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- 0:00A lot of women
- 0:00think about others more than they do about themselves when they're presenting
- 0:03or building something and that can get in the way.
- 0:06The goal
- 0:06of entrepreneurship is to win the race,
- 0:08your individual
- 0:09race.
- 0:10You can't be a million-dollar entrepreneur with a thousand dollar mindset.
- 0:13It's a constant evolution, but it also entails slowly letting go of the things
- 0:18that shouldn't be on your plate,
- 0:19because you gotta allow others to also be in your mission.
- 0:23Feeling worthy of not only your identity,
- 0:26but feeling worthy of the success that you are about to have.
- 0:30If you are a CEO of your own business,
- 0:32you also have to be the CEO of your own mind.
- 0:35Self-worth is a muscle and we want to grow it.
- 0:52Hey guys, welcome to another episode of the Relentless Pursuit of Winning Podcast.
- 0:56My name is Rick Meekins. I'm your host as usual in our studio.
- 1:00Today we have Khryzza Kelley and Chantelle Lisette.
- 1:03How are you today, ladies?
- 1:06Good, good.
- 1:06We're good.
- 1:07Fantastic, fantastic. Welcome to the show.
- 1:09Welcome to the show. This is gonna be an amazing show,
- 1:11folks. You guys are absolutely going to love it.
- 1:13These women have so much to share today.
- 1:16But as usual, if you haven't done it already,
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- 1:24a new episode. And without further ado,
- 1:25let's get to it. Chantelle, why don't you lead the way?
- 1:30Who are you? What do you do? Why do you do what you do?
- 1:32I love that question. So my name is Chantelle Lisette.
- 1:35I am a speaker, a podcast host,
- 1:37and I am the founder of She Is Worthy.
- 1:39It's a global women's networking community based on faith,
- 1:42connection, and sisterhood. And I do what I do because I truly have a mission
- 1:47to help one million women know their worth,
- 1:50empower them to love themselves,
- 1:52and that in turn will help them scale their business and become successful both
- 1:57personally and professionally.
- 1:59Wow, wow, wow, you don't play small.
- 2:01I love that. I love that.
- 2:02No.
- 2:03And Khryzza, give us give us who you are,
- 2:06what you do, and why you do what you do.
- 2:08Thank you. Thank you, Rick. And I'm so happy to be here with you and Chantelle.
- 2:12I'm Khryzza Kelley. I'm the CEO of CoWorq I'm a chief team architect of CoWorq
- 2:16and founder of On Fridays We Scale.
- 2:19Our goal is to help create one million women millionaires and missionaires.
- 2:25So impact-driven women that are doing good,
- 2:27not only for them for themselves,
- 2:29for their businesses, but also for the communities that they support.
- 2:32Did you say missionaires? Tell me more.
- 2:34Yes, yes, missionaires.
- 2:35Help me help me understand.
- 2:38Basically, For me, if you are a founder,
- 2:42if you're an entrepreneur, you're doing good you're in your community,
- 2:45in the communities that you're supporting,
- 2:47you're creating an impact with the resources that you have at the time
- 2:51or what you have right now, our goal is to help you amplify that.
- 2:55Our goal, our goal is
- 2:57for you to reach your million so that you can amplify the mission that you have.
- 3:01So we call them millionaire and missionaire at the same time.
- 3:04Okay.
- 3:04Okay. Okay. And Chantelle, you you said something about faith as as one
- 3:09of the one of your your founding pillars as well,
- 3:11didn't did
- 3:12I hear that? Tell me
- 3:13Yes, that's correct. Mm-hmm.
- 3:14more.
- 3:15Yeah, so the reason I have faith as part of it is I want it to be optional
- 3:20for women to have that element if they want it,
- 3:23because for me that's what saved my life.
- 3:25That's what created this community.
- 3:27She Is Worthy. It was I found lack of self-worth in myself and I've realized
- 3:32if I had women around me that were in a community to uplift me,
- 3:36then I could, you know, get out of this funk.
- 3:38I could
- 3:38be successful in area of work in relationships and friendships and with
- 3:43myself. And so I add that faith element to the community to where we do have prayer
- 3:47calls. We have a group chat and we just offer that space for anyone that wants
- 3:51to participate in that because I truly believe that God is the one who
- 3:54got me to where I am. And so I want to always offer that to the women who joined.
- 3:59Wow, wow, that's powerful. That is really powerful.
- 4:01That's bold. You know, that's that's something that I I think a a lot of people
- 4:06don't like to talk about, but you've incorporated right into right into what
- 4:10you guys are building. I absolutely love that.
- 4:12I I think one of the important things that would be helpful,
- 4:15you know, for us is is to really understand your journey.
- 4:19You know, you're you're because you're talking about the each of you are talking
- 4:22about impacting the lives of over a million people.
- 4:25You know, we need to understand what qualifies you to do that.
- 4:30So, Chantelle, you want to start?
- 4:33Yeah, yeah. So I think for Khryzza and I,
- 4:35we bring little bits to the table,
- 4:37which is great. I really focus on identity and worth.
- 4:40So that's my story background.
- 4:41And then Khryzza's story background is more on how she became to scale,
- 4:44right? So for identity and worth,
- 4:47this all started for me 2018. I was coming out of a long term relationship,
- 4:52and when I left that relationship,
- 4:53I left my identity with it. And so
- 4:55Mm-hmm.
- 4:56I controlled the one thing that I thought I could control,
- 4:58which at that time for me
- 5:00was my body, was food. a lot of women struggle for this and I'm comfortable
- 5:04speaking about it, but I did suffer an eating disorder that almost took my life.
- 5:08I actually had three months to live.
- 5:10And hearing those words that the doctor told me I had three months to live really
- 5:14just shook me up because when you hear it from a doctor,
- 5:17it's different from a white coat than,
- 5:18you know, from anyone else saying it.
- 5:20And at that moment I felt, okay,
- 5:22I have these dreams, I have these goals.
- 5:24I have to make a decision. Like do I
- 5:27save my life or do I just continue down this path?
- 5:29And I started praying and that's where the faith element came in.
- 5:32And I heard God say, you are worthy.
- 5:35And those three words save my life because you are worthy.
- 5:39I thought if God felt that about me in that moment where I felt so low,
- 5:42then I have to believe it about myself.
- 5:44And so then I started to become a health coach.
- 5:47I got healthy again. Nutrition became a big part of my life.
- 5:50And then I felt, you know what,
- 5:52if someone as strong as me could go
- 5:54This low. I'm sure there's other women out there that are also suffering that
- 5:58now I feel called. Now I feel like it's my mission to help women know their worth
- 6:02because I almost lost my life because of it.
