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- 0:00Devon Morris: How often is that conclusion really wrong?
- 0:06Brandon Raines: It's wrong most of the time.
- 0:09Devon Morris: This is the lagging team. Falling behind is
- 0:13a position, not a verdict. Today's episode is stop blaming
- 0:19the team. Diagnosing the real gap. My friend, my colleague, a
- 0:26peer of mine, Brandon Raines. Let's just welcome him, welcome
- 0:31him, welcome him, welcome him, welcome him. Brandon, recently
- 0:35we did a we did a APA presentation, man, that I think
- 0:38was off the charts. How you feeling, man? It
- 0:41Brandon Raines: was huge, man. It was huge. I'm, I'm still over
- 0:45the moon about that whole experience. I mean, it was so
- 0:48good on so many levels. It was fantastic.
- 0:52Devon Morris: People talked about it. People reached out.
- 0:54People asked, "Do we want to present in other places? It's
- 0:58been a good response.
- 1:01Brandon Raines: It's been an amazing response, and like I
- 1:03said, it's on so many levels, right? Like you and I got to
- 1:07connect again and do something together that felt super
- 1:10special. Then people actually responded really well to it, you
- 1:15know, and have continued to respond really well to it. So I
- 1:18mean, like, how could you ask for more?
- 1:21Devon Morris: Yeah, well, you know, man, we're gonna have to
- 1:22do the the the round to earth show and and continue to do this
- 1:27for sure. So, so I'm sorry, y'all, we didn't got started
- 1:31here, but let me really introduce my friend here.
- 1:34Brandon Raines is a professional certified coach and founder of
- 1:40Shakunen advisors, he spends his days in rooms with leaders who
- 1:45are frustrated with their teams, and he spent enough time there
- 1:49to know that the story the leader is telling usually isn't
- 1:52the story that is actually happening. I asked Brandon here
- 1:56because he is really special to me, but let me add to that
- 2:00because he knows how to go about fixing teams that have fallen
- 2:05behind, and he's somebody that knows how to diagnose teams
- 2:12appropriately and get to the why. Brandon, here is something
- 2:18I keep coming back to: when a team falls behind, the leader
- 2:23almost always has a theory about why, and the theory is usually
- 2:27wrong. So let's kick this thing off by allowing you to tell me
- 2:34or the audience here about a time you watched really that
- 2:38ground shake and move under a team.
- 2:45Brandon Raines: Yeah, wow. You know, lots to pick from, right?
- 2:48But I would say, like, there's a team pretty recently that I was
- 2:53working with where I had just come in in, and you know,
- 2:59getting to know a team. One of the things I really like to do
- 3:01is to get to know the team, get to know the team, get to know
- 3:04the leaders, get to know the customer set to make to get a
- 3:09really good understanding of what's going on, and
- 3:11understanding that there are so many different perspectives of
- 3:14what's going on, and that those perspectives are important and
- 3:17they're all voices to be heard. I think one of the things is
- 3:23that I understood was they weren't they were they were
- 3:26always getting stalled. It seemed you know just looking at
- 3:30the data and then that data started to match up with the
- 3:33narratives of what I was hearing from from folks and there was
- 3:38just a lot of stalls that were happening here and there,
- 3:42meaning, you know, they would get started on something, and
- 3:46then all of a sudden, it just started to to wane as far as the
- 3:50progress that they were making, and then something else would
- 3:52start up again. And you know, we we started to to look in and and
- 3:57have an understanding, and yeah, like you like you had said, the
- 4:02the ground started moving from underneath the team, and you
- 4:05know the the the finger started pointing at the team. Yeah,
- 4:10toward, and so what we so what we found it was a couple of
- 4:16things. We we had some conversations together, all of
- 4:19us together, and that was another thing that I found
- 4:22didn't wasn't happening a whole lot was that these conversations
- 4:26were happening in pockets. So there was a lot of hidden
- 4:29information about what was going on, you know, hidden from the
- 4:33team, hidden from the leaders, hidden from the customers, and
- 4:38that was one of the things that seemed like it might be a good
- 4:40idea. Like let's maybe let's talk together, share some some
- 4:44things together with with each other. Now
- 4:47Devon Morris: I know you probably had the opportunity to
- 4:49actually get the perspective of the leader. So what did the
- 4:56leader think was actually happening?
- 5:01Brandon Raines: You know, it it was a spectrum, right? It was a
- 5:03spectrum of I'm not sure that I'm getting everything out of
- 5:08every individual on the team, therefore out of the entire
- 5:11team. I'm not sure that they understand what our customer or
- 5:17me is asking for. Like I ask for something, I don't get what I
- 5:21expect.
- 5:22Devon Morris: Yeah.
- 5:25Brandon Raines: I think there was some there was there was
- 5:27there was some frustration even with the customer set and you
- 5:31know asking for a lot of things all at once and not being clear
- 5:35on you know what that thing is describing that thing and when
- 5:39they needed
- 5:40Devon Morris: it
- 5:41Brandon Raines: or or the indecision around what was
- 5:44needed.
- 5:45Devon Morris: Okay,
- 5:46Brandon Raines: so yeah, that's that's what I was hearing from
- 5:47the leader.
- 5:49Devon Morris: You you had mentioned earlier some of the
- 5:51things that you you saw in reality, and it doesn't seem to
- 5:55match what the leader was thinking. So how far apart was
- 6:00those two different realities?
- 6:02Brandon Raines: Oh, it was massive. It was massive. It was
- 6:06one of those things where, you know, I guess I kind of viewed
- 6:10myself at one point as a Martian, you know, looking down
- 6:13on a planet, right, going, "That's different. You know,
- 6:17this is like I'm really visiting a different civilization, kind
- 6:21of thing, and and and looking at it from the perspective of wow,
- 6:26there's similarity from my perspective of what's happening
- 6:30and what I see, but they see such a a desperate reality.
- 6:36Devon Morris: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and and I like that description
- 6:39of being that Martian, right? Looking at something from the
- 6:42outside, and so the the the question is, when you when you
- 6:48look back at them, what did it cost them? Kind of sitting in
- 6:55the wrong diagnosis for how long they sat in
- 7:00Brandon Raines: it. It cost them time. It costs them reputation.
- 7:06It costs energy, sanity. Right? People were frustrated, and
- 7:10that's not a great place to be when you come into work every
- 7:13single day and you feel frustrated. Especially when you,
- 7:16you know, I'm of the belief, and this is what I experienced with
- 7:18this particular team and so many teams. People want to come to
- 7:21work and do a good job. Yeah, you know they they they want to
- 7:24do a good job. They want to feel successful, and that's all
- 7:28around. Whether or not you're a leader, a customer, or the team,
- 7:33you know people want to win. You know people really do want to
- 7:36win and be successful, and you know it just it it becomes a
- 7:40sinking feeling when you have that desire, and sometimes don't
- 7:46have the tools, or sometimes have the tools but don't know
- 7:48how to use them properly to get to that win or that success.
