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- 0:00Speaker 1: My name's Natasha Bamblet. I'm a proud First Nations woman
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- 0:44Speaker 2: She's on the Money.
- 0:46Speaker 3: She's on the Money.
- 1:07Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money the podcast
- 1:10Speaker 4: and lets you be pervy about other people's money habits
- 1:13Speaker 4: for educational purposes, of course. Welcome back to another one
- 1:16Speaker 4: of our money diaries, brought to you by sky Wealth,
- 1:19Speaker 4: where we get to talk with one of our incredible
- 1:21Speaker 4: She's on the Money community members all about their journey. Now,
- 1:25Speaker 4: let's jump straight into it, because I got a message
- 1:27Speaker 4: this week and it sounded identical to this. Hi, she's
- 1:30Speaker 4: on the money team. After returning from a working holiday
- 1:33Speaker 4: in London with just one thousand dollars to my name,
- 1:36Speaker 4: I became fed up and started my financial literacy journey.
- 1:39Speaker 4: Fast forward and I am now fully self employed, leading
- 1:43Speaker 4: a team, own my home, and most thrilling of all,
- 1:47Speaker 4: I'm about to get married money Doariest.
- 1:51Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. I think this is so exciting.
- 1:54Speaker 5: Thank you. I actually did get married.
- 1:58Speaker 2: Oh you did get married.
- 1:59Speaker 5: I get yes two months ago now in September. Stop it.
- 2:04Speaker 2: I'm so excited for you. That is so so fun.
- 2:08Speaker 2: I'm obsessed. Was it the best day ever?
- 2:10Speaker 5: It was.
- 2:11Speaker 2: We had a destination wedding and that came with its
- 2:14Speaker 2: challenges that it was really fun. And I think you were
- 2:19Speaker 2: Jimmy Choo's shoes right, turning you one of your engagement
- 2:22Speaker 2: your hends.
- 2:23Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah.
- 2:24Speaker 2: I bought those same shoes for the wedding and lasted
- 2:27Speaker 2: a couple of hours and I had to take them off,
- 2:29Speaker 2: the pearly ones or the bow ones, because like I
- 2:32Speaker 2: have the bow one, I have a purchase for shoes. Yeah,
- 2:34Speaker 2: the bow one. They were I wish you'd message me girlfriend.
- 2:37Speaker 2: They're so uncomfortable. I know.
- 2:40Speaker 4: I was like, yes, they are so beautiful, they are
- 2:44Speaker 4: so uncomfortable.
- 2:45Speaker 2: I was so mad about it.
- 2:47Speaker 5: Never again.
- 2:47Speaker 2: I remember being like, they're Jimmy cho They're going to
- 2:49Speaker 2: be really comfortable like this is, and I can justify
- 2:52Speaker 2: any shoe purchase you watch me. I'll just ask you
- 2:54Speaker 2: next time any big purchases about shoes. You know what,
- 2:57Speaker 2: Jimmy choos are fantastic and this is very niche, but
- 3:00Speaker 2: they are only fantastic for eight centimeters and below. Anything
- 3:03Speaker 2: above eight centimeters no go. Yeah, good to know in hindsight.
- 3:07Speaker 2: But you looked really cute, so like the pain was
- 3:10Speaker 2: worth it. Money Diarist, I am.
- 3:13Speaker 4: So excited because you are the first Money Diary of
- 3:16Speaker 4: twenty twenty six to drop, and I just thought, what
- 3:19Speaker 4: a perfect story when I read this to pop you
- 3:22Speaker 4: on the show, because where you started from is where
- 3:26Speaker 4: so many of our community members and new listeners are
- 3:28Speaker 4: going to be at the start of their financial journey
- 3:31Speaker 4: in twenty twenty six. Like you said, you came back
- 3:33Speaker 4: from London. I mean, we're not all coming back from London,
- 3:36Speaker 4: but you were just like, I've just got a thousand
- 3:37Speaker 4: dollars to my name?
- 3:38Speaker 2: What the heck?
- 3:38Speaker 4: Like, what do I do? How do I change this?
- 3:41Speaker 4: And now we get to learn about how you did
- 3:43Speaker 4: change that? So I reckon You're going to be pretty
- 3:46Speaker 4: inspirational this episode, and I'm.
- 3:48Speaker 2: Just very excited about it.
- 3:49Speaker 5: Thank you.
- 3:50Speaker 2: Let's dive in.
- 3:51Speaker 4: I've probably yapped a little bit too much before even
- 3:53Speaker 4: asking this question, but before we ask any other questions,
- 3:57Speaker 4: I always ask my money doris or great?
- 3:59Speaker 2: We did you give your money habits from A through
- 4:01Speaker 2: to F. If I asked you to give yourself a grade, I.
- 4:04Speaker 5: Would say, I'm a B plus.
- 4:07Speaker 2: I love that.
- 4:07Speaker 4: And when you moved back from London with one thousand
- 4:09Speaker 4: dollars to your name, what do you reckon you were?
- 4:11Speaker 5: I mean like a D.
- 4:14Speaker 2: I mean I wasn't in debt, so I could maybe
- 4:18Speaker 2: slightly better than a D because I did have something.
- 4:21Speaker 2: And I know a lot of friends of mine who
- 4:23Speaker 2: came back from London that came back in debt, So
- 4:26Speaker 2: I guess that's a plus.
- 4:27Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's a really great slate to start on.
- 4:30Speaker 4: Let's dive a little bit deep on my favorite question
- 4:32Speaker 4: in the whole world. Can you tell me a little
- 4:34Speaker 4: bit more about your money story.
- 4:36Speaker 2: Well, I am a family of four kids, two migrant
- 4:40Speaker 2: parents who moved to Australia when I was six years old,
- 4:44Speaker 2: and like any other migrant family, they kind of had
- 4:48Speaker 2: to start from zero essentially, and my mum stayed at
- 4:53Speaker 2: home to look after four kids. We're all very close
- 4:56Speaker 2: in age. At some point we were four kids under five.
- 5:00Speaker 2: I don't know how she did it, and my dad
- 5:03Speaker 2: was the one who worked.
- 5:04Speaker 4: Oh my god, not only just like managing five kids,
- 5:07Speaker 4: or sorry, four kids under five, not just managing that,
- 5:10Speaker 4: but like, sorry, what her body went through to get
- 5:13Speaker 4: those four kids out in that short period of time.
- 5:16Speaker 2: Icon. Honestly, I don't know how she's She asks us
- 5:22Speaker 2: kids if we want four, We're like, no, we're good,
- 5:25Speaker 2: We're good.
- 5:26Speaker 5: We're good.
- 5:26Speaker 2: I'm delusional. I love the idea of four, but four
- 5:29Speaker 2: under five, Queen, what were you thinking?
- 5:31Speaker 5: I have no idea.
- 5:32Speaker 2: It's almost like a flex now to have that many
- 5:34Speaker 2: kids and be able to support them, but on a
- 5:37Speaker 2: single income. I feel like it's a silent marker of wealth.
- 5:40Speaker 2: I reckon, if you've got four kids, you must be rich,
- 5:43Speaker 2: like that's how it works in my head, I know
- 5:45Speaker 2: that's honestly how they did it. And my dad he
- 5:49Speaker 2: worked full time and odd jobs to send us four
- 5:53Speaker 2: kids to private schools, four kids through private I just
- 5:58Speaker 2: can I get your mum on the show like this
- 6:00Speaker 2: sounds good?
- 6:01Speaker 5: I have no idea.
- 6:02Speaker 2: I know that some of our school fees went on
- 6:05Speaker 2: a credit card and he worked. He hustled, like he
- 6:09Speaker 2: worked nights, He worked any job it could, just to
- 6:13Speaker 2: send us to school because education was.
- 6:16Speaker 5: Very, very important.
- 6:17Speaker 2: And I guess in their minds that was key to
- 6:20Speaker 2: get us out of struggle in future. And it has, like,
- 6:24Speaker 2: oh it has.
- 6:25Speaker 4: Sorry you told us before that you are now fully
- 6:28Speaker 4: self employed, you lead a team, own your home. What
- 6:30Speaker 4: do your parents think of that?
- 6:32Speaker 5: Well, they are very proud.
- 6:34Speaker 2: They wish I didn't spend a lot of my money
- 6:37Speaker 2: on holidays and moving to England for two years.
- 6:41Speaker 5: But you know, here we are.
- 6:43Speaker 2: I finally have my home it is a mortgage, and
- 6:46Speaker 2: run my own business. So they can't be that upset,
- 6:49Speaker 2: can they? No, No, they can't be that upset.
- 6:52Speaker 4: But I also think it's just so funny because obviously
- 6:55Speaker 4: they've come from a very different background to you and
- 6:57Speaker 4: they're like holidays, moving to London, what do you doing?
- 7:00Speaker 2: Just knuckle down, make money.
