The Real Reason You Can't Trust Yourself (It's Not What You Think)

The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi · May 27, 2026 · 40m

You talk yourself out of your own feelings. You ask everyone else what they think before you trust what you know. You've second-guessed yourself so many times that you're not even sure anymore what your instincts actually sound like. Self-distrust isn't a personality trait — it's something that gets built, layer by layer, usually starting long before you had any say in the matter. Jennifer Urezzio has spent her career working at the root of exactly this — through a framework called Soul Language that helps women stop outsourcing their knowing and start coming home to themselves. This episode…