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EP28｜成人友誼（下）：點解成人難識新朋友？(Why Making New Friends As Adults Feels So Hard) · Cantonese Coffee Break | 亂噏24 Lyungap24

• 0:01
  OK: 喂 你ok未呀 Hey, are you okay yet?
• 0:02
  Can: Can呀 Can Hello 大家好呀 Hello, everyone.
• 0:12
  Both: 我哋係《亂噏24》 We're lyungap24.
• 0:14
  Can: 我係Can I'm Can.
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  OK: 我係OK I'm OK.
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  OK: 我哋上一集 定上一兩集 In our last episode, or the one before that,
• 0:19
  OK: 上一兩集 the last one or two episodes,
• 0:20
  OK: 講咗好耐啦 we talked for a long time.
• 0:21
  OK: 就講咗好多關於呢個 We talked a lot about this
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  OK: 成年後嘅友誼啦 adult friendship.
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  OK: 包括係第一集我哋比較咗可能 In the first episode, we compared maybe
• 0:28
  OK: 同我哋細個嘅友誼有咩分別 how it's different from the friendships we had when we were kids.
• 0:30
  OK: 然後上一集呢 And in the last episode,
• 0:31
  OK: 亦都分享咗我哋點樣去維繫 we also shared how we maintain
• 0:34
  OK: 或者以前識落嘅朋友嘅友誼啦 or the friendships you made long ago
• 0:36
  OK: 咁今集可能我哋就講多少少 So this episode, maybe we'll talk a bit more
• 0:39
  OK: 我哋點樣識新朋友 about how we make new friends
• 0:40
  OK: 因為好多人都話 Because a lot of people say
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  OK: 成年之後識朋友係好難㗎喎 it's really hard to make friends as an adult
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  OK: 你同唔同意呀 Do you agree?
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  OK: 係真係好難 It really is hard
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  OK: 係因為冇乜機會 It's because there aren't many chances
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  Can: 係 Yeah
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  OK: 因為平時都係返工 放工咁樣 Because most of the time, it's just work and then off work
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  OK: 跟住返工嘅時候又真係做嘢㗎嘛 And when you're at work, you're really working
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  OK: 又或者未必係真係同你啲同事有咁多交流 Or maybe you don't even interact that much with your coworkers
• 1:00
  OK: 所以同事可能就真係同事 So coworkers may just be coworkers
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  OK: 就未必係可以發展成為朋友 and may not end up becoming friends
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  OK: 咁除咗返工放工就冇乜機會 So besides work and leaving work, there's not much chance 係呀 Yeah
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  Can: 遇到新嘅人 to meet new people
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  OK: 我係有諗過其實 I've actually thought about it
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  OK: 曾經未返工之前係有諗過呢 Before I started working, I had thought
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  OK: 同事都可以係朋友㗎嘛 coworkers could also be friends
• 1:17
  Can: 哇 好美好 Wow, that sounds so ideal
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  OK: 係呀 原來返咗工之後發現 Yeah, but after I started working, I realized
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  OK: 同事都係同事 coworkers are just coworkers
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  Can: 係 真係 Yeah, really
• 1:24
  OK: 真係 Really
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  Can: 我唔排除有呢個成為朋友嘅機會嘅 I wouldn't rule out becoming friends
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  Can: 但係可能難啲囉 but it might be harder
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  OK: 係可以嘅 但係要十分之一嘅機會囉 It's possible, but maybe it's only a one-in-ten chance
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  Can: 係囉 個機率已經好細啦 Exactly, the odds are already really low
• 1:36
  Can: 仲要係有時返工嘅時候可能 And sometimes, when you're at work,
• 1:38
  Can: 有啲公事上面嘅交流 there are just some work-related interactions,
• 1:40
  Can: 就儘量唔想夾雜咁多私人感情 and you try not to mix in too many personal feelings,
• 1:43
  Can: 所以可能真係要辭咗職之後 so maybe you really have to quit first
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  Can: 先真係可以變成朋友都唔頂 before you can actually become friends.
