Latest / Your Hope-Filled Perspective with Dr. Michelle Bengtson podcast / Beating the Winter Blues: Finding Hope When “Blue Monday” Hits
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Life Audio today, or we're tackling a topic that hits
- 0:08Speaker 1: many people hard each January Blue Monday. You may have
- 0:13Speaker 1: heard it called the most depressing day of the year,
- 0:17Speaker 1: a day when motivation runs low, bills come do, and
- 0:22Speaker 1: the sparkle of the holidays fades into the grayness of winter.
- 0:27Speaker 1: But is Blue Monday reel? Why do so many people
- 0:30Speaker 1: feel down this time of the year And what can
- 0:34Speaker 1: you do spiritually, emotionally and physically to climb out of
- 0:39Speaker 1: the slump and find renewed hope. Welcome back to your
- 0:43Speaker 1: Hope Build perspective, where it's always our goal to restore hope,
- 0:47Speaker 1: renew minds, and empower listeners to live in your God
- 0:51Speaker 1: given identity. I'm your host, doctor Michelle Bankson, a board
- 0:56Speaker 1: certified clinical neuropsychologist, author of several books, and your companion
- 1:01Speaker 1: in the journey towards emotional and spiritual wholeness. If you've
- 1:06Speaker 1: ever felt like the light of Christmas faded too fast,
- 1:10Speaker 1: or that you're struggling to find joy in January, this
- 1:15Speaker 1: is the episode for you. Today. We are going to
- 1:18Speaker 1: be talking about how to beat the blues finding hope.
- 1:22Speaker 1: When Blue Monday hits. We'll unpack where the idea of
- 1:26Speaker 1: blue Monday came from. What really contributes to winter sadness,
- 1:31Speaker 1: how to recognize when it's more than just a passing mood,
- 1:35Speaker 1: and how God invites us to nurture our mind and
- 1:39Speaker 1: soul even in the darkest season. We'll dive into that
- 1:43Speaker 1: right after this quick word from our sponsor. Welcome back
- 1:50Speaker 1: to your hope filled perspective. Friends. I hope that you
- 1:54Speaker 1: enjoyed the holidays, that there was peace present, there was joy,
- 2:00Speaker 1: there was love and laughter. But here we sit facing January.
- 2:05Speaker 1: Every January the search engines light up with people looking
- 2:10Speaker 1: for answers about Blue Monday. Some call it the most
- 2:14Speaker 1: depressing day of the year. But here's the truth. God
- 2:17Speaker 1: doesn't mark any day on his calendar. Is hopeless even
- 2:21Speaker 1: when we do. Even when science can't explain some of
- 2:25Speaker 1: the factors that make us feel low. Scripture reminds us
- 2:29Speaker 1: in John one point fifteen that the light shines in
- 2:33Speaker 1: the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it. So
- 2:37Speaker 1: today let's uncover both the science and the Savior's invitation
- 2:43Speaker 1: to find peace, joy and renewed perspective. No matter what
- 2:49Speaker 1: your calendar says. I thought we would start off this
- 2:52Speaker 1: conversation talking about where blue Monday even came from. You
- 2:57Speaker 1: might be surprised to learn that the term blue Monday
- 3:01Speaker 1: actually originated not from a psychologist or a neuroscientist, but
- 3:06Speaker 1: from a marketing campaign in the early two thousands. True
- 3:11Speaker 1: a marketing campaign. A British travel company wanted to boost
- 3:16Speaker 1: winter vacation sales and partnered with a psychologist to create
- 3:22Speaker 1: a formula that supposedly calculated the most depressing day of
- 3:27Speaker 1: the year and put it out there for all of
- 3:30Speaker 1: us to hear and align our thinking with. They based
- 3:33Speaker 1: it on factors like weather, post holiday debt, level, time
- 3:39Speaker 1: since Christmas or Kwanza, failed New Year's resolutions, and low motivation.
- 3:46Speaker 1: That date usually lands on the third Monday every January.
- 3:51Speaker 1: But here's what's interesting. The science behind it was never validated.