- 7:54Devon Morris: So then, when you start going back to that
- 7:57misdiagnosis, give me an idea of why do you think leaders just
- 8:07kind of default to it's the people?
- 8:15Brandon Raines: So I'm going to give you an answer that I don't
- 8:19that always makes Me sad,
- 8:21Devon Morris: okay, okay.
- 8:22Brandon Raines: But I think that it's the easy thing to do.
- 8:28Devon Morris: Yeah, yeah. You know that's
- 8:32Brandon Raines: yeah. the The person in front of you, that's
- 8:36the as humans, that's the easy thing to do is blame the person
- 8:40and not understand the problem and put the problem out in
- 8:44front, and then you know create an alliance with everybody
- 8:49around and say, "Hey, there's the problem. Let's attack the
- 8:52problem.
- 8:53Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 8:53Brandon Raines: it's really easy to say, "Hey, Devon, you're not
- 8:56doing so well today.
- 8:58Devon Morris: Yeah, yeah, and it take it takes it really does
- 9:01take pressure off them from really trying to really figure
- 9:05it out, and so realistically, when you have when you've seen
- 9:08that experience and you've had it time and time again, how
- 9:12often is that conclusion really wrong?
- 9:18Brandon Raines: It's wrong most of the time, You know, it's
- 9:21like, yeah. So I guess the way that I usually see it is when
- 9:29it's the person, it's a situation where this isn't the
- 9:34person for that particular position. It isn't like you
- 9:37suck,
- 9:38Devon Morris: yeah,
- 9:39Brandon Raines: right, or you're a you're a terrible developer,
- 9:41or you're a terrible tester. It might not it may not be a good
- 9:47fit in terms of team, in terms of culture, in terms of this
- 9:51particular product. Rarely do I see it's a skill set. I've seen
- 9:56that, you know. I've totally seen that, but that usually.
- 10:00Isn't that usually isn't the case? That's more the exception
- 10:04rather than the rule.
- 10:06Devon Morris: And and and we not and by no stretch of the
- 10:07imagination would Brandon or myself be saying that you don't
- 10:12have situations where it just really truly isn't a good fit or
- 10:15you have really a performance issue that happens. Those things
- 10:18do happen. We we all can agree on that, right? But as you get
- 10:22beyond those type of issues, we're talking about when it
- 10:25normally really happens. Most of the time, it's just not the
- 10:28case. And so then, what makes blaming a team so comfortable
- 10:34for the various levels of leadership? And then, how do you
- 10:38see that surface in terms of with the team, with the work
- 10:43every day.
- 10:45Brandon Raines: Yeah. So again, I want to go back to to this.
- 10:48People want to win. People want to be successful. So the vast
- 10:50majority of leaders that I encounter really want to figure
- 10:54out what the deal is. You know what what is causing the
- 10:58particular issue. I mean, it's usually why we get hired, right?
- 11:01That's that's the cool thing, right? And I think sometimes
- 11:05it's getting to that point of understanding. Hey, I may need a
- 11:08different perspective, and maybe I, as a leader, even sometimes I
- 11:14have this, I have these these tools, these leadership tools,
- 11:18but maybe not how to apply them in that particular situation
- 11:23that I'm in, and so I think that's another one of those
- 11:26things of of crossing that particular bridge is how do I
- 11:30apply my leadership tools for this particular situation that
- 11:34I'm in with this team? You know, because teams can be different;
- 11:38they have their own they have their own culture and way of
- 11:43working and personality, if you will, and then how do you apply
- 11:46those leadership skills to that particular team that's in front
- 11:49of me that I'm actually leading, not the team from two years ago
- 11:54where I was super successful and everything went lovely. It's the
- 11:57team that's in front of me that I'm working with right now.
- 12:01Devon Morris: Yeah, and you you said something earlier that I
- 12:05want to kind of come back to, and that this goes back to the
- 12:10cost, right? What's the cost of getting that diagnosis wrong?
- 12:14And I'm not talking about in wasted effort because I know we
- 12:18mentioned effort, but what it does to the team is the
- 12:23question.
- 12:26Brandon Raines: Yeah, I I think I don't think I'm not sure you
- 12:30can put a price on reduced morale for a team. Like the hit
- 12:37is huge for it for a team, and I think it goes. It's it can
- 12:43proliferate too.
- 12:44Devon Morris: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 12:46Brandon Raines: Across beyond the team, across the entire
- 12:50culture, and so for me, that cost is you start to lose faith.
- 12:55It starts to affect your performance. It starts starts to
- 12:58affect the results.
- 13:00Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 13:00Brandon Raines: it starts to eat in, and that success that we've
- 13:03been talking about,
- 13:04Devon Morris: and and and I like that because when when when when
- 13:07I when I think about that brand, and it goes back to the
- 13:10presentation that we did, right? Thinking about that ability to
- 13:15bounce back when things aren't really going right, being able
- 13:19to build up that capacity is impossible. is It's hard to do
- 13:26if you're not motivated. You just don't have the morale. You
- 13:29just don't feel like things are going to really truly go in the
- 13:32right direction, and so it could have a huge, huge, huge impact
- 13:36on a team. And you've seen it time and time again. I've seen
- 13:40it time and time again because we always come into situations
- 13:42where we got to deal with some of the hardest problems, and I
- 13:46know you experience it over and over again, my friend.
- 13:51Brandon Raines: Yeah, and I think what I'm particularly
- 13:52struck with struck by is when I walk into when I work with an
- 13:58organization, I pay a lot of attention to responses and
- 14:01reactions, and and by that I mean, well, when something
- 14:05didn't go as planned, is there is there a reaction or is there
- 14:10a response? For me, the distinction between the two is
- 14:14reaction is, whoa, that sucked, that was terrible. What in the
- 14:19world did we do? What happened here, as opposed to a response
- 14:23for me at least, is hey this is this happened. What should we
- 14:29do? And I think that one of the big things about it is we. What
- 14:34do we do about it? And I think it's what did we learn. So I'll
- 14:39start listening to stuff like that. Do we use these as
- 14:43learning opportunities, and then put those learning opportunities
- 14:47into the next event?
- 14:49Devon Morris: Yeah, yeah. For me,
- 14:51Brandon Raines: that kind of pulls up the team.
- 14:53Devon Morris: Yeah, a lot. And and you want to and you want to
- 14:57pull up the team collectively. Because in many organizations,
- 15:03the team is truly the unit of what it takes to deliver
- 15:05something. Especially environments that you work in
- 15:08and that I work in, there's such levels of complexity that you
- 15:13have to have specialized skills. And if you got specialized
- 15:15skills, usually it means that people, one person, can't
- 15:18deliver everything or do the most effective job at delivering
- 15:22every piece of what it takes to make something, and so you know
- 15:25you you you're gonna have a team more than likely put together to
- 15:29deliver that, and making sure that unit can function and
- 15:33operate in a way where it can be the best team it can be is
- 15:38important. So yeah, so then I start thinking. I'm starting to
- 15:41think about the gap, right? Because we we've been we've been
- 15:45messaging this for years. I mean, you definitely have. I
- 15:50definitely have. It gets so bad that that at least I get to the
- 15:54point where I just go, "Hey, man, if you just listen, we can
- 15:57get over this hump. You know what that that's like, right?