- 7:02Speaker 4: And it's just like this freedom that their decisions afforded
- 7:05Speaker 4: you is just something they can't comprehend.
- 7:07Speaker 2: Like exactly like for them, any extra money on top
- 7:12Speaker 2: of the.
- 7:13Speaker 5: School fees was With migrants, they help people.
- 7:17Speaker 2: Back home and send money back home, which is I guess,
- 7:21Speaker 2: like an unspoken rule. That's just what you do, right,
- 7:23Speaker 2: and you don't question it when you're younger, And as
- 7:26Speaker 2: soon as we all got jobs as kids, that was
- 7:29Speaker 2: almost like a well can you help too, And we
- 7:33Speaker 2: just never felt like a lot of our money was
- 7:35Speaker 2: really ours, right, it was to support everyone back home
- 7:39Speaker 2: because we were the privileged ones who are overseas and
- 7:43Speaker 2: have everything here to support us.
- 7:47Speaker 4: And that's quite common, like the amount of people that
- 7:49Speaker 4: I used to see for financial advice that would be
- 7:52Speaker 4: sending money back home, like, irrespective of what country, it
- 7:55Speaker 4: was always like an expectation and an added level of pressure,
- 8:00Speaker 4: and your parents probably did it because it was an
- 8:03Speaker 4: expectation and they never questioned it. But moving to Australia,
- 8:06Speaker 4: I feel having spoken to lots of migrants, lots of
- 8:09Speaker 4: people who have moved or lots of people who have
- 8:12Speaker 4: been born here but their parents weren't. You kind of
- 8:15Speaker 4: question it because you're like, well, that's not really the
- 8:17Speaker 4: Australian culture. I'm not really seeing that around me when
- 8:19Speaker 4: I go to school. I'm not really talking about that,
- 8:22Speaker 4: Like it's not part of the culture that you look at.
- 8:26Speaker 4: How does that make you feel? Do you go, oh, like, yes,
- 8:28Speaker 4: I want to help them, but also like I can't
- 8:31Speaker 4: do it at the cost of my success, Like what
- 8:33Speaker 4: does that look like?
- 8:34Speaker 5: Well, it's always like a conflict.
- 8:36Speaker 2: There's a part of you like that's we are so
- 8:40Speaker 2: privileged in so many ways. I'm like, hang on, Like
- 8:43Speaker 2: all of my friends they have access to you know, grandparents,
- 8:47Speaker 2: parents who are helping them with.
- 8:48Speaker 5: Weddings and houses. And I just knew that was never
- 8:51Speaker 5: ever going to be me.
- 8:53Speaker 2: And I worked hard to not have any resentment because
- 8:57Speaker 2: that's all my parents know and that is the norm
- 9:00Speaker 2: for their background, and we I guess I've set boundaries
- 9:05Speaker 2: and I was kind of shielded from it being the youngest.
- 9:09Speaker 2: Like my older sister she kind of got the brunt
- 9:13Speaker 2: of it, whereas I got shielded from it a little bit.
- 9:15Speaker 2: So I'm a bit removed where I have set boundaries
- 9:20Speaker 2: where I can help when I want to on my terms,
- 9:23Speaker 2: and if it's for a reason that I think is important.
- 9:26Speaker 5: Not just cause like no questions asked.
- 9:28Speaker 2: I am kind of yeah, that's what I do to
- 9:31Speaker 2: kind of make me feel better about it.
- 9:34Speaker 4: Yeah, And like it's interesting asking from my perspective, right
- 9:38Speaker 4: because I am as white as they come, and I
- 9:42Speaker 4: just never have had that experience. But I go, that
- 9:44Speaker 4: would be such a conflict. And I've seen my friends
- 9:47Speaker 4: go through it where they're like, I'm meant to be
- 9:49Speaker 4: like sending money back to the Philippines, but like they
- 9:52Speaker 4: don't even spend it on anything good, and they like,
- 9:54Speaker 4: you know, there's all of these things that go on
- 9:56Speaker 4: that you just like it must be genuinely such a
- 9:59Speaker 4: conflict of like, yes, but I also want to be
- 10:02Speaker 4: able to get a mortgage or I want it like
- 10:05Speaker 4: where does it stop?
- 10:06Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly.
- 10:07Speaker 2: And my sister and I I think, knowing that our
- 10:10Speaker 2: money could be sent overseas, we kind of became addicted
- 10:15Speaker 2: to like shopping a little bit in our twenties and
- 10:18Speaker 2: it was like, let's spend it before it gets sent off,
- 10:21Speaker 2: for example, before we get asked for it, and it
- 10:23Speaker 2: was just an unhealthy cycle that way, and it's let's
- 10:26Speaker 2: just spend it on us. It became like the opposite,
- 10:28Speaker 2: let's spend it on us before anything else.
- 10:31Speaker 4: Mum and dad come and ask if we've got any cash,
- 10:34Speaker 4: and then we can go, oh, no, sorry, I already
- 10:35Speaker 4: spend it.
- 10:36Speaker 5: And then you don't feel bad or guilty.
- 10:38Speaker 4: No, but then it's not working for you or creating
- 10:40Speaker 4: wealth or helping you save or get ahead. And like
- 10:43Speaker 4: it kind of makes sense because that's like teenager logic.
- 10:45Speaker 2: I fear. You're like, well, it's in my shoes. Mum.
- 10:51Speaker 2: We used to hide it, you know, you would hide shopping.
- 10:53Speaker 2: And then my sister and I moved out together. It's like, oh,
- 10:56Speaker 2: we don't need to hide it. But when we moved
- 10:58Speaker 2: the house, there's just a whole room all of these
- 11:00Speaker 2: clothes and shoes. I was like, this is a bit
- 11:02Speaker 2: of a problem since there's a whole spare room full
- 11:06Speaker 2: of stuff we don't wear anymore, which was a bit
- 11:08Speaker 2: of an eye opener.
- 11:09Speaker 4: Yeah, that's really confronting. I moved house recently and going
- 11:13Speaker 4: through my wardrobe, I'm like, Victoria Devir, and you do
- 11:15Speaker 4: not need these things.
- 11:16Speaker 2: Anymore. Also, what were you thinking? Yeah, I know, I know,
- 11:19Speaker 2: but now like the nineties, fashions come back.
- 11:21Speaker 4: Okay, maybe yeah, maybe we do want that. So take
- 11:25Speaker 4: me through to adulthood. You moved to London, which is
- 11:28Speaker 4: so exciting.
- 11:29Speaker 2: Why why London? Well, I caught the travel bug as
- 11:32Speaker 2: soon as a Finishinie. I spent all my money essentially
- 11:37Speaker 2: on traveling. I loved it, and I was that girl
- 11:43Speaker 2: that would take leave without page just so I can
- 11:45Speaker 2: travel for six weeks in Europe doing a top deck
- 11:48Speaker 2: or a Kententi guitur. Your parents would have loved that.
- 11:51Speaker 5: They did so.
- 11:54Speaker 2: One of my big goals was that I wanted to
- 11:57Speaker 2: do things on my own, like I was a bit
- 11:59Speaker 2: sheltered from the world, live with my parents for a
- 12:01Speaker 2: while and then always had my oldest sister to pull
- 12:04Speaker 2: back on and to prove.
- 12:06Speaker 5: To myself that I could do it. I did it.
- 12:09Speaker 2: I moved to London, took my gap year. I think
- 12:12Speaker 2: I was twenty seven. I worked in my profession, which
- 12:15Speaker 2: is lucky because I wasn't working minimum wage, so I
- 12:18Speaker 2: got that bit of extra money to do a lot
- 12:20Speaker 2: of traveling, but with timing. When I moved over the
- 12:26Speaker 2: rules change where we had to still pay off our
- 12:28Speaker 2: HEX debt and we had to submit tax returns. I
- 12:31Speaker 2: was like, oh, I missed down a couple of years
- 12:32Speaker 2: with that, so I had to do that. And the
- 12:35Speaker 2: two years I was there, I think I paid ten
- 12:37Speaker 2: thousand dollars off of my hex debt in those two years.
- 12:42Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. That's good. Though it was like five
- 12:43Speaker 2: grand a year or something because I was earning enough.
- 12:47Speaker 5: To be over the threshold.
- 12:49Speaker 2: So that was pretty much most of my savings gone
- 12:52Speaker 2: that I had built up to come.
- 12:55Speaker 4: Back to, which is kind of hard because like you
- 12:57Speaker 4: just go, oh, I've got all these savings and now
- 13:00Speaker 4: they feel like they're gone. And yes, it's on quote
- 13:02Speaker 4: good things, but also like that's not what I wanted,
- 13:05Speaker 4: I know.
- 13:06Speaker 2: And the exchange rate is pretty sad from Australia dollar
- 13:11Speaker 2: to pounds, like.
