Latest / Mortgage Marketing Radio / Ep #81: Tim Braheem on Going from Conversion to Connection
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- 1:17Mortgage Marketing Radio Brought to you by the Mortgage Marketing Institute,
- 1:22your number one source for truth in mortgage marketing.
- 1:34Hey listeners, Jeff Zimberg, your humble host for this session of Mortgage Marketing
- 1:38Radio.
- 1:39Hope you are well.
- 1:42And by saying that, I mean that.
- 1:45It's not too often I take time to hopefully connect with you and allow you to understand
- 1:52how much I appreciate you, the listener of the audience.
- 1:55You know, I just checked statistics my podcast statistics the other day and it showed
- 2:01me that we are averaging over 7,600 downloads a month right now and we've surpassed well
- 2:07over 50,000 total lifetime downloads.
- 2:11And all I can say is wow, I appreciate that.
- 2:14Thank you.
- 2:15This started as a labor of love.
- 2:16This started as a passion project as a way to bring ideas and inspiration and a road map
- 2:26and help a helping hand for those of us fellow mortgage loan originators out in the streets
- 2:34doing our best to hopefully slugging it out right to try and build a business around
- 2:39our life that we can truly enjoy.
- 2:43And so I just want to take a moment to acknowledge you and I'm thankful for that and grateful
- 2:46for you and perhaps I'm feeling a little bit extra connected to that because of my guest
- 2:50on this session of Mortgage Marketing Radio.
- 2:54It's hard to do an intro for this person.
- 2:56I'll have to say, so let's just get right into it.
- 2:59Shawi, my friend and mentor, especially guest Tim Brahim, many of you probably know of
- 3:05Tim.
- 3:06We're now at the various events and conferences, speaking and training and coaching, his new
- 3:12company, Performance Experts, which you'll hear a little bit about.
- 3:15But look, Tim Brahim is here as one of my favorite people, not just in the mortgage industry,
- 3:23but I think one of my favorite people just overall that I've had the, I guess the privilege
- 3:26of knowing on some level, you ever been around somebody, whether it's even directly in
- 3:33person or just by hearing them or seeing them somewhere and they make you feel better.
- 3:39They make you understand the truth about what's real.
- 3:43Well, I'm sorry if it sounds cheesy or whatever, but that's that's how I feel whenever I
- 3:48get a chance to see, listen here, speak with Tim Brahim because Tim Brahim for me is all
- 3:53about authenticity.
- 3:55And if you're looking for the roadmap in your business to have an authentic, be true
- 4:01to yourself business, one that you enjoy, one that's fun, one that you look forward
- 4:08to going to every day, one in which you get to interact with and engage and build really
- 4:14meaningful relationships and partnerships with both real estate agents and anybody else you
- 4:18would want to build those relationships with financial planners, CPAs, life insurance agents.
- 4:23I tell you, that's one of the key things that stands out for me whenever I have a chance
- 4:27to talk to Tim and listen to Tim is the ability to actually have that kind of business and
- 4:32get there.
- 4:33I mean, listen, that all sounds well and good, but don't get me wrong, Tim is also a wildly
- 4:39successful entrepreneur and business professional.
- 4:43I mean, the quick background around Tim because I know we've got some folks listening that
- 4:47may not be familiar with Tim because he got in the mortgage business in 1995 and some of
- 4:51you all were just wet behind the years then, right?
- 4:54So in 1995, after a couple of years as an originator, he decided to launch his own company,
- 5:00first-rate financial up in Ventura County, California, which quickly became one of the top
- 5:04mortgage brokerage companies in the industry in terms of annual production.
- 5:09From 1997 to 2004, Tim was consistently ranked among the top 50 loan officers in the
- 5:15country and in 2004, at his peak year in terms of units and volume, doing an astounding
- 5:22676 loans for over 236 million in volume.
- 5:27That at the time ranked him number 26 in the US out of 400,000 loan officers.
- 5:35And because of Tim's achievements for production as a mortgage originator, mortgage originator
- 5:41magazine inducted him into their Hall of Fame.
- 5:45About only seven loan officers have been ever inducted into the Hall of Fame, so that's
- 5:49a pretty significant accomplishment.
- 5:51So alone, the fact of doing 676 loans, and then to follow Tim's career out, he became
- 5:57the co-founder of Loan Toolbox, which was in its day one of the greatest online resources
- 6:01for training, tools, support, coaching to help us all get better and become more effective,
- 6:07more profitable mortgage originators.
- 6:10It had about 11,000 members and was ranked in the Inc. 500 list as one of the fastest growing
- 6:14companies in the country.
- 6:17I mean, the resume goes on, right?
- 6:19So nowadays, Tim is the CEO and founder of Performance Experts.
- 6:23He's the head coach over there and Tim is, once again, impacting lives, shaping people's
- 6:29futures, helping people to really live a life that they thought perhaps once was impossible.
- 6:38Live a life of intentionality and designing a life, as I said, that you really enjoy
- 6:44that has significance and impact in your family life, your personal life, but in your business
- 6:49as well.
- 6:50And man, it just feels good to be in that place.
- 6:53And Tim Bredeem is one of those few people that can help you get there.
- 6:57So the inspiration for having Tim on today was his presentation at the mortgage mastermind
- 7:02summit in Vegas, where he talked about focusing on connection versus conversion.
- 7:08And that's one of the themes we talk about here, but we talk about many, many other things
- 7:12as well, that is all related to, I think, if you're looking for that road map, the
- 7:18lamp light at your feet, that guide you along the way for how do you truly have a quote
- 7:25successful mortgage origination business, not just a business, but a career.
- 7:30And one that is obviously far beyond just transactional, but as I keep referring to one
- 7:34that dammit you love, right?
- 7:36And you have a good time doing, and you look forward to.
- 7:42And to this podcast, more than once, take notes, really listen to where Tim's coming
- 7:46from, because it's a place that not most people come from when when you usually hear people
- 7:51describing, you know, how to become a successful mortgage originator.
- 7:56So I am thrilled to bring Tim here, obviously, as you can tell, and I'm thrilled to hear
- 8:01your feedback on today's episode, obviously reach out and connect to Tim.
- 8:05His website links will be in the show notes, but if you want to learn more about Tim,
- 8:08you can go to performance-experts.com, he's actually got a new referral partner success
- 8:16system that you'll hear about on today's episode, and you can find that over on his website
- 8:20over there, which is a comprehensive online training system that teaches you Tim's step-by-step
- 8:26proven strategies to allow you to track real estate agents, financial planners, CPAs, etc.
- 8:33And so that's a really awesome system of deep dive with all kinds of videos and training
- 8:37and exercises and, you know, scripts and key points and stuff, so if you're inspired,
- 8:42check that out.
- 8:43Once again, the link will be in the show notes, performance-experts.com.
- 8:47That said, without further ado, please welcome my special guest, Tim Braheem.
- 8:52Let's get into this week's show.
- 8:54Hey Tim, welcome to the show.
- 8:56Hey, thanks for having me, Jeff, nice to be with you.
