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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yor
- 0:04Speaker 1: the Order KERNI Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before
- 0:08Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I
- 0:11Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land
- 0:14Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country,
- 0:18Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming
- 0:22Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing
- 0:27Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for
- 0:30Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow.
- 0:33Speaker 2: Let's get into it.
- 0:34Speaker 3: She's on the Money. She's on the Money.
- 0:57Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
- 0:59Speaker 4: that's usually all about helping you master your money. But
- 1:02Speaker 4: today it's not just a podcast. It's a game show.
- 1:05Speaker 2: It's a game show.
- 1:06Speaker 4: I don't know how this is going to go, but
- 1:07Speaker 4: I'm actually really excited about it. Buckle up because this
- 1:10Speaker 4: isn't ask V anything show. I'm your host, becksied and
- 1:14Speaker 4: with me scared, I think you should be at all times.
- 1:18Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, be prepared. I was a scout, so.
- 1:21Speaker 4: Scouts always be terrified and worried, so today, our brave contestant,
- 1:27Speaker 4: May I please welcome to the stage, Victoria Device.
- 1:30Speaker 2: Oh, thank you for having me on this game show
- 1:32Speaker 2: that I didn't know was going to be a game show.
- 1:34Speaker 2: I thought it was going to be a podcast.
- 1:35Speaker 4: Thank you for joining me.
- 1:37Speaker 2: Oh, thank you for having me. I'm ready.
- 1:39Speaker 4: I'm sorry for just throwing this on you.
- 1:40Speaker 2: No, absolutely, let's go. I love a good game show.
- 1:43Speaker 2: What are we playing? And how much money do I
- 1:45Speaker 2: get to win?
- 1:46Speaker 4: I tell you what you get to win? Exactly zero dollars?
- 1:49Speaker 4: But Ris, can you double it? I'll have to ask
- 1:52Speaker 4: my producer.
- 1:53Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Sorry, you're asking for a lot. I know,
- 1:56Speaker 2: I know I've started yet.
- 1:58Speaker 4: Okay, so this game is all about taking on the biggest, juiciest,
- 2:01Speaker 4: trickiest money questions sent in by our amazing listeners. Do
- 2:04Speaker 4: you think you're up for it?
- 2:05Speaker 2: No? But also, let's go.
- 2:07Speaker 4: I also have a few of my own.
- 2:08Speaker 2: But okay, anyone, No, you can ask me anything.
- 2:11Speaker 4: Apparently I was open to this amazing Okay, so let's
- 2:14Speaker 4: jump straight into round one with our first question. So hypothetically,
- 2:18Speaker 4: I'm twenty seven. Mentally I think.
- 2:19Speaker 2: It'd be nice, wouldn't it.
- 2:21Speaker 4: I've got one hundred k saved.
- 2:22Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that is very hypothetical.
- 2:25Speaker 4: That is very hypothetical. I don'nate a property. Should I
- 2:28Speaker 4: be investing in real estate or elsewhere? And at the
- 2:31Speaker 4: same time, someone else wanted to know the potential pros
- 2:34Speaker 4: and cons of buying a property versus using that fund
- 2:37Speaker 4: for the share market. So should we tackle them together?
- 2:40Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 2:40Speaker 2: Absolutely. I was really scared when you said it's an
- 2:43Speaker 2: ask anything and I've gone row and I was like,
- 2:45Speaker 2: oh no, but now you're asking me about my bread
- 2:47Speaker 2: and butter. So we're ready.
- 2:48Speaker 4: So come back.
- 2:49Speaker 2: You have one hundred thousand dollars saved and you're not
- 2:51Speaker 2: sure where to invest it. I think you need to
- 2:54Speaker 2: zoom out and have a think about what your values are, Like,
- 2:57Speaker 2: is property actually something you want to be investing in,
- 3:00Speaker 2: because it's a really big commitment. So you're going to
- 3:02Speaker 2: buy property, there's going to be probably some stamp duty,
- 3:05Speaker 2: some other fees and charges. Like there's a lack of
- 3:08Speaker 2: flexibility there. I mean, I'm not selling it. I own
- 3:10Speaker 2: a mortgage broken company, beck, so like I should be like, yeah,
- 3:13Speaker 2: what you want to do? Go talk to a Zella
- 3:14Speaker 2: money broker. But I think it is such a big
- 3:17Speaker 2: commitment beck that I feel like you've got to know
- 3:20Speaker 2: that you really want it before you get into it,
- 3:22Speaker 2: because if you want to then get your money back,
- 3:25Speaker 2: it's a hassle to get it back out. If we're
- 3:27Speaker 2: comparing apples with apples, and you want to look at
- 3:30Speaker 2: the investment market versus property in Australia, we know that
- 3:34Speaker 2: the share market performs on average higher than the property market.
- 3:38Speaker 2: But in saying that, if you're not passionate about the
- 3:41Speaker 2: share market, why are you investing in it? Like if
- 3:43Speaker 2: that's something that you're like, oh, I can't be bothered,
- 3:46Speaker 2: but the fire in my belly is lit because of property,
- 3:49Speaker 2: Like you're going to allocate more funds towards it, Like
- 3:51Speaker 2: we spend money on the things that are of value
- 3:54Speaker 2: to us. So it's not about which returns more. It's
- 3:58Speaker 2: actually about what aligns your values, what you want to do.
- 4:00Speaker 2: And I cannot tell you how to invest your hundred
- 4:03Speaker 2: thousand dollars, but I think it's important to talk about
- 4:07Speaker 2: they are two different asset classes and over your lifetime
- 4:11Speaker 2: you're probably gonna want to have a bit of both.
- 4:13Speaker 2: So if you've got one hundred grand, is it for
- 4:15Speaker 2: a home deposit. Is it for share market up to you? Okay,
- 4:21Speaker 2: that was really diplomatic, I suppose, But I can't give
- 4:24Speaker 2: that advice totally legally.
- 4:26Speaker 4: Probably need to like look at the person.
- 4:28Speaker 2: What I can tell you? Yeah, tell me don't invest
- 4:30Speaker 2: it in a multi level marketing business.
- 4:32Speaker 4: Oh great advice.
- 4:33Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, okay, I can definitively say that that is
- 4:37Speaker 2: a terrible idea across that off. Finally you're welcome.
- 4:40Speaker 4: Okay, the next one. I actually always wondered about this too.
- 4:42Speaker 4: So if multiple brokers offer a zero dollar initial fee
- 4:48Speaker 4: in using multiple brokers.
- 4:49Speaker 2: Do you know how many credit checks you're going to
- 4:52Speaker 2: rack up?
- 4:53Speaker 4: Of course I don't like that.
- 4:57Speaker 2: No neither. I don't like that credit checks on your
- 5:00Speaker 2: account decrease your credit score over time, so we want
- 5:03Speaker 2: to minimize those. But on top of that, let's say
- 5:06Speaker 2: you want to go get a home loan with Bank
- 5:08Speaker 2: B and you're like, all right, Bank B, I really
- 5:11Speaker 2: want to go and get a five hundred thousand dollars
- 5:13Speaker 2: home loan. Then you have another broker working on that.
