Latest / Shawna and LaLa: Life Beyond The Mic / Cruising Through Anxiety and Success
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- 0:00Speaker 1: From the heart of the city, where the beat meets
- 0:03Speaker 1: the rhythm of your day. It's Shauna.
- 0:14Speaker 2: What's up? You're listening to Shauna and Lalla. Check us
- 0:17Speaker 2: out at Shauna and Lala dot com on all social
- 0:20Speaker 2: media platforms at Shauna and La La. You could follow
- 0:24Speaker 2: me on Instagram at the Real Shauna May.
- 0:28Speaker 3: And check me out at Bella Underscore Lalla one two five.
- 0:31Speaker 2: It has been a crazy week with this weather that
- 0:34Speaker 2: we're having. Last night it was thundering so hard the
- 0:39Speaker 2: house shook.
- 0:40Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like a quick thunderstorm, which I like
- 0:43Speaker 3: thunderstorm sometimes it's something like romantic about it or like comforting,
- 0:47Speaker 3: I should say, But when they last really long and
- 0:49Speaker 3: lose power. No, but yeah, that thunder was crazy last night.
- 0:53Speaker 2: It was so loud. I jumped and then the house
- 0:58Speaker 2: literally started shaking. And then I was looking on Facebook
- 1:02Speaker 2: and my friend posted she was at Walmart in Matamoras
- 1:07Speaker 2: or Milford, PA. And they wouldn't let the people leave
- 1:11Speaker 2: or go into the store because there was a tornado.
- 1:16Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. So they locked everyone in and then
- 1:19Speaker 3: kept everyone from coming in. Yeah, that's see that. I
- 1:22Speaker 3: would I think it'd be safe if you let people
- 1:24Speaker 3: run in because if they're in their cars, bye bye.
- 1:27Speaker 2: You know exactly, That's what I was saying.
- 1:29Speaker 3: I'd been banging on that door, like no, let me
- 1:31Speaker 3: inside this concrete building.
- 1:33Speaker 2: And then somebody wrote I was reading the comments, and
- 1:37Speaker 2: you know, you would think that you'd be safer in
- 1:39Speaker 2: the building rather than in your car or standing outside.
- 1:42Speaker 2: But somebody had wrote that their roofs are metal, Oh really,
- 1:50Speaker 2: and that it's not safe.
- 1:52Speaker 3: I didn't know that. We're gonna have to look at
- 1:54Speaker 3: like some Google images of Walmart's in Tornado Valley, because
- 1:58Speaker 3: there's a crap ton OFT's, you know, in the Midwest
- 2:02Speaker 3: and all that, and that's where they get hit a lot.
- 2:04Speaker 3: And in Florida. I've never seen a Walmart roof ripped off.
- 2:07Speaker 3: But maybe I don't know.
- 2:09Speaker 2: I mean, I'm that's just it.
- 2:11Speaker 3: Is metal, because now that I'm thinking, when I look up,
- 2:14Speaker 3: it is like just a metal roof.
- 2:16Speaker 2: So hu I never looked up. I never thought about it.
- 2:21Speaker 3: I only did one time because it was another storm downpour.
- 2:24Speaker 3: And you can you know, you ever you're ever in
- 2:26Speaker 3: a store and you just hear the rain just pounding
- 2:28Speaker 3: on the roof.
- 2:29Speaker 2: Yeah, like when you're in the mall.
- 2:30Speaker 3: Yeah, so Walmart is always really loud, and now it
- 2:33Speaker 3: makes sense because it's a metal roof, because you're like
- 2:36Speaker 3: you're shopping and all of a sudden you here and
- 2:39Speaker 3: I look up and you know, they have sometimes had
- 2:42Speaker 3: the skylights and i'd see the rain. So that's why
- 2:43Speaker 3: I know. Yeah, it is metal, but that's crazy. I
- 2:46Speaker 3: didn't know that. I guess I'm not running into a
- 2:48Speaker 3: Walmart during a tornado.
- 2:50Speaker 2: No, And I don't even go to Walmart.
- 2:54Speaker 3: I like Walmart.
- 2:55Speaker 2: I don't have to worry about it. I used to
- 2:59Speaker 2: love Walmart and then I don't know.
- 3:02Speaker 3: They're better now because yeah, they were good, and then
- 3:05Speaker 3: they got like really trashy, really just unorganized, just you know,
- 3:10Speaker 3: like crappy.
- 3:10Speaker 2: They're just empty, like especially our local one in Middletown,
- 3:15Speaker 2: it's never stocked. Ever.
- 3:17Speaker 3: Yeah, they're getting better. They are. Have you been, if
- 3:20Speaker 3: you've been in it lately, someone must have taken over,
- 3:23Speaker 3: some younger generation I think, came in and was like,
- 3:26Speaker 3: we need to revamp all these Walmarts. Now there are more.
- 3:29Speaker 3: They're not as good as Target yet, they're getting there,
- 3:31Speaker 3: but they have furniture set up like oh with the
- 3:34Speaker 3: place settings, the clothing is so much better. Oh my god,
- 3:38Speaker 3: the clothing is great. Yes.
- 3:39Speaker 2: When I went with you to get the Justice Simpson outfits,
- 3:44Speaker 2: I have to say I was very umbrassed.
- 3:46Speaker 3: Yeah. The clothing, I'm like, it's really good. And the styles,
- 3:53Speaker 3: you know, it used to be crappy, Like my mom
- 3:54Speaker 3: used to buy me Walmart clothes for school and I
- 3:56Speaker 3: get made fun of. Now this, it's really I like
- 4:01Speaker 3: Walmart's clothing better than Target's clothing now, and I used
- 4:04Speaker 3: to love Targets clothing. So yeah, they're stepping up their game.
- 4:07Speaker 3: So maybe seanna give it another chance. Go in shop around.
- 4:12Speaker 2: I'll have to go.
- 4:13Speaker 4: I'll go in the daytime, Yeah, don't go in the nighttime.
- 4:16Speaker 4: And nighttime is a little sketchy, yes, a little scary.
- 4:20Speaker 4: But although I did see on TikTok speaking of Target,
- 4:24Speaker 4: there is a lot of sex traffickers going to Targets.
- 4:28Speaker 3: Really. Yes, I'm wondering if it's because it's a lot
- 4:32Speaker 3: of kids in there usually or.
- 4:34Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking, So just be careful.
- 4:37Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, you know me, I always run into
- 4:40Speaker 3: someone weirdo, like that's just my luck song. I'll probably
- 4:43Speaker 3: run into a sex trafficker. Next time, I always get
- 4:47Speaker 3: the Mother of God. Women. Yeah, they always get me,
- 4:49Speaker 3: always get me, and I know it. As soon as
- 4:52Speaker 3: they oh, weird little door is cute, or I like
- 4:56Speaker 3: your dress, I'm like, my head goes to the side. Okay,
- 4:59Speaker 3: Mother of God. Okay, no, not interested. And for those
- 5:03Speaker 3: listening who don't know what the hell I'm talking about,
- 5:06Speaker 3: we have a I don't know if this religion is elsewhere,
- 5:09Speaker 3: but we have this big religious type cult in our
- 5:13Speaker 3: area that they are made up of a lot of
- 5:16Speaker 3: women and they believe that God is a woman, which
- 5:19Speaker 3: is fine, everyone could believe what they want. But they
- 5:21Speaker 3: call themselves the Mother of God or whatever, and they
- 5:24Speaker 3: go around, you know, Jehovah's come to your door and knock.
- 5:27Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:28Speaker 3: These people are told to go into stores, to go
- 5:31Speaker 3: into moles, go into and you know, parks, and then
- 5:35Speaker 3: they come up to you and it's usually women, and
- 5:38Speaker 3: they try to get you to come to their meetings
- 5:40Speaker 3: and they scared, like no pamphlets, they just when the
- 5:44Speaker 3: first time, you know me, I'm too nice. The first
- 5:46Speaker 3: time it happened to me, I didn't know what the
- 5:48Speaker 3: hell was going on, and they got me in Target
- 5:51Speaker 3: and they gave me their phone number and they gave
- 5:54Speaker 3: me the address. That's all they give you in your phone.
- 5:56Speaker 3: They'll they tell you to put in this is our
- 5:58Speaker 3: number and this is the location, and meet us here
- 6:01Speaker 3: Friday at this time. So it was scary, yeah, and
- 6:04Speaker 3: I was scared. And then more and more women were
- 6:06Speaker 3: complaining about this going on, like and they everyone was
- 6:09Speaker 3: saying they're sex traffickers or sex traffickers. So I started
- 6:11Speaker 3: to believe that till I looked up the address and
- 6:15Speaker 3: it was like this, it's not not, in my eyes,
- 6:18Speaker 3: a church, but it was their their church and they
- 6:21Speaker 3: have these weekly meetings and they just send women out
- 6:23Speaker 3: because women, I guess are more approachable and you feel
- 6:26Speaker 3: safer with them. But it is, it's annoying, it's sketchy.
- 6:28Speaker 3: It you know, you don't know, you don't know.
- 6:31Speaker 2: You don't know if there's somebody in the parking lot
- 6:33Speaker 2: waiting for you.
- 6:34Speaker 3: Yeah, and they usually have a man outside. And that's
- 6:37Speaker 3: what people have why they think they're sex traffickers. But
- 6:39Speaker 3: I don't know what they are. But yes, they're always
- 6:42Speaker 3: in Target. They always get me in Target and sometimes
- 6:45Speaker 3: the grocery store, and I'm like, nope, mother God. Nope, nope,
- 6:48Speaker 3: I'm good. I'm good.
- 6:50Speaker 2: So yeah, it's just scary these days.
- 6:53Speaker 3: And it's scary and it's annoying, like we should be
- 6:57Speaker 3: at the age where we're just leaving people alone. You
- 6:59Speaker 3: want have your religion, that's fine. If people find your
- 7:02Speaker 3: religion through friends or whatever, that's fine. Don't come to
- 7:05Speaker 3: our doors. Don't be stalking us in stores like I
- 7:08Speaker 3: feel like the should be that should be in the past,
- 7:10Speaker 3: Like enough, already enough enough, as long as they're not
- 7:13Speaker 3: sex trafficking me. And I could just tell them, hey,
- 7:16Speaker 3: go go away, leave me alone. I'm not interested.
- 7:21Speaker 2: So you leave for your cruise this weekend, right.
- 7:23Speaker 3: Yes, in Saturday, I'm leaving. So I'm excited, but not excited.
- 7:29Speaker 3: I know that sounds horrible, and I was kind of
- 7:31Speaker 3: venting to you about it, but it seems to be. See,
- 7:34Speaker 3: I was a party people who were Disney too. I'm
- 7:36Speaker 3: not one of those Disney adults. I didn't understand why
- 7:39Speaker 3: people were so obsessed as adults to go there.
- 7:42Speaker 2: You know, I don't get it either. I know many
- 7:45Speaker 2: adults that I know, some people that don't have children
- 7:50Speaker 2: I know, and they go two three times a year
- 7:54Speaker 2: a lot.
- 7:55Speaker 3: It's very odd to me, but I'm not gonna judge.
- 7:58Speaker 3: Just to me personally, it's odd. I went, you know,
- 8:02Speaker 3: I went last year and it was okay. It was expensive.
- 8:05Speaker 3: It was not worth the money. I thought everything was overpriced. Oh, extremely,
- 8:10Speaker 3: everything was waiting on lines, crowds. That's not a vacation
- 8:14Speaker 3: to me. But anyway, so I was a party paper
- 8:16Speaker 3: with that, and now I'm gonna be a party pooper
- 8:19Speaker 3: about my feelings towards cruises. I've never been on a
- 8:22Speaker 3: cruise besides when I was young, so I'm trying not
- 8:24Speaker 3: to judge by that. I was probably about six or seven,
- 8:29Speaker 3: seven years old, i'd say, and we went on the
- 8:31Speaker 3: big red boat, which was the Disney cruise, and we
- 8:35Speaker 3: hit a hurricane. So as you can imagine, that was horrendous.
- 8:38Speaker 3: Everyone was throwing up. I was throwing up. They would
- 8:40Speaker 3: throw up everywhere, like the walls had throw up, the
- 8:42Speaker 3: elevators had throw up. Oh, because everyone was seasick from
- 8:45Speaker 3: the boat from the hurricane, you know. And I swore
- 8:47Speaker 3: from that age, I'm like, I am never going on another.
- 8:49Speaker 2: We should have canceled, it is what they should have done.
- 8:52Speaker 5: Well.
- 8:52Speaker 3: They told us that they could get us around the hurricane.
- 8:55Speaker 3: We're gonna go around it. Nope, we didn't go We
- 8:58Speaker 3: maybe went around maybe the worst part of it, but
- 9:01Speaker 3: we were still in it, you know. So anyway, I'm
- 9:06Speaker 3: my family is taking us on a cruise for my
- 9:09Speaker 3: dad's seventieth birthday, and my stepmom is taking us, so
- 9:13Speaker 3: you know, I have no choice pretty much, and I'm
- 9:16Speaker 3: not going to be like, Nope, not going on a
- 9:18Speaker 3: trip that you're paying for, and I'm gonna give it
- 9:21Speaker 3: another shot. But oh my god, I feel so guilty
- 9:24Speaker 3: feeling like this. I'm anxious. I am like, I don't
- 9:29Speaker 3: even know what to expect. I'm not looking forward to
- 9:32Speaker 3: it other than being my family, you know, I'm like,
- 9:34Speaker 3: oh my god, it's a fully booked cruise. There's thousands
- 9:37Speaker 3: of people. That means, you know me, I don't like
- 9:39Speaker 3: a lot of people on my vacations. I want to
- 9:41Speaker 3: relax away from people. Uh yeah. So, but people like
- 9:46Speaker 3: you said, like with Disney, there's a lot of those
- 9:49Speaker 3: obsessed cruise people, like they swear by cruises and they
- 9:53Speaker 3: go on cruises multiple times a year every year.
- 9:57Speaker 2: Well, the people that I know that go on cruises,
- 10:01Speaker 2: they like it because they said which you told me,
- 10:04Speaker 2: is not the case that everything is included. Who drinks.
- 10:10Speaker 2: You could eat as much as you want, You could
- 10:12Speaker 2: drink as much as you want. You know, you can
- 10:15Speaker 2: go off to different islands and explore, and you know
- 10:19Speaker 2: there's always something to do in nightclubs and you're never bored.
- 10:23Speaker 2: And you know, I don't know. I've never been on
- 10:25Speaker 2: a cruise. I have no desire to go on a cruise.
