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From Sexless September to Locktober: Why All Men Should Be Caged with Larah Sky · The Kink Consultant

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  It's a King Consultant podcast where we're turning up the heat
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  on all things kink and dating, relationships and top culture.
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  So close the door, plug in your headphones, and let's get down
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  to it. Beginning Hey everyone, let's
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  get right into it. I have Lara Skyback.
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  You know I'm obsessed with her. The Queen of Chastity, if you
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  will. I normally just say chastity
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  enthusiast because I feel like Queen of Chastity is kind of
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  like hyping myself up a little bit too much.
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  We've reached Lara's limits. Actually, we found the border of
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  her ego. It's just below Queen of
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  Chastity. I'm not saying not the best one,
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  but I'm just saying there's too many of us, you know?
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  OK, some people, it's all they do.
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  I do a lot of different things. She's in Dom mode constantly.
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  That's something we talked about on her most recent episode with
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  me. She has a hard time stepping out
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  of Dom mode and we love it. I told her going to find
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  lipstick and to get water and she said take a sip each time I
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  say chastity and I said do not Dom me.
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  Before we even get on this call I considered it though.
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  I was like should I? Should I be domed again?
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  I enjoyed the last one, but mostly because it was about my
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  own productivity. I think we should do a full
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  episode which is just domination over productivity.
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  All right, this is a big month for you as you gear up for
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  October. It's probably more a big month
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  for the people who pay you to some.
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  But Harley? Bird offer on but we've all
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  Scott sexless September. I feel like it does what it says
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  on the tin. Do not have sex this month.
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  Yeah, so I made a little bit clip because I'm a little bit
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  extra. So I gave them like easy,
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  intermediate and hard calendar, three different pathways so they
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  could be chastity denied, edged and denied, or multiple orgasms
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  per day. Total gunfest.
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  No sex though. Virtual real AI.
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  I don't care, no. I'd lean on Goonfest though.
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  Like how does that even qualify as you're?
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  Not having sex. I know, but I guess it's not
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  total denial but like they're still getting to finish
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  themselves. Is that the easy mode?
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  No, because I let them come like five times a day and they have
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  to fit in and then I have on repeat days where they have to
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  repeat their tasks. So they're basically just coming
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  like back-to-back and then they go into chastity though.
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  So if they choose the good mode, that's the best one because then
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  you go from having like 10 orgasms a day to nothing.
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  So maybe I'm, unbeknownst to me, a gooner because I'm like, I
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  would much rather do multiple orgasms a day than edge myself
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  because I hate tease and denial for myself.
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  Although actually, easy mode is just nothing at all.
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  You're right to just turn that part of my brain off and be like
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  it's done. OK, All right, maybe I should
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  download the booklet. And yeah.
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  Just send you if you like have it between and friends.
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  Send me the booklet, but my listeners, you have to buy it
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  and we'll we'll include that link unless they're can they
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  just get it at your website. On Etsy, it's all my fan sites
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  as well, but just Etsy, OK Lara Skye on Etsy.
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  All right, so anyway, that's. Convinced that I like create
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  everything that happens, you know, like the whole like
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  speaking into being and kind of like manifesting.
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  But I need to be very specific with my intent because
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  everything that I've said recently has happened, but not
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  the way that I want. You know, I was like, oh, I'm
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  gonna get a new bathroom. I'm really looking forward to
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  this. My shower wall falls down from
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  damp so now I have to get one this month.
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  That is the way of manifestation.
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  Sometimes I remember saying, I want to work for a company where
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  people say, wow, she worked there.
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  Then I worked for one of the biggest scam companies of the
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  2010. I worked for Magnesus and that
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  guy ran Fire Festival, which was this big flop of a festival.
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  I used to work for Billy McFarland, right?
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  And after that fell, people would say, Oh my God, she worked
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  there or Oh my God, you worked there.
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  And I was like note to self be more specific about language so
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  quit that's. Like, I want a man to ruin my
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  life. And the next day a guy was
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  really rude to her. And I was like, well, you did
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  say, what did she mean? By that she wanted so much cash
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  A. Kind of like toxic relationship.
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  Like a super sexual toxic relationship that only lasts
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  couple weeks and would keep her heart broken.
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  That's like Forte. Send her my way like.
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  Let me she didn't mean just a random man to upset her.
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  No, she needs the emotional push, pull, the stuff that
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  really destroys your inner soul but really turns you on.
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  Yeah, center my way. Gotta be specific.
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  You gotta be specific. What are you manifesting for the
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  rest of 2025? 50 posts a day on social media.
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  OK, this is another thing you manifest.
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  Things are everything. You make things happen and then
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  you work your fucking ass off harder than anybody else I know
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  and you're like. I'm not fasting. 100 million
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  views and I don't know, I could have one really big viral but
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  probably like 50 posts a day. Of you just posting 50 posts a
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  day. Yeah, slightly different, but
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  all the same. Maybe if you see me on a channel
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  just back-to-back posting and ship posting and sitting at my
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  desk while I'm streaming in like you're in a cage.
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  I mean, the longer I am friends with you, the more I'm on board
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  with this. All men should be caged because
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  I also see the benefit of when men have to stop themselves from
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  coming and they have to focus on other things.
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  I see the benefit to them. See, I'm doing an easy mode for
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  October because people have really liked the sort of like 3
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  levels this time and I'm doing like a premade chastity plan.
