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- 0:00Speaker 1: She's on the Money.
- 0:02Speaker 2: She's on the Money.
- 0:20Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
- 0:22Speaker 3: for millennials who want to financial freedom.
- 0:25Speaker 1: I'm anab Elie, one of your co hosts.
- 0:26Speaker 3: If you've tuned in before, you might already know that
- 0:28Speaker 3: I'm a law student and a millennial and I so
- 0:30Speaker 3: desperately want to lift my money game. To do that,
- 0:33Speaker 3: Every week I pick the brains of my friend and
- 0:35Speaker 3: money expert Victoria Devine.
- 0:36Speaker 1: Welcome Victoria. Hello. It has been a great week for so.
- 0:40Speaker 3: Many of our shoes and the Money community members. I've
- 0:43Speaker 3: seen so many money wins and I am continuously impressed and.
- 0:46Speaker 1: Proud and motivated. So as always, let's share our favorites
- 0:49Speaker 1: from the week. What have you got for me?
- 0:50Speaker 4: I love that I get to go first in here
- 0:52Speaker 4: because I get first choice. Yes, sorry, This week, I've
- 0:55Speaker 4: got Holly, and Holly says I'm officially debt free, and
- 1:00Speaker 4: you know I love this because she says that she
- 1:02Speaker 4: just sold her car for the amount she owned to
- 1:04Speaker 4: her personal loan, which was fourteen thousand dollars, and she
- 1:07Speaker 4: was gonna buy another car for about six thousand dollars
- 1:09Speaker 4: so she could pay off her loan in half the time,
- 1:11Speaker 4: as her partner and her were saving for her first house.
- 1:14Speaker 4: But she thought about it a lot, had to chat
- 1:16Speaker 4: with her dad and decided to buy his car, which
- 1:19Speaker 4: was her first car ever from him, so he agreed
- 1:23Speaker 4: and she paid it off in full, and she doesn't
- 1:26Speaker 4: have any loan money now and she's completely debt free,
- 1:29Speaker 4: and she attributes that to this podcast and the group
- 1:32Speaker 4: of women, and she's on the money. So I could
- 1:34Speaker 4: not be prouder of her, and I love that story.
- 1:37Speaker 3: There's nothing we love more than debt free one hundred
- 1:40Speaker 3: percent years. I've got one from Belle this week, who says,
- 1:43Speaker 3: this week I achieved a number of money wins. She says,
- 1:46Speaker 3: I'm thirty four, a single mom to a teenager in
- 1:48Speaker 3: private school, and this is the first week of my life.
- 1:50Speaker 3: I feel like I've got control of this money thing.
- 1:52Speaker 3: She's hit the one hundred thousand dollar mark on a
- 1:54Speaker 3: super and she's proud of her credit card in foot
- 1:56Speaker 3: which was three thousand dollars. She ended up by saying
- 1:58Speaker 3: a year ago this all fell impossible. So tonight I
- 2:01Speaker 3: will celebrate my achievements.
- 2:03Speaker 4: And we are celebrating with her. That's amazing.
- 2:05Speaker 1: From one bell to the other. She's smashing it. Yay Victoria.
- 2:10Speaker 1: Today on the show, we're talking about trouble.
- 2:11Speaker 3: How does FOMO contribute to tens of thousands of millennials
- 2:14Speaker 3: accumulating bad debt? How do you see the world without
- 2:17Speaker 3: landing yourself in a terrible money situation for years to come?
- 2:20Speaker 3: But before we get there, as always, it's time to
- 2:22Speaker 3: share a money win or a money confession from the week.
- 2:24Speaker 1: How'd you go this week? Victoria?
- 2:26Speaker 4: I have a money winy. This fune's been a long
- 2:28Speaker 4: time coming, though, and I think that it's probably one
- 2:31Speaker 4: of my proudest moments. So I love my wardrobe. I
- 2:35Speaker 4: try really hard to keep a capsule wardrobe, but I
- 2:37Speaker 4: think it's often really hard to really pick the pieces
- 2:40Speaker 4: that you don't wear but still love and then give
- 2:42Speaker 4: them away.
- 2:43Speaker 1: Right.
- 2:43Speaker 4: So, at Christmas time, which as I said, long time coming,
- 2:46Speaker 4: at Christmas time, I actually turned all of the coat
- 2:49Speaker 4: hangers in my wardrobe around to face backwards.
- 2:51Speaker 1: That's so smart.
- 2:53Speaker 4: And this past weekend I decided that all of those
- 2:56Speaker 4: clothes either needed to be donated to charity, sold online,
- 2:59Speaker 4: or you know, maybe be given up completely because they're
- 3:03Speaker 4: a bit sad But what happened was I pulled them
- 3:06Speaker 4: all out, and even though there are a few things
- 3:07Speaker 4: that I absolutely loved on the hangar, I realized I
- 3:10Speaker 4: hadn't worn at all, and so I popped them on
- 3:13Speaker 4: eBay And I am three hundred dollars better off now,
- 3:16Speaker 4: and I think my wardrobe is far cleaner and easier
- 3:19Speaker 4: because I'm not feeling it full of stuff that I
- 3:21Speaker 4: don't wear.
- 3:22Speaker 3: That's something I really need to do. And I find
- 3:24Speaker 3: so hard giving up items that I even.
- 3:25Speaker 1: Though I don't wear, I still love them.
- 3:27Speaker 4: They're like my children, I know, and I felt really
- 3:29Speaker 4: bad giving up some of them. But when I realized
- 3:31Speaker 4: the coat hanger hadn't been turned around in literally eight months,
- 3:35Speaker 4: I think that was when I was like, look, if
- 3:36Speaker 4: I haven't worn it in eight months, when am I
- 3:38Speaker 4: gonna wear it. There are a couple of things I
- 3:40Speaker 4: did keep because I couldn't part with them, but there
- 3:42Speaker 4: are a number of things I was like, this dress
- 3:44Speaker 4: is really great, but I don't wear it.