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  Can: 所以我就覺得返工係好難識新朋友嘅 That's why I think it's hard to make new friends at work.
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  OK: 我覺得都識到嘅 I do think it's possible to meet someone,
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  OK: 但係可能需要少少時機 but maybe it takes the right timing.
• 1:55
  OK: 因為好似我返緊嘅嗰份工呢 Because at the job I'm at now,
• 1:58
  OK: 唔係個個同事都有交流囉 not every coworker really interacts with me.
• 2:00
  OK: 我好似係一個自己嘅獨立部門咁樣 It feels like I'm in my own separate department,
• 2:03
  OK: 咁就都唔使同人交流 so there's no real need to mingle,
• 2:05
  OK: 就做唔到好朋友囉 and then it's hard to become close friends.
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  Can: 係囉 唔夠好似以前咁 Yeah, it's just not the same as before.
• 2:11
  OK: 需要啲契機嘅做朋友 You need a bit of a chance to become friends.
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  Can: 真係真係 Really, really.
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  OK: 同埋當然都仲有一樣好重要嘅嘢就係 And of course, there's another very important thing too,
• 2:18
  OK: 究竟同呢個人夾唔夾呢 whether you and that person actually click.
• 2:20
  OK: 你係點樣feel到呀 How do you feel that?
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  OK: 或者你有冇啲咩準則 Or do you have any criteria,
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  OK: 有冇啲咩條件係令你覺得 any conditions that make you think
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  OK: 呢個人同我應該做到朋友喇 this person could be a friend to me,
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  OK: 或者呢個人做唔到朋友喇 or this person wouldn't work as a friend?
• 2:30
  OK: 有冇嘅呢 Do you?
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  OK: 其實我覺得呢有啲朋友呢係有分兩種嘅 Actually, I think there are two kinds of friends,
• 2:35
  OK: 同拍拖一樣 just like dating.
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  OK: 有一種呢就係 一見如故 There's one kind, and that's instant rapport.
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  OK: 一望到 哇 傾咗十分鐘已經好似 The moment you meet, wow, after ten minutes it already feels like 識咗成年嘅老朋友咁樣 you've been old friends for years.
• 2:46
  OK: 之後有啲可能日久生情嘅 Then there are others that develop over time.
• 2:49
  OK: 傾下傾下可能某一個位 While talking, at some point,
• 2:51
  OK: 大家都係鐘意呢一樣嘢 you both like the same thing,
• 2:53
  OK: 之後再傾下傾下就做朋友 and after talking more, you become friends.
• 2:56
  Can: 係囉 或者又經歷咗啲嘢相處多咗 Right, or maybe after going through things together and spending more time together,
• 2:59
  Can: 係 有啲回憶啦咁就熟咗 yeah, after making some memories, you get familiar,
• 3:01
  Can: 就可以做到朋友 and then you can be friends.
• 3:03
  Can: 我覺得我自己可能而家成年後 I think that now that I'm an adult,
• 3:06
  Can: 可能真係冇咁多時間畀我日久生情 I may not really have that much time to let friendship grow over time.
• 3:09
  Can: 所以我覺得如果我真係要當呢個人係我新朋友啦 So I think if I'm really going to treat someone as a new friend,
• 3:13
  Can: 我要一見如故嘅人囉 I need someone I click with right away.
• 3:15
  OK: 即係啱feel就啱feel 啱就啱 If we vibe, we vibe. If it works, it works.
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  Can: 啱傾就可以做朋友喇 If we can talk easily, we can be friends.
• 3:20
  Can: 唔啱傾呢就做唔到朋友囉 If not, then we can't be friends.
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  Can: 就可能最多同事 At most, we'd just be coworkers.
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  OK: 即係普通傾下啲無謂嘅嘢 Just making small talk about random stuff.