- 6:05And so that's where She Is Worthy became the name because I wanted women when they
- 6:09look in the mirror to say, you know what,
- 6:11that girl staring back at me, she is worthy.
- 6:14She is worthy, that girl. So that's the mission of She Is Worthy and using
- 6:19my voice and sharing my story both on social media and on stages.
- 6:22has been a really big help because when I show my vulnerability,
- 6:26it gives other women permission to to do the same.
- 6:29And when I speak, I heal and I know that it's healing others too.
- 6:33So that's my mission and that's kind of full circle how it came to be.
- 6:37Okay, okay. Qu quick question for you on that.
- 6:39I mean, how does how does this impact or how does this drive entrepreneurship?
- 6:44Yeah, so a lot, a lot of women I find I'm in sales,
- 6:48I'm in business as well. And I realized that the one thing that changed in my life
- 6:53when I started becoming good at sales and being successful in my business was that
- 6:58identity change. When I found my worth and realized my worth is the pillar,
- 7:03my self-worth is the pillar for my net worth.
- 7:06That is what I want to teach women,
- 7:08entrepreneurs, people that are building businesses,
- 7:11you have to believe in yourself.
- 7:13in entrepreneurship for then others to believe it too.
- 7:16So that's the connection with identity and worth and being successful
- 7:19in entrepreneurship.
- 7:20That makes sense. That makes sense.
- 7:22Khryzza, I want to hear your your story.
- 7:23what gives you, you know, the chops,
- 7:26so to speak, to get out there and impact the lives of a million women.
- 7:30I think as a woman founder myself,
- 7:32it I had a first-hand experience of how hard it is to figure it
- 7:35out all by yourself, kind of like building the plane as you fly the plane at the same
- 7:41time, right? I'm born and raised in the Philippines.
- 7:43for those of you watching this on video,
- 7:45this I'm I'm wearing a Philippine flag earring on my one ear and American
- 7:49fli flag on the other.
- 7:51Being born and raised in the Philippines,
- 7:52I learned early on that opportunities are are rare.
- 7:55They're not given. You gotta fight for it.
- 7:57You gotta take it. And when you're already in a position of privilege,
- 8:00you have to create it for people who have less of it.
- 8:03And much of my journey, even before becoming an entrepreneur,
- 8:07has been in that, has been in that trajectory.
- 8:10But as a business owner, especially as a CEO of CoWorq,
- 8:14from 2023 to 2025, we 10X our profit,
- 8:17we 42X or client.
- 8:19And we 57x the jobs that we created,
- 8:21we literally grew from a group of three people,
- 8:24a company of three people, to a company of 300.
- 8:27And a company who probably made $3,000 to making $300,000 to making seven figures.
- 8:33But the way we were able to do it,
- 8:35if somebody has just told me, like,
- 8:37hey, that's normal, or hey, you need to pivot,
- 8:39do you have an exposure here, or hey,
- 8:42you know, keep going. It is what it is.
- 8:43It's usually what happens: the the the more that you scale,
- 8:46the more that you grow your business.
- 8:47That would have saved me so much money,
- 8:50stress, and maybe pounds, because I lost,
- 8:52I lost weight and all of the stresses in scaling a business.
- 8:56So this is why we're doing what we're doing,
- 8:58that we are helping more and more women scale not only in millions,
- 9:03but also scale their mission. And we do it in a way that is very different from
- 9:09how we talk about scaling, right?
- 9:11For example, Silicon Valley talks about scaling in a sense of,
- 9:14you need a venture capital firm to back you up.
- 9:17Or you need an angel investor.
- 9:18I don't do business like that.
- 9:20I don't want to give up ownership of my company.
- 9:22I want to build it,
- 9:22Mm-hmm.
- 9:23you know, with people who really genuinely advocate for me.
- 9:26And I also don't scale the way Wall Street scales,
- 9:29meaning, you need to have a financial capital to lend you money,
- 9:32or you need to build relationships with reputable banks.
- 9:36I did it on the later part of my business,
- 9:38but not really in the in the integral growing part.
- 9:41And
- 9:42I realized that in my journey,
- 9:44a lot of women founders are the same way too.
- 9:46They don't the way Wall Street and Silicon Valley talks about scaling,
- 9:50it's not really resonating with them.
- 9:52So we kind of had
- 9:52Mm-hmm.
- 9:53to find a third way of scaling,
- 9:55which is scaling with purpose,
- 9:57scaling and scaling with purpose and scaling with people.
- 10:00Mm. Mm. You you mentioned you mentioned purpose and mission in your in your
- 10:04conversation. What w talk talk to us about that?
- 10:06Why is that so important to use as your as your as your pillar versus,
- 10:11I don't know, perhaps revenue or headcount.
- 10:15We have such a we have such an either or mentality with regards to purpose.
- 10:21We look at purpose in the sense of how corporate America looks at purpose,
- 10:25meaning corporate social responsibility.
- 10:27For example,
- 10:27Mm-hmm.
- 10:28when big companies talk about purpose,
- 10:29they talk about it in a sense of,
- 10:31yeah, we're gonna donate parts of our proceeds to this foundation,
- 10:36or we're gonna do donation drive or whatever.
- 10:38Mm-hmm.
- 10:38But
- 10:38purpose is not what you do with the money that you made,
- 10:41but purpose is how you make your money.
- 10:43For example, for
- 10:43Mm-hmm.
- 10:44me, how we build teams in the clients that we serve is we do it in a way that
- 10:49is ethical and equitable for our talents in the Philippines,
- 10:52in Latin America, in the US, making outsourcing ethical and equitable.
- 10:56Or in On Fridays We Scale. We scale through ethics.
- 11:00We scale by not stomping on people.
- 11:03We scale by leveraging the purpose or our moonshot,
- 11:06as I call it.
- 11:07To attract the right clients, the right advocates,
- 11:10the right mentors, and the right people who can help us grow and scale faster.
- 11:15Mm. Mm. Mm. That's brilliant. That's brilliant.
- 11:17I I love that. I love that. Chantelle,
- 11:19talk to me. Talk talk to me about a a story where you've worked with someone
- 11:25and really helped them, you know,
- 11:27really experience a a mindset shift.
- 11:29You know, perhaps, you know, they're,
- 11:31you know, in a defeatist mentality and they come out,
- 11:34you know, ahead of the ball. I mean,
- 11:36because that's that's I mean, that's real proof in the pudding.
- 11:38It's one thing to do it for yourself and you've got the drive and everything else
- 11:41to get that done, but
- 11:42You know, especially being an entrepreneur for a while,
- 11:45as both of you guys know, it gets hard.
- 11:47It gets heavy. And then, my gosh,
- 11:49life happens.
- 11:50Yeah, entrepreneurship is hard.