- 10:28Speaker 2: It has always been my fear since I've seen the Titanic,
- 10:32Speaker 2: that the ship is going to crash, crash, and we're
- 10:36Speaker 2: all going.
- 10:36Speaker 3: To die ice bog straight ahead. This time, they hopefully
- 10:42Speaker 3: would have enough lifeboats for everybody. So yeah, all right,
- 10:48Speaker 3: I can only speak on going on the Royal Caribbean.
- 10:50Speaker 3: So I don't know if other cruise ships are all
- 10:52Speaker 3: inclusive meaning everything, but the Royal Caribbean is not. And
- 10:56Speaker 3: so you pay this large fee for a room and
- 11:00Speaker 3: includes the buffet. It includes the main dining room, which
- 11:05Speaker 3: has the same menu every day, it looks like, and
- 11:08Speaker 3: that's it. There's other restaurants on the boat that are nicer,
- 11:11Speaker 3: like a steakhouse, an Italian restaurant Johnny rockets.
- 11:15Speaker 2: I think, but those aren't included.
- 11:16Speaker 3: They're not included. No, you have to pay like thirty
- 11:19Speaker 3: to forty five dollars per person, and then drinks are
- 11:22Speaker 3: not included, not even soda, Like I couldn't. I would.
- 11:25Speaker 3: I understand if alcohol wasn't included, but they're not even
- 11:28Speaker 3: including soda or you know, it's just water basically in milk.
- 11:32Speaker 3: I think that's included. So I'm like, the.
- 11:34Speaker 2: Water probably isn't even bottled water. Yeah, it's probably water
- 11:38Speaker 2: from the ocean.
- 11:39Speaker 3: That's what I've read. It's from the ocean, and they desalient,
- 11:42Speaker 3: desalinate it like they take the salt out. So I
- 11:46Speaker 3: just I don't understand why people would like this. If
- 11:49Speaker 3: I go to an old inclusive resort in another country
- 11:52Speaker 3: or another island, everything's included. All inclusive means everything's included, drinks, soda, water, everything,
- 11:59Speaker 3: and I don't have to stress. So I'm not paying
- 12:02Speaker 3: for this cruise. But we paid for our drink package.
- 12:04Speaker 3: So for me to get my soda and iced tea
- 12:06Speaker 3: and my Virgin Pinuclata because I don't drink alcohol, that
- 12:09Speaker 3: was like one hundred and something dollars. My husband got
- 12:11Speaker 3: the alcohol package and that was like over two hundred
- 12:14Speaker 3: dollars and we had it on a discount. The regular
- 12:17Speaker 3: price would be astronomical, Like we got forty percent off.
- 12:20Speaker 2: So then you have Julia Night and Geo's drink package.
- 12:23Speaker 3: Yeah, so the kids and that's their drinks aren't included.
- 12:28Speaker 3: And then on top of that, now I'm like, all right,
- 12:30Speaker 3: we just paid this, we both the packages. That was
- 12:33Speaker 3: a lot of money. I'm thinking that's it. Nope. Now
- 12:37Speaker 3: I find out that at the end of the trip,
- 12:39Speaker 3: I'm gonna be hit with a twenty one dollar per
- 12:42Speaker 3: day per person fee for gratuity for the ship. So
- 12:46Speaker 3: you add that up. We're on a five day trip.
- 12:49Speaker 3: You add that up between four of us, and they
- 12:52Speaker 3: don't care that the baby's only three. She gets charged
- 12:55Speaker 3: that fee too. That's four hundred and twenty dollars at
- 12:58Speaker 3: the end of the strip.
- 12:59Speaker 2: Now hotels do that too, though I've not ever.
- 13:02Speaker 3: Thin some hotels have resort fees. Yes, is not what
- 13:06Speaker 3: it No, this is not this is a gratuity. Some
- 13:09Speaker 3: hotels have resort fees for like parking and all that.
- 13:13Speaker 3: But it says it right up front in your payment
- 13:15Speaker 3: there's a resort fee, and you could pay it at
- 13:17Speaker 3: the end degree. But like with this cruise, Like I
- 13:19Speaker 3: don't know, it wasn't in the price right there, you know,
- 13:21Speaker 3: Like when we go to resorts, it says resort fee
- 13:23Speaker 3: right there in the payment under the tax, and that's
- 13:26Speaker 3: added into your total. You know. I don't like these
- 13:29Speaker 3: surprise things. I don't like these things added on the end.
- 13:31Speaker 3: And I know it's not just me, because I'm in
- 13:33Speaker 3: a Facebook group for Royal Caribbean and so many people
- 13:36Speaker 3: every day are like, I just got to the end
- 13:38Speaker 3: of my trip and I just got charged six hundred
- 13:40Speaker 3: dollars in gratuity. What the hell is this? So there's
- 13:43Speaker 3: so many people who don't know or don't see it.
- 13:45Speaker 3: So it must be small print somewhere, you know what
- 13:47Speaker 3: I mean?
- 13:47Speaker 2: Oh of course.
- 13:49Speaker 3: So I don't like that about the cruises, that nothing
- 13:52Speaker 3: not everything's included. And I don't like being timed anywhere.
- 13:56Speaker 3: If I go on vacation, I will I'm going to
- 13:59Speaker 3: be to expel another culture or another island or a beach,
- 14:02Speaker 3: and I don't want to be timed. Like if I
- 14:04Speaker 3: want to go to the beach at six am and
- 14:05Speaker 3: I want to stay there till midnight, that's what I
- 14:07Speaker 3: want to do. But with cruises, Like, I don't know
- 14:09Speaker 3: how people like to go to a beach and be
- 14:12Speaker 3: on a timeland. Okay, shoot, we got to make sure
- 14:14Speaker 3: we do this, this, and this and get back to the
- 14:15Speaker 3: dock by this time or else the boat's leaving without us,
- 14:18Speaker 3: and then you're really screwed, you know. And that's what
- 14:21Speaker 3: I never It never appealed to me. The only thing
- 14:24Speaker 3: that appeals to me about a cruise is the entertainment,
- 14:26Speaker 3: because I love entertainment. So there's a ton of that.
- 14:28Speaker 3: Everyone's telling me. Dance nightclubs, shows, this, this and that.
- 14:33Speaker 3: That appeals to me. And being able to check out
- 14:36Speaker 3: other islands to see where we want to go on
- 14:38Speaker 3: the next vacation, Like so we're going to Bermuda next week.
- 14:42Speaker 3: We've never been there, and we never were. We always
- 14:44Speaker 3: wanted to go, but we weren't sure if it would
- 14:45Speaker 3: be a good place to go to. So the good
- 14:47Speaker 3: thing about a cruise is, yeah, you go in, you
- 14:49Speaker 3: take a sneak peak of it, and then you know,
- 14:51Speaker 3: you get back on the boat and maybe hit other
- 14:53Speaker 3: islands and take a sneak peak at them. That's a
- 14:55Speaker 3: good thing, but not to do every vacation, like I
- 14:58Speaker 3: don't get that of it. So anyway, yeah, we'll see
- 15:03Speaker 3: if I change my tune after this trip, if I
- 15:06Speaker 3: like cruises or if I hate them. Hopefully I don't
- 15:09Speaker 3: get sea sick because I have an issue with that.
- 15:11Speaker 3: I brought a lot of dramamine, a lot of anti
- 15:14Speaker 3: nausea for me, for the kids. Let's just let's hope
- 15:18Speaker 3: it's good.
- 15:18Speaker 2: Julina gets sick in the car car, so she's.
- 15:22Speaker 3: She's gonna be with me. We're gonna probably probably have
- 15:24Speaker 3: a lot of nausea on this trip. So I bought everything.
- 15:27Speaker 3: The bands for the wrist, there's patches behind the ear,
- 15:30Speaker 3: peppermint oil, the sniff the anti nausea liquid. You got, Julina,
- 15:35Speaker 3: I got myself stuff. So I'm all hooked up and
- 15:38Speaker 3: hopefully it helps.
- 15:40Speaker 2: Well. I have zofran if you need.
- 15:42Speaker 3: I'll probably take that too. Well, you know this is
- 15:47Speaker 3: what I mean. I have so much anxiety about this.
- 15:50Speaker 3: I traveled a lot of places all over the world,
- 15:53Speaker 3: and I've never really cared. I've never been this stressed out,
- 15:55Speaker 3: but I'm so stressed out about this cruise. I can't
- 15:58Speaker 3: even tell you. It's like, what is going? Why I learned? Why? Why?
- 16:01Speaker 2: Because and the funny part about it is you don't
- 16:03Speaker 2: have to travel really anywhere because you're just driving an
- 16:07Speaker 2: hour and a half de side to the port.
- 16:10Speaker 3: Yeah, it's an hour and a half. The port is
- 16:11Speaker 3: an hour and a half from our house. And then
- 16:13Speaker 3: we just get on the boat, which is nice that
- 16:15Speaker 3: I could see how that would appeal to people too.
- 16:17Speaker 3: You don't have to take a flight. Yeah, just get
- 16:19Speaker 3: on a boat. That's great, I get it. But the
- 16:22Speaker 3: other stuff about, you know, having to pay for drinks
- 16:26Speaker 3: and the good food, Like we're getting the shit food
- 16:28Speaker 3: for free. When I go to an all inclusive resort,
- 16:31Speaker 3: you can go to a buffet, but you can also
- 16:33Speaker 3: go to all the amazing restaurants at the resort and
- 16:37Speaker 3: it's included in your costs, you know. So I just
- 16:40Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe these people have never been to
- 16:42Speaker 3: a resort and that's why they think the cruise is
- 16:44Speaker 3: the best thing in the world. But again, maybe I
- 16:47Speaker 3: change my tune next week when I come back and
- 16:48Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, Shauna, I'm never doing anything
- 16:51Speaker 3: other than cruising around the world. I doubt it, but
- 16:54Speaker 3: we'll see.
- 16:55Speaker 2: You never know. I just know that it is not
- 16:58Speaker 2: for me.
- 16:59Speaker 3: No, no, and yeah, well, well, well I will update
- 17:04Speaker 3: you guys. Maybe I'll do a little vlog while I'm
- 17:07Speaker 3: on the cruise to show you my anxiety and uh,
- 17:11Speaker 3: when I'm in a crowd, maybe like, oh my god,
- 17:13Speaker 3: look at the line of people in the trying to
- 17:14Speaker 3: get in the elevator. Look how shitty this buffet food looks.
- 17:18Speaker 3: Look at the vomit coming out of that girl. No,
- 17:20Speaker 3: I won't do that, but well, I'll keep you guys updated.
- 17:25Speaker 2: You're gonna be studying by the pool if you can
- 17:28Speaker 2: even get a pool chair, I know, and you're just
- 17:31Speaker 2: gonna be like stuck there the whole time.
- 17:33Speaker 3: I'm gonna try and do like there's a lot of karaoke,
- 17:36Speaker 3: there's a lot of shows, there's dance classes, so that
- 17:38Speaker 3: I think that is the good part about the cruise.
- 17:40Speaker 3: So I'm gonna try and do those things during the
- 17:42Speaker 3: day besides going in the pool. And you know, the
- 17:46Speaker 3: kids are probably gonna have The kids will have a blast.
- 17:48Speaker 3: I think, as long as they're not seasick, they'll have
- 17:50Speaker 3: a blast. And hopefully no one catches the neumal virus
- 17:54Speaker 3: or no one catches some crazy disease while on this cruise. Ship,
- 17:57Speaker 3: because that's my other fear during COVID. Do you remember
- 18:00Speaker 3: happened to that cruise ship. No, they got stuck on
- 18:03Speaker 3: it for months to the people because COVID hit and
- 18:05Speaker 3: like they didn't want to spread or whatever. I forget,
- 18:09Speaker 3: but they were on that trip the ship for months
- 18:11Speaker 3: and it was like horrible, like they quarantined the ship
- 18:15Speaker 3: to be locked down, you know what I mean.
- 18:17Speaker 2: A few years ago, my friend went on a cruise,
- 18:21Speaker 2: probably Royal Caribbean, and she it was like a seven
- 18:26Speaker 2: day cruise or something, and in the middle of the cruise,
- 18:30Speaker 2: they hit a storm but they missed it, but they
- 18:33Speaker 2: couldn't get off the boat for whatever reason. Yeah, so
- 18:37Speaker 2: they had to stay on the boat like an extra
- 18:39Speaker 2: I don't know, a few days and they got charged.
- 18:43Speaker 2: So like her vacation, you know, it was like seven
- 18:47Speaker 2: days or whatever, so she missed work and they charged
- 18:51Speaker 2: extra few days. Yeah, but they charged like I don't know,
- 18:54Speaker 2: twenty five or fifty dollars. Oh okay, okay, but still
- 18:58Speaker 2: I'm like, you couldn't get off the cruise. She's like no,
- 19:00Speaker 2: but she's like, you know, they kept us entertained, you know.
- 19:05Speaker 3: I mean, life is not too bad. But that's there,
- 19:08Speaker 3: that's there on them that I should have to pay
- 19:10Speaker 3: for that exactly.
- 19:11Speaker 2: See, that is what would scare me. And being in
- 19:14Speaker 2: the middle of the ocean and not by land.
- 19:18Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm wondering how I'm gonna feel about that. My
- 19:21Speaker 3: sister said, it's kind of eerie that you wake up
- 19:23Speaker 3: and we have a balcony that you go to the
- 19:25Speaker 3: balcony and there's just nothing for miles around, like when
- 19:28Speaker 3: you're looking out, and yeah, that's that is kind of creepy.
- 19:31Speaker 3: It's scary and yeah, and yeah, I'm gonna try not
- 19:35Speaker 3: to think negative because I'm gonna start like, where's the lifeboat?
- 19:38Speaker 3: What if this sayings the sharks are gonna get us?
- 19:41Speaker 2: Like I would be wearing my life jacket the whole time.
- 19:45Speaker 3: I saws a mom asking that the group I'm in
- 19:48Speaker 3: for the cruises if anyone could suggest a portable life
- 19:53Speaker 3: jacket that she can keep in her like purse for
- 19:55Speaker 3: her whole family, like a few of them, and that
- 19:58Speaker 3: they could just pop on. I I didn't read the
- 20:00Speaker 3: comments to see if there was such a thing, but
- 20:02Speaker 3: I'm I'm sure there's probably something like in the airplanes
- 20:05Speaker 3: that go into your seat you know, but I don't
- 20:07Speaker 3: think it would fit in a purse. But shant to
- 20:10Speaker 3: be like one round her head, her neck. She had
- 20:12Speaker 3: swimmy's on her arms, swimmy's on her ankle.