- 16:03And so, when you think about clarity, agreement, environment,
- 16:13capacity, where does it? Where does that gap often land? You
- 16:21know, when it comes to a team,
- 16:24Brandon Raines: you know, you hit it like first word, clarity,
- 16:28right? Like, and that's where I usually see the big gaps. And
- 16:33I'll use another, use a complementary word is is that we
- 16:36use a whole lot, right? Visibility, making things big
- 16:39and visible.
- 16:40Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 16:40Brandon Raines: and so part of that is making the big invisible
- 16:43and being clear. Like a a good friend of mine introduced me to
- 16:48one of those Brene Brown quotes of "clear as kind, and you know
- 16:53it's one of those things of being really clear about roles,
- 16:57being really clear about intent, being really clear about what is
- 17:02the what's what works in this particular culture? What may not
- 17:05work really well in this particular culture? What are we
- 17:08trying to strive for? And in making all of those things
- 17:13really visible, really known from moment one.
- 17:16Devon Morris: Yeah, I mean, and clarity is if I'm a member of
- 17:19this team, as a member of this team, I learn my team member as
- 17:25well, and I may know my team member may be may we might have
- 17:28the same role, but they may be a little bit weak at this
- 17:31particular thing. While I'm a little bit stronger, and we find
- 17:34ways to to kind of cover those gaps. So clarity comes in many
- 17:38many ways. But but I'm glad you keyed in on clarity, right? What
- 17:43does a clarity problem look like from the outside versus a
- 17:48capability problem?
- 17:52Brandon Raines: Yeah. So when I see clarity issues from the
- 17:55outside, I often I will often say, "Hey, what is actually the
- 18:01goal for this particular product? Yeah. Who is it for?
- 18:07Because it's you know when sometimes when I walk in, it's
- 18:10not clear to me. Like I will have those questions, and I will
- 18:15often experience the pause and the hmm, I'm not sure. You know,
- 18:22we're down in the weeds. Like if you talk to an individual
- 18:27developer or somebody on the development team, you know, you
- 18:31you get that pause and not have a really clear answer.
- 18:34Devon Morris: Yeah.
- 18:34Brandon Raines: And sometimes maybe even a customer, because
- 18:37in some spaces that I work in, customers turn over so often.
- 18:41Devon Morris: Yeah.
- 18:41Brandon Raines: And they just kind of handed it to them.
- 18:45Devon Morris: Yeah, no, I I agree with that. I mean, and it
- 18:47goes back to the very simple statement of setting a goal,
- 18:52right? Setting, right? You know, when you think about OKRs, when
- 18:56you think about goals within a sprint or across a roadmap for a
- 19:01particular release, right? What you're trying to do in terms of
- 19:03ROI, having some clarity around that is really absolutely super
- 19:10important. So then, when is it genuinely a people problem, and
- 19:18how do you know the difference?
- 19:22Brandon Raines: I I know the difference in a couple of
- 19:24different ways. So when when is it a people problem? For me, I
- 19:30define the people problem is not a good fit for a particular
- 19:34culture, for a particular team, and it may be a skill set. It
- 19:37may be that we misidentify the skill that we actually needed on
- 19:41the team, yeah. And this person just doesn't fit the bill, or
- 19:44maybe at the skill level that the team needs at that
- 19:48particular point. And perhaps there's not a lot of space for
- 19:51that person to grow into that role. There's just not enough
- 19:55time. Like there's the speed, the speed of which the team
- 19:59needs. To operate doesn't allow that person to grow at the level
- 20:05that the team needs it, and so that may that that may be a
- 20:08personnel, that might be a skill set, and again, not the right
- 20:12person for this team at this particular time. And what are we
- 20:16going to do about
- 20:17Devon Morris: it? Yeah. Do you have do you have an example of
- 20:20that in terms of your experience, something specific
- 20:23without going into the people that were involved.
- 20:29Brandon Raines: I'm actually going through a probably, gosh,
- 20:32I'm almost working 30 years. Probably one of the most
- 20:35egregious examples of that right now. This is crazy timely, So, a
- 20:43person was hired into a team, and this person was replacing
- 20:50someone else. Yeah, and you know, honestly, that person that
- 20:56left the team, huge reputation, fantastic, stellar reputation,
- 21:03and did I mean like this was he? He was the definition of a
- 21:08T-shaped person, right? Like super wide.
- 21:11Devon Morris: Now hold up now, now please, please, please.
- 21:14Everybody's not agile people. Yeah. What's T? What is what is
- 21:18T-shaped?
- 21:19Brandon Raines: Yeah. So if you think about somebody who has a
- 21:23breadth of skills across a lot of different areas, so think
- 21:26about a T going wide, and then there may be a couple of skill
- 21:30sets that they can go really deep in, right? So that's the
- 21:33vertical part of of the T. So that's what I mean by a T-shaped
- 21:37person, and oftentimes teams will, a lot of teams will strive
- 21:42to have as many T-shaped people as possible. I'm a fan of at
- 21:47least having one, depending on the size of size of your team.
- 21:50Okay,
- 21:52and so this this person who was there was a you know like you
- 21:57look in the dictionary for T-shaped person. This guy was
- 22:01that, you know, and so unfortunately, you know that the
- 22:07the next person who was hired, you know, they were stepping
- 22:09into some really large shoes.
- 22:11Devon Morris: Yeah, yeah. Having
- 22:12Brandon Raines: said that, the gap, the gap between you know
- 22:16what was needed and what showed up in this in in the new person
- 22:21was just massive, or is just massive.
- 22:24Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 22:24Brandon Raines: and I think just being able to realize that,
- 22:29realize that quickly, and then being able to reevaluate what is
- 22:34it that we actually need, and let's make sure we put this
- 22:38person. This person shouldn't be on this team,
- 22:41Devon Morris: yeah.
- 22:42Brandon Raines: What do we actually need going forward? And
- 22:45let's reevaluate that.
- 22:48Devon Morris: I'm curious. Like this is this is a this is a
- 22:51question coming from a very different place, and I can ask
- 22:54this of you because you have had several roles, right? So you are
- 23:00probably one of those few people that are a classic T-shaped
- 23:06person. Okay, my question for you, as a person who is a
- 23:12classic T-shaped person with a breadth of skills and several of
- 23:16them that go deep, were you able to recognize be that because of
- 23:22your past being a T shaped person, because other people
- 23:27aren't that, and how do you recognize that if you've never
- 23:31really truly been a T kind of shaped person?
- 23:37Brandon Raines: Ooh, wow! I would imagine. Oh wow!
- 23:42Devon Morris: You know, I say that, Brandon, because I'm a
- 23:45T-shaped person, right?
