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Note 64: What Are You Actually Waiting For? · Notes to Her

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  Hey,
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  girl.
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  Hey.
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  Welcome
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  back
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  to
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  Notes
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  to
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  her,
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  the
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  daily
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  pep
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  talk.
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  I'm
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  Yaya,
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  your
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  confidence
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  and
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  mindset
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  coach,
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  here
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  to
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  give
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  you
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  the
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  nudge
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  you
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  didn't
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  know
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  you
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  need
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  and
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  the
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  truth
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  you've
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  probably
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  been
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  avoiding.
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  And
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  this
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  note,
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  this
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  one
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  is
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  a
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  little
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  spicy
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  because
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  I
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  wanted
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  to
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  give
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  you
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  something
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  that
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  nobody
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  in
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  your
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  life
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  has
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  probably
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  asked
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  you
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  directly.
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  What
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  are
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  you
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  actually
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  waiting
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  for?
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  Not
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  the
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  polite
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  version
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  of
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  that
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  question.
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  Not
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  the
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  take
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  your
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  time,
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  there's
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  no
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  rush
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  version.
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  The
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  real
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  version,
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  the
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  one
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  that
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  looks
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  you
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  in
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  the
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  eye
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  and
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  says,
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  girl,
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  what
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  is
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  the
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  hold
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  up?
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  Now,
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  I
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  want
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  you
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  to
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  think
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  about
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  something
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  you've
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  been
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  putting
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  off.
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  Not
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  the
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  dishes,
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  not
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  the
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  email
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  that
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  you
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  keep
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  forgetting
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  to
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  send.
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  I
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  mean,
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  the
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  thing,
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  the
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  real
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  thing,
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  the
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  business
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  idea,
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  maybe
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  you've
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  been
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  sitting
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  on
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  for
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  two
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  years,
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  the
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  program
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  that
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  you
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  want
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  to
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  apply
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  for,
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  the
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  conversations
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  you've
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  been
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  rehearsing
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  in
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  your
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  head,
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  but
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  never
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  actually
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  having
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  the
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  investment
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  in
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  yourself
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  that
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  you
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  keep
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  saving
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  you're
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  gonna
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  make
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  when
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  things
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  settle
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  down.
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  How
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  long
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  have
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  you
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  been
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  waiting?
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  Six
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  months?
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  A
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  year?
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  Longer?
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  And
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  here's
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  what
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  I
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  really
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  wanna
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  know.
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  What
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  exactly
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  are
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  you
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  waiting
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  for?
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  Because
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  when
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  I
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  ask
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  women
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  this
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  question,
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  and
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  I
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  ask
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  it
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  a
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  lot,
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  the
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  answers
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  are
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  almost
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  always
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  some
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  version
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  of
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  the
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  same
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  things.
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  I'm
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  waiting
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  until
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  I
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  feel
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  ready.
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  I'm
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  waiting
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  until
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  I
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  have
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  more
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  time.
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  I'm
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  waiting
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  until
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  I
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  have
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  more
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  money.
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  I'm
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  waiting
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  until
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  things
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  calm
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  down.
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  I'm
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  waiting
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  until
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  I'm
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  more
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  confident.
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  And
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  I
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  say
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  this
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  with
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  so
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  much
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  love.
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  That
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  is
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  not
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  a
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  plan.
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  That
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  is
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  a
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  waiting
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  room.
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  And
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  the
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  problem
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  with
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  waiting
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  rooms
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  is
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  that
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  nobody
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  ever
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  calls
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  your
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  name.
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  You
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  have
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  to
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  get
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  up
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  and
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  walk
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  through
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  that
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  door
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  yourself.
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  Now,
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  let
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  me
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  tell
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  you
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  something
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  that
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  changed
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  everything
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  for
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  me.
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  Ready
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  is
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  not
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  a
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  feeling
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  that
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  you
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  arrive
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  to.