- 3:57Speaker 1: It was largely pseudoscience, catchy idea meant to sell trips
- 4:03Speaker 1: to sunny places. Not that I really need a justification
- 4:07Speaker 1: to go someplace sunny, but that's what it was. Yet
- 4:11Speaker 1: it resonated with people because truthfully, many do feel a
- 4:16Speaker 1: dip in their mood this time of year. The question
- 4:19Speaker 1: is why there's a real physiological as well as psychological
- 4:24Speaker 1: basis for that. The first reason is because at least
- 4:28Speaker 1: in my hemisphere, they have shorter daylight hours, and those
- 4:33Speaker 1: shorter daylight hours have been shown to disrupt our circadian
- 4:37Speaker 1: rhythm and lower serotonin levels, which is our brain's natural
- 4:42Speaker 1: mood stabilizer. Another reason is the colder temperatures that means
- 4:48Speaker 1: less outdoor activity, less sunlight, and fewer endorphins. There's also
- 4:55Speaker 1: the holiday aftermath that leaves us financially stressed, emotionally fatigued,
- 5:01Speaker 1: and sometimes needing a bigger pant size. And then the
- 5:05Speaker 1: last significant contributor is unmet resolutions or expectations of ourselves
- 5:13Speaker 1: or others that can stir up shame or disappointment. So
- 5:18Speaker 1: while Blue Monday may not be an official scientific day,
- 5:23Speaker 1: it really does point to something many experience, what we
- 5:27Speaker 1: might otherwise call the post holiday blues or a seasonal
- 5:31Speaker 1: effective slump. So, now that you know where it came
- 5:34Speaker 1: from and really kind of what contributes to it, let's
- 5:37Speaker 1: turn our attention to how to identify it. Let's talk
- 5:41Speaker 1: about how you can tell if what you're feeling is
- 5:45Speaker 1: just a short term dip or something more concerning yours.
- 5:48Speaker 1: Where As a neuropsychologist. Let me lend just a little
- 5:52Speaker 1: bit of my thirty five years of expertise. Here are
- 5:55Speaker 1: some common symptoms of the not just the blue Monday
- 5:59Speaker 1: slump with post holiday blues or the seasonal effective blip.
- 6:04Speaker 1: The first one is low motivation or energy. Yeah, frequently
- 6:09Speaker 1: we extend so much energy extra energy during the holidays
- 6:15Speaker 1: and nothing else comes off our plate that when the
- 6:17Speaker 1: holidays are over, we can feel a depletion in both
- 6:21Speaker 1: our motivation or energy. That in and of itself is
- 6:26Speaker 1: not a reason tory that what you're experiencing is something
- 6:29Speaker 1: out of the ordinary. But there's other symptoms, and we're
- 6:32Speaker 1: really looking for a pattern or multiple symptoms for a
- 6:37Speaker 1: prolonged period of time. Another symptom is irritability or tearfulness.
- 6:42Speaker 1: If you find yourself being more irritable, more snappy, more emotional,
- 6:48Speaker 1: more easily hurt or agitated, or you find yourself crying
- 6:54Speaker 1: more than usual, it's an indicator that you need to
- 6:59Speaker 1: pay at time and kind of monitor for some of
- 7:02Speaker 1: these other signs and symptoms. We talked about having decreased
- 7:07Speaker 1: energy after the holidays because we often extend a lot
- 7:11Speaker 1: more energy during that time of year when nothing else
- 7:14Speaker 1: comes off our plate. But sometimes that also translates into
- 7:19Speaker 1: feeling irritable and agitated because well. Another sign or symptom
- 7:25Speaker 1: to consider is changes in sleep or appetite. You notice
- 7:30Speaker 1: yourself needing to sleep more, or for some reason you're
- 7:35Speaker 1: not sleeping as well and you're sleeping less, or conversely,
- 7:39Speaker 1: you notice changes in your appetite, either eating more than
- 7:42Speaker 1: usual or less than usual. It's something to consider, especially
- 7:49Speaker 1: because when we don't get enough sleep, that can add
- 7:54Speaker 1: to our already decreased energy or motivation or feelings of irritability.