- 23:46Yeah. And I'm
- 23:47able to see lots of things that a lot of people can't see, and
- 23:52so I'm curious, and I'm getting your perspective on this, right?
- 23:56There's a lot of people that's gonna be listening, watching.
- 24:00It's not T-shaped. How do they? How how do they recognize that
- 24:05if they haven't been exposed to it?
- 24:10Brandon Raines: Ooh, man, you asked me two back-to-back hard
- 24:12questions. I I I think to answer your first one is, would I have
- 24:20been able to recognize that if I weren't a T-shaped person, I
- 24:23think certainly would have been harder. It it certainly made it
- 24:27easier for me to go, whoa, there's a big gap here,
- 24:34Devon Morris: yeah,
- 24:34Brandon Raines: and to do it pretty quickly. How would
- 24:39somebody who didn't have that experience do it. So first, one
- 24:44of the things that I would say is don't do it by yourself,
- 24:47right? Like, and and honestly, I I had to. I I said, hey y'all,
- 24:54here's what I'm seeing. Are y'all seeing the same thing in
- 24:57terms of the gap here, the skill set gap?
- 25:00Yeah,
- 25:01and others. There were some folks who you know struggled a
- 25:04little bit, or were on the fence, or what weren't really
- 25:07sure. There were others who were like, "Yeah, dude, you're right.
- 25:11Yeah, yeah. So that was helpful. It was helpful to me. It was
- 25:14helpful to all of us because it was it was a validation kind of
- 25:17thing just to make sure, because that's a hard thing, right?
- 25:20You're talking about somebody, and potentially their
- 25:23livelihood. It's a job. It's a real human being here.
- 25:27Devon Morris: Yes. Yes. Now, and and and it's not just there's a
- 25:32real human here, but there's real judgment here, right?
- 25:37Brandon Raines: Yeah.
- 25:37Devon Morris: There's real judgment here, and you're
- 25:40talking about somebody who could be really amazing, super deep,
- 25:46like really amazing, super deep. That's one area right here, and
- 25:52they are super dope, greatest ever, the greatest ever.
- 25:58Brandon Raines: Yeah,
- 25:58Devon Morris: but then they had a Predecessor. There was a T
- 26:05shape that that was able to go deep. Maybe not as deep in that
- 26:08one thing, but could go across to help everybody out too.
- 26:13Brandon Raines: Yeah,
- 26:14Devon Morris: that's a tough situation for a person to walk
- 26:18into, man. That's a tough. Really
- 26:20Brandon Raines: is.
- 26:21Devon Morris: Wow, wow, wow. So I'm like, whoa, that that that's
- 26:25tough. That that's spot on. So here's the deal, right? Let's
- 26:29let's shift gears a little bit because we already have done
- 26:32that, and I want to start talking about how to diagnose
- 26:37these things, right? How do you really get at that why or what's
- 26:42happening or what's going on going on, and this is really
- 26:45just trying to deal with that coaching craft that you do so
- 26:49very well. Walk me through it. You've you are brought into a
- 26:57team that's actually behind. Everybody says that they're
- 27:02actually behind. The team knows that they're actually behind.
- 27:08What do you do first?
- 27:11Brandon Raines: I think one of the things I want I do is craft
- 27:15a definition of success. So if this is what behind looks like,
- 27:19tell me what on pace or success look like. Be pretty articulate
- 27:25about that and say that in front of the team. That's one of the
- 27:30first things.
- 27:31Devon Morris: Yeah, yeah. Because
- 27:31Brandon Raines: that way they at least know here's where we're
- 27:33going.
- 27:34Devon Morris: Yeah, this
- 27:35Brandon Raines: is what we need to do. Make sure that they
- 27:37understand that because unfortunately there are times
- 27:40again. This is where I was talking about that some
- 27:43conversations happen in pockets, right, and not together. Is
- 27:46sometimes the team doesn't even know that they're behind or
- 27:50they're not doing what is being asked of them. And so it again
- 27:54is it goes back to that clear as kind kind of thing of being
- 27:57being really clear of hey, this is what success looks like.
- 28:01Here's where we are right now. Let's talk about how we get
- 28:04there.
- 28:06Devon Morris: I think I think that's an amazing that's an
- 28:09amazing answer. You know, I was I was coaching someone through
- 28:16an interview through an interview, and I told them just
- 28:20one big question to ask is what does success look like for this
- 28:24role that I'm applying for, right? It's like what does that
- 28:28end result look like? So for those that don't quite get what
- 28:30he's saying, that's what it's like. Most of the vast majority
- 28:33of y'all have been through an interview, right? And so what
- 28:35it's like is when you get to the other side, what does success
- 28:39look like? And for a team, that's important because if you
- 28:42can see that in gold, now we really can talk about the how
- 28:47the in between the gap between where we are at and where we
- 28:51need to go. So I that's one of the most amazing answers. Sorry
- 28:57to am asking you hard questions or amazing questions, but that's
- 29:01what I'm supposed to do. You're here for that, right? All right,
- 29:04Brandon Raines: amazing questions. Yes, I'm here for it.
- 29:08Devon Morris: All right, so then, so here's now, now let
- 29:10let's let's let's take it in a little bit, right? What are you
- 29:18listening for that the leader standing right there can't hear
- 29:29Brandon Raines: clarity. The lack, or I should say, the lack
- 29:33of clarity, the lack of expectations. I'm listening for
- 29:40oftentimes roll down. or at least pointing out that of what
- 29:49roles does the team need in order to be successful.
- 29:52Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 29:54Brandon Raines: I'm also listening for that that maybe
- 29:58the leader can't hear. Was not aware of tone of how that person
- 30:04addresses the team, but also is there some notion of learning?
- 30:13So just being able to to work in a way such that hey okay we we
- 30:19did a little bit. What did we learn, and how do we push that
- 30:22into into the next cycle of learning? So I often want to
- 30:27hear it. Is is there that notion, or is more of a notion
- 30:30of we failed, that sucked, you suck,
- 30:35Devon Morris: yeah. All
- 30:36Brandon Raines: right, let's go again. So I'm listening for
- 30:40those two, those two things,
- 30:44Devon Morris: I I like it. I love it. I even wrote down a
- 30:46couple here because it just leads into the next thing I'm
- 30:49going to ask you. And again, there are many leaders on a
- 30:56team, right? There's team leaders on a team. There's
- 30:59leaders that are external to the team, so any kind of leader
- 31:04here. Okay, what questions do you ask that? I just I just
- 31:14asked you that, right? I'm about to ask you that again. What
- 31:18tells you the team knows something the leader doesn't.
- 31:22That's what I really want to ask you. How do you know that? What
- 31:26tells you that?
- 31:31Brandon Raines: You know what? The biggest tell is body
- 31:33language. So I. I mean, you know,
- 31:37Devon Morris: literally when I say to you, when I say to you, I
- 31:39wrote down body language is one of those things I wanted to ask
- 31:42about. I wrote it right here, and I said to myself, "I'm not
- 31:47gonna bring that up. We're gonna see. And you brought it up, so
- 31:50great, great minds think alike. Continue that. Continue that
- 31:53thread.