- 20:17Speaker 2: Walking down the hallway, you're going swimming.
- 20:20Speaker 3: Nope, nope, just in case, just in case, and go
- 20:25Speaker 3: down the Shanta be drifting off. Everyone's stuck you home
- 20:28Speaker 3: by the cruise. And then they're saying sea's drifting off
- 20:30Speaker 3: in the waves.
- 20:32Speaker 2: There she goes, cruises are not for me.
- 20:37Speaker 3: Oh man, I'll make sure we don't book that for
- 20:39Speaker 3: your your fortieth nice fortieth birthday cruise. I'm gonna tell
- 20:43Speaker 3: your mom Shaana would love that take her on a
- 20:46Speaker 3: cruise or her fortieth birthday. I'll get you some inflatables
- 20:51Speaker 3: as a prank.
- 20:51Speaker 2: If and that will be the time that she actually schedules,
- 20:55Speaker 2: then you won't be.
- 20:55Speaker 3: Like, good, good idea, I don't have to go to
- 20:57Speaker 3: the airport. Okay, let's oh happy birthday, Oh Jesus. And
- 21:07Speaker 3: we were just talking about how Julina gets carsick.
- 21:11Speaker 2: So poor kid can't go anywhere.
- 21:13Speaker 3: I know her so her I've tried two car seats
- 21:17Speaker 3: with her and Seana can attest to this it was
- 21:20Speaker 3: hours or hour. It could be hours or thirty minutes
- 21:24Speaker 3: worth of her screaming the whole time. The seed hurts,
- 21:26Speaker 3: the seed hurts, the seed hurts. Then she'd get car sick.
- 21:29Speaker 3: Then she'd throw up, and it was like I tried
- 21:33Speaker 3: a different car seat, nothing, it would still be like
- 21:35Speaker 3: her screaming, the seed hurts, the seed hurts, and I'm
- 21:37Speaker 3: getting car sick. So I've had like this dream car
- 21:42Speaker 3: seat on my wish list, you know, my dream car seat.
- 21:44Speaker 3: It was the Great Go Easy Turn three sixty. And
- 21:47Speaker 3: I think many moms probably have this on their wishlist
- 21:49Speaker 3: because it's so cool. It's so unique. The car seat
- 21:52Speaker 3: actually can spin three hundred and sixty degrees around forever.
- 21:55Speaker 3: You know. However, you need to get the baby in
- 21:57Speaker 3: or out. And I love it because in a small car,
- 22:00Speaker 3: this is amazing. When I used to have my little
- 22:02Speaker 3: Honda Civic, I'd always hit my head. I'd have to
- 22:04Speaker 3: reach in and climb, you know, kind of squeeze my
- 22:07Speaker 3: body to get the baby in. So this is the
- 22:10Speaker 3: perfect car seat for a smaller car. But I have
- 22:11Speaker 3: it in my pickup truck now and it's still perfect.
- 22:14Speaker 3: Before I get her in, I just turn the seat
- 22:15Speaker 3: and she can climb right in it, and then we
- 22:17Speaker 3: spin her right back around and knock on wood. It's
- 22:21Speaker 3: been a week and she has not gotten carsick. She
- 22:24Speaker 3: has not complained that the car hurts her, the seat
- 22:27Speaker 3: hurts her. So I think it's a winner. I love it,
- 22:31Speaker 3: and I hope it is a winner for her because
- 22:32Speaker 3: I don't ever want to go back to the traditional
- 22:35Speaker 3: car seats after this. And I love it that it
- 22:37Speaker 3: will grow with her until she's sixty five pounds and
- 22:40Speaker 3: she's tiny. She's like twenty twenty seven, twenty eight pounds
- 22:42Speaker 3: right now, so we have a lot of years with
- 22:45Speaker 3: this car seat.
- 22:46Speaker 2: Is it one that can't grow with you?
- 22:48Speaker 3: Yeah, it's to grow with you. So it'll go from
- 22:50Speaker 3: the baby seat to a booster seat for her. And
- 22:54Speaker 3: it has like four reclined positions, which I love, so
- 22:56Speaker 3: when they're little, they could sleep in it, you know.
- 22:59Speaker 3: And it's just solid and it has the snuglock. Oh
- 23:02Speaker 3: my god. I can't say enough about snuglocknuglock. So you've
- 23:09Speaker 3: never put in a car seat, but if you have
- 23:10Speaker 3: put in a car seat, it is one of my like,
- 23:13Speaker 3: I hate it. I'd rather do anything than putting in
- 23:16Speaker 3: a car seat or taking out a car seat, but
- 23:17Speaker 3: putting it in is even worse because the stupid anchors.
- 23:21Speaker 3: You gotta get the anchors in. You got to tighten them,
- 23:23Speaker 3: and they never tighten. It's so hard to tighten them.
- 23:26Speaker 3: I don't know why. My brother in law can kind
- 23:28Speaker 3: of do it, like he's pretty good at it. He's
- 23:30Speaker 3: a cop, so he was trained. But so I always
- 23:32Speaker 3: have to drive to his house. But like, can you
- 23:34Speaker 3: tighten this car seat? You know, and he'd put his
- 23:36Speaker 3: knee in it, and he has a push and pull
- 23:37Speaker 3: and push and pull. It's not an easy process and
- 23:40Speaker 3: I can never get it tight. So with snugglock, oh
- 23:44Speaker 3: you just.
- 23:44Speaker 2: Buckle it in.
- 23:45Speaker 3: No, you put these anchors in and if there you
- 23:49Speaker 3: gotta like pull on the I don't even know what's
- 23:52Speaker 3: called it, the belt to make the seat like tight
- 23:54Speaker 3: against the seat. You know. In the old days, we
- 23:57Speaker 3: use the car strap like the seat belt that would
- 23:59Speaker 3: go through it. They don't use it anymore. Like I
- 24:02Speaker 3: guess this is safer. You still can if you don't
- 24:05Speaker 3: have the anchor things on the bottom, but most car
- 24:06Speaker 3: now have these anchors like the end that you can
- 24:09Speaker 3: put the anchors onto them, so you just can't tighten them.
- 24:13Speaker 3: No matter what you do, is never tighten off. So
- 24:15Speaker 3: with the snuglock, you put the anchors in, you kind
- 24:18Speaker 3: of tighten it not too much, and this snuglock puts
- 24:20Speaker 3: the belt underneath it and then you clip it shut
- 24:25Speaker 3: and then it tightens it and holds it in place
- 24:27Speaker 3: and it cannot move. It was So it's probably the
- 24:30Speaker 3: safest my daughter has been in a car seat since
- 24:33Speaker 3: she was an infant, because I never had snuglock before.
- 24:37Speaker 3: That was the number one on my list too, was
- 24:39Speaker 3: for finding a Greeco car seat with the snuglock. So
- 24:42Speaker 3: I'm very happy with that. And in the video I
- 24:45Speaker 3: posted a video and you'll see, like if you watch it,
- 24:47Speaker 3: you'll see the snuglock. I close it onto the belt
- 24:50Speaker 3: and it just tightens it immediately, So it's so easy.
- 24:52Speaker 3: Oh my god. So again this is easy for mom
- 24:55Speaker 3: and dad getting a kid in and out of the car.
- 24:57Speaker 3: It's gonna grow with them, and it's safe and you
- 25:00Speaker 3: you could feel how safe it is by using the
- 25:01Speaker 3: snug lock, and it's not going to be a pain
- 25:03Speaker 3: in the butt, which car seats ninety nine percent of
- 25:06Speaker 3: the time are is.
- 25:07Speaker 2: It easy to turn, Like, would I be able to
- 25:09Speaker 2: turn it and get Julia out?
- 25:11Speaker 3: Yeah, one handed, one handed. I in the video you
- 25:14Speaker 3: see that I do it one handed, and because I
- 25:17Speaker 3: had the phone on my other hand, I was filming
- 25:19Speaker 3: and I'm like, how am I going to do this? Nope.
- 25:20Speaker 3: It is so smooth and then it locks right in place,
- 25:24Speaker 3: so with one hand you could just pull it and
- 25:26Speaker 3: it spins around and then it locks in place so
- 25:28Speaker 3: you don't worry about it moving while you're driving. But
- 25:30Speaker 3: absolutely love it. Highly recommend it for new moms or
- 25:34Speaker 3: mom's old moms like, I'm this is my second child,
- 25:38Speaker 3: she's three years old, and I needed it because I
- 25:40Speaker 3: was just so sick and tired of the other car
- 25:42Speaker 3: seats and they weren't comfortable. And now these new car
- 25:45Speaker 3: seats you can throw them the whole thing in the wash,
- 25:47Speaker 3: besides obviously the base, but you just pull off the
- 25:49Speaker 3: whole thing one two three, they cot, the cushions come off,
- 25:52Speaker 3: goes right in the wash. So if she does get carsick,
- 25:55Speaker 3: knock on wood, hopefully she won't. If she does get
- 25:58Speaker 3: carsick into the wash, it and it's easy to put
- 26:01Speaker 3: back on. Another pro are you taking it?
- 26:05Speaker 2: With you on the cruise.
- 26:07Speaker 3: No, I don't need it for the cruise, but I
- 26:09Speaker 3: mean driving there. Yes, when I get to Bermuda, We're
- 26:12Speaker 3: probably not going to go anywhere far. We'll prob I
- 26:14Speaker 3: just walk because I'm not I'm not lugging a car
- 26:16Speaker 3: seat like, I'm just not doing that. But if yeah,
- 26:19Speaker 3: when I go to Florida in July, taking it on
- 26:23Speaker 3: the on the plane and bringing it, you know, so
- 26:25Speaker 3: we could put it in our rental car.
- 26:28Speaker 2: And if she does throw up, you could always use
- 26:31Speaker 2: our handy dandy Force of Nature.
- 26:33Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yes, yes, and you know, you know me,
- 26:36Speaker 3: I like things that are not full of chemicals and toxins. Yeah,
- 26:40Speaker 3: so Force in Nature is perfect for that. Perfect that
- 26:43Speaker 3: that's another mom must have.
- 26:45Speaker 2: We featured them a few times, a few times.
- 26:47Speaker 3: I love it. I use it in my kitchen. My
- 26:49Speaker 3: sister has one, my friends have them. It's it's a
- 26:52Speaker 3: great way to kind of get away from the traditional
- 26:55Speaker 3: house cleaners that are just full of chemicals and toxic toxins,
- 27:00Speaker 3: hormone disruptors, endocrine disruptors. That's all in the basic cleaners nowadays,
- 27:05Speaker 3: and it's so so bad for you, especially the fragrances.
- 27:09Speaker 3: And I always say, it's kind of sad we grew
- 27:11Speaker 3: up that way. We grew up having to smell a bleach.
- 27:14Speaker 3: We grew up having the fabuloso or the fantastic and
- 27:18Speaker 3: thinking or the lysole cleaners like oh that smell meant
- 27:21Speaker 3: a clean house and the snuggle snuggle, Yeah, all that stuff,
- 27:25Speaker 3: Like we it was kind of ingrained in us. If
- 27:27Speaker 3: you smell the stuff, that means the house is clean. Meanwhile,
- 27:29Speaker 3: those smells are so toxic and yeah, your house might
- 27:32Speaker 3: be clean, but it's full of like cancer, cancer, basically
- 27:37Speaker 3: cancer and disruptors, and it's not good for you. So
- 27:40Speaker 3: Force in nature just uses your regular tap water and
- 27:45Speaker 3: these like I'm gonna call them saline packets or you know,
- 27:48Speaker 3: it's not just salt, but it's a just natural compounds
- 27:52Speaker 3: and it's ionized. You put it in the bottle and
- 27:55Speaker 3: it sits on this little thing and it kind of
- 27:58Speaker 3: ionizes the water and it charges so almost like a
- 28:02Speaker 3: saltwater filter for a pool, where when it kind of
- 28:05Speaker 3: electrocutes it, it turns it into a natural chlorine or
- 28:10Speaker 3: you know, which is a disinfectant. So it's not really bleach,
- 28:13Speaker 3: but it is it's a natural disinfectant. So I am
- 28:17Speaker 3: big about disinfecting, and that was the other thing. Once
- 28:19Speaker 3: I was going natural, it was hard to find cleaners
- 28:22Speaker 3: that actually killed germs too, not just cleaned up the dirt.
- 28:25Speaker 3: I wanted germs gone, so force the nature is perfect
- 28:28Speaker 3: for that. So it's natural, no fragrance, it's toxic, toxin free,
- 28:35Speaker 3: and it kills germs and bacteria. And you can remake
- 28:38Speaker 3: it from your kitchen sink, just at the Bible. Little
- 28:41Speaker 3: packets and your kitchen tapwater can create this amazing powerful cleaner.
- 28:48Speaker 2: This week, we caught up with Melissa van Riper from
- 28:53Speaker 2: Clear Light. We featured them last week on the show.
- 28:56Speaker 2: It is the Red Light Personal Red Light Therapy Tower,
- 29:01Speaker 2: and we're obsessed with it, absolutely in love with it
- 29:05Speaker 2: and can't get enough of it.
- 29:07Speaker 3: Actually every night, twenty minutes every single night.
- 29:11Speaker 2: Yeah, And so we caught up with her and she's
- 29:15Speaker 2: gonna give a little bit of insight into the company
- 29:19Speaker 2: and how the red Light actually works and can benefit you.
- 29:25Speaker 2: You're listening to Shauna and La La. We are here
- 29:28Speaker 2: with Melissa Van Riper from Clear Light, Saunas and Red
- 29:34Speaker 2: Light Therapy. As you know, last week we spoke about
- 29:38Speaker 2: us having the red light, and I love it. You
- 29:42Speaker 2: love it every night.
- 29:43Speaker 3: I use it every single night. I have it on
- 29:46Speaker 3: my nightstand, so it's like my non negotiable at night,
- 29:49Speaker 3: I get ready in bed, I lay there, I put
- 29:51Speaker 3: it on for like twenty five minutes, twenty minutes, and
- 29:54Speaker 3: I just zen out. And I have noticed it took
- 29:58Speaker 3: a few days that I started to like, I'm sleeping better.
- 30:01Speaker 3: I'm really truly sleeping better. I feel relaxed.
- 30:06Speaker 2: You know.