• 3:26
  Can: 係啦 就好似我自己之前返有一份工 Yeah, it's like when I used to work a certain job,
• 3:31
  Can: 就係其實唔係返咗好耐 I hadn't been there very long,
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  Can: 但係已經感覺到可能有一兩個人傾嗰啲話題 but I could already tell there were one or two people I could talk to about
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  Can: 係特別啱傾嘅 those topics really easily.
• 3:38
  Can: 因為我好鐘意傾啲哲學呀 價值觀呀 Because I really like talking about philosophy and values,
• 3:41
  Can: 人生大道理 冇錯 life lessons, exactly.
• 3:42
  Can: 咁啱 咦 佢又有諗法喎 Yeah, then I'm like, oh, they've got ideas too.
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  Can: 跟住就開始覺得應該做到朋友啦咁樣 Then I start thinking we should probably be friends.
• 3:49
  Can: 咁你有冇呢 你係偏向邊一邊 So what about you? Which side do you lean toward?
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  Can: 或者你有冇啲咩經歷呀 Or do you have any experiences like that?
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  OK: 其實就應該係兩邊都有 I think it's probably both.
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  OK: 不過呢一開頭呢 But at the start,
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  OK: 我又唔係好同人傾人生大道理 I'm not really the type to talk about life's big truths with people.
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  OK: 通常都係興趣入手先嘅 I usually start with shared interests.
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  OK: 哦 都係嘅 Oh, that's true.
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  OK: 之後傾下傾下如果啱feel先至 Then if we keep talking and it clicks,
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  OK: 可能就要到某一啲時間開始熟 maybe it takes some time to get familiar,
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  OK: 先至再傾下深入嘅嘢 and then we'll start talking about deeper stuff.
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  OK: 不過我覺得呢 But I think
• 4:14
  OK: 如果佢有某啲嘢就可能會特別吸引我 If they have certain qualities, I might find them especially attractive.
• 4:16
  OK: 就係佢鐘意啲...試下新嘢嘅人呀 It's someone who likes trying new things.
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  OK: 嘗試唔同嘢 Trying different things.
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  OK: 即係佢有好多唔同嘅人生嘅啲閲歷呀 Like, they've had lots of different life experiences.
• 4:26
  OK: 咁樣我就覺得 哇 好新奇喎 Then I'd think, wow, that's so interesting.
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  Can: 好想同佢傾偈 好想問多啲佢嘅嘢 I'd really want to talk to them and ask them more about themselves.
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  OK: 係呀係呀 Yeah, yeah.
• 4:31
  Can: 有故事嘅人 係咪 Someone with stories, right?
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  OK: 係呀係呀 你有冇呢一種感覺呀 Yeah, yeah. Do you feel that way too?
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  OK: 邊一種嘅人係會令到你 What kind of person makes you
• 4:38
  OK: 想同佢再傾多啲傾多啲咁樣 want to keep talking to them more and more?
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  Can: 係囉 可能都係呢類 Yeah, probably that kind.
• 4:42
  Can: 即係或者係樂觀少少呀 Or maybe someone more optimistic.
• 4:45
  Can: 即係鐘意笑呀 Like someone who likes to laugh.
• 4:46
  Can: 一嚟就會同你傾好多 Right away, they'll talk to you a lot.
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  Can: 或者同你分享好多佢生活上面一啲嘢 Or they'll share a lot about their life with you.
• 4:51
  Can: 即係例如 去咗邊度旅行呀 Like where they traveled to,
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  Can: 或者我遇到啲乜嘢呀 or what happened to me,
• 4:55
  Can: 好想同你分享好多你未聽過嘅嘢 they really want to tell you things you haven't heard before.
• 4:58
  Can: 令你覺得 啊 呢個人係對生活好有熱情㗎喎 It makes you feel, wow, this person is really passionate about life.
