Latest / Your Enriched Self / 239. Three More Quarters
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- 0:16Speaker 1: Hello, my friends from all across the globe, and welcome
- 0:20Speaker 1: to your Enriched Self podcast. I am your host, Mi
- 0:24Speaker 1: Lee Noir. I am an emotional wellness and empowerment coach
- 0:29Speaker 1: and what that means is I am here for you.
- 0:31Speaker 1: I've created this platform, this space that we meet and
- 0:35Speaker 1: chat and discuss topics each and every week so that
- 0:39Speaker 1: you can become more of your enriched self. And this
- 0:43Speaker 1: podcast is all about not just what you say, but
- 0:47Speaker 1: where it comes from. And it all starts in your mind.
- 0:49Speaker 1: Every thought, everything that you're going to do in this
- 0:52Speaker 1: life starts with an initial thought, a seed that was planted.
- 0:57Speaker 1: And on this podcast, we find those seeds that were
- 1:00Speaker 1: planted and we nourish them or we uproot the things
- 1:04Speaker 1: that no longer serve you in this life. Because if
- 1:08Speaker 1: you are listening to this podcast, I know that you
- 1:11Speaker 1: want to be the best version of yourself. Now, if
- 1:15Speaker 1: you are new to this podcast, I want to welcome
- 1:17Speaker 1: you and thank you for being here, because I know
- 1:20Speaker 1: that you are brought here on purpose, for a purpose.
- 1:24Speaker 1: And if you are a repeat listener, thank you, thank you,
- 1:28Speaker 1: thank you. We are and have been podcasting now for
- 1:33Speaker 1: the last four years and we are over two hundred
- 1:39Speaker 1: and thirty five episodes. I believe we're episode two thirty nine.
- 1:44Speaker 1: So we have been doing this for quite some time.
- 1:47Speaker 1: And the only way I could we could do this,
- 1:51Speaker 1: because we're on a journey together, is with you. So
- 1:54Speaker 1: for those of you who've been listening for a long
- 1:58Speaker 1: time or even a short while, thank you. Because of you,
- 2:03Speaker 1: we have a podcast, we have a place to have
- 2:06Speaker 1: these very important conversations about you becoming more of your
- 2:11Speaker 1: enriched self. Now, one of the things I do on
- 2:13Speaker 1: this podcast, I've been doing it for a while, is
- 2:16Speaker 1: I make a deposit into the bank of you, because
- 2:19Speaker 1: what I don't want is for you to leave your space,
- 2:24Speaker 1: leave and go out into the world and not have
- 2:28Speaker 1: what you need and be bankrupt. And so I make
- 2:33Speaker 1: a deposit by way of affirmations. Affirmations are a great
- 2:38Speaker 1: way to start your day and to command your mourning.
- 2:43Speaker 1: And this week's affirmation is I reclaim my time, my focus,
- 2:51Speaker 1: and my goals. I reclaim my time, my focus, and
- 2:59Speaker 1: my goals. I reclaim my time, my focus, and my goals. Now,
- 3:11Speaker 1: let's get ready for this week's episode of the Your
- 3:15Speaker 1: Enriched Self Podcast. It's definitely March madness. Out there. I
- 3:31Speaker 1: think every Monday when I get back into the office,
- 3:35Speaker 1: somebody's talking about a weekend filled with sports and games
- 3:39Speaker 1: and basketball and you know, nail biders and hail Mary's
- 3:44Speaker 1: and all the things. I mean, we are feeling, we
- 3:47Speaker 1: are experiencing. We're watching March Madness, and it's like any
- 3:51Speaker 1: other season. There's always spoilers and underdogs coming up, and
- 3:56Speaker 1: it has been so inspiring to watch, to listen to.
- 3:59Speaker 1: Even I don't really watch a lot of it, but
- 4:02Speaker 1: recently I saw a clip that went viral and it
- 4:06Speaker 1: was a woman's basketball game in this Marsh Madness season,
- 4:10Speaker 1: and a coach and a young lady were on the sidelines,
- 4:14Speaker 1: and this coach was going off on this girl. I mean,
- 4:17Speaker 1: she was in her face. I mean, it's one of
- 4:20Speaker 1: those moments when somebody's that close in your face you
- 4:23Speaker 1: almost want to fight. But this was not a contentious situation.