- 3:46Speaker 1: No, that's a great way. That's a great way to force.
- 3:47Speaker 4: Its Yeah, so what did you do?
- 3:49Speaker 1: I have a money confession this week?
- 3:52Speaker 3: No, come on, Annabel, You've been so good so it
- 3:55Speaker 3: kind of aligns with last week. I talked about my
- 3:58Speaker 3: eyebrow tint before I got the new ones in the mail.
- 4:01Speaker 3: I went on Groupon, and I think I have a
- 4:03Speaker 3: bit of a group on addiction.
- 4:05Speaker 4: I feel like they need to sponsor us because you
- 4:06Speaker 4: use them so often.
- 4:07Speaker 1: We do and like the idea.
- 4:09Speaker 3: The concept of groupon is good things for cheaper, but
- 4:12Speaker 3: I'm definitely over using it. I bought like a voucher
- 4:16Speaker 3: for my eyebrows, no wonder, they look so good, Thank you,
- 4:19Speaker 3: thank you, like massages, nails.
- 4:22Speaker 1: It's no, it's an issue.
- 4:23Speaker 4: So this week you've gone and what bought? How many vouchers?
- 4:26Speaker 1: I don't even know the number. You need to help
- 4:30Speaker 1: me because.
- 4:30Speaker 4: That is so naughty. But also I hope you really
- 4:32Speaker 4: enjoy them.
- 4:33Speaker 3: Oh I will, so, Victoria. We want to see the world.
- 4:36Speaker 3: But according to a twenty nineteen survey in Travel Pulse,
- 4:39Speaker 3: fifty six percent of millennials go into debt for travel.
- 4:42Speaker 3: That's more than half six percent, more than half of us.
- 4:45Speaker 1: So let's start there.
- 4:46Speaker 3: Is this something you've seen anecdotically amongst your own friends,
- 4:49Speaker 3: Because I have quite a lot of friends who go
- 4:51Speaker 3: overseas without any sort of money plan, which stresses me
- 4:54Speaker 3: out a little, But that means that they end up spending.
- 4:57Speaker 1: All that they have far too quickly.
- 4:59Speaker 3: They either or to getting personal loans in the end,
- 5:02Speaker 3: or they spend the rest of their trip overly stressed
- 5:04Speaker 3: about money.
- 5:05Speaker 4: Or they call their mom and their mom transfers. But
- 5:08Speaker 4: that know that happens so often. So I think this
- 5:11Speaker 4: is a really interesting topic to bring up, actually because
- 5:14Speaker 4: I think that we justify travel so easily because we
- 5:17Speaker 4: say it's for the experience, like I don't want to
- 5:19Speaker 4: miss out, and you know, you've got fomo a little bit.
- 5:22Speaker 4: But also I can completely understand people saying, well, I
- 5:26Speaker 4: don't want to miss out, like two of my girlfriends
- 5:27Speaker 4: are going to Europe and I don't want to miss out,
- 5:30Speaker 4: Like that's the experience of a lifetime like fair call, right.
- 5:33Speaker 4: So I think that this is something we really need
- 5:36Speaker 4: to take a step back and really think about, Like
- 5:38Speaker 4: why are we traveling? Is it because it's really easy
- 5:40Speaker 4: to access, Like we now have all of these travel
- 5:44Speaker 4: websites offering after pay and offering you know, loan schemes
- 5:47Speaker 4: that you're able to you know, pay off the trip
- 5:49Speaker 4: once you return. And I think that that is actually
- 5:52Speaker 4: putting us in a position where we think that debt
- 5:54Speaker 4: for travel is an okay debt to have, when in reality,
- 5:57Speaker 4: it is absolutely not. Debt is a debt you come
- 6:00Speaker 4: home with nothing except something that you need to pay off,
- 6:04Speaker 4: and you need to pay it off in a way
- 6:05Speaker 4: that incurs a lot more interest than a home loan,
- 6:08Speaker 4: a lot more interest than any kind of loan, because
- 6:10Speaker 4: it's an unsecured personal loan. So you're looking at either
- 6:13Speaker 4: having it on a credit card, and credit cards are
- 6:15Speaker 4: between you know, sixteen and twenty two percent more if
- 6:19Speaker 4: you're a little bit unlucky and have a really high
- 6:20Speaker 4: interest credit card or a personal loan which is fourteen
- 6:23Speaker 4: to like nineteen percent interest, That's a lot of money
- 6:26Speaker 4: to be paying for an experience you already had.
- 6:29Speaker 3: Do you think it's maybe a generational thing? Because our
- 6:32Speaker 3: generation seems to be borderline obsessed with travel. Fifty five
- 6:35Speaker 3: percent of millennials are looking to increase their financial plans
- 6:38Speaker 3: the next year, are compared to thirty one percent of
- 6:40Speaker 3: Gen X and twenty percent of Baby boomers. Is this
- 6:43Speaker 3: a generational thing or are there cultural factors at play
- 6:45Speaker 3: here that make us extravagant travelers?
- 6:48Speaker 4: Can we just talk about Instagram culture right here, right now. Yes,
- 6:51Speaker 4: I think that we see so many people living their
- 6:54Speaker 4: best lives overseas and we get a little bit jealous. Yeah,
- 6:57Speaker 4: so I see it all the time, like it is
- 6:59Speaker 4: what it's all guests now, which is prime Europe season.
- 7:03Speaker 1: They're all living it up in summer, they are.
- 7:05Speaker 4: So I think that we're in a position where we
- 7:08Speaker 4: feel as though we deserve something that we haven't worked for.
