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- 0:05Now
- 0:05this
- 0:06took
- 0:06me
- 0:06way
- 0:07too
- 0:07long
- 0:07to
- 0:08figure
- 0:08out.
- 0:08So
- 0:09let
- 0:09me
- 0:09fill
- 0:09you
- 0:09in.
- 0:10That
- 0:11season
- 0:11you
- 0:11are
- 0:12trying
- 0:12to
- 0:12get
- 0:12out
- 0:13of
- 0:13is
- 0:13actually
- 0:14the
- 0:14one
- 0:15that
- 0:15is
- 0:15getting
- 0:16you
- 0:16ready.
- 0:16Mm-hmm.
- 0:17Yep.
- 0:18I
- 0:18said
- 0:18it
- 0:19because
- 0:19when
- 0:19I
- 0:19got
- 0:20laid
- 0:20off
- 0:20from
- 0:20a
- 0:2120
- 0:21plus
- 0:22year
- 0:22corporate
- 0:22career
- 0:23friend,
- 0:24I
- 0:25felt
- 0:25pure
- 0:26relief
- 0:27like
- 0:27somebody
- 0:28Q
- 0:28Pharrell,
- 0:29because
- 0:29Happy
- 0:30was
- 0:30definitely
- 0:30playing
- 0:31in
- 0:31my
- 0:31spirit.
- 0:32Okay.
- 0:34And
- 0:34I
- 0:34know,
- 0:35I
- 0:35know
- 0:35it
- 0:35sounds
- 0:36completely
- 0:37unhinged,
- 0:38but
- 0:38I
- 0:38knew
- 0:39God
- 0:39had
- 0:39been
- 0:39preparing
- 0:40my
- 0:40exit
- 0:41long
- 0:42before
- 0:42I
- 0:43knew
- 0:43I
- 0:43needed
- 0:43one
- 0:44for
- 0:45real.
- 0:46Every
- 0:46leadership
- 0:47challenge,
- 0:47every
- 0:48uncomfortable
- 0:49moment
- 0:49of
- 0:49feeling
- 0:50like
- 0:50I
- 0:50didn't
- 0:50belong
- 0:51every
- 0:52presentation
- 0:53I
- 0:53have
- 0:53to
- 0:54give,
- 0:54even
- 0:54when
- 0:55I
- 0:55was
- 0:55mortified,
- 0:56every
- 0:56time
- 0:57I
- 0:57figured
- 0:57out
- 0:57something
- 0:58I
- 0:58had
- 0:58never
- 0:59done
- 0:59before,
- 1:00it
- 1:00was
- 1:01all.
- 1:01Preparation.
- 1:03It
- 1:03was
- 1:03all
- 1:04building
- 1:04something
- 1:05in
- 1:05me
- 1:06that
- 1:06I
- 1:06was
- 1:06going
- 1:07to
- 1:07need
- 1:08for
- 1:08exactly
- 1:09where
- 1:10I
- 1:10was
- 1:10going,
- 1:11and
- 1:11I
- 1:11didn't
- 1:12see
- 1:12it
- 1:12while
- 1:13I
- 1:13was
- 1:13in
- 1:13it,
- 1:14mainly
- 1:14because
- 1:15I
- 1:15was
- 1:15just
- 1:15trying
- 1:16to
- 1:16survive
- 1:17it.
- 1:20But
- 1:20from
- 1:20the
- 1:21other
- 1:21side,
- 1:21it
- 1:22is
- 1:22crystal
- 1:22clear
- 1:23and
- 1:24that
- 1:24is
- 1:24exactly
- 1:25what
- 1:25your
- 1:26season
- 1:26is
- 1:26doing
- 1:27right
- 1:27now,
- 1:28even
- 1:28if
- 1:28you
- 1:28can't
- 1:29see
- 1:29it,
- 1:30actually.
- 1:31especially
- 1:32if
- 1:32you
- 1:32can't
- 1:33see
- 1:33it
- 1:33yet.
- 1:34So
- 1:34let's
- 1:35get
- 1:35into
- 1:36it.
- 1:37Okay.
- 1:37Real
- 1:38quick,
- 1:38if
- 1:38you
- 1:39are
- 1:39not
- 1:39subscribed
- 1:40to
- 1:40the
- 1:40Confident
- 1:40and
- 1:41Empowered
- 1:41Women
- 1:41Podcast
- 1:42yet,
- 1:43what
- 1:43are
- 1:43we
- 1:43even
- 1:43doing?
- 1:44Okay.
- 1:47We
- 1:47are
- 1:47here
- 1:48every
- 1:48single
- 1:49Tuesday
- 1:49and
- 1:49Thursday,
- 1:50and
- 1:50this
- 1:50is
- 1:51not
- 1:51just
- 1:51any
- 1:52O
- 1:52regular
- 1:52Schmegular
- 1:53podcast.
- 1:54This
- 1:54is
- 1:55a
- 1:55community
- 1:56of
- 1:56women
- 1:57who
- 1:57are
- 1:57done
- 1:58shrinking,
- 1:58settling,
- 1:59done,
- 2:00people
- 2:00pleasing,
- 2:01performing,
- 2:02and
- 2:02putting
- 2:03herself
- 2:03last.
- 2:04This
- 2:04is
- 2:05where
- 2:05we
- 2:05come
- 2:05to
- 2:06remember.
- 2:07Who
- 2:07we
- 2:07actually
- 2:08are
- 2:09and
- 2:09build
- 2:09the
- 2:10life
- 2:10that
- 2:11reflects
- 2:11her.
- 2:12We
- 2:12are
- 2:13becoming
- 2:13together
- 2:14friend,
- 2:14and
- 2:15if
- 2:15you
- 2:15are
- 2:15not
- 2:15subscribed
- 2:16yet,
- 2:17let
- 2:17today
- 2:18be
- 2:18the
- 2:18day.
- 2:20Hey,
- 2:20hey,
- 2:21hey
- 2:21friend.
- 2:21Welcome
- 2:22back.
- 2:23You
- 2:23know
- 2:24we
- 2:24love
- 2:25us
- 2:25a
- 2:25good
- 2:26highlight
- 2:26reel,
- 2:27right?
- 2:28We
- 2:28love
- 2:28the
- 2:28before
- 2:29and
- 2:29after.
