 20:14Speaker 2: cheaper catch up options, which previously during COVID we were
- 20:17Speaker 2: forced into.
- 20:18Speaker 1: Exactly right.
- 20:19Speaker 2: I really liked it, But I know a lot of
- 20:21Speaker 2: people can actually feel really guilty doing this, and I
- 20:24Speaker 2: get it because I do too. Women, especially, I think,
- 20:27Speaker 2: have the tendency to be people pleasers. But by saying
- 20:30Speaker 2: no straight up and being just really honest about how
- 20:32Speaker 2: busy you are or that you just genuinely can't afford,
- 20:35Speaker 2: it actually has the effect of making people respect you more.
- 20:38Speaker 2: And I think that that's a way better look than
- 20:40Speaker 2: just canceling the day before or like the day of,
- 20:43Speaker 2: which is never that sexy.
- 20:44Speaker 1: Oh there's nothing worse than a flake. I actually used
- 20:47Speaker 1: to be a bit of a flake in the olden days,
- 20:49Speaker 1: the way back, quen George KEI, way back when it
- 20:51Speaker 1: was a bit of a high school thing. I just
- 20:52Speaker 1: wouldn't go to stuff, and it earned me quite the
- 20:55Speaker 1: reputation as a dickhead. So yeah, George in high school.
- 21:03Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie though. I'm a socially anxious person sometimes,
- 21:07Speaker 2: which you guys might not have known, but I know
- 21:09Speaker 2: Georgia King knows about me. So like, I actually get
- 21:12Speaker 2: a lot of joy when someone cancels a social event
- 21:14Speaker 2: and me like, oh no, that's terrible, damn we can't
- 21:18Speaker 2: go but anyway night or whatever exactly, but moving on.
- 21:22Speaker 2: People usually get it, and we've all been there, and
- 21:25Speaker 2: I'm sure they've been there themselves, and there is absolutely
- 21:27Speaker 2: no shame in saying no. I just think be really
- 21:29Speaker 2: honest and upfront about it. There's something so empowering about
- 21:32Speaker 2: a friend that's like, hey, that sounds great, Victoria. But
- 21:34Speaker 2: I actually I don't afford to do that. Like the
- 21:35Speaker 2: first thing I'd go is like, yeah, fantastic, Like I
- 21:38Speaker 2: still want to catch up with you, though, how do
- 21:39Speaker 2: we do that? Like, it's not actually about the thing
- 21:42Speaker 2: with my friends, it's about actually having something to do together.
- 21:46Speaker 2: And if my suggestion isn't in budget, that's fine. Nothing
- 21:49Speaker 2: set in stone, my friends. I love that.
- 21:52Speaker 1: The next little point we have here, which we did
- 21:54Speaker 1: speak about last week very briefly, is to opt for
- 21:57Speaker 1: handmade gifts. Yes, yes, so I probably, to be honest,
- 22:01Speaker 1: wouldn't do this one myself because I do have the
- 22:04Speaker 1: craft skills of a first grader. George, I actually thought
- 22:07Speaker 1: the count well it is the thought the counts. When
- 22:09Speaker 1: I was in grade one, I actually everyone in our
- 22:12Speaker 1: whole year level got artist of the week and I didn't.
- 22:15Speaker 1: I was the only one that didn't get artists of
- 22:17Speaker 1: the week.
- 22:18Speaker 2: Well, okay, you being a podcaster now, you creative spunky lady.
- 22:23Speaker 1: Anyway, sorry, so many stories from my past tonight. Okay,
- 22:27Speaker 1: So what I want you guys to do is have
- 22:28Speaker 1: a little think about what you're actually good at. Are
- 22:30Speaker 1: you a bit of a chef who could nail, you know,
- 22:32Speaker 1: a gingerbread house that's probably more baking than cheffery, but
- 22:35Speaker 1: you know whatever, maybe you could bake some nice cookies,
- 22:38Speaker 1: whip up some nice gems.
- 22:39Speaker 4: Maybe.
- 22:39Speaker 2: Honestly, jam is so easy?
- 22:41Speaker 5: Is it?
- 22:41Speaker 2: Jammy? So easy to make? Like, let's find a little
- 22:44Speaker 2: she's on. Let's find a recipe. Let's ask our friend
- 22:47Speaker 2: Millie Padola, who's a dietitian, for a jam recipe, and
- 22:50Speaker 2: we will post that hot little recipe in the group.
- 22:53Speaker 2: And you best believe it'll probably be healthy as well.
- 22:55Speaker 2: N't be from our friend Millie.
- 22:57Speaker 1: Jam could be healthy, It's just I can totally be
- 23:00Speaker 1: sugar and a couple of berries.
- 23:01Speaker 2: Yes, but okay, this is such an off track episode,
- 23:04Speaker 2: but I'm loving it. You can use chea seeds instead
- 23:07Speaker 2: of sugar, so it becomes quite healthy. Let's talk to
- 23:10Speaker 2: meally before I sell a recipe. She doesn't indoors. Yes,
- 23:13Speaker 2: I've made it before and I really like.