- 7:11Speaker 4: If we've had a really big year at work, or
- 7:13Speaker 4: we've had, you know, something significant happen. Often we go, look,
- 7:16Speaker 4: I really need a holiday, and the easiest way to
- 7:19Speaker 4: access that is to put it on credit card.
- 7:21Speaker 3: Why do you think people automatically want to put it
- 7:24Speaker 3: on their credit card or a personal loan instead of saving.
- 7:27Speaker 4: Ease of access. You can choose to do it and
- 7:30Speaker 4: you know, make the most of those travel deals or
- 7:32Speaker 4: make the most of the cheap flights. So often you
- 7:35Speaker 4: see people, you know, get their emails in the morning
- 7:38Speaker 4: and it's from Webjet, and Webjet says, oh, Hawaii, he's
- 7:41Speaker 4: got five hundred dollars return flights, and you go, all,
- 7:43Speaker 4: I kind of feel that now, but you know, I'll
- 7:45Speaker 4: pop it on my credit card and we'll do it later.
- 7:47Speaker 4: And I don't think they think about the real cost
- 7:49Speaker 4: of that. So cheap flights are great, but how much
- 7:51Speaker 4: interest are you paying on that? How much are you
- 7:53Speaker 4: then going to have to spend on accommodation and all
- 7:56Speaker 4: of the expenses that are associated with traveling. So those
- 7:59Speaker 4: five one hundred dollar flights that you thought were fantastic
- 8:02Speaker 4: and now going to cost you three or four thousand
- 8:04Speaker 4: dollars in a trip that maybe you couldn't afford because
- 8:06Speaker 4: you already put the five hundred dollars on your credit card.
- 8:09Speaker 4: And so many people justify this and go, oh, but
- 8:11Speaker 4: the flights were so cheap. I got them to Bali,
- 8:14Speaker 4: And a little while ago we had someone on the
- 8:16Speaker 4: podcast who said, look, I just wrote off the flights
- 8:19Speaker 4: completely because it would have cost me more to go
- 8:21Speaker 4: than what I would have lost by giving the flights up.
- 8:24Speaker 4: And I think we really need to have a good
- 8:26Speaker 4: look at ourselves and go, why are we choosing to
- 8:28Speaker 4: do this? If you want to go on a holiday,
- 8:30Speaker 4: save for it.
- 8:31Speaker 3: Yeah, it's that whole like you only live once attitude,
- 8:34Speaker 3: and it seems to pop up a lot in these surveys.
- 8:37Speaker 3: Do you think that's a fair enough reason to put
- 8:39Speaker 3: yourself into debt for holiday. For example, what would you
- 8:41Speaker 3: say to a client who explained she's in five thousand
- 8:44Speaker 3: dollars worth of debt because you only live once you're low.
- 8:47Speaker 4: I just think it's unacceptable to be honest, And I
- 8:49Speaker 4: think I'm quite harsh on this, because it's putting you
- 8:52Speaker 4: in a financial position where you're not able to achieve
- 8:54Speaker 4: your goals, You're not able to work towards wealth, you're
- 8:56Speaker 4: not able to do things that you need to do.
- 8:58Speaker 4: A holiday, to me, be a reward for doing something
- 9:01Speaker 4: really good, and that's something really good should be the savings. Yeah,
- 9:04Speaker 4: it shouldn't be you going overseas and spending your rainy
- 9:07Speaker 4: day fund. It shouldn't be you going overseas and going
- 9:10Speaker 4: into debt. It should be you going overseas and feeling
- 9:13Speaker 4: incredible because you've already paid fruit ball.
- 9:16Speaker 3: And then coming home and feeling like fresh and rejuvenated
- 9:18Speaker 3: instead of having to like pay back all those debts.
- 9:20Speaker 4: Exactly. And like, I'm the first to admit that I'm
- 9:23Speaker 4: probably a lot more organized than a lot of my friends.
- 9:26Speaker 4: But the first thing I do when I want to
- 9:27Speaker 4: go on a holiday is create a spreadsheet, and that
- 9:29Speaker 4: spreadsheet outlines how much my flights are going to cost,
- 9:32Speaker 4: how much my accommodation is going to cost, you know,
- 9:34Speaker 4: what I think I'll be spending each day, and I'm
- 9:37Speaker 4: pretty generous with that budget. But working out exactly what
- 9:40Speaker 4: that holiday is going to cost me and then how
- 9:42Speaker 4: much I'm going to have to set aside in addition
- 9:44Speaker 4: to my savings and investment goals to achieve that holiday,
- 9:48Speaker 4: And sometimes that means me looking at it and going, wow,
- 9:50Speaker 4: I'd really like to go because at the moment, I'm
- 9:52Speaker 4: thinking of going to Europe in the next two years ish,
- 9:55Speaker 4: which will be fantastic. But I look at that and
- 9:58Speaker 4: I go, wow, that's you know, five thousand holiday. At
- 10:01Speaker 4: least I don't have the surplus, you know, cash at
- 10:04Speaker 4: the moment, because I don't want to be impacting my
- 10:06Speaker 4: investing or my savings planned to go on this. I
- 10:08Speaker 4: don't want to be putting myself backwards. But it's literally
- 10:11Speaker 4: going to take me another two years to save up
- 10:14Speaker 4: another five thousand dollars by putting money aside each month
- 10:18Speaker 4: instead of taking it from what I already have.
- 10:20Speaker 3: Yeah, the fact that you're thinking about it now is
- 10:22Speaker 3: what maybe more people should be doing thinking about it
- 10:24Speaker 3: a bit more in advance so that you can enjoy.