- 5:16Speaker 2: It actually is submitted under you, Beck, so you are
- 5:20Speaker 2: like personally identifiable. Another broker can't submit another deal to
- 5:24Speaker 2: the same bank. Without intercepting that and ruining your chances,
- 5:28Speaker 2: you're probably going to end up with a decline. I see.
- 5:31Speaker 2: It becomes an admin nightmare for that bank and they
- 5:34Speaker 2: don't like it. Also, a mortgage broker gets paid by
- 5:38Speaker 2: the bank. So this is my business Zeller money and
- 5:41Speaker 2: that's why I can offer services to our clients for free,
- 5:45Speaker 2: which is the biggest money when ever, because we get
- 5:47Speaker 2: paid by the bank when your property settles. It is
- 5:51Speaker 2: so much work like we have a big team at
- 5:53Speaker 2: Zella because not only are you talking to a broker,
- 5:56Speaker 2: but you're talking to their CRM. You're then talking to
- 5:58Speaker 2: our admin team in the backround. You then go into
- 6:01Speaker 2: a settlements officer who's going to make sure that your
- 6:03Speaker 2: process is as smooth as possible and that all the
- 6:07Speaker 2: eyes are dotted and all the tea's across. We LaaS
- 6:10Speaker 2: directly with your conveyancer to make sure that they're doing
- 6:13Speaker 2: their job. But you're in the best possible position. We
- 6:15Speaker 2: are answering all your questions along the way and making
- 6:18Speaker 2: sure that you are feeling supported my brokers. Not that
- 6:22Speaker 2: you should be calling your brokers after hours, but they
- 6:24Speaker 2: answer the phone on the weekends. They answer the phone
- 6:26Speaker 2: after hours. They do not want our clients to be stressed.
- 6:29Speaker 2: That is a lot of time, energy and effort to
- 6:32Speaker 2: be put in for something that then ultimately doesn't convert
- 6:35Speaker 2: because you were playing the game. I see, like, I
- 6:38Speaker 2: don't think it is fair. I do think that if
- 6:41Speaker 2: you're on the fence, have an initial meeting with a broker, absolutely,
- 6:45Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, work with someone
- 6:47Speaker 2: that you resonate with, because if there is a right
- 6:50Speaker 2: answer for your situation, both brokers should come to the
- 6:53Speaker 2: same conclusion. Beck true, they should be, you know, analyzing
- 6:57Speaker 2: it in a certain way and probably be putting the
- 6:59Speaker 2: same bank forward. But it takes us a lot of work.
- 7:01Speaker 2: It's not just like a quick half an hour meeting
- 7:03Speaker 2: with a broker. Like in the background, we are doing
- 7:06Speaker 2: so much work, so much research to make sure that
- 7:09Speaker 2: you are in the best possible position. If you're doing
- 7:11Speaker 2: that to multiple people, you're wasting their time and that
- 7:13Speaker 2: is not cool.
- 7:14Speaker 4: That's so true. I did notice that when my partner
- 7:16Speaker 4: was buying a property, she was messaging them on Sunday,
- 7:19Speaker 4: and I was like, are you allowed to do that?
- 7:21Speaker 2: I know that you should obviously respect business hours and
- 7:25Speaker 2: all of that, but like, if you're stressed and want
- 7:26Speaker 2: that support, I want to hold your hand and make
- 7:28Speaker 2: sure that you're in the best possible position. And I
- 7:31Speaker 2: don't want my clients being stressed because they're like, oh
- 7:33Speaker 2: my god, are we okay for settlement? Yeah, girl, of
- 7:35Speaker 2: course we are. Like if that's all it takes out
- 7:37Speaker 2: of our day, great, exactly.
- 7:39Speaker 4: Okay, this next one's a good one for all of
- 7:41Speaker 4: us in this cozy liv crisis.
- 7:43Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 7:44Speaker 4: So, hypothetically, I'm a stay at home mum looking to
- 7:48Speaker 4: an extra income. Do you have any tips?
- 7:50Speaker 2: I do multi level marketing.
- 7:52Speaker 4: Let's take that out of context and put it on socials.
- 7:56Speaker 2: Yeah, actually, put it on a T shirt uneducated, which
- 7:58Speaker 2: is what I'm going for. So do I have some
- 8:02Speaker 2: tips and tricks? Yes. I want you to just stay
- 8:04Speaker 2: vigilant and know that if it seems too good to
- 8:07Speaker 2: be true, it probably is. There are so many opportunities
- 8:11Speaker 2: that are going to be presented to you because you
- 8:14Speaker 2: are a stay at home mum, because you are relatively
- 8:16Speaker 2: vulnerable in this situation, because like the end of the day,
- 8:19Speaker 2: you want to stay home with your kids, like, and
- 8:21Speaker 2: I get that, Like, if you've decided that you need
- 8:23Speaker 2: an extra income so that you can spend more time
- 8:26Speaker 2: with them. And someone comes along and says, hey, back,
- 8:29Speaker 2: so I've got this great business opportunity. You just sign up.
- 8:32Speaker 2: Not hard for you to do three hundred bucks. You
- 8:34Speaker 2: can make so much money on the side, and you
- 8:37Speaker 2: can take your kids to the park whenever. You can
- 8:38Speaker 2: work from wherever. Sounds great, doesn't it. But you need
- 8:41Speaker 2: to stay vigilant. I would say in terms of earning
- 8:44Speaker 2: extra income, air tasker is fantastic. Are there any tasks
- 8:48Speaker 2: that you could pick up? And do you know, if
- 8:50Speaker 2: it's a courier job, can the kids come with you?
- 8:52Speaker 2: Can you you know, do a few things here and there.
- 8:55Speaker 2: Are there any handicrafts that you can do, online surveys
- 8:58Speaker 2: that you could do. Is there a way that you
- 9:01Speaker 2: could get a work from home job, Like one of
- 9:03Speaker 2: our community members has recently gotten a job as a
- 9:06Speaker 2: medical transcriber.
- 9:08Speaker 4: I was gonna say transcribing is pretty good.
- 9:09Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty good, and she's earning so much money.
- 9:12Speaker 2: She's only like forty five bucks an hour or something.
- 9:15Speaker 2: It's good to transcribe medical records because they want to
- 9:18Speaker 2: keep them on file. But she's like, it doesn't matter
- 9:20Speaker 2: if I do that at nine am, or I'm doing
- 9:22Speaker 2: it at nine pm, I do it when my kid
- 9:23Speaker 2: is asleep, and they're fine with that. There are so
- 9:26Speaker 2: many options out there that don't involve you ending up
- 9:30Speaker 2: in a worse off situation. But I also need you
- 9:32Speaker 2: to know that if you're looking for a way to
- 9:35Speaker 2: earn extra income while still having that lifestyle as estate
- 9:38Speaker 2: at her mum, there is always going to be some
- 9:40Speaker 2: level of compromise, Like you can't have your cake and
- 9:43Speaker 2: eat it too. And maybe this is going to sound tough.
- 9:46Speaker 2: Maybe the realization is this is a season of life.
- 9:48Speaker 2: I'm going to earn less right now while I'm focusing
- 9:51Speaker 2: on my kids, and then once they're at school or
- 9:52Speaker 2: once they're doing this, I can go back to earning
- 9:54Speaker 2: an income. You don't actually need to do it all.