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  Ready
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  is
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  a
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  decision
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  you
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  make.
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  I
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  spent
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  a
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  long
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  time
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  waiting
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  to
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  feel
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  ready,
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  waiting
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  to
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  feel
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  confident
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  enough,
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  prepared
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  enough,
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  certain
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  enough.
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  And
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  eventually
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  I
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  figured
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  out
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  the
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  hard
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  way
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  that
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  that
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  feeling
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  of
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  readiness
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  doesn't
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  come
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  before
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  action.
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  It
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  comes
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  after.
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  You
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  don't
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  feel
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  ready
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  and
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  then
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  do
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  the
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  thing.
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  You
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  do
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  the
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  thing
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  and
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  then
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  you
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  feel
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  ready.
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  The
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  confidence
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  is
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  on
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  the
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  other
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  side
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  of
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  the
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  step,
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  not
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  the
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  prerequisite
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  for
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  taking
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  it.
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  And
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  I
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  know
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  that
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  that
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  might
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  feel
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  counterintuitive
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  because
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  everything
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  in
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  us
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  wants
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  to
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  be
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  prepared
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  before
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  we
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  make
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  the
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  move.
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  We
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  want
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  the
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  certainty,
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  we
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  want
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  the
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  guarantee.
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  We.
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  We
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  want
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  someone
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  to
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  tell
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  us
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  it's
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  going
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  to
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  work
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  out
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  before
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  we
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  put
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  ourselves
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  on
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  the
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  line.
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  But
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  that's
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  not
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  how
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  growth
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  works.
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  The
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  women
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  who
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  are
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  where
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  they
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  Want
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  to
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  be
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  the
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  ones
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  building
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  things,
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  leading
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  things,
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  living
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  out
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  loud.
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  They
• 3:22
  didn't
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  wait
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  until
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  they
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  felt
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  ready.
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  They
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  were
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  scared.
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  They
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  were
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  uncertain.
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  They
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  had
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  doubts.
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  Just
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  like
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  you.
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  They
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  just
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  decided
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  that
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  waiting
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  was
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  costing
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  them
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  more
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  than
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  moving.
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  And
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  that's
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  the
• 3:36
  decision
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  that
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  I'm
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  asking
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  you
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  to
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  make
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  today.
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  get
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  real
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  with
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  you
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  for
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  a
• 3:42
  second,
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  because
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  the
• 3:44
  weight
• 3:44
  doesn't
• 3:45
  feel
• 3:45
  expensive.
• 3:46
  That's
• 3:46
  the
• 3:47
  thing.
• 3:47
  It
• 3:47
  feels
• 3:47
  safe.
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  It
• 3:48
  feels
• 3:48
  responsible.
• 3:49
  It
• 3:49
  feels
• 3:50
  like
• 3:50
  you're
• 3:50
  being
• 3:50
  smart
• 3:50
  and
• 3:51
  strategic
• 3:51
  and
• 3:51
  not
• 3:52
  rushing
• 3:52
  into
• 3:52
  things.
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  But
• 3:53
  let
• 3:54
  me
• 3:54
  tell
• 3:54
  you
• 3:54
  what
• 3:54
  the
• 3:54
  weight
• 3:55
  is
• 3:55
  actually
• 3:55
  costing
• 3:56
  you.
• 3:56
  It's
• 3:57
  costing
• 3:57
  you
• 3:57
  momentum.
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  Every
• 3:59
  day
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  that
• 3:59
  you
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  don't
• 4:00
  start
• 4:00
  is
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  a
• 4:01
  day
• 4:01
  that
• 4:01
  you
• 4:01
  have
• 4:01
  to
• 4:01
  start
• 4:02
  from
• 4:02
  the
• 4:02
  same,
• 4:02
  same
• 4:03
  place
• 4:03
  tomorrow.