- 2:30And
- 2:31listen,
- 2:31we
- 2:32wanna
- 2:32skip
- 2:33from
- 2:33the
- 2:33exciting
- 2:34beginning.
- 2:35Straight
- 2:35into
- 2:36our
- 2:36Victory
- 2:36Lab
- 2:37and
- 2:37completely
- 2:38bypass
- 2:39everything
- 2:39in
- 2:39between.
- 2:40But
- 2:41friend
- 2:41the
- 2:41middle,
- 2:42that
- 2:43is
- 2:43where
- 2:43all
- 2:44the
- 2:44good
- 2:44stuff
- 2:44is
- 2:45actually
- 2:45happening.
- 2:46That's
- 2:47where
- 2:47everything
- 2:48is
- 2:48being
- 2:48built.
- 2:49And
- 2:49listen,
- 2:50the
- 2:50season
- 2:50you
- 2:51are
- 2:51in
- 2:51it
- 2:51is
- 2:51not
- 2:52an
- 2:52accident.
- 2:53It's
- 2:53an
- 2:53assignment.
- 2:55You
- 2:55know
- 2:55when
- 2:55you
- 2:56are
- 2:56at
- 2:56the
- 2:56salon
- 2:57and
- 2:58they
- 2:58put
- 2:58you
- 2:58underneath
- 2:59the
- 2:59dryer
- 3:00and
- 3:00you
- 3:00are
- 3:00just
- 3:00sitting
- 3:01there,
- 3:01you
- 3:01looking
- 3:01kind
- 3:02of
- 3:02crazy
- 3:02with
- 3:02all
- 3:02them
- 3:03rollers
- 3:03in
- 3:03your
- 3:03head.
- 3:06Because
- 3:07heaven
- 3:07knows
- 3:08you
- 3:08wouldn't
- 3:08dare
- 3:08go
- 3:09anywhere
- 3:09looking
- 3:10like
- 3:10that.
- 3:11Our
- 3:11ancestors
- 3:12would
- 3:12simply
- 3:13not
- 3:13have
- 3:14it
- 3:17and
- 3:17low
- 3:17key.
- 3:17From
- 3:18time
- 3:18to
- 3:18time
- 3:19you're
- 3:19looking
- 3:19around
- 3:20wondering
- 3:20what
- 3:21is
- 3:21exactly
- 3:21going
- 3:22on
- 3:22right
- 3:22now.
- 3:23Because
- 3:23it
- 3:23seems
- 3:24like
- 3:24there's
- 3:24just
- 3:25a
- 3:25whole
- 3:25lot
- 3:25of
- 3:25nothing
- 3:26going
- 3:26on
- 3:26up
- 3:26in
- 3:27here.
- 3:29And
- 3:29at
- 3:30some
- 3:30point
- 3:30you
- 3:31might
- 3:31even
- 3:31side
- 3:32eye
- 3:32the
- 3:32stylist.
- 3:33Like,
- 3:33excuse
- 3:34me,
- 3:34are
- 3:34we
- 3:35doing
- 3:35something
- 3:35today?
- 3:36Or
- 3:36are
- 3:36we
- 3:36just
- 3:36decorating
- 3:37my
- 3:37head
- 3:38and
- 3:38calling
- 3:38it
- 3:39a
- 3:39day?
- 3:41But
- 3:41here
- 3:42is
- 3:42what
- 3:42you
- 3:43begin
- 3:43to
- 3:43realize
- 3:44while
- 3:45you're
- 3:45sitting
- 3:45underneath
- 3:46that
- 3:46dryer
- 3:47looking
- 3:47like
- 3:47you
- 3:48are
- 3:48not
- 3:48ready
- 3:48to
- 3:49be
- 3:49seen
- 3:49by
- 3:50anybody.
- 3:51Your
- 3:51hair
- 3:52is
- 3:52being
- 3:53set,
- 3:54something
- 3:54is
- 3:55being
- 3:55shaped,
- 3:56formed,
- 3:57something
- 3:57is
- 3:57getting
- 3:58ready
- 3:58underneath
- 3:59all
- 4:00of
- 4:00that
- 4:00that
- 4:00you
- 4:01just
- 4:01can't
- 4:01see
- 4:01yet,
- 4:02and
- 4:02when
- 4:02the
- 4:02timer
- 4:03goes
- 4:03off
- 4:04and
- 4:04those
- 4:04rollers
- 4:04come
- 4:05out,
- 4:06everything
- 4:07falls
- 4:07into
- 4:07place
- 4:08and
- 4:08suddenly,
- 4:09whole
- 4:09time
- 4:10you
- 4:10thought
- 4:10nothing
- 4:11was
- 4:11happening.
- 4:12It
- 4:12was
- 4:12all
- 4:12working
- 4:13together,
- 4:14friend.
- 4:14That
- 4:15is
- 4:15the
- 4:16season
- 4:16you
- 4:16are
- 4:16in
- 4:17right
- 4:17now.
- 4:18You
- 4:18are
- 4:19under
- 4:19the
- 4:19dryer.
- 4:20You
- 4:20might
- 4:20be
- 4:21sitting
- 4:21there
- 4:21looking
- 4:22at
- 4:22your
- 4:22life
- 4:23like,
- 4:24God,
- 4:25are
- 4:25we
- 4:25doing
- 4:25something
- 4:26here?
- 4:26Or
- 4:26are
- 4:26we
- 4:27just
- 4:27decorating
- 4:27my
- 4:28circumstances
- 4:29and
- 4:29calling
- 4:29it
- 4:29a
- 4:29plan?
- 4:33From
- 4:33where
- 4:33you're
- 4:33sitting,
- 4:34it
- 4:34doesn't
- 4:34look
- 4:35like
- 4:35much
- 4:35is
- 4:35happening,
- 4:36but
- 4:36the
- 4:37heat
- 4:37is
- 4:38on,
- 4:39something
- 4:39is
- 4:40being
- 4:40set,
- 4:41and
- 4:41when
- 4:41that
- 4:42timer
- 4:42goes
- 4:42off
- 4:43and
- 4:43it
- 4:43will
- 4:44go
- 4:44off,
- 4:45everything
- 4:45is
- 4:45gonna
- 4:45fall
- 4:46into
- 4:46place
- 4:46in
- 4:47a
- 4:47way
- 4:47that
- 4:47is
- 4:47going
- 4:48to
- 4:48make
- 4:48you
- 4:48say,
- 4:49oh,
- 4:51that's
- 4:51what
- 4:52that
- 4:52was
- 4:52for.