• 5:02
  Can: 即係唔係嗰種 I mean, not the kind of...
• 5:03
  Can: 啊 我返到去好累呀 Ah, I'm so tired when I get home.
• 5:05
  Can: 即係好多埋怨嗰啲呢 You know, all that complaining.
• 5:07
  Can: 咁我就會覺得好似好無癮囉 Then I'd feel like, that's no fun.
• 5:09
  Can: 傾偈就好似聽佢埋怨咁樣 Talking to them feels like listening to complaints.
• 5:11
  OK: 係呀 即係嗰啲呢 成日係嗰啲 Yeah, the kind who are always like that.
• 5:14
  OK: 又唔知 IG 見到 And then you see it on Instagram, too.
• 5:15
  OK: 即係要遠離啲有毒嘅人 So you have to stay away from toxic people.
• 5:17
  OK: 即係一嚟就喺度放負 Like, they come in right away with negativity.
• 5:20
  OK: 其實當你係嗰啲情緒垃圾桶 Basically, they treat you like an emotional trash can.
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  Can: 係喇 嗰啲我就通常我都唔會 Yeah, people like that, I usually don't.
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  OK: 其實我覺得真係負面嘅情緒係會影響到 I really think negative emotions do affect people.
• 5:30
  OK: 會畀人會傳染嘅 It's contagious.
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  Can: 係呀係呀係呀 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  OK: 所以如果身邊係有啲呢 So if there are people around you who
• 5:33
  OK: 互相支持下 support each other,
• 5:35
  OK: 哇 我覺得你得㗎 Wow, I think you can do it.
• 5:36
  OK: 得㗎 行啦 可以㗎 You can do it. Go for it. You got this.
• 5:38
  OK: 可以㗎 You got this.
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  OK: 係會即刻令到我 That instantly makes me
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  OK: OK喎 Oh, nice.
• 5:42
  OK: 想同佢傾多啲計 want to talk to them more.
• 5:43
  OK: 即係受到鼓舞喎 It's encouraging.
• 5:45
  Can: 係呀 真係呢個好緊要 Yeah, that really matters.
• 5:47
  Can: 就係尋求返可能 So you're looking for maybe...
• 5:49
  Can: 呢
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  Can: 個人好似令佢 this person seems to make them...
• 5:51
  Can: 即係同佢傾完計之後 After talking to them,
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  Can: 好似即刻諗通咗啲嘢 it feels like things just click.
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  Can: 或者又會覺得 Or you'd feel like
• 5:55
  Can: 好似成個人都開心咗 you just feel happier.
• 5:57
  Can: 咁我就會鐘意同呢啲人相處 So I'd like being around people like that.
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  Can: 應該都似喎 Probably.
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  OK: 我覺得以前我好似係 I think I used to be like that.
• 6:03
  Can: 唔知係咪因為受到屋企影響呢 I wonder if it was because of my family.
• 6:05
  Can: 係有啲唔係話 It's not that...
• 6:07
  Can: 行啦 行啦 唔係呢一種嘅 "Gogogo!" not that kind.
• 6:09
  Can: 可能係負面啲 Maybe more negative.
• 6:10
  Can: 即係有啲猶豫 I mean, you'd be a bit hesitant.
• 6:12
  Can: 究竟自己得唔得呢 You'd wonder whether you could really do it.
• 6:13
  Can: 即係如果當時嘅朋友都係話 If your friends back then had been like,
• 6:16
  Can: 唉 算啦 咪搞咁多嘢 Forget it, don't do that.
• 6:18
  Can: 就即刻係 you'd immediately be like,
• 6:19
  Can: 唉 算啦 咁我都唔諗啦 Forget it, then I won't think about it either.
• 6:20
  Can: 但係如果即係而家啲朋友 But if it were my friends now,
• 6:23
  Can: 會話 they'd say,
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  Can: 唉 得啦 得啦 Come on, you can do it.
