Why a Sexless Marriage Destroys an ADHD Man Faster Than Anyone Else
It's 9:40 at night. You texted her about the weekend. She wrote back one word: "Sure." Three months ago that would have gotten you four paragraphs and a voice memo. Now you're standing in your kitchen with your heart going, and nothing is actually wrong.
That's withdrawal.
In this video I break down a pairing I see constantly in my inbox: the man with ADHD, whose brain runs on stimulation instead of importance, and the woman who floods him with more of it in ninety days than he's had in his whole life. Four things switch an ADHD brain on — novelty, urgency, challenge, and passion — and the…
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