• 4:04
  It's
• 4:04
  costing
• 4:05
  you
• 4:05
  confidence,
• 4:06
  because
• 4:06
  inaction
• 4:07
  sends
• 4:07
  your
• 4:07
  brain
• 4:07
  a
• 4:08
  message
• 4:09
  that
• 4:09
  says
• 4:09
  you
• 4:10
  don't
• 4:10
  trust
• 4:10
  yourself
• 4:10
  enough
• 4:11
  to
• 4:11
  move.
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  And
• 4:12
  the
• 4:12
  longer
• 4:12
  you
• 4:12
  wait,
• 4:13
  the
• 4:13
  louder
• 4:14
  that
• 4:14
  message
• 4:15
  gets.
• 4:17
  It's
• 4:17
  costing
• 4:18
  you
• 4:18
  the
• 4:18
  version
• 4:18
  of
• 4:18
  yourself
• 4:19
  that
• 4:19
  was
• 4:19
  supposed
• 4:20
  to
• 4:20
  emerge
• 4:21
  from
• 4:21
  doing
• 4:21
  the
• 4:22
  thing.
• 4:23
  Think
• 4:23
  about
• 4:23
  that
• 4:24
  one.
• 4:24
  The
• 4:25
  woman
• 4:25
  that
• 4:25
  you're
• 4:26
  becoming,
• 4:27
  the
• 4:27
  more
• 4:27
  confident,
• 4:28
  more
• 4:28
  decisive,
• 4:29
  more
• 4:29
  grounded
• 4:30
  version
• 4:30
  of
• 4:30
  you.
• 4:31
  She's
• 4:31
  built
• 4:32
  in
• 4:32
  the
• 4:32
  doing.
• 4:33
  She's
• 4:33
  not
• 4:34
  built
• 4:34
  in
• 4:34
  the
• 4:34
  waiting.
• 4:35
  Every
• 4:36
  time
• 4:36
  you
• 4:36
  delay,
• 4:37
  you
• 4:37
  postpone
• 4:38
  her.
• 4:40
  And
• 4:40
  here's
• 4:40
  the
• 4:40
  one
• 4:40
  that
• 4:41
  might
• 4:41
  sting
• 4:41
  a
• 4:42
  little
• 4:42
  bit.
• 4:43
  The
• 4:43
  weight
• 4:44
  is
• 4:44
  not
• 4:44
  protecting
• 4:45
  you.
• 4:45
  It's
• 4:46
  just
• 4:46
  making
• 4:46
  the
• 4:46
  fear
• 4:47
  comfortable.
• 4:49
  You've
• 4:49
  given
• 4:49
  fear
• 4:50
  a
• 4:50
  nice
• 4:50
  chair
• 4:51
  and
• 4:51
  a
• 4:51
  cup
• 4:52
  of
• 4:52
  tea
• 4:52
  and
• 4:52
  told
• 4:52
  it
• 4:53
  to
• 4:53
  make
• 4:53
  itself
• 4:54
  at
• 4:54
  home.
• 4:54
  And
• 4:55
  it
• 4:55
  has.
• 4:56
  And
• 4:56
  now
• 4:56
  it's
• 4:56
  running
• 4:57
  your
• 4:57
  schedule.
• 4:58
  But
• 4:58
  it's
• 4:58
  time
• 4:59
  that
• 4:59
  you
• 4:59
  ask
• 4:59
  Spirit
• 5:00
  to
• 5:00
  leave.
• 5:02
  Okay,
• 5:02
  I
• 5:02
  need
• 5:02
  to
• 5:03
  address
• 5:03
  something,
• 5:04
  because
• 5:04
  I
• 5:04
  know
• 5:04
  that
• 5:05
  some
• 5:05
  of
• 5:05
  you
• 5:05
  are
• 5:05
  listening
• 5:06
  to
• 5:06
  this
• 5:06
  and
• 5:06
  nodding
• 5:06
  along
• 5:07
  and
• 5:07
  also
• 5:08
  quietly
• 5:08
  making
• 5:08
  a
• 5:08
  list
• 5:09
  of
• 5:09
  the
• 5:09
  very
• 5:10
  valid
• 5:10
  reasons
• 5:11
  why
• 5:11
  your
• 5:11
  situation
• 5:12
  is
• 5:12
  different.