- 4:27Speaker 1: This was not a situation that looked like it was
- 4:30Speaker 1: going to go in the wrong direction. You could see
- 4:34Speaker 1: this woman, this coach, this female speaking life into her player,
- 4:39Speaker 1: letting her know that I believe in you, I know
- 4:43Speaker 1: that you got this. It's in you. And she's pointing
- 4:45Speaker 1: at her and she's, like I said, she's in her face.
- 4:48Speaker 1: She's just like one breath away from being in this
- 4:52Speaker 1: girl's face. And it was such a powerful clip because
- 4:57Speaker 1: at the end of that game, when she sat down
- 5:01Speaker 1: for press and they asked her to recall that moment
- 5:05Speaker 1: on the sidelines while the game was happening live, while
- 5:09Speaker 1: coach was putting her back in, she said, I loved
- 5:14Speaker 1: to be coached. I love being coached. I love when
- 5:17Speaker 1: my coach coaches me in this way. And she said,
- 5:21Speaker 1: this exactly what I needed to get back in the game.
- 5:25Speaker 1: It was my reset moment. And I thought, for a second,
- 5:31Speaker 1: how many of us have a coach like that, someone
- 5:35Speaker 1: that will pull us off to the sidelines when things
- 5:38Speaker 1: are going in all the wrong directions, or the momentum
- 5:42Speaker 1: is not being sustained, and gets in our face and
- 5:47Speaker 1: speaks life over us and does it in such a profound,
- 5:53Speaker 1: a very strong, pressing way that you can go back
- 5:58Speaker 1: into whatever it is you gotta get back into with momentum,
- 6:03Speaker 1: with purpose, would refocus. I don't think a lot of
- 6:08Speaker 1: us have that, And today I want to give you
- 6:10Speaker 1: a version of that because I know life has happened.
- 6:17Speaker 1: I know that for some of you, you feel counted out.
- 6:21Speaker 1: Some of you feel disappointed in yourselves because your performance
- 6:27Speaker 1: is not up to par I want to help you
- 6:32Speaker 1: re energize yourself today. You might feel like you've fallen behind.
- 6:38Speaker 1: This episode is for you. Life has happened to you, Yes,
- 6:45Speaker 1: but that's not the end of your story. And let
- 6:47Speaker 1: me just restate this life has not happened to you.
- 6:52Speaker 1: It has happened for you because I promise you every setback,
- 6:59Speaker 1: every obstacle that you are dealing with, that you have overcome.
- 7:04Speaker 1: Sometimes we forget about the ones that we've overcome. It's
- 7:09Speaker 1: an opportunity for you to learn. And that's what I
- 7:14Speaker 1: want to talk about today. It's an opportunity for you
- 7:17Speaker 1: to get back in the game, just like that young
- 7:20Speaker 1: lady did. The first thing I want to think and
- 7:27Speaker 1: talk about today is the importance of rest. Sometimes listen,
- 7:33Speaker 1: we need to recharge. We need to recharge. It's an
- 7:38Speaker 1: opportunity to rest. And when I last checked, rest is
- 7:42Speaker 1: not failure. I think I have an episode way back when,
- 7:46Speaker 1: in the early days of this podcast talking about rest
- 7:50Speaker 1: being medicine. I still believe it. I know what rest
- 7:56Speaker 1: has done for me when I am down to the last.
- 8:00Speaker 1: Have you ever looked at your phone and you've seen
- 8:03Speaker 1: that last little battery bar. I can feel myself sometimes
- 8:08Speaker 1: on that last battery bar, and I know that in
- 8:12Speaker 1: order to get that recharge back up, I need to rest.
- 8:15Speaker 1: I mean, you put your phone down to rest or
- 8:18Speaker 1: recharge every night. Don't you think you need an opportunity
- 8:22Speaker 1: to recharge so that you're prepared to perform the next day.