- 11:52And that's the beauty of it too,
- 11:54is when you do come out at the end of the tunnel,
- 11:56the light at the end of the tunnel,
- 11:57you feel that sense of reward.
- 12:00I deal with a lot of women that come to She Is Worthy community that they want
- 12:05a voice. They want to either be on stage.
- 12:07So, for example, there's this one woman who came in our my community,
- 12:11one of the founding members about two years ago.
- 12:13She was very shy when she first entered.
- 12:15and she wanted to work one-on-one with me.
- 12:17And so at the time I was doing a lot more one-on-one.
- 12:19And so we would coach on a bi-weekly basis.
- 12:22And one of her long-term goals was to use her voice and be on a stage.
- 12:26But in order to get there, in order to be on a stage,
- 12:30you know, a lot of women can be on a stage,
- 12:31but to be on a stage and to be impactful and to really share from her heart
- 12:35and feel confident and happy on a stage,
- 12:37it's a lot different than coming to a stage with maybe just strategy or tools
- 12:41or just reading from a screen,
- 12:42you know, and I really help women to embrace who they really are when they
- 12:45are on that stage, using their voice if that's their goal.
- 12:48And we had a lot of calls and one of the biggest things that we needed to focus
- 12:53on was mindset because she kept using phrases like,
- 12:57I should be this or maybe this.
- 12:59And it's it's just the phrases that we use that can really reframe our mindset.
- 13:04So instead of saying should, saying like I can't or I will and having that growth
- 13:08and future mindset. And so we started to work on those basic items and really stop
- 13:13worrying about other people's opinion because A lot of women
- 13:16They think about others more than they do about themselves when they're presenting
- 13:20something or building something and that can get in the way.
- 13:23I always use this horse analogy where if you go to a horse race,
- 13:26you're gonna see the horse with blinders.
- 13:28And why do they have blinders?
- 13:29Because if they look left or right,
- 13:30they're gonna get distracted and they're not gonna win the race.
- 13:33And The goal
- 13:33Mm.
- 13:33of entrepreneurship is to win the race,
- 13:35your individual
- 13:36Mm-hmm.
- 13:37race. Not win above all, but just your individual race.
- 13:40Follow your own path. And we have to quiet the noise and just focus on us.
- 13:44And so
- 13:45that girl actually ended up getting a a huge keynote speaker opportunity
- 13:50and she ended up we worked a lot with the notes.
- 13:53She had a lot of note cards and cue cards and while I did prep her on the cue cards,
- 13:57I really empowered her to speak from your heart and if you feel comfortable put them
- 14:01down. And she actually
- 14:02put them down before she walked on the stage and she gave an incredible keynote
- 14:06and I was seeing a lot of people reposting her story.
- 14:08she got publicity from it. And so it was a really cool experience to watch someone
- 14:12that was so shy to even pick up a mic,
- 14:14even get on a zoom with me to then now speaking on a stage.
- 14:18And now she continues to get more speaking opportunities.
- 14:20And so that's just one example of someone using their voice literally,
- 14:24but just women using their voice in other ways,
- 14:27whether it's painting or writing
- 14:30She Is Worthy is publishing a book as well with multiple authors and empowering them
- 14:34to even share their story. And so that's just one example of just the little work
- 14:38that I do of helping women to just step into their own power.
- 14:42Wow, wow, wow. It was interesting.
- 14:43I was I was reading something.
- 14:44I d I I think I was reading something.
- 14:46You were just talking about like how women even in relationships and you you kind
- 14:49of alluded to the idea that you know they pour everything into the relationship
- 14:53and don't necessarily take care of themselves.
- 14:55That's and and this is that's that was perfect.
- 14:58That was perfect. Is it is there a framework or something that you
- 15:01use or or steps or stages or something to help like people understand like where
- 15:05they are in this in this
- 15:07process?
- 15:07Yeah, I would say it's more so the reframing of how we speak to ourselves
- 15:11because that is a big part of how I change my whole identity is instead of telling
- 15:16myself stories that were false,
- 15:19you know, versus fact versus the story we tell ourselves.
- 15:22it really helps in just a lot of situations.
- 15:24You know, if we are in a specific situation and we have a thought of,
- 15:28they probably didn't invite me to that event because X,
- 15:30Y, and Z, that's a story we're telling ourselves.
- 15:33But the fact is you weren't invited.
- 15:35Not
- 15:36because X, Y, and Z. So you have to separate those thoughts.
- 15:40And I think when you get better at kind of taking control of your own brain and your
- 15:44mind and your thoughts, you can get better at controlling the outcome you want,
- 15:48which is essentially just loving yourself and letting go of control.
- 15:52Yeah, yeah. My my sister does a little bit of mindset work and she tells me like
- 15:57one of the techniques she uses is like meditation and and self talk and stuff
- 16:02like that. Is is that what you work with your with your clients on?
- 16:05Yeah, self-talk is a big one. even like writing love letters to yourself or taking
- 16:09yourself on a date. I remember when I got out of that relationship and before
- 16:13Yeah.
- 16:13I entered my new relationship,
- 16:15I took six months to really date myself.
- 16:17Like if I wanted to go to this nice restaurant,
- 16:19I would pick out my favorite dress,
- 16:21I put heels on, and this is a true story.
- 16:23If any waitress or waiter knew me back then,
- 16:25they would see me and I would just sit there and enjoy my meal.
- 16:28And there's something about going to a restaurant alone that also instills
- 16:33confidence in you in a way because it's
- 16:34Yeah.
- 16:35It's a bold move.
- 16:36It really is. It really is. You're you're independently you,
- 16:39you know, at this point, you know.
- 16:40Uh-huh.
- 16:41It's hard, you know. My my my
- 16:43my my son did my son started doing that.
- 16:45he he's he's married and and all of that,
- 16:48but he never gave himself permission to take himself out.
- 16:51And he like suddenly started going out and he's like,
- 16:53my gosh, dad, I had this meal and this and that And it's it's beautiful to see people
- 16:58just really, really loving on themselves.
- 17:00You know what I mean?
- 17:01Yeah, yeah.
- 17:02Amazing.
- 17:04Khryzza, you know, one one of the things that crosses my mind is building in that
- 17:10scaling process, you know, we change as entrepreneurs.
- 17:14You know, we start from being the person that is,
- 17:16you know, has their hands on everything.
- 17:18You know, to that person that's leading,
- 17:20you know, four or five people to 10 people to 20 people.
- 17:23You you know what I mean? And it's it's it's a it's a leadership evolution
- 17:27or maturity or something like that.
- 17:29How do you help your clients?
- 17:32evolve in that process because it it's requires a lot.