- 23:14Speaker 1: It, so sting Alright, honestly, we should all get jam
- 23:17Speaker 1: jarring yep, cheer c jam. Okay, other ideas. You know,
- 23:21Speaker 1: you could be artistic. You could draw a paint, knit crochet.
- 23:24Speaker 1: I don't know people are into that. I'm laughing here,
- 23:27Speaker 1: but people love homemade gifts because they are They're full
- 23:30Speaker 1: of love, They're a little bit sentimental, they're a little
- 23:32Speaker 1: bit thoughtful, I guess. And it's better than just like
- 23:35Speaker 1: a scented candle or another body shop moisturize, which I
- 23:38Speaker 1: would love the.
- 23:39Speaker 2: Old body shop. I'm not going to bodyshop moisturizer. It
- 23:42Speaker 2: is good chef's kiss to it.
- 23:44Speaker 1: Yeah, it is chef's kiss, but you know it is
- 23:46Speaker 1: also it's what you get for those people that you
- 23:48Speaker 1: don't know.
- 23:49Speaker 2: You know, like I made my part and I think
- 23:52Speaker 2: I've told you guys this and if you guys would
- 23:55Speaker 2: like to know, do you know what? I'm going to
- 23:56Speaker 2: start talking about myself because I actually had a really
- 23:59Speaker 2: great chat with friends from the Outspoken podcast this week, yep,
- 24:03Speaker 2: and they asked me a lot of invasive questions about
- 24:05Speaker 2: my family life and about my Christmas tradition. So if
- 24:09Speaker 2: you want to know what I do for Christmas, head
- 24:11Speaker 2: on over to my friends and have a listen to
- 24:13Speaker 2: their pod, I'm moving on. What's the next tack, Georgia kids.
- 24:16Speaker 1: Okay, so the next tack is to set price limits
- 24:19Speaker 1: with your friends or family slash whoever you really buy for,
- 24:22Speaker 1: and also to consider starting a Chris Kringle. So talk
- 24:25Speaker 1: us through these points fare Okay.
- 24:26Speaker 2: So this monster. Let's be honest, little bit self explanatory.
- 24:30Speaker 2: But they are both really good ways of putting a
- 24:33Speaker 2: ceiling on your spending at Christmas time. So choose a
- 24:35Speaker 2: set amount and just stick to it. If you have
- 24:37Speaker 2: a partner do the same thing, things can actually get
- 24:40Speaker 2: super out of control this time of year, so take
- 24:42Speaker 2: control instead. By setting boundaries on your spending, your friends
- 24:45Speaker 2: and family are honestly going to be relieved as well.
- 24:48Speaker 2: And Chris Kringle is honestly another smart way of spending less.
- 24:51Speaker 2: It's also known as secret Santa, whatever you want to
- 24:54Speaker 2: call it. I'm cool with that. So basically, each member
- 24:57Speaker 2: of your family or your friendship group just has one
- 25:00Speaker 2: person to buy for instead of several. It is often
- 25:02Speaker 2: kept at a certain price point as well, which we love,
- 25:05Speaker 2: and it makes the whole ordeal far easier and far
- 25:08Speaker 2: more financially attainable. I also think it's a little bit
- 25:11Speaker 2: more economical, like in terms of just like waste and
- 25:14Speaker 2: like getting one present instead of six million presents you're
- 25:17Speaker 2: not actually going to use. Well, that's a massive issue
- 25:19Speaker 2: at this time of year. The waste would just be ridiculous.
- 25:21Speaker 2: I should have got some stats for us, but I didn't.
- 25:25Speaker 2: But we will do more stats on podcast friends.
- 25:28Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, another question for you here, sorry, Brogue.
- 25:32Speaker 1: How much do you think you should spend on your partner?
- 25:35Speaker 2: I think it varies completely, it's completely personal, but I
- 25:39Speaker 2: do think that you should have a chat. No, I
- 25:41Speaker 2: don't think that there's a ballpartner, because I think i've actually,
- 25:44Speaker 2: you know what, George, Head on over to Outspoken the podcast.
- 25:46Speaker 2: I don't even know if they've published the Christmas episode yet,
- 25:49Speaker 2: but I'm sure it's coming soon. They definitely do deserve
- 25:51Speaker 2: some more subscribers. Though. This is absolutely not sponsored, but
- 25:54Speaker 2: I actually talked about what my partner and I do
- 25:57Speaker 2: for Christmas because we don't actually buy each other big
- 25:59Speaker 2: press sense. We do what's called a Christmas basket. So
- 26:02Speaker 2: head on over there and maybe you will learn something. Friends.