- 13:11Speaker 5: Oh it's now halved. There goes that.
- 13:14Speaker 4: When I was in the UK, I would gaslight myself
- 13:17Speaker 4: and be like, oh, it's three pounds.
- 13:18Speaker 2: That's like not even bad. That's three three, it's three dollars, yeah,
- 13:22Speaker 2: ahead is yeah, this is oh it's two dollars, it's
- 13:24Speaker 2: five dollars.
- 13:25Speaker 5: But it's not the.
- 13:26Speaker 4: Case, it's actually six dollars by yeah.
- 13:29Speaker 1: Oh no.
- 13:30Speaker 2: I absolutely hated that as well, because I was like,
- 13:32Speaker 2: oh my gosh, this exchange rate really cripples us, and
- 13:34Speaker 2: that's I think. Oh, it was really sad, like I
- 13:36Speaker 2: think I end up going over with twenty grand I
- 13:39Speaker 2: was like, oh, that's only ten thousand pounds and yarck. Yeah.
- 13:43Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like in my head, this was so
- 13:45Speaker 5: much more.
- 13:46Speaker 2: Absolutely, So tell me, now, what do you do for
- 13:49Speaker 2: work and how much money do you earn?
- 13:51Speaker 5: So I am an occupational therapist.
- 13:54Speaker 2: Earlier this year I became full time self employed. That's
- 13:58Speaker 2: so cool.
- 13:59Speaker 5: Yeah, it took a while.
- 14:00Speaker 2: It was a big jump, but I started two and
- 14:02Speaker 2: a half years ago. I still maintained my government role.
- 14:07Speaker 5: Two days a week because it just seemed too scary.
- 14:10Speaker 2: No, it's not too scary. That's being financially smart. I
- 14:14Speaker 2: was also trying to get a mortgage at the same
- 14:16Speaker 2: time when I started as soule trader, and the accountants
- 14:19Speaker 2: and mortgage breakers like, maybe don't disclose you want to
- 14:22Speaker 2: be a sole trader until.
- 14:24Speaker 5: Everything signed off because they could revoke it.
- 14:26Speaker 2: I was like, what, yeah, they can, they can, Oh
- 14:28Speaker 2: my gosh, yeah, I learned that, and it was like
- 14:31Speaker 2: within like two weeks, I was freaking out. I was like,
- 14:34Speaker 2: oh my god, because I already made the jump.
- 14:36Speaker 4: Yeah, a couple of months ago, we had an issue
- 14:39Speaker 4: with a client, which is like fine, like we work
- 14:42Speaker 4: through everything. But I don't think she understood that by
- 14:45Speaker 4: quitting her job, the pre approval changes, because the pre
- 14:49Speaker 4: approval is based on your current circumstances not changing. And
- 14:54Speaker 4: even though she was moving jobs and she was getting
- 14:56Speaker 4: a good income, she was moving industries. So like like you, yes,
- 15:01Speaker 4: you were an occupational therapist, but you're moving to being
- 15:03Speaker 4: a self employed one that actually involves a fair bit
- 15:05Speaker 4: of risk, like it might not work out. And this
- 15:07Speaker 4: girl was going from like one industry to another, and
- 15:09Speaker 4: yet she was very smart and had a very good
- 15:12Speaker 4: job and the income was fine. But they're like, well,
- 15:14Speaker 4: what if she's not good at this new industry, she's
- 15:16Speaker 4: only good at the other one.
- 15:18Speaker 2: There's so much risk involved.
- 15:19Speaker 4: So if anyone's listening and they're like I'm going to
- 15:22Speaker 4: do the same thing and I've got my pre approval.
- 15:24Speaker 4: If you're going to change jobs, please do not do
- 15:26Speaker 4: it during that period of time, and also talk to
- 15:30Speaker 4: your broker about it and we can work a.
- 15:32Speaker 2: Way around it.
- 15:33Speaker 4: But don't drop on me that you've just changed jobs
- 15:35Speaker 4: and you're so excited, because I promise my mind goes elsewhere.
- 15:38Speaker 4: I don't go, Oh my god, I'm so excited for you.
- 15:39Speaker 2: Money rives to go. What are we going to do
- 15:41Speaker 2: about that mortgage? Yes, yes, so I learnt that in time.
- 15:47Speaker 2: Whoops oops see, but it worked out in the end,
- 15:51Speaker 2: it did. Going back to your question, I pay myself
- 15:54Speaker 2: about one hundred and ten thousand a year and everything
- 15:58Speaker 2: else goes into their business and all that. Sorry sorry, sorry, backtrack.
- 16:02Speaker 4: One hundred and ten k a year and you've only
- 16:04Speaker 4: just gone out on your own, queen, how.
- 16:07Speaker 5: I don't know, hustling, I suppose.
- 16:11Speaker 2: I've also have a few contractors working for me and
- 16:15Speaker 2: that's helped top up I guess the business.
- 16:17Speaker 4: Yeah, so obviously scary going out on your own, but
- 16:20Speaker 4: like that's an epic income for someone who's literally been
- 16:22Speaker 4: out on their own.
- 16:23Speaker 2: What now a year I was full time?
- 16:25Speaker 5: Only start like February.
- 16:27Speaker 2: This year, not even a year. It's about to hit
- 16:29Speaker 2: a year. You're about to have your anniversary. Oh my goodness,
- 16:33Speaker 2: and you've already got contractors working for you, Queen. I
- 16:35Speaker 2: am so impressed because I started earlier part time, I
- 16:40Speaker 2: was able to build it up and grow my business
- 16:44Speaker 2: slowly with a little bit of risk, and yeah, made
- 16:47Speaker 2: the jomb this year.
- 16:48Speaker 5: It only felt right.
- 16:49Speaker 2: Well, I love that, and I think it's also a
- 16:51Speaker 2: really relatable story because so many people go one day,
- 16:54Speaker 2: I want to have my own business. But for me,
- 16:56Speaker 2: the reality of having your own business is there is
- 16:59Speaker 2: a lot of risk and there are a lot of
- 17:01Speaker 2: responsibilities that you have in the interim, whether that is
- 17:04Speaker 2: just rent and some bills or you have kids, Like
- 17:07Speaker 2: to start your own business, you actually have to invest
- 17:09Speaker 2: so much time and energy outside you'rre nine to five.
- 17:13Speaker 2: And that's what I like.
- 17:14Speaker 4: I didn't have the privilege of someone being like, here's
- 17:17Speaker 4: all of the money to start, Like I don't have
- 17:18Speaker 4: wealthy parents who were like, oh, well, we can bankroll that.
- 17:22Speaker 4: Do you know how much easier life would have been
- 17:23Speaker 4: if that was the case.
- 17:25Speaker 5: Ah, don't worry, you are I feel exact same.
- 17:28Speaker 4: Way exactly, But like, we built our businesses through the
- 17:32Speaker 4: work ethic that we have, and I genuinely believe that
- 17:35Speaker 4: when people start businesses like that and they have to
- 17:38Speaker 4: do the above beyond. You have to do the late
- 17:40Speaker 4: nights because you finished work at five point thirty, you
- 17:42Speaker 4: didn't get home till six. You still need to do dinner,
- 17:44Speaker 4: you still need to work out what's going on there.
- 17:45Speaker 4: And then you're back on your laptop by nine pm
- 17:48Speaker 4: and you're working till one am, and you have to
- 17:50Speaker 4: go to bed again to get up and do the
- 17:52Speaker 4: grind again. Like, that's why your business is going to
- 17:54Speaker 4: be successful long term, because you are willing to put
- 17:57Speaker 4: the time and the energy and the effort into it.
- 17:59Speaker 4: And now I'm just stabbing the dark here, but now
- 18:02Speaker 4: I'm assuming you're like, it's actually much easier than it
- 18:05Speaker 4: was when I was hustling and working full time because
- 18:08Speaker 4: I just have all of my time on my business.
- 18:10Speaker 5: Now, that's right, that's right.
- 18:12Speaker 2: And I was always thinking about the business when I
- 18:15Speaker 2: was in my other job. Was like, okay, this isn't
- 18:17Speaker 2: right either when I'm always thinking about the business. And
- 18:20Speaker 2: it took me about, yeah, almost two years to actually
- 18:25Speaker 2: rip off the band aids, Like I went down to
- 18:27Speaker 2: like one day a week, and then it's like, Okay,
- 18:30Speaker 2: what's the point of working one day a week because
- 18:32Speaker 2: we're anxious girlies. So yeah, I'm very lucky that my
- 18:37Speaker 2: now husband is very supportive and he's the stable one
- 18:42Speaker 2: and is happy being the stable one while I pursue
- 18:46Speaker 2: whatever I wanted.
- 18:47Speaker 5: Really, so that kind of gave me the security to
- 18:49Speaker 5: do that.