- 9:56Speaker 2: I feel like there's this boss babe mentality online of like,
- 9:59Speaker 2: if you're going to be a stay at home mum,
- 10:00Speaker 2: you also need to be working on yourself and you
- 10:02Speaker 2: also need to be having a side hustle. And if
- 10:04Speaker 2: you don't get up at five am and go to
- 10:06Speaker 2: the gym before the kids wake up, like what are
- 10:08Speaker 2: you even doing? Absolutely insane unrealistic expectations being put on parents,
- 10:13Speaker 2: Like if you want an extra income stream, great, let's
- 10:16Speaker 2: find one for you, but don't do it because you're
- 10:18Speaker 2: feeling the pressure because other people are doing it. Yeah.
- 10:21Speaker 4: One also, don't forget clinical trials.
- 10:23Speaker 2: Sometimes no clinical trials.
- 10:25Speaker 4: Clinical trials, let's take that.
- 10:27Speaker 2: You can do that one.
- 10:29Speaker 4: That one, Okay, the sext one is a good one.
- 10:31Speaker 4: I feel like I've said that four of them so far,
- 10:33Speaker 4: but they're all good. It's about those golden nuggets of wisdom,
- 10:36Speaker 4: your favorite advice from a mentor or person that you
- 10:39Speaker 4: still use to this day.
- 10:41Speaker 2: Like the advice or the person, because like I feel
- 10:43Speaker 2: like mentors come and.
- 10:44Speaker 4: Go true maybe both.
- 10:46Speaker 2: If you have favorite advice, I feel like my dad
- 10:51Speaker 2: is that lame. That's probably lame. That'squ welcome dad. So
- 10:54Speaker 2: there's probably a few pieces of advice. The first one
- 10:57Speaker 2: is honesty tempered with mercy. WHOA, So that is something
- 11:06Speaker 2: that he's always said. Just because it's true doesn't mean
- 11:09Speaker 2: you have to say it. So like you know, if
- 11:11Speaker 2: something at work is happening and you know it's not working,
- 11:14Speaker 2: like always just being like am I being kind in
- 11:17Speaker 2: this moment? Or am I just saying it because I can.
- 11:20Speaker 2: I think that's something that I've always taken, especially in
- 11:23Speaker 2: Cheese on the money, Like we have to be honest
- 11:25Speaker 2: because like, at the end of the day, I need
- 11:27Speaker 2: to put you in a best possible position. But you
- 11:29Speaker 2: don't need to crucify someone, like say you're firing someone
- 11:32Speaker 2: and they're just not the right fit. But they've also
- 11:35Speaker 2: been messing up a little bit and you've given them
- 11:37Speaker 2: a few reasons as to why you don't need to
- 11:39Speaker 2: double down and absolutely bury that person on the way out,
- 11:41Speaker 2: Like that is not what you need to do. So
- 11:43Speaker 2: like honesty because like people deserve the truth, but like
- 11:47Speaker 2: sometimes you need to temper it with mercy. I think
- 11:49Speaker 2: is really good. Yes, The second piece of advice my
- 11:52Speaker 2: dad gave me was the best number of business partners
- 11:56Speaker 2: is an odd number of less than three. And I
- 11:59Speaker 2: really wish I had listened to him at the very start,
- 12:02Speaker 2: because that essentially is him saying, don't have business partners.
- 12:06Speaker 2: That sounds savage because I have had a few of
- 12:10Speaker 2: them now, and upon reflection, I have always taken on
- 12:14Speaker 2: a business partner because I didn't have the confidence that
- 12:17Speaker 2: I could do it myself. I thought that I needed
- 12:20Speaker 2: somebody else's support to be successful. I thought that I
- 12:23Speaker 2: needed somebody else to hold my hand through that section.
- 12:27Speaker 2: And the reality is, nobody knows my business is better
- 12:30Speaker 2: than me. No one cares about my businesses more than me,
- 12:32Speaker 2: No one cares about my mission more than me, and
- 12:35Speaker 2: so then it should just be me. At the end
- 12:37Speaker 2: of the day. My businesses are better off with me
- 12:41Speaker 2: making those decisions because I do lead in a way
- 12:45Speaker 2: that not everybody leads, and that's okay, But I think
- 12:48Speaker 2: it's important to kind of back yourself. Like I think
- 12:52Speaker 2: so often small business owners, especially women, they want to
- 12:56Speaker 2: be in business. They want to do things because it
- 12:58Speaker 2: sounds great, but they want someone to be alongside them
- 13:02Speaker 2: for the ride, and sometimes that's not the best decision.
- 13:05Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, great advice.
- 13:06Speaker 2: I don't know if it's great advice savage advice. And
- 13:09Speaker 2: also the last piece of advice that I got from
- 13:12Speaker 2: a friend was just don't get up.
- 13:15Speaker 4: God. I love that.
- 13:16Speaker 2: Good advice.
- 13:17Speaker 4: So easy as that. Yeah, great advice. V. Thank you.
- 13:20Speaker 2: Okay, V.
- 13:21Speaker 4: We're talking love and money at this point. Yeah, someone's
- 13:25Speaker 4: asking for your thoughts on the importance of a prenup
- 13:28Speaker 4: for couples. Considering marriage.
- 13:30Speaker 2: I like that. So first things first, in Australia we
- 13:33Speaker 2: don't have prenups. We have binding financial agreements which are similar,
- 13:37Speaker 2: but also they can be disputed, so I think it's
- 13:42Speaker 2: important to know that going in. But I also think
- 13:44Speaker 2: that a prenup, like let's call it, that, is a
- 13:47Speaker 2: good idea to make sure that you're on the same
- 13:49Speaker 2: page going into a marriage. In saying that, it probably
- 13:53Speaker 2: needs to happen prior to marriage, because if you're in
- 13:56Speaker 2: a de facto relationship, you default to the same rules
- 13:59Speaker 2: that apply to a married couple. So it's kind of
- 14:01Speaker 2: the same thing anyway, Like if you moved in with
- 14:04Speaker 2: your girlfriend and you met all of the you know,
- 14:06Speaker 2: criteria for being a de facto couple, like, you're not
- 14:10Speaker 2: treated that differently these days as a married couple is,
- 14:13Speaker 2: so we do have to be quite careful. It also
- 14:16Speaker 2: depends where you're starting from. Like if you're nineteen and
- 14:18Speaker 2: you're young and in love and you've just gotten married
- 14:20Speaker 2: and you have literally no money to your name, do
- 14:24Speaker 2: you need a prenup? Probably not, because you haven't started
- 14:28Speaker 2: the relationship with significant assets that need to be taken
- 14:31Speaker 2: into consideration. But if you're on the flip side, and
- 14:35Speaker 2: you know you're in your thirties, maybe it's your second marriage,
- 14:38Speaker 2: and you have an inheritance from a parent or a
- 14:41Speaker 2: grandparent that you want to make sure if you came
- 14:43Speaker 2: out of that marriage was protected. Yes, absolutely, I think
- 14:46Speaker 2: we need a binding financial agreement. I also think that
- 14:49Speaker 2: it is really good practice to go into a relationship
- 14:55Speaker 2: with a clear exit strategy. And that sounds terrible because like,
- 14:58Speaker 2: no one wants their relationship to fall apart, but I agree.
