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Ep. 338 - Why You Keep Choosing People Who Don’t Choose You | Divorce Patterns & Self-Worth
You don’t just “end up” in relationships where you’re not chosen.
You were trained for them.
In this VIP episode of Dear Divorce Diary, we unpack the deeply rooted pattern of waiting to be chosen—and why it doesn’t start in your marriage… it starts much earlier.
We’re talking about:
The childhood dynamics that quietly taught you to accept crumbs
How never being prioritized shapes who you choose (and tolerate)
Why “being chosen” feels safer than choosing for yourself
The nervous system fear that keeps you stuck in the same relationship patterns
How to start rebuilding your capacity to discern…
The skinny
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