- 18:50Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that is so beautiful. I love that. So
- 18:53Speaker 2: talk to me.
- 18:54Speaker 4: You've achieved some pretty big money goals already. You bought
- 18:57Speaker 4: your home, you have started a business. What are your
- 19:00Speaker 4: biggest financial goals at the moment that you're currently working towards?
- 19:04Speaker 5: Well, because I can't help myself.
- 19:06Speaker 2: I actually had a side hustle wedding business on top
- 19:09Speaker 2: of my full time job before I started my health job.
- 19:13Speaker 5: I just can't help myself.
- 19:14Speaker 2: I actually want to start and inclusive fashion line next year.
- 19:17Speaker 2: Oh my god. That's so exciting but also so aligned
- 19:20Speaker 2: to what you do.
- 19:21Speaker 5: Yes, that's right. I like fashion.
- 19:23Speaker 2: With all the shopping that my season I did, you
- 19:26Speaker 2: think we'd know everything. But that is the big financial
- 19:31Speaker 2: goal for next year, and getting my super to where
- 19:34Speaker 2: I wanted to be. I didn't pay myself any super
- 19:38Speaker 2: when I lived overseas, and when I started the business,
- 19:40Speaker 2: it was also very minimal. I guess that was advice
- 19:44Speaker 2: from the accountant and financial advisor. That's saying who told
- 19:47Speaker 2: me that I didn't have to put too much into
- 19:50Speaker 2: my SUPER while I was building the business, And so
- 19:54Speaker 2: I did take that advice, but that's kind of put
- 19:57Speaker 2: me behind a little bit with where I want to
- 19:59Speaker 2: be with my.
- 20:00Speaker 4: But also I feel like there needs to be ebbs
- 20:02Speaker 4: and flows to achieve your goals as well. So yes,
- 20:06Speaker 4: you're like, oh, I'm behind with my SUPER, but like
- 20:09Speaker 4: there's a lot of reason why. It's not like, oh,
- 20:11Speaker 4: I've just let it lapse. I never thought about it
- 20:13Speaker 4: and it's not been a priority. Like my SUPER suffered
- 20:16Speaker 4: for years. And I've tried to talk about this before,
- 20:19Speaker 4: because you know, there's like the goal, and like when
- 20:22Speaker 4: you're building a business or when you're doing anything, there's
- 20:25Speaker 4: the like perfect outcome. And the perfect outcome would have
- 20:28Speaker 4: been that I started my own business and it was
- 20:30Speaker 4: so financially successful that I could pay myself super and
- 20:33Speaker 4: I could do all of these other things. But the
- 20:35Speaker 4: reality was I couldn't pay myself super and also take
- 20:38Speaker 4: on a new staff member and scale and.
- 20:41Speaker 2: Work all of that out, so it did suffer. And yes,
- 20:44Speaker 2: there is like the best like as you know you've
- 20:47Speaker 2: listened to the show.
- 20:48Speaker 4: You know, I'm like, pay yourself superannuation, but also there's
- 20:51Speaker 4: do as I say, not as I do, but also
- 20:54Speaker 4: give yourself a little bit of credit and go, well,
- 20:56Speaker 4: it's okay to have been a little bit behind because
- 20:58Speaker 4: I'm prioritizing it now. And is that something that you're
- 21:01Speaker 4: excited about. Are you like that's just a hygiene factor,
- 21:04Speaker 4: just get that stuff sorted or is it like a
- 21:06Speaker 4: I'm excited to get on top of it, because I
- 21:08Speaker 4: don't think anyone really is.
- 21:10Speaker 5: I am excited to get on top of it.
- 21:12Speaker 2: But then the part of me is like, I also
- 21:15Speaker 2: want to invest in my business, so this can also
- 21:19Speaker 2: help me in retirement and be a little bit of
- 21:22Speaker 2: a nest egg maybe down the track if I grow this,
- 21:25Speaker 2: so I'm not just reliant on super. So that's kind
- 21:28Speaker 2: of where my mind is at as well. And we're
- 21:33Speaker 2: also starting our investment journey as well, and that's I
- 21:36Speaker 2: guess will help. Yeah.
- 21:38Speaker 4: So one thing I will say about that is it
- 21:40Speaker 4: can feel like that because that's the struggle that I
- 21:43Speaker 4: was in. I was like, do I like because I
- 21:45Speaker 4: was behind it, like tens of thousands of dollars of superannuation.
- 21:49Speaker 4: And I was like, do I pull money out of
- 21:50Speaker 4: my business and top it up like as a lump sum?
- 21:52Speaker 4: Do I increase my contributions over a long time?
- 21:55Speaker 2: Do I? You know what? Do I do? Like what's
- 21:57Speaker 2: best for me? And then overlaying that.
- 22:00Speaker 4: And I'm like, but that money could go towards something
- 22:02Speaker 4: else in business. But you don't work as hard as
- 22:06Speaker 4: you do to own your business to then retire with
- 22:08Speaker 4: less superranuation than someone who never took that risk. So
- 22:12Speaker 4: you need to pay your supranuation. So even though you're
- 22:15Speaker 4: planning on investing and investing in the business and like
- 22:17Speaker 4: starting your external investment journey, I think is so important
- 22:21Speaker 4: to make sure that you're not in a worse off
- 22:23Speaker 4: position than someone who didn't take the risk when it
- 22:25Speaker 4: comes to super like you deserve to be thriving.
- 22:28Speaker 2: There as well. And it's so sad how many business
- 22:31Speaker 2: owners go doesn't matter because I've invested everything in my business.
- 22:35Speaker 2: And then please don't get me wrong, I'm not trying
- 22:37Speaker 2: to be cynical, but they come to retirement that I
- 22:39Speaker 2: can sell my business and we can't find anyone who
- 22:42Speaker 2: wants to buy your business or your business is so
- 22:44Speaker 2: tied to you personally that you're the value in the business,
- 22:47Speaker 2: or maybe over the last few years before you're retired,
- 22:50Speaker 2: you'd wound down the business and it's not worth what
- 22:52Speaker 2: you thought it was. Like, God, friend, I've just got
- 22:54Speaker 2: so much to say, pay your damn super Okay, yeah, yeah,
- 22:57Speaker 2: I have increased my contributions this year as well, so
- 23:01Speaker 2: it's definitely in the back of my mind each time
- 23:04Speaker 2: I pay myself that I do put in something towards
- 23:07Speaker 2: my super and it's finally back on track hopefully. So
- 23:11Speaker 2: do you have a good bookkeeper or accountant that you
- 23:13Speaker 2: work with for this? Yes, I pay a bookkeeper, an accountant,
- 23:17Speaker 2: and a financial advisor thanks to your podcast. Oh my god,
- 23:20Speaker 2: it's like I bullied you into it. I love this.
- 23:24Speaker 5: And now I bully other people into so good.
- 23:26Speaker 4: That's why I call this a cult. It's like a
- 23:28Speaker 4: multi level marketing scheme. But we actually all get rich,
- 23:33Speaker 4: like we actually do.
- 23:34Speaker 5: I pass on your book too, from one friend to another.
- 23:36Speaker 2: That's so cute. I love it. All. Right, let's go
- 23:39Speaker 2: to a really quick break.
- 23:40Speaker 4: Because I have a lot more questions and we'll get
- 23:42Speaker 4: to the MI in a hot minute.
- 23:48Speaker 2: Money Diarist. We are back, and I'm just so excited.
- 23:50Speaker 4: I went to a break, but I didn't want to
- 23:52Speaker 4: go to a break, so I wanted to ask you
- 23:54Speaker 4: about your investing journey because you dropped when we're talking
- 23:56Speaker 4: about superannuation.
- 23:57Speaker 2: Oh my husband and I have just started investing.
- 23:59Speaker 4: I'm like, worry, what where when? And I had to
- 24:02Speaker 4: hold the brakes. Now I don't have to talk to me.
- 24:05Speaker 4: What's your investment strategy? What's going on apart from investing
- 24:08Speaker 4: in your business?
- 24:10Speaker 2: What are you guys doing well? We had the Financial
- 24:14Speaker 2: Advisor set us up with CFS investment shares, so I
- 24:18Speaker 2: think they're ETFs, and we invest three hundred dollars a
- 24:21Speaker 2: month towards it, and we'll be increasing that to four
- 24:25Speaker 2: hundred dollars a month now that we don't have a
- 24:28Speaker 2: wedding to pay for. I also invest twenty five dollars
- 24:32Speaker 2: a week in my raise and I've been doing that
- 24:34Speaker 2: for a couple of years now.
- 24:35Speaker 5: That's just kind of a recurring thing that I do.
- 24:39Speaker 4: I love that, So tell me when you decided, all right,
- 24:42Speaker 4: we don't have a wedding to pay for anymore, because
- 24:44Speaker 4: I want to ask about that as well. In a
- 24:45Speaker 4: hot minute, but we don't have a wedding to pay
- 24:47Speaker 4: for anymore. We want to redirect these funds into investing.