- 8:27Speaker 1: You do that with your phone. You do that with
- 8:30Speaker 1: your car when you take it in to get an
- 8:31Speaker 1: oil change. Right, there are things that need to happen,
- 8:37Speaker 1: because if you don't address those things, you're going to
- 8:42Speaker 1: remain depleted. And that's why oftentimes you might be feeling
- 8:47Speaker 1: behind because you haven't prepared yourself to go to go
- 8:53Speaker 1: get it. And as I mentioned, life is happening. Life
- 8:58Speaker 1: has happened, and it will continue down that path. But
- 9:05Speaker 1: that doesn't disqualify you from what you were brought here
- 9:07Speaker 1: to do. It doesn't disqualify you from your purpose, It
- 9:11Speaker 1: doesn't disqualify you from your goals. I'm a big believer,
- 9:21Speaker 1: big believer in that a pause is not a failure,
- 9:29Speaker 1: It was not an avoidance. It could simply mean that
- 9:35Speaker 1: in order for you to thrive again in this season,
- 9:40Speaker 1: you need to go into survival mode. You might need
- 9:43Speaker 1: to protect yourself from something. So yeah, you might have
- 9:46Speaker 1: paused because you know that if you go down that path,
- 9:50Speaker 1: it's not going to give you or get you where
- 9:52Speaker 1: you need to go. Rest. As I mentioned, it is medicine,
- 9:59Speaker 1: but it is the opportunity. I want you to look
- 10:02Speaker 1: at it as also a recharge season because recharge is
- 10:08Speaker 1: going to help you to come back, as I mentioned, prepared,
- 10:12Speaker 1: but you will come back stronger, you will have a
- 10:15Speaker 1: clearer mind. And let me tell you what the clarity.
- 10:20Speaker 1: A lot of times when you're just going, going, going,
- 10:22Speaker 1: if you don't have any clarity, you're really going nowhere.
- 10:27Speaker 1: So that recharge is it goes hand in hand with clarity.
- 10:33Speaker 1: You are going to gain clarity from the recharge. And
- 10:40Speaker 1: that way now you can go into your world, into
- 10:43Speaker 1: your situation with more intentionality. You go with more intentionality,
- 10:53Speaker 1: you're more prepared, you are going to get results. That's
- 10:57Speaker 1: just how it is. You cannot pour from an empty cup,
- 11:04Speaker 1: you cannot drive a car that doesn't have any gas.
- 11:08Speaker 1: Why do you think that you can keep going if
- 11:12Speaker 1: you don't recharge. So my friends, I need you to recharge.
- 11:20Speaker 1: Years ago, many of you might have seen I think
- 11:25Speaker 1: it was a congressional hearing. And you know, in these
- 11:28Speaker 1: congressional hearings, they have a certain amount of time to
- 11:33Speaker 1: state their case and to ask questions and get answers
- 11:37Speaker 1: from whoever it is the disposition or the deposition is about, right.
- 11:41Speaker 1: So they might have a CEO of a company or
- 11:44Speaker 1: some person that they're interrogating, and they're trying to get
- 11:48Speaker 1: their point across. They're trying to show their constituents. Do
- 11:51Speaker 1: you see what I'm pointing out? Do you see all
- 11:53Speaker 1: of these inconsistencies? Right? And so there was a congresswoman
- 11:59Speaker 1: by the name of Maxine Waters, and what happened was
- 12:04Speaker 1: she was going through the process like all the other
- 12:06Speaker 1: congressional leaders before her, and working through having these questions
- 12:14Speaker 1: and in this deposition getting the information that she needed
- 12:18Speaker 1: because of whatever the case was. I can't even remember
- 12:20Speaker 1: all the details, but at some point there an argument ensued.
- 12:27Speaker 1: There was kind of a moment in her portion, because
- 12:31Speaker 1: again you get a window of time. There was another
- 12:35Speaker 1: I don't know, senator or someone who had recently spent
- 12:39Speaker 1: their time just reading names off of a list they
- 12:42Speaker 1: just used their time to do that. Well, she had
- 12:44Speaker 1: specifically designated her time to have a certain conversation and
- 12:50Speaker 1: get these responses so she can kind of close out
- 12:54Speaker 1: her argument right, and this individual spend time maybe spinning
- 13:02Speaker 1: their wheels or not quite getting to the answer. And
- 13:05Speaker 1: then there was a whole conversation that had occurred between
- 13:09Speaker 1: two other parties who were not part of her whole segment,
- 13:13Speaker 1: if you will, and before before you know it, this lady,
- 13:20Speaker 1: before she concludes, she said, listen, you used my time
- 13:26Speaker 1: for these things that were not what I wanted to
- 13:29Speaker 1: use my time for. So therefore I'm reclaiming my time.