- 10:26Speaker 4: That holiday absolutely. And one thing that they always say
- 10:29Speaker 4: about travel is the anticipation is half of it. So like,
- 10:32Speaker 4: how often do we talk about the travel that we're
- 10:34Speaker 4: going to go on, and how often do we have
- 10:37Speaker 4: conversations with friends about, you know, what we're going to
- 10:39Speaker 4: do when we travel. So I think that travel is
- 10:42Speaker 4: fantastic to go on, but it's also something that's really
- 10:45Speaker 4: gratifying to look forward to, because having things that we
- 10:48Speaker 4: are looking forward to makes us get through the hard
- 10:50Speaker 4: days a little bit easier.
- 10:52Speaker 3: So, according to Travel Pulse, on average, it takes a
- 10:54Speaker 3: year for the average millennial to pay off three thousand
- 10:57Speaker 3: dollars of travel debt. Are you at all surprised by that?
- 11:00Speaker 3: Do you think we're maybe too flippant with how we
- 11:02Speaker 3: spend money on holidays?
- 11:03Speaker 4: So it actually all comes back to how much you
- 11:06Speaker 4: earn versus how much you spend. I never say to
- 11:08Speaker 4: someone that they can't actually travel or that they shouldn't
- 11:11Speaker 4: be spending their money on experiences that are really really
- 11:14Speaker 4: meaningful to them. I am the first person to say
- 11:17Speaker 4: you need to live within your values. So if travel
- 11:19Speaker 4: is something that you value the most, contribute a lot
- 11:22Speaker 4: of your income to that goal. Put money aside to
- 11:25Speaker 4: make sure that that's happening. Don't live your best life
- 11:28Speaker 4: here at home, and then also expect to be able
- 11:30Speaker 4: to travel as well just because you enjoy it. Savings
- 11:34Speaker 4: and investments are something that require a significant amount of compromise.
- 11:39Speaker 4: We don't all have unlimited funds, so we need to
- 11:41Speaker 4: work out how to use our funds most appropriately. I'd
- 11:44Speaker 4: probably be encouraging people to just really take control of
- 11:47Speaker 4: their finances. Do a cash flow course, do a budgeting session,
- 11:51Speaker 4: organize something so that you are saving every cent and
- 11:54Speaker 4: making the most of the money that you earn. But
- 11:56Speaker 4: the fact that fifty six percent of millennials are going
- 11:59Speaker 4: into debt for travel is actually pretty scary because that's
- 12:02Speaker 4: fifty six percent of millennials that aren't working towards their
- 12:05Speaker 4: bigger goals.
- 12:05Speaker 3: Do you think that that fifty per cent of people
- 12:08Speaker 3: have travel in their money values or do you think
- 12:10Speaker 3: that maybe they're feeling the pressure from social media on Instagram.
- 12:13Speaker 4: I think that it's a bit of both, right, Like
- 12:15Speaker 4: I think that if you value going overseas, you're going
- 12:18Speaker 4: to spend money on it. I don't think it's just
- 12:21Speaker 4: societal pressures. I don't think it's just Instagram, because I
- 12:24Speaker 4: think a level headed person will look at Instagram and go, Wow,
- 12:28Speaker 4: that Italian holiday that my friend is on. Who knows
- 12:30Speaker 4: how much debt she's in or who knows how long
- 12:33Speaker 4: she had to save up for that? And we see
- 12:34Speaker 4: it all the time, but we don't actually often see
- 12:37Speaker 4: people celebrating that they worked really hard for it. Someone
- 12:40Speaker 4: that I actually follow on Instagram is Olivia Molly Rodgers,
- 12:44Speaker 4: and she recently got back from a holiday and a
- 12:47Speaker 4: couple of her posts were really around how hard she'd
- 12:49Speaker 4: worked to go on that holiday. And I really appreciated that,
- 12:53Speaker 4: Like I could see that she'd worked really hard over
- 12:54Speaker 4: a really long period of time to afford that holiday,
- 12:57Speaker 4: and you know, her and her partner had saved up
- 12:59Speaker 4: for it, made a number of compromises along the way.
- 13:02Speaker 4: It's not often that we see people being transparent about
- 13:05Speaker 4: how they got to where they're going. I think a
- 13:07Speaker 4: lot of people just think it's a given.
- 13:08Speaker 1: I would love to see more of that on social media.
- 13:10Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 13:10Speaker 1: I saw that they used a spreadsheet as well, which
- 13:12Speaker 1: is your.
- 13:13Speaker 4: Thing, Oh my gosh, my favorite thing.
- 13:16Speaker 1: So Victoria, as someone.
- 13:17Speaker 3: Who studied psychology like yourself, why do you think millennials
- 13:20Speaker 3: are willing to splash so much spending money on a
- 13:23Speaker 3: holiday when they potentially wouldn't do that back home.
- 13:25Speaker 4: I think it's really easy to justify spending that you're
- 13:29Speaker 4: doing on holiday because you wouldn't do it at home.
- 13:31Speaker 4: And you know, you only come here once and this
- 13:34Speaker 4: is the only time I'm in Europe, and you know
- 13:36Speaker 4: I'm in France, so I probably should just make the.
- 13:38Speaker 1: Most of it.
- 13:39Speaker 4: I think that we just spend more because we want
- 13:41Speaker 4: to make the most of things, but we're not pre
- 13:43Speaker 4: planning that spending. More So, as I mentioned before, when
- 13:46Speaker 4: I budget for a holiday, I'm pretty lenient on how
- 13:50Speaker 4: much e'lse spend each day. Like there have been a
- 13:52Speaker 4: couple of times where I've gone overseas and you know,
- 13:54Speaker 4: recently we're talking about my New Zealand trip and it
- 13:56Speaker 4: wasn't in budget to go to a couple of restaurants,
- 13:58Speaker 4: but we did have the cash, and that okay, it
- 14:01Speaker 4: just wasn't a part of the plan. I think over
- 14:03Speaker 4: budgeting is fantastic because that'll mean one of two things.