- 24:51Speaker 4: How did you start making decisions around that? How did
- 24:53Speaker 4: you choose your platform? How did you know decide what
- 24:56Speaker 4: assets to purchase on that platform? What did that look like?
- 24:59Speaker 2: Well, oh, the financial.
- 25:02Speaker 5: Advisor just did it and set it up.
- 25:05Speaker 2: We just said cool, yes, all right, just take it
- 25:09Speaker 2: out monthly, set and forget. And yeah, I wish I
- 25:13Speaker 2: had time energy to spend on it, but I know
- 25:19Speaker 2: I can't do it all as much as I want to.
- 25:21Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, But I love that because we
- 25:24Speaker 4: don't often get people on the show who are like, oh,
- 25:26Speaker 4: I've got you know, four hundred dollars a month, and
- 25:29Speaker 4: I am getting a management company or a financial advisor
- 25:31Speaker 4: to run it, which is perfect. So I want to
- 25:33Speaker 4: be pervy about that. How much does your financial advisor cost?
- 25:36Speaker 4: So is it between you and your husband, like it's
- 25:38Speaker 4: a joint financial advisor, and talk me through that.
- 25:41Speaker 5: That's right.
- 25:42Speaker 2: Part of it is paid through my super and then
- 25:46Speaker 2: the other part it's we pay for it, and it's
- 25:51Speaker 2: ninety dollars a month and the rest is paid through
- 25:54Speaker 2: the super and then when they set up your investment portfolio,
- 25:57Speaker 2: how involved were you Were you like, look, we just
- 26:00Speaker 2: want something set and forget, and I just want to
- 26:02Speaker 2: contribute my contributions. Or were you, you know, pouring over
- 26:05Speaker 2: pieces of paper for months before making the decision. What
- 26:08Speaker 2: did that look like? No, I guess I just didn't
- 26:12Speaker 2: have the brain space for that, and I saw them
- 26:14Speaker 2: as like an expert based on.
- 26:16Speaker 5: Our risk profile.
- 26:17Speaker 2: It's okay, we don't want to be too risky, but
- 26:20Speaker 2: we do have a lot of years to work and
- 26:23Speaker 2: build our wealth, so we just kind of left it.
- 26:26Speaker 4: Tim, And do you, off the top of your head,
- 26:29Speaker 4: know what your portfolio looks like. Have you got ETFs?
- 26:31Speaker 4: Have you got direct shares?
- 26:33Speaker 2: I think it's very diversified as part ETFs and there's
- 26:38Speaker 2: bonds something like that. I love that you've just been like,
- 26:41Speaker 2: we've left it to them. I don't know what's in it.
- 26:43Speaker 2: We do four hundred bucks a month money win, Yeah.
- 26:47Speaker 5: That's it.
- 26:47Speaker 2: It's been on my to do list to actually take
- 26:49Speaker 2: a deep dive into it, but I just don't have
- 26:51Speaker 2: capacity to do it.
- 26:52Speaker 4: Girlfriend, It's fine, and that's what you like. That's the
- 26:55Speaker 4: privilege of getting a professional involved right, Like, you still
- 26:57Speaker 4: get to do it. You don't have to be so
- 26:59Speaker 4: hands on. It can actually be really easy. But it's
- 27:03Speaker 4: just making decisions in line with your values. Now, can
- 27:07Speaker 4: I backpedal? You guys mentioned that you got married recently,
- 27:10Speaker 4: and I love talking about weddings, Like my wedding was
- 27:13Speaker 4: the best day of my flip in life and if
- 27:15Speaker 4: I could do it again, I would. People are often like,
- 27:17Speaker 4: do you regret spending money? Like what was your biggest regret?
- 27:20Speaker 4: And like, no, no, I regret that I didn't spend
- 27:22Speaker 4: more like this was my favorite day of my entire life,
- 27:25Speaker 4: apart from where my son was born, and like that
- 27:28Speaker 4: was still a different best day of my life, right,
- 27:31Speaker 4: Like having all the people that you love in one location,
- 27:34Speaker 4: like it never happens, so for me, it's true so special.
- 27:39Speaker 4: Talk to me about wedding budgeting. Talk to me about
- 27:41Speaker 4: this destination wedding. How much does it cost? How do
- 27:43Speaker 4: we budget for a wedding?
- 27:45Speaker 2: Well, my husband and we know that we were going
- 27:49Speaker 2: to fund pretty much our whole wedding. We just didn't
- 27:52Speaker 2: have parents to drop that much money. We did get help,
- 27:56Speaker 2: but it was all going to be on us.
- 27:59Speaker 4: Yeah, but it wasn't an ex when you're planning your wedding,
- 28:01Speaker 4: you're like, oh, well, I know mum and dad will
- 28:03Speaker 4: probably contribute X.
- 28:04Speaker 5: It was like, yeah, we just never had that thought. Ever.
- 28:06Speaker 4: It was like a benefit when you told them we're
- 28:09Speaker 4: getting married and they said we'll cover X or Y.
- 28:11Speaker 2: Is that what happened? Not really, it was like we
- 28:15Speaker 2: never had that expectations. Give us a present if and yes,
- 28:20Speaker 2: we were lucky that we got some money beforehand, which
- 28:24Speaker 2: was like maybe ten thousand dollars between our parents to
- 28:28Speaker 2: go towards it, and the rest was us.
- 28:31Speaker 5: We started saving.
- 28:34Speaker 2: I think it was an eighteen month engagement, and we
- 28:37Speaker 2: started saving. I actually have your spreadsheet and that's how
- 28:42Speaker 2: I track my spending. And you're welcome, by the way,
- 28:44Speaker 2: because that was my actual wedding spreadsheet. Yeah, of course
- 28:49Speaker 2: it was. Why do you think there are so many
- 28:50Speaker 2: rogue like random things on there that you'd be like, oh,
- 28:52Speaker 2: I didn't think of that. That's because I had that.
- 28:56Speaker 5: Yeah, So I just kind of, you know, use that
- 28:59Speaker 5: to help budget.
- 29:00Speaker 2: And we just started putting money away fortnightly. I had
- 29:05Speaker 2: a goal in mind. My husband gave me a limit
- 29:08Speaker 2: on how much I was allowed to spend on the wedding,
- 29:11Speaker 2: and we just worked backwards, like how much money do
- 29:14Speaker 2: we have to put in fortnightly for this?
- 29:15Speaker 5: And that's how we did it.
- 29:16Speaker 4: For those of you playing along at home, my wedding spreadsheet,
- 29:19Speaker 4: like my wedding budget spreadsheet is available for you to
- 29:22Speaker 4: download for free on our website. So that's what she's
- 29:25Speaker 4: talking about. What was your budget? So what was the
- 29:29Speaker 4: limit for the wedding because destination sounds speno, Well.
- 29:33Speaker 2: We chose where my family's from, the Philippines, so it's
- 29:37Speaker 2: not as expensive as Europe set like Centerini. It was
- 29:40Speaker 2: going to be Europe or the Philippines, and the Philippines
- 29:43Speaker 2: it's going to be cheaper. We had a maybe forty
- 29:49Speaker 2: forty five thousand dollars budget and I actually did all
- 29:52Speaker 2: the expenses, including the flights, a little bit of holiday
- 29:56Speaker 2: which we spledged on a little bit to stay some
- 30:00Speaker 2: with Bougie afterwards, and the whole wedding day.
- 30:03Speaker 5: It was like fifty two thousand.
- 30:05Speaker 2: Oh okay, cool, so not too far over budget, but
- 30:07Speaker 2: like not saying it's good to go over budget, but
- 30:09Speaker 2: I feel like with weddings everything just ends up blowing out,
- 30:13Speaker 2: like you go, wait what exactly? And I got like
- 30:16Speaker 2: my dream dress and my shoes, Like I didn't those
- 30:20Speaker 2: weren't budget shoes. We already learned at the start of
- 30:22Speaker 2: this episode. She went Jimmy Choo. Sorry, at least twelve
- 30:24Speaker 2: hundred dollars for shoes. Great, so those It was actually
- 30:28Speaker 2: the first thing I bought.
- 30:29Speaker 4: Sorry, I bought my shoes before my engagement dress as well,
- 30:32Speaker 4: Like I'm such a shoes girlie. And I also bought
- 30:35Speaker 4: my shoes before I knew what my dress looked like.
- 30:38Speaker 4: For my wedding dress, I just knew what I wanted,
- 30:41Speaker 4: and in my head, I'm like, this is actually really
- 30:43Speaker 4: smart because I can take these shoes to the wedding
- 30:45Speaker 4: dress fittings and have the right length from the start.
- 30:48Speaker 2: And I'm a genius.