- 9:00It is nice to have you, I was going to say, finally, you wouldn't know that, but, you
- 9:05know, you've been on my radar for some time to be on the podcast, so I'm very grateful
- 9:10for it.
- 9:11And I know my listeners will be as well.
- 9:14And to kind of set up our conversation, like you and I talked to you the other day,
- 9:18in having witness thing you speak at Mastermind again for, I don't know, probably the third
- 9:22year in a row.
- 9:23And as I had said then, I'll say it now, always a highlight to hear you speak, because
- 9:30I think one of the things that stands out differently about you, well, I mean, one is
- 9:33that you're different, but, you know, and I think what I mean by that is your approach
- 9:36is different.
- 9:38Your thinking is different, and I don't know if you see that, not just, you know, I don't
- 9:43want to say specifically for Mastermind, but in the conversations you see happening out
- 9:47there in the mortgage space, there's a lot of people focused on, you know, transaction
- 9:52and conversion, and they seem to be very disorganized and not intentional about how they're building
- 10:01their business and going about their day.
- 10:04And to set you up on this, you know, that's what I see that you bring to the table differently,
- 10:09is that you are very clear and intentional and structured and actually have a plan.
- 10:16But you don't overlook the fact that we still have a job to do, and that is to insulate
- 10:20somebody, make an impact in somebody through being a partnership or closing alone, and
- 10:25then really building relationships.
- 10:26So, wanted to set that up and ask you, was it always like that for you?
- 10:31Yeah, thanks for that.
- 10:35You said a lot, and I have a lot to say in response, so, you know, mind, I'll go, I mean,
- 10:39because you just bring up so many important points in my mind, so thanks for a great introductory
- 10:44question.
- 10:45I do realize that I'm unusual, I guess, I mean, I'm not the typical teacher in the mortgage
- 10:51space just because I don't believe that it's just all about strategy and tactics.
- 10:56And some of it became apparent to me early in my career through errors and, you know,
- 11:04unsuccessful experiences that then were adjusted to in my plan and subsequently resulted
- 11:10in success.
- 11:11And then some of it has come, you know, post mortgage career as a coach and diving into
- 11:18my own interpersonal journey, and, you know, my own personal growth, and then looking
- 11:25at what I'm going through as a human being and going, ah, that's why this didn't work
- 11:29when I was a long officer, or, oh, wow, okay, I kind of fell into that, it worked because
- 11:33of this, but I didn't really realize it was working because of this.
- 11:36So, to give you an example, I guess, you know, is it about 1995 or something, you know,
- 11:43I had a pretty good income year for the first time in my career, I was like 28, 29 years
- 11:47old and, you know, made 400 grand or something and was, you know, I had been trying to get
- 11:53business from real estate agents and using all of the typical strategies we'll call it
- 11:58to get business from that, you know, cooperatively marketing with them and trying to, you know,
- 12:04conduct the, you know, going on that first appointment and clearly displaying my unique
- 12:10selling proposition and trying to get them to commit to being a partner of mine in these
- 12:13types of things.
- 12:14And I was running up against a lot of resistance and roadblocks and, and, and more importantly,
- 12:20it just didn't feel good, you know, like I'd leave and I was young and I had a chip on
- 12:24my shoulder and I'd be like, you know, that SOB, you know, like I make twice as much
- 12:29money than he does or, you know, and, and, and they're, and they're making me, you know,
- 12:33kiss their rear end and, like, and it just, none of it felt good.
- 12:36So I kind of went into a rebellion phase where for about three years I sought to prove
- 12:40that I didn't need realtors.
- 12:42So this was like 96, 97, 98, I really didn't pursue any and I got, you know, heavily into
- 12:47managing my database and became incredibly proficient at that.
- 12:50And I think I was doing that as well as anybody I knew at the time and was asked to speak on
- 12:55that early in my career, like from the Todd Duncan events.
- 12:58And then when I realized, because after 98, after the re-five boom ended 98, I mean,
- 13:04I got, I got locked right in the face, like I, I mean, I funded 311 loans in 98 and in
- 13:11June of 99, I was looking at funding three, you know, I mean, that's a huge drop, you
- 13:16know, and I was pretty freaked out.
- 13:17And I realized, I didn't have an insulated myself fully in the way that I wanted to, but
- 13:23I need to figure out a different way to go about this job because the way that I was
- 13:27going about it earlier in my career just, it didn't feel good.
- 13:30Like, I mean, I was, I was in some really dysfunctional relationships.
- 13:33And then I got beat up really, really good by some realtors that were very advantageous
- 13:38and that worked me hard and took advantage of me.
- 13:42So I realized that a paradigm shift needed to happen for me, which was I needed to stop
- 13:48chasing and start interviewing them for the opportunity to work with me.
- 13:54And not in a cocky way, but in a way to wear my energy when I would go into the appointment
- 13:59and need it to shift, because if I'm going into it with a bunch of insecurities and trying
- 14:03to close them and being strategic, they're going to have their guard up and I'm never going
- 14:08to get through to them.
- 14:09I mean, because that's what everybody else is doing, and I wanted to be unique, I wanted
- 14:12to be different.
- 14:13So I started to really practice kind of a, it was a strategy, but I, and I didn't really
- 14:19realize why it worked until more recently, but the uniqueness of my approach was to not
- 14:25really talk about me, which is just to go in and find out what they needed and to spend
- 14:30the first couple of times meeting with the person, just asking a lot of intelligent questions,
- 14:36really being a good listener and really understanding how I could serve them.
- 14:40And then coming back strategically with, here are the things that I could do for you
- 14:45based upon what I heard you say.
- 14:46And it really shifted a lot, because what ended up happening was I was able to subsequently
- 14:52vet out a lot of relationships that never took shape and I'm glad they didn't take shape
- 15:00because they weren't with my kind of people, my tribe of people, like there's only so
- 15:05many people out there that really are meant to, you know, to be worked with for our unique
- 15:09personalities.
- 15:10We're all different.
- 15:11And that was a part of the process was to be able to like purge out early, like the
- 15:16people that wouldn't be a good fit for me.
- 15:19It was more of a slow growth, so it wasn't like adding a realtor every week, you know,
- 15:23is adding like a realtor every three months as a result of this new way of doing things,
- 15:28but most importantly, I was adding people that I really loved hanging out with.
- 15:32And it felt so much more supportive of me and healthy and it got to the point where
- 15:38really everybody that I worked with as referral partners were my friends.
- 15:43Now that I looked back on it and what I spoke about in Vegas and truth be told like what
- 15:49I spoke on Vegas for anybody who was at that event, what I spoke about connection and
- 15:55the importance of connection and how that's what life is about and that's what gives
- 15:59meaning to our lives and that it's a very much a part of how we should be doing our business.
- 16:05I'm speaking as I always do Jeff, like one of it is like a little secret that I don't
- 16:09really tell anybody, but you know, I'm not the authority on the things that I speak
- 16:13about half the time.
- 16:14I'm actually speaking about things that I'm working really hard on right now in my life.
- 16:19So what I'm speaking on connection and how much it brings meaning to life, I'm really
- 16:25telling the audience what I'm aware of that I'm working on and that I need more of in
- 16:29my life.