- 4:53Because
- 4:53here
- 4:54is
- 4:54what
- 4:54I
- 4:54know
- 4:55to
- 4:55be
- 4:55true
- 4:56with
- 4:56all
- 4:56of
- 4:56my
- 4:57being.
- 4:58God
- 4:58does
- 4:59not
- 4:59waste
- 5:00seasons,
- 5:00friend.
- 5:01And
- 5:01if
- 5:01God
- 5:02is
- 5:02not
- 5:02your
- 5:03jam,
- 5:03feel
- 5:03free
- 5:04to
- 5:04insert
- 5:05the
- 5:05source,
- 5:05the
- 5:06universe
- 5:07or
- 5:07whomever
- 5:08it
- 5:08is
- 5:08that
- 5:08you
- 5:08believe
- 5:09in.
- 5:09Trust
- 5:10that
- 5:11not
- 5:11one
- 5:11single
- 5:12season
- 5:12goes
- 5:13to
- 5:13waste
- 5:14and
- 5:14the
- 5:14one
- 5:14you're
- 5:15in
- 5:15right
- 5:15now,
- 5:16no
- 5:16matter
- 5:16how
- 5:16long
- 5:17you've
- 5:17been
- 5:17sitting
- 5:18underneath
- 5:18the
- 5:18dryer,
- 5:19it
- 5:19is
- 5:20not
- 5:20wasted.
- 5:21It's
- 5:22working.
- 5:23And
- 5:23let
- 5:24me
- 5:24show
- 5:24you
- 5:24exactly
- 5:25how.
- 5:26Here's
- 5:26a
- 5:26little
- 5:26something
- 5:27from
- 5:27my
- 5:28journal,
- 5:28because
- 5:29I
- 5:29wrote
- 5:29this
- 5:29down
- 5:30when
- 5:30I
- 5:30was
- 5:30really
- 5:30sitting
- 5:31with
- 5:31this
- 5:31whole
- 5:32season
- 5:32thing,
- 5:33I
- 5:33wrote
- 5:34every
- 5:34hard
- 5:35season
- 5:36is
- 5:36expanding
- 5:37four
- 5:37things
- 5:38in
- 5:38you,
- 5:38and
- 5:39none
- 5:39of
- 5:39them
- 5:39show
- 5:40up
- 5:40at
- 5:40the
- 5:40beginning.
- 5:41They
- 5:42show
- 5:42up
- 5:42because
- 5:43of
- 5:43the
- 5:44season.
- 5:45They
- 5:45show
- 5:45up
- 5:45through
- 5:46the
- 5:47season.
- 5:48Okay,
- 5:48friend,
- 5:49so
- 5:49listen,
- 5:49here
- 5:49we
- 5:50go.
- 5:50Let
- 5:50me
- 5:50give
- 5:50you
- 5:50these
- 5:51four
- 5:51C's.
- 5:52The
- 5:53first
- 5:53C
- 5:53that
- 5:53shows
- 5:54up
- 5:54is
- 5:54capacity
- 5:56Friend.
- 5:56Your
- 5:57season
- 5:57is
- 5:57stretching
- 5:58you
- 5:58right
- 5:58now,
- 5:59and
- 5:59I
- 5:59need
- 5:59you
- 5:59to
- 6:00hear
- 6:00that
- 6:00as
- 6:00a
- 6:00compliment
- 6:02and
- 6:02not
- 6:02a
- 6:02complaint.
- 6:06Okay,
- 6:07because
- 6:07what
- 6:08you
- 6:08could
- 6:08handle
- 6:09a
- 6:09year
- 6:09ago
- 6:10is
- 6:10not
- 6:11what
- 6:11you
- 6:11can
- 6:11handle
- 6:11today.
- 6:12You
- 6:12are
- 6:13bigger
- 6:13now.
- 6:14You
- 6:14can
- 6:14hold
- 6:15more
- 6:15now,
- 6:16and
- 6:16that's
- 6:16not
- 6:17by
- 6:17accident.
- 6:18That
- 6:18is
- 6:18preparation
- 6:19because
- 6:20you
- 6:20cannot
- 6:20pour
- 6:21a
- 6:21river
- 6:22into
- 6:22a
- 6:22cup.
- 6:23The
- 6:23capacity
- 6:24has
- 6:25to
- 6:25grow
- 6:25first,
- 6:26and
- 6:26yours
- 6:27is
- 6:27growing.
- 6:28Whether
- 6:28you
- 6:28can
- 6:29feel
- 6:29it
- 6:29or
- 6:29not.
- 6:30the
- 6:31next
- 6:31C
- 6:32is
- 6:32competency.
- 6:33Ooh,
- 6:34that
- 6:35had
- 6:35a
- 6:36little
- 6:36flow
- 6:36to
- 6:36it.
- 6:37Okay,
- 6:39Every
- 6:40single
- 6:40problem
- 6:41you
- 6:41have
- 6:41solved
- 6:42this
- 6:42season,
- 6:43every
- 6:43situation
- 6:44you
- 6:44navigated,
- 6:45every
- 6:46time
- 6:46you
- 6:46figured
- 6:47something
- 6:47out
- 6:48that
- 6:48you
- 6:48had
- 6:48never
- 6:49done
- 6:49before,
- 6:50and
- 6:50you
- 6:50were
- 6:50like,
- 6:50wait,
- 6:51I
- 6:51actually
- 6:52just
- 6:52did
- 6:52that.
- 6:53Yes,
- 6:55that
- 6:56is.
- 6:56Competency
- 6:57being
- 6:58built,
- 6:58friend.
- 6:59You
- 6:59are
- 7:00gaining
- 7:00skills
- 7:01in
- 7:01this
- 7:02season
- 7:02that
- 7:03you
- 7:03don't
- 7:03even
- 7:03realize
- 7:04you're
- 7:05gonna
- 7:05need.
- 7:05Nothing
- 7:07is
- 7:07wasted.
- 7:08Not
- 7:08one
- 7:09tutorial,
- 7:10not
- 7:10one
- 7:10hard
- 7:10conversation,
- 7:12not
- 7:12the
- 7:12one
- 7:13time
- 7:13you
- 7:13had
- 7:13to
- 7:14figure
- 7:14it
- 7:14out
- 7:15on
- 7:15the
- 7:15fly.