- 30:07Speaker 3: Everyone's always a little bit hesitant with things like is
- 30:10Speaker 3: this really working? You know, but I truly will hardly
- 30:14Speaker 3: believe it. It has been.
- 30:16Speaker 2: I used it. I've been having a lot of like
- 30:19Speaker 2: major stomach issues, and it just helped me like relax
- 30:23Speaker 2: and clear my mind.
- 30:25Speaker 3: I think that with you. Shanna has a lot of inflammation,
- 30:29Speaker 3: So I think it's going to be beneficial to her
- 30:31Speaker 3: the longer that she uses it in her body. You know,
- 30:35Speaker 3: she has CP, she has a lot of GI issues.
- 30:38Speaker 3: What else, right?
- 30:39Speaker 2: I know I have terrible migraines, terrible pain, you know,
- 30:45Speaker 2: and I've been struggling with it forever. But I think
- 30:50Speaker 2: it's really going to help me.
- 30:52Speaker 5: Yeah, consistency is the key with any I mean, I'm
- 30:56Speaker 5: sure you know anything that you try. People always ask me, oh,
- 30:59Speaker 5: what do you do for bibermlager? I'm like about a
- 31:02Speaker 5: thousand things, Like not one thing is going to help
- 31:07Speaker 5: or doesn't help me. I wish. I wish it was
- 31:09Speaker 5: one thing.
- 31:10Speaker 2: I know.
- 31:11Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because it's like that's what I said, that
- 31:14Speaker 3: if she starts every single night using it, I think
- 31:18Speaker 3: that she's going to see a difference. Like I've seen
- 31:21Speaker 3: my sleep. You know, I don't have as many health
- 31:23Speaker 3: issues as her, but it could be helping me in
- 31:25Speaker 3: my brain fog and like who knows that I've been
- 31:27Speaker 3: so overwhelmed and you know I need a magic pill
- 31:31Speaker 3: for that.
- 31:32Speaker 5: Yeah, I wish.
- 31:35Speaker 2: So what is your role at clear Light.
- 31:37Speaker 5: I am the consumer product manager at ClearLight, so that
- 31:42Speaker 5: means a lot of things. I work on the R
- 31:46Speaker 5: and D of new products and development, and I also
- 31:52Speaker 5: work on the existing products and making them and improving
- 31:57Speaker 5: them as technology improves. Obviously, I work very closely with
- 32:02Speaker 5: both of our owners, Rally and Andy.
- 32:06Speaker 3: They are.
- 32:09Speaker 5: Really amazing. I've done product development for a really long time,
- 32:13Speaker 5: over twenty years, and this is the only company where
- 32:18Speaker 5: they are continuously trying to add cost to their products.
- 32:25Speaker 5: They're like, oh, we're not costing, we don't cost down,
- 32:27Speaker 5: we cost up. So they're just constantly trying to make
- 32:30Speaker 5: a better product that you know, like we're working on
- 32:35Speaker 5: our sauna app now where that technology didn't exist, you know,
- 32:40Speaker 5: twenty almost thirty actually almost thirty years ago when they started.
- 32:44Speaker 5: So they're just constantly improving their products, which I think
- 32:48Speaker 5: is really commendable, and they care about the people who
- 32:53Speaker 5: buy their product. They offer a lifetime, your lifetime warranty
- 32:58Speaker 5: on the saunas, which is really amazing.
- 33:00Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't see that with many products.
- 33:02Speaker 2: No, No, and ys see companies cutting down cost.
- 33:08Speaker 5: Yes, always in my career. So yeah, but red light,
- 33:13Speaker 5: I've you know, as a chronically ill person, you hear
- 33:17Speaker 5: these things, right, Oh, red light it's good for you.
- 33:20Speaker 5: This is good for you, and you know exactly know why.
- 33:25Speaker 5: But you're like, okay, I should look into that, right.
- 33:28Speaker 5: But with red light, it's not just that, you know,
- 33:31Speaker 5: I think one of the famous parts of red light
- 33:34Speaker 5: is that it'll help with you know, skin rejuvenation. Everybody
- 33:37Speaker 5: sees those very robotic led masks out there. Skin rejuvenation
- 33:43Speaker 5: is like quite frankly the surface level of the healing
- 33:47Speaker 5: that it does. It goes, it goes. You know. Yeah,
- 33:53Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm trying not to make like a weird
- 33:55Speaker 5: skin pun, but yeah, it goes. It's it's it's to
- 33:58Speaker 5: the cellular level. Honestly. Personally, I use the Personal. I
- 34:03Speaker 5: have all of our units, but I have the Personal
- 34:06Speaker 5: right next to my desk, and I use it all
- 34:08Speaker 5: of the time. So I use it. I had some
- 34:12Speaker 5: like surgeries, I use it on like scars and wound healing.
- 34:15Speaker 5: I use it on every ache and pain that I have.
- 34:18Speaker 5: So if I have an ear infection, I put it
- 34:20Speaker 5: on my ear. If I have I have a sits
- 34:22Speaker 5: behind my knee, I stick it behind there. If I'm
- 34:24Speaker 5: sore after physical therapy, I just kind of prop it up.
- 34:28Speaker 5: And the size of it makes it so that you
- 34:31Speaker 5: can do that. You know, with our larger towers, those
- 34:34Speaker 5: are great for like overall, you know, kind of a
- 34:38Speaker 5: one stop shop. You know, you're sitting in the sun
- 34:41Speaker 5: en you use our core tower. That's great because you
- 34:43Speaker 5: don't have to like, you know, maneuver it around. You're
- 34:46Speaker 5: kind of covering your whole body. But this one is
- 34:48Speaker 5: really portable and you're able to like specifically target and
- 34:53Speaker 5: position it where you need relief the most. And if
- 34:57Speaker 5: it's you know, muscle recovery, you can focus on that.
- 35:01Speaker 5: If you're putting it next to your bed for sleep,
- 35:05Speaker 5: it actually is also great in the morning to help
- 35:07Speaker 5: wake you up and stabilize your circadian rhythms. Honestly, the
- 35:12Speaker 5: more research that you do on red light therapy, the
- 35:15Speaker 5: more that you're like, Wow, this really can help with
- 35:17Speaker 5: so many different things.
- 35:19Speaker 2: Yeah, and I like the fact that there's no medication
- 35:22Speaker 2: involved and it's all natural.
- 35:25Speaker 5: Yes. One thing that I've love about all of the
- 35:29Speaker 5: therapies that we offer is that they're not invasive. I'm sure.
- 35:34Speaker 5: I always say, like, I've done some shady stuff to
- 35:37Speaker 5: heal my body, you know, going into like different chambers
- 35:44Speaker 5: and you know, getting poked with things and trying different
- 35:48Speaker 5: therapies and stuff. This you just sit there and I
- 35:51Speaker 5: can just go about my day and you know, or
- 35:54Speaker 5: even I'm just working and I put the red light
- 35:57Speaker 5: wherever it needs to go. So it's non invasive. It's
- 36:02Speaker 5: you don't have to do you don't have to do much.
- 36:05Speaker 5: It is easy, which you know, is very convenient.
- 36:10Speaker 3: That's why I love it because I just press the button,
- 36:13Speaker 3: put the time on, and then I don't have to
- 36:15Speaker 3: do anything else. I don't have to work out, I
- 36:16Speaker 3: don't have to drink something, I don't have to anything.
- 36:20Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't have to go anywhere or deal with anyone.
- 36:24Speaker 2: Yeah, you could take it with you, like on vacation.
- 36:28Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it's true. Yeah. So do you want me
- 36:33Speaker 5: to go into like the background of red light therapy
- 36:36Speaker 5: or have you guys done that already?
- 36:39Speaker 2: No, you can definitely go into the background of it.
- 36:41Speaker 3: Okay, we're going to ask that, Like, so you know,
- 36:44Speaker 3: if you can explain what red light therapy is to
- 36:47Speaker 3: pay people and you know how it differs from this
- 36:50Speaker 3: regular some light, you know, regular the light bulb in
- 36:52Speaker 3: your house, you know.
- 36:54Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 36:54Speaker 5: So, red light therapy is known as photo biomagulation, also
- 37:00Speaker 5: known as low level light therapy. It uses specific low
- 37:05Speaker 5: level wavelengths to provide therapy and wellness benefits. So we
- 37:13Speaker 5: use on our red light, we use six fifty and
- 37:17Speaker 5: six fifty nanometers, so that's the specific wavelength, and for
- 37:22Speaker 5: near infrared we use eight fifty So those are specific
- 37:27Speaker 5: wavelengths for the human body. We find that there are
- 37:32Speaker 5: quite a lot of people who use plant grow lights
- 37:37Speaker 5: and repurpose them as as human human red lights, which
- 37:42Speaker 5: are not the same wavelength. So but funny enough, that's
- 37:46Speaker 5: how that's how red light therapy was discovered. It was
- 37:49Speaker 5: discovered in you know space that they realized that red
- 37:54Speaker 5: light therapy was able to use be used during to
- 37:58Speaker 5: help plants grow and and they were like, oh, this
- 38:01Speaker 5: is interesting. That can that help with humans? And it can.
- 38:07Speaker 5: So there's a lot of science involved re light therapy
- 38:13Speaker 5: first started. I'm like, wow, this is verywhelming. So in
- 38:17Speaker 5: a nutshell, relate therapy taps into the power of the
- 38:23Speaker 5: red and near infrared wavelengths to boost energy production to
- 38:27Speaker 5: our cells, which then gives our cells more energy and
- 38:32Speaker 5: more life. So we're born with a certain amount of
- 38:35Speaker 5: cells and like that's it. So you're born with x
- 38:38Speaker 5: amount of cells, and it's our jobs to keep them
- 38:42Speaker 5: healthy and living and vital. So red light produces ATP
- 38:48Speaker 5: and that gives our body. It gives our cells more energy.
- 38:52Speaker 5: So the red and near infrared wavelengths increase the energy
- 38:56Speaker 5: production in our cells to create a mill you'll called
- 39:00Speaker 5: at P and that generates cellular energy. Yeah.
- 39:04Speaker 3: So it's like I was reading that when we when
- 39:07Speaker 3: we get regular sunlight, it goes into the cells and
- 39:10Speaker 3: it creates vitamin D and red light. It's like stronger
- 39:14Speaker 3: than that, or it creates a different, you know, type
- 39:16Speaker 3: of energy and it helps the cells along. So I
- 39:19Speaker 3: thought that was really cool.
- 39:20Speaker 5: Well, with your with your full spectrum of your of
- 39:23Speaker 5: the light of like sunlight and all of the all
- 39:27Speaker 5: of the braids, right, you don't you don't have you
- 39:31Speaker 5: have a very you have a little bit of near infrared,
- 39:33Speaker 5: but you don't have red light in in your in
- 39:37Speaker 5: the sun. There's some that say that there's a little
- 39:42Speaker 5: in like the sunrise and the sunset, but I don't.
- 39:46Speaker 5: I'm not a scientist, so I don't want to I
- 39:49Speaker 5: don't want to claim that. But also when you when
- 39:53Speaker 5: you break down right and vitamin D is a whole
- 39:57Speaker 5: nother uh conversation, and I'd be happy to talk about
- 40:00Speaker 5: that in a few months. Spoiler alert. I when you
- 40:05Speaker 5: have a product like our our red light therapy towers,
- 40:09Speaker 5: it is a it's all you're getting. You're getting red
- 40:12Speaker 5: and red red light and near fread. You're not getting
- 40:15Speaker 5: any of the of the harmful rays of like the
- 40:17Speaker 5: UVC or the UV or the UV a which you
- 40:22Speaker 5: know if you get too many, too much of could
- 40:24Speaker 5: be harmful. So this is like a pure therapeutic experience.
- 40:29Speaker 5: So you're you're only getting what you what you need,
- 40:32Speaker 5: that's all you get, So.
- 40:34Speaker 2: You're not getting more than your body needs.
- 40:37Speaker 5: Well for the absorption level that your body will only
- 40:42Speaker 5: absorb what it needs and everybody, everyone's body is different,
- 40:47Speaker 5: so that that's called a dose response curve. Okay, so
- 40:52Speaker 5: let's say you did a twenty minute session. Maybe your
- 40:57Speaker 5: body absorbed for the whole twenty minutes, maybe it didn't,
- 41:00Speaker 5: But however, that's not going to be harmful for you.
- 41:04Speaker 5: Someone like me, if I sat out in the sun,
- 41:08Speaker 5: just for instance, and I sat out in the sun
- 41:11Speaker 5: for twenty minutes, that would be more harmful for me
- 41:15Speaker 5: because I'm someone who's like very fair and could burn.
- 41:21Speaker 5: So so what I'm saying is when you are using
- 41:23Speaker 5: the red light therapy, you're only getting those specific two wavelengths.
- 41:28Speaker 5: You're not getting all of the other harmful rays that
- 41:31Speaker 5: you could get in the uh environment.
- 41:37Speaker 2: Yeah, so what would be like a typical safe amount
- 41:42Speaker 2: of time to sit in front of the red light?
- 41:44Speaker 2: I mean, because me personally, I would sit in front
- 41:47Speaker 2: of it all night long, like have it on when
- 41:50Speaker 2: I sleeping, maybe it'll help me.
- 41:54Speaker 3: But what I mean is are you asking like, is
- 41:57Speaker 3: there too much of a good?
- 41:58Speaker 2: Yeah, That's what I'm trying to get to.
- 42:01Speaker 5: No, sour our timers only go up to thirty minutes
- 42:04Speaker 5: because typically no one's absorbing more than that anyway. But
- 42:08Speaker 5: there it's not harmful unless you have, like there's always
- 42:11Speaker 5: contraindications for anything. Unless you have like a photosensitivity or
- 42:17Speaker 5: take medication that causes photosensitivity, then you would want to,
- 42:21Speaker 5: you know, check with your doctor first. But but yeah,
- 42:24Speaker 5: once your body is done like absorbing, there is no
- 42:28Speaker 5: harm to keep going. I mean, I definitely use my
- 42:33Speaker 5: red light a lot, and I do think that I'm like, eh,
- 42:38Speaker 5: I definitely stopped absorbing it probably a while ago, but
- 42:43Speaker 5: it does help me sleep, it does calm me down.
- 42:46Speaker 5: So there's also there's also that too, So I think
- 42:49Speaker 5: there's peace of mind knowing that you're not doing any
- 42:53Speaker 5: damage to yourself either.
- 42:55Speaker 3: My question I also had was the goggles, like the
- 42:59Speaker 3: personal tower that I came with goggles. Now, I never
- 43:02Speaker 3: is our red light harmful to the eyes or is
- 43:04Speaker 3: that just for people who just want to put them on.