• 6:24
  Can: 試下啦 Give it a try.
• 6:25
  Can: 試下啦 Give it a try.
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  Can: 就即刻係 then I'd just,
• 6:27
  Can: 嗯 Mm-hmm.
• 6:28
  Can: 即係如果果陣我打擊咗你呢 If I had discouraged you back then, 係呀 係呀 Yeah, yeah.
• 6:31
  OK: 呢個Channel就冇㗎啦 Then that's it for this channel.
• 6:32
  OK: 拜拜啦 Bye-bye.
• 6:33
  Can: 係啦 我都唔會揾你㗎啦應該 Yeah, then I probably wouldn't reach out to you anymore.
• 6:34
  OK: 所以而家就要 So now we need to keep
• 6:35
  OK: 住下呢個正面積極嘅...
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  OK: keep this positive, upbeat...
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  OK: 冇錯 Exactly.
• 6:39
  Can: 呢個都係我哋點解會一齊 This is also why we ended up
• 6:41
  Can: 玩嘅原因 playing together.
• 6:42
  Can: 可能就係我哋都會 Maybe it's because we both
• 6:43
  Can: 對大家嘅一啲好新奇嘅諗法 have really fresh ideas about each other,
• 6:45
  Can: 都係 right.
• 6:46
  Can: 喂 試咗先囉 Hey, let's just try it first.
• 6:47
  Can: 試下先囉 Try it first.
• 6:48
  Can: 又一齊玩呀 And then play together.
• 6:50
  Can: 即係加入埋我呢個諗法 Like, you just join in on my idea.
• 6:52
  Can: 所以我就覺得 So I just thought,
• 6:53
  Can: 喂 OK 喎 Hey, that works.
• 6:54
  OK: 你影響我 我又影響你㗎嘛 You influence me, and I influence you.
• 6:55
  Can: 係囉 Exactly.
• 6:56
  Can: 其實講真啦 Honestly,
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  Can: 我之所以會 the reason I
• 6:59
  Can: 對呢啲咁積極呀 became so into this positive stuff,
• 7:01
  Can: 健康呀 health,
• 7:02
  Can: 心靈呀 mindfulness,
• 7:03
  Can: 或者呢啲嘢有研究都係因為你呀 or researching this kind of thing, is because of you.
• 7:05
  Can: 我好似講過好多次 I think I've said this many times,
• 7:06
  OK: 但係我覺得我係因為你 but I feel like it's because of you.
• 7:08
  Can: 係咩 Really?
• 7:09
  Can: 即係嗰陣時我第一次聽到啲咩 Back then, the first thing I heard was,
• 7:11
  Can: 吸引力法則呀 the law of attraction.
• 7:13
  Can: 嗰啲嘢都係你講 Those were things you brought up.
• 7:14
  Can: 雖然你嗰陣時可能 Even if at the time you maybe
• 7:15
  Can: 冇乜為意 didn't really notice it,
• 7:16
  OK: 其實我冇乜為意 I actually didn't pay much attention.
• 7:17
  Can: 我係提出嚟囉 I was the one who brought it up.
• 7:18
  Can: 可能嗰陣時我又 Maybe back then I also
• 7:19
  Can: 啱啱開始接觸下 had just started to get into it a bit,
• 7:21
  Can: 但係我真係接觸咗個名囉 but I really only knew the name.
• 7:23
  Can: 結果係你研究 So in the end, you were the one who studied it.
• 7:24
  Can: 係喇 Yeah.
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  OK: 然後你研究完之後 And after you studied it,
• 7:26
  OK: 我又反而又受到你影響 I ended up being influenced by you too.
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  OK: 咁積極嘅影響 Such a positive influence.
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  OK: 之後就 Then after that,
• 7:31
  OK: 所以我覺得我互相囉 So I think it's mutual.
• 7:33
  Can: 互相影響 You influence each other.