- 15:01Speaker 2: I didn't marry my husband because I want to divorce him.
- 15:04Speaker 2: I married him because I wanted his babies and I
- 15:06Speaker 2: want to be with him for the rest of my life.
- 15:08Speaker 2: But being able to sit down together and talk about, well,
- 15:11Speaker 2: what if this didn't work out, when we're both in
- 15:14Speaker 2: the headspace of wanting the best for each other, is
- 15:17Speaker 2: a really good outcome because that then becomes the fallback.
- 15:20Speaker 2: So something might happen. We might be really salty at
- 15:23Speaker 2: each other and don't even want to look at each other,
- 15:24Speaker 2: but we have this document that says, well, this is
- 15:27Speaker 2: how our assets will be divided up, this is how
- 15:29Speaker 2: we would care for our children, this is how we
- 15:30Speaker 2: would do this. Because we decided that when we actually
- 15:33Speaker 2: wanted the best for each other. And I think that
- 15:35Speaker 2: that's really nice. Yeah, So do I think you need one?
- 15:39Speaker 2: Not necessarily, but do I think that you should talk
- 15:41Speaker 2: about an excess strategy for your relationship? Absolutely, And it
- 15:45Speaker 2: can be a little bit more bid, Like isn't that
- 15:46Speaker 2: a bit weird to be? Like, you know, if I
- 15:48Speaker 2: said to you and Jess, hey, so what if this
- 15:51Speaker 2: doesn't work out, what you're going to do? Like you're like, oh, no,
- 15:53Speaker 2: this is going to work out, But like you have
- 15:56Speaker 2: to to put yourself in the best possible position, and like,
- 16:00Speaker 2: especially for women, we end up with the raw end
- 16:03Speaker 2: of the deal half the time. So like, what does
- 16:05Speaker 2: that look like? How is your partner going to advocate
- 16:08Speaker 2: for you? If you're hypothetically in this very stereotypical relationship.
- 16:13Speaker 2: You're both mid twenties, you're planning on getting married and
- 16:16Speaker 2: having kids, and it's very you know, heterosexual, Like, great,
- 16:22Speaker 2: so are you going to take time off when your
- 16:24Speaker 2: husband goes to work and you have kids. What's going
- 16:28Speaker 2: to happen to your suberannuation, what's going to happen in
- 16:30Speaker 2: the future. I think that we just need to prepare
- 16:32Speaker 2: to make sure that everybody is treated equally.
- 16:35Speaker 4: It's great advice. I actually I'm curious. Maybe it depends
- 16:37Speaker 4: on the agreement, but does that protect your future assets
- 16:41Speaker 4: or just like the current assets.
- 16:42Speaker 2: No, so it protects current assets. Future assets are often
- 16:46Speaker 2: seen as created together. Oh yeah, which is why. And
- 16:50Speaker 2: I'm not a lawyer, so do not quote me, obviously.
- 16:52Speaker 2: If you're going through this, speak to a lawyer. But
- 16:54Speaker 2: it's why in a court of law, if a woman
- 16:56Speaker 2: stays at home, the man's not automatically going to get
- 16:59Speaker 2: all the money all the super Like. I have situations
- 17:02Speaker 2: where community members that I've spoken to are like, I
- 17:05Speaker 2: got sixty percent of his super You listen to it
- 17:08Speaker 2: on money daries all the time because when you sit down,
- 17:12Speaker 2: she took the hit for you having a career. The
- 17:15Speaker 2: reason you had a career was somebody was backing you
- 17:17Speaker 2: at home. Like, I think there's just this misconception that
- 17:22Speaker 2: being a stay at home mum or not earning an
- 17:25Speaker 2: income while your partner is means that you're not contributing
- 17:28Speaker 2: when you are, And I think that we need to
- 17:31Speaker 2: see it a little bit more equally.
- 17:33Speaker 4: Completely agree.
- 17:34Speaker 2: I think it's a really good time to just jump
- 17:36Speaker 2: to a quick break, good idea.
- 17:37Speaker 4: I'll get my questions in order, okay, and then we'll
- 17:39Speaker 4: see more when we come back. More when we come back.
- 17:45Speaker 4: Welcome back everyone. Today is a game show that's an
- 17:48Speaker 4: ask me anything for strictly Victoria.
- 17:50Speaker 2: I'm not going to win any money apparently, so I'm
- 17:53Speaker 2: not sure where the game show part comes in. But
- 17:55Speaker 2: I'm glad you're having fun back.
- 17:56Speaker 4: I'm having so much fun. I feel like I've already won.
- 17:59Speaker 4: You have one, okay, so this next one, I feel
- 18:02Speaker 4: like you're gonna love this. So it is about multi
- 18:05Speaker 4: level marketing. Oh, I am gonna love this. But I
- 18:07Speaker 4: have been all of you Instagram lately, and I know
- 18:09Speaker 4: you've been sharing your thoughts, so I do my thoughts. Well, yep,
- 18:13Speaker 4: they are spicy thoughts. Honestly, it feels like it's been
- 18:16Speaker 4: a full on solap opera and I've had my popcorn ready, so.
- 18:18Speaker 2: I feel like so many people have too, Like I'm
- 18:21Speaker 2: not done.
- 18:22Speaker 4: I'm so excited. You even dropped a whole episode on
- 18:24Speaker 4: the weekend about how dodgy MLMs can be. If you
- 18:27Speaker 4: haven't heard one of those yet, go back to episodes.
- 18:30Speaker 4: It was juicy. Do not want to miss it, So
- 18:32Speaker 4: V tell me what are your thoughts.
- 18:34Speaker 2: I hate multi level marketing to my coreback That's why
- 18:38Speaker 2: I did a whole episode on it, and there are
- 18:39Speaker 2: more to come. Like, I'm not done, I haven't stopped.
- 18:42Speaker 2: I feel like this is a space that we need
- 18:46Speaker 2: education on because the most eye opening thing after dropping
- 18:49Speaker 2: that episode was that people that obviously weren't involved in
- 18:53Speaker 2: multi level marketing, like I didn't realize that this was
- 18:56Speaker 2: so awful. I didn't know this is how it worked.
- 18:59Speaker 2: I had no idea. And that's fantastic for you, but
- 19:01Speaker 2: you need to be educated because like if your friend's like, hey, Beck,
- 19:04Speaker 2: I've got this great shampoo, uh, You're gonna fall into
- 19:07Speaker 2: it and not know. So I think that as a community,
- 19:10Speaker 2: we deserve the education. But then on the flip side,
- 19:13Speaker 2: I see so much potential in these women and it's
- 19:15Speaker 2: going to waste on businesses that aren't theirs. So obviously
- 19:20Speaker 2: we did a whole episode. If you missed that, go
- 19:22Speaker 2: and listen to that. But I have a juicy interview
- 19:24Speaker 2: coming up. So doing all my research, I came across
- 19:27Speaker 2: a woman called Emily Lynn Paulson. Oh my gosh, Beck,
- 19:30Speaker 2: I'm obsessed. She has a book called hay Hunt. Okay,
- 19:34Speaker 2: isn't that so cute? That is cute. That's how so
- 19:36Speaker 2: many multi level marketing women start their conversations. They'll be like, oh, Heyhun,
- 19:41Speaker 2: So I was watching your videos and I just thought, Beck,
- 19:44Speaker 2: you're doing such a good job. Have you ever thought
- 19:46Speaker 2: about the shampoo that you use? Like it actually kills me?