- 26:05Speaker 1: Yes, good teas also a really long story. Okay, love it? Okay,
- 26:10Speaker 1: Well that brings us to the end. Actually, here we are,
- 26:12Speaker 1: so let's recap. We've got Chris Kringle. Yes, we've got
- 26:16Speaker 1: price limits where you can absolutely yeah, and it's going
- 26:19Speaker 1: to be different for everyone depending on just what your
- 26:22Speaker 1: values are. I guess we have opting for homemade and
- 26:25Speaker 1: hitting up our friend Millie Padula and dietician edition. Yes, yeah, exactly,
- 26:29Speaker 1: but like hoping that she has capacity to help us,
- 26:31Speaker 1: I reckon.
- 26:32Speaker 2: We're just wildly speculating.
- 26:33Speaker 1: Yeah, she might not be interested, she might be done
- 26:35Speaker 1: with us. Okay, next one will say no more. Loved
- 26:39Speaker 1: that one. Planning that's an obvious one as well. And
- 26:42Speaker 1: then of course cutting out non essential spending in the
- 26:45Speaker 1: lead up, which is kind of hard to do right now,
- 26:47Speaker 1: it's so hard.
- 26:48Speaker 2: There's so many good now as well. It's like yes,
- 26:52Speaker 2: like there's so many good sales and like this morning,
- 26:55Speaker 2: get this, it's wild. I went to my first pilates
- 26:58Speaker 2: class of the season, same thank girl, Oh my gosh,
- 27:01Speaker 2: I'm so excited. But one of their girls across from me,
- 27:04Speaker 2: I could see the brand on her leggings, and her
- 27:07Speaker 2: leggings were again Chef's Kiss. Amazing, I think it said
- 27:10Speaker 2: nimble and I don't own anything from Nimble yet, so
- 27:13Speaker 2: I was kind of like, maybe I'll look at that
- 27:15Speaker 2: when I get home. That's terrible from me, Like, I
- 27:17Speaker 2: do not need more workout leggings, nor do I need
- 27:20Speaker 2: to be spending money right now. So I think this
- 27:22Speaker 2: is just a little check in for all of you
- 27:24Speaker 2: guys who are spending money on yourself that you potentially
- 27:26Speaker 2: don't need to be spending when we've got a bit
- 27:29Speaker 2: of a pricey period coming up.
- 27:30Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, think about it. It can be tempting, especially
- 27:32Speaker 1: to our Malburnians who haven't really had an op to
- 27:35Speaker 1: go out and shop.
- 27:36Speaker 2: Run one hundred percent.
- 27:38Speaker 1: I wanted to flag here as well our mates over
- 27:40Speaker 1: at Aldi. You know, also not sponsored, We're just in love, said,
- 27:44Speaker 1: I know, but you mentioned before the cheeseboard, our cheeseboard challenge.
- 27:47Speaker 2: It's honestly, it's so good, Like set a challenge. If
- 27:50Speaker 2: you're going to go over to someone's house for Christmas
- 27:53Speaker 2: and you are meant to bring something along, what a
- 27:55Speaker 2: better idea than to set a budget and try and
- 27:57Speaker 2: stick to it.
- 27:58Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred one hundred one, take a shot. Yeah,
- 28:02Speaker 1: love it? Oh God. Also, last bit from me, I'm
- 28:05Speaker 1: gonna wind this up is to also be careful of
- 28:08Speaker 1: the boxing day's sales, which can be very tempting on
- 28:10Speaker 1: the old twenty sixth of December. You know, use the
- 28:13Speaker 1: sales if you're gonna buy stuff anyway, but don't just
- 28:16Speaker 1: do it because it's a massive sale, which is what
- 28:18Speaker 1: everyone does on Boxing date. It's ridiculous. That is all
- 28:21Speaker 1: from me, vickd round us out. Okay, well, just that's
- 28:25Speaker 1: five times I've called you that. Sorry, all right, Georgia.
- 28:30Speaker 1: Before you hustle me on into the listener question, I
- 28:33Speaker 1: wanted to just add that this Christmas is going to
- 28:35Speaker 1: be a special one.
- 28:35Speaker 2: Because it's been a little bit of a weird and
- 28:38Speaker 2: isolating and difficult year for so many of us. For
- 28:41Speaker 2: lots of listeners, they're not actually going to be able
- 28:43Speaker 2: to spend time with their families this year. So to
- 28:45Speaker 2: all of you, we are sending our love and we
- 28:47Speaker 2: want you to know that you're part of our family.
- 28:50Speaker 2: But now we can have our listener question, let's do it.
- 28:53Speaker 3: Hello, love lies. I'm currently five K debt and it
- 28:56Speaker 3: is bad debt, as you girls will call it. But
- 28:59Speaker 3: I don't want to be sting to this Christmas as
- 29:01Speaker 3: I love giving and I would hate to miss out
- 29:03Speaker 3: just because I've made some silly decisions in the past.
- 29:07Speaker 3: I know you'll say not to rely on a credit card,
- 29:09Speaker 3: but I don't feel like I have much of a choice.
- 29:12Speaker 3: Any ideas you have of not leaning on credit at
- 29:15Speaker 3: this time would be amazing.