- 31:54Brandon Raines: Yeah, I love, I love to be able to sit and see
- 31:59the shifts in the seat for you know, this kind of thing, or you
- 32:07know, or the the head going down motions that I sometimes see, or
- 32:16you know, the opposite of that of the perk ups, right? Or you
- 32:20know, hmm, ah, the ohs and the ahs, those all matter. Like I,
- 32:27there's some teams that we're in person. There's some teams that
- 32:30you know kind of work remotely. Most of the teams I work with
- 32:33right now are are physically located with each other.
- 32:38Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 32:38Brandon Raines: but sometimes we still get on you know these
- 32:42video conferences, and I will often encourage folks, even if
- 32:46you aren't on camera, come off of mute. And I will often say
- 32:50the O's and the A's tell a whole story, right? So they do. Let's
- 32:56hear them.
- 32:58Devon Morris: You know what's what's beautiful about what's
- 32:59beautiful about what you just said is you and I just did that
- 33:03presentation in terms of APA, right? And we we had never done
- 33:10a presentation together before, and nobody in that room would
- 33:13ever guess that. But here's what I recognized with you
- 33:19specifically that made me be able to ease my soul, right? Is
- 33:25that you were observing the room, you were looking at body
- 33:33language, you was listening, you was present, and what that did
- 33:40is that helped us with the pacing in the class. So as I saw
- 33:45you doing that, I became less worried about the time because I
- 33:51knew you was pacing it appropriately. You look at them
- 33:55and you saying that oh they're engaged in this. Let's go a
- 33:58little thread longer here. Okay, okay. Now we need to take that
- 34:01back and get them moving a little bit faster. And being
- 34:04able to control that when you're doing a presentation with 7500
- 34:08people in a room is what I saw that you were able to do. I do
- 34:14it. I'm looking at you. I'm just like this. This is part of the
- 34:19reason why nobody could ever recognize that that was our
- 34:23first time doing a presentation again.
- 34:27Brandon Raines: Yeah, so us working together, it was magical
- 34:32and it was really intentional. Because one of the intentional
- 34:35parts about it was we established our relationship,
- 34:39Devon Morris: yeah, yeah,
- 34:40Brandon Raines: our rapport, and quite frankly, the most
- 34:43important relationship to me in that room was the one between
- 34:46us.
- 34:47Devon Morris: Yes.
- 34:47Brandon Raines: Secondary was everybody else, right? That was
- 34:49going to happen as long as us, our thing together was
- 34:53happening, and it happened. It happened, right? It happened in
- 34:57a great way. Happening now, right? Like, and I think what
- 35:02you pointed it out is being able to pay attention to each other
- 35:06and be generous with each other, and and having an understanding
- 35:09of where each other is coming from and be additive, right?
- 35:12It's like that whole yes and improv thing that happens, and
- 35:16part and a lot of that is you want to make the other person
- 35:20and therefore the relationship better.
- 35:23Devon Morris: Yeah. How long? You know, it's one of those
- 35:26things when you're in room, and and this is a question. This is
- 35:29a question, right? How long before you usually know what's
- 35:34actually going on? You know, after you kind of sit with that
- 35:38team or get with that team initially, how long does it
- 35:41really take for you to kind of start to see those threads?
- 35:47Brandon Raines: So I'm just gonna put some disclaimers out
- 35:50here. Yeah, that my answer today is very different from my answer
- 35:55five years ago, 10 years ago, 15 years ago. Right. Okay. Let me
- 36:00just say that to everybody out there. Now,
- 36:02Devon Morris: now you got to say that because you've written
- 36:04books, which means that comes with perspectives. So, I'm with
- 36:08you. I'm with you. I'm with you. Go ahead.
- 36:14Brandon Raines: Yeah, and so experience experience counts for
- 36:17a whole lot, and practice counts for a whole lot.
- 36:20Devon Morris: Yes,
- 36:23Brandon Raines: it's it's usually there are some times
- 36:26where I can figure it out in the first encounter. Yeah, the the
- 36:30first one and and and more disclaimer, right? I always
- 36:34reserve. Okay, that was my first encounter. That was my first
- 36:38contact with with this system that might be. Let me reserve a
- 36:43little bit of maybe I misread something. Yeah. But usually
- 36:48it's pretty fast. Usually it's it's hours, days, maybe
- 36:54depending on how big the organization is. But now it's
- 36:58it's pretty darn fast.
- 37:00Devon Morris: Yeah, I I would say you know I agree with you
- 37:04and and pretty much with me it's it's um it's I just pressed the
- 37:08clap button by mistake, but that was a great answer. With me,
- 37:15it's the it's the first impression.
- 37:17Brandon Raines: Yeah,
- 37:18Devon Morris: because the first impression starts to give you
- 37:20something, right? Yeah, and it becomes part of the throughline.
- 37:24You can even start seeing who's trying too hard, right? Who's
- 37:27really the teacher's head? You can start seeing all kinds of
- 37:30things in the in the initial handshake, in the initial intro.
- 37:36You can start seeing those things immediately if you're
- 37:40listening,
- 37:42Brandon Raines: yeah,
- 37:43Devon Morris: and unfortunately, a lot of people aren't
- 37:46listening, and that's that's where they don't catch it.
- 37:51That's where they don't see it. And I think one of the biggest
- 37:54distinctions with you, maybe with me, is you listen.
- 37:59Brandon Raines: Definitely with you. Definitely with you. Yeah,
- 38:03you can go ahead and say it.
- 38:07Devon Morris: I can go ahead and claim that one. Now you know,
- 38:09but but but a lot of people don't, and and you can you can
- 38:12you can see it like like you can tell the distinction between
- 38:20really good coaches and ones that aren't as good, and it's
- 38:24probably a throughline through all that for me. And it starts
- 38:29off with active listening.
- 38:31Brandon Raines: Absolutely, absolutely. And you know,
- 38:34there's and there's different levels of it. It's kind of like
- 38:36what you were describing when we were in the room at APA, right?
- 38:39There's different levels of listening. There's the us
- 38:43listening to each other. Yes. There's us listening to you know
- 38:47the room, and you know for us, there's stuff happening outside
- 38:51the room too. Yeah. And so being able to be aware of all those
- 38:55all those different levels of what's happening, and being able
- 38:58to integrate that, aggregate that, and then be responsive in
- 39:02the moment. It's a thing, and you know. So I think one one
- 39:08thing that I have stolen, or I have found it super helpful, is
- 39:13I think I think it was I think it was that book Blink that I
- 39:20read when I first learned about these folks, the Gottmans, and
- 39:24they're like these super-they're big heads in the world of
- 39:27relationships, particularly romantic relationships. And I
- 39:31think I might be screwing up the statistics here, but I think
- 39:34that they were able-they were-they were saying that
- 39:37effectively they can tell within a blink whether or not a couple
- 39:42would end in divorce or be successful 85% of the time,
- 39:47listening to one conversation that they had, and if and it was
- 39:52it was mostly about what we talked about before. It was like
- 39:55tone: how do they talk to each other? How do they answer each
- 39:58other? It's all of those. Things and I've started to try to
- 40:01integrate that as much as possible. Is look at the body
- 40:04language, listen to the tone, listen how they talk with each
- 40:08other, and you can tell kind of the state. You can give you
- 40:11clues at least into the state or the health of a relationship,
- 40:15and perhaps even extrapolate a little bit out.