- 30:49Speaker 5: That's right, that's right.
- 30:50Speaker 2: And I knew I was like my split it has
- 30:54Speaker 2: to be with a front bow is yep? So I
- 30:56Speaker 2: got a custom made just so the split could highlighter.
- 30:59Speaker 2: You have to send me wedding photos.
- 31:01Speaker 5: You have to.
- 31:01Speaker 2: They're the rules. I just made them.
- 31:03Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll send them to you definitely.
- 31:05Speaker 4: Oh please do Oh I adore that. So fifty two
- 31:09Speaker 4: thousand dollars in budgeting, like as in total budget, what
- 31:13Speaker 4: expense surprised you the most, Like what expensould be?
- 31:16Speaker 2: Like, oh damn, I didn't realize that would come back
- 31:18Speaker 2: as so expensive. Well, I've had experience and weddings before,
- 31:22Speaker 2: so nothing really surprised me. I think for us, we
- 31:27Speaker 2: wanted a mini holiday and we booked the holiday like
- 31:33Speaker 2: a year before the wedding, and that was very expensive
- 31:36Speaker 2: the accommodation, and then fast forward like a month before
- 31:41Speaker 2: the wedding, like, oh, I didn't budget to be paying
- 31:44Speaker 2: five thousand dollars for three nights at hotel or whatever
- 31:47Speaker 2: it was.
- 31:48Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like, oh, okay, that wasn't in my
- 31:50Speaker 5: initial budget, but we'll make it work.
- 31:53Speaker 2: Yeah, and what do you think came out the cheapest
- 31:56Speaker 2: and you were like, oh, that's surprisingly a good deal.
- 31:58Speaker 2: I guess it's really hard with destination weddings because I
- 32:03Speaker 2: don't really know how much things cost and we didn't
- 32:06Speaker 2: go super budget. But yeah, I just kind of paid
- 32:11Speaker 2: whatever we did save on my husband's custom suit. I
- 32:15Speaker 2: think that ended up being cheaper to get a maid
- 32:18Speaker 2: than going to like MJ bail or something, So that
- 32:20Speaker 2: was surprising.
- 32:21Speaker 4: Yeah, we did the same for my husband's suits, and like,
- 32:24Speaker 4: we went to a relatively expensive tailor here in Melbourne,
- 32:27Speaker 4: which for those of even following along is p Johnson,
- 32:30Speaker 4: and I'm obsessed with them, and they are seen as
- 32:32Speaker 4: being like like, if you go on their website, their
- 32:34Speaker 4: clothes are expensive like their lux if that makes sense.
- 32:37Speaker 2: But I remember being like.
- 32:38Speaker 4: Oh, this is going to cost a bomb, like this
- 32:40Speaker 4: is going to be crazy because we did my hut
- 32:43Speaker 4: and this is just like a side conversation because I
- 32:45Speaker 4: love wedding chat. Apologies, but like we did my husband's
- 32:48Speaker 4: suit and then we paid for the groomsmen's suits as well,
- 32:51Speaker 4: and they were so good about it.
- 32:53Speaker 2: They're like, oh, we.
- 32:54Speaker 4: Can save heaps of money here and here if we
- 32:56Speaker 4: have the suits made like this instead of like this,
- 32:59Speaker 4: And it ended up coming out of the wash being
- 33:01Speaker 4: like much more affordable than we thought it was going
- 33:04Speaker 4: to be. So it definitely pays to inquire, even if
- 33:07Speaker 4: you think like customs the more boogie option. You're right,
- 33:09Speaker 4: MJ bail very expensive suits or very I think that
- 33:12Speaker 4: they're quite like would you say, like mid range like good,
- 33:15Speaker 4: but then yeah, yeah, then they're not like top top no,
- 33:18Speaker 4: but then their wedding stuff is definitely more expensive, but
- 33:21Speaker 4: then you've got to get them customized and changed and whatnot,
- 33:24Speaker 4: and that all act so.
- 33:25Speaker 5: The tailoring is on top.
- 33:27Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, so when you get a
- 33:30Speaker 2: custom made everything's kind of included.
- 33:32Speaker 5: So it ended up being.
- 33:35Speaker 2: Like cheaper, which was crazy. It just I just found
- 33:38Speaker 2: that crazy. Yeah, No, all right, we'll move off from
- 33:40Speaker 2: wedding chat. I want to know, do you have any debts?
- 33:43Speaker 2: Talk me through that. I know you've got a mortgage,
- 33:46Speaker 2: but is there anything else? No. So we were lucky
- 33:50Speaker 2: that when we refinance our house last year, we could
- 33:54Speaker 2: pay off my husband's remaining car Loan.
- 33:56Speaker 5: Oh cool.
- 33:57Speaker 2: Yeah, so we readrew twenty thousand. Ten tho was for
- 34:00Speaker 2: the car and ten thousand was just things around the
- 34:02Speaker 2: house and I think maybe some of it was for
- 34:05Speaker 2: the wedding.
- 34:05Speaker 5: Can't remember.
- 34:06Speaker 2: We'll sweep that under the rug. It should be right.
- 34:09Speaker 5: So we don't have any personal debts.
- 34:11Speaker 2: We do have a credit card though, that I tell
- 34:13Speaker 2: myself is for frequent fly points, which is our limits
- 34:18Speaker 2: like five thousand, seven.
- 34:19Speaker 5: Hundred or something.
- 34:19Speaker 2: And are you paying that off monthly fortnightly? Yeah, So
- 34:22Speaker 2: we're not like banking anything up. There's not like an
- 34:24Speaker 2: outstanding credit card debt sitting there. No, no, we use
- 34:27Speaker 2: it as an expenses everyday expenses. Instead of using our
- 34:30Speaker 2: savings account. We just put in the credit card and
- 34:32Speaker 2: then just transfer over. Yeah, totally. And now back to
- 34:36Speaker 2: the house. When did you purchase your home? So we
- 34:39Speaker 2: purchased twenty twenty three, mid twenty twenty three. And what
- 34:42Speaker 2: did you pay for your house? We got it for
- 34:46Speaker 2: six hundred and sixty nine thousand. And what do you
- 34:49Speaker 2: get for six hundred and sixty nine thousand? Did you
- 34:51Speaker 2: get a house? Did you get an apartment? We got
- 34:53Speaker 2: a two bedroom duplex on three eighty square meters love
- 34:59Speaker 2: and do you know what it worth today? Eight fifty
- 35:01Speaker 2: Oh okay, sorry, Yeah, covid our area just boomed like crazy.
- 35:09Speaker 5: So we're so lucky that so we're able to refinance.
- 35:11Speaker 4: And I was about to say, as someone who works
- 35:14Speaker 4: in mortgage breaking, my brain was like, cool, you probably
- 35:16Speaker 4: had some equity and you didn't mention that you were
- 35:18Speaker 4: like smashing down the mortgage or anything. I was like,
- 35:21Speaker 4: this property has definitely increased in value.
- 35:23Speaker 2: What value? That's so cool?
- 35:25Speaker 5: Yeah, it is very very cool.
- 35:27Speaker 2: It was we just didn't know it was gonna you know,
- 35:31Speaker 2: rise as much as it did, but if it allow
- 35:33Speaker 2: us to refinance, get a better interest rate and all
- 35:37Speaker 2: of that, and you know redraw which was a win. Yeah,
- 35:40Speaker 2: So talk to me now, how much debt have you
- 35:42Speaker 2: got left? So we with a redraw, we're at six
- 35:46Speaker 2: hundred and sixty Okay, how good's that?
- 35:48Speaker 4: So still like some equity sitting there, Like, it's not
- 35:51Speaker 4: like you used it all up money win.
- 35:53Speaker 2: I love that, And it's still less than what you
- 35:55Speaker 2: purchased it for. Technically, yes, that's right. We would have
- 35:59Speaker 2: loved to it down, but with a wedding this year,
- 36:02Speaker 2: that was just never gonna happen. No.
- 36:04Speaker 4: And so going back a little bit, you mentioned like
- 36:06Speaker 4: you're doing this four hundred dollars? Was it per month
- 36:09Speaker 4: into your investment? What made you choose investment there instead
- 36:14Speaker 4: of paying off your mortgage?
- 36:15Speaker 2: I guess for me, it's kind of the security, like,
- 36:20Speaker 2: let's diversify it all. I suppose I think that was
- 36:23Speaker 2: my thinking that this, I know shares have better returns
- 36:28Speaker 2: eventually in the long run, and why not, let's let's
- 36:32Speaker 2: do that.
- 36:33Speaker 5: So we did.
- 36:34Speaker 2: I love that.
- 36:34Speaker 4: That is very fun. So now onto the next part.
- 36:38Speaker 4: You clearly have worked your butts off. What do your
- 36:40Speaker 4: husband do? I really want to be pervy.