• 7:34
  Can: 就係一個好嘅循環 That's a really good cycle.
• 7:35
  Can: 咪好嘅朋友 This is what we called good friend
• 7:36
  Can: 係囉 Yeah.
• 7:37
  Can: 又真係喎 Yeah, that's true.
• 7:39
  Can: 好似有時我有啲咩問題 Like sometimes, if I have some problem
• 7:40
  Can: 或者有咩 or anything
• 7:41
  Can: 諗唔通呢 that I can't figure out,
• 7:42
  Can: 我就會好想問你 I really want to ask you,
• 7:43
  Can: 因為呢 because
• 7:44
  Can: 我硬係覺得呢 I always feel
• 7:45
  Can: 我嘅諗法係侷限喺 that my thinking is limited to
• 7:47
  Can: 我自己個思想度 my own mind,
• 7:49
  Can: 跟住你一定會有啲好 and then you'll definitely have some good
• 7:50
  Can: 新奇嘅一啲諗法係 some fresh ideas
• 7:52
  Can: 聽完之後 After hearing it,
• 7:53
  Can: 原來可以咁樣諗㗎喎 Oh, so that's another way to think about it.
• 7:55
  Can: 原來可以咁樣做㗎喎 Oh, so that's another way to do it.
• 7:57
  Can: 又幾積極㗎喎 That's pretty positive, too.
• 7:59
  Can: 原來可以咁樣諗 Oh, so that's another way to think about it.
• 8:00
  Can: 可以咁樣睇一個世界 You can look at the world that way.
• 8:01
  Can: 可以用一個咁 You can use such a
• 8:02
  Can: 輕鬆咁簡單嘅視角去睇世界 relaxed, simple perspective to see the world.
• 8:05
  OK: 我覺得如果呢 I feel like, if
• 8:06
  OK: 佢係個樣呢 their face
• 8:08
  OK: 一嚟呢就好有親和力嗰啲呢 has a really approachable vibe from the start,
• 8:11
  OK: 就即刻會想 I'd immediately want to
• 8:12
  OK: 同佢做朋友 be friends with them.
• 8:13
  Can: 即係成日笑嗰啲囉都係 I mean, people who smile a lot, too.
• 8:15
  Can: 你覺得我算唔算 Do you think I count as
• 8:16
  Can: 好有親和力呀個樣 having a really friendly face?
• 8:17
  Can: XDD XDD
• 8:19
  OK: 但如果你一開頭 But if at first
• 8:20
  OK: 你係唔會成日笑㗎嘛 you're not someone who smiles a lot,
• 8:22
  OK: 你唔笑嘅話好似都係比較 if you don't smile, you seem kind of
• 8:24
  OK: 嚴肅啲 serious.
• 8:25
  Can: 我可能真係睇 I might really judge it
• 8:27
  Can: 睇場合囉 depending on the situation.
• 8:28
  OK: 我覺得我對你嘅印象 I think my impression of you
• 8:30
  Can: 唔係親和力嘅 isn't that you're friendly.
• 8:31
  Can: 好多人都話我好有親和力㗎 A lot of people say I'm really friendly.
• 8:33
  OK: 係咩 真係咩 Really? For real?
• 8:36
  OK: 我真係有比人話我好有親和力㗎 People really have told me I'm very friendly.
• 8:38
  Can: 你都係嘅 You are too.
• 8:39
  Can: 因為你每一次見到你都係笑到四萬咁口 Because every time I see you, you're grinning from ear to ear.
• 8:42
  OK: 我呢明明冇笑呢 But I wasn't even smiling.
• 8:44
  OK: 但係佢話你隻眼明明 But they said, look at your eyes.
• 8:46
  OK: 縮到咁細 They're narrowed into tiny slits.
• 8:47
  OK: 我話我冇笑呀 I said I'm not smiling.
• 8:49
  OK: 但佢都話我笑緊囉 But they still said I was smiling.