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  Normally I do them individually, but I don't have enough time to
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  do one for everyone. So I was like, let's do
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  something you know, you can just buy and have it.
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  So easy mode is going to be like one orgasm a week.
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  And I think the one week will be a lot easier because it'll be
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  like, don't know what day you say Tuesday's OK, cool.
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  It's cheat day for organ. And it's permission and you
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  know, you're 2 days out and you're really struggling and you
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  think, OK, two more days. Can they negotiate and be like
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  can I have it today and. Well, they'd have to pay me
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  extra, but they could I actually have this up.
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  I love him so much. It's called Clover.
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  I was like, can I say his name? But it's not usual name.
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  Obviously it could be Anyway, so he's asked me to ban him for a
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  week. He was like you could deny me of
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  everything, even contacting you. And I was like, don't tempt me.
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  If he's well, he's banned from OF now, like he has to be banned
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  so that you can't contact me because he wants to be denied.
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  And he phoned me today and he and was like, please can I be on
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  band? And I was like $200 and he's
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  like, I can't afford that. You know that.
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  And I'm like, well, careful what you wish for.
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  I need to embody this hard ass energy because I'd be like I'm a
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  softy sometimes. I actually banned him for longer
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  because he was like, you know, you could ban me for longer if
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  you wanted to. And I was like, I'm being nice
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  to you, stop it. And he was like, but you could.
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  And I was like, OK, Wednesday then he needs to be on band for
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  October because he paid for that.
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  So you know. All right, like the last time we
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  had you on just under a year ago.
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  So I want to help people get ready for Locktober because I
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  know I've had an increase in clients who are interested in
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  chastity and want to introduce it to their wives.
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  So I know chastity is a really big topic.
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  It was big when we spoke last year and we talked about other
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  fetishes up and coming. But like, it seems like there is
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  no end to chastity being part of the mainstream kink now.
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  So for people who are interested in chastity, is Locktober the
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  right place to start? It's not the right place to
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  start if you're going to try and do the whole month.
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  It's a good month to start for the atmosphere, fear and, you
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  know, for getting on board with it and everyone's kind of
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  posting stuff about it. There's a lot of motivation,
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  yeah, but you're not gonna go from nothing to a full month
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  unless you're insane, like. But your easy mode of coming on
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  the week is that. Like that's achievable, Yeah.
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  But a lot of people go into it and they're like, I'm gonna put
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  the cage on, I'm not gonna come spoke about this before, but a
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  lot of people think that they're gonna stay caged.
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  And then when they take off after like four or five days and
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  they come, because obviously you've still done four or five
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  days, even if you've gone like a day, you still increased it.
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  You know, a lot of people are like, oh, I can't wear it to
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  work. We'll wear it when you get home.
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  I can't sleep in it. Well, don't wear it to bed then,
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  you know, like where when you can is the main sort of theme of
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  October for me is just getting you into the habit.
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  So in that way, it's the right place to start if you have the
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  right mentality about it of like, you're not trying to go
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  extreme, you're literally just, this is your intro.
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  This is your chance to figure out if this actually is as
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  exciting as your fantasy. But don't push yourself because
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  you're setting yourself up for failure.
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  It's like if you were going to the gym and you've never been to
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  the gym before, or you then go to like the worst, or I say the
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  worst, but like the most hardcore insane, like high
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  intensity class. And then you go weightlifting
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  and then you go swimming and then you go for a run.
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  And the next day you're going to feel like you're dying.
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  Or you decide, oh, I'm going to go on a massive diet and you cut
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  down to like 500 calories a day. You know, like you're not going
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  to sustain that where if you cannot slowly introduce stuff.
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  Yeah, it's like a logical approach.
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  I know what it is to Dom. I know how you can't just be
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  like this harsh psychopath, but I am always moved by how
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  thoughtful and caring and empathetic you are when you do
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  talk about this stuff. How do you balance when to be
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  empathetic and when to go hard on someone?
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  You just ask them like it sounds so easy, but it is a lot of
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  people struggle with asking. You know somebody will tell you
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  and if you're not sure, just ask them.
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  Because I get a lot of people being like, oh, I'm on only
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  fans. I don't to domination, but I
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  have somebody who wants dominated and I'm like firstly,
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  but of a red flag because you know, you would normally go to a
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  Dom, but maybe they just really like you and they want to
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  explore it with you and whatever I'm like, ask them and they're
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  like, well, does that make me not dominant?
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  No, it means that you're asking because then you know what your
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  limits are. It's a lot easier.
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  So yeah, when you just listen to people as well.
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  I mean, I will also. I am the queen of crash outs,
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  Might not be the queen of chastity, but like you know me
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  enough, I will shout at you. What percentage of your people
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  would you say are chastity focused?
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  Because a lot of your content is chastity focused.
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  I have a lot of sissies just now, yeah.
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  You do. But I wouldn't even call them
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  sissies, more like feminization Subs because I think there's a
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  bit of a difference and the main difference to me is lifestyle
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  and the kind of clients I have. I have a lot of like lifestyle
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  sissies or lifestyle feminization people rather than
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  just quick kind of like fetish people.
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  well people who like indulge deeply for a brief period of
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  time versus people who truly live their life.