- 8:00Speaker 1: Another sign or symptom is difficulty concentrating. Now that's not
- 8:05Speaker 1: too surprising because if you have decreased energy or motivation,
- 8:09Speaker 1: or if you're not consistent in your sleep patterns and
- 8:13Speaker 1: you find yourself not sleeping as well, that can contribute
- 8:18Speaker 1: to difficulty concentrating and paying attention. That in and of
- 8:22Speaker 1: itself is not necessarily something to be overly concerned about,
- 8:26Speaker 1: but again, we're looking for a pattern, and we're looking
- 8:29Speaker 1: for how often you're experiencing these over time. Another sign
- 8:34Speaker 1: or symptom is feeling disconnected or unproductive. And I'm sure
- 8:39Speaker 1: that in all these signs and symptoms you can see
- 8:42Speaker 1: how one might influence the other. But when you find
- 8:45Speaker 1: yourself feeling disconnected from the things you normally enjoy, or
- 8:50Speaker 1: from people that you would normally enjoy spending time with
- 8:53Speaker 1: where you're less productive, then what is typical for you?
- 8:58Speaker 1: It's just another data point to pay attention to. And
- 9:01Speaker 1: then another sign or symptom is hopeless thoughts, something along
- 9:06Speaker 1: the lines of what's the point or I don't know
- 9:10Speaker 1: if this is ever going to get any better. Feelings
- 9:13Speaker 1: and thoughts of hopelessness are definitely a sign or symptom
- 9:18Speaker 1: you want to pay attention to. If you've noticed these
- 9:21Speaker 1: signs are symptoms for a few days after the holidays,
- 9:25Speaker 1: you're not alone. Where I am recording today, it's colder
- 9:29Speaker 1: than usual, it's very gray, I haven't seen the sunlight.
- 9:33Speaker 1: My body's feeling the chill, and I'm feeling a bit tired.
- 9:37Speaker 1: But again, that's not terribly atypical. After the holidays, our
- 9:41Speaker 1: bodies and brains rabe rhythm and light, and winter in
- 9:46Speaker 1: the northern hemisphere often disrupts them both. I grew up
- 9:50Speaker 1: in Michigan, and I struggled with seasonal effective disorder a lot.
- 9:56Speaker 1: Michigan is beautiful if you've never been there. I think
- 9:59Speaker 1: it's one of the most beautiful states. But it's very
- 10:02Speaker 1: difficult for me to make it through the Michigan winter
- 10:05Speaker 1: because it's gray and cold, and I can't get outside
- 10:09Speaker 1: as easily to walk to get the sunlight, and that
- 10:13Speaker 1: affects my mood. So I love going back home to
- 10:16Speaker 1: visit in the spring, summer, or fall. But I think
- 10:18Speaker 1: the only time I've gone back to visit in the
- 10:20Speaker 1: winter was for a family funeral. But sometimes, friend, what
- 10:24Speaker 1: starts is a temporary funk can evolve into something more serious,
- 10:30Speaker 1: like seasonal effective disorder or major depressant. So how do
- 10:35Speaker 1: we know when to see help. We're going to dive
- 10:37Speaker 1: into that right after this brief word from our sponsor.
- 10:44Speaker 1: Welcome back. So today we are talking about beating the blues,
- 10:48Speaker 1: finding hope when that blue Monday sets in. We talked
- 10:52Speaker 1: about where did this concept of blue Monday come from?