- 36:42Speaker 5: So he works in a project role.
- 36:46Speaker 2: It's an admin project role at a UNI, and he's
- 36:50Speaker 2: on ninety two thousand, oh ninety two K plus good super,
- 36:54Speaker 2: really good super. He's I think when we first started dating,
- 37:00Speaker 2: they had a mandatory not mandatory, like you can choose
- 37:05Speaker 2: to top it up, and it was like his super
- 37:07Speaker 2: is like twenty percent or something like that with the
- 37:10Speaker 2: extra top up.
- 37:10Speaker 5: It's crazy, so crazy.
- 37:12Speaker 2: I adore that. That is so fun.
- 37:14Speaker 4: Now you've obviously worked incredibly hard, you have your own business,
- 37:19Speaker 4: You are clearly setting up for life. You just paid
- 37:22Speaker 4: for your wedding. You've got a really great mortgage looking
- 37:25Speaker 4: very slick. What are you doing to protect it? Do
- 37:28Speaker 4: you have personal insurances?
- 37:29Speaker 2: We do the financial Advisor've set up the TPD life insurance,
- 37:34Speaker 2: restructured all of our soupers and everything like that, so
- 37:39Speaker 2: we pay for that in addition like every month for security.
- 37:44Speaker 2: So I know that whatever spending money we have, it's
- 37:48Speaker 2: not all of our money. Like you know, all of
- 37:50Speaker 2: our money is also being looked after, and our mortgage
- 37:53Speaker 2: and our everything else is looked after in the background,
- 37:56Speaker 2: which gives me the security knowing that I love that.
- 38:00Speaker 4: And when your finance I just really like talking about insurance.
- 38:03Speaker 4: But when your advisor put on the table, hey, here's
- 38:07Speaker 4: these insurances, like insurances aren't super cheap. Were you guys like, oh,
- 38:11Speaker 4: we don't really need those or were you like yeah, absolutely,
- 38:14Speaker 4: Like did you understand it, or like did you have
- 38:16Speaker 4: to wrap your head around what that looked like?
- 38:18Speaker 2: Well, I consumed a lot of your podcasts and I'm like, yep,
- 38:22Speaker 2: this is what we was supposed to.
- 38:24Speaker 5: So I had to convince him that this is the
- 38:26Speaker 5: way to go. It's like, why are we paying for this?
- 38:29Speaker 2: This is like ends up being like one hundred and
- 38:31Speaker 2: fifty or two hundred dollars a month extra or something
- 38:34Speaker 2: so much.
- 38:34Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, And he's like, where does this go? So
- 38:38Speaker 5: I had to convince him that it was for our future.
- 38:40Speaker 2: Yeah exactly.
- 38:41Speaker 4: And as I said, I was talking to my producer
- 38:43Speaker 4: before about this, I was like, I just want it
- 38:46Speaker 4: to be the biggest waste of money, Like I'd love
- 38:48Speaker 4: for you guys to like retire and be like we
- 38:49Speaker 4: wasted so much money on insurances that we never got
- 38:52Speaker 4: to use, and like good because it means you never.
- 38:55Speaker 2: Had any significant health events.
- 38:57Speaker 4: But then also if a significant health event happens, I
- 39:01Speaker 4: just love that you get to keep your house, like
- 39:03Speaker 4: you can still pay the mortgage, like you can support yourselves.
- 39:06Speaker 4: And I just don't think people think about what that
- 39:08Speaker 4: would actually look like because we live in Australia, Like,
- 39:12Speaker 4: what's the worst thing that could happen?
- 39:14Speaker 2: Right, Like, she'll be right well. Being in the industry
- 39:17Speaker 2: that I'm in, I've seen it all. I've seen accidents
- 39:20Speaker 2: and permanent disabilities happen, and then the ensure it gives
- 39:24Speaker 2: them a hard time because they could work another role.
- 39:29Speaker 2: But my financial advisor that was telling me that if
- 39:32Speaker 2: we move insurances, you'll get paid out if you can't
- 39:35Speaker 2: work in your profession that you work so hard for.
- 39:38Speaker 2: They won't force you to do just a random job
- 39:41Speaker 2: you don't want to do before they pay you out.
- 39:43Speaker 5: So that gave me security knowing that.
- 39:45Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's really hard because a lot of people
- 39:47Speaker 4: also rely on the insurances inside your superannuation, which can
- 39:51Speaker 4: be good and like I'm assuming that you probably still
- 39:54Speaker 4: hold some insurances inside super and then some outside. That's right, yeah,
- 39:57Speaker 4: because most advisors do that, but some of the income
- 40:01Speaker 4: protection policies inside your superannuation only last two years, so
- 40:05Speaker 4: like as you would see as an occupational therapist. Sorry,
- 40:09Speaker 4: most illnesses, especially if they're very significant, or most trauma incidents,
- 40:14Speaker 4: they last longer than two years. What do you do
- 40:15Speaker 4: after two years?
- 40:17Speaker 1: Like?
- 40:17Speaker 2: How are we paying for everything? Exactly? And for me,
- 40:22Speaker 2: I'm a planner. I've planned my whole life. I plan
- 40:24Speaker 2: next ten years, twenty years or whatever, and that is
- 40:28Speaker 2: gives me security knowing.
- 40:30Speaker 5: That that we're not at risk.
- 40:32Speaker 2: I would hate for us to lose our house or
- 40:36Speaker 2: anything like that.
- 40:37Speaker 4: You didn't work this hard for it to be all
- 40:39Speaker 4: wiped out, like you just didn't. Now you just dropped
- 40:43Speaker 4: that you've planned the next ten twenty years. What does
- 40:45Speaker 4: the next ten years look like for you guys?
- 40:47Speaker 2: Come on, well, next year, we're also planning for to
- 40:52Speaker 2: start a family.
- 40:53Speaker 5: Yay, thank you.
- 40:56Speaker 2: It's a bit of a scary thought and a lot
- 40:58Speaker 2: of planning because I have to pay for my own
- 41:00Speaker 2: matt leave. Right, It's like, oh, wow, here we go.
- 41:03Speaker 2: No one's going to pay me my'm matt leave. I
- 41:04Speaker 2: have to do it myself.
- 41:05Speaker 4: No, No, I'm in that position too. It's crazy, isn't it.
- 41:08Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, people are like, oh, you'll have maternity leave,
- 41:10Speaker 4: and I'm like will.
- 41:11Speaker 5: I Yeah, yeah, I know. I was like, hang on,
- 41:13Speaker 5: wait a minute. If I don't work, then where where
- 41:16Speaker 5: does the money come from?
- 41:16Speaker 2: And who does my team report to do? I have
- 41:18Speaker 2: to hire someone else to run my team?
- 41:21Speaker 5: That's right, So that's what I'm planning.
- 41:22Speaker 4: Yeah, but like you have to make a very big plan.
- 41:25Speaker 4: It's not like just telling someone I think I'm going
- 41:27Speaker 4: to have a baby and I'm going to take off
- 41:29Speaker 4: from you know, February next year.
- 41:31Speaker 2: Like, that's not how this gone works. I'm so sorry.
- 41:33Speaker 2: Business owners. Yes, that's right, And it's like how many
- 41:38Speaker 2: months you take off? Like my friends are taking a
- 41:40Speaker 2: year to two years. I'm like, yeah, that's just not.
- 41:43Speaker 6: Going to be me.
- 41:43Speaker 5: That just won't happen.
- 41:44Speaker 4: And it's funny because and like I obviously have been
- 41:48Speaker 4: on maternity leave before, and I hope to go on
- 41:51Speaker 4: and again very soon. But my entire business is my life.
- 41:56Speaker 4: I'm so wildly passionate about it.
- 41:57Speaker 2: I love it.
- 41:58Speaker 4: I don't actually want to leave it. It's it's not
- 42:00Speaker 4: like a nine to five Monday to Friday job where
- 42:02Speaker 4: I go I'm a Matleeve, like, please just don't email
- 42:04Speaker 4: me your stuff. I'm always checking in with my team
- 42:07Speaker 4: seeing what's going on. And it's not a flex And
- 42:09Speaker 4: I think a lot of people think that When business
- 42:10Speaker 4: owners talk about the maternity leave and how quickly quote
- 42:13Speaker 4: they went back, people were like, that's so toxic. And
- 42:16Speaker 4: I'm like, I missed it, Like I sorry newborns, and
- 42:21Speaker 4: I was in the very privileged position. My newborn was boring, Like,
- 42:25Speaker 4: I was so lucky I didn't have a colleague baby.
- 42:27Speaker 4: He didn't cry too much. Like what am I meant
- 42:29Speaker 4: to do during nap time? Girlfriend, I'm on slack on
- 42:32Speaker 4: my phone, I'm talking to my team. I'm like, what
- 42:34Speaker 4: are you guys up to? What are you working on?