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  Even indulging deeply and being into it for half an hour, I mean
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  people who are just like in the past and you know, oh, this is
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  fun. Sometimes they can be a bit
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  entitled. This isn't just sissies, but a
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  lot of people who are just into like the consumer side and they
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  just see it as a quick whatever. They don't really respect you as
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  much. For people who are more into the
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  lifestyle and into actually engaging with you, tend to, you
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  know, I don't need somebody to talk to me.
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  You can buy my contact, you watch my content, don't speak to
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  me. But when you're speaking to me,
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  don't be like now, now, now and then have a tantrum because it's
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  not instant or it's not how it was in your head or you know
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  what I mean? I do know what you mean.
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  Do you think that that like people who are into
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  certification and forced weaponization are over indexed
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  on treating you that way versus your chastity clients?
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  I think that you notice it more. Feet guys are annoying.
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  Chastity guys tend to be like long term chastity guys will be
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  mixed with something else. Chastity guys are normally into
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  like the key holding sort of aspect rather than just
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  fetishizing a body part or a thing.
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  I think that's maybe the difference.
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  The chastity people, in my experience, enjoy the
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  humiliation and sort of the mental play and the toying and
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  the teasing. That's my experience with the
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  chastity people. Feet people I feel a little bit
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  different about. I feel they're like they're
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  pretty direct in my experience. It's like they know what they're
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  looking for. This is what they want.
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  They're in, they're out, and they sort of understand the
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  world because it's very regimented.
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  I think it depends, it's you get some time wasters for every
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  fetish and I think when there's a bigger community you get more.
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  So I think like it used to be feet because feet were the kind
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  of thing and as well when I did feet I was like a newer model so
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  I got more time wasters. That's a really good point.
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  I can't really say, but they've always been like fairly decent.
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  And then the feminization group, it sounds like they're more
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  needy. I think a lot of them are needy
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  because there's like internalized like homophobia or
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  they're not secure in themselves.
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  Some of them are straight misogynistic, but most of them
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  aren't some I know The thing is like every single kind of like
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  sub. They might be a Dick, they might
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  be horrible, you know, they might be like, this is how I
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  want this. If you don't do this, if you
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  don't do that. But some doms won't work with
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  sissies or fam Subs because of they don't want to humiliate
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  them for being a woman. But I'm like, you're playing on
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  their own insecurities. If you're not secure enough to
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  do that, that's also fine. But some doms just hate Sissy
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  play, you know? I know that.
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  I remember that even from my Dawn days, there was like a high
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  level of offense of playing that game.
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  I was fine with it because I was like, all right, this is their
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  fantasy, this is what they're enjoying.
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  Let's just, I like going on a journey.
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  I like playing with fantasy, so I don't.
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  I mean, I humiliate a woman for being a woman.
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  I don't care. It's fine.
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  Don't tempt me with you're hearing how you would do that
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  because this is how we got into the last conversation about
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  productivity and meaning a diamond.
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  Every time. I'd probably pimp you out.
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  Oh, you nailed it, Nailed it. I'd probably be fucking into
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  that now. Would you pimp me out just
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  because you could? Was I bad?
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  Am IA slut? What's going on?
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  Can I take you to like my favorite?
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  So a lot of sissies want to be like used.
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  There's kind of like a kind of encouraged.
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  I'm saying encouraged because the word the F words banned.
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  I was like round with horse. Yo is that banned on your on
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  your? Place.
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  Yeah, well. On the podcast, you strongly
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  encouraged strongly. Encouraged.
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  But they have this kind of like being used fantasy.
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  So a lot of them are like, Oh my God, if I went to Sissy's school
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  or you invited me over, there were guys that turned up and I
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  was just tied. I was made to be trained to be a
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  slut. You know what?
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  Good job. I can really get into this.
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  Yeah, I'm already getting like I could get down with.
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  That I think it's a good fantasy like.
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  I think. For it.
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  And then like you could now make money from me, like you can send
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  me to see school for the week, get me in a cage and then take
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  me to the main event. And I'm like, yes, I love a
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  little bit of build up. I love a little bit of whatever.
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  Me too. You just took me on a journey
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  top. You know, it's actually now
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  that's like a now my mind can't come back to this podcast
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  because I'm still in that fantasy of, Oh yeah, that would
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  be fun. The majority of them want to be
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  caged because that is a big Sissy thing as well, bringing it
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  back to chassis. So it goes hand in hand.
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  Do you know you've got the diaper people?
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  They're kind of banned everywhere.
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  Oh, on fan call? I'm not on Dom line actually.
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  So we're not allowed to promote, but you can talk about it.
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  OK. It's to do with payment
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  processors? So payment processors are
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  against the diaper stuff? Yeah, so Visa, MasterCard,
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  evangelicals, you know. It.
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  Sounds like a joke. It is genuine, like evangelical
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  lobbying is, yeah. No, they have all the money for
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  a reason. Like those mega churches
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  evangelists. And no one has more money than
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  those mega churches. There's a lot of things that
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  you're not allowed to talk about hypno because oh, you could
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  hypnotize someone out their money.
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  Let's be honest. I'm going to be like, you're
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  hypnotized and. I'm in.
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  No, you're right, I do believe in hypnotherapy, but I also know
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  it takes such an amount of you wanting to do something
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  yourself. Yeah, but also like you've
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  bought the content. Are you engaged in that content?