• 8:52
  OK: 親和力都好重要 Being approachable is important too.
• 8:54
  Can: 但係你就算戴口罩 But even when you wear a mask,
• 8:55
  Can: 大家都覺得你好有親和力 people still think you're really approachable.
• 8:57
  OK: 係囉我戴口罩就剩係得返隻眼 Yeah, when I wear a mask, only my eyes are left.
• 8:59
  OK: 都覺得我好笑 They still think I look funny.
• 9:00
  Can: 可能細個嘅時候會有親和力少少 Maybe when I am young, you're a bit more approachable.
• 9:02
  OK: 細個 When you're young.
• 9:03
  OK: 大個呢你受到呢個社會嘅影響 As you get older, the influence of society
• 9:06
  OK: 你就會覺得唔得 makes you feel like that's not okay.
• 9:08
  OK: 太過淋 或者太過好似好人呢 Too soft, or too much of a nice guy.
• 9:11
  OK: 個樣呢 The look, you know,
• 9:12
  OK: 好容易就比人恰㗎啦 you can get pushed around really easily.
• 9:14
  OK: 咁所以就要戴返個 So you have to put on a bit of,
• 9:16
  OK: 武裝咁樣 armor, like that.
• 9:18
  OK: 即係要比人知道 喂 That is, you need to let people know, hey,
• 9:19
  OK: 呢個人唔容易恰㗎 this person isn't easy to bully.
• 9:21
  OK: 唔好隨便恰我呀吓 Don't just pick on me, okay?
• 9:23
  OK: 咁樣嘅感覺 That kind of vibe.
• 9:25
  OK: 都係喎 Yeah, true.
• 9:27
  Can: 咁所以而家就儘量 So now I try my best
• 9:29
  Can: 儘量唔表露我嘅 not to show my
• 9:31
  Can: 真實面貌 true self.
• 9:32
  Can: 除非我覺得你 Unless I feel you
• 9:33
  Can: ok喇 are okay.
• 9:34
  OK: 但係你笑嗰陣都係友善 But when you smile, you're still friendly.
• 9:36
  OK: 唔笑嗰陣係 When you're not smiling, em...
• 9:37
  OK: 嚴肅認真啲 um...you're more serious and focused.
• 9:39
  Can: 係喇認真啦 Right, serious.
• 9:40
  Can: 安靜啦 Quiet.
• 9:42
  Can: 真係但其實可能熟咗之後 Yeah, but actually maybe once you get to know someone,
• 9:45
  Can: 就發現好多嘢講 you find you have a lot to talk about.
• 9:47
  Can: 一笑就發覺 As soon as you smile, you realize,
• 9:49
  OK: 都ok啦都幾好人嘅 oh, they're okay, actually, pretty nice.
• 9:51
  Can: 傻嘅 原來係 Oh, so that's what they're like.
• 9:53
  Can: 好啦 咁我哋頭先就講咗好多 Okay, so earlier we talked a lot
• 9:55
  Can: 我哋識新朋友嘅睇法啦 about how we see making new friends.
• 9:57
  Can: 即係可能我哋到底 Like, maybe what kind of person
• 9:58
  Can: 見到點樣嘅人會比佢 would catch our eye
• 10:01
  Can: 吸引到想同佢做朋友呀 and make us want to be friends with them.
• 10:03
  Can: 之類嗰啲 and stuff like that
• 10:04
  Can: 咁呢我哋就 So then, we
• 10:05
  Can: 就去到第三集喇 have reached episode three.
• 10:07
  Can: 終於要介紹一下 Finally, we need to introduce
• 10:08
  Can: 今日要教啲咩字呢 what phrase we're teaching today.
• 10:10
  Can: 就係我頭先講咗一句 It's the line I just said,
• 10:12
  Can: 形容ok嘅 the one that describes something about OK.