- 29:17Speaker 1: What's the answer to this one being?
- 29:19Speaker 2: I think this is a really interesting one because I
- 29:21Speaker 2: know so many people are going to be going into
- 29:23Speaker 2: this Christmas in debt. So for me, it would actually
- 29:27Speaker 2: be about making a budget, understanding your cash flow, and
- 29:30Speaker 2: I mean, never rely on credit if you can avoid
- 29:33Speaker 2: it going to be unavoidable for some people. I'm not
- 29:36Speaker 2: going to sit here and be like, just don't do it,
- 29:38Speaker 2: because it means that you actually miss out, and like,
- 29:41Speaker 2: I think it's a very challenging space, right. The advice
- 29:43Speaker 2: here is obviously, do not rely on credit. But if
- 29:46Speaker 2: you cannot put food on the table or get Christmas
- 29:50Speaker 2: presents for your children or family this year without relying
- 29:53Speaker 2: on credit, like, that's okay. Like, and I want you
- 29:56Speaker 2: to know that that's okay. I'm obviously not endorsing it
- 29:58Speaker 2: as a really great long term solution, but if it's
- 30:01Speaker 2: something that you actually need to do fantastic, But don't
- 30:04Speaker 2: go crazy just because it's on a credit card. Still
- 30:07Speaker 2: have a budget, Still put in place limits on things.
- 30:10Speaker 2: Talk about to yourself, even just what you want to spend.
- 30:13Speaker 2: Are you spending fifty dollars a gift? Treat your credit
- 30:16Speaker 2: card like you're spending your savings, because you are going
- 30:19Speaker 2: to have to pay it back, and the longer you
- 30:20Speaker 2: take to pay it back, the more expensive it's going
- 30:23Speaker 2: to be. And also understand that this is probably a
- 30:26Speaker 2: really good time to go. All right, do you know what,
- 30:28Speaker 2: I'm not going to feel guilty about putting Christmas this
- 30:31Speaker 2: year on the credit card because it is the last
- 30:33Speaker 2: time I'm putting Christmas on the credit card, and really
- 30:36Speaker 2: knuckle down for the new year. Create, just like Jessica,
- 30:39Speaker 2: your Christmas savings goal. So this is not a situation
- 30:42Speaker 2: you find yourself in next year. But I do not
- 30:44Speaker 2: want for even two seconds people to think that because
- 30:48Speaker 2: I'm against credit cards, it means you shouldn't be using
- 30:50Speaker 2: them at Christmas time. So many of us have been
- 30:53Speaker 2: through such challenging years that I just think it's so
- 30:57Speaker 2: naive and so yeah, it's just not appropriate for anyone
- 31:01Speaker 2: to have the opinion that that's a hard no. Like,
- 31:04Speaker 2: if you need it, my friend, I'm with you, but
- 31:06Speaker 2: we need to create a plan that you are no
- 31:08Speaker 2: longer reliant on that in the future. Does that make sense, Georgia, Yeah.
- 31:12Speaker 1: Yeah, it does, And it is hard because you know,
- 31:16Speaker 1: the kicker with credit cards is that you get them
- 31:18Speaker 1: for the right reason, or maybe you don't, but sometimes
- 31:21Speaker 1: you do and then you can let it spin out
- 31:24Speaker 1: of control. But if it's a lifeline for you, I
- 31:28Speaker 1: think that that's a really good thing, right.
- 31:30Speaker 2: Yeah, Look, they're not the devil that often people make
- 31:34Speaker 2: them out to be. Nobody gets a credit card with
- 31:36Speaker 2: the intention of going into heaps of personal debt. Not
- 31:39Speaker 2: one of you that is listening that is in personal
- 31:42Speaker 2: debt is going to say, oh, well, actually I got
- 31:45Speaker 2: this because I have I just have always wanted to
- 31:47Speaker 2: be in debt, Victoria, Like, it just doesn't happen. So
- 31:50Speaker 2: I think it's just being really aware that you are
- 31:52Speaker 2: using this as a tool to achieve your goals and
- 31:55Speaker 2: your values, but it is not a sustainable option.
- 32:04Speaker 5: Hi, I'm twenty four, I've got a new house and
- 32:06Speaker 5: a new knows and.
- 32:07Speaker 4: This is my money diary. I'd say my attitude to money.
- 32:10Speaker 5: Has always been a really positive one and a really
- 32:14Speaker 5: valuable one.
- 32:15Speaker 4: My grandparents on both.
- 32:17Speaker 5: Sides of my family, they were immigrants to Australia and
- 32:20Speaker 5: literally started with nothing, so they had to build from
- 32:23Speaker 5: the ground up and worked really, really hard and therefore
- 32:26Speaker 5: instilled that sort of attitude onto my parents. My dad
- 32:29Speaker 5: has been a small business owner ever since I could remember,
- 32:33Speaker 5: so I've always seen him work really hard and value
- 32:35Speaker 5: money in a very different way, and the way that
- 32:38Speaker 5: he looks at investing has sort of shaped the way
- 32:41Speaker 5: that I feel about money. I remember when I turned fifteen,
- 32:45Speaker 5: he sort of turned around and said, cool, you're at
- 32:47Speaker 5: the legal age.