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  So I think as well you have to kind of be in person.
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  Do you know what I mean? I don't think if you've pre
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  bought it and you're like, yeah, I'm buying this hypno video, I
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  could see them being like they can't tip you while they're in a
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  hypno show. Maybe for like just to make sure
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  somebody can't charge back. It's because people are doing
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  chargebacks. You know, they were like, oh,
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  they cast a spell on me. Oh, they said they were a
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  vampire. You know, like be a vampire.
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  You're not like blood, You're not like pee.
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  What do you I have an issue just now with only fans?
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  Why did you? Tonight, No, it's the chastity
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  dot world is my new only fans page, which is just chastity
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  content and it's going to be for October and going onwards.
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  But just to keep everyone that's on a plan in one place instead
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  of having them all together because honestly, I have so many
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  messages every day. So just having like however many
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  people are actually doing chastity is going to be so much
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  easier. Yeah.
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  So I uploaded this video. It's called Dribble in your Cage
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  and I got this notification being like forbidden role play.
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  And I'm like, what's forbidden? We have reviewed this.
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  It's forbidden. Yes, what's forbidden?
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  We have reviewed it. It's forbidden.
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  OK, Stop copy and pasting. Tell me I pay you enough money
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  that you can tell me what it is. Is there something that can be
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  edited? Should it just not be sold?
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  It's one clip. I don't care that much.
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  But if it's like a three second bit that I can just take out and
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  put up. And I was like, it's also on my
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  other pages. And it has been since 2022.
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  So you might want to tell me, is it banned?
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  Because you might not want to be, you know, selling this
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  stuff. But yeah, so it's a dribble
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  thing and they think it's P. It's not that they don't
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  understand and that it's when you were a cage you dribble cum.
• 16:57
  So that's basically I'm trying to get across to this customer
• 17:01
  service person and be like it's not pee.
• 17:04
  You think like I. Promise you it's not pee and I'm
• 17:07
  talking about like it's soaking your pants.
• 17:09
  It's come and I was like, is it just banned because it's too
• 17:12
  close? Like can a person review this?
• 17:14
  Can I give you the contacts like?
• 17:15
  Let me send over a PowerPoint presentation.
• 17:17
  That's exactly how this breaks down into they're.
• 17:20
  Notoriously bad. I had an issue years ago.
• 17:23
  I quit for six months. Tantrum.
• 17:24
  You have a tantrum, no. Reported me, right?
• 17:29
  They reported me for something that wasn't even whatever.
• 17:32
  It was a call site that I used to be on that I didn't even use
• 17:35
  and it was on my website. They had reported the page on my
• 17:39
  website and said that I was linking on Twitter and my only
• 17:42
  fans was linked to Twitter, which was linked to this
• 17:43
  website, which then linked to another website, but not page.
• 17:47
  I was like, come on, guys. And basically I had like weeks
• 17:50
  of being like, what's going on? What's going on?
• 17:52
  And because it was on my smaller page, they wouldn't tell me The
• 17:54
  second I was like, you do realize this is my bigger
• 17:56
  account and I've just told everyone to cancel their
• 17:59
  subscriptions. Do you know what I got told what
• 18:01
  exactly what it was And it was one word.
• 18:04
  It was literally the site name. I don't remember if I had it
• 18:07
  linked or not, but I was like, I do calls on these sites and it
• 18:09
  was they were like, you can't have that site on anything
• 18:11
  connected to only fans even vaguely.
• 18:13
  And I was like, how easy was that?
• 18:15
  And then I just didn't work on them for a six months until I
• 18:17
  wanted money. Honest to God that makes so much
• 18:20
  sense. I would actually do the exact
• 18:21
  same thing. I was just like, no, you had
• 18:23
  enough money to last me for like a year.
• 18:25
  I was like I don't even need to work at this point like.
• 18:28
  That, that's fuck you money then that.
• 18:30
  Is just so nice last like I literally had like cash.
• 18:33
  I didn't need to work because I had cash.
• 18:35
  And you had other sites that you were on?
• 18:37
  I moved everyone to loyal fans, that's the main thing.
• 18:41
  I will say Only Fans is the easiest 1 to get subscribers on.
• 18:44
  OK, that's. Not high quality mix.
• 18:46
  That's the shade. Everyone who's subscribed to me
• 18:48
  on Only Fans, I think it's because they have to look for
• 18:50
  you. You know, it's the same kind of
• 18:51
  thing of like they want to follow you versus just being
• 18:54
  like, that's only fans. I don't believe there is any
• 18:57
  such thing as a silver bullet, right?
• 18:59
  But did you have a couple of things that you were like, oh
• 19:01
  shit, this opens the floodgates of people to my only fans.
• 19:05
  Any specific type of content being on TikTok, being on
• 19:07
  Instagram? So I used to work in real life.
• 19:09
  Lockdown happened yes and then I started streaming but I'd kind
• 19:13
  of streamed now and again before so it wasn't like totally new,
• 19:16
  but I wasn't regular or anything into lockdown and probably about
• 19:18
  like two or three months into like full on streaming.