- 13:37Speaker 1: And it became a meme and people started putting it
- 13:40Speaker 1: on T shirts and I actually bought the T shirt. Yes,
- 13:43Speaker 1: I had a T shirt that said reclaiming my time
- 13:46Speaker 1: and I want you all to reclaim your time, take
- 13:50Speaker 1: back the ownership of what is yours without shame. I
- 13:54Speaker 1: promise you. Maxine Waters did not have any shame in
- 14:00Speaker 1: reclaiming her time. Take a page out of her book.
- 14:05Speaker 1: If you feel you've let yourself down in this season,
- 14:09Speaker 1: if you feel like you are on the other side
- 14:11Speaker 1: of the wall, I need you to first of all,
- 14:15Speaker 1: you might be sitting on the other side of that wall,
- 14:19Speaker 1: you know, the obstacle wall, the challenge wall, the issue wall,
- 14:23Speaker 1: whatever it is that got you to sit down, had
- 14:27Speaker 1: you to be sat down. In this season, I need
- 14:30Speaker 1: you on that other side of the wall to get up. Yes,
- 14:34Speaker 1: you get up, stand up and reclaim your time. You
- 14:48Speaker 1: may feel like you've let yourself down, but guess what.
- 14:54Speaker 1: Guess what. You are still here. That means, repeat that
- 15:00Speaker 1: you are still here. That means you have the opportunity
- 15:04Speaker 1: to do something. And if what you did before put
- 15:10Speaker 1: you to sit down or made you feel defeated, made
- 15:12Speaker 1: you feel less than put you down in shame, try
- 15:15Speaker 1: a different thing. Try it with a new lens, Try
- 15:20Speaker 1: it with a new mindset, try it with a new attitude.
- 15:23Speaker 1: A lot of times it's just a small tweak. Maybe
- 15:27Speaker 1: you were going about this the wrong way. It's not
- 15:30Speaker 1: that you weren't going about it, but you were going
- 15:33Speaker 1: about it the wrong way. So I want you to
- 15:38Speaker 1: take back your time, take back the ownership of your path,
- 15:48Speaker 1: and reclaim your goals without guilt. These are your goals.
- 15:56Speaker 1: You don't have to be guilty that you don't have
- 15:59Speaker 1: anything in a time when it comes to this thing
- 16:02Speaker 1: that you said you were gonna do. Listen, let me,
- 16:05Speaker 1: let me, let me, let me do it. Let me
- 16:07Speaker 1: put an audible and pause for a second to remind
- 16:10Speaker 1: you that, my friend, you have three quarters left. And
- 16:18Speaker 1: I know that you're used to looking at things half empty.
- 16:26Speaker 1: You still have three quarters left in this year to
- 16:31Speaker 1: get whatever it is that you need to get done done.
- 16:37Speaker 1: Just like that young lady on the sideline, she still
- 16:40Speaker 1: had time. The game clock had not expired. You still
- 16:44Speaker 1: have time. The year of twenty twenty six has not
- 16:48Speaker 1: yet expired. Why do you think that you have to
- 16:52Speaker 1: have a certain thing done at a certain time so
- 16:55Speaker 1: that you can determine that you've been successful. Oh wait
- 16:59Speaker 1: a minut You've been listening to the culture. You've been
- 17:03Speaker 1: tuned into what everybody else is saying and doing, and
- 17:06Speaker 1: you are comparing well. The Bible says that comparison is
- 17:14Speaker 1: the thief of joy. Why would you want to be
- 17:20Speaker 1: comparing yourself to anybody else? If you want to make
- 17:25Speaker 1: some comparisons, look at where you are and where you
- 17:30Speaker 1: want to be and figure out what's in the middle
- 17:33Speaker 1: of that. What is the gap? How big is the gap?
- 17:36Speaker 1: How deep is the gap. What will it take to
- 17:39Speaker 1: fill that gap? What do you need to fill that gap?