- 32:48Speaker 4: Now you need to start working.
- 32:49Speaker 5: That's exactly what I did, and my main motivation at
- 32:53Speaker 5: the time was that I actually.
- 32:54Speaker 4: Wanted a nose job. That was something that I've been really.
- 32:57Speaker 5: Self conscious about since I was an adolescent teen type
- 33:00Speaker 5: of thing. So when I was suddenly thus with the
- 33:03Speaker 5: opportunity of having a job, I was like, oh, my gosh,
- 33:05Speaker 5: I could have a nose job in a year, Like
- 33:07Speaker 5: not really knowing how much a fifteen year old actually
- 33:10Speaker 5: gets paid and that kind of stuff.
- 33:13Speaker 4: That was in high school.
- 33:13Speaker 5: I started working weekend jobs at a cafe, and my
- 33:18Speaker 5: dad was the one that actually said, like, say, for example,
- 33:20Speaker 5: I got paid one hundred dollars a week, he said, Nope,
- 33:23Speaker 5: seventy dollars is going straight to savings.
- 33:24Speaker 4: You can have the remaining thirty I.
- 33:26Speaker 5: Remember I hated him at the time for it because
- 33:29Speaker 5: everyone else had. All my friends that had part time
- 33:32Speaker 5: jobs or casual jobs were able to spend their money freely,
- 33:35Speaker 5: and I almost thought that I was doing a slave
- 33:37Speaker 5: labor type of thing, or like child labor, working really
- 33:40Speaker 5: really hard and not seeing a result.
- 33:43Speaker 4: But I was really really grateful because by.
- 33:44Speaker 5: The time that I turned eighteens, I realized that I
- 33:47Speaker 5: needed a car. So once I had purchased my car,
- 33:51Speaker 5: my next goal was going to be the Rhino plastic
- 33:54Speaker 5: because everyone had said to me, there's no point in
- 33:56Speaker 5: getting a nose job, like save for other things, there's
- 33:58Speaker 5: no point. But I figured my mental health was something
- 34:02Speaker 5: that I valued more than the next milestones or the
- 34:05Speaker 5: traditional milestones. I was able from eighteen till just after
- 34:10Speaker 5: my twenty first birthday, I was able to save enough
- 34:12Speaker 5: for my nose job, which at the time cost fifteen
- 34:17Speaker 5: thousand dollars. It's a huge amount for me to part with,
- 34:20Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, that definitely the
- 34:22Speaker 5: ligned with my values because when I had had it done,
- 34:26Speaker 5: my entire mindset had changed and it actually made me
- 34:29Speaker 5: a more confident person. And it certainly hasn't stopped me
- 34:32Speaker 5: from working towards other savings goals as well, because yeah,
- 34:36Speaker 5: I think mental health above all trumps those like expected
- 34:39Speaker 5: milestones that I was meant to meet and things like that.
- 34:42Speaker 1: What does she do to earn money? How much does
- 34:44Speaker 1: she earn and how much is sitting in her bank
- 34:46Speaker 1: account right now.
- 34:48Speaker 4: I am an osteopath.
- 34:50Speaker 5: I am relatively new to the profession, so my wage
- 34:54Speaker 5: is currently at fifty two thousand a year about that,
- 34:58Speaker 5: but because it's a quite a physical job, I only
- 35:01Speaker 5: do about thirty hours a week. Prior to us buying
- 35:04Speaker 5: our house, at the end of July, in my savings
- 35:07Speaker 5: account I had about sixty five thousand. I've got three
- 35:10Speaker 5: sort of separate accounts, so in my everyday account, I
- 35:12Speaker 5: have got about three and a half thousand, So that's
- 35:16Speaker 5: just where my wage goes into and then I disperse
- 35:19Speaker 5: it from there. I've got a savings account which has
- 35:23Speaker 5: four thousand.
- 35:25Speaker 4: It used to be a lot bigger than that, prior
- 35:28Speaker 4: to me just buying the house.
- 35:30Speaker 5: And then myce and I have an account together that's
- 35:33Speaker 5: for a travel account, and that's got about seven and
- 35:35Speaker 5: a half thousand.
- 35:35Speaker 1: What is her attitude towards investing? Does she invest one?
- 35:39Speaker 5: I don't currently invest. I do want to invest in
- 35:42Speaker 5: the future. I think investing is a really awesome concept.