• 5:13
  So
• 5:13
  let
• 5:13
  me
• 5:13
  go
• 5:14
  ahead
• 5:14
  and
• 5:14
  name
• 5:14
  a
• 5:14
  few
• 5:15
  of
• 5:15
  them.
• 5:17
  I
• 5:17
  don't
• 5:17
  have
• 5:17
  enough
• 5:17
  money
• 5:18
  right
• 5:18
  now.
• 5:19
  Okay.
• 5:20
  When
• 5:21
  will
• 5:21
  you
• 5:21
  have
• 5:21
  enough?
• 5:22
  What's
• 5:23
  the
• 5:23
  number?
• 5:24
  What's
• 5:24
  the
• 5:24
  date?
• 5:25
  Because
• 5:25
  if
• 5:25
  you
• 5:26
  don't
• 5:26
  have
• 5:26
  a
• 5:26
  specific
• 5:26
  answer
• 5:27
  to
• 5:27
  that
• 5:27
  question,
• 5:28
  that's
• 5:28
  not
• 5:29
  a
• 5:29
  reason.
• 5:29
  That's
• 5:30
  a
• 5:30
  moving
• 5:30
  target
• 5:31
  designed
• 5:31
  to
• 5:32
  stay
• 5:32
  just
• 5:33
  out
• 5:33
  of
• 5:33
  reach.
• 5:35
  I
• 5:35
  don't
• 5:35
  have
• 5:35
  enough
• 5:36
  time.
• 5:37
  You
• 5:37
  have
• 5:38
  time
• 5:38
  for
• 5:38
  what
• 5:39
  you
• 5:39
  prioritize.
• 5:40
  I'm
• 5:41
  not
• 5:41
  saying
• 5:41
  that
• 5:41
  your
• 5:41
  life
• 5:41
  is
• 5:42
  not
• 5:42
  busy.
• 5:43
  I'm
• 5:43
  saying
• 5:43
  that
• 5:43
  if
• 5:44
  this
• 5:44
  mattered
• 5:44
  as
• 5:45
  much
• 5:45
  as
• 5:45
  you
• 5:45
  say
• 5:45
  it
• 5:46
  does,
• 5:46
  you
• 5:47
  will
• 5:47
  find
• 5:47
  the
• 5:47
  time.
• 5:48
  Even
• 5:48
  if
• 5:49
  it's
• 5:49
  15
• 5:49
  to
• 5:50
  20
• 5:50
  minutes
• 5:50
  a
• 5:50
  day,
• 5:51
  even
• 5:51
  if
• 5:52
  it's
• 5:52
  one
• 5:52
  decision
• 5:53
  a
• 5:53
  week.
• 5:54
  Time
• 5:54
  is
• 5:55
  not
• 5:55
  an
• 5:55
  issue.
• 5:56
  Priority
• 5:57
  is.
• 5:58
  I'm
• 5:59
  not
• 5:59
  ready
• 5:59
  yet.
• 6:00
  We've
• 6:01
  already
• 6:01
  talked
• 6:01
  about
• 6:01
  this
• 6:02
  one.
• 6:02
  Ready
• 6:03
  is
• 6:03
  a
• 6:03
  decision,
• 6:03
  and
• 6:04
  you
• 6:04
  can
• 6:04
  make
• 6:04
  it.
• 6:05
  Right
• 6:05
  now,
• 6:07
  I
• 6:07
  need
• 6:07
  to
• 6:07
  do
• 6:08
  more
• 6:08
  research
• 6:08
  first.