- 40:18Devon Morris: Yeah, I, I, you know, I agree with you 10,000%
- 40:21and you know I I remember the days of doing a lot lot of CSM
- 40:26trainings, and when we went into the pandemic and had to go home
- 40:31and was doing everything virtually, me not being able to
- 40:35see somebody's foot tapping on the ground something, and you
- 40:41know me being able to adjust myself to go really have a more
- 40:45personal conversation with them as I'm training everyone in the
- 40:49room. You you mix you you miss out on things like that when you
- 40:53don't have that body. You don't you're not able to listen to
- 40:56those cues, that body language, things like that. So I agree
- 41:01with you wholeheartedly. I absolutely love the answer, but
- 41:05we don't stop there because I got a I got another solid
- 41:07question for you, right? So then here's the deal, right? Here's
- 41:10the deal because you and I know it ain't always the team,
- 41:18Brandon Raines: right?
- 41:18Devon Morris: So what do you do when the leader is the gap?
- 41:30Brandon Raines: That's tough. It's really tough. One of the
- 41:33things that one of the things that I try really, really hard
- 41:38is developing a relationship with that leader, in order for
- 41:43me to get to the point where you know we can have the convers, we
- 41:46can have the real conversations about can I be a mirror for you?
- 41:51You know, can I hold up a mirror in front of you and give you
- 41:54some observations of what I see? You not agree with me, but we
- 41:59need to at least get to the point where we can have that
- 42:01conversation, and you you think about it, and perhaps even get
- 42:05to the point again, stolen kind of thing. This is my horse
- 42:09training coming out. Is what's the 2% truth? If you don't if
- 42:12you don't think I'm 100% true, could you even consider that I
- 42:16might be 2% true about something? Did we get some
- 42:22answers?
- 42:26Devon Morris: I absolutely love that. I I agree with you, and I
- 42:29would say to you, it's probably the same thing that that I'm
- 42:32doing is I'm getting to know the leader, you know, and and
- 42:38building that really truly transparent. I shoot from the
- 42:43hip, you know. So I'm a straight shooter. So people, you know,
- 42:47kind of lean into that honesty and they latch onto it. And I'm
- 42:53always going to be really, truly transparent and shoot from the
- 42:56hip. So it's going to be sometimes a little bit rough,
- 43:00but it's going to be honest, right? It's not going to be
- 43:01anything in negative kind of way. But yeah, yeah, yeah. It's
- 43:06tough when it's the leader that's the problem. Like it can
- 43:09be really tough, right?
- 43:12Brandon Raines: And I think that's a real superpower for
- 43:14you, Devon. Like you have that ability of being really honest
- 43:18with folks, and people really respond to it, and I think for
- 43:21leaders in particular, they look for that, right? They need it.
- 43:25This is why you get hired, right? Is give give it to me,
- 43:29tell me, right? Like let's have this real conversation. So yeah,
- 43:34yeah, I think that ability to cut right through that is is a
- 43:36real superpower for you.
- 43:38Devon Morris: Yeah, and and that um, it it does mean I don't get
- 43:43all the big big contracts like the big gigantic boys out lie
- 43:47about things, but hey, I'd rather live on my honesty and
- 43:51come back another day. You know, when you need something else,
- 43:54right? So I think that's good. So then here's the deal, right?
- 43:57So what what I don't want is as I don't want this to be all
- 44:01about complaining and talking about problems. We diagnose some
- 44:04things. So then, let's kind of turn. What changes once they
- 44:10start seeing things, seeing it in the right kind of way, right?
- 44:15What happens in a leader when That diagnosis, the mirroring,
- 44:24right, finally lands. Yeah.
- 44:30Brandon Raines: So a couple of things. One is again, I go back
- 44:32to looking at listening to tone, listening to body language. So
- 44:37what I start to see is people start coming in with their chest
- 44:41up, you know, with their head up, I see smiles more often
- 44:45because it's like, all right, this is a better place to come
- 44:47into every day because everybody wants to do that. Again, we
- 44:50talked about that before, right? At the top, is you want to come
- 44:54into work and feel good? You don't want to come into work or
- 44:56like, oh my god, here's another day.
- 45:00Devon Morris: Very true.
- 45:02Brandon Raines: Yeah, yeah. And you want to look around and go,
- 45:04all right, I don't need this to be a family. I don't need these
- 45:07to be my best friends. But I would like to work with people
- 45:10every single day that I can trust. You know, that I know
- 45:13will do a good job. That will try as hard as they can. That
- 45:17will still have. You know, there will still be some things where
- 45:21we we we don't do it as planned. We fail. We learn together. We
- 45:25keep going. So I tend to see the body language change. I tend to
- 45:30hear the tones change, and then the data supports it. The data
- 45:34of what the team actually does supports it. I often I often
- 45:40will say, "Hey, I feel like I'm successful if you get promoted.
- 45:44So you get promoted, fantastic.
- 45:49Devon Morris: You you know one of one, but but the the the
- 45:51thing for you that is different in saying that, and I can say
- 45:56that I can say that because I'm the same way in many ways, I'm
- 46:05I'm making sure you understand I'm not a threat. You know,
- 46:09yeah. I want to see. You know, I feel like there is a big enough
- 46:15planet for us to exist in, and and us all to get everything
- 46:20that we desire, right? And so, whatever it is that's out there
- 46:25for you, I don't have to be mad because you achieved it or
- 46:29you're working to get it. And what can I do to help you get
- 46:32there? Like, I like when you say that because when you do that
- 46:35for people, man, they will run through brick walls for you.
- 46:42Brandon Raines: Yeah, absolutely. You know, a big goal
- 46:47for me is to make it better. Like I first started doing, I
- 46:50first started getting into coaching, honestly, kicking and
- 46:53screaming because true, my my true nature is to be techy, to
- 46:58be a developer. That's like that stuff still plays a huge role
- 47:02even in my coaching, and part of a big part of impetus for me
- 47:05coaching is I wanted to make the world a little bit better for
- 47:09software development because I experienced the suck, right?
- 47:12Like this has got to be better, and if I can contribute in a way
- 47:17to make this better for other individuals, teams, I'm. I'll do
- 47:23it. I'll do it. I'll try. I'll try at least.
- 47:27Devon Morris: Yeah, no, I, I, I agree with that. You know, it's
- 47:32just a. I'm, I'm an introvert with all all extroverted facets,
- 47:39right? So for most people, I don't look like an introvert at
- 47:43all, but they don't see me when I check out, right? So it's just
- 47:46one of those things where I completely understand and I
- 47:50really get that nature because it's something that I deal with
- 47:54right on a regular basis. So then, when you when you think
- 48:00about this this turning of the ship. What is the first thing
- 48:06that they should do differently?