- 35:46Speaker 5: The idea of having a passive income is something that
- 35:49Speaker 5: just absolutely fascinates me. I was never exposed to investing
- 35:53Speaker 5: in i'd say the traditional way people expect investing, which
- 35:56Speaker 5: is like the shares and stuff like that. I was
- 35:58Speaker 5: more exposed to property investing, but I don't think in
- 36:02Speaker 5: this current climate is something that I'll be able to achieve,
- 36:06Speaker 5: and especially not with my current wage in my fiance's
- 36:08Speaker 5: current wage. But I certainly do want to look into
- 36:12Speaker 5: property investing because I see my dad now living on
- 36:16Speaker 5: primarily a passive income through his property investing, and I
- 36:20Speaker 5: really really admire that and I aspire to be like
- 36:22Speaker 5: him in that way. So I've been exposed to investing,
- 36:25Speaker 5: but in probably different ways.
- 36:26Speaker 1: What debts does she have?
- 36:27Speaker 4: I have my hex debt.
- 36:29Speaker 5: I think it's currently sitting at thirty eight thousand.
- 36:34Speaker 4: That's yet, that's the only debt that I actually have.
- 36:36Speaker 5: I've never had a credit card, I've never had a
- 36:39Speaker 5: car loan, I have never had.
- 36:41Speaker 4: Any other personal loans.
- 36:43Speaker 5: I am very against that because I feel, look, if
- 36:45Speaker 5: I have those options available to me, I will just spend.
- 36:50Speaker 4: So, yeah, you know you have got one other debt, right,
- 36:54Speaker 4: what's my debt? Oh my, oh god, I keep forgetting that.
- 37:01Speaker 4: That's a thing. Oh my gosh.
- 37:05Speaker 1: What is her best money habit?
- 37:07Speaker 5: Definitely the fact that once I set my mind to it,
- 37:09Speaker 5: I can save. But other than that, which I feel
- 37:14Speaker 5: is relatively evident in my habits, I would say that
- 37:19Speaker 5: I have a real knack of if I want something,
- 37:23Speaker 5: I will find the cheapest way to get there without
- 37:27Speaker 5: compromising on quality. Like, for example, I wanted a really
- 37:30Speaker 5: nice TV unit, and all of the TV units that
- 37:32Speaker 5: are really really good quality somewhat over one thousand dollars.
- 37:36Speaker 5: But I had found a lady on Instagram that was
- 37:38Speaker 5: doing refurbishments and I was able to get this massive,
- 37:41Speaker 5: beautifully made TV unit for about three hundred dollars. So
- 37:43Speaker 5: I was really stoked about that.
- 37:45Speaker 1: And what's her worst money habit?
- 37:47Speaker 5: I spend a lot on takeaway food and coffee and
- 37:51Speaker 5: just general lifestyle things that include food. In my head,
- 37:56Speaker 5: I equate food to necessities and essentials when like, it's
- 38:00Speaker 5: not essential for me to buy a crossopt and a
- 38:02Speaker 5: coffee every single morning, but that is something that I'm
- 38:05Speaker 5: just like, yep, I've got the money there, I'm going
- 38:07Speaker 5: to pay for it. So I'd say that's definitely my
- 38:09Speaker 5: worst money habit because I could probably save a lot
- 38:12Speaker 5: more put that towards another nice thing, like a nice
- 38:14Speaker 5: shirt or really good skincare or makeup. But definitely takeaway
- 38:18Speaker 5: food is the worst thing for me.
- 38:21Speaker 1: What is her big money goal prior.
- 38:23Speaker 5: To actually having the house. I'd say that my biggest
- 38:25Speaker 5: money goal was actually being a homeowner, so I was
- 38:28Speaker 5: very very excited to get able to achieve that with
- 38:30Speaker 5: my fiance. But I would say short term more a
- 38:34Speaker 5: family car. We're still quite young, so we're not planning
- 38:37Speaker 5: a family anytime soon, but ideally would like to. If
- 38:40Speaker 5: we want to upgrade our car, We're thinking a family
- 38:42Speaker 5: car would be the next thing, so we're saving for
- 38:44Speaker 5: that at the moment.
- 38:45Speaker 1: And what grade would she give her money habits?
- 38:47Speaker 5: I would give my money habits a B plus. The
- 38:52Speaker 5: reason why is because other than saving really well, I
- 38:56Speaker 5: feel like that's where my good money habits sort of end.
- 38:58Speaker 5: So because I have been able, we will live at home,
- 39:01Speaker 5: and I haven't had much expenses, I know that once
- 39:03Speaker 5: I am actually out of home, I'm going to have
- 39:05Speaker 5: a bit of a shock as to what budgeting is
- 39:08Speaker 5: actually like, and you know what bill paying is like
- 39:11Speaker 5: and those kind of expenses. So I think I'm going
- 39:13Speaker 5: to come to terms with the fact that I can't
- 39:15Speaker 5: save as much as I am used to saving.
- 39:19Speaker 4: So I think I have a lot to learn in
- 39:22Speaker 4: that regard.
- 39:22Speaker 5: So that's why I'm putting myself at a B plus,
- 39:24Speaker 5: because you know, I don't necessarily invest yet, and I.
- 39:27Speaker 4: Don't know what quotations real world spending is going to
- 39:31Speaker 4: be like.