- 16:30So the last 10 years from here, so there's been a journey of me letting my armor down,
- 16:37letting my guard down, being more vulnerable, being more real, allowing myself to be seen,
- 16:42not being in my head and being so strategic in my life and connecting with people on a
- 16:48deeper level.
- 16:49So like my relationship with my kids is way better than it ever has been, my relationship
- 16:53with my parents is way better than it ever has been and I have way more friends than I've
- 16:57ever had and all I know is I'm a happier person because I'm not so lonely.
- 17:03Like I mean, I have like some meaningful relationships in my life and then when I look
- 17:07back on it and then closing, I go, shit, that's what I was doing.
- 17:11Can I say shit?
- 17:12Your podcast by the way, if I turn this into the Howard Stern show, but I look, you could
- 17:19edit that out.
- 17:20But when I look back on it, I go, that's why it worked with realtors and that's why
- 17:23it worked with account financial planners.
- 17:25I didn't really realize what I was doing, but by not putting the full court press on them,
- 17:30by really taking an interest in who they were to evaluate whether they were somebody
- 17:33I wanted to work with, by really gaining some understanding of where they needed help
- 17:38and truly and honestly evaluating, am I the guy to help them?
- 17:42Just like, if your gig is, yeah, you can help me by paying for half my Zillow ads, I'm
- 17:47not your guy.
- 17:48I mean, that's not wrong for other people, but it's not right for me.
- 17:53So why not know that now and know that that's what's important to that person.
- 17:56I can't meet their needs.
- 17:57I'm going to pass, and I'm going to find connections with people that I truly enjoy
- 18:02working with.
- 18:03And my job is fun, and I'm going to be more successful because I'm going to be really
- 18:09supporting people that can then reward me for what I'm giving to them.
- 18:13So hopefully that kind of ties all that together, the presentation in my past.
- 18:18Yeah, it does.
- 18:19Very, very well.
- 18:20Thank you.
- 18:21And there's a lot you shared in there as well.
- 18:23Let me try and isolate a couple of things in there.
- 18:27In essence, are you saying then you're showing up to these, let's just take the example
- 18:31of the real term meetings.
- 18:32You're showing up with no agenda, per se, kind of a clean slate, and just want to show
- 18:37up and connect with this person and learn more and just find out who they are as a human
- 18:39being.
- 18:40Thank you.
- 18:41That's a great question.
- 18:42The agenda, there is an agenda, and in the agenda, or what we might want to refer
- 18:48to as intention.
- 18:49I mean, it's one and the same, I think.
- 18:54The intention is to see how it feels.
- 19:00Does this person feel like a good fit for me to work with?
- 19:04Do we have stuff in common?
- 19:07Can I really help them?
- 19:08Like that's the intention behind it.
- 19:09That's the biggest thing that I would want to impart upon anybody listening to this.
- 19:13So check this out.
- 19:14So the normal scenario in a nutshell is I'm strategically trying to figure out how
- 19:20to get them to give me a deal.
- 19:24Most originators, that's what they're going into it.
- 19:26If you look at, you peel the layers of the onion back, you get to the core.
- 19:29The intention behind it is a strategy to get them to give us a chance.
- 19:35So first of all, understand, for those of you that are listening that have that intention,
- 19:41that's really heavy.
- 19:42I mean, meaning like, you've got a lot of pressure on yourself now.
- 19:45You're putting a lot of stress on this appointment, and they feel it.
- 19:52So remember, we're all connected.
- 19:54I mean, everybody want to, I don't mean to get overly technical, but like science is proven
- 20:00that there's a connectedness amongst all of us, there's nothing to be.
- 20:03And there's a vibration.
- 20:04Changing energy.
- 20:05Wow.
- 20:06When they walk in and meet somebody.
- 20:07For sure.
- 20:08Yeah.
- 20:09So put yourself in their shoes.
- 20:10You're on the other end of it, right?
- 20:11And you've had this same appointment about 50 times where the person's going to come
- 20:16in over coffee and they're going to guns of blazing can try to convince you.
- 20:21Of course, you're going to put your guard up, right?
- 20:24I mean, you're not going to just sit there and be sold and have somebody try to convince
- 20:29you to give them a try.
- 20:31You're going to be defensive.
- 20:34And there's a ton of pressure on you because you have an intention to leave there with some
- 20:38kind of an agreement.
- 20:40And therefore, your energy is a little bit tough for them to feel and manage because you've
- 20:44got some intensity in you.
- 20:46I mean, that's kind of what's happening on an energy level and an exchange of connection
- 20:50level.
- 20:51It's the opposite, which is, I'm here to get to know this person.
- 20:56I'm here to find out if they feel like they're a good fit for me.
- 20:59I'm here to see how I can help them.
- 21:01Like how can I serve them?
- 21:02Like, when you really think about it, it's like, it's pretty offensive the way that I
- 21:07used to go about it.
- 21:08Like I used to go about it early in my career of, it was very selfish to like, I'm going
- 21:13to go on there and say all the right things to you to try to get you to give me a deal
- 21:17that will pay me three grand.
- 21:19That's an interesting message that I was sending to the other party versus I have no intention
- 21:27of convincing you or of anything, selling you on anything or even talking about myself
- 21:32for the first couple of appointments.
- 21:34My intention is only find out where you need help and determine if I can be the person
- 21:38that helps you.
- 21:39And after I've helped you, then maybe we could talk about doing some business together
- 21:43because the law of reciprocity kicks in and people like to give back to somebody who's
- 21:46given value to them.
- 21:49And it just really, it most importantly, Jeff, I think of anything that it did, was
- 21:55it changed my energy when I'd go have a cup of coffee or lunch with a realtor for the
- 21:59first or second time.
- 22:00So I wasn't going in with an expectation of getting something and therefore I was going
- 22:05in more myself, more relaxed, more at ease, more friendly, more curious.
- 22:10I was embodying all these qualities that we all possess in our personality that actually
- 22:14have people put their guard down and feel safe and then a foundation can be created for
- 22:20a connection.
- 22:21I mean, pardon the metaphor, the crudeness of the metaphor, but it would be like going
- 22:26on a first date and the other person feeling like you were saying all the right things to
- 22:32try to get them to sleep with you tonight.
- 22:34You know, like you'd be like, whoa, you're moving too fast here buddy and slow down and
- 22:39you'd be defensive, right?
- 22:41If they felt the opposite, which is this person is a nice person and they just want to get
- 22:45to know me and they're truly curious and interested in me, now you're going to feel more safe.
- 22:49You're going to put your guard down and now we can connect and we can see how that feels.
- 22:54And guess what?
- 22:55Those are the relationships that last forever because they have an actual foundation behind
- 22:58them.
- 22:59Like I mentioned, Greg King is very, who I coach, who's just a spectacular human being
- 23:03and I mean, it's no secret life, the successful amount you meet and he's just such a great person
- 23:07and they're like, he's got 16 very loyal realtors that give him 100% of their business
- 23:13and they fight for him, you know, he did 361 deals last year.