- 19:50Speaker 2: So she's used that, just taken it back. And her
- 19:52Speaker 2: book is called Hayhun Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy, and the Other
- 19:55Speaker 2: Lies behind multi Level Marketing. And when I saw her write,
- 19:59Speaker 2: she made more than a million dollars in multi level
- 20:02Speaker 2: marketing and has now flipped and been like that was toxic,
- 20:05Speaker 2: that was awful. I'm so embarrassed. Yeah, in the first
- 20:09Speaker 2: like ninety pages of her book she talks about white supremacy.
- 20:12Speaker 2: She has gone hard, Like I have so much respect
- 20:16Speaker 2: for her. But we have a juicy interview coming up,
- 20:18Speaker 2: So if you want to hear more about multi level marketing,
- 20:21Speaker 2: that's the one that you want to tune into.
- 20:23Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm so excited for that.
- 20:25Speaker 2: I mean, I don't want to talk about anything apart
- 20:28Speaker 2: from that. But that's okay. We've got more questions to
- 20:30Speaker 2: get through. Yeah.
- 20:30Speaker 4: Absolutely, we will get all the juicy, juicy, juicy details,
- 20:34Speaker 4: I'm sure in that episode with Emily. Okay, so this
- 20:37Speaker 4: next question you have is how to raise capital for
- 20:39Speaker 4: a business idea I have Hypothetically it would require me
- 20:43Speaker 4: to buy a bit of stock.
- 20:44Speaker 2: Okay. So obviously there are lots of different ways to
- 20:49Speaker 2: starting a business. There's bootstrapping. So bootstrapping is where you
- 20:53Speaker 2: like take on every expense yourself, Like maybe you have
- 20:56Speaker 2: another job and you're funding it on the side. Maybe
- 20:58Speaker 2: you've got some savings' like, it's completely up to you.
- 21:02Speaker 2: I get really suspicious when people say I need to
- 21:05Speaker 2: raise capital for my business, because capital comes with a trade,
- 21:12Speaker 2: and that trade is for usually equity in your business.
- 21:16Speaker 2: And I am an advocate of women in particular owning
- 21:20Speaker 2: one hundred percent of their asset. So if you're saying
- 21:23Speaker 2: I really need to raise capital for a business idea,
- 21:26Speaker 2: So capital is cash so that you can invest into
- 21:28Speaker 2: your business. So do you want you know, if I said, hey, Beck,
- 21:31Speaker 2: I'll give you one hundred grand for this business idea,
- 21:33Speaker 2: but I want thirty percent of your business. If you're
- 21:36Speaker 2: so invested in this business and you know it's going
- 21:38Speaker 2: to be successful. Do you really want to sell out
- 21:40Speaker 2: that early and lose that much percentage of your business
- 21:44Speaker 2: before you've even begun right, Like some businesses you definitely
- 21:47Speaker 2: need funding for, but like I want you to have
- 21:49Speaker 2: dotted all your eyes, crossed all your teas and make
- 21:51Speaker 2: sure that you're in the best possible position before you've
- 21:53Speaker 2: done that. So have you done a full budget? Have
- 21:55Speaker 2: you done a forecast for a full year of expenses,
- 21:58Speaker 2: like all the way down to what is your website
- 22:00Speaker 2: hosting fee going to be? What is shipping going to cost?
- 22:04Speaker 2: You said you needed to buy stock. I'm assuming maybe
- 22:06Speaker 2: just like a retail business, you're buying stock. What is
- 22:09Speaker 2: the insurance going to cost to get that stock to
- 22:12Speaker 2: your warehouse? What is the warehouse going to cost? Like,
- 22:14Speaker 2: I want to know everything before you even think about
- 22:18Speaker 2: going into business and raising capital. If you're raising capital
- 22:21Speaker 2: and you don't have complete clarity on what that business
- 22:24Speaker 2: is becoming, you are not ready to raise capital. Well, like,
- 22:27Speaker 2: I just have a lot of thoughts about that. But
- 22:29Speaker 2: then also have you looked into business grants? Oh?
- 22:33Speaker 4: True?
- 22:34Speaker 2: Is that an option? There is so much money out
- 22:36Speaker 2: there and so many resources for small business owners to
- 22:39Speaker 2: get grants. Grants are literally like winning the business lottery beck,
- 22:43Speaker 2: Like the government is going to gift you some money
- 22:46Speaker 2: just to help you with your business. If you pitch
- 22:47Speaker 2: it properly right, that's a better deal than giving somebody
- 22:50Speaker 2: else a cut of your business. Also, have you thought
- 22:54Speaker 2: about maybe saving for a little longer, Like if you
- 22:57Speaker 2: aren't ready to buite the bullet and you don't have
- 23:00Speaker 2: capital to start the business, should you stay in your
- 23:02Speaker 2: job a little bit longer, save a bit more, and
- 23:04Speaker 2: start it a little bit later. Or Obviously I don't
- 23:07Speaker 2: love debt, but business debt is an option. Could you
- 23:11Speaker 2: go to a bank and get a loan so that
- 23:13Speaker 2: you owe a bank money, pay that back and you
- 23:15Speaker 2: still own one hundred percent of your business. So I
- 23:17Speaker 2: think that there are a lot of thoughts and feelings
- 23:19Speaker 2: I have. How would you then raise capital if you've
- 23:21Speaker 2: decided there are lots of different ways. There is crowdfunding,
- 23:25Speaker 2: There is you know angel investors, there is you know
- 23:28Speaker 2: business brokers that could go out and help you raise that.
- 23:31Speaker 2: There are heaps of options. But I would be trying
- 23:33Speaker 2: to avoid raising capital at all costs. Before trying to
- 23:37Speaker 2: raise capital, I think it should be the last thing
- 23:41Speaker 2: that is.
- 23:42Speaker 4: A lot to wrap my head around. But I'm sure
- 23:44Speaker 4: if you're in the business of wanting to start a business.
- 23:47Speaker 2: Yeah, please help me. Yeah, don't take people's cash holder
- 23:50Speaker 2: unless you really, really really have to.
- 23:52Speaker 4: Absolutely, that's great advice for me. God, I'm trying.
- 23:54Speaker 2: I'm trying you. Actually, I'm actually a business owner who
- 23:57Speaker 2: has had mulgeperience that has cost me hundreds, if not
- 24:01Speaker 2: millions of dollars. Sure it of so yeah, don't do that.
- 24:04Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay. This one is one that I'm sure most
- 24:07Speaker 4: of our community have asked themselves. When should you see
- 24:10Speaker 4: your financial advisor? Do you need to have a certain
- 24:11Speaker 4: amount of savings or goals before you do well?