- 17:37It does. And I think this is where the work of Chantelle and my work comes
- 17:43across because it's hard to tell a CEO to let go of control and trust other
- 17:50people if they don't feel that they if if they're not mentally
- 17:56secure about who they are, about their leadership,
- 18:00and about their capacity to step into a newer identity that their business demands
- 18:06of them.
- 18:06I always say that You can't be a million-dollar entrepreneur with
- 18:10a thousand dollar mindset. The person who built your business is not gonna
- 18:13be the person who scales your business.
- 18:16So, for example, the version of myself who built my very first business in 2021
- 18:20is very different than the person who I am today.
- 18:23And the person
- 18:24Mm-hmm.
- 18:24who's gonna scale my business forward is not gonna be me today.
- 18:28So
- 18:29It it's It's a constant evolution,
- 18:31but it also entails slowly letting go of the things that shouldn't be on your
- 18:35plate, because you gotta allow others to also be in your mission.
- 18:38You also
- 18:39Yeah.
- 18:39need to allow others to support you,
- 18:41to help you, because you can't do it all by yourself.
- 18:44There is a great sense of
- 18:47Feeling worthy of not only of your identity,
- 18:51but feeling worthy of the success that you are about to have.
- 18:55And I think to me, that's why when I think about scaling,
- 18:58that's why I'm partnering with Chantelle and She Is Worthy because we can talk
- 19:03about strategies, we can talk about operations,
- 19:05these are the tools that you need,
- 19:07these are people that you need to hire,
- 19:08this is how you do this: the marketing,
- 19:10the sales, the tactics, the scripts,
- 19:12the prompts. But all of these.
- 19:15If you don't believe that you can get there,
- 19:17if you don't see yourself operating in a seven,
- 19:21eight, nine-figure range, all of these won't be,
- 19:25you know, it's it's useless. It is useless.
- 19:27Yeah.
- 19:27So
- 19:27we gotta evolve. We gotta 10x over and over again,
- 19:31we gotta scale over and over again,
- 19:33and we need to we need to allow other people in,
- 19:36because we can't do it all by ourselves.
- 19:39Mm, mm, mm. What what happens when someone gets to a point and they're like,
- 19:45Well, I don't necessarily want a million dollar business because a million dollar
- 19:49business has million dollar problems.
- 19:51Absolutely.
- 19:52I I
- 19:53heard that a lot. in fact, I heard that in from another woman founder
- 19:58too in our mastermind. And I basically had to help her reframe the her mindset
- 20:03a little bit in a sense that we don't it's not really about you at this point.
- 20:08Because if your business is doing something good for your clients,
- 20:13for your community, then all the more that we want you to be successful.
- 20:18All the more that we want you to have,
- 20:20all the resources that you have,
- 20:22all the more that you need to reach a million dollars,
- 20:24not only in revenue, but in profit.
- 20:26So you can amplify the things that you're already doing with the resources that
- 20:30you have right now, with the knowledge that you have right now,
- 20:32with the connections and networks that you have right now.
- 20:35So it's not about you being a million-dollar CEO,
- 20:39having a million-dollar problem,
- 20:41but it's about helping a million more people or impacting a million more
- 20:45communities in the process.
- 20:46We need more good millionaires in this economy and in this society.
- 20:51So that's what we're trying to do.
- 20:54Wow, wow, wow. That's that's that's that's powerful.
- 20:57That's really, really powerful.
- 20:59Chantelle, you talked to us about some of your personal overcoming.
- 21:05and of course that that is a big deal,
- 21:06and that's something I know that you're gonna work with entrepreneurs on,
- 21:09but you you're also a an entrepreneur yourself.
- 21:13and that side of it, there's a qualification side of this where things
- 21:18go wrong.
- 21:19you know, as business owners, as entrepreneurs,
- 21:21what was a time when you had to be able to,
- 21:24you know, just pull yourself up by your bootstraps and say,
- 21:26Hey, you know what? Everything sucks.
- 21:28Everything I hate everything right now.
- 21:30Let's go. I mean, what what was that story for you?
- 21:33Yeah, I think it was the beginning that She Is Worthy starting a community from
- 21:37scratch is not easy. And
- 21:39Yeah.
- 21:40I think it's it was a mental battle from the start because you know,
- 21:44you have your first Zoom call or you have your first event,
- 21:46and you're like you're already self-sabotaging by saying,
- 21:49Is anybody gonna even show up?
- 21:51Am I even worth like, am I qualified for this?
- 21:55and you start giving yourself that negative self-talk.
- 21:57And so what I had to do was give myself the mindset that I teach others by saying.
- 22:02I am worthy of this. I am called to this.
- 22:05And the more that I don't do this and I don't step into this person that I want
- 22:09to become, this woman that I'm growing into,
- 22:12I'm selfish for not starting that,
- 22:15for I'm stopping other women from seeing the gifts that I have and the light
- 22:19I have. So I started before I was ready.
- 22:22I always tell Khryzza of this,
- 22:23and people, I'm very transparent,
- 22:25I hosted my first event.
- 22:28sold tickets with no venue because I was determined and I knew that God was gonna
- 22:33provide and it was going to happen.
- 22:35And I did get a venue, you know,
- 22:36within weeks of the event happening.
- 22:38But it was very hard to navigate when you start something and maybe day one goes
- 22:43by and you're like, I have no memberships.
- 22:45Day two, no memberships. Okay,
- 22:47one month goes by and I still have no memberships.
- 22:50Am I gonna give up or am I going to keep going?
- 22:53And I think what I've learned just in my own personal sales career,
- 22:55I've been in sales for 10 years,
- 22:57is that when you get a no, I just always like to position it as no means next.
- 23:01And that's okay. And the more no's I get,
- 23:04the bigger yeses are to come. And I have to tell myself that because If
- 23:09you are a CEO of your own business,
- 23:11you also have to be the CEO of your own mind.
- 23:13And that's where it starts. And so
- 23:16There was just a lot of little things that led up to me just saying,
- 23:20you know what? Nothing can stop me.
- 23:21If I fall and hit my knee, I'm gonna get excited because I'm coming back
- 23:24up and I'm coming back up stronger.
- 23:27Wow, that's that's that's really powerful stuff right there.
- 23:30The the thing that the place where I really want to understand your thinking
- 23:35is you said that God was gonna provide a venue.
- 23:38Mm-hmm.
- 23:40that requires a lot of faith. That's that's belief that something is gonna
- 23:44happen. Where does where does the strength from this come for this come from?
- 23:49Yeah, I have to say it comes from my dad.
- 23:51my dad he has an autoimmune disease and he has he's still here to this day,
- 23:56strong, healthy, because of our faith.
- 23:58But his autoimmune disease is fighting for his platelets.