• 19:21
  This guy took me like $50 and he was like could you make a tick
• 19:25
  tock? He's like you'd be really good
• 19:26
  on there and I made a tick tock being like Oh my God this guy
• 19:29
  just paid me $50. He could have had a custom clip
• 19:31
  instead. What an idiot and that got like
• 19:34
  30,000 views or something and then the next video that I did I
• 19:38
  don't know like hundreds of thousands literally and then it
• 19:40
  was like millions. I basically had only made my
• 19:44
  only fans as well. So if you look at my earnings, I
• 19:47
  think I think my first month I earned like maybe like 800 and
• 19:50
  then it like jumps. Do you know what I mean?
• 19:52
  So it's like, yeah, it's literally like the chart goes
• 19:55
  right off. You just see it.
• 19:56
  So it was just, it was really tick tock that changed your
• 19:59
  business. Yeah, and you used to be able to
• 20:01
  link on TikTok as well. So I was getting like hundreds
• 20:04
  of subscribers a day. I couldn't even use my phone
• 20:07
  because I used to get an individual e-mail for each
• 20:09
  subscriber and also notifications from TikTok.
• 20:12
  So like I couldn't use my phone. My phone was just frozen.
• 20:15
  And this. Is remembering.
• 20:16
  I feel like a lot of my big videos, they would just go
• 20:19
  weirdly viral and I didn't really know how to like monetize
• 20:22
  them as well at that point. Like obviously only fans and
• 20:24
  whatever, but I never really like stuck with it.
• 20:26
  And what I should have done is like gone hardcore with it and I
• 20:29
  was lazy. I was like, I don't need to
• 20:31
  post. I could post once a month.
• 20:32
  I. Need 20 with this stuff of like
• 20:34
  oh if I'd only known then what I know now of how to.
• 20:37
  I mean, I couldn't know that I wanted to do this.
• 20:40
  Like I didn't know that I wanted to do this.
• 20:41
  But I liked streaming more. I still like streaming more than
• 20:44
  only fans. So when you say you didn't know
• 20:46
  you wanted to do this, you mean only fans you didn't know that
• 20:49
  you wanted to? Do this like even though I was
• 20:51
  making way more than on stream, but on stream as well, I was
• 20:54
  like a top 100 model like I used.
• 20:56
  I was doing pretty well on stream as well, but you know
• 20:59
  like subscriber numbers. I didn't have to do anything.
• 21:01
  I didn't chat to people either so.
• 21:03
  You were just paying yourself, which made it easier.
• 21:06
  Yeah, like I literally just had. Well, that's the other thing is
• 21:09
  surprisingly, when you talk to people, they tip you.
• 21:11
  It's really weird, right? So were you.
• 21:14
  You were getting tipped on streams.
• 21:16
  So I was getting tipped on streams, but yeah, my original
• 21:19
  subscribers all came from stream.
• 21:21
  So I probably had so like the 800, I think I might be had like
• 21:24
  $50 something a month for just set up a few days before the end
• 21:27
  of month and then like 800 and then whatever it was, that was
• 21:30
  all from stream. So a lot of people would follow
• 21:32
  me on stream and then follow my only fans and they would keep
• 21:34
  chatting. I still have people from like my
• 21:36
  original streams that are still like in the room.
• 21:39
  I don't go on as much because I enjoy my leg and stuff.
• 21:41
  So I'm just getting like back into HUD Internet issues.
• 21:44
  Have workmen every day. You've had a lot.
• 21:47
  The Workman must know what you do.
• 21:48
  Or do you keep all of this side of your house closed off?
• 21:51
  So no. One's I closed this door, but I
• 21:54
  think it's pretty obvious, like if so, if I had somebody come in
• 21:57
  this room, I would probably like shove all this.
• 22:00
  I'm not going to show you junk corner, but like I would shove
• 22:02
  it over to the other side. But then I also kind of feel
• 22:04
  like I might as well just leave it because it's not that
• 22:06
  obvious. You know, it's just underwear
• 22:08
  and I've got another dressing room.
• 22:10
  So sometimes I just say to them, Oh, you know, like I've slipped
• 22:12
  my dressing room. So normally I would have like
• 22:15
  underwear and clothes in here. If they ever kind of give it a
• 22:17
  look and you've got a lot of underwear.
• 22:19
  I'm like, Oh yeah, It's just, you know, filling up space.
• 22:21
  I really want to get like whips and chains on there.
• 22:24
  Oh yeah. I don't want to do it until.
• 22:25
  That's what I want to get up here too.
• 22:27
  But then I also don't know how that's going to affect videos
• 22:29
  because first of all, my clients are coaching clients, not actual
• 22:33
  like sub clients. But I do the podcast here that I
• 22:35
  don't want to risk getting banned or in trouble because
• 22:38
  that's the fight we're all fighting constantly.
• 22:40
  I'm even doing it and my stuff is purely educational.
• 22:42
  I mean, it's a little bit jokey from time to time, but.
• 22:45
  You know, I can't say have a perverted day on on YouTube
• 22:47
  anymore. It used to be my sign off
• 22:49
  because it implies sexual activity got in trouble.
• 22:52
  I also got in trouble for saying, oh, maybe we'll talk
• 22:54
  about knife play next time. That actually got me 18 plus on
• 22:57
  that video. They were like, so it literally
• 22:59
  started off with being like somebody was reported you, they
• 23:01
  reviewed it and they were like, Hey, you can't talk about knife
• 23:04
  play. And it was like, I took it out
• 23:05
  and I went back and were, like you said, pervert a day.
• 23:08
  And I was like, OK. We're crying out loud.