- 7:16It's
- 7:16all
- 7:17going
- 7:18somewhere.
- 7:19The
- 7:19next
- 7:20C
- 7:20is
- 7:20capability,
- 7:22and
- 7:22this
- 7:22one
- 7:23is
- 7:23one
- 7:23of
- 7:23my
- 7:24faves
- 7:24because
- 7:24This
- 7:25is
- 7:25where
- 7:25the
- 7:25season
- 7:26proves
- 7:26to
- 7:26you
- 7:27what
- 7:27you
- 7:28can
- 7:28actually
- 7:29do.
- 7:29Not
- 7:30what
- 7:30you
- 7:30thought
- 7:31you
- 7:31could
- 7:31do,
- 7:32but
- 7:32what
- 7:32you
- 7:33actually
- 7:34can
- 7:35every
- 7:35time
- 7:36you
- 7:36don't
- 7:36quit.
- 7:37And
- 7:38listen,
- 7:38I
- 7:38know
- 7:39that
- 7:39there
- 7:39are
- 7:39days
- 7:40when
- 7:40you
- 7:40really,
- 7:41really
- 7:42wanted
- 7:42to.
- 7:43That
- 7:43was
- 7:44capacity
- 7:45being
- 7:45revealed.
- 7:46You
- 7:46are
- 7:47more
- 7:47capable
- 7:48than
- 7:48you
- 7:48knew
- 7:49going
- 7:50into
- 7:50this
- 7:50season.
- 7:51And
- 7:51the
- 7:52season
- 7:52showed
- 7:52you
- 7:52that,
- 7:53and
- 7:53that
- 7:54is
- 7:54a
- 7:54gift
- 7:55And
- 7:55this
- 7:56last
- 7:56C
- 7:57is
- 7:57the
- 7:57result
- 7:58of
- 7:58all
- 7:58three.
- 7:59And
- 7:59that's
- 8:00confidence,
- 8:01not
- 8:01the
- 8:01performed
- 8:02kind,
- 8:02not
- 8:03the
- 8:03fake
- 8:03it
- 8:03until
- 8:04you
- 8:04make
- 8:04it
- 8:04kind
- 8:05that
- 8:05everybody
- 8:05talks
- 8:06about.
- 8:07I'm
- 8:07talking
- 8:07real.
- 8:08Confidence,
- 8:09the
- 8:09authentic
- 8:10kind,
- 8:11the
- 8:11kind
- 8:11that's
- 8:11built
- 8:12from
- 8:12actual
- 8:13evidence,
- 8:14from
- 8:14doing
- 8:14hard
- 8:15things
- 8:15and
- 8:15surviving
- 8:16them
- 8:17from
- 8:17stretching
- 8:18and
- 8:18growing
- 8:18and
- 8:19figuring
- 8:19it
- 8:19out.
- 8:20That
- 8:20kind
- 8:20of
- 8:20confidence.
- 8:21Nobody
- 8:22can
- 8:22take
- 8:22it
- 8:22from
- 8:23you,
- 8:23friend,
- 8:23because
- 8:24it
- 8:24wasn't
- 8:25given
- 8:25to
- 8:25you,
- 8:26it
- 8:26was
- 8:26built
- 8:27within
- 8:28you.
- 8:28Ooh,
- 8:30ooh,
- 8:30that's
- 8:30so
- 8:31good.
- 8:31Yes.
- 8:32Ooh,
- 8:33I
- 8:33love
- 8:33this
- 8:33so
- 8:33much.
- 8:35So
- 8:35as
- 8:35this
- 8:35season
- 8:36is
- 8:36building
- 8:37all
- 8:37four
- 8:37of
- 8:37these
- 8:38things
- 8:38in
- 8:38you
- 8:39right
- 8:39now,
- 8:40and
- 8:40this
- 8:40last
- 8:41part
- 8:41is
- 8:41the
- 8:42one
- 8:42that
- 8:42I
- 8:42really
- 8:43need
- 8:43you
- 8:43to
- 8:43sit
- 8:44with
- 8:44because
- 8:44this
- 8:45is
- 8:45where
- 8:46faith
- 8:46comes
- 8:46all
- 8:47the
- 8:47way
- 8:47in.
- 8:48Okay,
- 8:48friend.
- 8:50You
- 8:50have
- 8:50to
- 8:50know
- 8:51the
- 8:51preparation
- 8:52is
- 8:53always
- 8:54proportional
- 8:55to
- 8:56the
- 8:56promise.
- 8:58Ooh,
- 8:58okay.
- 8:58Bars.
- 9:02Friend,
- 9:03this
- 9:03one
- 9:03is
- 9:04worth
- 9:04writing
- 9:05down.
- 9:05Okay.
- 9:06It's
- 9:06giving
- 9:07major,
- 9:07key
- 9:08alert.
- 9:10The
- 9:10preparation
- 9:11is
- 9:12always
- 9:13proportional
- 9:14to
- 9:14the
- 9:14promise.
- 9:15Say
- 9:16it
- 9:16again
- 9:17for
- 9:17the
- 9:17people
- 9:18in
- 9:18the
- 9:18back.
- 9:21The
- 9:21preparation
- 9:22is
- 9:22always
- 9:23proportional
- 9:24to
- 9:24the
- 9:24promise
- 9:25because
- 9:26when
- 9:26I
- 9:26look
- 9:26back
- 9:26at
- 9:27that
- 9:2720
- 9:27plus
- 9:28years
- 9:28in
- 9:28corporate
- 9:29America,
- 9:30And
- 9:30now
- 9:30I
- 9:30can
- 9:30see
- 9:31it
- 9:31so
- 9:31clearly,
- 9:32every
- 9:33leadership
- 9:34challenge,
- 9:34every
- 9:35difficult
- 9:35person
- 9:36or
- 9:36situation,
- 9:37every
- 9:38presentation
- 9:39I
- 9:39gave,
- 9:40even
- 9:40when
- 9:40I
- 9:40was
- 9:40terrified,
- 9:42every
- 9:42time
- 9:42I
- 9:42had
- 9:42to
- 9:43hold
- 9:43space
- 9:43for
- 9:43someone
- 9:44else's
- 9:44growth,
- 9:45while
- 9:46I
- 9:46was
- 9:46also
- 9:47growing.