- 42:35Speaker 4: Oh my god, I had this idea for a podcast,
- 42:37Speaker 4: or you know, I had this idea for this client.
- 42:39Speaker 4: Like I just wanted to be back in the nitty
- 42:41Speaker 4: gritty of it. And so I think it's it's very
- 42:44Speaker 4: different for business owners, and I feel like there can
- 42:47Speaker 4: be so much judgment because you go, well, actually, I'm
- 42:49Speaker 4: planning on working part time from them being like three months.
- 42:52Speaker 2: Definitely, I feel that. So it's definitely something that I
- 42:57Speaker 2: kind of I don't take a to it anymore. It's like, well,
- 43:01Speaker 2: you know, I'm the one who has started and chosen
- 43:05Speaker 2: to run a business before I started a family, and
- 43:08Speaker 2: this is what I really want to do and it's
- 43:10Speaker 2: my first baby, right it is, That's what it is.
- 43:13Speaker 5: And yeah, so I understand you.
- 43:16Speaker 2: Just never know how it's going to pan out either.
- 43:18Speaker 4: But yes, I feel like there's so much judgment around
- 43:21Speaker 4: the decisions that business owners make, but ultimately they're in
- 43:25Speaker 4: the best interest of us and our families. Like, sorry,
- 43:29Speaker 4: I'll be more financially secure if I do this, thank you.
- 43:32Speaker 2: That's right, more flexibility as well, where if I do
- 43:34Speaker 2: go back to work, it is on my terms when
- 43:38Speaker 2: my baby and I are when it suits us. Yeah, exactly, exactly.
- 43:42Speaker 5: All right.
- 43:42Speaker 4: Next question I have for you because I feel like
- 43:44Speaker 4: I'm running out of time and I'm so sorry, but
- 43:46Speaker 4: also I've enjoyed this chat so much.
- 43:49Speaker 2: What do you think is your best money habit? I
- 43:52Speaker 2: am a spreadsheeter again, your budgeting spreadsheet template? Love it.
- 43:59Speaker 5: Yes, that's is what I rely on to.
- 44:03Speaker 2: I guess plan financial goals for the next year and
- 44:06Speaker 2: we kind of stick to it.
- 44:07Speaker 5: So that's my responsibility.
- 44:10Speaker 2: In my household. I'm the more financial literate one, and
- 44:13Speaker 2: that's okay, but also that's a flex. Yeah, yes, I
- 44:17Speaker 2: know a lot of my friends like it's my husband.
- 44:19Speaker 5: So my part is like, no, that's me.
- 44:21Speaker 2: I'm obviously the same. And yeah, sticking to a budget,
- 44:27Speaker 2: I suppose as much as possible, and yeah, that would
- 44:30Speaker 2: be my best one. I reckon, what do you think
- 44:32Speaker 2: your worst money habit is? Fomo fomo? I didn't see
- 44:36Speaker 2: that coming.
- 44:37Speaker 4: I thought you were going to say, like nice shoes
- 44:39Speaker 4: or like nice because you have already learned you've got
- 44:41Speaker 4: nice daystes.
- 44:42Speaker 2: I've toned it down on the handbags and the shoes.
- 44:45Speaker 2: I've toned it down so it's I allow like one
- 44:48Speaker 2: item a year, which is pretty good, right honestly, Like
- 44:53Speaker 2: you're probably and it sounds flippant, but you're probably spending
- 44:57Speaker 2: less than the average bear because you're hoarding all of
- 44:59Speaker 2: that to spend in one thing on one fancy item
- 45:03Speaker 2: then like going on the iconic every week and like
- 45:05Speaker 2: getting a new dress for this that or the other.
- 45:07Speaker 4: Like, I find that people are often surprised when I
- 45:11Speaker 4: tell them how much I spend on like quote luxury items,
- 45:14Speaker 4: all the clothes and shoes and stuff because they're like,
- 45:15Speaker 4: I thought that would be way more and I'm like,
- 45:17Speaker 4: well no, because I'm not just buying a new dress
- 45:20Speaker 4: every week, or like I've got an event so I
- 45:22Speaker 4: need a new outfit. I'm just waiting and hoarding my
- 45:25Speaker 4: money and then buying something really fancy that ultimately is
- 45:29Speaker 4: cheaper than the annual spend that most people have.
- 45:32Speaker 2: Exactly, that's my way of thinking as well, I would say.
- 45:36Speaker 5: But going back to Foam, half of my friends have kids,
- 45:39Speaker 5: and then.
- 45:40Speaker 2: The other half of us who don't, and we are
- 45:44Speaker 2: the ones that I guess that go out a lot
- 45:46Speaker 2: and go on trips a lot, and I still budget
- 45:51Speaker 2: going on international holidays every year.
- 45:54Speaker 5: My husband has asked me to tone it down after.
- 45:56Speaker 2: We have a family, but it's what keeps me going
- 45:59Speaker 2: and what motivates me to continue working.
- 46:02Speaker 4: You know what, you'll have to see what life looks
- 46:04Speaker 4: like after you have a family, so we can't promise anything.
- 46:07Speaker 2: I'm sorry, sir, exactly, we don't know what that looks
- 46:10Speaker 2: like for us. No, I love it.
- 46:12Speaker 4: I love it money diarist, I feel like that's not
- 46:14Speaker 4: the worst habit, but I totally get it now that
- 46:17Speaker 4: we've talked at the start. You said, Look, when I
- 46:20Speaker 4: moved back from London, I was a D and like,
- 46:22Speaker 4: I've got myself up through financial literacy and education and
- 46:25Speaker 4: obviously setting up your own business and like getting married
- 46:28Speaker 4: and now being able to invest and do all of
- 46:29Speaker 4: these things.
- 46:30Speaker 2: You said, B plus, what would it take to get
- 46:33Speaker 2: to an A or an A plus? Because I'm just
- 46:35Speaker 2: feeling like you guys are on the right plath like, sorry,
- 46:37Speaker 2: you have a financial advisor, Like your business is incredible
- 46:42Speaker 2: for how young it is, like everything seems like it's
- 46:44Speaker 2: in the right places. Why B plus? Why not A?
- 46:48Speaker 2: I guess we could always tone down us spending. I
- 46:51Speaker 2: suppose like I enjoy coffees and eating out maybe a
- 46:56Speaker 2: little too much. And if I could get my super
- 47:00Speaker 2: to where I want it to be, maybe put some
- 47:02Speaker 2: more money into our investments, that would make me feel better.
- 47:07Speaker 2: Maybe that's what it would take to feel like I'm
- 47:09Speaker 2: in A. I love that.
- 47:10Speaker 4: I'm not going to argue with you because I feel
- 47:11Speaker 4: like you've got your stuff together very well, and I'm like, well,
- 47:14Speaker 4: I don't want to tell her she's something that she
- 47:16Speaker 4: doesn't feel like she is.
- 47:17Speaker 2: Yet, but I feel like you're doing a really flipping
- 47:19Speaker 2: good job.
- 47:20Speaker 4: So if you'd said I think I'm an a I
- 47:21Speaker 4: would have been like, yeah, Like, I think that too.
- 47:24Speaker 2: Money Diarist. I love this.
- 47:26Speaker 4: Thank you so much for having a chat with me.
- 47:28Speaker 4: I just know that our community is going to love
- 47:31Speaker 4: this literally as much as I have. You're the first
- 47:33Speaker 4: money Diarist of twenty twenty six, and that's.
- 47:36Speaker 2: Just ah, what a good episode. Like I came back
- 47:39Speaker 2: from London with one thousand dollars and look at all
- 47:41Speaker 2: this stuff we've done ourselves and we didn't have any help,
- 47:43Speaker 2: and it was just financial literacy, and you've dropped so
- 47:46Speaker 2: many good little tips and tricks along the way. Thank
- 47:49Speaker 2: you for that, by the way, because you've just promoted
- 47:50Speaker 2: my website massively, You're like, oh, I've been using your
- 47:54Speaker 2: free budget, I've been using your free wedding like budgets sheet,
- 47:57Speaker 2: I've been doing this. I've been Thank you for that.
- 48:00Speaker 2: Appreciate it. So thank you so much for joining us
- 48:03Speaker 2: on the show.
- 48:03Speaker 4: I genuinely really appreciate it, and just know that this
- 48:06Speaker 4: is like the money Dary that kicks off this year.
- 48:08Speaker 2: To a really good start.
- 48:09Speaker 5: Thank you. Thanks for having me.
- 48:10Speaker 4: It's been fun and also a very huge thank you
- 48:13Speaker 4: to skuy Wealth for making.
- 48:14Speaker 2: This episode possible. I've chuck a whole heap of information
- 48:17Speaker 2: about them, how to get in contact, what they do,
- 48:19Speaker 2: how they do it in the show notes for you
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