- 23:17And when I ask Greg, hey, you know, can you share with the group, you know, with the people
- 23:22in the L360 family, what you do, he's like, I don't really think I do anything special
- 23:26because he doesn't even realize that the uniqueness of him is that he doesn't sell himself.
- 23:32He doesn't try to convince anybody to work with him.
- 23:34He truly just gets to know them and then tries to help them and the rest just takes care
- 23:39of itself.
- 23:40And then he's got this army of people who love him because he cared about them first.
- 23:46So that's kind of the process that I'm offering up is an alternative process to what a lot
- 23:52of people do.
- 23:53Yeah, do you think that anybody can make the pivot to that style of engagement or is there
- 24:02some pre-work they might need to do or something?
- 24:04That's a great question.
- 24:07So one thing about me is that I don't necessarily always say things everybody likes to hear
- 24:13about it.
- 24:14But I want to be honest.
- 24:15I think so too.
- 24:16It's truth and mortgage marketing.
- 24:18So go at it.
- 24:19Good.
- 24:20Good.
- 24:21Well, because here's the thing.
- 24:22Some people don't have a likability factor.
- 24:23I mean, we've met those people and that's just their stuff.
- 24:28It doesn't make them a bad person.
- 24:29It doesn't mean that they're helpless or that they, you know, that they're not, that
- 24:33they're not worthy of being in the job or anything like that.
- 24:36It's just that some people have their stuff that they're bringing to the table, whatever
- 24:41it is, their life experiences that they're bringing to the table.
- 24:45They're not particularly welcoming.
- 24:48So can anybody make the pivot?
- 24:51Probably not everybody.
- 24:52But I do think that everybody can make an attempt.
- 24:56I mean, so let's, let's look at it like this.
- 25:00Let's remove all of the conjecture from the equation.
- 25:04Let's just talk about relationships that we have in our lives.
- 25:07All the meaningful relationships, your closest friend's job, they didn't happen by some
- 25:12strategy.
- 25:13Right?
- 25:14Like you didn't go into that first beer that you had with your buddy, you know, 15 years
- 25:19ago going, all right, how am I going to get this guy to like me?
- 25:22Right?
- 25:23I mean, it just happened organically.
- 25:24You showed up as you, they showed up with them, and it was a good fit.
- 25:30All I'm offering is that's fully available to all of us in business.
- 25:34And guess what?
- 25:35When it happens, business gets fun because then you're working with people that you really
- 25:39dig, you know, and that's why it's important to find out like I'm not bullshitting when
- 25:44I say like truly find out who they are and whether or not they're good fit for you.
- 25:50If they, you know, don't like sports and you're an avid sports fan, that doesn't mean
- 25:55that you don't want to work with them.
- 25:56It means that's just one thing you don't have as a connection point.
- 25:58I mean, we have to find some things that are common, you know, and then all of a sudden
- 26:03we, because people take care of people that they like, you know, when I talked to loan
- 26:08officers, I was talking to somebody earlier today, actually, who I'm interviewing for our
- 26:12coaching program, you know, one of the things that he was sharing to me is there's such
- 26:18in his opinion, there's such a lack of loyalty among realtors right now, like, you know,
- 26:22not a rumor loyal, the big blanket statement, it's like, well, I don't know if I believe
- 26:27that.
- 26:28Like, I mean, I think there are a lot of loyal people out there.
- 26:30I used to think like that.
- 26:31I used to think that they all realtors are, you know, you're as good as your last deal.
- 26:34And I realized, no, that's, that's my immaturity.
- 26:37Have I taken the time to let my guard down and take my sales hat off and connect with
- 26:44them?
- 26:45And if I take my time to find some people that are my tribe, you know, that are the
- 26:50my kind of people, and it may take a little bit more time, you might have to sift through
- 26:55twice as many realtors to find the right five or six, but I'll tell you this, if you have
- 27:00the right five or six, it's better than the wrong 15.
- 27:04Good points.
- 27:05You know, because the right five or six are going to give you more deals, they're going
- 27:09to fight for you, they're going to respect you, they're not going to call you at eight
- 27:13o'clock at night, they're going to, they're going to be fun to work with, you know, and,
- 27:18and they're going to probably account for as many deals as the wrong 10 to 15 who are
- 27:22going to, you know, give out three cards or refer every third deal to you.
- 27:27And then they're not going to work well within your system.
- 27:29It's just not even fun at that point.
- 27:31Yeah, you said a key phrase there a couple of times, you know, that they're going to fight
- 27:35for you.
- 27:36And, you know, especially in this market, right, the, the pressure to perform the, the
- 27:41competitiveness of more people chasing agents, that's I think becoming even more important,
- 27:46you know, technology, all these other companies kind of creeping in.
- 27:48It's like, how do I win that business?
- 27:50How do I, you know, become more referable?
- 27:52I think with, you know, one takeaway that I just want to highlight, I think everybody's
- 27:55hearing it is, yeah, it's the relationships, you know, it's the foundation, it's the connection
- 27:59of that.
- 28:00It's the level of rapport, trust, likeability that's going to allow you to win that larger
- 28:05share of the business.
- 28:06But also, I love what you said, just to reiterate, it's, you know, the agent's going to fight
- 28:10for you.
- 28:11And, you know, I think that's what you want in a transaction.
- 28:13Yeah.
- 28:14I mean, it was very amazing because I mean, I used to have realtors that give out three
- 28:17business cards and one of them was mine and they did that dance and I would say, hey,
- 28:22you know, don't give out mine at all then if you're not going to just get about to give
- 28:24out just mine.
- 28:25You know, I would get all of the cards every day and try to everything, you know?
- 28:29And then, like, when I tried this new approach, everything shifted.
- 28:33It was like, it wasn't, and never even had to deal with that anymore.
- 28:37I mean, it was I, I, I just was working with a bunch of friends who wasn't, all I needed
- 28:42to do was just maintain the friendship.
- 28:43I mean, just go out and play around a golf and go out and have dinner with, you know,
- 28:48my wife and their, their husband or their wife and every once in a while and just hang
- 28:53out and be thoughtful and write them a handwritten note every once in a while, let them know
- 28:57how much I appreciate them and I never had the two business cards thing anymore, three
- 29:00business cards thing.
- 29:01I mean, it was loyal because, because it was real.
- 29:04I guess that's really what it is.
- 29:06Now they think about it.
- 29:07It was loyal because it was real, you know, like it was a real relationship versus something
- 29:13that was transactionally obtained with strategy, which is very different.
- 29:17Okay.
- 29:18That's, I love that.
- 29:20That's a great setup in terms of, you know, the philosophy, if you will, and the mindset
- 29:23and the approach in terms of changing how you look at building relationships with realtors.
- 29:30And I know, so I've got this other voice in my head that's chirping now saying, okay,
- 29:34that's it.
- 29:35And Jeff, Tim, I buy into it.
- 29:37I like it.
- 29:38What I'm curious about is if you did or recommend doing any kind of, you know, advanced
- 29:43recon work, if you will, right, to identify the right agents in the local market.
- 29:48Do you know what I mean?
- 29:50Sure.
- 29:51Yeah.
- 29:52For sure.
- 29:53First of all, I don't want to compliment you.