- 17:43Speaker 1: That's how you empower yourself. Empower yourself and reclaim the
- 17:50Speaker 1: ownership back in the game. Reclaim your time without regret.
- 17:56Speaker 1: This is your time, this is your you know gap
- 18:01Speaker 1: season where you gotta fill it in. Don't have any
- 18:05Speaker 1: regrets about the time that you're taking to get and
- 18:09Speaker 1: regain control of your life. And I said it before,
- 18:14Speaker 1: regain your vision without comparison. Regain your vision without comparison.
- 18:22Speaker 1: You don't need to compare to compete. Listen, every day
- 18:26Speaker 1: I get up, I want to be the best version
- 18:28Speaker 1: of me. I want to be a better version of me,
- 18:31Speaker 1: not of she or he of me. That's the vision
- 18:37Speaker 1: for myself, So I don't need comparison, if not for myself.
- 18:45Speaker 1: A reminder, you didn't miss any moment, you didn't miss anything.
- 18:55Speaker 1: I do believe in alignment, and I do believe in timing,
- 18:57Speaker 1: and I do believe that everything happens in the rightful time.
- 19:03Speaker 1: But I also don't believe in victimhood. I believe that
- 19:07Speaker 1: wherever you are, however difficult or the difficulties you face,
- 19:13Speaker 1: there is an opportunity for you to claim victory over
- 19:17Speaker 1: your situation, over your life. You don't have to be
- 19:21Speaker 1: a victim. The truth is you haven't executed yet. And
- 19:27Speaker 1: that's okay, because that's the last piece of this I
- 19:30Speaker 1: need you to re execute. You know. I have this
- 19:37Speaker 1: thing that I truly believe and every time I see
- 19:42Speaker 1: someone or someone sees me and they see the results,
- 19:45Speaker 1: especially around fitness that I've gotten over the years, and
- 19:48Speaker 1: they're like, man, you figure it out, you know how
- 19:51Speaker 1: to do it, and I say, you know what, They're like,
- 19:53Speaker 1: I just want to get better. I just want to
- 19:54Speaker 1: do these things. And I always say, just start with
- 19:57Speaker 1: what you have. That is really the biggest hack to
- 20:03Speaker 1: all of to really consistency. Everybody thinks when they think
- 20:08Speaker 1: consistency of perfection, there's some type of association with consistency
- 20:14Speaker 1: and perfection, and it really isn't, so it's so far
- 20:18Speaker 1: from the truth. That is not how consistency works. When
- 20:22Speaker 1: you're consistent, you're gonna go out there and you're gonna
- 20:24Speaker 1: fail most days. That's the real truth about consistency. It
- 20:28Speaker 1: doesn't Consistency doesn't mean everything looks exactly the same and
- 20:32Speaker 1: you are exactly the same from day to day. That's
- 20:35Speaker 1: not consistency. Consistency is going out there no matter what
- 20:43Speaker 1: the outcome is, no matter how pretty it is. I mean,
- 20:48Speaker 1: think about it. If it's a beautiful day today and
- 20:52Speaker 1: tomorrow it rains, consistency says, okay, it rained, I'm still
- 20:55Speaker 1: going out. The days are not identical. It's not beautiful
- 21:00Speaker 1: sunny days are the only days I go out. It's
- 21:02Speaker 1: I go out every day. If it's sunny, if it's snow,
- 21:05Speaker 1: if it's cold, if it's whatever. If there's pollen all
- 21:08Speaker 1: over the place, which there happens to be right now,
- 21:11Speaker 1: I'm still gonna go out. It gets messy. Inconsistency and
- 21:16Speaker 1: everybody thinks consistencies is perfect landing place where everything just
- 21:21Speaker 1: happens and the magic and the you know, the fairy dust. No, no, no, no.