- 14:07Speaker 4: Either you get to have the best time on your
- 14:09Speaker 4: holiday that you didn't realize. You know, there are a
- 14:11Speaker 4: couple of things that you planned for, or you come
- 14:13Speaker 4: home with extra cash. That's a fantastic position to be in.
- 14:17Speaker 3: And I don't think the pre planning necessarily means that
- 14:19Speaker 3: we're being the fun police here. I think it means
- 14:21Speaker 3: that you can just travel without the stress.
- 14:24Speaker 4: Absolutely, And I think by pre planning it puts us
- 14:27Speaker 4: in a position where we are leading up to these
- 14:29Speaker 4: holidays excited instead of worrying how we're going to pay
- 14:32Speaker 4: for them. So, for example, if you're wanting to go
- 14:35Speaker 4: on a five thousand dollars holiday in two years, starting
- 14:39Speaker 4: now means you only have to put around two hundred
- 14:41Speaker 4: dollars away per month. Like that is pretty durable for everybody.
- 14:45Speaker 4: It just means starting early and being consistent with your savings.
- 14:49Speaker 4: If you really want to go, you'll put that money aside.
- 14:51Speaker 1: Exactly.
- 14:52Speaker 3: There's this really widespread attitude between millennials that an overseas
- 14:56Speaker 3: holiday every year is normal.
- 14:57Speaker 1: Do you agree with that?
- 14:58Speaker 4: I think I think you have absolutely correct. Is it normal?
- 15:02Speaker 4: Absolutely not. I think that it is something that is
- 15:06Speaker 4: portrayed in social media as the norm. It is something
- 15:08Speaker 4: that our friends talk about. But what we don't talk
- 15:11Speaker 4: about is that we're not achieving bigger financial goals. Too
- 15:14Speaker 4: often do I talk to people who are telling me
- 15:17Speaker 4: that they will never be able to afford a home
- 15:19Speaker 4: or you know, it's too hard to save for home deposit.
- 15:21Speaker 4: But you look at their history and they've had an
- 15:24Speaker 4: overseas holiday every single year.
- 15:25Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we.
- 15:26Speaker 4: Really need to reevaluate what our values are and how
- 15:29Speaker 4: we're prioritizing them. If travel is important to you, fantastic,
- 15:32Speaker 4: but how is that impacting your other goals? Should you
- 15:36Speaker 4: be going on a trip every year? Or can we
- 15:38Speaker 4: stretch it to every two or three years and just
- 15:40Speaker 4: really put a focus on really enjoying that holiday and
- 15:44Speaker 4: really looking forward to it.
- 15:45Speaker 3: I also think we can't forget that a lot of
- 15:46Speaker 3: the people we see on social media are influences and
- 15:49Speaker 3: they maybe get paid to go overseas and it's easier
- 15:52Speaker 3: for them to.
- 15:52Speaker 4: Do so one hundred percent, And I think that that's
- 15:55Speaker 4: something that we also don't talk about enough. We're introducing
- 15:58Speaker 4: all of this, you know, hash tag sponsored content, which
- 16:01Speaker 4: I think is really important, but also those people often
- 16:05Speaker 4: have higher salaries than the average person. It is really
- 16:08Speaker 4: unrealistic for a couple who have a combined income of
- 16:11Speaker 4: one hundred thousand dollars to be able to go on
- 16:13Speaker 4: an overseas holiday each year. If you're in a position
- 16:16Speaker 4: where you earn sixty thousand dollars a year, five thousand
- 16:19Speaker 4: dollars holiday each year is a lot of money. That
- 16:22Speaker 4: is not something to kind of blink at and just go, well,
- 16:24Speaker 4: it's related to my values. That's fantastic. But what are
- 16:28Speaker 4: you compromising in the long term, and are you actually
- 16:31Speaker 4: happy to compromise that in the long term or are
- 16:33Speaker 4: you going to get to a point ten years from
- 16:35Speaker 4: now and say, I haven't purchased a home. I wish
- 16:38Speaker 4: i'd known earlier that I needed to save or that
- 16:40Speaker 4: I needed to make some different decisions.
- 16:43Speaker 3: So, with all we've said in mind, what are some
- 16:45Speaker 3: tips you'd give to someone who's about to book holiday.
- 16:47Speaker 3: Is it a case of picking our travel buddies wisely
- 16:49Speaker 3: and knowing our limits.
- 16:50Speaker 4: I think that's really valuable. I think being open and
- 16:53Speaker 4: honest with your friends about your budget is really important too.
- 16:56Speaker 4: If you're going overseas and you have a budget of
- 16:58Speaker 4: fifty dollars a day, but your friends have allocated one
- 17:01Speaker 4: hundred dollars a day, you are quickly going to run
- 17:04Speaker 4: out of money because their expectations of the activities you
- 17:07Speaker 4: do on your holiday are going to be different. So
- 17:09Speaker 4: I think being really upfront with your friends about how
- 17:11Speaker 4: much you're planning on spending and how much you're planning
- 17:14Speaker 4: on taking is really important. And if they're taking more,
- 17:17Speaker 4: maybe you need to be aware of that and ramp
- 17:19Speaker 4: your savings up, or vice versa, maybe they need to
- 17:22Speaker 4: realign their goals to a hostel instead of a hotel
- 17:24Speaker 4: and make sure that everybody can enjoy that trip. I
- 17:27Speaker 4: think also back to what I've been preaching and talking
- 17:29Speaker 4: about pre planning your trip, so not just seeing cheap
- 17:33Speaker 4: flights and going fantastic, I really want to jump on these.
- 17:36Speaker 4: You know, let's go to Bali. You know, the flight
- 17:38Speaker 4: and accommodation package cost me less than a thousand dollars.