• 23:10
  Just give me it or was it pervert a day and then I hadn't
• 23:12
  taken out the knife play. I can't remember but they re
• 23:14
  reviewed it and. It was still.
• 23:15
  Banned. It went from being D monetized
• 23:17
  to 18 plus because IA. Massive fall from grace.
• 23:21
  How much that can get monetized on YouTube that you talk about?
• 23:25
  So basically if you're holding a cage, I'm going to do something
• 23:28
  with chopsticks because I thought it'd be really funny.
• 23:29
  Or on a plate because one of the issues is, is like sexual
• 23:33
  touching. Basically, YouTube's different
• 23:36
  to like a campsite or something wherein they're not necessarily
• 23:39
  under the new UK law or under like the modesty laws because
• 23:42
  they're not a sexual site. So when you go on like Pornhub,
• 23:45
  you know you're going to see porn.
• 23:46
  When you go on YouTube, you go expecting to see not porn, but
• 23:50
  you might have innuendo or you might have something that's
• 23:53
  nudity, or you might have like sexual, whatever.
• 23:55
  Like a visual. Aid.
• 23:57
  Focus. You're holding the chastity cage
• 23:59
  right now, yes? Not the.
• 24:00
  Chastity cage. So The thing is, if I'm talking
• 24:02
  about this cage and I'm saying this is how you put on, This is
• 24:05
  why you wear it, but I'm not allowed to put my fingers
• 24:08
  inside. OK.
• 24:09
  Yeah, not allowed to like touch it, handle it.
• 24:12
  So you have to just hold it. And there's a very fine line for
• 24:17
  holding things because say, on Only Fans, you can't hold a
• 24:21
  chastity cage or any sex toy or like any of the sites I'm on, on
• 24:24
  your profile picture because somebody under 18 could see it,
• 24:27
  right? Even though you're paywalled,
• 24:28
  your external profile picture has to be completely safe.
• 24:32
  So I could hold a cage on YouTube because it could be
• 24:35
  educational and it's not an 18 plus site, but when you're an 18
• 24:39
  plus site, you can't have a cage.
• 24:40
  But obviously on 18 plus sites I can put my finger in them.
• 24:44
  Can I hold a riding crop? I don't have an only fans page.
• 24:47
  I created a page to hold the King consultant name on only
• 24:51
  fans but I do not have a site or like anything there.
• 24:54
  But if I had a picture with just a riding crop, would that be
• 24:57
  allowed? Your profile picture?
• 24:58
  Probably not. Fascinating.
• 25:00
  Just like it's a world I don't know.
• 25:02
  Unless it was outdoors at stables, but you wouldn't be
• 25:05
  allowed to take outdoor content. Are you selling a $40 code?
• 25:08
  Like I'm like should fuck the books, fuck sexless September,
• 25:12
  fuck October. You know, like how to succeed on
• 25:15
  Only Fans $40 course, although how much are your books?
• 25:19
  So sexless September I think it's like 5 lbs or 666 dollars.
• 25:25
  Love that it obviously. Depends on that and stuff, but.
• 25:28
  Yeah, around the. Taxes my chastity book.
• 25:31
  You're asking the question. I think this is $10 or 7 lbs.
• 25:34
  OK. You just have that one physical
• 25:36
  copy, but it can be done online, right?
• 25:38
  Yeah, So it's a PDF. So I do have a printer just now.
• 25:42
  So you can buy them basically like any anywhere, any
• 25:44
  bookstores should have them. But I'm trying to get them on
• 25:46
  Amazon so you can just get them like print on demand, because I
• 25:49
  think that would actually be better for people.
• 25:51
  I don't know. When I looked at it last year,
• 25:53
  it was a little bit confusing over publishing.
• 25:56
  So I thought that by publishing with this company, I could sell
• 26:00
  them on Etsy. And it turned out that you still
• 26:02
  need another website to then sell on Etsy and it's you know,
• 26:05
  it's a whole issue and it's I'd rather just have it that you can
• 26:08
  buy them and you get them. I don't want to have to sell
• 26:10
  them. But anyway, if you buy them off
• 26:11
  like a bookstore, you'll get the copy.
• 26:13
  But if if I had to list on Etsy, I would need an intermediary.
• 26:16
  It's not worth it. OK, so they can go buy this on
• 26:19
  your sites? So on Etsy, too big for fan
• 26:23
  sites? OK so you can go buy on Etsy,
• 26:25
  Lara Sky on Etsy and you can get the chastity book for around 10
• 26:29
  lbs give or take and sexless September book for £5 or $6.66.
• 26:36
  And I have like some challenges like 3 days of tasks.
• 26:39
  I have 31 chastity tasks. I will be adding some more
• 26:42
  stuff. I've still not finished my book
• 26:43
  from last last year though because of my leg injury.
• 26:46
  I have written about half of it, but it kept growing and I won't
• 26:49
  release something until I'm happy with it.
• 26:51
  So I'm probably going. To do a guide, I'm going to do
• 26:53
  like maybe A5 page guide or something for chastity, but this
• 26:56
  book is literally going to be like every question people will
• 26:59
  ask me will just be in there and I'll be like, buy the book.
• 27:01
  It's on page, whatever. Yeah, like just go buy it.
• 27:04
  I said this last year. Like buy the book.