- 10:56Speaker 1: And what are the signs or symptoms that can clue
- 10:58Speaker 1: us in that we're struggling. Now let's turn our attention
- 11:03Speaker 1: to how to know when to seek professional help. I've
- 11:06Speaker 1: got several suggestions. If you've got a pen and paper,
- 11:10Speaker 1: you might want to jop these down. I would encourage you,
- 11:13Speaker 1: as a mental health professional who's been in the field
- 11:15Speaker 1: for thirty five years, to seek professional help if your
- 11:19Speaker 1: sadness lasts more than two weeks, if you lose interest
- 11:24Speaker 1: in those things you usually enjoy, that light you up,
- 11:28Speaker 1: that grow your energy and motivation because you feed off
- 11:32Speaker 1: of them. I'd also consider seeking out professional help if
- 11:36Speaker 1: you notice that your sleep or appetite drastically change for
- 11:40Speaker 1: more than about a week. Furthermore, if you feel worthless, helpless,
- 11:45Speaker 1: or hopeless, you don't have to suffer a loane and
- 11:49Speaker 1: I would say please, please seek out professional help. You
- 11:53Speaker 1: don't have to walk this journey by yourself. Furthermore, if
- 11:56Speaker 1: you find yourself withdrawing from others, again, a way to
- 12:01Speaker 1: help learn how to cope with that is seeking out
- 12:04Speaker 1: professional help. True, sometimes we don't want to share what's
- 12:08Speaker 1: going on with those that are closest to us for
- 12:11Speaker 1: whatever reason. But if you find yourself withdrawing from those
- 12:14Speaker 1: that you normally enjoy spending time with, another factor to
- 12:18Speaker 1: consider in terms of seeking out professional help and lastly,
- 12:22Speaker 1: friend if you experience thoughts about death or about hurting
- 12:28Speaker 1: yourself or others, please please please consider seeking help, professional
- 12:36Speaker 1: help to walk with you, to give you some accountability,
- 12:40Speaker 1: and to help you know how to combat this. Those
- 12:44Speaker 1: are not signs of weakness. In fact, those signs and
- 12:47Speaker 1: symptoms are signals from your body and brain that you
- 12:52Speaker 1: need care and support. Friend, just as you would seek
- 12:55Speaker 1: medical help for persistent pain, heart disease, diabetes, or cancer,
- 13:01Speaker 1: it's wise to seek mental health help for persistent sadness
- 13:05Speaker 1: and mood changes. As a clinical neuropsychologist, I've seen firsthand
- 13:10Speaker 1: the depression and anxiety are treatable. There are excellent therapies,
- 13:16Speaker 1: medical interventions, and lifestyle approaches that absolutely can help. I'm
- 13:22Speaker 1: a testimony to that. If you have read my book
- 13:26Speaker 1: Hope Prevails, Insights from a doctor's personal journey through Depression,
- 13:31Speaker 1: I share about my own journey and what helped. If
- 13:34Speaker 1: you've not read it, but you find this episode resonating
- 13:37Speaker 1: with you, friend, please pick up a copy. It's available
- 13:40Speaker 1: wherever books are sold, and Amazon can probably deliver it
- 13:44Speaker 1: to you within a couple of days. I was very
- 13:47Speaker 1: vulnerable and transparent. I didn't want to be the poster
- 13:50Speaker 1: child for someone struggling with depression, but once I learned
- 13:54Speaker 1: how to manage it. I wanted to share that hope
- 13:57Speaker 1: with my readers. I wanted to make those insights available
- 14:01Speaker 1: to those who couldn't come into my private practice for help.
- 14:04Speaker 1: So consider picking up a copy of Hope Prevails. But friend,
- 14:07Speaker 1: getting help requires the first step, which is reaching out.
- 14:13Speaker 1: And as a believer in Christ Jesus, I want you
- 14:16Speaker 1: to know this, Needing help does not make you a
- 14:20Speaker 1: failure of faith. Hear that again, Needing help does not
- 14:24Speaker 1: make you a failure of faith. God often works through
- 14:29Speaker 1: professionals to bring healing. He created our minds and our
- 14:33Speaker 1: bodies with complexity, and He delights when we care for
- 14:38Speaker 1: them wisely. For example, remember Elijah in One Kings nineteen.
- 14:44Speaker 1: He was exhausted, afraid and said, it is enough, now,
- 14:49Speaker 1: Lord take my life. He admitted to God how he
- 14:54Speaker 1: was feeling and what he was thinking, and God did
- 14:58Speaker 1: not rebuke him. God had compassion on him. God fed him,
- 15:03Speaker 1: let him rest, and then gently spoke truth to him.
- 15:07Speaker 1: That is a model of divine compassion toward our emotional distress.
- 15:12Speaker 1: Your heavenly Father loves you and wants to see you
- 15:17Speaker 1: get help. Part of getting through this, getting to the
- 15:21Speaker 1: other side, is learning how to take care of yourself.