• 6:09
  Sis,
• 6:10
  you
• 6:11
  have
• 6:11
  been
• 6:11
  researching
• 6:12
  for
• 6:12
  a
• 6:12
  year,
• 6:12
  maybe
• 6:13
  even
• 6:13
  longer.
• 6:14
  At
• 6:14
  some
• 6:14
  point,
• 6:15
  more
• 6:15
  information
• 6:16
  is
• 6:16
  just
• 6:16
  more
• 6:17
  delayed
• 6:18
  dressed
• 6:18
  up
• 6:18
  and
• 6:18
  productivity
• 6:19
  Clothes.
• 6:20
  These
• 6:20
  are
• 6:21
  not
• 6:21
  reasons.
• 6:22
  They
• 6:22
  are
• 6:22
  fear
• 6:22
  in
• 6:23
  a
• 6:23
  trench
• 6:23
  coat,
• 6:23
  pretending
• 6:24
  to
• 6:24
  be
• 6:24
  logic.
• 6:25
  And
• 6:26
  you're
• 6:26
  smarter
• 6:26
  than
• 6:26
  that.
• 6:28
  I
• 6:29
  don't
• 6:29
  want
• 6:29
  you
• 6:29
  to
• 6:29
  walk
• 6:29
  away
• 6:30
  from
• 6:30
  this
• 6:30
  thinking
• 6:30
  that
• 6:30
  I'm
• 6:31
  telling
• 6:31
  you
• 6:31
  to
• 6:31
  be
• 6:31
  reckless.
• 6:32
  By
• 6:32
  no
• 6:32
  means
• 6:33
  am
• 6:33
  I
• 6:33
  telling
• 6:33
  you
• 6:34
  to
• 6:34
  do
• 6:34
  that
• 6:34
  or
• 6:35
  to
• 6:35
  even
• 6:35
  quit
• 6:35
  your
• 6:35
  job
• 6:36
  today.
• 6:36
  I
• 6:37
  am
• 6:37
  not
• 6:37
  telling
• 6:37
  you
• 6:37
  to
• 6:37
  blow
• 6:38
  up
• 6:38
  your
• 6:38
  savings
• 6:38
  or
• 6:39
  skip
• 6:39
  the
• 6:40
  planning
• 6:40
  process
• 6:40
  entirely
• 6:41
  because
• 6:42
  I'm
• 6:42
  a
• 6:42
  planner.
• 6:43
  I.
• 6:43
  I'm
• 6:43
  telling
• 6:43
  you
• 6:44
  to
• 6:44
  take
• 6:44
  one
• 6:44
  step,
• 6:46
  just
• 6:46
  one.
• 6:47
  Because
• 6:47
  here's
• 6:48
  what
• 6:48
  I've
• 6:48
  learned
• 6:49
  and
• 6:49
  what
• 6:49
  I've
• 6:50
  watched
• 6:50
  play
• 6:50
  out
• 6:50
  in
• 6:51
  the
• 6:51
  lives
• 6:51
  of
• 6:51
  women
• 6:51
  that
• 6:52
  I
• 6:52
  coach.
• 6:53
  The
• 6:53
  hardest
• 6:54
  part
• 6:54
  is
• 6:54
  never
• 6:54
  in
• 6:55
  the
• 6:55
  middle.
• 6:56
  It's
• 6:57
  never
• 6:57
  the
• 6:57
  fourth
• 6:58
  week
• 6:58
  or
• 6:58
  the
• 6:58
  third
• 6:59
  month
• 6:59
  or
• 6:59
  the
• 6:59
  halfway
• 7:00
  point.
• 7:01
  The
• 7:01
  hardest
• 7:02
  part
• 7:02
  is
• 7:02
  always
• 7:03
  the
• 7:03
  beginning.