- 24:02He has a condition where his body eats up his platelets,
- 24:04and we need those to live. And so since I was a very young girl,
- 24:08I've seen my dad in and out of the hospital,
- 24:10and he has always been smiling in the hospital,
- 24:13having faith, even when the doctors say,
- 24:15All right, go say your goodbye,
- 24:17Chantelle like
- 24:17He this is it. And he goes, I'm good.
- 24:20I don't know why they're saying that.
- 24:21Everything's fine. And so from a young age,
- 24:23I've watched that. And that faith has always come through.
- 24:26So it's instilled that in me to always say,
- 24:28Okay, if he's this strong in the world,
- 24:32doctors are saying, you know, he's gonna go,
- 24:34but he's here, then there's something deeper and stronger out there.
- 24:37And so I think that's where my faith comes from,
- 24:39is just watching the path of resilience with my dad and
- 24:42I have a different lens of life because of that.
- 24:45I definitely look at life differently.
- 24:46I don't worry about little issues or drama or anything.
- 24:49I'm not available for that. I'm only available for what God has called
- 24:53me to and that is it.
- 24:55I'm not available for issues and drama.
- 24:58What dude, I need I need to like just start like taking notes.
- 25:01huh.
- 25:02a phrase that a lot I tell
- 25:04people borrow that belief that I'm not available for that.
- 25:07Like just I should write a book that just says I'm not available for that because
- 25:11huh.
- 25:11I use that in so many, so many circumstances,
- 25:14especially running a community of women.
- 25:17Mm-hmm.
- 25:17Women have
- 25:17hormones and so I'm just I'm not available for that.
- 25:19But I am available for this.
- 25:21wow. wow. wow. So you even use it with redirecting.
- 25:24I love that. I love that. Khryzza,
- 25:27same question for you. I mean,
- 25:28you know, things go wrong. You know,
- 25:29I mean, it's it's one thing, you know,
- 25:32as as coach, consultant, as as leader,
- 25:34you know, it's like, hey, we tell these great stories.
- 25:36Hey, we built a million dollar business,
- 25:38we did all these things, you know,
- 25:40but we need to hear about, you know,
- 25:43what went wrong and how you came back from it.
- 25:45If you're not I I read this in one of the email,
- 25:48a thousand emails that I receive every single every single day from all kinds
- 25:52of businesses. but this one really caught my attention because it reminded
- 25:56me of the reality of what we're trying to do.
- 25:59and it says if you're not ready for rejections,
- 26:02you're not ready for millions.
- 26:04And that is that
- 26:04Mm.
- 26:05literally normalized everything.
- 26:07Because you see this success stories,
- 26:10right? You see this influential people that from the outside it's like
- 26:17wow, like how do they do that?
- 26:19I'm that I'm that type of person.
- 26:20Like, how did you do that? Because I would love to be there.
- 26:23I'd love to achieve what you achieve.
- 26:24Like, teach me, like show me, or
- 26:26Mm-hmm.
- 26:27point out to me what am I not,
- 26:28what I'm not thinking, what I'm not doing,
- 26:30who am I not talking to, so that I can also I can also get there.
- 26:34But with
- 26:36With great successes, it also comes with a lot of a lot of failures.
- 26:40I mean, I definitely fired more people than I than I liked.
- 26:44I definitely I don't want to say wasted because it was a lesson learned,
- 26:48but I spent so much money on things that looking back,
- 26:52ooh, I should have not spent money on that.
- 26:55I wasted time. Again, I don't want to say wasted because at the end of
- 26:58the day we all learn from it, but I spent time on things that I realized looking
- 27:03back was not really adding value to either me or my business.
- 27:07I spent time in rooms and in spaces where looking back again,
- 27:11it was not really value adding as well.
- 27:13So it is normal. Rejections are normal,
- 27:16failures are normal, but it's our ability to pivot.
- 27:20And our ability to believe in our planting.
- 27:23I I do plant a lot. Every day I do.
- 27:26And I'm saying it figuratively,
- 27:28not literally. I do plant a lot.
- 27:30I do plant a lot of relationships.
- 27:32I do plant a lot of conversations that I don't know if it's gonna come into
- 27:37fruition next day, next next week.
- 27:40But you gotta get out there, you gotta talk to people,
- 27:43build relationships as much as you can,
- 27:44especially in my business, because I have a people centered business.
- 27:48I don't sell physical products.
- 27:50So it's really through relationships that I can grow and I really have to trust
- 27:54in the people that I build relationships with.
- 27:56especially during the times that things may not may not go according to my plan,
- 28:02Mm.
- 28:03or
- 28:03may not go according to what I expected it to be.
- 28:06So keep planting.
- 28:08Keep going and again, if you're not ready for rejections,
- 28:13you're not ready for millions.
- 28:14So so so back to the question.
- 28:17what went wrong and how did you come
- 28:18back from it?
- 28:19A lot of things went wrong, Rick.
- 28:21I I can imagine.
- 28:22A lot of things went wrong. I mean,
- 28:24I had to
- 28:25I think the big one of the biggest lesson I had to learn is firing my my business
- 28:29partner. That was probably one of the hardest
- 28:30Mm.
- 28:32lesson I had to learn. My business partner was my friend for more than a decade.
- 28:36Yeah.
- 28:36and i I just realized that if I really want our impact to be real impact.
- 28:42Because to me, this is not just about business for me.
- 28:45This is not just about the money.
- 28:46It really is about the people that we're trying to help.
- 28:49Yeah.
- 28:50and if I really want to do that,
- 28:51I need to be with a partner, I need to be with people who I know I can trust
- 28:56and I can build things with, right?
- 29:00And at the
- 29:00Mm-hmm.
- 29:00time, my business partner, it it wasn't just it we are going into different
- 29:06directions in life. And it's normal.
- 29:08It is normal. So I had to learn that.
- 29:10and the funny thing is after that my business basically took off.
- 29:14because I think whenever we say that we want something,
- 29:17we gotta make space for it, right?
- 29:19We gotta we we gotta face our discomfort so that we can achieve the things that
- 29:23we wanna achieve. Another thing too,
- 29:25another failure, which I don't wanna call it a failure,
- 29:28but it is a challenge, is firing people,
- 29:30firing the team that you hired.
- 29:32You know, you when you hire people,
- 29:33you are thinking that, I wanna help them grow,
- 29:35I wanna build them up, I wanna grow their this company with them.
- 29:39But sometimes it's not only the the things or our identity that I always say that
- 29:45the things that got you to where you are right now won't get you to where you wanna
- 29:48go. And sometimes it's not only things but also people too.
- 29:51So that's another thing that I had to to learn the hard way.
- 29:55Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've had to I've had to learn that lesson.
- 29:57Had to experience that multiple times.
- 29:59Never never fun. You know, that startup team,
- 30:00you're just like rah, rah, rah.
- 30:01And then it's like, you're not evolving.