- 43:07Speaker 5: No, it's not harmful to your eyes at all. It's
- 43:10Speaker 5: actually really good for you. However, the red light is
- 43:14Speaker 5: very intense, so I am light sensitive. However, the red
- 43:18Speaker 5: light does not bother me. Very bright like white LEDs
- 43:22Speaker 5: bother me, or like flashing lights like lee sirens of
- 43:25Speaker 5: police lights and things like that, those like bother me,
- 43:29Speaker 5: but our red light does not bother me. We include
- 43:33Speaker 5: the goggles just because usually like it's that like when
- 43:37Speaker 5: you turn it on, because I think we're just instinctually
- 43:40Speaker 5: we go to protect our eyes. But I recently went
- 43:46Speaker 5: to the eye doctor and I no longer have an astigmatism.
- 43:50Speaker 5: And I can't say that it's because I use red lay.
- 43:54Speaker 5: I don't know, but I'm like, I've had it since
- 43:56Speaker 5: fifth grade, wow, way beyond fifth grade now, So I
- 44:01Speaker 5: do know that there are there have been studies that
- 44:04Speaker 5: it does help with your Eyesay, it hasn't improved my vision.
- 44:07Speaker 5: I still need glasses, but it definitely isn't isn't bad
- 44:11Speaker 5: for them. So the answers we only include the We
- 44:16Speaker 5: include the goggles just for personal for personal preference. Some
- 44:21Speaker 5: people like to cover their eyes, some people don't. And
- 44:24Speaker 5: then I think people also use them based on their
- 44:27Speaker 5: comfort too.
- 44:30Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was my one.
- 44:31Speaker 3: I saw them in there. I was like, I'm gonna
- 44:33Speaker 3: have to ask about these, just to make sure.
- 44:38Speaker 5: You can also use a polarized sunglasses as well, if you,
- 44:43Speaker 5: if you it's at your comfort level.
- 44:46Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, no, I'm fine without them. I just want
- 44:48Speaker 3: to make sure I'm like, yefully, I'm okay with not
- 44:50Speaker 3: using them because I'd rather not lay here with tanning goggles.
- 44:54Speaker 5: Yeah, if you, if you did some research, and there
- 44:56Speaker 5: are lots of wavelengths that are harmful to the eye,
- 45:00Speaker 5: like uv B is m and actually if you look
- 45:04Speaker 5: at UVB, you wouldn't. You don't go to instinctually protect
- 45:09Speaker 5: your eyes because you're used to uv B. It's the
- 45:11Speaker 5: sun all the time. So actually UVB is more damaging
- 45:15Speaker 5: than the than the red and ear and bread.
- 45:19Speaker 2: So what is uh, what's the plans for the future
- 45:22Speaker 2: of red light and clear light.
- 45:25Speaker 5: Well, we have our we have our three towers, and
- 45:29Speaker 5: we have a various various different ways to mount them.
- 45:34Speaker 5: So we're just educating and making the therapy available. So
- 45:40Speaker 5: I did want to say that there are if you
- 45:44Speaker 5: did any kind of uh googling or looking on Amazon.
- 45:49Speaker 5: There's so many red light devices. There's red light devices
- 45:52Speaker 5: in so many things, and even my sponsored ads are
- 45:55Speaker 5: like red light pimple patches and things. Crazy. Red light
- 46:00Speaker 5: therapy is not all created equal. So when you're looking
- 46:05Speaker 5: for relay therapy, you want, you know, a trusted, trusted manufacturer.
- 46:11Speaker 5: You want someone who has the correct wavelengths, which are
- 46:15Speaker 5: the six fifty and the eight to fifty for the
- 46:18Speaker 5: human body, and you want them to have a strong irradiance.
- 46:23Speaker 5: So that's the power. We find that some of our competitors,
- 46:26Speaker 5: they'll start out real strong right with us, but then
- 46:29Speaker 5: over the you know, ten to fifteen minutes, their power,
- 46:33Speaker 5: their power drops and our power stays the same. So
- 46:36Speaker 5: when you're researching all of that stuff, that's that definitely
- 46:41Speaker 5: should be your deciding factor in how much you want
- 46:45Speaker 5: to spend, because there's there's so many cheap red light
- 46:49Speaker 5: bulbs out there to buy.
- 46:51Speaker 3: And that's what I have the thing seen that even
- 46:54Speaker 3: my sister bought me this I don't even know what
- 46:56Speaker 3: to call it, this facial device off of Amazon where
- 46:59Speaker 3: you put it on your face, it like sits there
- 47:01Speaker 3: and it's red light, blue light, and I'm like, this
- 47:03Speaker 3: feels rinkydinky. I can't imagine this is true red light
- 47:07Speaker 3: or blue light or whatever the heck they're you know,
- 47:10Speaker 3: advertising it as And I'm like, how can they get
- 47:12Speaker 3: away with this? You know? I mean, I don't know
- 47:14Speaker 3: the science behind it. I don't know what to look
- 47:16Speaker 3: for when I'm looking at like an ad or a description.
- 47:19Speaker 3: But now we know, well yeah, I mean, but do
- 47:21Speaker 3: they put that on there? I don't know. Well that's
- 47:23Speaker 3: gonna have the look now, I'm going to go back
- 47:25Speaker 3: and look.
- 47:25Speaker 2: But but that's my thought is are these companies saying
- 47:30Speaker 2: you know, because I mean, I'm sure you could probably
- 47:32Speaker 2: google it and see what the regulations are. But are
- 47:34Speaker 2: these companies just writing that in their description, just say
- 47:37Speaker 2: it to sell.
- 47:39Speaker 3: To sell it. They say this is red light on
- 47:41Speaker 3: your skin, It helps this, this and that. Yeah, it's scary.
- 47:44Speaker 5: Yeah, you definitely need to do your research in anything,
- 47:48Speaker 5: especially when it comes to our health and well being.
- 47:53Speaker 5: And to go back to what we were saying about
- 47:58Speaker 5: the therapeutic dose, So if you are sitting in arsana,
- 48:03Speaker 5: you are about depending on if you're sitting straight or
- 48:06Speaker 5: if you're leaning, so you're about twenty four inches away
- 48:10Speaker 5: from our red light so the farther you're away from
- 48:13Speaker 5: the red light, the longer the the longer the session.
- 48:18Speaker 5: So you would do the thirty minute session. But if
- 48:21Speaker 5: i'm if I have my device right next to my skin,
- 48:24Speaker 5: if I'm spot treating, or if i'm you know, just
- 48:28Speaker 5: doing my facial treatment, I'll just do five minutes. You
- 48:31Speaker 5: don't need that long if I'm right next to it.
- 48:33Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's good to know.
- 48:35Speaker 5: Yeah. So if you compared our Personal Tower to any
- 48:40Speaker 5: of the very popular LED masks, So the LED mask
- 48:45Speaker 5: will treat the faith and I've seen people strap at
- 48:48Speaker 5: all their shoulders and things like that, which are very funny.
- 48:51Speaker 5: But they also then sell the attachments and you've got
- 48:54Speaker 5: the neck and the hands and the boots and all
- 48:57Speaker 5: of that stuff. Their irradiance is lower, their powers lower,
- 49:03Speaker 5: their wavelengths are depending on the company. The wavelengths are
- 49:08Speaker 5: are correct, but you're only getting you're not getting the
- 49:13Speaker 5: versatile treatment. So with our with our Personal Tower, you can,
- 49:19Speaker 5: like I said, you can move it around. You're getting
- 49:21Speaker 5: you know, you're getting this much coverage, right, so you're
- 49:24Speaker 5: getting your face and your neck. And something that we
- 49:27Speaker 5: offer is our patented variable optics. So something that you
- 49:32Speaker 5: can't see when you're looking into like the lens. Each
- 49:37Speaker 5: each lens is turned differently. And instead of think about
- 49:44Speaker 5: a cat toy, you know the laser toys, and it's
- 49:47Speaker 5: one single beam of light and the cats are going crazy.
- 49:52Speaker 5: Those are what our competitors use, single beams of light.
- 49:56Speaker 5: With our variable optics, they're all of the lights are
- 50:00Speaker 5: pointing in different directions, so they're covering more of your cell.
- 50:04Speaker 5: So it's a more therapeutic, a more therapeutic, and so
- 50:10Speaker 5: it's offering more therapy and less time.
- 50:13Speaker 3: Yeah, these are things that people wouldn't know, and that's
- 50:16Speaker 3: that's good that we're getting this out there because all
- 50:19Speaker 3: my friends, that's the crazy right now is red light therapy.
- 50:21Speaker 3: Red light therapy and they have the mask, like you said,
- 50:24Speaker 3: the next things that this.
- 50:26Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I have a teenager. So we've got all
- 50:32Speaker 5: of the under eye patches and the pimple patches. And
- 50:35Speaker 5: I'm like, you're going out in public like this. I like,
- 50:37Speaker 5: what is happened there? Now? There are colors and stars
- 50:39Speaker 5: and things, and I'm like, you know, you could just
- 50:42Speaker 5: do five minutes on the red light and you're going
- 50:46Speaker 5: to be gonna be fine. You don't have to have
- 50:49Speaker 5: stickers all over over your faith, yeah, which is what
- 50:53Speaker 5: a time to be alive. We we offer a very
- 51:00Speaker 5: like a lot of different mounting options. So with the
- 51:04Speaker 5: Personal it comes with a stand so you can take
- 51:07Speaker 5: it on and off and you know, move it around.
- 51:11Speaker 5: We also have a fixed wall amount, so it's just
- 51:14Speaker 5: a little strong but mighty little bit mighty sainless steel
- 51:20Speaker 5: mount that you can just put it on the wall,
- 51:22Speaker 5: take it off and you can't see it when it's
- 51:24Speaker 5: on the wall. And for our other sized towers, we
- 51:28Speaker 5: have a personal I'm sorry, a core tower which goes
- 51:31Speaker 5: in our soun at thirty eight inches, and then we
- 51:33Speaker 5: have a fifty nine inch full body tower. That thing
- 51:37Speaker 5: is amazing. I have it on my door. It's almost
- 51:40Speaker 5: bigger than me. And that's a you know, a one
- 51:44Speaker 5: stop shop where you're just stand in it. Very it's amazing.
- 51:52Speaker 5: But with all of our towers, you're getting it. So
- 51:54Speaker 5: if you compare our small tower to our largest tower,
- 51:58Speaker 5: you're still getting the theme or radiance. You just have
- 52:01Speaker 5: more LEDs yeah and more coverage. Yeah yeah, yeah, that's crazy.
- 52:07Speaker 5: So the smaller doesn't have less power.
- 52:10Speaker 3: And you sell the saunas too, right, I would selling
- 52:13Speaker 3: all the saunas on there, and that's that's really nice.
- 52:16Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm I'm happy to talk to you about all
- 52:19Speaker 5: of the benefits of infrared sana. It's really every time
- 52:24Speaker 5: I talk about it, I'm like, you know, I'm just
- 52:26Speaker 5: going to remotely turn my sauna and get that preheated.
- 52:29Speaker 5: I'm going to go I'm going to go in because
- 52:31Speaker 5: it really it really is amazing.
- 52:34Speaker 2: Oh I know. To me, yeah, I've used saunas and
- 52:39Speaker 2: I absolutely love them.
- 52:43Speaker 3: It's funny to me because this was is a big
- 52:47Speaker 3: thing in like Europe and Asia, the saunas. And my
- 52:51Speaker 3: stepmother's from China and she moved here i'd say like
- 52:54Speaker 3: fifteen years ago, and when she moved into our home,
- 52:58Speaker 3: she bought a sauna and I'm like, why if she's like,
- 53:01Speaker 3: I can't believe you guys don't have saunas, you know,
- 53:04Speaker 3: And she had We had a sawna in our house
- 53:06Speaker 3: growing oh the past, you know, for a long time,
- 53:09Speaker 3: and I just thought it was crazy. Every day she
- 53:11Speaker 3: would go in it multiple times a day and she's like,
- 53:13Speaker 3: this is what we do over there, and I thought
- 53:14Speaker 3: it was nuts. And now you see more and more
- 53:16Speaker 3: people in the United States, or you're getting saunas or
- 53:19Speaker 3: going to sauna treatments, and it's like we're behind on
- 53:22Speaker 3: the times.
- 53:22Speaker 5: I guess, you know, honestly, Yes, I mean in Finland,
- 53:26Speaker 5: it's just a part of their culture. A lot of
- 53:29Speaker 5: families in Finland have multiple saunas in their home. They
- 53:32Speaker 5: have a family sna and then they have like a
- 53:34Speaker 5: party sauna. It's a communal it's a communal thing. There's
- 53:38Speaker 5: Russian banya's, there's the Native American sweat lodges, the Moroccan
- 53:44Speaker 5: moms like there in other cultures. There's so many different
- 53:48Speaker 5: versions of the sauna and I am happy to be
- 53:51Speaker 5: a part of that, a part of this you know
- 53:56Speaker 5: awakening that it's finally coming over here. I mean you'll
- 54:00Speaker 5: see sauna studios popping up all over the place. I'm
- 54:03Speaker 5: not sure where you guys are located.
- 54:06Speaker 2: Hudson Valley, New York.
- 54:07Speaker 5: Oh, I'm in New Jersey, Okay, so you're gonna start
- 54:10Speaker 5: seeing it yet. Actually, there's one in We just.
- 54:13Speaker 3: Had one open in I Cryo in Middletown. Yes, yes,
- 54:17Speaker 3: so that's where Shwana go. I mean I've gone with
- 54:19Speaker 3: her and it's nice. It's a big saunas, small saunas,
- 54:23Speaker 3: and then they have red light therapy there. It's like
- 54:25Speaker 3: a bed though it looks like a tanning bed the
- 54:26Speaker 3: one they have, But yeah, it's really it's like beneficial
- 54:30Speaker 3: and more and more people are doing it, which is good.
- 54:33Speaker 5: And you're also going to see you know, physical therapists
- 54:37Speaker 5: offering it. The Stretch Lab studios in my town they
- 54:40Speaker 5: offer it, yoga yoga, A few yoga studios here offer it,
- 54:45Speaker 5: so you're going to see it pop.
- 54:47Speaker 3: Up, which is a good thing. I'd rather that than
- 54:49Speaker 3: more doctors and pharmaceuticals exactly.