- 21:27Speaker 1: Consistency is so far from all that perfection that culture
- 21:32Speaker 1: likes to feed you. I'm feeding you the truth. I'm
- 21:34Speaker 1: telling you no lies here are detected that you can
- 21:40Speaker 1: re execute, not just from where you are, but from
- 21:44Speaker 1: what you know, from what you know. Part of your
- 21:50Speaker 1: journey to become more enriched, to be the best version
- 21:54Speaker 1: of yourself is starting where you are what you have,
- 21:57Speaker 1: but also starting where you are with the in you have,
- 22:02Speaker 1: and as you go along that information at insight, that innovation,
- 22:06Speaker 1: it's going to build, it's going to grow. That's part
- 22:08Speaker 1: of your growth too. You're gonna have some physical growth,
- 22:11Speaker 1: but a lot of the growth that you're gonna have
- 22:13Speaker 1: is going to be internal. All the internal work that
- 22:16Speaker 1: you've neglected, all the internal things that didn't seem significant
- 22:21Speaker 1: but are important enough for you to pull that trigger.
- 22:28Speaker 1: So in the spirit of start with what you have,
- 22:32Speaker 1: start smaller. Yeah, start smaller again. This is a hack
- 22:37Speaker 1: that I've always said to people, you know where they
- 22:40Speaker 1: want to go out and do all the things, And
- 22:41Speaker 1: I keep going back to twenty twenty, when you know,
- 22:45Speaker 1: years prior to that, I was going to Nike Fitness,
- 22:47Speaker 1: I was going to Zoomba, I was going to personal training,
- 22:51Speaker 1: I was running, I was doing all these physical things.
- 22:55Speaker 1: And then COVID hit. Everything slowed down, and I remember
- 22:58Speaker 1: one day I got to do something and it felt
- 23:02Speaker 1: like a complete ball of stress, like I couldn't do
- 23:06Speaker 1: things that before it was so easy and simple for
- 23:10Speaker 1: me to do, And I'm like, what's going on? Like,
- 23:12Speaker 1: have I really just gotten that stagnant? I did a
- 23:15Speaker 1: lot of us did I know, we don't want to
- 23:18Speaker 1: think about that time. I have the pictures to prove it.
- 23:21Speaker 1: I did not look like myself anymore. And I remember
- 23:27Speaker 1: waking up one day and thinking, gosh, how did I
- 23:30Speaker 1: go from being this active to this passive? When it
- 23:34Speaker 1: comes to my activity, I started to look it, I
- 23:37Speaker 1: started to feel it, and I started to live it.
- 23:41Speaker 1: Because after a while, when you start looking at yourself
- 23:43Speaker 1: a certain way, you start acting a certain way. You
- 23:47Speaker 1: start again. With food, you know you don't see the
- 23:50Speaker 1: value of it, or you don't see what it can
- 23:53Speaker 1: be used for. I see food now, it's fuel. I
- 23:58Speaker 1: didn't see it that way then, but at the end
- 24:01Speaker 1: of the day, I decided one day, you know, what
- 24:05Speaker 1: can I do? Because the consistency had died. I I
- 24:09Speaker 1: wasn't going anywhere. I was going to the gym, I
- 24:10Speaker 1: was going on my morning runs. I wasn't doing any
- 24:13Speaker 1: of the things. I'm like, how can I get this
- 24:14Speaker 1: thing to how can I re execute my plan all
- 24:18Speaker 1: over again? And I literally, I promise you, And I've
- 24:21Speaker 1: said this on a couple of other podcast episodes. I
- 24:24Speaker 1: told myself, get up tomorrow and do five jumpin' jacks
- 24:28Speaker 1: and the minute I had the thought go through my head,
- 24:31Speaker 1: I thought, this is the dumbest thing that I've ever
- 24:34Speaker 1: thought of in the thoughts of my life. It really
- 24:39Speaker 1: wasn't the dumbest thing, but at the time, it felt
- 24:41Speaker 1: really silly for me to think that a goal of
- 24:45Speaker 1: mine would be to go to bed, to wake up
- 24:48Speaker 1: the next day, put clothes on, the workout clothes on,
- 24:53Speaker 1: and go downstairs and do five jumping jacks and call
- 24:56Speaker 1: myself starting re executing. But guess what, friends, I got
- 25:03Speaker 1: up the next day, I put on my work on clothes,
- 25:06Speaker 1: I went downstairs, and I executed five jumping jacks. And
- 25:10Speaker 1: then I really felt silly, and I decided to do
- 25:14Speaker 1: ten jumping jacks. And I told myself, don't overdo it,
- 25:20Speaker 1: because I know me you overdo it. You go I
- 25:23Speaker 1: could do one hundred jumping jacks, where you go from
- 25:25Speaker 1: zero to one hundred. The next day, you're not feeling
- 25:27Speaker 1: yourself like you want to do this because you've done
- 25:30Speaker 1: too much. So I told myself to start small, and
- 25:34Speaker 1: I'm telling you to start small. And I know it
- 25:36Speaker 1: sounds silly, and I know it goes against the culture.