- 9:47All
- 9:48of
- 9:48that
- 9:48was
- 9:48specific
- 9:49preparation
- 9:50for
- 9:50this
- 9:51specific
- 9:52calling.
- 9:53God
- 9:54was
- 9:54not
- 9:54over
- 9:54there
- 9:54preparing
- 9:55me
- 9:55for
- 9:55something
- 9:56small.
- 9:56Okay?
- 9:58if
- 9:58the
- 9:58season
- 9:59was
- 9:59big,
- 10:00it
- 10:00is
- 10:00because
- 10:01what
- 10:01was
- 10:01coming
- 10:02was
- 10:02bigger.
- 10:03And
- 10:03friend,
- 10:04if
- 10:04your
- 10:05preparation
- 10:06feels
- 10:06heavy
- 10:06right
- 10:06now,
- 10:07if
- 10:07this
- 10:08season
- 10:08feels
- 10:09long
- 10:10and
- 10:10hard,
- 10:11like
- 10:12it
- 10:12has
- 10:12been
- 10:12going
- 10:13on
- 10:13way
- 10:13longer
- 10:14than
- 10:14you
- 10:14signed
- 10:15up
- 10:15for.
- 10:18That's
- 10:18not
- 10:18a
- 10:18sign
- 10:19that
- 10:19something
- 10:20went
- 10:20wrong.
- 10:21That
- 10:22is
- 10:22a
- 10:22sign
- 10:22that
- 10:22something
- 10:23really
- 10:24big
- 10:24is
- 10:24coming.
- 10:25Now,
- 10:26let
- 10:26me
- 10:26say
- 10:26this
- 10:26because
- 10:27I
- 10:27feel
- 10:27it
- 10:27in
- 10:27my
- 10:28spirit.
- 10:29And
- 10:29somebody
- 10:30needs
- 10:30to
- 10:30hear
- 10:30it
- 10:30today.
- 10:31Relief
- 10:32is
- 10:32a
- 10:32compass,
- 10:33not
- 10:34a
- 10:34character
- 10:34flaw.
- 10:35If
- 10:35any
- 10:36part
- 10:36of
- 10:36you
- 10:36felt
- 10:37relief
- 10:37when
- 10:38that
- 10:38door
- 10:38closed,
- 10:39when
- 10:39the
- 10:40job
- 10:40ended,
- 10:41when
- 10:41the
- 10:41relationship
- 10:43ran
- 10:43its
- 10:43course,
- 10:44when
- 10:44the
- 10:44thing
- 10:45finally
- 10:46let
- 10:46go,
- 10:47that
- 10:48feeling
- 10:48is
- 10:49data.
- 10:50Your
- 10:50nervous
- 10:51system
- 10:51and
- 10:51God
- 10:52were
- 10:52in
- 10:52full
- 10:53alignment.
- 10:54The
- 10:54exit
- 10:55was
- 10:55already
- 10:56planned.
- 10:56The
- 10:57preparation
- 10:58was
- 10:58always
- 10:59on
- 10:59purpose
- 11:00and
- 11:01listen.
- 11:01I
- 11:02did
- 11:02not
- 11:02have
- 11:02to
- 11:02go
- 11:03to
- 11:03heaven
- 11:03to
- 11:03get
- 11:03my
- 11:04husband.
- 11:06Because
- 11:07God
- 11:07was
- 11:07preparing
- 11:08me
- 11:08for
- 11:08him
- 11:09through
- 11:10every
- 11:10single
- 11:11season
- 11:12that
- 11:12came
- 11:12before
- 11:13the
- 11:14season.
- 11:14I
- 11:14thought
- 11:15I
- 11:15was
- 11:15wasting
- 11:16my
- 11:16time,
- 11:17was
- 11:17actually
- 11:18building
- 11:18the
- 11:18version
- 11:19of
- 11:19me
- 11:20that
- 11:20my
- 11:20husband
- 11:21was
- 11:21gonna
- 11:21fall
- 11:22in
- 11:22love
- 11:22with,
- 11:23and
- 11:23I
- 11:23almost
- 11:24missed
- 11:25it
- 11:25because
- 11:25I
- 11:26was
- 11:26too
- 11:26busy
- 11:27being
- 11:27frustrated
- 11:28about
- 11:29my
- 11:29timeline.
- 11:30Don't
- 11:31be
- 11:31so
- 11:31focused
- 11:32on
- 11:32when
- 11:33you
- 11:34are
- 11:34getting
- 11:34there
- 11:35that
- 11:35you
- 11:36miss
- 11:36out
- 11:36on
- 11:37what
- 11:38is
- 11:38being
- 11:38built
- 11:39in
- 11:39you
- 11:40on
- 11:40the
- 11:40way
- 11:40there.
- 11:41Trust
- 11:42the
- 11:42season
- 11:43it
- 11:43is
- 11:44working
- 11:45even
- 11:45when
- 11:45you
- 11:45can't
- 11:46see
- 11:46it,
- 11:47actually,
- 11:48especially
- 11:49when
- 11:49you
- 11:50can't
- 11:50see
- 11:50it.
- 11:53A
- 11:53friend.
- 11:53I
- 11:53remember
- 11:54sitting
- 11:54there
- 11:55with
- 11:55so
- 11:55much
- 11:55awareness
- 11:56and
- 11:56absolutely
- 11:57nowhere
- 11:58to
- 11:58put
- 11:59it
- 11:59like
- 12:00something
- 12:00had
- 12:00cracked
- 12:01open
- 12:01in
- 12:01me,
- 12:02but
- 12:02I
- 12:03didn't
- 12:03know
- 12:03what
- 12:03to
- 12:03do
- 12:04with
- 12:04what
- 12:04was.
- 12:04Spilling
- 12:05out.
- 12:05I
- 12:05had
- 12:06all
- 12:06of
- 12:06these
- 12:06feelings
- 12:07and
- 12:07none
- 12:07of
- 12:08the
- 12:08clarity,
- 12:08and
- 12:09I
- 12:09kept
- 12:09circling
- 12:10the
- 12:10same
- 12:11questions,
- 12:11wondering
- 12:12why
- 12:12nothing
- 12:13was
- 12:13shifting.
- 12:14And
- 12:14then
- 12:14I
- 12:15started
- 12:15asking
- 12:15myself
- 12:16more
- 12:16high
- 12:17vibration
- 12:17questions.