• 10:14
  Can: 四萬咁口 Sei4 maan6 gam2 hau2
• 10:16
  Can: 都算係一個俗語嚟嘅 It's basically a slang expression.
• 10:18
  Can: 咁「四萬咁口」嘅意思呢 What does "forty thousand mouths" mean?
• 10:20
  Can: 就係代表成日都 It means someone is always
• 10:22
  Can: 露齒笑開懷大笑 showing their teeth in a big, hearty laugh,
• 10:24
  Can: 笑得好開心 laughing really happily.
• 10:26
  Can: 而點解係四萬呢 And why “four ten-thousands”?
• 10:28
  Can: 就係因為唔知大家有冇 It's because, I don't know if everyone has
• 10:29
  Can: 打過麻雀啦 Played mahjong, right?
• 10:31
  Can: 係囉 你應該成日都 Yeah, you probably do all the time.
• 10:33
  Can: 會唔會係我打得多麻雀先至咁呢 Could it be because I play mahjong a lot?
• 10:35
  Can: 係囉 都可能係打得多麻雀 Yeah, that could be it too — playing a lot of mahjong.
• 10:37
  Can: 麻雀呢有嗰啲 In mahjong, there are those...
• 10:39
  Can: 唔同嘅數字幾萬一萬二萬 different numbers, like
• 10:39
  Can: 一萬, 二萬...
• 10:42
  Can: 而四萬個四呢 And the 四 in “四萬”...
• 10:44
  Can: 就係個四字 is the character for four.
• 10:45
  Can: 中文漢語嘅寫法呢就係 In written Chinese, it looks like...
• 10:48
  Can: 有個口裏面有兩撇 a mouth with two strokes inside.
• 10:50
  Can: 好似棚牙咁樣 It looks like a row of teeth.
• 10:52
  Can: 咁所以就形容 So that's why it describes...
• 10:53
  Can: 人好似嗰個四萬個「四」字咁 someone's smile looking like the character for 四 in “四萬”...
• 10:56
  Can: 露出佢嘅 showing their...
• 10:58
  Can: 牙齒 teeth.
• 11:00
  Can: 好燦爛咁樣笑喇 Laughing really brightly.
• 11:02
  Can: 咁形容 That's the way to describe it.
• 11:02
  Can: 喂 你做咩笑到四萬咁口呀 Hey, why are you grinning like that?
• 11:05
  Can: 或者 哇 Or, wow.
• 11:06
  Can: 佢中咗六合彩 Maybe they won the lottery.
• 11:07
  Can: 笑到四萬咁口喎咁樣 Grinning from ear to ear like that.
• 11:10
  Can: 即係就係好似個四字咁 It means, like the character for four.
• 11:12
  Can: 笑得好燦爛 Smiling so brightly.
• 11:13
  Can: 就好似我哋OK咁 Just like OK
• 11:15
  Can: 無時無刻都四萬咁口 Always grinning from ear to ear.
• 11:18
  OK: 你都係 You too.
• 11:19
  Can: 係 多謝 Yeah, thank you.
• 11:21
  Can: 好啦 咁如果你 All right, if you
• 11:22
  Can: 有朋友都係咁鐘意笑 have friends who also love to laugh,
• 11:25
  Can: 笑到四萬咁口 laughing from ear to ear.
• 11:26
  Can: 或者你有其他識新朋友嘅經歷啦 Or if you have other experiences of making new friends,
• 11:29
  Can: 都可以同我哋分享下 feel free to share them with us.
• 11:32
  OK: 希望你聽到呢個Podcast We hope that when you listen to this podcast,
• 11:33
  Can: 都可以笑到四萬咁口 you can smile as brightly as that too.
• 11:35
  Can: 係囉 Exactly.
• 11:36
  Can: 幾好喎呢個寓意 That's a nice meaning.
• 11:37
  Both: 好啦咁我哋下次再見啦 All right, see you next time.
• 11:40
  Both: 拜拜 Bye-bye.