- 17:40Speaker 4: That's fantastic. Do you actually have that one thousand dollars?
- 17:43Speaker 4: Like Bali is going to be there next year? Maybe
- 17:45Speaker 4: we spend one hundred or two hundred dollars more on flights,
- 17:48Speaker 4: but we don't go into debt for that. I don't
- 17:50Speaker 4: think cheap flights is ever an excuse for someone to
- 17:53Speaker 4: book a holiday, And I think we really need to
- 17:56Speaker 4: have a look at the way we're spending because that's
- 17:58Speaker 4: quite impulsive.
- 17:59Speaker 3: Those places will always be there, those cheap flights will
- 18:01Speaker 3: always be there. I think that's something people forget absolutely.
- 18:04Speaker 3: And those cheap flights aren't that cheap when they're on credit. Hi, there,
- 18:12Speaker 3: you've called the Shoes on the Money Hotline. Do you
- 18:14Speaker 3: have a money problem you want help solving. Do you
- 18:17Speaker 3: have a money dilemma you just want to chat about.
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- 18:40Speaker 5: Hi, guys, I'm a big fan of the show.
- 18:42Speaker 6: I love traveling and I want to be able to
- 18:44Speaker 6: go on yearly overseas trips whilst I'm in my twenties.
- 18:46Speaker 6: So my question is, if I'm earning sixty five thousand
- 18:49Speaker 6: a year before tax, what percentage of my income do.
- 18:52Speaker 5: You think should be put towards travel?
- 18:54Speaker 6: I really want to make the most of my twenties
- 18:55Speaker 6: and travel as much as I can, but I also
- 18:57Speaker 6: don't want to be living above my means.
- 19:00Speaker 5: Wait, thanks so.
- 19:00Speaker 1: Much, guys. Thoughts Victoria.
- 19:03Speaker 4: So, while she's saying that she has a sixty five
- 19:06Speaker 4: thousand dollar income before tax, any budget she puts together
- 19:10Speaker 4: needs to be net income. So that's actually what's going
- 19:12Speaker 4: into her bank account each and every single month. Her
- 19:15Speaker 4: net nearly income is about fifty two thousand dollars, so
- 19:18Speaker 4: that's what she's earning. I think that there's never actually
- 19:21Speaker 4: an appropriate amount to put towards travel. Again, it goes
- 19:24Speaker 4: back to your values. If five thousand dollars holidays each
- 19:27Speaker 4: year are aligned to your values, that's fantastic. As long
- 19:31Speaker 4: as you're not working towards a bigger goal, that's suffering.
- 19:34Speaker 4: So if you're saving for home, or you're putting money
- 19:36Speaker 4: into an investment, or you are in a position where
- 19:39Speaker 4: you just want to be saving for life, is a
- 19:42Speaker 4: five thousand dollar holiday every single year going to align
- 19:45Speaker 4: to your goals? Or should you take a step back
- 19:47Speaker 4: and say, you know what, whilst I earn sixty five
- 19:50Speaker 4: thousand dollars a year, maybe I should be in a
- 19:52Speaker 4: position where I'm taking a holiday every second year and
- 19:54Speaker 4: maybe saving two and a half thousand dollars a year,
- 19:57Speaker 4: or potentially choosing locations that are a lot cheap. So
- 20:00Speaker 4: we all know European vacations are so expensive, but Bali's
- 20:04Speaker 4: a little bit more reasonable. So maybe having a think
- 20:07Speaker 4: about the style of holiday that you're taking and not
- 20:10Speaker 4: assuming you can go to Europe every single year, maybe
- 20:13Speaker 4: it includes some closer Asian countries that are a lot cheaper,
- 20:16Speaker 4: and maybe once every five or six years you do
- 20:19Speaker 4: the big European holiday.
- 20:21Speaker 1: You don't have to regret anything, No, absolutely not.
- 20:24Speaker 4: But I think that that comes back to your values.
- 20:27Speaker 4: And I sound so preachy when I talk about this,
- 20:30Speaker 4: but everybody's money story is different. Everybody has a different
- 20:33Speaker 4: set of values and a different set of beliefs around money.
- 20:36Speaker 4: And if travel is something that you want to do
- 20:38Speaker 4: and you think that that is absolutely appropriate, go for it.
- 20:42Speaker 4: But I think that we should also be looking at
- 20:44Speaker 4: our bigger long term goals because often travel is a
- 20:47Speaker 4: really short term goal that could impact our long term goals.
- 20:56Speaker 1: Now let's jump into our money diary segment. Let's go.
- 21:06Speaker 3: Today's money dary is from twenty one and methodical a
- 21:08Speaker 3: woman who takes a relationship with money very seriously.
- 21:11Speaker 7: I have a lot of bank accounts, but there's structure
- 21:16Speaker 7: to how all of my accounts are set up. I
- 21:18Speaker 7: have direct transfers, direct debits, all set up so that
- 21:21Speaker 7: I don't have to think about it too much and
- 21:23Speaker 7: I can't be tempted to spend too much.
- 21:25Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 21:26Speaker 7: I was always a savor as a kid, but I
- 21:28Speaker 7: think as I've grown up more and seeing how money
- 21:32Speaker 7: has affected the lives of family and friends quite a
- 21:34Speaker 7: bit in negative ways, I just really keen on making
- 21:38Speaker 7: sure that I have myself set up financially so I
- 21:40Speaker 7: won't ever have to depend on anyone else.
- 21:42Speaker 6: We know.
- 21:43Speaker 3: Twenty one and methodical is the kind of empowered woman
- 21:45Speaker 3: who knows where she wants to go. So how much
- 21:47Speaker 3: does she earn and how much has she got saved?