- 24:14Speaker 2: It depends. And this is going to annoy all the
- 24:16Speaker 2: financial advisors, so close your little ears. But not everybody
- 24:19Speaker 2: needs a financial advisor. Sure, if you are somebody who
- 24:24Speaker 2: wants some help on your goals and your investments and
- 24:27Speaker 2: achieving them, then sure seeing a financial advisor will help.
- 24:30Speaker 2: But there is the ability to do it yourself. I'm
- 24:33Speaker 2: not saying it's the best option. It's kind of like
- 24:35Speaker 2: getting a gym membership back, Like if I went and
- 24:37Speaker 2: got a gym membership and you went and got a
- 24:38Speaker 2: gym membership. I know you are so good at going
- 24:40Speaker 2: to the gym, but if I had the gym membership,
- 24:42Speaker 2: I'm not going because I don't have any accountability. So
- 24:46Speaker 2: a financial advisor is kind of like a personal trainer
- 24:49Speaker 2: in that they might get you in the gym, they
- 24:50Speaker 2: might actually get you doing your program. They might actually
- 24:52Speaker 2: get you investing and creating wealth and doing all of
- 24:55Speaker 2: those things. Maybe you feel like you've got to the
- 24:58Speaker 2: end of your dear why journey. You're investing, you're saving,
- 25:02Speaker 2: you've got super you've got a property, and you're like like,
- 25:04Speaker 2: maybe I need to take it to the next level.
- 25:06Speaker 2: That is when you might want to see a financial advisor.
- 25:09Speaker 2: Not everybody needs one, but if you're going to see one,
- 25:12Speaker 2: I think it's important to have a lot of clarity
- 25:14Speaker 2: around your goals because they're going to ask you. Like
- 25:17Speaker 2: in my fact find meetings when I was a financial advisor,
- 25:20Speaker 2: I want all the info like prior to the meeting,
- 25:22Speaker 2: like what you earn, what you spend, what you own,
- 25:24Speaker 2: what you owe. But then I want you to go,
- 25:26Speaker 2: why are you here? What do you want from me?
- 25:27Speaker 2: If you go, oh, I don't know. I just want
- 25:29Speaker 2: to be better at money. That's really hard because I
- 25:33Speaker 2: could have six million different outcomes for you depending on
- 25:37Speaker 2: your goals. But if you don't have goals, am I
- 25:39Speaker 2: picking your goals? Are you going to like? That? Probably
- 25:41Speaker 2: not ideal. So before I saw a financial advisor, I
- 25:44Speaker 2: would sit down. I would do a full budget because
- 25:46Speaker 2: that's within your power. Like there is a free budget
- 25:49Speaker 2: on our website that you can download at any time
- 25:51Speaker 2: to do. I will do that for you for free. Literally,
- 25:54Speaker 2: go and download it and do it. If you want
- 25:56Speaker 2: to take it to the next level. We've got our
- 25:57Speaker 2: money master class that is a really good thing to
- 26:00Speaker 2: invest in. If you want to take your budget and
- 26:02Speaker 2: your cash flow to the next level, you can do
- 26:04Speaker 2: all of that. You can sit down, you can write
- 26:06Speaker 2: down your goals, you can write down what you want
- 26:08Speaker 2: to achieve. You can have a chat with your partner,
- 26:10Speaker 2: you can zoom out, you can look at your super fund.
- 26:12Speaker 2: You can call your super fund and have a chat
- 26:14Speaker 2: to the advisors there for free because it's included in
- 26:17Speaker 2: your super fees. Like, exhaust all of these options, I
- 26:21Speaker 2: would say before seeing a financial advisor, and then when
- 26:23Speaker 2: you decide I want to see financial advisor, that investment
- 26:26Speaker 2: is going to be worth it. Yeah, that investment is
- 26:29Speaker 2: going to help you be in the best possible financial position.
- 26:32Speaker 2: But no, you don't need to have certain savings. You
- 26:34Speaker 2: could have zero dollars to your name and seeing a
- 26:36Speaker 2: financial advisor makes sense.
- 26:37Speaker 4: It's comforting.
- 26:38Speaker 2: Or you could have one hundred million dollars and seeing
- 26:41Speaker 2: a financial advisor then makes sense. So it's not necessarily
- 26:45Speaker 2: about how much money you have, but how much value
- 26:47Speaker 2: you place on paying for advice.
- 26:49Speaker 4: Okay, this one's a bit gzy. What are some financial
- 26:53Speaker 4: decisions you've made in the past five years that you
- 26:55Speaker 4: would change or that you regret.
- 26:58Speaker 2: Oh, okay, lots To be honest, I am a very
- 27:02Speaker 2: good impulse purchaser. What's a small one that I made
- 27:05Speaker 2: this week? Are you ready? I am actually really embarrassed
- 27:07Speaker 2: by this. So I got back to the office the
- 27:10Speaker 2: other day after making this purchase and I said to
- 27:12Speaker 2: my whole team, I am embarrassed. I cannot believe I
- 27:15Speaker 2: just did this. I bought a dress last weekend for
- 27:19Speaker 2: two hundred and fifty dollars from chic. I really wanted it.
- 27:22Speaker 2: I have had my eye on it. Whatever bought the dress.
- 27:26Speaker 2: I am really short, so that dress needs to be
- 27:28Speaker 2: taken up, and I just in my head thought that's
- 27:32Speaker 2: not that expensive. So I went down to the tailor
- 27:35Speaker 2: and she's like, put the dress on Norri's. She marks
- 27:38Speaker 2: it all up for it being taken up, and I'm like, yep, Crogel,
- 27:40Speaker 2: no worry's going to go to the checkout beck one
- 27:42Speaker 2: hundred and sixty five dollars. It is a cotton dress, Like,
- 27:46Speaker 2: I don't think it's that complicated anyway, one hundred and
- 27:49Speaker 2: sixty five dollars. And the regret I have is that
- 27:52Speaker 2: I just didn't say anything. I felt sick. There was
- 27:55Speaker 2: somebody behind me waiting in the line, and I didn't
- 27:59Speaker 2: want to like student.
- 28:00Speaker 4: And totally can't.
- 28:02Speaker 2: I in that moment was like, but I am, she's
- 28:04Speaker 2: on the money. I should be questioning this, Like I
- 28:06Speaker 2: just want to get out of this situation. Got back
- 28:09Speaker 2: to the office. I regret that. I don't know if
- 28:12Speaker 2: I regret any of the really, really big mistakes. So
- 28:14Speaker 2: when I was twenty two, I took out a forty
- 28:16Speaker 2: thousand dollar personal loan so that I could buy a car,
- 28:20Speaker 2: I could travel to France and study, and I could
- 28:23Speaker 2: go on a holiday. In hindsight, I wish I had
- 28:26Speaker 2: better financial literacy so that I didn't make that decision,
- 28:29Speaker 2: But I feel like me being in that debt was
- 28:33Speaker 2: pivotal to creating my career and actually valuing money more.
- 28:38Speaker 2: I feel like I needed that kickup the butt. I
- 28:41Speaker 2: needed that stress, I needed that anxiety. I needed to
- 28:43Speaker 2: go through that to grow through that in a way.