- 48:18Brandon Raines: You know, I so want to give you a different
- 48:20answer, but listen is really the answer.
- 48:28Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 48:28Brandon Raines: you know it really is. There's for me. I I
- 48:32see this personally. I see this professionally. Is having this
- 48:37ability to listen to someone to try at least to understand where
- 48:44they're coming from, and then follow that up by a little bit
- 48:50of curiosity.
- 48:51Yeah,
- 48:54I I've just seen it do wonders because as a really good friend
- 48:58of mine often reminds me of, especially when I get
- 49:02frustrated, is context is everything, and it explains a
- 49:07many of behaviors. So when you understand the context around,
- 49:15you know why somebody did something, what somebody did, it
- 49:20opens up so many doors to so many things, and you will just
- 49:24have these. Oh, that's why you did that. Yeah. Oh, I didn't
- 49:28realize that. Oh, dude, that's not what we were trying to do.
- 49:32Come on, let me let me be a little bit more clear about what
- 49:35we were trying to do. Let's let's turn this around. Let's do
- 49:38something different.
- 49:40Devon Morris: Well, I I I love it, and and and I I love the
- 49:45answer, even though it's repeated. It's not a problem
- 49:48because I think it's the best answer. So, when I think about
- 49:51that listening part, I really think about it as being the
- 49:54smallest change that can produce the biggest shift, right?
- 49:57Brandon Raines: Yeah.
- 49:58Devon Morris: However. You mentioned things that come after
- 50:03after listening, and one of the things that you mentioned,
- 50:08because this takes some effort,
- 50:14Brandon Raines: yeah,
- 50:14Devon Morris: is curiosity,
- 50:16Brandon Raines: yeah.
- 50:19Devon Morris: What is an example that you can give us of moving
- 50:25from that listening to being curious.
- 50:34Brandon Raines: You mean like a real life story or an example of
- 50:37how to get to be curious?
- 50:39Devon Morris: I'd rather go with it. I want to go with both,
- 50:42right? Let's start off with a short story. What do you got?
- 50:44Whatever. Start off with a story, and then what the nugget
- 50:48that's in there is what I want to talk about.
- 50:52Brandon Raines: Yeah. Hmm. So here's where I often, and and
- 51:04maybe this fits in with the theme too of what we're talking
- 51:07about is I will often hear from leaders. I remember at least one
- 51:13leader saying, "Hey, we're not moving fast enough, and I I ask,
- 51:19"Well, what does fast enough mean? And they were saying,
- 51:23"Well, I we haven't we haven't actually delivered anything in a
- 51:27few months. And when I asked the team, "Hey, what what do you all
- 51:32think we've delivered? and they said, "Hey, we actually
- 51:35delivered a few things that were that maintained the system.
- 51:39Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 51:40Brandon Raines: and I don't think the leader understood that
- 51:42they didn't know that, and they didn't know that these a couple
- 51:46of these maintenance items, if if they didn't do that, they
- 51:50would have produced gigantic security holes. Yeah. It one it
- 51:56was a license that was expiring, and if that license had expired,
- 52:00it would have crippled the entire system,
- 52:02Devon Morris: yeah.
- 52:03Brandon Raines: And but but the team didn't really explain that
- 52:06stuff with clarity, and so just being a little curious and
- 52:12asking like the one more question of what do you all
- 52:16think has been delivered at the team side, and then having an
- 52:20understanding from the leader, what what does delivery mean?
- 52:24What does releases? What are those things? I think it just
- 52:27opens up the door to have some understanding, and then again,
- 52:30pulling those conversations together so they can have those
- 52:33conversations together. It was a lot of aha moments for them. So
- 52:38I think that's the for me the the technique is asking the the
- 52:42secondary question, combined with having a little bit of
- 52:47courage. This is a this is a practice for me. Yeah, is right.
- 52:53This is this is the the good old Southern boy in me who always
- 52:58wants to be polite.
- 53:00Devon Morris: Yeah,
- 53:01Brandon Raines: doesn't want to offend, but has to really muster
- 53:04up the courage to be able to say, "Hey, don't make
- 53:08assumptions here. Ask the question, and it's okay if the
- 53:13person in front of you goes, 'I don't either. I don't understand
- 53:18your question, or that might not be the right question. It's
- 53:22okay. You'll figure out the better question after that. But
- 53:26you've learned so much by hearing that. But more more
- 53:29often than not, it's the right question, and usually the
- 53:34response is, "Oh wow, that's a good question. Let me think
- 53:37about it, and it opens up so many doors.
- 53:40Devon Morris: You know, man. Let me tell you. This is this is
- 53:42crazy because I'm thinking about what you just said, right? And I
- 53:47have been with clients, with teams, and my way to start off
- 53:55that curiosity has been at times. That's stupid. And then
- 54:03the question comes after that, and I get just lots of
- 54:07information, right? I can't do with everybody, right? Because
- 54:10some people be totally destroyed, right? But literally,
- 54:13it's like, okay, that's really dumb. That doesn't make any
- 54:15sense. So here's the question, and then I get way more out of
- 54:20them, because I just took away all. I guess the professional
- 54:24courtesy. So that curiosity thing, though, man, is amazing.
- 54:29It's like the best way that I can phrase it up to just take it
- 54:33out of the work world for just a second, right? Understanding
- 54:40people who have a different sexual identity than myself.
- 54:47Boom! If you don't understand it, if you don't understand what
- 54:51that's about, if you would use a little bit of curiosity to learn
- 54:56more about that, I remember when um. When I was at an
- 55:01organization and I first started working with people from India,
- 55:05and one of the things that I didn't understand was why they
- 55:11were acting the way that they were acting. So I started
- 55:15learning about the culture, curiosity, asking them
- 55:17questions, right? The caste system, those kind of things,
- 55:21and it helped me tremendously when I spent a lot of time
- 55:25there, right? So you know, it's like okay, I see a guy that's
- 55:29standing in the bathroom the entire time we're in this
- 55:32building. Well, he was an untouchable. Understanding that
- 55:37was important, but how do you understand that if you don't
- 55:39have any curiosity, right? So, I, I, I'm with you, man. I'm
- 55:45with you. I'm with you completely. So then, here's the
- 55:48here's the question. So, what do leaders do at the moment that
- 56:00there's a setback, even if it's small.
- 56:09Brandon Raines: Figure out what they could do better to
- 56:12articulate the issue better, and then again, it really it comes
- 56:17back to, hey, here was a setback. Let's acknowledge that.
- 56:23Let's all acknowledge that this was a setback. Here's why it was
- 56:27a setback. Let's figure out. Let's figure out together why
- 56:32why it was a setback. What should we do differently next
- 56:35time? Like for me, those are the steps.