- 21:50Speaker 7: So, because I'm a full time student, I work three
- 21:53Speaker 7: days a week at a supermarket, I earn about four
- 21:56Speaker 7: hundred and fifty dollars a week and I have currently
- 21:59Speaker 7: about five and a half thousand in savings. Yeah, so
- 22:02Speaker 7: I have twenty five percent of my wage gets transferred
- 22:05Speaker 7: across directly to some of my savings accounts every week.
- 22:09Speaker 3: So we know how twenty one and methodical gets paid,
- 22:11Speaker 3: but what exactly happens to that money after it's deposited
- 22:14Speaker 3: into her account?
- 22:15Speaker 7: A portion gets transferred into an account for investing, and
- 22:19Speaker 7: then another portion goes into an emergency fund, and then
- 22:22Speaker 7: another portion of that twenty five percent goes into saving
- 22:25Speaker 7: for trips.
- 22:26Speaker 1: How does twenty one methodical go with investing?
- 22:28Speaker 7: Though?
- 22:29Speaker 5: Yes, so I do invest.
- 22:30Speaker 7: I've been investing for about three years now. Yeah, So
- 22:34Speaker 7: when I was in year twelve, a few months before
- 22:37Speaker 7: I turned eighteen, I started doing a lot of research
- 22:39Speaker 7: into investing because I knew it was something that I
- 22:40Speaker 7: wanted to get into, so that I had sort of
- 22:43Speaker 7: the research treaty to go for when I turn eighteen
- 22:44Speaker 7: and I could legally invest. So over the past three years,
- 22:47Speaker 7: I think I've invested about six thousand dollars. That's a
- 22:50Speaker 7: combination of investing in individual shares through Comsec. I've had
- 22:57Speaker 7: a raise account for maybe two two and a half years,
- 23:00Speaker 7: an employee share plan, and recently I've started adding some
- 23:04Speaker 7: ETFs as well.
- 23:05Speaker 1: And what about her debts?
- 23:07Speaker 7: So currently my hex stet is sitting at about thirty
- 23:09Speaker 7: thousand dollars just over. By the time I finish my
- 23:13Speaker 7: undergrad degrees, I'll probably be sitting at about fifty thousand
- 23:16Speaker 7: in a couple of years time, and I currently have
- 23:18Speaker 7: about three hundred and fifty dollars sitting in my after
- 23:22Speaker 7: pay account. Obviously, I'd prefer to not have any at
- 23:26Speaker 7: all on after pay, but as Victoria said in the
- 23:30Speaker 7: after Bay episode, I believe it was I kind of
- 23:32Speaker 7: use it if i'm buying. If I have to buy
- 23:34Speaker 7: something specific, like an outfit for an event, and I
- 23:37Speaker 7: buy a few options, that's pretty much.
- 23:39Speaker 5: The only time I use it.
- 23:40Speaker 7: The reason it's sitting at three fifty at the moment
- 23:43Speaker 7: is because I've put a couple of my boyfriend's birth
- 23:45Speaker 7: their presents on it because I'm not sure that I'll
- 23:47Speaker 7: keep them, like they might be returned. So when I
- 23:49Speaker 7: think there's a good chance of I only use after
- 23:52Speaker 7: Bay when I think there's a pretty high chance of
- 23:54Speaker 7: that I'll be returning stuff, just so that my money
- 23:56Speaker 7: doesn't get caught up in limbo. Yeah, hextet wise, I mean,
- 23:58Speaker 7: it's not really anything I can do about it. I'm
- 24:00Speaker 7: not too worried about it because I don't know it's.
- 24:03Speaker 5: The one dead that dies with you, So it's the
- 24:05Speaker 5: one I'm the least worried about.
- 24:06Speaker 3: So does twenty one and Methodical have any good money
- 24:09Speaker 3: habits that she's especially proud of.
- 24:10Speaker 7: I think how I have my bank accounts structured is
- 24:13Speaker 7: pretty good. Because I have accounts with multiple different institutions.
- 24:17Speaker 7: It's all quite separated, so I can't dip into save
- 24:20Speaker 7: these accounts too easily.
- 24:21Speaker 5: Yeah, I think, yeah, that's probably my best. I don't
- 24:23Speaker 5: spend too much.
- 24:24Speaker 7: I'm not in an impulse shop or anything, so I
- 24:26Speaker 7: always sleep on a purchase, like a significant purchase, before
- 24:29Speaker 7: I make it. And yeah, I'm really good at prepping
- 24:32Speaker 7: lunches and things like that for work in UNI, I
- 24:34Speaker 7: kind of let myself buy a lunch out at Union
- 24:36Speaker 7: once a week. And I don't let myself buy a
- 24:38Speaker 7: coffee unless I've got a keep cup. That's my and
- 24:40Speaker 7: I'm notoriously about it, remembering you bringwa keep cup, so
- 24:42Speaker 7: it stops me from wasting money on coffee.
- 24:44Speaker 1: So what about her worst money habits?
- 24:46Speaker 7: Up until this year, since I finished school, I've normally
- 24:50Speaker 7: save up really hard throughout the year and then blow
- 24:52Speaker 7: it all on an overseas trip. So This year is
- 24:54Speaker 7: actually the first year that I don't have an overseas
- 24:56Speaker 7: trip planned.
- 24:57Speaker 5: And I won't be going overseas, which is not.
- 24:59Speaker 7: Too I guess because it's an experience, it's not wasting
- 25:02Speaker 7: money on material things. But I'm by the point now
- 25:04Speaker 7: where I want to start knuckling down and saving rather
- 25:07Speaker 7: than coming back from a trip to a very low
- 25:10Speaker 7: balance in my savings account. And I also spend a
- 25:14Speaker 7: lot of money on gifts. That's probably I waste a
- 25:17Speaker 7: lot of money on gifts. I kind of have a
- 25:19Speaker 7: money is no object or when it comes to presence,
- 25:21Speaker 7: which I mean it's good for other people's benefit, but
- 25:24Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, I kind of need to start rating
- 25:27Speaker 7: that in a bit because I'm not an impulse shoper
- 25:29Speaker 7: for myself.