- 30:04That's a tough one. That's a tough one.
- 30:08Chantelle, I was I'm I'm curious.
- 30:10You know, one of the things that happens as as business owners is,
- 30:13you know, we identify ourselves with with our companies,
- 30:17you know, and so the state of our company impacts the state of who we are
- 30:22and how we are.
- 30:24And obviously that's not healthy because sometimes we don't make the right
- 30:28decisions about our companies like like,
- 30:30you know, firing a firing a co-founder or something like that.
- 30:34How do you help entrepreneurs separate themselves,
- 30:37you know, from their businesses or separate their identity from their from
- 30:41their from their business performance?
- 30:43Yeah, a lot of entrepreneurs that I deal with,
- 30:46they base their worth or value in themselves to their social media
- 30:52following. How many people are following them,
- 30:54how many people are liking their posts.
- 30:56A lot of the entrepreneurs that I work with,
- 30:58they are very social media focused.
- 31:00That's why I point out that example.
- 31:02They they tie those outcomes to their identity and their worth.
- 31:05And part of my work is just continuing to redirect their mindset back to their
- 31:11self-worth and back to their
- 31:13identity without the business.
- 31:14Like if everything crashed today,
- 31:16if social media and Instagram shut down,
- 31:19who is Chantelle without She Is Worthy?
- 31:22Who is Chantelle without the social media following?
- 31:26If you can't answer that, then that's where your focus needs to be before
- 31:30you build the business, before you try to scale,
- 31:33before you try to do anything else.
- 31:35Like that is where we have to start.
- 31:37Because just like a tree, it has a ha you have to have a strong foundation,
- 31:40right? You can't
- 31:42start with the leaves. Leaves aren't there if the tree is not there.
- 31:46And then we have to water our own grass instead of always
- 31:48Mm-hmm.
- 31:48looking for greener grass. Greener grass is where it you are.
- 31:51It's where you stand because you have to water your own grass.
- 31:54So part of the things that I just constantly teach is always give yourself
- 31:58quiet time. You know, tune out the noise,
- 32:00quiet the noise because there is so much going on in our world and it's so easy
- 32:04to just be the hustle mentality.
- 32:06And you know, if I kept that on all the time,
- 32:08like I'd have 10 businesses by now.
- 32:10But would I
- 32:11Would I have a filled cup? No.
- 32:12And then my identity would be lost in the business.
- 32:15So constantly redirecting, taking yourself to the park,
- 32:18journaling, talking to yourself,
- 32:20that positive self-talk, and always redirecting your mind there.
- 32:24So most of our calls always start with that foundation first.
- 32:28Once everyone has gone to a place of,
- 32:30okay, what did Chantelle do for myself,
- 32:32not for the business this week?
- 32:34If we can answer that, now we can move on to strategy.
- 32:36But we can't start at strategy.
- 32:38We have to start at self-work.
- 32:39Mm-mm. What's occurring to me as as you're speaking is and I'm I'm curious if this
- 32:46is true, is there when we're when we're working on ourselves,
- 32:51you know, is there a discipline requirement for this?
- 32:55Is this something where we've got to be very,
- 32:57very intentional and perhaps have time specifically carved out for the journaling
- 33:02and the meditation and and and all that good stuff?
- 33:05Yeah, I always say Self-worth is a muscle and we want to grow it.
- 33:08And just like when you go to the gym,
- 33:10you have to make a routine out of it.
- 33:11You have to be disciplined with your eating,
- 33:13disciplined with the weights, and it's the same with our life.
- 33:16We have to block out time for it.
- 33:18So if you look at my calendar,
- 33:19there is always gonna be a block at least once a day for something,
- 33:23whether it's journaling, whether it's a 10 minute walk.
- 33:25If I have a busy day, a 10 minute walk is everything.
- 33:28anything to take you out of your entrepreneurial world and into your
- 33:32internal, you know, avoid
- 33:33Mm-hmm.
- 33:33the external and go into internal,
- 33:35that you have to be intentional about blocking time off.
- 33:37That's how you'll be successful in your business.
- 33:39So I always say if you do want to be successful in your business,
- 33:42you have to start with blocking that time off for yourself.
- 33:45Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's so smart.
- 33:46That's so smart. What what do you what do you what do you feel,
- 33:50Khryzza, what do you feel leaders really need to focus themselves on?
- 33:56looking at from the perspective of of discipline?
- 34:00I think for me, leaders need to focus,
- 34:02I think, on on what the what the vision,
- 34:05or I call it moonshot, what the moonshot really is.
- 34:08Because to me, especially as you continue to scale your business,
- 34:12you gotta have a moonshot. it's not enough to do your business as if to
- 34:16do the day today, right? You gotta have a vision.
- 34:19You you you need to know where you're going.
- 34:21Your team need to know where you're going as well.
- 34:24Your clients need to know where you're going because your vision should
- 34:28act as your filter. It changes everything.
- 34:30It should act as a filter in every decision that you're gonna make,
- 34:34in every investment that you're gonna make,
- 34:36in every person that you're gonna hire,
- 34:38in every client that you're gonna say yes to.
- 34:40It has to be a filter. It has to act as a filter.
- 34:44So, with regards to to, and and this is also the difference between businesses
- 34:49that grow versus businesses that scale,
- 34:52because not
- 34:52All businesses will scale. On a normal basis,
- 34:55maybe a business can grow 3% to 30% year on year,
- 34:59but a scaling
- 34:59Yeah.
- 34:59business is a business that grows 300%,
- 35:023000%. And those are
- 35:03Yeah.
- 35:04two different mindsets. Those are two different levels of discipline,
- 35:08and those are two different levels of focus.
- 35:10Focus specifically on the vision and on the moonshot.
- 35:15Mm. Mm. Mm-hmm. So tell tell me about the t mindset of a I don't know,
- 35:21a five, six figure business owner versus a seven,
- 35:26eight figure business owner.
- 35:28Yeah, I think you say six, seven,
- 35:30eight, like the higher one, the bigger
- 35:31Yeah. Yeah.
- 35:33one, they're not afraid to dream big and they're not afraid to actually visualize
- 35:38themselves there. And I I know the difference because I used to
- 35:40be one of those that was like a four,
- 35:42five, six, a smaller thinking entrepreneur wanting to reach those big dreams,
- 35:47but still boxing myself in and still being afraid to be seen,
- 35:50which is why we're doing this mastermind called SEEN because that is such a common,
- 35:54common thought, you know.
- 35:56You want to scale, you want to get there,
- 35:58but you're afraid to be seen. So you're just gonna really thrive in this area.
- 36:02But that's not really thriving.
- 36:03That's boxing your gifts up. And so you really have to start walking like
- 36:08the entrepreneur that's seven or eight,
- 36:09nine figure. You have to, what would she do?