- 29:54I mean, this is the first time I've ever been interviewed by you.
- 29:55But you're a really easy person to have this kind of a conversation with and your questions
- 29:58are organic and fluid.
- 29:59And it's getting me stimulated.
- 30:01Awesome.
- 30:02Thank you.
- 30:03Thanks for being a great interviewer.
- 30:05And I don't say that lightly at all.
- 30:07So yeah, I think that that's the advantage that the law and originator of today has versus
- 30:15my generation, right?
- 30:16Like you have access to so much more information that you can be doing your homework in advance.
- 30:20And I don't think, I think for some reason that I can't quite figure out a lot of law
- 30:24and originators want to like hide the fact that they did recon.
- 30:27I mean, I don't think you hide it.
- 30:28I think you own it.
- 30:29I mean, I think that you own it because of flattering.
- 30:32And I think you don't you position it like, you know, and I'm sitting down with a real
- 30:36estate agent.
- 30:37The first thing I'm going to say is, hey, I hope you don't mind that I did a little bit
- 30:39of homework and kind of checked out your Facebook page and, you know, I noticed that you like
- 30:44hiking, you know, and before we even talk about anything else, I just, I love hiking too.
- 30:49Like where are some of your favorite places to go for a hike?
- 30:51Start the conversation off there.
- 30:53You want to lower somebody's guard.
- 30:54I mean, they're, they're thinking, you're coming into the meeting and the first thing
- 30:58you're going to start pitching is your unique selling proposition.
- 31:00And we're going to close in 15 days and I'll make you guys a cash buyer and we're going
- 31:04to make you look good.
- 31:05You're going to get referrals.
- 31:06They've heard all that.
- 31:07Okay.
- 31:08So let's start off with a common denominator among the two of us.
- 31:13And guess what?
- 31:15If it never goes past that, it's okay.
- 31:18They're going to give you the second appointment because they're going to enjoy the first
- 31:22appointment.
- 31:23Your goal should be for the first appointment to be enjoyable for them.
- 31:27That's how you get the second appointment.
- 31:29The problem is, is the first appointment generally isn't that enjoyable because it's all
- 31:33about you.
- 31:35You're telling them about you.
- 31:36It's not about them.
- 31:38There's no care that's being put into it.
- 31:40And then they're like, oh, that felt greasy and I don't want to get together again versus,
- 31:45what if you just made it about them?
- 31:46I know that you had two kids that go to this school.
- 31:49My kids graduated from that school.
- 31:50How do you like it?
- 31:51What teachers do they have?
- 31:52Oh, my daughter had the same teachers.
- 31:53You're so cool.
- 31:54You know, whatever.
- 31:55You know, and for, you know what, half hours gone by and they don't really want it to
- 32:01end because it's been fun and refreshing for a change.
- 32:04And this is where I was talking to Danny Harani the other day.
- 32:08He's going to be in our next L360 group and those are listening that know him and he's
- 32:12such a bright guy.
- 32:13I mean, really honored to be working with him.
- 32:16And we were talking about this subject matter of the future is combining technology with
- 32:24high touch.
- 32:25So it's like, how do we marry it to like, like quick and lending tree and whatever, like
- 32:31they've got the high tech, you need to have that.
- 32:34Like you're going to need to be able to, especially with the price compression, all that,
- 32:37you're going to need to be able to process ones more efficiently.
- 32:39You're going to need to be able to leverage technology.
- 32:41But what they don't have and will never have is the high touch piece.
- 32:45And that's the part that I don't think ever really goes away because now it may shrink
- 32:50the size of the industry because maybe there will be some percentage of the audience that
- 32:55won't care about that.
- 32:56But I still think there will always be a market for the people that want to actually deal with
- 33:03a competent human being that cares that they feel like they've developed a relationship
- 33:07with.
- 33:08It's educated them on what they need to be choosing in the process.
- 33:12And it is going to really display some proactive kindness and customer service.
- 33:16And you combine that with technology and I think that's the formula going forward that
- 33:19we're going to need to be adopting to be successful.
- 33:21But absolutely doing the homework, the reconnaissance.
- 33:24I mean, if you've got a real estate agent that you're thinking about pursuing, they closed
- 33:2723 transactions last year and 22 more listings.
- 33:31I don't know.
- 33:32Maybe you don't get together with that one.
- 33:33Maybe they're not controlling the business.
- 33:35Maybe you want to work with, if you look at somebody who's been in the business two years
- 33:40but closed 17 buyers sides last year and they're like, well, they're a hockey stick.
- 33:45I mean, that person's got a lot of growth potential, right?
- 33:47I mean, I do think you have to be intelligent in terms of who you target and pursue for
- 33:52sure.
- 33:53Absolutely.
- 33:54And I bring that up just because, you know, it's funny when I get on these interviews
- 33:57like this and probably similar for you, you know, in coaching that you're involved in
- 34:00things come out of that and then you're interviewed by other people.
- 34:04And so when you and I touch base the other day, it was really fresh for me because I just
- 34:07had a couple of coaching calls where we had this kind of conversation.
- 34:10I was on the phone with a Sloan officer and he told me that one out of five agents that
- 34:14he met with sent him a deal, only one out of five, right?
- 34:18And I thought to myself, hmm, I'm talking to Tim Bohem today, I'd be curious to hear,
- 34:22right?
- 34:23Let's talk about where he thinks the problem lies within that.
- 34:26And I think we kind of touched on the first half, which is, and I already know he told
- 34:30me, you know, to use his words, he says, he went in swinging hard.
- 34:34It's really instructive right there.
- 34:38Yeah.
- 34:39Pretty self-aware.
- 34:40I mean, at least he knows that I actually commend whoever that person was for two things.
- 34:44Number one is, having the self-awareness that he was swinging hard because a lot of people
- 34:48don't realize that too knowing that he only closed one out of five.
- 34:51I think just knowing your numbers is important.
- 34:54And if I can comment on what I would want to ask that person, it would be, have you gone
- 34:58back to the four that didn't or the four out of every five that don't and honestly ask
- 35:03them for help?
- 35:04Say, could you do me a favor?
- 35:06I know that you're busy, but I just would appreciate a really direct, candid, honest response.
- 35:12We met, you chose to not send business to me.
- 35:15I accept that and I appreciate your time.
- 35:17Would you mind sharing with me why you chose to not send business to me?
- 35:21Wow.
- 35:22Because what we want to do is we want to isolate, and I would do that, I used to do this
- 35:27with borrowers a lot.
- 35:28Like when a borrower wouldn't go with me, I'd ask them like, I'm curious, I mean, I'm
- 35:33respect the fact you've chosen to work elsewhere, why did you not go with me?
- 35:36And I would learn a lot, right?
- 35:38So then that gives me the reconnaissance info as to what I need to work on in my presentation.
- 35:43So like, let's say that three out of every four of these realtors say, well, because you
- 35:46know what, you're just your energy was super aggressive, and I felt like you were just,
- 35:49you know, trying to close me so hard, that would be really valuable to know, right?
- 35:53And so you can pull back a little and be more measured in your approach.