- 25:30Speaker 5: But when it comes to presence, if I see something
- 25:31Speaker 5: that I think someone.
- 25:32Speaker 7: Will like, I'll just buy it and stop pilot for
- 25:34Speaker 7: when it is their birthday of Christmas.
- 25:36Speaker 5: So that's where quite a bit of my money goes.
- 25:38Speaker 3: So what's twenty one and methodical actually saving for what's
- 25:42Speaker 3: her big money goal?
- 25:43Speaker 7: So my biggest at the moment now that I've not
- 25:47Speaker 7: planning on doing many more overseas trips for the time
- 25:50Speaker 7: being is saving towards the house, so I mean, I'm
- 25:52Speaker 7: not that's not going to be anytime soon, and I'm
- 25:54Speaker 7: still studying. But ideally, if I could have my half
- 25:58Speaker 7: of the deposit per a house in about five years time.
- 26:01Speaker 5: That's the goal at this point. So we'll see how
- 26:03Speaker 5: that goes.
- 26:04Speaker 3: So how about today's money? Diaristorrate her own relationship with
- 26:06Speaker 3: money if we forced her to give herself a grade.
- 26:09Speaker 5: I was not looking forward to this question.
- 26:11Speaker 7: Maybe in a yeah, I'd say about an A because yeah,
- 26:16Speaker 7: I think now I'm really starting to get my act
- 26:19Speaker 7: together with money, but there's always been for improvement.
- 26:22Speaker 1: So I love her. I do too.
- 26:25Speaker 3: I think she's doing incredible stuff researching about investing in
- 26:28Speaker 3: chairs before eighteen.
- 26:29Speaker 1: She's so cool. That is amazing.
- 26:32Speaker 4: I think she's fantastic. I thought that she had a
- 26:34Speaker 4: really great little money story, and I really like that
- 26:36Speaker 4: she'd planned so much of it to be twenty one
- 26:40Speaker 4: and have a six thousand dollars share portfolio that is
- 26:42Speaker 4: going to compound over time. That is incredible. Also, having
- 26:46Speaker 4: a good savings buffer fantastic. And I loved that she
- 26:50Speaker 4: talked about after pay. So I think that we throw
- 26:52Speaker 4: that under the bus so often, But it sounds like
- 26:55Speaker 4: she's using it really constructively. So I think that if
- 26:58Speaker 4: she's putting a lot of thought in to it, like
- 27:00Speaker 4: and you're using it in a way that is constructive
- 27:03Speaker 4: for you and it's not putting you into debt and
- 27:04Speaker 4: you're not purchasing things that you wouldn't otherwise purchase, like,
- 27:08Speaker 4: go for it. But at the same time, it sounds
- 27:10Speaker 4: like maybe she needs to put a little bit of
- 27:13Speaker 4: a budget in place around gifts. So I'm a massive
- 27:16Speaker 4: spender on gifts as well.
- 27:18Speaker 1: That's why we're friends.
- 27:19Speaker 4: Yeah, So I feel like gifts are something that make
- 27:22Speaker 4: me feel really good about, you know, our friendship or
- 27:25Speaker 4: you know what I want to give other people. I
- 27:27Speaker 4: think it to me makes me feel really gratified. But
- 27:31Speaker 4: I think making sure it's in the budget is really important.
- 27:33Speaker 4: So as a part of my budget that I keep
- 27:36Speaker 4: and guys that template is actually in the She's on
- 27:39Speaker 4: the money group if you want to copy it. It
- 27:41Speaker 4: includes gifts. So I include gifts of Christmas and for birthdays,
- 27:44Speaker 4: and I try to be quite generous with that amount
- 27:47Speaker 4: so that I don't end up overspending and not meeting
- 27:50Speaker 4: my goals. In other areas. So potentially having a sit
- 27:53Speaker 4: down writing down the names of people that you purchase
- 27:55Speaker 4: gifts for each year and allocating a specific budget to
- 27:58Speaker 4: them is important. I really like that she said that
- 28:01Speaker 4: she plans for it sometimes and really stockpiles gifts for Christmas.
- 28:05Speaker 4: I think if that's the case, potentially don't purchase it yet.
- 28:08Speaker 4: Maybe if you're already stockpiling things, have a bit of
- 28:10Speaker 4: a shop around online and see if you can get
- 28:13Speaker 4: it cheaper, or there's an alternative that you could present
- 28:16Speaker 4: that maybe doesn't cost you.
- 28:17Speaker 1: As much, should go on sale.
- 28:18Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. So maybe having a list like I do
- 28:21Speaker 4: in your phone of all of the present ideas that
- 28:23Speaker 4: you've got could help. But I loved her. I thought
- 28:26Speaker 4: that she was doing really well and she's absolutely on
- 28:28Speaker 4: the right track. And I'm so excited that we've finally
- 28:30Speaker 4: got someone on the podcast who rates themselves as an
- 28:33Speaker 4: a because I think that that's really important. I think
- 28:36Speaker 4: she's quite inspirational, very self.
- 28:38Speaker 1: Aware, and she sounds like a planner, which we know
- 28:39Speaker 1: you love.
- 28:40Speaker 4: I do love that. I'm sure her spreadsheets are really
- 28:42Speaker 4: pretty as well.
- 28:44Speaker 3: That's all we have time for today. Unfortunately, just before
- 28:46Speaker 3: we head off. As always, let's quickly wrap the boring
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