• 27:06
  Do you know that they're doing only fans TV?
• 27:09
  Have you heard about this? Yeah, so the thing with OFTV is
• 27:12
  that you have to have a free only fans page that has no adult
• 27:16
  content on it. It has to be like an Instagram.
• 27:17
  And even if it's locked, they're a bit funny about it.
• 27:20
  I might get away with it, I might not.
• 27:22
  And also like, if you put it on YouTube, if it's safe for OFTV,
• 27:25
  which is safer work, you might as well just put on YouTube,
• 27:27
  have a bigger audience. But I have actually considered
• 27:30
  like fronting my own chastity world like week.
• 27:34
  So why don't you do that like Shark Week for chastity world
• 27:37
  like. Well like if you get a villa,
• 27:39
  you know you can probably get like 10 chastity Subs to pay
• 27:43
  like 1000 each for a week, OK? Like you don't make money, but
• 27:46
  you pay everything. So that's actually a great idea.
• 27:49
  So what you would need is a free only fans page and you don't
• 27:52
  have a single free one. So I have a paid page which I'm
• 27:56
  kind of toying with the idea of spicing it up a bit.
• 27:59
  OK, but nothing solid yet. So wait and see.
• 28:02
  Announcements will be made when they're made.
• 28:04
  Nobody messaged me and be like what's happening because you'll
• 28:06
  find out when you find out because I don't know yet.
• 28:08
  It's like I say this a lot on YouTube videos.
• 28:10
  I feel like you will know before me because I don't know for a
• 28:13
  week. You'll know tomorrow.
• 28:15
  Yeah. So I've got my VIP page which is
• 28:17
  daily posts, which is not safe for work.
• 28:20
  Then I have my clip store which is all my clips which are on the
• 28:24
  clip sites. And then I have Chastity World
• 28:27
  and you can only have 3 pages. Chastity World and the Free Clip
• 28:32
  store are free to follow but not free to interact with,
• 28:35
  basically. But they're not safe for work
• 28:37
  necessarily. So my content would actually be
• 28:39
  perfect up there because it is safe.
• 28:41
  You wouldn't, yeah. So you would be really good on
• 28:44
  or FTV because you can make like, I feel like I think it has
• 28:47
  to be exclusive to them and it has to be a certain quality.
• 28:50
  So it has to be like beginning, middle, end, and it has to have
• 28:53
  a theme you could do a try on. You could do whatever you want.
• 28:56
  The podcast is fine, but it needs to have a theme.
• 28:58
  You know you can't just sit there, do nothing.
• 29:01
  But can you talk about cake? As long as it's OK on YouTube.
• 29:04
  So like, don't get me started on foreign laws.
• 29:08
  OK, Yeah. I'm not even the person to ask
• 29:10
  about them. I feel like I know enough about
• 29:12
  them but but I am very confusing.
• 29:14
  You selling a course for what you do know about how to
• 29:17
  navigate what you can and can't do on only fans.
• 29:20
  So I give my information for free, rightly or wrongly, to
• 29:24
  people that I'm like friendly with.
• 29:26
  But also there's a certain point, right?
• 29:28
  I'll be like, OK, I think it's a good, I think it's a bad idea.
• 29:31
  You can do this, you can do that.
• 29:32
  Like if I see somebody asking a question, I'll answer them.
• 29:34
  But I also, I did mentor with somebody, I won't name them, but
• 29:38
  they like doubled my income just by making me more aggressive in
• 29:42
  sales, which you might be like, Oh my God, like what?
• 29:44
  But like actually making me message people back?
• 29:47
  Did you get domed by someone who made you?
• 29:50
  I did get bombed. I was scared because they're
• 29:52
  like really mean. They're not really.
• 29:54
  They're really direct. Were they a Dom themselves or
• 29:57
  were they just like do this? No, they're just they had to
• 29:59
  like a really high power like normal job.
• 30:03
  And did they specifically help OF creators?
• 30:05
  I went to the last scary one. There's two other levels of
• 30:08
  scary people and you're you were intimidated by them.
• 30:12
  No, just because like, so there's two of them.
• 30:14
  There's one who's like, I don't know, one who's very like a sort
• 30:18
  of online and is very well known for being a sort of and
• 30:21
  whatever. And the other one I hadn't
• 30:23
  really heard of, but I booked with her because she had spaces
• 30:25
  and she gave me like really good info.
• 30:27
  Oh, damn. I think it's one of these things
• 30:28
  when you book mentorship, like you have to be prepared to lose
• 30:31
  your money or not learn anything.
• 30:32
  But I was like, they're vanilla creators as well.
• 30:35
  And I just to learn how to do Instagram better, you know, like
• 30:38
  I wanted to because you a lot of social media promo and I kind of
• 30:40
  knew the strategies they were using, but I wanted somebody to
• 30:44
  actually explain it to me. You know, I was like, I'm pretty
• 30:46
  cool with what I do, but I want to understand this strategy.
• 30:49
  I want to learn that that is something that now I'm like.
• 30:53
  Post on multiple sites every day, every day, consistently.
• 30:57
  Consistent. They post on like 17 Instagrams
• 31:00
  every day. I don't even know if I have the
• 31:02
  mental capacity. Facebook Tick tock Twitter, but
• 31:05
  they do it individually as well. They post every single day
• 31:08
  because you get better reach high schedule because I'm lazy.