- 54:55Speaker 5: Exactly. And I always say like it's like like I
- 54:58Speaker 5: said earlier, it's not one thing, it's a bunch of
- 55:00Speaker 5: it's a bunch of things. And it's also Saana and
- 55:05Speaker 5: red lay are a great compliment to other therapy. So
- 55:09Speaker 5: if it's you know, physical therapy or occupational therapy or
- 55:15Speaker 5: medication or whatever kind of treatments you can still add
- 55:19Speaker 5: on to it. It's not going to harm or hurt
- 55:23Speaker 5: the other things that you're doing. For whatever particular ailment
- 55:27Speaker 5: that you're treating.
- 55:28Speaker 3: It's only going to benefit it's going to kind of yeah,
- 55:30Speaker 3: I agree with that.
- 55:31Speaker 2: Yeah, we are running out of time, but for Mother's
- 55:35Speaker 2: Day we are featuring the red light Therapy by clear Light.
- 55:39Speaker 2: And if you would like your own tower, head to
- 55:42Speaker 2: our website Shaunaanlala dot com and click on our buy
- 55:47Speaker 2: now link and you could use our code Shauna La
- 55:51Speaker 2: La ten for ten percent off. And if you would
- 55:56Speaker 2: like to learn any more information, there is a ton
- 55:59Speaker 2: of information on their website and what.
- 56:03Speaker 3: Could you give us the website?
- 56:05Speaker 5: Sure it is Infraredsana dot com.
- 56:08Speaker 3: Thank you so much. You've been a wealth of knowledge.
- 56:11Speaker 3: I learned so much.
- 56:13Speaker 5: Listen, I can talk about this for days.
- 56:15Speaker 3: That's good you get. Yeah, you should be getting the
- 56:18Speaker 3: word out there because Amazon and all these other companies
- 56:20Speaker 3: out there are selling products that are not doing what
- 56:24Speaker 3: they should be doing. They're lying to customers and I
- 56:26Speaker 3: know a lot of my friends have probably gotten scammed
- 56:28Speaker 3: in there. They're thinking they're doing something and it's not.
- 56:32Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 56:32Speaker 5: Well, I mean that really puts the onus on the consumer.
- 56:36Speaker 5: So we we sell on Amazon as well. So you
- 56:40Speaker 5: just have to do your research and say, like what
- 56:43Speaker 5: you know to what products that you bring into your home,
- 56:47Speaker 5: just like any research you do with food or vitamin
- 56:49Speaker 5: supplement and things like that.
- 56:52Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, thank you so much. Melissa. Oh you're welcome.
- 56:57Speaker 5: This was great. And if you want to talk offline
- 57:00Speaker 5: and I'm happy to.
- 57:02Speaker 3: Share, yeah, then appreciate it.
- 57:05Speaker 5: Thank you great, Thank you so much.
- 57:08Speaker 3: Do you think red light therapy will help me like
- 57:12Speaker 3: lose a lot of fat? There? You know?
- 57:13Speaker 2: Or I don't know?
- 57:15Speaker 3: Or negate the sugary desserts that I like to have.
- 57:21Speaker 2: You don't even really like sugar. Sugar?
- 57:23Speaker 3: Here are the sugar, yes, but I really I really
- 57:26Speaker 3: want to eat those waffles that you got that Saint
- 57:28Speaker 3: Pierre sent us.
- 57:29Speaker 2: Oh my god, yes, the cinnamon waffles.
- 57:32Speaker 3: The cinnamon sugar. I don't even butter. It was just heaven,
- 57:35Speaker 3: heaven on a plate. So I really want to eat those.
- 57:39Speaker 3: And I'm wondering, like, maybe if I add a little
- 57:41Speaker 3: extra time to my red light therapy, will that help?
- 57:43Speaker 3: Negate the fact that I just ate that sweet heavenly goodness.
- 57:49Speaker 2: I doubt it, but it is sweet, heavenly goodness. It
- 57:53Speaker 2: would be even more sweeter if I had ice cream.
- 57:57Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm on this ricked diet for my gi
- 58:02Speaker 2: issues that I cannot have ice cream, Well, I can
- 58:07Speaker 2: have dairy free ice cream. Yeah, but that was kind
- 58:10Speaker 2: of like. My treat for the week. Yeah, was the
- 58:13Speaker 2: Saint Pierre's cinnamon waffles. I can't tell you how good
- 58:17Speaker 2: they were. I could have ate the whole pack.
- 58:19Speaker 3: I know, it's almost like a doughnut waffle. That's how
- 58:22Speaker 3: I can kind of describe it, you know. Yeah, you
- 58:24Speaker 3: heat it up in the oven, a toaster oven or
- 58:27Speaker 3: a microwave if you want, and it gets warm and
- 58:30Speaker 3: the sugar melts on it. And it was so good.
- 58:32Speaker 3: It really was good. And yeah, it was very bad
- 58:36Speaker 3: for my diet for the cruise, but I didn't have one.
- 58:38Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, this is so good. I
- 58:40Speaker 3: want more. But yeah, so yummy. They sent us that.
- 58:43Speaker 3: They sent us some Brioche bread and the kids made
- 58:48Speaker 3: me French toast with their bread. They had a cinnamon bread.
- 58:52Speaker 3: And then they sent you some hamburger bums with the
- 58:56Speaker 3: sesame seeds. They look amazing. They just look so fluffy,
- 58:59Speaker 3: and I did. I didn't try them, but they look
- 59:01Speaker 3: really good.
- 59:02Speaker 2: Maybe, you know. I mean, grilling season isn't here yet,
- 59:06Speaker 2: but my dad might take out the girl this weekend
- 59:09Speaker 2: if it's sunny and not raining.
- 59:11Speaker 3: I grilled. I grilled right before the storm hit last night.
- 59:14Speaker 3: So you take that grill out, girl, get those burgers going.
- 59:17Speaker 3: And they ship these over from the UK and it
- 59:21Speaker 3: just it came in the cutest box. And I love
- 59:25Speaker 3: I love food that's not from the United States because
- 59:27Speaker 3: you know, you know they're doing it right over in
- 59:29Speaker 3: Europe in the UK. Oh yeah, because we're really behind
- 59:33Speaker 3: the times with that.
- 59:34Speaker 2: So speaking of the chemicals, yeah.
- 59:37Speaker 3: So really that. I think this is a great thing
- 59:39Speaker 3: for mom as a Mother's Day breakfast treat. That's what
- 59:42Speaker 3: I told my kids. I want Mother's Day French toast
- 59:45Speaker 3: with this bread. You know, we tested it out the
- 59:46Speaker 3: other day. It was so good. But I want Mother's
- 59:48Speaker 3: Day French toast with their the same Pierre bread. Oh
- 59:51Speaker 3: my god, out of this world.
- 59:53Speaker 2: Take it on the cruise with you.
- 59:54Speaker 3: Oh god, you know, take the pounds on the cruise
- 59:57Speaker 3: with man. That's what I'm going to be taken.
- 59:59Speaker 2: So your vacation, you're leaving on Saturday. Did you pack yet? No?
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: I mean well yes, and now I have to pack
- 1:00:07Speaker 3: for my two kids and myself. Luckily my husband packs
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: for himself. So yeah, I got my daughter, my son
- 1:00:13Speaker 3: ninety percent done. I have a pile of crap on
- 1:00:16Speaker 3: my floor that I haven't put in a suitcase yet.
- 1:00:19Speaker 3: I haven't done my bath essentials and I haven't done
- 1:00:21Speaker 3: my makeup yet, so I haven't passed that. The makeup.
- 1:00:25Speaker 2: Yeah, and I always take like two bad too much,
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: too much makeup that you don't probably use any of
- 1:00:32Speaker 2: it or all of it. No, I usually don't use really.
- 1:00:35Speaker 3: Right, yeah, because when you're on vacation, you get tans,
- 1:00:38Speaker 3: so your skin doesn't need much. I just like taking
- 1:00:41Speaker 3: a nice Misscara and a nice lip gloss, and those
- 1:00:45Speaker 3: are my two go go tos for vacation. I don't
- 1:00:48Speaker 3: know anything else, so I'm always you know, Tart's our favorite.
- 1:00:52Speaker 3: I got my tart to let Miss Scarra that I
- 1:00:55Speaker 3: absolutely love and always take with me everywhere. And my
- 1:00:59Speaker 3: Maricusha lip Plump Juicy lip plumping gloss and it's so
- 1:01:04Speaker 3: pretty well, there's just too many colors I choose from
- 1:01:07Speaker 3: number one, but the ones that I have so shiny,
- 1:01:10Speaker 3: so hydrating. I absolutely love it. And you you you
- 1:01:13Speaker 3: use that too, you have a lot.
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with the Maricousa lip bombs, absolutely obsessed with them,
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: and my mom is too. I got some for her
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: for Mother's die. I just I like how they match
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: your lip color and there's colors for everyone, every shade
- 1:01:31Speaker 2: you could think of. And my favorite part about it
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: is my lips are always chopped, always, always, always.
- 1:01:39Speaker 3: Her lips are so dry, and I.
- 1:01:42Speaker 2: Like how they like make them smooth, and you know,
- 1:01:46Speaker 2: they give them like that non chopped look.
- 1:01:50Speaker 3: Yeah, because when Shauna puts on lipstick a lot of times,
- 1:01:52Speaker 3: or lip gloss, it kind of magnifies the chap, the
- 1:01:57Speaker 3: chapped look on her lips, like you could see it
- 1:02:00Speaker 3: even more. But with this, when she put it on,
- 1:02:02Speaker 3: it it like hit it. It smoothed it out completely,
- 1:02:05Speaker 3: and you wouldn't have even known that her lips were
- 1:02:07Speaker 3: that dry, you know. Yeah, so absolutely amazing. They sent
- 1:02:11Speaker 3: us a ton of different colors and I was excited
- 1:02:15Speaker 3: to try anything from like the more natural that matched
- 1:02:19Speaker 3: my lip tone to a little bit more red, and
- 1:02:21Speaker 3: I love them all. They really, they really they smell good.
- 1:02:24Speaker 3: There's one that's a plumper, so you kind of feel
- 1:02:26Speaker 3: that little tingle, and one that's just vinyl, so it's
- 1:02:28Speaker 3: just there's no plump in it, and it's just the
- 1:02:30Speaker 3: more like a shinier one. So like she said, shades
- 1:02:34Speaker 3: for every person, and if you like plumping or you.
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: Don't, Rosie is my favorite shade.
- 1:02:39Speaker 3: Rosie. I think I have Berry. I can't remember the name,
- 1:02:42Speaker 3: but it's a more reddish maroonish color and I liked
- 1:02:47Speaker 3: it because it gave me a little Papa color, because
- 1:02:49Speaker 3: sometimes my lips blend in too much with my lip gloss,
- 1:02:52Speaker 3: but this one was a little papa color, felt a
- 1:02:54Speaker 3: little sexy in it. So Mom's Tart is our favorite.
- 1:02:58Speaker 3: We love it. Definitely something and you should try out.
- 1:03:01Speaker 2: And right now we are going to jump into an
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: interview with Sarah Sparks. She is an author of the
- 1:03:09Speaker 2: Monsters on Mill Street series for kids. Such a cute book.
- 1:03:15Speaker 3: I know my daughter was looking it over and she's
- 1:03:19Speaker 3: too young to read it, but she absolutely loved the
- 1:03:21Speaker 3: illustrations and I'm thinking that she's getting the message behind it.
- 1:03:24Speaker 3: They were really, really, such a cute idea.
- 1:03:27Speaker 2: You're listening to Shauna and La La and today we
- 1:03:30Speaker 2: have an exciting interview. We are interviewing the author of
- 1:03:35Speaker 2: the Monsters on Mill Street book series for kids. Sarah
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: Sparks is the author, and it's such a cute book.
- 1:03:45Speaker 2: I mean, well, the whole series is so cute.
- 1:03:47Speaker 3: I like the illustrations too, besides what it was about.
- 1:03:50Speaker 3: I was like, this is so cute.
- 1:03:51Speaker 2: Yeah, and the colors.
- 1:03:53Speaker 5: My daughter.
- 1:03:53Speaker 3: I have a three year old, and she was loving
- 1:03:55Speaker 3: the colors, and you know, she couldn't read it. I
- 1:03:57Speaker 3: was reading it to her, but she was more interested
- 1:03:59Speaker 3: in the character.
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you so much.
- 1:04:03Speaker 6: Yeah, it's it's you know, the story is built to
- 1:04:06Speaker 6: engage kids, and your daughter is the perfect age for them.
- 1:04:09Speaker 6: So that's that's why we set out to make it
- 1:04:12Speaker 6: so bright and colorful and that she'll read over and
- 1:04:15Speaker 6: over and over again and to the point where you'll
- 1:04:17Speaker 6: you'll have to hide it somewhere the other books on
- 1:04:20Speaker 6: the bookshelf because you'll need to get some variety in there.
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: But that's what I do with my kids.
- 1:04:23Speaker 3: But yeah, pitch it out.
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: So can you share a little bit of your backstory
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: and the life changing injury that you had to uh
- 1:04:34Speaker 2: go through?
- 1:04:36Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, so, I've I've always been a storyteller
- 1:04:41Speaker 6: in one form or another. Usually I was working in
- 1:04:44Speaker 6: corporate communications and telling other people's stories. But you know,
- 1:04:49Speaker 6: one day that kind of that kind of all changed
- 1:04:51Speaker 6: for me. So it was a few years ago. It
- 1:04:55Speaker 6: was actually Thanksgiving in twenty one, and I was walking
- 1:05:00Speaker 6: to the bathroom and and I fell. So I fell
- 1:05:04Speaker 6: in what was probably one of the worst rooms in
- 1:05:06Speaker 6: the house to fall in because of all the hard surfaces,
- 1:05:09Speaker 6: and you know, I hit multiple of those on the
- 1:05:14Speaker 6: way down, and and I blacked out, and you know,
- 1:05:20Speaker 6: that was that was the moment that kind of changed
- 1:05:23Speaker 6: everything for me. I was taken to the emergency room
- 1:05:28Speaker 6: and the doctors they looked me over and they diagnosed
- 1:05:32Speaker 6: me with the traumatic brain injury. And you know it,
- 1:05:38Speaker 6: it's funny because when you're diagnosed with the traumatic brain injury.
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: It's it's different. It's different than what you'd expect.
- 1:05:47Speaker 6: You know, if you break an arm or a leg,
- 1:05:50Speaker 6: you kind of know how the bone is meant to heal.
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: You understand the process. You understand how you know your
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: your arm.