- 15:25Speaker 1: These are things that you can do in conjunction with therapy,
- 15:30Speaker 1: alongside therapy, but especially they're things that you can do
- 15:34Speaker 1: on your own. They're things that I do, and when
- 15:37Speaker 1: I don't do them, I have to kind of check
- 15:39Speaker 1: back in with myself what has changed that might be
- 15:42Speaker 1: contributing to how I'm feeling. So, if you are feeling
- 15:45Speaker 1: those blue Monday blues or a longer winter sadness, or
- 15:50Speaker 1: even seasonal effective disorder or major depression, here is some practical,
- 15:55Speaker 1: biblically grounded ways to cure for your mind, body, spirit.
- 16:00Speaker 1: The first is get more light exposure to sunlight, or
- 16:06Speaker 1: if you live in a climate like I mentioned I
- 16:08Speaker 1: grew up in Michigan, if you live someplace where the
- 16:11Speaker 1: sunlight is much less easy to come by in the
- 16:14Speaker 1: winter months, get a light therapy box. Either way, it
- 16:19Speaker 1: helps boost serotonin and regulate your circadium rhythm. Ideally, you
- 16:25Speaker 1: want to get sunlight early in the day or use
- 16:28Speaker 1: your light therapy box early in the day, like first
- 16:31Speaker 1: thing in the morning and maybe right after lunch, but
- 16:35Speaker 1: later in the day. I want you to avoid those
- 16:37Speaker 1: two things because I'll actually interfere with your brain's melatonin
- 16:42Speaker 1: production that can make sleep more difficult. In Genesis one,
- 16:46Speaker 1: verse three, we read and God said, let there be light,
- 16:50Speaker 1: and there was light, and I read that. I'm reminded
- 16:54Speaker 1: that light was God's first gift to creation and it
- 16:58Speaker 1: still brings life today. So the first get more light.
- 17:01Speaker 1: My second suggestion is move your body. Exercise increases in
- 17:07Speaker 1: doorphins and dopamine, which helps improve both energy and outlook.
- 17:14Speaker 1: You don't need to run a marathon. Start with a
- 17:16Speaker 1: short walk or a stretch, or if you're finding it
- 17:19Speaker 1: difficult to walk outside, consider a treadmill, a rebounding machine,
- 17:25Speaker 1: a vibration plate, something to move your body. First. Corinthians six,
- 17:31Speaker 1: verses nineteen through twenty reminds us our bodies are temples
- 17:36Speaker 1: of the Holy Spirit, so caring for them consider it
- 17:39Speaker 1: an act of worship. So again the first tip, get
- 17:42Speaker 1: more light. Second tip, move your body. Third tip, nurture connection.
- 17:47Speaker 1: When we isolate, sadness grows louder and we are more
- 17:54Speaker 1: susceptible to believing the lives of the enemy, and he
- 17:59Speaker 1: can get really loud. And when we're not around those
- 18:03Speaker 1: that we trust, there's trusted family or friends, church community,
- 18:08Speaker 1: it can be really hard to fight back against the
- 18:10Speaker 1: enemy's lines. So consider reaching out to a friend in
- 18:14Speaker 1: a text or a phone call, or meeting for coffee,
- 18:17Speaker 1: perhaps attending a Bible study, or consider volunteering. Volunteering has
- 18:23Speaker 1: the added benefit that when we go beyond ourselves to
- 18:28Speaker 1: do something for someone else, it boosts our own moove.
- 18:32Speaker 1: It can remind us that other people are struggling too,
- 18:35Speaker 1: and many times worse off than we are. Ecclesiastes four
- 18:39Speaker 1: versus nine through ten says two are better than one.
- 18:43Speaker 1: If one of them falls down, one can help the
- 18:47Speaker 1: other up, and that goes both ways. So when you
- 18:49Speaker 1: reach out to a friend, they can help lift you
- 18:52Speaker 1: up and you can encourage them. Tip number four is
- 18:56Speaker 1: adjust your expectations after the holidays. Oh friend, it is
- 19:00Speaker 1: so easy to compare today's ordinary moments to the excitement
- 19:06Speaker 1: that was December. Give yourself permission to slow down, to reset.