• 31:10
  I'm not lazy, but like I will take the hit for my time because
• 31:14
  I hate. I know that I won't do it every
• 31:16
  day. Once a week, yes twice a week,
• 31:17
  yes. 3 * a yeah every single day.
• 31:19
  I'm not gonna do it right. It's a lot for sure.
• 31:22
  Scheduling for me, I'll take the hit on numbers, which is maybe
• 31:26
  like 20%, which is a lot overall if you're getting to like
• 31:29
  hundreds of millions. But so if you think about it
• 31:31
  like you see like a tick tock and it's got 100 viewers, maybe
• 31:35
  get one subscriber for that. But imagine they've made like
• 31:39
  $10 off that and they've posted 20 times that day and it's taken
• 31:43
  them an hour. That's so it's like the same
• 31:45
  thing or like just mixed up a little bit and it, you know,
• 31:48
  like that's the strategy. Basically it's just reusing
• 31:50
  content, mixing up the viral hooks and something will go
• 31:53
  viral at some point, you know? But if you spend 5 minutes on
• 31:57
  something and make $10. It's worth it I.
• 31:59
  Think that's the strategy. All right, Lara, I think we've
• 32:02
  hit every topic and then some, but for for all of our chastity
• 32:06
  people go get the book and the sexless September people.
• 32:09
  This episode's coming out in September, so you still have
• 32:12
  time to like jump on board with sexless September.
• 32:15
  You're preparing for October. There's a whole network.
• 32:18
  It's chastity dot world. Start your journey now.
• 32:21
  Get in on it. My favorite message, though, is
• 32:23
  like, take it slow. Don't jump in.
• 32:25
  You can be guided through. That is how they're going to
• 32:28
  enter this world, especially if they've been thinking about it
• 32:31
  for a long time. This is the time.
• 32:32
  This is the time to have that community around you.
• 32:34
  Dip your toe in the water. You don't need to get a cage but
• 32:37
  you can on your site. Where would I go?
• 32:39
  Like you tell people how to pick the cage out.
• 32:41
  This is locked and lost vice. This is the old version.
• 32:45
  They're bringing out a new one. I like this one because it opens
• 32:48
  like a hinge, so it can be a little bit easier to get on.
• 32:51
  Some people get trapped in here so they can like pinch your
• 32:53
  skin. That happens with a lot of them,
• 32:55
  right? In some ways like a hinge cage
• 32:57
  is better because you can get a smaller beige ring.
• 33:00
  Yeah, and it won't fall off as much, but you probably need a
• 33:02
  strap. So locked and lost Lara Sky for
• 33:05
  15 percent off. So I have a thing on Cobra.
• 33:08
  If you search for Cobra, make sure you get it for Kink 3D
• 33:12
  because places on Amazon have ones called Cobra and it's not
• 33:16
  the Cobra. Do you know what I mean?
• 33:18
  It's it's a knockoff. So you need the Cobra.
• 33:21
  Kink3d.com, I'm sure. Yeah, if you buy another Cobra,
• 33:25
  it might not be the quality. They have a lot of knockoff
• 33:28
  issues. We will go get your cage again.
• 33:30
  It's not mandatory but check it out.
• 33:32
  I do think we should do this monthly.
• 33:34
  I know I say this all the time. We got to find a way to do it so
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  that we're not selling my editor.
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  But yeah, drop in the comments if you want to hear me and Lara
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  talk every month. The unedited version.
• 33:45
  Actually we could do everything. We could do a TikTok, YouTube,
• 33:48
  Twitch, just combined everything all.
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  Right, so go check out any of Lara's content.
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  Lara's Sky is legendary. You can type that into Google
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  and all of her stuff will come up.
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  I'm not wrong. Let me do it right now.
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  Scammers, should I do it as well?
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  So the first thing is larasky.com, it's your Twitter
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  with 18 / 18,000 followers, then YouTube, Instagram, then
• 34:09
  larisky.com. Oh we have pornhub for me.
• 34:13
  Yep, we. Do my favorite.
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  Oh, and you have YouTube and then loyal fans.
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  I'm just. Gonna say if you really want
• 34:20
  some special instructions go to pornhub.
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  I have a Christmas tree I dressed as a Christmas tree for,
• 34:25
  Aji told people to jerk off to paper.
• 34:29
  Speaking of what you tell people to jerk off to, you also just
• 34:32
  sent me a photo of asking people to jerk off vegetables.
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  Right. Can I explain this?
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  Yeah, please do actually, because I saw.
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  That right OK so you're jerking off a carrot because it's not
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  your penis but you're like you're jerking so you're
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  mentally jerking wait emotion but no sexual stimulation
• 34:50
  that's. Kind of like when you tell
• 34:52
  orally fixated smokers to just find something to orally fixate
• 34:55
  on that isn't as ignorant. I'm with you.
• 34:57
  Thank you all for joining us. Go check out larasky.com.co.uk
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  chastity dot world. Thanks so much for for joining
• 35:06
  Lara. Until hopefully this time next
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  month. I want to do this monthly.
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  I really do in some way, shape or form.
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  If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe, leave
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  interesting. And if you have any questions or
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  topics you'd like me to cover in future episodes, feel free to
• 35:21
  reach out e-mail info@thekingconsultant.com.
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  Until next time, keep on kinking on.