• 7:04
  It's
• 7:04
  the
• 7:05
  first
• 7:05
  email,
• 7:06
  the
• 7:06
  first
• 7:06
  conversation,
• 7:08
  the
• 7:08
  first
• 7:08
  time
• 7:08
  you
• 7:09
  say
• 7:09
  out
• 7:09
  loud,
• 7:10
  I'm
• 7:10
  doing
• 7:10
  this.
• 7:12
  So
• 7:12
  that's
• 7:12
  all
• 7:13
  I'm
• 7:13
  asking
• 7:13
  you
• 7:13
  to
• 7:13
  do
• 7:14
  today.
• 7:15
  Not
• 7:15
  the
• 7:15
  whole
• 7:15
  thing.
• 7:16
  Not
• 7:16
  the
• 7:17
  perfect
• 7:17
  plan.
• 7:18
  Not
• 7:18
  the
• 7:19
  version
• 7:19
  where
• 7:19
  every
• 7:20
  detail
• 7:20
  is
• 7:20
  figured
• 7:21
  out
• 7:21
  and
• 7:21
  every
• 7:22
  risk
• 7:22
  is
• 7:22
  mitigated.
• 7:23
  Just
• 7:24
  the
• 7:24
  first
• 7:24
  step.
• 7:25
  What
• 7:26
  is
• 7:26
  one
• 7:26
  thing
• 7:26
  that
• 7:26
  you
• 7:27
  could
• 7:27
  do
• 7:27
  today,
• 7:28
  not
• 7:28
  tomorrow,
• 7:29
  today,
• 7:29
  that
• 7:30
  would
• 7:30
  move
• 7:30
  you
• 7:30
  an
• 7:31
  inch
• 7:31
  closer
• 7:31
  to
• 7:31
  the
• 7:32
  thing
• 7:32
  that
• 7:32
  you
• 7:32
  have
• 7:32
  been
• 7:32
  waiting
• 7:33
  to
• 7:33
  start.
• 7:35
  That
• 7:35
  thing.
• 7:36
  Do
• 7:36
  that
• 7:38
  now.
• 7:39
  I
• 7:39
  want
• 7:39
  you
• 7:39
  to
• 7:39
  sit
• 7:39
  with
• 7:40
  this
• 7:40
  question.
• 7:41
  If
• 7:42
  the
• 7:42
  version
• 7:42
  of
• 7:42
  you
• 7:42
  that
• 7:42
  you're
• 7:43
  becoming,
• 7:43
  the
• 7:43
  confident,
• 7:44
  decisive,
• 7:45
  fully
• 7:46
  stepped
• 7:46
  into
• 7:47
  herself
• 7:47
  woman,
• 7:48
  if
• 7:48
  she
• 7:49
  could
• 7:49
  look
• 7:49
  back
• 7:49
  at
• 7:49
  this
• 7:49
  moment
• 7:50
  right
• 7:50
  now,
• 7:51
  what
• 7:51
  would
• 7:51
  she
• 7:51
  say
• 7:52
  to
• 7:52
  you?
• 7:53
  Would
• 7:53
  she
• 7:54
  say,
• 7:54
  keep
• 7:54
  waiting?
• 7:55
  Or
• 7:55
  would
• 7:55
  she
• 7:55
  say,
• 7:56
  girl,
• 7:56
  what
• 7:57
  are
• 7:57
  you
• 7:57
  actually
• 7:58
  waiting
• 7:58
  for?
• 8:00
  You
• 8:00
  already
• 8:00
  know
• 8:01
  the
• 8:01
  answer.
• 8:03
  Stop
• 8:04
  waiting
• 8:04
  to
• 8:04
  feel
• 8:05
  ready.
• 8:05
  Stop
• 8:06
  waiting
• 8:06
  for
• 8:06
  the
• 8:06
  perfect
• 8:07
  moment.