- 19:12Speaker 1: The Bible gives us multiple examples of Jesus, the Son
- 19:17Speaker 1: of God, taking time to rest. If Jesus needed rest,
- 19:22Speaker 1: why would we expect anything different of ourselves. Matthew eleven
- 19:27Speaker 1: twenty eight reminds us, come to me, all you who
- 19:30Speaker 1: are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
- 19:35Speaker 1: The fifth tip is to feed your spirit, immerse yourself
- 19:38Speaker 1: in scripture, prayer, and worship music. Depression dims our perspective,
- 19:44Speaker 1: but God's word renews it some forty two. Verse eleven
- 19:48Speaker 1: reminds us, why my soul, are you downcast? Put your
- 19:53Speaker 1: hope in God, for I will yet praise Him to
- 19:57Speaker 1: see even when we feel down, even when we feel sad,
- 20:01Speaker 1: when we feel a lack of energy, we can still
- 20:05Speaker 1: choose to put our hope in God, to trust him
- 20:09Speaker 1: and to praise him. Number six. This might seem simplistic,
- 20:12Speaker 1: but when we're feeling down, it can be difficult, and
- 20:15Speaker 1: that is practice gratitude. Gratitude actually activates the brain regions
- 20:21Speaker 1: associated with joy and resilience. Even small blessings count blessings
- 20:27Speaker 1: like warm coffee, our friend's text, a sunset, even something
- 20:31Speaker 1: as simple as a short line at the grocery store.
- 20:34Speaker 1: Let's activate those brain regions associated with joy to help
- 20:39Speaker 1: counter the blues. In January one, Thessalonians five eighteen says
- 20:43Speaker 1: give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will
- 20:48Speaker 1: for you in Christ, Jesus friend. It doesn't say give
- 20:51Speaker 1: thanks for all circumstances, but in all circumstances. So when
- 20:57Speaker 1: our circumstances are difficult, we can still get thanks that
- 21:01Speaker 1: God is faithful. God is good that he never leaves
- 21:04Speaker 1: us alone, he never forsakes us. There's still a lot
- 21:09Speaker 1: to be grateful for. My seventh tip is to set
- 21:13Speaker 1: rhythms of rest. Winter is nature's reminder to rest. When
- 21:18Speaker 1: I look outside, the trees are bare, the leaves have fallen,
- 21:23Speaker 1: and there's not much observable growth going on. But this
- 21:27Speaker 1: season allows turnover in ourselves and in the earth ready
- 21:33Speaker 1: for wind spring comes. God himself reminded us, not just
- 21:37Speaker 1: reminded us, but model rest on the seventh day, not
- 21:42Speaker 1: from exhaustion, but completion. Rest fuels your mind and aligns
- 21:48Speaker 1: your soul with His peace. Friends, right after this brief
- 21:51Speaker 1: word from our sponsor, I want to share a few
- 21:53Speaker 1: thoughts about reframing this season. We'll be right back. Friends.
- 22:01Speaker 1: We've talked about where blue Monday came from. We've talked
- 22:05Speaker 1: about how do I identify it. We've talked about how
- 22:08Speaker 1: to know when to seek professional help, as well as
- 22:11Speaker 1: things that we can do on our own or in
- 22:15Speaker 1: conjunction with seeking professional help that will help Maybe this
- 22:20Speaker 1: January feels especially heavy for you. Maybe you're tired of
- 22:25Speaker 1: gray skies or unmet resolutions. But let's reframe it. What
- 22:30Speaker 1: if winter isn't a punishment but an invitation, an invitation
- 22:35Speaker 1: to slow down, to nurture your inner life, to rediscover hope,
- 22:41Speaker 1: not in circumstances, but in Christ himself. Remember, no day
- 22:46Speaker 1: is truly blue when it's covered in God's grace. God
- 22:51Speaker 1: specializes in turning mourning into dancing, ashes into beauty, and
- 22:56Speaker 1: despair into praise. As Isaiah reminds Us and Isaiah sixty one,
- 23:01Speaker 1: verse three, the same God who paints the sunrise after
- 23:04Speaker 1: the darkest night will bring light to your soul again. Friend,
- 23:09Speaker 1: if you are listening today and feeling the weight of winter,
- 23:12Speaker 1: know this, You're not alone. I've been there, I understand.