- 36:12Like I would start making decisions.
- 36:14Like I'm at a shopping store. Well,
- 36:16this girl would buy that kind of blazer and this girl would buy this type
- 36:19of shirt. Well, I'm gonna go for this one because I'm I'm her.
- 36:22I'm gonna step into her now. So you have to start making decisions,
- 36:26even
- 36:26how I respond to people. Okay,
- 36:28let me pause. How would this woman respond?
- 36:31Okay, she doesn't have time for that.
- 36:32She's scaling. So she's gonna respond in this way.
- 36:35Versus
- 36:35Mm.
- 36:35maybe someone who's a people pleaser or oversharing.
- 36:38So you have to really like educate yourself on the qualities of the woman
- 36:43that you're gonna become and do that now.
- 36:45Mm.
- 36:45Become her now.
- 36:47Mm. Mm. Mm. Good stuff. Good stuff.
- 36:50Khryzza, Chantelle brought up the the SEEN event.
- 36:54I want our audience to know what you're what they're gonna expect when they
- 36:57encounter you at the event.
- 36:58Expect to change what you believe is possible.
- 37:01Expect to change what you define as big in the spirit of thinking big.
- 37:07Because the founders in the room,
- 37:09they are already big thinkers.
- 37:10They are already risk takers, like what Chantelle said,
- 37:13right? They are already in their scaling season.
- 37:19They are not new or strangers to the idea of thinking big,
- 37:23dreaming big, having a big vision.
- 37:26Taking bigger risks, et cetera.
- 37:28But in this room, is what's what's happen what's gonna happen in this room is it's
- 37:34gonna force you to rethink what you think your ceiling is.
- 37:39Mm.
- 37:40If
- 37:40you think that you know what, Rick,
- 37:42I really just want a $50,000 month.
- 37:46If I achieve that every month,
- 37:48I'm happy, I'm good. But this room will force you to think,
- 37:52well, what if it's a $500,000 month instead of $50,000?
- 37:56Like what would change? Because
- 37:57Mm.
- 37:58to be honest, the changes that you need is not actually drastic.
- 38:01It's actually very strategic. And this room will tell you what are the things
- 38:05that you need to tweak so that you can get there.
- 38:08And not only get there, but get there faster.
- 38:10So this room is gonna is gonna change what you think is possible,
- 38:14how you define big in terms of dreaming big,
- 38:16but also this room is also what's gonna collapse decades into a single day.
- 38:23Because the people who already achieve what you want to achieve is already there.
- 38:27The people who are facing the same challenges that you're facing,
- 38:30that you're looking a solution to or you're looking a strategy about is already
- 38:34there. The tools, the resources,
- 38:36it's already there. So really at the end of that day,
- 38:40if you're still not scaling or if you're still not growing your business,
- 38:44the only reason that I can think of is basically it's a you problem.
- 38:47It's not a strategy
- 38:47Mm.
- 38:48problem, it's not a mentor problem,
- 38:50it's not a network problem.
- 38:52Because everything in that day has already been provided for.
- 38:55In fact, we're spoiling our founders in that room
- 38:59Yeah.
- 38:59that single day.
- 39:01Fantastic, fantastic. Chantelle,
- 39:04what are people gonna walk away from after experiencing you?
- 39:08Yeah, I think they're gonna walk in one woman and they're gonna walk
- 39:12out a completely different woman,
- 39:14but the woman that's not available for a lot,
- 39:17the woman that is available to love on herself in all situations no matter what,
- 39:22and to always fill her cup up first so that she can give her gift to pour into
- 39:26others. They're gonna move their business before they even leave the event.
- 39:31And that's the goal. We all we've all been to events.
- 39:33Conferences where we take notes,
- 39:35we have a great notebook and we lose that notebook the minute we leave and we don't
- 39:38implement anything. We don't believe it.
- 39:40We believe it in the moment because we're surrounded by those women.
- 39:43But my goal is to have these women borrow my belief until it's theirs.
- 39:47I want them to borrow my belief of confidence until it's theirs and them
- 39:51to leave with it and implement to their own lives and their own businesses.
- 39:55Mm-hmm. Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful.
- 39:57And give us the give us the details.
- 39:59is this something that you're gonna do on a regular basis?
- 40:01Is this like biannual something like that?
- 40:04Yeah, so we plan on doing this annually.
- 40:06This is the first ever SEEN Mastermind,
- 40:08and it's going to be an annual conference that we plan on doing every single year.
- 40:13Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful.
- 40:14We'll have to we'll have to have you guys back and and give us some
- 40:17of the experiences that you guys had.
- 40:18Mm-hmm.
- 40:18Cause
- 40:18I know that you guys are gonna grow as a result of doing this as well.
- 40:21So I'm excited about that. I have a question for each of you.
- 40:26and I always ask my guests at the end of the show.
- 40:28So Khryzza, I'm gonna ask you first.
- 40:31the name of the show is the Relentless Pursuit of Winning Podcast.
- 40:35And winning is something that we can generally define.
- 40:37This is something that you believe highly in based on what you've shared with us.
- 40:41The harder part though is maintaining that relentless pursuit.
- 40:45So my question for you, I'd like for you to share with our audience your
- 40:49recommendations on how to maintain that relentless pursuit.
- 40:52That's a very difficult question,
- 40:54Rick.
- 40:55Ha ha.
- 40:57How do you maintain the r your relentless pursuit of winning?
- 41:01I think for me it's recognizing my pa my winning patterns,
- 41:06right? I am a recovering overachiever.
- 41:09I'm a recovering perfectionist.
- 41:11and to me, winning is everything because winning is not just about me,
- 41:15it's about my community. If I win,
- 41:16Mm-hmm.
- 41:17everybody wins. That's my mentality.
- 41:19So to me, it's not a it's not an option or a choice to win.
- 41:24It is an imperative to win. And for you to relentlessly pursue that,
- 41:28I think it's very important to recognize what are the patterns that has served
- 41:32me well over the years and will continue to serve me in the next couple of next
- 41:37couple of years, next couple of iterations,
- 41:40if you will. And it's usually number one
- 41:42seeking mentorship from people who already achieved,
- 41:45who already won what I wanted to win.
- 41:47second is feeding my brain, feeding my soul,
- 41:51videos or music or whatever it is that not only inspires me,
- 41:56motivates me, but feeds me. I am what what people call a sapiosexual,
- 42:02where I am very much attracted to intelligence and it really helps me.
- 42:07move the needle as to what I think is is an achievement or what I define
- 42:12as as winning. So recognizing patterns,
- 42:15surrounding yourself with mentors who already got to where you want
- 42:18to go and feeding feeding yourself physically,
- 42:22mentally, but also intellectually.