- 28:47Speaker 2: And I don't think that today I would be as
- 28:49Speaker 2: good at managing my finances if I didn't have something
- 28:53Speaker 2: like that that puts significant pressure on me. No one
- 28:55Speaker 2: deserves to be in that amount of debt. But at
- 28:58Speaker 2: the same time, I don't regret it. I know at
- 29:02Speaker 2: the time I was doing the best that I could
- 29:04Speaker 2: with the tools and the reaci I had. So are
- 29:07Speaker 2: there big things that I would regret, Sure, But I
- 29:11Speaker 2: think the things that other people regret might not be
- 29:15Speaker 2: my regrets. It's personal, right, Absolutely, it's personal.
- 29:18Speaker 4: We all on our own journey.
- 29:19Speaker 2: Do I regret that one hundred and sixty five dollars
- 29:21Speaker 2: tailor charge. Absolutely, I'm still embarrassed by it, but that's okay.
- 29:26Speaker 4: You come to me next time I chop it off.
- 29:27Speaker 2: See, I feel like the dress would look better just hacked.
- 29:30Speaker 4: At this point, it looks cool, But now what.
- 29:33Speaker 2: Am I going to go do? Pick it up and
- 29:34Speaker 2: then wear it and just always be annoyed by it.
- 29:37Speaker 2: I don't know how this is going to pan out.
- 29:38Speaker 4: No money comes and goes.
- 29:40Speaker 2: You say that. Now, I do have my own questions,
- 29:44Speaker 2: but you've got your own questions. I'm ready.
- 29:45Speaker 4: They're not educational, they're not money.
- 29:47Speaker 2: I feelated if you're asking them, I'm scared, but also
- 29:51Speaker 2: probably the community of thinking them as well. So what
- 29:53Speaker 2: are they?
- 29:54Speaker 4: Okay, And you don't have to answer it.
- 29:55Speaker 2: It is I like how you're prefacing it. But also
- 29:57Speaker 2: this is an AMA and I'm great.
- 30:00Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to know what your first email address?
- 30:02Speaker 2: Okay, it was pink Cotton Candy underscore xx at hotmail
- 30:05Speaker 2: dot com.
- 30:06Speaker 4: Oh that's not too bad. Actually, if you still had.
- 30:08Speaker 2: That, that makes it. I don't I mean you could
- 30:10Speaker 2: email it. I don't know the log in. Yeah, like,
- 30:14Speaker 2: I don't know the password. I don't even know how
- 30:16Speaker 2: to recover that. But yeah, pink Cotton Candy underscore xx and.
- 30:20Speaker 4: That was candy. Why I don't know that really paints
- 30:23Speaker 4: a picture of your teenage self.
- 30:25Speaker 2: Yeah, it does, just it you don't want to know
- 30:27Speaker 2: her she was interesting.
- 30:29Speaker 4: Okay, the next one is really short and sweet. You
- 30:30Speaker 4: have any tattooes?
- 30:31Speaker 1: Oh?
- 30:31Speaker 2: Yes I do, I should, Yes, I do. I have
- 30:33Speaker 2: two tattoos. They're both on my face. They are my eyebrows.
- 30:36Speaker 2: That is it?
- 30:37Speaker 3: Oh?
- 30:38Speaker 2: Really? Yeah? Incredible? Yeah, I am too scared to get
- 30:44Speaker 2: a tattoo, not because of the pain, but because like
- 30:48Speaker 2: what if I changed my mind?
- 30:49Speaker 4: Yeah, that's fair.
- 30:50Speaker 2: I changed my mind all the time. Like I am
- 30:53Speaker 2: so noncommittal, like I love the idea of a tattoo,
- 30:57Speaker 2: but also like, oh, I don't know where i'd put it.
- 31:00Speaker 2: How do you even pick where you put your first tattoo?
- 31:02Speaker 2: And then I'm a creature of like balance, so like
- 31:05Speaker 2: if I get one on my left arm, do I
- 31:06Speaker 2: have to get one to match all my right arm?
- 31:08Speaker 1: Like?
- 31:08Speaker 2: Oh the anxiety?
- 31:10Speaker 4: My first one was on my bum cheek. Maybe I
- 31:11Speaker 4: need to get on the other one now maybe? Okay?
- 31:13Speaker 2: And then if I had a tattoo, what do you
- 31:15Speaker 2: think it would have been if you had a tattoo? Yeah,
- 31:18Speaker 2: that wasn't my eyebrows. Wasn't your eyebrows even count? I
- 31:22Speaker 2: don't know, I think they count.
- 31:23Speaker 4: Okay, I think it's really really cool okay, so I
- 31:26Speaker 4: would think you would get.
- 31:29Speaker 2: You think I would have a tramp stamp. Don't you
- 31:31Speaker 2: use like an angel or something?
- 31:33Speaker 4: I think juicy just above your butt crack.
- 31:37Speaker 2: Oh, I will put that in the suggestions box.
- 31:42Speaker 4: Thank you if you could actually get that done.
- 31:45Speaker 2: Do you know what again, suggestions box will come back
- 31:47Speaker 2: to it perfect.
- 31:49Speaker 4: I just really quickly want to know your favorite color.
- 31:50Speaker 2: My favorite color?
- 31:52Speaker 4: No black, no blue, no, I actually can't think of
- 31:58Speaker 4: a single other color.
- 32:00Speaker 2: Like orange.
- 32:01Speaker 4: Oh, she's an orange girl.
- 32:02Speaker 2: I really like orange, like but like more erring on
- 32:04Speaker 2: the side of like the yellow orange, like you know
- 32:06Speaker 2: that like verve clicko orange, like that champagne color. I
- 32:10Speaker 2: just feel like that is like so happy, just a
- 32:14Speaker 2: happy color like pink. Yeah, cool, Like I like pink,
- 32:17Speaker 2: it's the brand colors. But like you just look at
- 32:20Speaker 2: like a bright orange yellow and you go, that's happy.
- 32:22Speaker 2: I like, yeah, that's my favorite.
- 32:24Speaker 4: Yeah okay, And then this one is not for me.
- 32:27Speaker 4: We're back on the money.
- 32:28Speaker 2: So we've gone from email addresses back to money questions.
- 32:30Speaker 2: I like it.
- 32:31Speaker 4: Okay, So what's yours and Steve's next financial goal and
- 32:35Speaker 4: what is a financial decision you'll make outside the norm
- 32:38Speaker 4: in the next few months.
- 32:39Speaker 2: Outside the norm. Okay, I feel like those are two
- 32:42Speaker 2: different questions. So what is our next financial goal? So
- 32:48Speaker 2: full clarity, we currently have two mortgages and we would
- 32:53Speaker 2: like to extinguish one of those mortgages because the idea
- 32:56Speaker 2: of being in seven figures of debt is really ANXI inducing.
- 33:00Speaker 2: I really don't like it. So we are trying to
- 33:03Speaker 2: smash down one of those. We don't have any other
- 33:06Speaker 2: big spends. I think that we've been through that season
- 33:09Speaker 2: in our lives, like we have gotten married. That was
- 33:11Speaker 2: a big one. We bought our first home. We were
- 33:15Speaker 2: lucky enough to have enough equity in our first home
- 33:17Speaker 2: to buy our second property. So now I think it's
- 33:20Speaker 2: about settling down. I mean, I know that we want
- 33:23Speaker 2: to go on some more family holidays, but we went
- 33:25Speaker 2: on a big europe trip and so now we're kind
- 33:28Speaker 2: of like, oh, like I don't really want to do that.