- 12:18Not
- 12:19the
- 12:19ones
- 12:19that
- 12:19keep
- 12:20you
- 12:20stuck,
- 12:21but
- 12:21the
- 12:21ones
- 12:22that
- 12:22cause.
- 12:22Everything
- 12:23to
- 12:23start
- 12:24moving,
- 12:25not
- 12:26because
- 12:26I
- 12:26had
- 12:26all
- 12:27the
- 12:27answers,
- 12:28but
- 12:28because
- 12:29Elevated
- 12:29questions
- 12:30helped
- 12:31me
- 12:31to
- 12:31finally
- 12:31hear
- 12:32the
- 12:33answers
- 12:33I
- 12:34already
- 12:34had
- 12:34inside
- 12:35me.
- 12:35And
- 12:36if
- 12:36you're
- 12:36sitting
- 12:36in
- 12:36that
- 12:37space
- 12:37right
- 12:37now,
- 12:38that
- 12:39is
- 12:39not
- 12:39a
- 12:40dead
- 12:40end
- 12:40friend.
- 12:41That
- 12:42is
- 12:42just
- 12:42an
- 12:42invitation
- 12:43to
- 12:43ask
- 12:44high
- 12:44value
- 12:45questions,
- 12:46and
- 12:46that
- 12:46is
- 12:46what
- 12:47the
- 12:47woman
- 12:47you
- 12:47are
- 12:47becoming
- 12:48does
- 12:49with
- 12:49a
- 12:49moment
- 12:49like
- 12:50this.
- 12:50She
- 12:50doesn't
- 12:51wait.
- 12:51She
- 12:52doesn't
- 12:52let
- 12:52it
- 12:52pass.
- 12:53She
- 12:53does
- 12:54something
- 12:55with
- 12:55it.
- 12:56The
- 12:56Main
- 12:56Character
- 12:56Energy
- 12:57Journal
- 12:57Prompts,
- 12:58they're
- 12:58linked
- 12:58for
- 12:58you
- 12:59in
- 12:59the
- 12:59show
- 12:59notes.
- 13:00They're
- 13:00gonna
- 13:00help
- 13:00you
- 13:00get
- 13:01out
- 13:01of
- 13:01your
- 13:01head,
- 13:02into
- 13:03your
- 13:03heart
- 13:04and
- 13:04connected
- 13:05to
- 13:05your
- 13:05truth
- 13:06so
- 13:06that
- 13:07you
- 13:07can
- 13:07operate
- 13:08from
- 13:08that
- 13:08place.
- 13:09And
- 13:09friend,
- 13:11I
- 13:11think
- 13:11you're
- 13:11ready.
- 13:13Okay.
- 13:14You
- 13:15know
- 13:15what
- 13:15time
- 13:15it
- 13:15is
- 13:16and
- 13:16this
- 13:17is
- 13:17your
- 13:18self-love
- 13:18two
- 13:18step,
- 13:19and
- 13:19we
- 13:19are
- 13:19calling
- 13:20it
- 13:21The
- 13:21season
- 13:22is
- 13:22working.
- 13:23Okay,
- 13:23friend,
- 13:24because
- 13:24listen.
- 13:25I
- 13:25know
- 13:26we
- 13:26love
- 13:26us
- 13:27a
- 13:27good
- 13:27two
- 13:27step
- 13:28around
- 13:28here
- 13:28because
- 13:29it
- 13:29always
- 13:30gets
- 13:30the
- 13:30party
- 13:30started
- 13:31and
- 13:31it's
- 13:32simple
- 13:32and
- 13:32everyone
- 13:33can
- 13:33do
- 13:33it.
- 13:34So
- 13:34don't
- 13:35forget
- 13:35to
- 13:35stick
- 13:35around
- 13:36for
- 13:36the
- 13:36remix,
- 13:36okay?
- 13:37Because
- 13:37ooh,
- 13:38that's
- 13:38the
- 13:39really
- 13:39good
- 13:39part.
- 13:40Okay.
- 13:40All
- 13:41right,
- 13:41so
- 13:41step
- 13:42one.
- 13:44Name
- 13:44what
- 13:45this
- 13:45season
- 13:45is
- 13:46building.
- 13:47I
- 13:47want
- 13:47you
- 13:47to
- 13:47go
- 13:48through
- 13:48those
- 13:48four
- 13:48C's
- 13:49and
- 13:49name
- 13:50at
- 13:50least
- 13:50one
- 13:51thing
- 13:51from
- 13:51each
- 13:52one
- 13:52that
- 13:53is
- 13:53being
- 13:53built
- 13:54in
- 13:54you
- 13:54right
- 13:54now.
- 13:55Where
- 13:56is
- 13:56your
- 13:56capacity
- 13:57expanding?
- 13:58What
- 13:59competency
- 14:00are
- 14:00you
- 14:00gaining
- 14:00that
- 14:01you're
- 14:01going
- 14:02to
- 14:02need
- 14:02later?
- 14:03What
- 14:03capability
- 14:04has
- 14:04this
- 14:04season
- 14:05revealed
- 14:05about
- 14:05you
- 14:06and
- 14:06where
- 14:07even
- 14:07just
- 14:07a
- 14:07little
- 14:08is
- 14:09your
- 14:09confidence
- 14:10growing?
- 14:11Write
- 14:11it
- 14:11down
- 14:12because
- 14:12what
- 14:13you
- 14:13can
- 14:13see,
- 14:14you
- 14:14can
- 14:14celebrate
- 14:15and
- 14:16what
- 14:16you
- 14:16celebrate,
- 14:17you
- 14:17can
- 14:17reinforce.
- 14:19You
- 14:19have
- 14:20been
- 14:20so
- 14:20focused
- 14:21on
- 14:21what
- 14:21is
- 14:21not
- 14:22here
- 14:22yet,
- 14:23that
- 14:23you've
- 14:23been
- 14:24missing
- 14:24all
- 14:25the
- 14:25evidence
- 14:25of
- 14:26what
- 14:26is
- 14:26already
- 14:27being
- 14:27built
- 14:28within
- 14:28you.
- 14:29So
- 14:29name
- 14:30it,
- 14:30honor
- 14:31it,
- 14:31and
- 14:31celebrate
- 14:32it.