- 42:25Mm mm. What's the what's the best thing you've learned lately?
- 42:28For me, my goodness,
- 42:28Yeah.
- 42:29for me, the best thing that I've learned that I have learned lately is to as a very
- 42:34passionate people-centered CEO and founder,
- 42:38I used to have like highs and lows in terms of emotions.
- 42:41In terms of winning, my goodness,
- 42:43we're winning, it's the best day ever.
- 42:45And in terms of s having and experiencing failure,
- 42:47I'm it's like, my God, I really want to disappear in this world.
- 42:51Yeah.
- 42:51Like
- 42:51I don't want to talk to another person.
- 42:54But one thing that I had to learn recently is I had to normalize my emotional
- 43:00wavelength and my
- 43:01Mm-hmm.
- 43:02mental wavelength so I can accommodate anything that life and business is gonna
- 43:07throw at me. I can't have the unpredictable highs or the unpredictable
- 43:11lows. I need to normalize it in my system so that my business can also normalize
- 43:16it when we face them. Because we're gonna face a lot of challenges.
- 43:19We're gonna face problems that we've never faced before.
- 43:21So that stability is super super crucial in scaling and in winning.
- 43:28Love it, I love it. Chantelle same question.
- 43:31I would say continuing to come back home to yourself.
- 43:34Kind of like what Khryzza was saying,
- 43:36you have to be the calm because there's gonna be storms that come no matter what.
- 43:40And if you don't experience a storm,
- 43:42then you gotta work harder because that storms are part of life.
- 43:46Storms are part of working harder.
- 43:48So coming home to yourself, staying grounded and redefining what winning means
- 43:53for yourself. You know, winning can mean numbers,
- 43:56you know, that's great. But when it comes to identity and worth,
- 43:59winning is showing up.
- 44:00Winning is saying I'm not gonna give up on myself.
- 44:02Winning is saying I'm I'm gonna keep running this race,
- 44:05even if things fall, even if things fail,
- 44:08even if things go south or north,
- 44:10I'm still gonna stay on my path and I'm gonna keep going because then
- 44:14you can at least feel a hundred percent in everything you've done.
- 44:17And I always say God doesn't call the qualified,
- 44:20he qualifies the called. And if you just keep that phrase in your brain,
- 44:24you will continue to win because you're qualified to win.
- 44:27Mm-hmm. You know, it it's it's interesting.
- 44:30People that haven't been through storms make me really nervous because you never
- 44:34know what they're gonna do. You know what I mean?
- 44:35It's like this is too easy.
- 44:35Yeah.
- 44:37so
- 44:38Mm-hmm.
- 44:39if someone wants to attend the SEEN event,
- 44:41what's the best way to get signed up for that?
- 44:43Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna answer it.
- 44:45Yeah, sign up on onfridayswescale.com/seen We're also on Instagram
- 44:50at @seenmastermind. So we are extending the deadline actually to November 6th.
- 44:55So because we know people will wait until the very last minute.
- 44:59Last minute.
- 45:00they're gonna
- 45:00wait for like, wait, let me just check with blah blah blah.
- 45:03But hey, if you want to scale,
- 45:05you gotta be decisive. So if you are
- 45:09Yeah.
- 45:09Exactly.
- 45:10So please, if you are in your season of scaling,
- 45:13register and see you on 11/11
- 45:17Amazing, amazing, amazing. Chantelle,
- 45:19you've you've talked a lot about mindset.
- 45:21I've I suspect you've got some tools or something like that up your sleeve.
- 45:25You anything you want to share with our audience?
- 45:28You know, I would just say if I can challenge and encourage every person
- 45:32listening today, if you don't give time to yourself in your calendar,
- 45:36how do you expect to give time to yourself in your relationships,
- 45:38in your friendships, even in your business?
- 45:40So I would just challenge every listener right now to look at your calendar
- 45:44and it and identify three to five blocks in your schedule,
- 45:48I put an intentional 10 minute to one hour block of either taking a walk.
- 45:54reading a book, listening to this podcast or a podcast,
- 45:58and just pouring back into yourself.
- 46:00I think that's the biggest thing and and say in your daily affirmations,
- 46:03you know, go into the mirror and look yourself in the eye.
- 46:05I don't think a lot of us actually look at ourselves directly in the eye.
- 46:08It can be kind of scary sometimes,
- 46:09maybe like after you wash your face,
- 46:09Mm-hmm.
- 46:11but you know,
- 46:11Please.
- 46:11look at yourself directly in the eye and and tell that person like you are worthy
- 46:16of success. You are worthy of this life that you're desiring.
- 46:20Like you are worthy of it.
- 46:22And just
- 46:22Hmm.
- 46:22let that sink in.
- 46:24I love it. I love it. Khryzza,
- 46:26there anything you want to leave our audience with?
- 46:28Scaling is a decision. You don't wait for yourself or your your business to be ready
- 46:33to scale. It is a decision. There is a difference between successful businesses,
- 46:38successful entrepreneurs, and entrepreneurs who just look at others
- 46:42and wonder, okay, how did I do that?
- 46:44Like what is happening? But it is
- 46:47Mm-hmm.
- 46:47a decision. You really gotta decide because there is so much power in deciding
- 46:52the life that you want. If you want a 10 hour work month.
- 46:57decide, decide that that's the life that you want.
- 46:59If you want a seven, eight, nine figure business,
- 47:02decide. Decide it that that's the business that you want.
- 47:05If you want to build nonprofit or schools or whatever it is,
- 47:09the the legacy that you want to leave in this world,
- 47:12you gotta decide because life doesn't just happen.
- 47:14It just doesn't magically appear.
- 47:16You gotta decide. And once you decide,
- 47:19you will be surprised that all along the opportunities are actually there.
- 47:24But that's the power of deciding.
- 47:26It gives you that filter and that clarity and that kind of like light bulb of,
- 47:31yeah, I can connect with Rick.
- 47:33I can connect with Chantelle I can join this because this will help
- 47:36me in my decision and my goal and my in my vision.
- 47:39So just decide. I know stop stop dilly-dallying,
- 47:43decide the life that you want,
- 47:45and we'll get there.
- 47:46Love it. I love it. You guys, you guys are just a wealth of information.
- 47:49Thank you so much for being on the show.
- 47:51This has this has been absolutely fantastic.
- 47:53Thank you so much for having us.
- 47:54Thank you.
- 47:55It's been it's been fun. I'm like,
- 47:56yeah, we're on a show. Like it felt like a conversation.
- 47:59Awesome, awesome,
- 48:01awesome.
- 48:02And folks, thank you so much for watching or listening to another episode
- 48:05of the Relentless Pursuit of Winning podcast.
- 48:07We'll catch you next time.