- 35:56But I think that that's where, you know, because it's so personal, right?
- 36:00Like, you know, when somebody says no to us, it hurts.
- 36:06And we take it kind of personally, or if they don't return our calls after the first
- 36:09appointment, and we start making up stories about, you know, and like us, or whatever,
- 36:14and then we get like resentful, and we just stop calling them, it's a missed opportunity
- 36:18to learn where you need to grow.
- 36:21Absolutely.
- 36:22Okay.
- 36:23Cool.
- 36:24Just because I know we're limited for time, I want to kind of step up if you will, the
- 36:29speed of questioning, if that's okay, little rapid fire session work, right?
- 36:34Yep.
- 36:35And again, this is all coming out of the real world, you know, conversations I'm having
- 36:37with people.
- 36:38Okay.
- 36:39Another loan officer, two out of ten deals lost.
- 36:42I only closed two out of ten deals.
- 36:45I asked them why, lost because of a quarter percent difference in rate.
- 36:49Now knowing what I know about you in terms of like I talked about in the intro, right,
- 36:52being very intentional in designing your customer experience, I'd like to present that to
- 36:57you, perhaps.
- 36:58And I know it's probably a little bit unfair, but maybe a coachable moment, a teaching
- 37:01opportunity.
- 37:02If that loan officer is listening, two out of ten deals, why did you lose them his answer?
- 37:07It came down to they left me over a quarter difference in rate.
- 37:09What do you think's missing based on that limited info you have?
- 37:12What do you think's missing from that loan officer's plan?
- 37:15It's not possible, obviously, for me to answer this question directly because I need to
- 37:20ask more information from this individual, but here's the interesting thing.
- 37:24In our performance accelerator coaching program on a quarterly basis, I do a master mining
- 37:29call with all the loan officers who are being coached in that program and there's really
- 37:33big time originators in that program and I had to call with them yesterday.
- 37:37So this subject matter was brought up more than once, which was I'm losing because of
- 37:42margin compression and I was able to ask these people detailed questions on this video
- 37:47conference call about what was transpiring.
- 37:50What I would tell you to everyone listening first of all is, if it's an eighth in rate,
- 37:55I believe that you can always work with an eighth in rate.
- 37:58You can always get the deal over an eighth if you bring true value and you have to display
- 38:03that value and your presentation at point of sale is your lifeblood of your success in
- 38:09this business and you always have to be evolving and growing and looking how to make it
- 38:13better.
- 38:14And I can give some examples if you want me to as to how to make it better.
- 38:16When you get to a quarter, you're going to have some attrition.
- 38:19There's no question.
- 38:20There's going to be people that are just going to be that rate sensitive to work no matter
- 38:24what value you bring, a quarter is a quarter and it could add up to a significant amount
- 38:29of money for most people.
- 38:30You get to three eighths, which some people are dealing with on the jumbo loans or the
- 38:33competing with loans and chasing all that, that even becomes more difficult.
- 38:37So there are certain things, the first thing, the first and easiest thing when you have
- 38:42a rate differentiation is to make sure you're educating the consumer on what the true
- 38:48dollars are that we're talking about in terms of the cost.
- 38:51So if they're saying, look, this person's a quarter of a percent better and that's $69
- 38:56a month less.
- 38:58Okay, hold on.
- 38:59It's actually $38 a month less or whatever the calculation is because of the after tax.
- 39:06So you're going to make sure that you're doing your job and you're fiscally literate enough
- 39:12to show somebody that the real difference is this, not what you're calculating, which
- 39:18is X per year, in this case, say $420 or something.
- 39:23And then circling back to the things that you've already hopefully articulated to them
- 39:29that you're bringing to the relationship that no one else is.
- 39:33So that's where my is an example and then I'll stop and if you want more, I'll give you
- 39:38more, but I wanted you wanted this to be rapid fire.
- 39:41So I don't want to go too long.
- 39:42But that's where always, always early in the conversation, articulating for the client
- 39:48that my job really just begins when you're first one closes with me because from there
- 39:52it's my job to assist you in managing where just the evidence that you'll ever take
- 39:55on your life.
- 39:56Most people that do what I do for living just provide the debt and walk away, I don't
- 39:59make that mistake.
- 40:00I'm going to be proactively looking for opportunities to add to your financial wealth over time.
- 40:06These would be doing refinances and when the market provides those opportunities, you're
- 40:11not going to have to pick up the phone call me and I'm going to be looking for those opportunities
- 40:14for you.
- 40:15I'm going to be introducing other people in the financial services sector that can save
- 40:19you money.
- 40:20If you're referring out business to real to accountants and financial planners, you're
- 40:24making up more than the $48 a month or whatever it is in some cases.
- 40:29If you are taking a proactive, complete service approach to winning at point and sale, I'll
- 40:36stop there.
- 40:37I mean, there's so much more and I mean, you can probably spend 15 more minutes on it,
- 40:39but that's a short answer.
- 40:41I mean, I'd have to analyze each individual's scenarios to what they're doing at point
- 40:45and sale.
- 40:47Add these three things, the equation, and I think you could start overcoming a quarter
- 40:50much more easily than you are now.
- 40:52Well, first of all, thanks for your honesty for just acknowledging that there is some
- 40:57nutrition at a quarter percent because there are people out there that the 800 FICO
- 41:02engineer out of Silicon Valley where he knows he can get it anywhere.
- 41:07Like you said, they got a lot of deposits at a bank and so that quarter rate, depending
- 41:11on loan, that could add up to a lot.
- 41:13I think you hit the nail on the head with what I wanted to get across to the listeners
- 41:16is more often than not when I hear somebody losing two out of 10 deals based on a quarter
- 41:20rate.
- 41:21It just continues to surprise me, I guess, that even today that too many loan officers
- 41:27are not, you know, to use that word again, intentional or aren't architecting, you know,
- 41:32from the moment of hello, right?
- 41:34This is Jeff at XYZ Mortgage.
- 41:35They're not architecting a process or a questioning dialogue or anything that's really differentiating
- 41:41them at all.
- 41:42They're just defaulting to rate.
- 41:44But still, even though we've been banging this drum for a long time, I couldn't agree
- 41:48with you more, man.
- 41:49I mean, it's like, I've always felt like, you know, having a system for selling yourself
- 41:54or what I, the metaphor that I use is, you know, what is the mechanism for improving
- 41:58your batting average, you know, if you use a baseball metaphor, I mean, you get so
- 42:01many at bats, the people that are most successful in the ones that have the highest batting
- 42:05average and the people that have the highest batting average are the ones that are presenting
- 42:09true value in a proactive way.
- 42:11Every time at point of sale a minute that they talk to the person, like, if you get off
- 42:15the phone with me after the first phone call and you've not experienced unprecedented value
- 42:20for me, shame on me, like, I mean, that's my opportunity to do it, like, right there,
- 42:26you know, and a lot of long originators right now are like, they kind of have pond off
- 42:31that initial phone call to like an undergrad, you know, a loan officer assistant who takes
- 42:37that initial lead call and gathers the information, so I get it because, you know, two, three
- 42:42years ago, you had so many refusals that you had to do that to just be able to facilitate
- 42:45all the business.