- 33:30Speaker 2: I want to do it again, but like, financially, it's
- 33:32Speaker 2: just to us not a responsible use of our funds.
- 33:36Speaker 2: And I also, being completely transparent, sold down a lot
- 33:39Speaker 2: of my share portfolio to buy back the rest of
- 33:44Speaker 2: Zella money. So you know, a lot of people have
- 33:46Speaker 2: probably seen that I am now the again sole owner.
- 33:50Speaker 2: I had a business partner for a period of time.
- 33:52Speaker 2: I don't I would really like to bump all of
- 33:54Speaker 2: those investing dollars back up because I sold them down
- 33:58Speaker 2: so that I could purchase a business partner out. And
- 34:00Speaker 2: that's fine, that makes sense, and I was very grateful
- 34:03Speaker 2: to be in a situation where I could do that.
- 34:05Speaker 2: But yeah, I would like to get our investments back
- 34:08Speaker 2: on track because they definitely took a hit. And then
- 34:11Speaker 2: what is a financial decision that will make outside the norm?
- 34:14Speaker 2: I don't know if we'll make a financial decision that's
- 34:16Speaker 2: super outside the norm. We are currently landscaping, is that
- 34:20Speaker 2: the right word? Like we're doing our front yard, and
- 34:22Speaker 2: we got some big quotes back that I didn't anticipate
- 34:27Speaker 2: to do that, Like they were between fifty and seventy
- 34:29Speaker 2: thousand dollars for a front yard, and I just thought
- 34:31Speaker 2: that was a lot of money. So we'll probably spend
- 34:34Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe forty thousand dollars on our front
- 34:36Speaker 2: yard because it needs a whole driveway, so it's not
- 34:38Speaker 2: just like landscaping, Like we actually need to move the
- 34:42Speaker 2: entrance to our house, which is quite Spano.
- 34:45Speaker 4: It's a big one.
- 34:46Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably a big expense that's coming up. But
- 34:49Speaker 2: we've also been talking about it because we bought that
- 34:51Speaker 2: house in twenty twenty, so this has been in the
- 34:53Speaker 2: works for the last four years.
- 34:55Speaker 4: I see.
- 34:55Speaker 2: So I don't want people thinking, oh, V just has
- 34:58Speaker 2: you know, cash sitting around, because I also think, following
- 35:01Speaker 2: onto that, that there is a very big misconception that
- 35:04Speaker 2: I earn heaps and heaps and heaps of money and
- 35:07Speaker 2: we are very comfortable. Please don't get me wrong, but
- 35:10Speaker 2: we also do budget and cash flow. And when I
- 35:13Speaker 2: say I love budgeting and cash flow, like I do
- 35:16Speaker 2: it for us every single month, like I'm on top
- 35:19Speaker 2: of that, and most of the income that she's on,
- 35:23Speaker 2: the money and Zella money make get reinvested back into
- 35:26Speaker 2: the business. And I want to be as transparent about
- 35:29Speaker 2: that at the same time as being a little bit
- 35:31Speaker 2: protective of that. Yeah, And the reason I want to
- 35:34Speaker 2: be protective of it is not because I'm embarrassed by it,
- 35:36Speaker 2: like in fact, my whole team know what I earn
- 35:38Speaker 2: and what I do, because I think being transparent is important.
- 35:41Speaker 2: But I am an outlier in this space. I'm not
- 35:46Speaker 2: employed by somebody. I control my income and I'm a
- 35:50Speaker 2: business owner of multiple businesses, So do I earn a
- 35:53Speaker 2: lot of money, yes, in comparison to what the average
- 35:56Speaker 2: income of an Australian is. I don't think that by
- 36:02Speaker 2: sharing my income with the community it actually helps you
- 36:06Speaker 2: or inspires you, because I'm not speaking most of the
- 36:08Speaker 2: time to other business owners where that's aspirational, and speaking
- 36:11Speaker 2: to people who are earning normal salaries who need me
- 36:15Speaker 2: to be an advocate, not somebody who's completely unrelatable, right,
- 36:18Speaker 2: And so my view on that is that it's not
- 36:22Speaker 2: constructive for the community to share that. But I have
- 36:25Speaker 2: shared how I budget, what I do, the templates like,
- 36:28Speaker 2: I will give you absolutely everything to be successful, and
- 36:32Speaker 2: I will be honest about you know where I can,
- 36:35Speaker 2: what I'm spending and what I'm earning. But I just
- 36:38Speaker 2: think that by sharing a number, it doesn't really give
- 36:43Speaker 2: you anything in exchange except for answering something pervy that
- 36:49Speaker 2: doesn't really contribute to the success of our community.
- 36:52Speaker 4: Sure completely agree?
- 36:53Speaker 2: Is that weird? No?
- 36:54Speaker 4: Not all, even though I am always curious about the
- 36:57Speaker 4: little nitty gritty details. Yeah, what's that doing? We don't
- 37:00Speaker 4: need it? I know if you hear that. That's the buzzer.
- 37:04Speaker 2: Oh we could edit one in in post if we could.
- 37:07Speaker 4: That would be lovely.
- 37:08Speaker 2: That was a nice buzzer.
- 37:09Speaker 4: What wow, that was allowed? Oh geez, really nostalgic. Time's
- 37:15Speaker 4: up for today's episode of Ask v Anything. We've battled
- 37:18Speaker 4: through your questions and we've all just won the grand prize.
- 37:20Speaker 4: Better financial knowledge? Is that? Better financial knowledge?
- 37:23Speaker 2: You do know my email address that I can't access
- 37:26Speaker 2: and we're in cotton Candy underscore xx if anybody would
- 37:30Speaker 2: like to slide into my emails which nobody.
- 37:32Speaker 4: Checks, and we need to go fund me for your
- 37:34Speaker 4: next tattoo.
- 37:35Speaker 2: That is true. That is true. We can again talk
- 37:38Speaker 2: about that at a later day.
- 37:40Speaker 4: Really, Okay, don't worry.
- 37:41Speaker 2: This is not the end of the game, isn't it.
- 37:44Speaker 2: Oh No, apparently we're waiting for the next one. So
- 37:48Speaker 2: I guess if you want to do more, AMAS, make
- 37:50Speaker 2: sure that you're checking in on our Instagram because that's
- 37:53Speaker 2: where we drop all of the callouts and the questions
- 37:55Speaker 2: for episodes like this. And also I get the opportunity
- 37:58Speaker 2: to rant about multi level much. Yeah, so that is
- 38:02Speaker 2: really fun. Anyway, this has been kind of fun. Yeah,
- 38:04Speaker 2: I don't hate it, we can do it again, but
- 38:07Speaker 2: till then, we'll see you on Friday for a Friday
- 38:09Speaker 2: episode and we hope that you have the best week.
- 38:11Speaker 4: Bye guys.
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