- 39:32Speaker 1: So the twenty four new house and new nos, I
- 39:36Speaker 1: love you.
- 39:36Speaker 4: It's true.
- 39:37Speaker 2: I really liked it because she was obviously spending in
- 39:39Speaker 2: line with her goals and her values. And something that
- 39:41Speaker 2: really shines through here, which is kind of like the
- 39:44Speaker 2: message that we wanted you to get out of this,
- 39:46Speaker 2: is that everybody has different values and everybody has different
- 39:50Speaker 2: goals and they are all valid. And I think that
- 39:52Speaker 2: if you want new nose, you want some new boobs, girl,
- 39:54Speaker 2: I'm here for you if you budget for it and
- 39:56Speaker 2: it is aligned to your goals and values and it
- 39:58Speaker 2: doesn't put you in personal debt. Like these are the
- 40:01Speaker 2: things that are important. If a new nose is the
- 40:03Speaker 2: thing that you need, fantastic, I'm so here for it.
- 40:06Speaker 2: And I loved that. She was just like, no, my
- 40:08Speaker 2: self confidence would benefit from it. Like that's to me
- 40:11Speaker 2: really important. And sometimes I think we forget how important
- 40:16Speaker 2: our mental health is and how money can actually help
- 40:19Speaker 2: us achieve mental health, like positive mindset, which I think
- 40:22Speaker 2: is really important as well. So sometimes I often see
- 40:24Speaker 2: people in our community putting far too much pressure on
- 40:27Speaker 2: themselves to save and invest when they have other things
- 40:30Speaker 2: that they really want to spend their money on. And
- 40:32Speaker 2: so that's where values come in. It's not just always
- 40:35Speaker 2: financial values and how rich you can get. Yeah, And
- 40:39Speaker 2: that's like a big money goal that she worked towards
- 40:41Speaker 2: for a long time. And she was saying that when
- 40:44Speaker 2: she was a teenager, her dad made her ferresh away
- 40:48Speaker 2: most of what she would earn. I do like that.
- 40:51Speaker 2: I like it too.
- 40:52Speaker 1: Just you good, just good lessons young on how to
- 40:56Speaker 1: manage your money, and then she would have been strides
- 40:59Speaker 1: ahead of her mate. She would have just been, you know,
- 41:01Speaker 1: spending it up yeah one or whatever.
- 41:03Speaker 2: Yeah. But in saying that, we still enjoyed it. Like
- 41:06Speaker 2: I was spending when I was younger. My dad used
- 41:08Speaker 2: to give me brilliant advice to save. Did I take it? No? Sorry, Dad,
- 41:13Speaker 2: I love you, but I wasn't a very good listener
- 41:16Speaker 2: as a teenager. So some of us took it and
- 41:18Speaker 2: some of us didn't. But I think the most important
- 41:19Speaker 2: thing here is if you were a spender when you
- 41:22Speaker 2: were younger, like there's always time to change. Like there's
- 41:25Speaker 2: even a post recently in our Facebook group, I think
- 41:28Speaker 2: she's twenty three, Is it too late to change? It's like,
- 41:31Speaker 2: my friend, there was no such thing as too late,
- 41:33Speaker 2: like whether you are twenty three, thirty three, or one
- 41:37Speaker 2: hundred and three. Like you can change your money, myset,
- 41:39Speaker 2: you can change your values, and you need to stop
- 41:41Speaker 2: comparing yourselves to others, like focus on you, my friends.
- 41:45Speaker 2: But also, I don't know, maybe you were gonna ask
- 41:48Speaker 2: me this. I thought that her judgment on herself was
- 41:50Speaker 2: a little bit harsh, as in the grade she gave
- 41:53Speaker 2: us the grade she gave us. So, okay, I thought
- 41:55Speaker 2: it was through mush because she came across and maybe
- 41:58Speaker 2: this is like obviously it's money Dirry, So don't know
- 42:01Speaker 2: her deeply, but she came across as really financially literate
- 42:05Speaker 2: and she knew about investing and she knew about savings,
- 42:08Speaker 2: but it wasn't in her budget at that point. My friend,
- 42:11Speaker 2: just because it's not in your budget doesn't mean that
- 42:13Speaker 2: you are lower down on the rating. Like to me,
- 42:16Speaker 2: she sounded like an A, like, yeah, you're right, you're
- 42:18Speaker 2: not investing yet, but there's a reason, and a really
- 42:20Speaker 2: good reason why you're not investing. And she seemed to
- 42:22Speaker 2: have a really good level of insight and understanding of
- 42:24Speaker 2: her personal situation. And to me, that's an A that's
- 42:28Speaker 2: not you know, what she rated herself as. So I
- 42:30Speaker 2: think that's important to point out as well, because you
- 42:33Speaker 2: don't have to be an investor to be an A plus. Yeah,
- 42:36Speaker 2: like you can just be really good at managing your
- 42:39Speaker 2: budget and your cash flow and actually being really on
- 42:41Speaker 2: top of your personal finances. And to me, that's really important.