- 1:05:56Speaker 6: Is casted and or your leg is casted, and a
- 1:05:59Speaker 6: few weeks later, the bone heels and you're back to
- 1:06:02Speaker 6: your normal self again. But with with a brain injury,
- 1:06:07Speaker 6: you don't really know what to expect from the recovery process.
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: They they don't tell you you're going to be better
- 1:06:15Speaker 1: in a week or a month, or a year.
- 1:06:18Speaker 6: In fact, there's this this caveat that is hanging over
- 1:06:21Speaker 6: your head where your brain might not ever actually get
- 1:06:27Speaker 6: back to the way it was before.
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: This may be your new normal.
- 1:06:31Speaker 6: And and so for me that was really scary because
- 1:06:36Speaker 6: you know, at that time, because of the injury, there
- 1:06:39Speaker 6: were there were things that I used to do that
- 1:06:41Speaker 6: I used to really take for granted that I couldn't.
- 1:06:43Speaker 6: I couldn't do anymore, things like reading, writing, and understanding
- 1:06:47Speaker 6: a grocery list, you know, reading an email.
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't process that information. The words were
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: just they would they would swirl off the page, and
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't process what I was seeing.
- 1:07:02Speaker 6: It was it's hard to play with my kids. You know,
- 1:07:07Speaker 6: I love my kids, I really I love my kids.
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: But kids are.
- 1:07:12Speaker 6: Noisy, you know, they they move around a lot, and
- 1:07:18Speaker 6: all of that extra stimulus that's going on around me,
- 1:07:23Speaker 6: I could might it was so difficult to process it.
- 1:07:27Speaker 6: And so it was hard to even play with my kids.
- 1:07:30Speaker 6: I had to work at these relationships. Yeah, and it
- 1:07:35Speaker 6: kind of dominoed and spiraled from that. You know, I
- 1:07:37Speaker 6: ran a business, I ran a communications firm, and all
- 1:07:40Speaker 6: of a sudden, I couldn't communicate.
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: All of a sudden, I couldn't.
- 1:07:42Speaker 6: Do the things I wanted to do, and and my
- 1:07:47Speaker 6: things started spiraling out of control. I almost lost the business.
- 1:07:52Speaker 6: We almost lost our house, you know, because of the
- 1:07:54Speaker 6: financial strain that we became fall under. And so it
- 1:07:59Speaker 6: felt like everything I touched was all the sudden breaking.
- 1:08:04Speaker 6: But you know, the weird thing is is that during.
- 1:08:07Speaker 1: That time.
- 1:08:10Speaker 6: I could see these monsters so clearly. I could see
- 1:08:13Speaker 6: their stories so clearly. And that was odd because I've
- 1:08:16Speaker 6: never written children's books before. You know, this wasn't my
- 1:08:19Speaker 6: area of specialty. But their stories came to life so clearly,
- 1:08:23Speaker 6: and I just began writing. I began writing and writing,
- 1:08:28Speaker 6: and I clung to it like it was a life
- 1:08:30Speaker 6: raft for me, because it was my life raft. Yeah,
- 1:08:35Speaker 6: And you know, honestly, if I'm honest, as I look back,
- 1:08:39Speaker 6: I think with all the work that I had to
- 1:08:42Speaker 6: put into, you know, the little things like playing with
- 1:08:47Speaker 6: my kids and building those relationships, I was so focused
- 1:08:50Speaker 6: on that that I look at the monster books and
- 1:08:54Speaker 6: I realized what I was doing was I was writing
- 1:08:56Speaker 6: our lives.
- 1:08:57Speaker 1: I was trying to hold onto those little moments with
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: my kid.
- 1:09:00Speaker 6: It's the things that I was working so hard at,
- 1:09:03Speaker 6: the things I was I was trying to hold on
- 1:09:05Speaker 6: too before I forgot those moments, and I was writing
- 1:09:08Speaker 6: them down, and I was writing what we were living,
- 1:09:12Speaker 6: how we were playing, the challenges that we were going through,
- 1:09:15Speaker 6: and I was helping them work through.
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: All of those little.
- 1:09:19Speaker 6: Life's moments made it into these these books. And they're silly,
- 1:09:24Speaker 6: fun books for kids. You know, they're meant to be entertaining.
- 1:09:26Speaker 6: They're meant to be, you know, books that they can
- 1:09:28Speaker 6: pick up and read again and again and enjoy. And
- 1:09:31Speaker 6: so it's it's I tell folks, you know, when when
- 1:09:36Speaker 6: you read one of these books, I sometimes I joke
- 1:09:39Speaker 6: and I say, you know, you're you're getting to see
- 1:09:42Speaker 6: what my kids are like. You know, you'll really get
- 1:09:43Speaker 6: a good idea what my kids are like, or what
- 1:09:45Speaker 6: are families like. But that's that's so very true because
- 1:09:49Speaker 6: there's so much of.
- 1:09:50Speaker 1: Us that I put into these stories.
- 1:09:54Speaker 6: And it probably one of the hardest times in our
- 1:09:56Speaker 6: family's life. You know that I can recall I was
- 1:10:00Speaker 6: I was writing the books about us.
- 1:10:03Speaker 3: Yeah, it's kind of that cliche saying like you took
- 1:10:06Speaker 3: lemons and you made lemonade with it. You know, that's
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: basically what you did, and that that's amazing And that
- 1:10:12Speaker 3: takes a lot because I can't even imagine a brain injury,
- 1:10:15Speaker 3: And it isn't it crazy how you were able with
- 1:10:18Speaker 3: everything going on your head, you were able to focus
- 1:10:21Speaker 3: on that and on a book, and then you started
- 1:10:23Speaker 3: writing a children's book. You know, like that's not what
- 1:10:26Speaker 3: you usually hate, the typical story you hear from that,
- 1:10:28Speaker 3: and that's amazing to me.
- 1:10:31Speaker 6: It was just it was therapeutic. That's the only way
- 1:10:33Speaker 6: I can describe it. Like I said, you know, when
- 1:10:36Speaker 6: the whole world is falling apart around you and you
- 1:10:38Speaker 6: feel like everything you touch is breaking you, really you
- 1:10:41Speaker 6: cling to the one thing you can do and do well.
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: And this was the one thing that I could do
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: and do well.
- 1:10:46Speaker 6: And so, you know, after the books were written, then
- 1:10:50Speaker 6: I had these stories, and you know, it took a
- 1:10:53Speaker 6: few years from.
- 1:10:53Speaker 1: My brain to heal. It's never it's never been quite
- 1:10:56Speaker 1: what it was when I started, you know, before the accident.
- 1:11:01Speaker 6: But once the stories were done, I thought, you know,
- 1:11:03Speaker 6: there's there's so much good in here. There's so much silliness,
- 1:11:06Speaker 6: there's so much fun, there's so many good messages because
- 1:11:09Speaker 6: the books are they really have this social emotional learning
- 1:11:14Speaker 6: and life skills and growth mindset undertone to them that
- 1:11:18Speaker 6: I thought, you know, we've got these great series. We
- 1:11:22Speaker 6: should be sharing them more kids should be able to
- 1:11:25Speaker 6: read them and and hopefully take away some of the
- 1:11:29Speaker 6: fun life lessons that are there.
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: I think each book has, you know, different lessons in it.
- 1:11:36Speaker 2: And you know, the book that I read, you know,
- 1:11:39Speaker 2: it was kind of like, don't give up, you know,
- 1:11:42Speaker 2: keep going, don't let somebody tell you that you can't
- 1:11:44Speaker 2: do something.
- 1:11:45Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's always a good lesson for any any age,
- 1:11:48Speaker 3: any especially My daughter's three, and she might not understand
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: fully what you're trying to get across. But the more
- 1:11:55Speaker 3: the older she gets, the more we read it, the
- 1:11:57Speaker 3: more you I instill those messages into her. Yeah, they're
- 1:12:00Speaker 3: going they're going to learn, They're going to pick up
- 1:12:01Speaker 3: on that, and it's very important.
- 1:12:05Speaker 6: It's interesting because I you know, you say, as you
- 1:12:08Speaker 6: read it over and over again, you pick up on
- 1:12:10Speaker 6: those messages, and that's so so true.
- 1:12:14Speaker 5: There.
- 1:12:14Speaker 6: I'll tell you a story about one woman who I
- 1:12:18Speaker 6: met and I adore her, and she she took you know,
- 1:12:22Speaker 6: the three books that we started out with the Monsters
- 1:12:24Speaker 6: on Mill Street series home, and she started reading them
- 1:12:26Speaker 6: with her daughter, and their family was going through a
- 1:12:30Speaker 6: bit of a messy divorce at the time. It was
- 1:12:33Speaker 6: hard for her, it was hard for her husband, it
- 1:12:36Speaker 6: was hard for their daughter, and you know, the daughter
- 1:12:39Speaker 6: would come home. She you know, jumped from parents' house
- 1:12:42Speaker 6: to parents' house, and the daughter would come home and
- 1:12:44Speaker 6: the mom said, she was like this tornado. She would
- 1:12:46Speaker 6: just be this big tornado of you know, anger and
- 1:12:50Speaker 6: frustration and she'd just want to explode and she would.
- 1:12:53Speaker 6: And so the mom had been really you know, shaping
- 1:12:57Speaker 6: their days around this. She knew what she was going
- 1:12:59Speaker 6: to get when her daughter walked to the door, because
- 1:13:01Speaker 6: it was so hard. You know, kids can't control how
- 1:13:03Speaker 6: they feel about situations that really, at that age you
- 1:13:06Speaker 6: have no control over. And so they started reading these
- 1:13:09Speaker 6: books togethers and they actually read one of our older books,
- 1:13:12Speaker 6: The Angriest Monster on Mill Street, and that book deals with,
- 1:13:17Speaker 6: you know, how how do you deal with big emotions
- 1:13:19Speaker 6: when you feel like you just want to explode, when
- 1:13:23Speaker 6: you feel like you want to huff and puff tornadoes
- 1:13:25Speaker 6: and you know, stomp and cause earthquakes. Because those are
- 1:13:29Speaker 6: the visuals we really use to describe those big feelings
- 1:13:32Speaker 6: in that anger. And you know, one day, the little
- 1:13:36Speaker 6: girl came home, she's about five years old. She came
- 1:13:38Speaker 6: home and the mom was expecting this explosion and it
- 1:13:43Speaker 6: never came. The little girl she walked in the house,
- 1:13:47Speaker 6: she sat down on the couch and she just started
- 1:13:51Speaker 6: petting her blanket, this soft, fluffy blanket that she had.
- 1:13:55Speaker 1: And of course the mom was like, you know, what
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: are you doing. It was odd, and the little girl
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: just said, you know.
- 1:14:04Speaker 6: I need a minute, and my blanket is soft. I
- 1:14:08Speaker 6: just I want to feel my blanket. It's really soft.
- 1:14:11Speaker 6: And what's really interesting about that is that that's a
- 1:14:14Speaker 6: grounding technique that we talk about in The Angriest Monster
- 1:14:18Speaker 6: on Mill Street, which is one of our previous stories.
- 1:14:20Speaker 6: And the little girl at five years old had taught
- 1:14:23Speaker 6: herself that grounding technique because of this fun, silly children's book,
- 1:14:29Speaker 6: this monster story that's meant to be entertaining. It also
- 1:14:32Speaker 6: had that lesson underneath that she took and she internalized
- 1:14:36Speaker 6: and it made a difference for her, it made a
- 1:14:38Speaker 6: difference for the mom, for the whole family.
- 1:14:40Speaker 3: That's amazing.
- 1:14:42Speaker 2: It really is so in the book, does the monster
- 1:14:46Speaker 2: have a soft, fuzzy blanket.
- 1:14:49Speaker 1: No, he doesn't.
- 1:14:50Speaker 6: He doesn't, but he does grow enormous. He grows up
- 1:14:54Speaker 6: past the rooftops, and you know, his size matches his
- 1:14:58Speaker 6: anger at that moment, and he causes chaos. You know,
- 1:15:01Speaker 6: he floods the street with his tears and he just
- 1:15:04Speaker 6: is you know, there has to be something that can
- 1:15:07Speaker 6: help me. And so he starts thinking about what can
- 1:15:10Speaker 6: he see, what can he feel?
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: What can he hear? What can he taste? What can
- 1:15:13Speaker 1: he smell? The five senses, he.
- 1:15:15Speaker 6: Starts using those and as he's doing that and being
- 1:15:20Speaker 6: very present in the moment he's he starts to calm down,
- 1:15:25Speaker 6: he starts to breathe, and he starts to shrink, and
- 1:15:27Speaker 6: so do his emotions. And so it's it's a really
- 1:15:31Speaker 6: it's it's a way of integrating that growth mindset, I'm sorry,
- 1:15:34Speaker 6: not growth mindset, the grounding.
- 1:15:36Speaker 1: Technique into the book.
- 1:15:39Speaker 6: Without directly telling a child what to do or feel
- 1:15:42Speaker 6: or think, because that was critical when we were doing
- 1:15:45Speaker 6: these books. We never wanted to tell a child what
- 1:15:48Speaker 6: to do, yeah, because you know, are they really going
- 1:15:51Speaker 6: to listen to us as grown ups? I don't know,
- 1:15:53Speaker 6: maybe hopefully that's the goal, but we wanted to make
- 1:15:57Speaker 6: characters that they could relate to with challenges that they
- 1:16:00Speaker 6: could understand and internalize and really come to the conclusions
- 1:16:05Speaker 6: about how to solve those problems themselves without being told
- 1:16:11Speaker 6: what to do. And I think that's what really sets
- 1:16:14Speaker 6: all of the books in this series, apart from a
- 1:16:17Speaker 6: lot of the other social emotional learning content that's out there.
- 1:16:21Speaker 2: How many books do you have currently out for the series?
- 1:16:25Speaker 6: So right now there are three out. So there's The
- 1:16:28Speaker 6: Angriest Monster on Mill Street, the Bounciest Monster on Mill Street,
- 1:16:34Speaker 6: and the Messiest Monster on Mill Street.
- 1:16:36Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna say that.
- 1:16:42Speaker 6: And at the end of summer we've got we've got
- 1:16:45Speaker 6: two new ones coming out. So we've got one of
- 1:16:48Speaker 6: them is The Strongest Monster on Mill Street.
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: And that story.