• 8:08
  Stop
• 8:08
  waiting
• 8:08
  until
• 8:09
  you
• 8:09
  have
• 8:09
  more
• 8:09
  of
• 8:10
  whatever
• 8:10
  the
• 8:10
  thing
• 8:11
  is
• 8:11
  that
• 8:11
  you
• 8:11
  have
• 8:11
  convinced
• 8:12
  yourself
• 8:12
  that
• 8:12
  you
• 8:12
  need
• 8:13
  before
• 8:14
  you
• 8:14
  can
• 8:14
  begin.
• 8:15
  The
• 8:16
  moment
• 8:16
  is
• 8:17
  now.
• 8:17
  Not
• 8:18
  because
• 8:18
  everything
• 8:18
  is
• 8:18
  perfectly
• 8:19
  aligned,
• 8:19
  but
• 8:20
  because
• 8:20
  you
• 8:20
  are
• 8:20
  here
• 8:21
  and
• 8:21
  you
• 8:21
  have
• 8:21
  everything
• 8:22
  you
• 8:22
  need
• 8:23
  to
• 8:23
  take
• 8:23
  the
• 8:23
  next
• 8:23
  step.
• 8:24
  The
• 8:25
  cost
• 8:25
  of
• 8:25
  waiting
• 8:25
  is
• 8:26
  higher
• 8:26
  than
• 8:26
  the
• 8:26
  cost
• 8:27
  of
• 8:27
  moving.
• 8:28
  You
• 8:29
  didn't
• 8:29
  come
• 8:29
  this
• 8:29
  far
• 8:30
  to
• 8:30
  sit
• 8:30
  in
• 8:30
  a
• 8:31
  waiting
• 8:31
  room.
• 8:33
  The
• 8:33
  woman
• 8:34
  who
• 8:34
  moves
• 8:34
  wins.
• 8:35
  The
• 8:35
  woman
• 8:35
  who
• 8:36
  decides
• 8:36
  wins.
• 8:37
  The
• 8:37
  woman
• 8:38
  who
• 8:38
  bets
• 8:38
  on
• 8:38
  herself,
• 8:39
  even
• 8:39
  when
• 8:40
  it's
• 8:40
  scary,
• 8:41
  even
• 8:41
  when
• 8:41
  it's
• 8:42
  not
• 8:42
  perfect,
• 8:43
  even
• 8:43
  when
• 8:43
  she
• 8:44
  doesn't
• 8:44
  feel
• 8:44
  ready,
• 8:45
  she
• 8:46
  wins.
• 8:47
  Be
• 8:48
  that
• 8:48
  woman.
• 8:49
  And
• 8:50
  if
• 8:50
  you
• 8:50
  are
• 8:50
  ready
• 8:50
  to
• 8:51
  stop
• 8:51
  waiting
• 8:52
  and
• 8:52
  start
• 8:52
  doing
• 8:52
  the
• 8:53
  real
• 8:53
  work,
• 8:54
  becoming
• 8:54
  her
• 8:55
  unapologetically
• 8:56
  is
• 8:56
  your
• 8:56
  next
• 8:57
  step.
• 8:57
  It's
• 8:58
  four
• 8:58
  weeks,
• 8:59
  private
• 8:59
  and
• 8:59
  real
• 9:00
  shifts
• 9:00
  for
• 9:01
  the
• 9:01
  woman
• 9:01
  who
• 9:01
  is
• 9:02
  done
• 9:02
  waiting
• 9:02
  on
• 9:02
  the
• 9:02
  sidelines
• 9:03
  of
• 9:03
  her
• 9:03
  own
• 9:03
  life.
• 9:04
  Details
• 9:05
  are
• 9:05
  in
• 9:05
  the
• 9:05
  show
• 9:05
  notes.
• 9:06
  And
• 9:06
  I
• 9:06
  want
• 9:06
  to
• 9:06
  see
• 9:07
  you
• 9:07
  in
• 9:07
  there.
• 9:08
  With
• 9:08
  love,
• 9:09
  Yaya.