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Ep. 338 - Why You Keep Choosing People Who Don’t Choose You | Divorce Patterns & Self-Worth · Dear Divorce Diary: A Fresh Approach To Healing Grief & Building A Life Of Confidence After Divorce

• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: Hi, love.
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Dear Divorce Diary, the podcast helping divorcees go beyond talk therapy to process your grief, find the healing you crave, and build back your confidence.
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Don Wiggins, a therapist, coach, integrative healer, and divorcee.
• 1:11
  SPEAKER_00: Join me for a fresh approach to healing grief and building your confidence after divorce.
• 1:24
  SPEAKER_00: Darlings, one of our ladies sent us, it wasn't Instagram, what was it?
• 1:30
  SPEAKER_00: TikTok?
• 1:32
  SPEAKER_00: So much cool stuff on TikTok.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anyway, she sent us a TikTok this week about the need to feel chosen and feeling like feeling like you have to wait for someone to choose you, right?
• 1:43
  SPEAKER_00: Feeling so insecure and anxious that you don't have the power or capacity to choose who you want to be in your life or not in your life.
• 1:52
  SPEAKER_00: It's like you're constantly vying for someone to choose you.
• 1:56
  SPEAKER_00: She connected the dots that this need to feel chosen goes all the way back to her earliest days.
• 2:04
  SPEAKER_00: And she was able to start sort of mapping out uh what she observed in her family very early in life that laid the groundwork for feeling like she wasn't ever chosen or cherished or prioritized or the top of anybody's list.
• 2:19
  SPEAKER_00: But the ability to connect the dots to predate marriage and divorce is such a big deal because that's when we know that we're really dropping into those deeper layers and starting to shift the brain map so that it becomes impossible for you to attract the same type of relationship or same type of man.
• 2:39
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