- 42:44Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't need the million dollar share portfolio, absolutely.
- 42:48Speaker 2: That's not what creates an a plus and air plus
- 42:50Speaker 2: is someone who really understands their financial situation, embraces personal finance,
- 42:55Speaker 2: and is totally on top of it. And I think
- 42:56Speaker 2: sometimes people get really carried away with the idea you
- 43:00Speaker 2: have to be a savage investor to be really good
- 43:03Speaker 2: at money. You don't like. Yes, that could align to
- 43:06Speaker 2: your goals and values, but it's not always possible for
- 43:09Speaker 2: all of us. And that's okay too.
- 43:12Speaker 1: One more question here, v before we head off or
- 43:16Speaker 1: head into the wrap for today.
- 43:18Speaker 2: I wanted to.
- 43:19Speaker 1: Ask you a little bit about what you think of
- 43:22Speaker 1: saving lots of money when you're still living at home.
- 43:25Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes there can be a bit of
- 43:27Speaker 1: a judgment about that, because that is obviously a very
- 43:30Speaker 1: privileged position to be in, to be twenty four still
- 43:33Speaker 1: living at home, having spent your whole life there, so
- 43:37Speaker 1: you know you're not paying for bills or board necessarily.
- 43:40Speaker 1: What do you make of people who might judge people
- 43:43Speaker 1: who have a house because they have been at home
- 43:45Speaker 1: that whole time. Does that make sense.
- 43:47Speaker 2: As a question? It really does, And this is something
- 43:50Speaker 2: that frustrates me. I don't know how to address this
- 43:53Speaker 2: as clearly or succinctly as i'd really like to. But
- 43:57Speaker 2: I think when privilege occurs, it's important to acknowledge it.
- 44:01Speaker 2: But it doesn't make you bad. Like privilege fantastic. I'm
- 44:05Speaker 2: so happy for you that you had that opportunity. I
- 44:08Speaker 2: wish that opportunity on everyone. It's just not possible, though,
- 44:11Speaker 2: So I don't think that people are bad people because
- 44:14Speaker 2: they have privilege, and I don't think it makes them
- 44:17Speaker 2: less understanding of other situations. I think it's just more
- 44:20Speaker 2: about when privilege rubs me the wrong way, is when
- 44:24Speaker 2: people don't understand their privilege and when they aren't grateful
- 44:28Speaker 2: for it. And I think that that's the most important
- 44:30Speaker 2: part here for me. It's not about who was privileged
- 44:33Speaker 2: or not. Like, at the end of the day, we
- 44:35Speaker 2: are privileged because we are Australian, full stop, end of story.
- 44:38Speaker 2: But then there are so many other layers and complexities
- 44:41Speaker 2: that come into privilege, whether that's whether whether that's you
- 44:44Speaker 2: come from a wealthy family, or your parents helped you
- 44:46Speaker 2: out financially, or maybe you just had, you know, have
- 44:49Speaker 2: a higher IQ so you're able to get a more
- 44:52Speaker 2: complex job. Like all of these things play into privilege
- 44:55Speaker 2: and there's just different levels of it. And I just
- 44:57Speaker 2: think that often we can get hung up on other
- 45:01Speaker 2: people being privileged and feel bad for ourselves, but at
- 45:03Speaker 2: the end of the day, like I just think that
- 45:06Speaker 2: it is what it is. Unfortunately, the world isn't fair
- 45:09Speaker 2: and we need to just embrace what's right for us,
- 45:11Speaker 2: not necessarily compare ourselves to the situations of others and
- 45:15Speaker 2: whether they've been lucky or not.
- 45:17Speaker 1: Alrighty V, you said that well, as you always do.
- 45:21Speaker 1: But it is time to wind up today's show.
- 45:23Speaker 2: Okay, but Georgia, just before we head off, we'd really
- 45:26Speaker 2: like to acknowledge impair respects to Australian's Aboriginal and Torres
- 45:29Speaker 2: Strait Islander people's, the traditional custodians of the lands, the
- 45:32Speaker 2: waterways and the skies all across Australia. We thank you
- 45:36Speaker 2: for sharing and for caring on the land which we
- 45:38Speaker 2: are able to learn. We pay our respects to elders
- 45:40Speaker 2: past and present, and we share our friendship and our kindness.
- 45:44Speaker 1: Now to the boring bit that no one probably listens to.
- 45:47Speaker 2: I think they do, though, really, yeah, because it's just
- 45:50Speaker 2: to say that I'm just always interested to see if
- 45:52Speaker 2: you mess up the numbers.
- 45:53Speaker 1: I mean, now, the advice shared on cheese. On the
- 45:56Speaker 1: money is general in nature and just not consider your
- 45:58Speaker 1: individual's circumstance. She's on the money exists purely for educational
- 46:03Speaker 1: purposes and should not be relied upon to make an
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