- 14:32Step
- 14:33two,
- 14:34release
- 14:34the
- 14:34timeline.
- 14:36Listen,
- 14:36friend,
- 14:37I
- 14:37take
- 14:37this
- 14:37one
- 14:38very
- 14:38seriously,
- 14:39okay?
- 14:40Whatever
- 14:41deadline
- 14:41you
- 14:42had
- 14:42in
- 14:42your
- 14:42head
- 14:43for
- 14:44when
- 14:44this
- 14:45season
- 14:45should
- 14:45be
- 14:46over,
- 14:47I
- 14:47need
- 14:47you
- 14:47to
- 14:47loosen
- 14:48your
- 14:48grip
- 14:48on
- 14:49it.
- 14:49Not
- 14:49because
- 14:50your
- 14:50desires
- 14:51do
- 14:51not
- 14:51matter
- 14:52because
- 14:52friend,
- 14:52you
- 14:53know,
- 14:53they
- 14:53absolutely
- 14:54do,
- 14:55but
- 14:55because
- 14:56the
- 14:56preparation.
- 14:57Is
- 14:58not
- 14:58on
- 14:58your
- 14:58timeline.
- 15:00It
- 15:00is
- 15:01on
- 15:01the
- 15:01timeline
- 15:02of
- 15:02what
- 15:03is
- 15:03coming
- 15:04and
- 15:04what's
- 15:05coming
- 15:05is
- 15:06worth
- 15:06the
- 15:06wait.
- 15:07You're
- 15:08not
- 15:08late
- 15:09behind
- 15:10and
- 15:10you're
- 15:10certainly
- 15:10not
- 15:11stuck.
- 15:12You
- 15:12are
- 15:12being
- 15:13prepared
- 15:14and
- 15:14that's
- 15:15the
- 15:15difference.
- 15:18And
- 15:18now
- 15:18for
- 15:19the
- 15:19remix
- 15:20because
- 15:20listen,
- 15:21you
- 15:21were
- 15:22being
- 15:22prepared
- 15:22for
- 15:23your
- 15:23exit
- 15:24long
- 15:24before
- 15:24you
- 15:25knew
- 15:25you
- 15:25needed
- 15:25one.
- 15:26The
- 15:27door
- 15:27that
- 15:27was
- 15:27closed
- 15:28was
- 15:28not
- 15:29a
- 15:29punishment.
- 15:29It
- 15:30was
- 15:30positioning.
- 15:31So
- 15:31trust
- 15:32the
- 15:32season
- 15:33friend.
- 15:34The
- 15:34preparation
- 15:35is
- 15:35always
- 15:36proportional
- 15:36to
- 15:37the
- 15:37promise.
- 15:38And
- 15:38the
- 15:38promise.
- 15:39It's
- 15:40bigger
- 15:40than
- 15:41you
- 15:41can
- 15:41even
- 15:42imagine.
- 15:43So
- 15:44let's
- 15:44go
- 15:44ahead
- 15:44and
- 15:45do
- 15:45this
- 15:45U
- 15:46step.
- 15:46Okay?
- 15:47This
- 15:48is
- 15:48where
- 15:48you
- 15:49get.
- 15:49Still,
- 15:50you
- 15:50get
- 15:50quiet
- 15:51and
- 15:51you
- 15:51ask
- 15:52yourself,
- 15:53what
- 15:53is
- 15:53my
- 15:53heart
- 15:54telling
- 15:54me
- 15:55to
- 15:55do
- 15:56next?
- 15:57Whatever
- 15:57comes
- 15:58up,
- 15:58that
- 15:59is
- 15:59your
- 16:00next
- 16:00right
- 16:00aligned
- 16:01step.
- 16:02Not
- 16:02the
- 16:02whole
- 16:02plan,
- 16:03just
- 16:04the
- 16:04next
- 16:05move
- 16:06and
- 16:06trust
- 16:07her
- 16:07friend
- 16:07because
- 16:08she
- 16:08already
- 16:08knows.
- 16:10Now
- 16:10lemme
- 16:11pour
- 16:11into
- 16:11you
- 16:12real
- 16:12quick.
- 16:12Okay.
- 16:13Listen,
- 16:14friend,
- 16:15I
- 16:15need
- 16:15to
- 16:15speak
- 16:16directly
- 16:17to
- 16:17your
- 16:18heart
- 16:18right
- 16:18now,
- 16:19especially
- 16:19if
- 16:20you're
- 16:20tired
- 16:21and
- 16:21not
- 16:22the
- 16:22regular
- 16:22tired.
- 16:23I'm
- 16:23talking
- 16:23about
- 16:24that
- 16:24deep
- 16:25tired
- 16:26honey
- 16:26that
- 16:27comes
- 16:27from.
- 16:28Doing
- 16:29everything
- 16:29right
- 16:30and
- 16:30still
- 16:31not
- 16:31seeing
- 16:32results.
- 16:33The
- 16:33kind
- 16:34that
- 16:34comes
- 16:34from
- 16:34being
- 16:35in
- 16:35a
- 16:35season
- 16:35so
- 16:36long
- 16:37that
- 16:37you've
- 16:38started
- 16:38to
- 16:38wonder
- 16:39if
- 16:39you
- 16:39missed
- 16:40your
- 16:40moment,
- 16:41if
- 16:41it's
- 16:41too
- 16:42late,
- 16:42if
- 16:42the
- 16:42dream
- 16:43is
- 16:44really
- 16:44even
- 16:45meant
- 16:45for
- 16:45you
- 16:46because
- 16:46friend,
- 16:47it
- 16:48is.
- 16:49It
- 16:49was
- 16:49always
- 16:49meant
- 16:50for
- 16:50you.
- 16:51You
- 16:51haven't
- 16:51missed
- 16:52your
- 16:52moment.
- 16:53You
- 16:53can't
- 16:53miss
- 16:53your
- 16:54moment
- 16:54because
- 16:54it's
- 16:55yours
- 16:56and
- 16:56you're
- 16:57in
- 16:57it
- 16:57right
- 16:57now.
- 16:58This
- 16:59season
- 16:59that
- 16:59feels
- 17:00like
- 17:00waiting
- 17:01is
- 17:01not
- 17:02waiting
- 17:02at
- 17:02all.
- 17:03It's
- 17:04preparation
- 17:05and
- 17:05it's
- 17:05working
- 17:06for
- 17:07you.