- 56:38Devon Morris: Yeah. No. Identify
- 56:39Brandon Raines: it. Acknowledge it. Delve into why. Now let's
- 56:43figure out what should we do differently.
- 56:45Devon Morris: Not as true gap analysis, right? So I we love
- 56:49that. So then, then in a lot of these situations, there are
- 56:53leaders who have messed up already when it comes to that
- 56:58moment and that setback has happened, or they messed up
- 57:01because they didn't diagnose the team appropriately. How do you
- 57:06rebuild a team's trust after things have gone wrong? And and
- 57:12you're the blank. You're part of the blank.
- 57:15Brandon Raines: I think you you start first with acknowledging
- 57:17that is my bad, and here's why it's my bad. Like, don't just
- 57:25don't don't just say my bad because it can come off as lip
- 57:28service sometimes, right? Like, like be earnest with it and say
- 57:31why. Here's why. Here's what I would do differently next time.
- 57:35Here's where I need your help for next time. I think showing a
- 57:40little bit of vulnerability for leaders-it's a-it's a modeling
- 57:44thing too. Because what happens when when leaders model the
- 57:48vulnerability, then it makes it safer for everybody else. So
- 57:53that when, because everybody's going to make a mistake, whether
- 57:56or not you're an individual on the team or the team as a whole,
- 58:00a mistake is going to happen. It's inevitable.
- 58:04Devon Morris: Yes.
- 58:04Brandon Raines: And so I think the question becomes: When those
- 58:07mistakes happen, what is our response versus reaction around
- 58:11it? And I have seen that the more healthy thing is to be able
- 58:15to say to first of all fess up to it and say, "Hey, I made a
- 58:18mistake. Here's what happened.
- 58:22Devon Morris: I mean, if you if you don't, how do you really
- 58:26start to repair it?
- 58:28Brandon Raines: Yeah, exactly. I will tell you one of the things
- 58:30that drives me nuts are the fake apologies. The "I'm sorry if I
- 58:36offended you" apologies.
- 58:42Devon Morris: Yeah, that that that that that that's just like
- 58:44let me just pack up and go home today because this this is not
- 58:47gonna go right. That's keeping me. You're gonna
- 58:50Brandon Raines: reveal to the world if you want to drive me
- 58:52nuts. Nothing happens. Apologize that way.
- 58:58Devon Morris: Yeah, that that that you know I have these reset
- 59:00moments, man, and when I have a reset moment, everything is not
- 59:03going right during the day. I just got to go home and go to
- 59:05bed, and then wake up the next day and just kind of start over
- 59:08like I'm in the Matrix or something. So that's always the
- 59:11case for me, man. So realistically, that's really all
- 59:16the questions I really have. But I'm gonna ask you a final
- 59:19question as we start to close the show out, right? What would
- 59:25you tell a leader whose team is behind right now and knows it?
- 59:39Brandon Raines: I would tell them have a have a little self
- 59:43exploration first. Have I articulated to the team what the
- 59:49goals are and what success looks like? Have I positioned the team
- 59:55in a successful way? Do I have? Are there are there really.
- 1:00:00Truly, the skill sets needed for the team to be successful with
- 1:00:05the goals that that I just set and articulated. And if the
- 1:00:09answers to those things are no, you you have your start starter
- 1:00:13list for your homework to do.
- 1:00:16Devon Morris: I think that's sage advice, and so I agree with
- 1:00:21you completely, and that's really a good place for us to
- 1:00:25kind of start to shut this thing down. So here's the deal: where
- 1:00:30should people find you,
- 1:00:38Brandon Raines: Brandon? For some reason, that "We're in the
- 1:00:39Waldo" song is. I think the best way to reach me is is LinkedIn.
- 1:00:49LinkedIn. I am fairly active on LinkedIn. I think I respond
- 1:00:54pretty pretty well there. So if anybody's looking for me, look
- 1:00:58look for me on LinkedIn. That's probably the best way to do it
- 1:01:00now,
- 1:01:01Devon Morris: okay? Yeah, no. LinkedIn is a way to reach out
- 1:01:03to you, that's for sure. And then, is there anything's coming
- 1:01:08up for you that you would like to talk to the audience about?
- 1:01:15Oh,
- 1:01:15Brandon Raines: I could go on a long tirade about car racing and
- 1:01:19stuff, but I guess more germane to this particular topic. I
- 1:01:24think what I'm looking forward to is figuring out what is my
- 1:01:28next learning opportunity. You know, I I usually take this time
- 1:01:32right now to figure out. Okay, the the year's kind of ending,
- 1:01:36another year's kind of starting. Where else do I want to go off
- 1:01:40and and learn some stuff. So you know, I guess I'm asking. You
- 1:01:44know, fill me up. Tell me what. That's that's what I'm looking
- 1:01:48forward to. I'm looking forward to if there are any other
- 1:01:53speaking opportunities, certainly that you and I can do
- 1:01:55together. Yeah. Oh, I am very much looking forward to that. So
- 1:02:01yeah, I think that's I think that's a big. In
- 1:02:03Devon Morris: terms of learning, one of the ways people can learn
- 1:02:06is by securing one of your books. So, can you tell the
- 1:02:11audience your books?
- 1:02:14Brandon Raines: Well, I I will tell I will I will throw this
- 1:02:18out there on LinkedIn on LinkedIn Learning, I'm actually
- 1:02:22an instructor there, and so you can look me up. There is, there
- 1:02:28is. I may look a little different, so forgive me on that
- 1:02:30one. But the video is called "Characteristics of a Great
- 1:02:34Scrum Master. Check it out. Tell me what you think. I'd love to
- 1:02:40do a part two to that someday and get get get that up on
- 1:02:43LinkedIn, LinkedIn Learning, or somewhere else. But I'd love for
- 1:02:47you all to take a look at that and tell me what you think.
- 1:02:49Devon Morris: You should just do a part two anyway, man. Do a
- 1:02:53part two anyway, right? Just do a part two anyway, anyway, and
- 1:02:57just stream in a lot of that additional coaching stuff, a lot
- 1:03:01of the sage advice that you brought us here. So I will say
- 1:03:04to you, Brandon, this was an amazing conversation, brother. I
- 1:03:10couldn't thank you enough, man. Like that, like literally, like
- 1:03:15today is the day we're recording this is on the third. It was
- 1:03:20August the eighth when we actually did our presentation,
- 1:03:23so we haven't even had 30 days since we did our presentation.
- 1:03:26So I'm still riding high because of that. We talked about it. You
- 1:03:29are still riding high because of that. And one of the things I
- 1:03:32will tell you all in terms of the audience is there's a magic
- 1:03:37to having peers, like real true peers, people who you respect,
- 1:03:44and you can respect them from afar. But when you get an
- 1:03:48opportunity to do something with a peer, I can't name you
- 1:03:54something more magical. I can't. And Brandon is a peer. I
- 1:04:02appreciate you, man. Hats off to you. Thank you for joining us.
- 1:04:08Where every Tuesday and Thursday we work toward bridging the gap
- 1:04:13for teams that are behind.