- 1:16:53Speaker 6: Deals a lot with resilience. I think that's actually the
- 1:16:55Speaker 6: one that you were talking about. It's how do you
- 1:16:58Speaker 6: overcome things that are out of your control, you know,
- 1:17:01Speaker 6: and life really isn't going your way? How do you
- 1:17:04Speaker 6: build up those resilient skills and how do you manage
- 1:17:06Speaker 6: to work your way through them? So that's the Strongest
- 1:17:09Speaker 6: Monster on Mill Street and then the Awesomest Monster on
- 1:17:14Speaker 6: Mill Street is the second book that's coming out at
- 1:17:16Speaker 6: the end of summer, and that one is actually about
- 1:17:19Speaker 6: social anxiety and overcoming and dealing with social anxiety. And
- 1:17:24Speaker 6: it feels like both of these are very very grown
- 1:17:26Speaker 6: up topics, especially in a picture book for kids that are.
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: You know what, three to eight years old.
- 1:17:32Speaker 6: Yeah, but but it's done in a very silly and
- 1:17:35Speaker 6: fun and safe and you know, very Monsters on Mill
- 1:17:39Speaker 6: Street way.
- 1:17:42Speaker 3: That's so cute.
- 1:17:42Speaker 2: Such it's such a cute title for the series. You
- 1:17:47Speaker 2: should really think about like doing like a TV show
- 1:17:49Speaker 2: or something cartoon.
- 1:17:51Speaker 1: Yeah, I would love it. We actually we have we
- 1:17:53Speaker 1: have videos. I'm not going to say they're you know, like.
- 1:17:56Speaker 6: Cartoons like television shows that you'd watch, but we do
- 1:17:59Speaker 6: have videos on our YouTube site.
- 1:18:00Speaker 1: So Monsters on Mill Street has a.
- 1:18:02Speaker 6: YouTube page and we have these these interactive videos.
- 1:18:06Speaker 1: We have a couple of them up there now where
- 1:18:08Speaker 1: the kids actually get to be a part of the adventure.
- 1:18:11Speaker 2: You know.
- 1:18:12Speaker 6: They they jump when it's the monster's turn to jump,
- 1:18:14Speaker 6: and they have to march when it's the monster's turn
- 1:18:16Speaker 6: to march. So it's another way of bringing it to
- 1:18:18Speaker 6: life in a very physical, fun way.
- 1:18:20Speaker 2: That's really cool.
- 1:18:21Speaker 3: I don't want to have to let my daughter watch that.
- 1:18:24Speaker 2: At what moment did you realize your journey can become
- 1:18:29Speaker 2: a source of hope and resilience for children and families,
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: you know?
- 1:18:35Speaker 6: I think it was when my own kids were coming
- 1:18:38Speaker 6: home from school and they were doing a lot of
- 1:18:42Speaker 6: you know, social emotional.
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: Learning activities at school.
- 1:18:45Speaker 6: And you know, there are a lot of curriculums out
- 1:18:48Speaker 6: there that try to teach this to to students very
- 1:18:52Speaker 6: very young, you know, from pre k all the way
- 1:18:56Speaker 6: up through high school really.
- 1:18:59Speaker 1: And so I was watching them come.
- 1:19:00Speaker 6: Through the door, telling me about their day and telling
- 1:19:02Speaker 6: me what they had learned. And I thought the curriculums
- 1:19:05Speaker 6: were wonderful and good, but the message wasn't sticking. They
- 1:19:09Speaker 6: weren't really remembering the stories that they were getting, and
- 1:19:13Speaker 6: so I kind of thought, you know, these these monster
- 1:19:16Speaker 6: books that we have here, they're trying to communicate the
- 1:19:20Speaker 6: same underlying, you know, moral of the story as a
- 1:19:24Speaker 6: lot of these sel curriculums out there. They would be
- 1:19:27Speaker 6: a great supplement because kids want to read them. You know,
- 1:19:31Speaker 6: if a child can relate to the characters, they can
- 1:19:34Speaker 6: see themselves in the characters. If the story is funny
- 1:19:37Speaker 6: and rhymes and they get a really good giggle out
- 1:19:40Speaker 6: of it and they want to read it at bedtime
- 1:19:42Speaker 6: over and over again. That repetition and that you know,
- 1:19:47Speaker 6: relatability is gonna hopefully make that message stick more. I mean,
- 1:19:53Speaker 6: we all remember stories like the Tortoise and the Hair
- 1:19:56Speaker 6: and the Little Red hen and the Little Engine that could.
- 1:20:00Speaker 6: Learning through storytelling has such an impact that that's really
- 1:20:07Speaker 6: where these books, these books sit. They're entertaining their fun.
- 1:20:12Speaker 6: They also had that that underlying moral and message that
- 1:20:15Speaker 6: hopefully helps kids grow into amazing humans.
- 1:20:18Speaker 1: They are amazing humans, but amazing grown up humans.
- 1:20:22Speaker 3: Yes, we need a lot more of that, and yeah,
- 1:20:25Speaker 3: they should have these And that's what we were talking
- 1:20:27Speaker 3: about with Teresa, that hopefully these books can get into
- 1:20:30Speaker 3: more school districts and you know, pre k kindergarten, and
- 1:20:34Speaker 3: I think that's a great place to start, you know,
- 1:20:36Speaker 3: and start then, because once they're a little older, it's harder,
- 1:20:40Speaker 3: it's harder to kind of change either the way they
- 1:20:42Speaker 3: were raised or the way their thought process. It's never
- 1:20:45Speaker 3: no hope for that. You know, you can always have hope,
- 1:20:47Speaker 3: but it's better at starting an a good age.
- 1:20:49Speaker 2: I even think like in the guidance counselor's office, they
- 1:20:52Speaker 2: would be a good fit. You know, in case a
- 1:20:55Speaker 2: kid is having a meltdown or you knowing through something,
- 1:20:58Speaker 2: through something, we could look at book and read it,
- 1:21:00Speaker 2: or the guidance counselor could read it to them.
- 1:21:03Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Yeah, that's that's great.
- 1:21:06Speaker 6: And they have such a hard job, you know, teachers
- 1:21:08Speaker 6: and school counselors and even school librarians, they have such
- 1:21:13Speaker 6: a hard job already to begin with, one of the
- 1:21:15Speaker 6: hardest jobs I think in the whole world. And then
- 1:21:18Speaker 6: they have this added challenge where they don't actually know
- 1:21:21Speaker 6: what anyone child is bringing with them through the door
- 1:21:25Speaker 6: on any given day. And so, you know, my hope
- 1:21:28Speaker 6: is is that if folks are reading these books, and
- 1:21:31Speaker 6: if you know, the story is getting told over and
- 1:21:34Speaker 6: over again, that the message is internalized, and then one
- 1:21:37Speaker 6: day when that child needs it, they'll fall back on
- 1:21:40Speaker 6: that message that they know.
- 1:21:41Speaker 1: Because it's habit, because it's already a part of them.
- 1:21:44Speaker 6: So that's why I think, you know, introducing these books
- 1:21:46Speaker 6: to children, like you say, in the pre k kindergarten
- 1:21:49Speaker 6: first grade age range is good because the earlier they
- 1:21:53Speaker 6: hear the messages, the better.
- 1:21:54Speaker 2: And it's really good for any age. You know, there's
- 1:21:57Speaker 2: no age limit on the book.
- 1:22:00Speaker 3: Even Yeah, well I get what you're saying. But like
- 1:22:03Speaker 3: even as an adult reading it, and maybe an adult't
- 1:22:05Speaker 3: choose to read it themselves, like oh, I'm gonna buy
- 1:22:07Speaker 3: this book for myself, but as they're reading it to
- 1:22:10Speaker 3: their kids, I think it definitely might awaken something like ah, yeah,
- 1:22:13Speaker 3: you know what, that's a good way to handle that,
- 1:22:16Speaker 3: or I'm kind of getting the message here, and yeah,
- 1:22:19Speaker 3: it can be for all ages. Even if my son,
- 1:22:22Speaker 3: my son is eleven, if he wrote it to his sister,
- 1:22:24Speaker 3: he might pick up on some messages. He might necessarily
- 1:22:27Speaker 3: choose to read the book himself, but reading it to
- 1:22:30Speaker 3: his little sister, Yeah, that's a that's a good point.
- 1:22:32Speaker 6: Yeah, especially those the two newest books, because the message
- 1:22:37Speaker 6: of building up resilience and how to overcome social anxiety,
- 1:22:42Speaker 6: those are are issues that really start to crop up
- 1:22:44Speaker 6: a little bit later for kids. You know, when you
- 1:22:47Speaker 6: start hitting that fourth, fifth, sixth, seventhethh grade range, that's
- 1:22:51Speaker 6: when those those big emotions and those challenges start to
- 1:22:54Speaker 6: steep in, and so yeah, you know when older siblings
- 1:22:57Speaker 6: are reading it to their younger ones that hopefully that
- 1:23:01Speaker 6: message sticks with them as well, because that's important for
- 1:23:03Speaker 6: them in that moment.
- 1:23:04Speaker 1: It's important for all of us even as grownups, do
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: you think in that moment.
- 1:23:07Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:23:11Speaker 2: So there's a special pre sale going on for your
- 1:23:14Speaker 2: new books that are coming out in August. So where
- 1:23:18Speaker 2: can our listeners get a copy?
- 1:23:21Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 1:23:21Speaker 6: So all the Monsters and Mill Street books are available
- 1:23:24Speaker 6: on many different platforms, so you can get them on Amazon.
- 1:23:27Speaker 1: You can also get them.
- 1:23:28Speaker 6: On our Monsters on Mill Street website, so that's Monsters
- 1:23:31Speaker 6: on Mill Street dot com, m O N S T
- 1:23:35Speaker 6: E R S on O N mill m I L
- 1:23:39Speaker 6: L Street S T R e e t dot com.
- 1:23:44Speaker 6: And so if you if you go to the website,
- 1:23:46Speaker 6: that's actually where we're running this really cool pre sale deal.
- 1:23:50Speaker 6: So this is kind of like the advanced sneak peak
- 1:23:52Speaker 6: look that folks get because the books don't come out
- 1:23:54Speaker 6: until the end of summer.
- 1:23:55Speaker 1: And so if you if you place your.
- 1:23:57Speaker 6: Order now on the website, we're offering discounts sort of
- 1:24:01Speaker 6: like this tiered discounts, so you can get five percent
- 1:24:03Speaker 6: off if you get one book or I think it's
- 1:24:06Speaker 6: fifteen percent off if you get two both of the
- 1:24:08Speaker 6: two new ones, and if you want to get them all,
- 1:24:10Speaker 6: we're doing like.
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: A thirty percent off discount for all five books.
- 1:24:15Speaker 6: We also have really cool discounts for schools and for
- 1:24:18Speaker 6: parent teacher organizations that go all the way up to
- 1:24:20Speaker 6: forty five percent off, because you know, we don't want
- 1:24:23Speaker 6: really costs to be a barrier of getting these books
- 1:24:26Speaker 6: in the hands of kids, of getting these books in
- 1:24:28Speaker 6: the classrooms and in the schools, So we want to
- 1:24:30Speaker 6: make sure that we're working with schools and with PTOs
- 1:24:33Speaker 6: and really helping them do this in a in a
- 1:24:37Speaker 6: wonderful financially appropriate.
- 1:24:39Speaker 3: Way for them. It's so important, yeah, very important, even therapists, psychiatrists,
- 1:24:46Speaker 3: you know, like very important for all those to have
- 1:24:49Speaker 3: these books at hand. So that's amazing that you guys
- 1:24:52Speaker 3: are doing that, and I hope that our listeners take
- 1:24:54Speaker 3: advantage of that, and we have a lot of teachers
- 1:24:57Speaker 3: on our followers, so hopefully they could take that to
- 1:25:01Speaker 3: the board and get a lot of those books in
- 1:25:05Speaker 3: the school districts.
- 1:25:06Speaker 6: We also have classroom posters that go along with it,
- 1:25:09Speaker 6: so if teachers are.
- 1:25:10Speaker 1: Looking to decorate and just the classrooms in the fall.
- 1:25:13Speaker 6: There's some fun ones there that my favorite one I
- 1:25:15Speaker 6: think is the one that focuses on tidying up the
- 1:25:18Speaker 6: classroom and cleaning up your space and checking the lost
- 1:25:21Speaker 6: and found, because lord knows, I have lost so many
- 1:25:24Speaker 6: water bottles and head bands to the school lost and found,
- 1:25:28Speaker 6: and I feel like those are.
- 1:25:29Speaker 1: Those are some fun important messages.
- 1:25:31Speaker 3: Yeah, everyson, I going to my son's school the lost
- 1:25:35Speaker 3: and found. The rack is just so packed and I'm like,
- 1:25:37Speaker 3: do these kids not realize they're missing all these things?
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: Or coats? Cops in the middle of winter?
- 1:25:44Speaker 6: How do you go home without your coat when it's
- 1:25:47Speaker 6: you know, negative ten degrees outside.
- 1:25:50Speaker 2: Geo left without his book bag.
- 1:25:52Speaker 3: The one Well, my son came on with no book bag.
- 1:25:54Speaker 3: I said, wish your book? Oh I forgot it. How
- 1:25:56Speaker 3: do you forget your book back?
- 1:25:59Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:25:59Speaker 3: He needs that poster everywhere. Oh my gosh.
- 1:26:03Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much Sarah for meeting with us today.
- 1:26:08Speaker 2: We had a great time and we're definitely gonna promote
- 1:26:12Speaker 2: the Monsters on Mill Street series and we're looking forward
- 1:26:16Speaker 2: to having you on the show again sometime soon.
- 1:26:19Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Thank you guys.
- 1:26:20Speaker 2: So much.
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: I love you. I think you are both amazing.
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- 1:26:37Speaker 3: we got the I Love You box, the cutest box ever.
- 1:26:40Speaker 3: It's so cute. It says I with a heart and
- 1:26:44Speaker 3: then the letter you, and they're filled with treats. And
- 1:26:48Speaker 3: I thought it was so good. I ate the walnuts.
- 1:26:51Speaker 3: I know you got it for your mom, but I
- 1:26:53Speaker 3: snuck her walnuts. They were so good. It was like
- 1:26:55Speaker 3: candy coated walnuts. There was candy coated pretzels in there,
- 1:26:58Speaker 3: almonds with them.
- 1:27:00Speaker 2: The pretzels were my favorite.
- 1:27:02Speaker 3: They were good. They were so good. And they have
- 1:27:05Speaker 3: a ton of stuff on the website. So it's just
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- 1:27:24Speaker 2: And be sure to check out all of our Mother's
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