- 17:07The
- 17:08fact
- 17:08that
- 17:08it's
- 17:08been
- 17:08hard
- 17:09and
- 17:10it's
- 17:10stretched
- 17:11you
- 17:11beyond
- 17:12what
- 17:12you
- 17:12thought
- 17:12you
- 17:13could
- 17:13handle,
- 17:14the
- 17:14fact
- 17:14that
- 17:14it
- 17:15has
- 17:15required
- 17:16more
- 17:16of
- 17:16you
- 17:17than
- 17:17you
- 17:17knew
- 17:18that
- 17:18it
- 17:18had.
- 17:19That
- 17:19is
- 17:19not
- 17:20a
- 17:20signal
- 17:20that
- 17:20something
- 17:21went
- 17:21wrong.
- 17:22That
- 17:22is
- 17:22a
- 17:22sign
- 17:23that
- 17:23something
- 17:23really,
- 17:24really
- 17:24big
- 17:25is
- 17:25coming.
- 17:26And
- 17:26listen,
- 17:27I
- 17:27went
- 17:27back
- 17:27for
- 17:28my
- 17:28little
- 17:28girl.
- 17:29I
- 17:29held
- 17:29her
- 17:30hand
- 17:30and
- 17:30I
- 17:31told
- 17:31her,
- 17:32we
- 17:32are
- 17:32not
- 17:32living
- 17:33in
- 17:33the
- 17:33waiting
- 17:34room.
- 17:34This
- 17:35is
- 17:35not
- 17:35where
- 17:35we
- 17:35stay.
- 17:36This
- 17:37is
- 17:37where
- 17:37we
- 17:38are
- 17:38being
- 17:39prepared.
- 17:39And
- 17:40when
- 17:40the
- 17:40door
- 17:40opens
- 17:41and
- 17:42it
- 17:42will,
- 17:43we
- 17:43are
- 17:43gonna
- 17:43be
- 17:43ready
- 17:44for
- 17:44everything
- 17:45on
- 17:45the
- 17:45other
- 17:46side
- 17:46of
- 17:46it.
- 17:47So
- 17:47stay
- 17:48with
- 17:48it,
- 17:48friend.
- 17:49Keep
- 17:50going,
- 17:51keep
- 17:51showing
- 17:52up.
- 17:52The
- 17:52runway
- 17:53is
- 17:53being
- 17:54built
- 17:54and
- 17:55you
- 17:55are
- 17:55going
- 17:56to
- 17:56fly.
- 17:57Every
- 17:58hard
- 17:58season
- 17:59is
- 17:59actually
- 18:00building
- 18:00you
- 18:02It's
- 18:02building
- 18:02exactly
- 18:03what
- 18:03you
- 18:03need
- 18:04for
- 18:04everything
- 18:05you've
- 18:05been
- 18:05calling
- 18:06in,
- 18:07and
- 18:07it's
- 18:08all
- 18:08working
- 18:09right
- 18:09now,
- 18:10even
- 18:10when
- 18:11you
- 18:11can't
- 18:11see
- 18:11it.
- 18:12This
- 18:12is
- 18:12where
- 18:13you
- 18:13allow
- 18:13your
- 18:13faith
- 18:14to
- 18:14be
- 18:15bigger
- 18:15than
- 18:16your
- 18:16fear.
- 18:17This
- 18:17is
- 18:17where
- 18:18you
- 18:18step
- 18:19with
- 18:19your
- 18:19faith
- 18:20foot
- 18:20forward
- 18:21and
- 18:21no
- 18:22longer
- 18:22take
- 18:22any
- 18:23steps
- 18:23in
- 18:23fear
- 18:24because
- 18:25friend.
- 18:25Your
- 18:26dreams
- 18:26are
- 18:27directions
- 18:27to
- 18:28your
- 18:28destiny,
- 18:29and
- 18:29it's
- 18:30already
- 18:30got
- 18:31your
- 18:31name
- 18:31on
- 18:32it.
- 18:32So
- 18:32don't
- 18:32be
- 18:33in
- 18:33such
- 18:33a
- 18:33rush
- 18:34to
- 18:34get
- 18:34there,
- 18:35that
- 18:35you
- 18:35forget
- 18:36to
- 18:36look
- 18:37around
- 18:38and
- 18:38enjoy
- 18:39the
- 18:39present
- 18:40moment.
- 18:41Enjoy
- 18:42this
- 18:42season
- 18:44and
- 18:44be
- 18:44present
- 18:45within
- 18:45it
- 18:46because
- 18:46Friend
- 18:47a
- 18:47rich
- 18:48life
- 18:48is
- 18:48a
- 18:48collection
- 18:49of
- 18:50moments
- 18:50you've
- 18:50loved.
- 18:52So
- 18:52love
- 18:52this
- 18:53season
- 18:53too.
- 18:56Ooh,
- 18:57friend.
- 18:57Yes.
- 18:59Hey.
- 19:00Ooh,
- 19:00this
- 19:00episode
- 19:01was
- 19:01so
- 19:01good.
- 19:02Listen,
- 19:03you
- 19:03are
- 19:03not
- 19:04an
- 19:04extra
- 19:04in
- 19:05somebody
- 19:05else's
- 19:05story.
- 19:06You
- 19:07are
- 19:07the
- 19:07main
- 19:08character
- 19:08of
- 19:09your
- 19:09own
- 19:09story,
- 19:10so
- 19:10go
- 19:11ahead,
- 19:11be
- 19:12her,
- 19:12the
- 19:12one
- 19:13you've
- 19:13been
- 19:13becoming.
- 19:14She's
- 19:15been
- 19:15waiting
- 19:15on
- 19:16you
- 19:16to
- 19:16live
- 19:17out
- 19:17loud.
- 19:18I'm
- 19:18cheering
- 19:19for
- 19:19you
- 19:19loud
- 19:20and
- 19:20obnoxiously.
- 19:21Always,
- 19:22and
- 19:23no
- 19:23matter
- 19:23what
- 19:24comes
- 19:24your
- 19:24way
- 19:25together,
- 19:26we
- 19:26can
- 19:27Encourage
- 19:27Over
- 19:28Everything
- 19:29and
- 19:29I'll
- 19:29see
- 19:30you
- 19:30in
- 19:30the
- 19:31next
- 19:31episode.