- 23:16Speaker 1: I have great compassion for you. But more importantly, God
- 23:21Speaker 1: sees you. He is not disappointed by your sadness. In fact,
- 23:25Speaker 1: Psalm thirty four eighteen reminds Us he is near to
- 23:29Speaker 1: the broken hearted. So please don't walk away during this
- 23:32Speaker 1: season from God, but lean into him, ask him to
- 23:37Speaker 1: be able to feel his nearness, and remember there is
- 23:41Speaker 1: no shame in reaching out for help from God, from
- 23:44Speaker 1: loved ones, or from professionals. Healing doesn't mean pretending everything
- 23:50Speaker 1: is fine and back. Far from it. Healing means letting
- 23:54Speaker 1: God meet you in the reality of your pain. Loved
- 23:57Speaker 1: to pray for you. Heavenly Father, thank you that no
- 24:00Speaker 1: season last forever. Thank you that your mercies are new
- 24:04Speaker 1: every morning. For the one listening today who feels discouraged,
- 24:08Speaker 1: would you bring light to their darkness? Would you renew
- 24:12Speaker 1: their strength, lift their spirits, and remind them that their
- 24:16Speaker 1: hope is secure in you and you alone in Jesus name. Amen. Friends,
- 24:22Speaker 1: I hope that there was something in today's episode that
- 24:26Speaker 1: has encouraged your heart, that has helped you to hold
- 24:29Speaker 1: on to hope. I want you to always remember there's
- 24:32Speaker 1: always hope because this world would never offer what only
- 24:37Speaker 1: God can provide, and He promises to be with you
- 24:40Speaker 1: through every season. So many people struggle with the blues
- 24:45Speaker 1: during the winter months. It's not an uncommon phenomenon. If
- 24:50Speaker 1: you have a friend who you know struggles, would you
- 24:53Speaker 1: consider sharing this episode with them to give them a
- 24:58Speaker 1: biblically based hope, build for s respective and a jolt
- 25:01Speaker 1: of encouragement. I'd so appreciate it, and I know they
- 25:04Speaker 1: would too, And it's been a delight to be with
- 25:07Speaker 1: you to share my thoughts and insights as a mental
- 25:10Speaker 1: health professional. It's my prayer that you're able to take
- 25:14Speaker 1: what we talked about today, put it into practice, and
- 25:16Speaker 1: see the blue skies return. Until we're together again, my friend,
- 25:20Speaker 1: it is my prayer for you that you have a
- 25:23Speaker 1: hope filled week.
- 25:25Speaker 2: Depression is now our greatest epidemic worldwide, greater than heart disease, cancer,
- 25:31Speaker 2: and aids all put together. If you have looked for
- 25:35Speaker 2: help with depression, you have found that there's a scarcity
- 25:38Speaker 2: of biblically based resources that identifies the spiritual component that
- 25:43Speaker 2: will actually help with the depression and also will help
- 25:46Speaker 2: the loved ones who are trying to support the ones
- 25:49Speaker 2: who are depressed. Over her thirty year career, doctor Benson
- 25:53Speaker 2: has treated thousands of individuals with depression and has even
- 25:56Speaker 2: suffered from it herself. Because of her suffering, she understands
- 26:00Speaker 2: the need to address the spiritual dimension of depression along
- 26:03Speaker 2: with the physiological and emotional components. Doctor Benkson has written
- 26:07Speaker 2: an award winning book, Hope Prevails, Insights from a doctor's
- 26:12Speaker 2: personal journey through depression, for she shares with us her
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- 26:22Speaker 2: us overcome depression. Script Jennifer Strickland, author of Beautiful Lies,
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- 26:31Speaker 2: a treasure trove of scripture, music, and medicine for the soul.
- 26:35Speaker 2: This book shares truth upon truth for anyone encountering the
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- 26:47Speaker 2: Most of all is honest. Michelle genuinely opens up a
- 26:51Speaker 2: window of her heart, shamelessly revealing her own darkest hours
- 26:55Speaker 2: in order to shine a light of hope for you
- 26:58Speaker 2: and me. If you were anyone you love touch even
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- 27:17Speaker 2: or you your website at doctor Michelbe dot com. You
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- 27:25Speaker 2: from depression. Thank you for joining doctor Bankson to your
- 27:33Speaker 2: hope build perspective. We hope you are encouraged by her authenticity, vulnerability,
- 27:39Speaker 2: and biblical truths. If you enjoy today's conversation, when you
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