- 25:39Speaker 1: It's anti culture to do some of the things we
- 25:41Speaker 1: talk about on this podcast. But guess what, You've been
- 25:44Speaker 1: doing it the way culture has prescribed you to do it,
- 25:47Speaker 1: and it has kept you in a bubble. It has
- 25:50Speaker 1: limited you. So let's do things different for a different outcome.
- 25:53Speaker 1: Let's do things to get to a point of consistency,
- 25:56Speaker 1: and not just to be arrogant, and not just to
- 25:59Speaker 1: be showho about it, but to show up for ourselves.
- 26:02Speaker 1: Not to be show we but to show up for ourselves. Also,
- 26:05Speaker 1: start smarter again. I could have gone with the zero
- 26:09Speaker 1: to sixty thing, and I've done that before. I've decided
- 26:12Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this thing and I'm gonna be gung
- 26:14Speaker 1: ho about it, and I stick with it for about
- 26:18Speaker 1: maybe a good week if that much. And a lot
- 26:22Speaker 1: of you know what I'm talking about. You go out,
- 26:24Speaker 1: you want to, you know, do it big right and
- 26:28Speaker 1: you wanna you wanna do it? Be smart about when
- 26:31Speaker 1: you go do your thing, Be smart about it right,
- 26:41Speaker 1: work smarter, not harder. Not a lot of us, I
- 26:44Speaker 1: know me. I speak for myself. I go out with
- 26:46Speaker 1: the hard mentality I'm gonna go hard, I'm gonna get
- 26:48Speaker 1: this done, only to realize that doing it that way,
- 26:52Speaker 1: I could have injured myself. Right, And I'm not just
- 26:55Speaker 1: talking about physical injury like doing things. I'm talking about
- 27:00Speaker 1: mental injury. I'm talking about emotional injury, right, I'm talking
- 27:05Speaker 1: about spiritual injury. There's a lot of ways financial injury.
- 27:11Speaker 1: There's a lot of ways you can go out there
- 27:12Speaker 1: and do things, to do things and go hard at
- 27:15Speaker 1: this thing without being smart about it. And I want
- 27:19Speaker 1: you to be smart about it when you re execute
- 27:22Speaker 1: what it is that you need to do right. And
- 27:27Speaker 1: the ultimate message here is just start now, Just start now.
- 27:32Speaker 1: Don't wait for tomorrow. People say it all the time.
- 27:38Speaker 1: You know, I'm just gonna do it next week. I'm
- 27:40Speaker 1: gonna start fresh on Monday. There's so many different ways
- 27:46Speaker 1: we lean into this next day, this next start, this
- 27:50Speaker 1: next month, maybe next year. I want you to do
- 27:55Speaker 1: the start now movement, the momentum with that, the motion
- 28:01Speaker 1: with that. See, the thing is you've already gathered the lessons.
- 28:05Speaker 1: You don't have to go get nothing new. You know
- 28:08Speaker 1: what you know, and you know what you know. You
- 28:12Speaker 1: have the awareness now, a lot of it is self awareness,
- 28:15Speaker 1: which is important to have that, and you have experience
- 28:19Speaker 1: under your belt. So guess what this time when you
- 28:24Speaker 1: go back out there to reclaim your time. This time,
- 28:28Speaker 1: when you go back out there knowing that you got
- 28:29Speaker 1: three quarters left, you're not starting from scratch. You're starting
- 28:34Speaker 1: from a place of being informed. And that's progress, my friends,
- 28:42Speaker 1: not perfection. That's progress. And the thing that's required for
- 28:49Speaker 1: you to have progress, for you to have progression on
- 28:53Speaker 1: your journey, is to get up and move. I hope
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- 30:35Speaker 1: affirmation of the week, the quote of the week, and
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- 31:04Speaker 1: can become more of your enriched self until we meet again.