- 42:46They get to try to reevaluate that because ultimately at the end of the day, you know,
- 42:51you're probably the best salesperson on your team, at least you should be, and I don't
- 42:56know that I'd be taking any chances with letting an understudy handle that initial lead
- 43:01call.
- 43:02You got one shot to make a first impression.
- 43:03If you're not bringing clear, you know, unquestionable value and then they get on the phone with
- 43:10somebody else, you're probably, you're batting average is going to go way down.
- 43:12Right on.
- 43:13Right on.
- 43:14Okay.
- 43:15Cool.
- 43:16Thank you.
- 43:17Great answer.
- 43:18What's your take on loan officers?
- 43:20I mean, I kind of know why I'm hesitating is I already kind of know the answer, but I've
- 43:24never asked you this question, so, you know, loan officers who say, hey, I don't want
- 43:28to rely on agents for all of my business, and I want to, right, be more self-sourced.
- 43:34I'm sure you hear that with.
- 43:36How do you respond to that?
- 43:37Well, I mean, I get it.
- 43:39And I agree.
- 43:40I think that realtors should be a, you know, a source of business, but I don't know
- 43:45you should be even your primary source.
- 43:47I think that you're putting too many eggs in one basket, especially going forward.
- 43:50I think realtors are having less and less control of the transaction.
- 43:53I think the most underutilized or under accessed part of the business is your past customer
- 43:59database.
- 44:00It starts with every loan that you do for somebody.
- 44:03You have an opportunity for 45 to 60 days to really blow somebody away.
- 44:07That's why, you know, I've always, you know, preached the perfect loan process and, and
- 44:12during that period to get introductions to other people in their sphere of influence is
- 44:17very, very important.
- 44:18But then after the deal closes, staying in touch with them in meaningful ways, not just
- 44:23putting them on a drip campaign that's sale and that they know that, you know, you're
- 44:27just sending out, but really connecting with them in a personal way as much as you possibly
- 44:31can.
- 44:32So when it does come time for them to have another need or know if somebody who has
- 44:35need, they're going to think of you because they feel like they owe it to you because
- 44:39you've been great about staying connected with them.
- 44:42I also feel like, you know, there's other pillars of influence such as accountants and
- 44:46financial planners that are good to approach.
- 44:48But lastly, you know, in our master's program in April, you know, in that group, we've
- 44:54got some of the top originators in the country.
- 44:56I mean, that are in that group and it's a real great thank-kank of ideas.
- 45:00That was the centralized focus and we're going to be reconvening in DC in October and
- 45:05continuing on from there, which is how do we get to the consumer direct?
- 45:09How do we become less reliant upon anyone?
- 45:13And you know, we'll be taking a look at that in great depth with Facebook marketing and
- 45:18other types of social media endeavors.
- 45:21Michael Shane, who is an amazing loan originator out of Seattle, Washington, he's been the top
- 45:27producing agent in that marketplace for years now.
- 45:30You know, he generates between 350 and 500 leads a month on his own and 60% of the business
- 45:40is purchased now.
- 45:41And they do it.
- 45:42They have a lot of money and time is estimated, but they do it with SEO.
- 45:46So you know, whether it be SEO or, you know, really querying and targeting with your Facebook
- 45:52advertising, I would be doing that right now.
- 45:55If I was an originator, I would be allocating a certain percentage of my financial resources
- 46:01and time into consumer direct.
- 46:04Another percentage in my existing client database and another percentage into, you know, the
- 46:08referral partners, if you will, which are very important pillars.
- 46:11That's not going away.
- 46:12I mean, realtors still control the deal, but I do think that we need to diversify as my
- 46:17point.
- 46:18We're going to the Facebook point and you know, investing some time and money in that.
- 46:22Would you be of the type that would be wanting to learn and understand the mechanisms of
- 46:28succeeding with Facebook as yourself or just want to, you know, outsource and hire?
- 46:32Yeah, you're asking the wrong guy because I avoid technology like it's my polio.
- 46:38I'm not a tech guy very much.
- 46:42Like as an example with our coaching company, Scott Bruton, who's a coach with our company
- 46:45is a super efficient, you know, social media tech guy and he does all of that for us,
- 46:50right?
- 46:51Because that's his joy and he is genius and I let him run with it.
- 46:55It just depends who you are.
- 46:56Like if you're good at that stuff and you enjoy that stuff, yeah, you can insource it.
- 47:01And if you don't, then you should outsource it.
- 47:03However, I just want to say this about outsourcing.
- 47:06Sometimes I'm seeing too much of Jeff, when it comes to the peep, it's so clear to me
- 47:10when somebody's outsourcing their social media marketing because it's, it's not authentic.
- 47:17There's nothing to it that's human.
- 47:19It's like, there's a coach in our industry who I follow on Instagram and I've seen this
- 47:23individual's post now the last three weeks and this person is clearly outsource their social
- 47:28media and their posts are, they're just not good in my opinion.
- 47:32There's nothing about them that are, that are real, you know, it's just like, oh, this
- 47:37is just like some, some, some boilerplate thing that probably a hundred other business professionals
- 47:43that are using the same social media consultants are sending out to their friendship base, right?
- 47:47Like I mean, that's, I think, waste of money.
- 47:49I think you have to have some uniqueness, especially the more and more that people go in
- 47:54that direction.
- 47:55And I think that loan originators need to get over themselves, sorry for being so blunt
- 47:59and really start embracing video.
- 48:01Yes.
- 48:02I hear far too much of, oh, I don't like to be on camera and I don't like, like, you
- 48:08know what, it's too bad.
- 48:09I mean, it's where, it's where things are headed.
- 48:12Like, if you want to connect with people, there's no more powerful tools in video and getting
- 48:16good at it's really important.
- 48:18And it's not, when I coach a lot of my loan originators, like one on one, on, will break
- 48:24down their videos that they're creating and it's the way you frame yourself off, are
- 48:28you looking directly into the lens so people feel like you're talking directly to them?
- 48:33Are you overly scripted so then you feel, it feels like you're reading something and
- 48:37you, I can't really feel you and you're authenticity.
- 48:39I mean, there's, and then there's a whole bunch of other analytics around what videos
- 48:45pull and what videos don't pull.
- 48:47And closing what I'll say is that what statistically is proven when you look at all the analytics
- 48:53from the social media experts is that what people look at and what people comment on
- 48:58and what people like and, and most importantly, what people forward are the things that
- 49:04mean something to them, not the things that mean something to you.
- 49:09So sorry, but the picture of you with your arm around the husband and wife at the closing
- 49:13table saying we close another loan in 17 days, they don't care about that.
- 49:18They don't, they care about, everybody you're sending out to that to just cruises right
- 49:22on through that.
- 49:23It means nothing to them.
- 49:24What they care about are things that are meaningful to them.
- 49:27It's like quotes, like personal development quotes, spiritual quotes.
- 49:31That's why they pull.
- 49:32That's why funny videos pull people forward that stuff because it made them laugh and it
- 49:37meant something to them.
- 49:38That's why when you ask those questions and them as silly as they could be, like what's
- 49:43your favorite color that you'll see on Facebook, believe it or not, that's just statistically
- 49:47pulls because you're engaging the person and you're getting them to interact with you.
- 49:53Those are the things that statistically have traction versus, you know, please welcome
- 49:59our new employee who's our office manager, you know, people that they don't like that
- 50:03stuff.
- 50:04No, absolutely.
- 50:06You bring up a great point there and I agree with you on video, man, that's a whole
- 50:08another session, you know, there and of itself, as you may know, you know, I teach branding
- 50:14classes for real estate agents and I bring up video a lot and just the other day I put
- 50:18Bellevue Washington, you know, bring it up again.
- 50:20How many people are doing video in a room of 50 people?
- 50:23Like, you know, four, five, six, seven hands go up, right?
- 50:25And you're like, I don't understand.
- 50:27You're in a business that requires you to get out in front of people, right?
- 50:30Outside of your comfort zone.
- 50:32And to your point about content and what's shareable, this is the type of content that, you know,
- 50:36I think this aligns with what you said, as I tell agents, your content has to be three
- 50:39different types, educational, entertaining and convincing, three different types.
- 50:43And that's, you know, that's what's going to get people engaged.
- 50:47And so, you know, the educational stuff for those loan officers that are listening, that
- 50:50could be things like market updates or here's the market forecast for your county, et
- 50:54cetera, you know, your take on the latest Fed funds, high grade, you know, rate hike and
- 50:59all that stuff.
- 51:00And then, you know, have a personality, right?
- 51:01Yeah, share some other funny videos, but it's okay, right?
- 51:03You just be yourself.
- 51:04I guess that's the big takeaway.
- 51:06That's what I always tell them.
- 51:07Just be yourself, you know?
- 51:08I agree with you.
- 51:09And the point to the point that you make, the reason that like, here's what the market
- 51:14trends are doing work is because it means something to them.
- 51:19Once again, like they own a home, and of course, I'm going to look at that because I want
- 51:23to know it has my home gone up in value.
- 51:24See, that's something that's, again, falls into the category of the recipient likes it.
- 51:30You know, not you think that this is what you need to be sending.
- 51:35Think about them and what they want of you and send them that.
- 51:38That's what buys brain cells and has you top of mind consciousness.
- 51:41Right on.
- 51:42Amen to that.
- 51:43All right, my friend, this has been a wonderful education and a great sharing.
- 51:48Thank you so much.
- 51:49I appreciate your time for being here before we wrap up.
- 51:53You bet, man.
- 51:54This is a great gift to my audience.
- 51:55So it was great to finally, you know, have you share yourself with our listeners.
- 52:01Tell us what you're doing.
- 52:02What are you working on that you're excited about?
- 52:04I know you and I talked before.
- 52:06There's kind of a new project or something you've gotten the worst would love to share
- 52:08that with my listeners.
- 52:09Yeah, thank you.
- 52:10So obviously, I have my coaching company, performance experts coaching, and if you want to find
- 52:17out more about our coaching programs, you can just, you can, you can go to our website.
- 52:21I'll give you that in a second.
- 52:22But the other thing that I have for the first time, I mean, I wrote the business plan
- 52:27in 2001 for loan toolbox and I never would have thought, you know, 17 years later that
- 52:33I would create another product.
- 52:34I mean, this is the first product that I've created in 17 years.
- 52:37But I felt that there was such a, I had so much passion.
- 52:40Maybe you felt it in this interview around this whole connection thing and the need to
- 52:44be able to understand how to stay connected, deeply connected with our clients to where
- 52:51they come back and they were for business to us and how to cultivate true meaningful, solidified
- 52:56relationships with referral partners.
- 52:59And I therefore have created a whole system for that.
- 53:02It's called the complete referral partner success system.
- 53:05It takes you through step by step how to develop relationships with realtors, accountants,
- 53:12financial planners, and insurance agents.
- 53:13It also takes you through step by step how to effectively do an annual financial review
- 53:18with your client to generate business because there's so many missed opportunities.
- 53:23People just think that it's all about trying to get a refi and that's only one tenth of
- 53:28the opportunity.
- 53:29There are literally ten opportunities in every annual financial review that you do.
- 53:33There's over three hours of video broken down into, you know, 15-minute segments.
- 53:38There are 14 stages to the system.
- 53:41It involves quizzes so you can make sure you're retaining and you have competency.
- 53:46It involves all of the transcripts of all the scripts that I give you, what to say, including
- 53:51questions that you should be asking when you meet for a cup of coffee for the first time
- 53:55of the potential referral partner.
- 53:57It's very comprehensive and I'm super proud of it.
- 54:00My team did most of the work.
- 54:02I created the content but they're the ones who created the dynamic delivery of the content
- 54:06that I think is really the secret sauce behind it.
- 54:09I'm super proud of them.
- 54:12You can find out more about it very easily by going to www.performance-experts.net.
- 54:21So performance-don't forget the dash-experts.net and that will take you right to the landing
- 54:26page of the complete referral partner success system.
- 54:30There's also access to a private Facebook community that we monitor and where you'll
- 54:35be networking with other people that have purchased the system, so that's another nice
- 54:39thing the community component to it.
- 54:42And yeah, I think that anybody that really wants to, I mean the price is very inexpensive.
- 54:48It's $799 one time.
- 54:51You don't have to pay an annual fee for it or anything.
- 54:53I mean, look, if you get one real-to-relationship, it's worth thousands of dollars so it should
- 54:59pay for itself as long as you implement it.
- 55:01I'm excited about it and would love to be teaching you if it's something that you're
- 55:05interested in.
- 55:06That's awesome.
- 55:07So I want to make sure, because I'm going to put all these links in the show notes.
- 55:09The website is performance-experts.net.
- 55:12Yeah, that's the website for the product and the website for our company is performance-experts.com.
- 55:18Oh, okay.
- 55:19So I'll put both in there for those who want to learn more about your company and the
- 55:26leadership 360 coaching.
- 55:27That's at performance-experts.com and this product is at.net and I'm going there right now
- 55:34just so I can look at it.
- 55:36That's awesome, man.
- 55:37Hey, I remember a loan toolbox.
- 55:40I was a member, used it religiously and it's good to see you back creating content so people
- 55:45can continue to say if they're not ready for coaching or whatever at that level, right?
- 55:49This is one way they can still get access to a lot of the great stuff you're doing.
- 55:52And I'm looking at it.
- 55:53This is awesome.
- 55:54It looks sharp, man.
- 55:55Love it.
- 55:56Thanks.
- 55:57I'm really proud of the job they did.
- 55:58My team did a really great job.
- 56:00So I appreciate you taking a look at it, Jeff.
- 56:02Thanks for having me.
- 56:03You bet.
- 56:04Listeners, thank you very much for tuning in.
- 56:06As always, we appreciate you.
- 56:08If you like today's episode, do us a favor, maybe leave us a little comment or review.
- 56:12I tune Stitcher wherever you're listening to this on the blog.
- 56:16Thanks for tuning in and we will see you on the next one.
- 56:20Bye for now.
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