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- 0:00Michelle Dwyer: One if of it is taking the shame and the guilt and the judgment out of it.
- 0:05Michelle Dwyer: That there is a biology to this, right?
- 0:08Michelle Dwyer: That you're not failing.
- 0:10Michelle Dwyer: This isn't a willpower issue.
- 0:13Michelle Dwyer: It's just that your body is asking to be fueled and energized in a completely different way.
- 0:19Michelle Dwyer: why I like the blood sugar and why I like using a continuous glucose monitor is that it can be very personalized and individualized.
- 0:29Michelle Dwyer: So I'll give you another example.
- 0:31Michelle Dwyer: Two different people can eat the exact same meal at the exact same time and have a completely different response into their blood sugar, right?
- 0:42Michelle Dwyer: And so, for, some people, rice spikes their blood sugar.
- 0:46Michelle Dwyer: Other people, sweet potatoes, popcorn, pretzels.
- 0:49Michelle Dwyer: We don't have to guess.
- 0:51Michelle Dwyer: We're looking at data and going, "How is your body responding to these foods?"
- 0:57Mary: Welcome back, listeners, to the Menopause Disruptor Podcast.
- 1:00Mary: If you're new here, I'm so glad you found me, and if you are returning, thank you for your patience.
- 1:04Mary: It's been a while since I posted a podcast, and I talked about why in a recent episode on concussion.
- 1:11Mary: Well, I think I pushed it, and so I needed to take a longer pause.
- 1:16Mary: I don't know why I always feel like I need to explain or apologize, but at the same time, I also wanna show up real and authentic, and so this is my story.
- 1:25Mary: Took a bit of a pause.
- 1:27Mary: went off to the Love Your Brain Yoga Retreat in Portland, Oregon, at Camp Collins It was so beautiful.
- 1:33Mary: It was so healing.
- 1:34Mary: And one of the best qualities I mean, there were so many, but one of the best qualities about this retreat was the nutritious meals and nutrition is so helpful for brain health in menopause and healing from an injury, which is very apropos for my next guest.
- 1:48Mary: Today, I'm joined by Michelle Dwyer, a health coach based in Oakland, California, who specializes in helping women better understand their hormones, blood sugar, metabolism, and overall well-being during perimenopause and menopause.
- 2:02Mary: And If you've ever felt like you're doing all the right things and your body still seems to be working against you, well, this is an episode for you.
- 2:10Mary: what I loved about this conversation is that we go far beyond diet culture, calorie counting, and quick fixes.
- 2:16Mary: Michelle shares how her own profound health crisis 15 years ago became the catalyst for her to leave the education sector and step into helping women reconnect with their bodies in a more compassionate and informed way.
- 2:30Mary: We unpack why blood sugar regulation matters so much in midlife, how shifting estrogen levels can impact insulin resistance, energy, cravings, sleep, mood, visceral fat, and even brain fog, and why so many women are blaming themselves for physiological changes that are actually deeply connected to hormones.
- 2:53Mary: You'll hear practical strategies around protein intake and muscle health, healthy fats and satiety, continuous glucose monitors stress and cortisol, and how small, sustainable changes can create powerful long-term health outcomes.
- 3:07Mary: And honestly, one of my favorite parts about this conversation with Michelle is that she is so grounded, and she reminds us that health is not about perfection.
- 3:16Mary: It's about awareness- Nourishment and learning to work with your body instead of constantly fighting against it.
- 3:22Mary: So whether you're navigating perimenopause, menopause, blood sugar swings, or simply trying to feel more at home in your body again, I think you're gonna take a lot out of this episode.
- 3:33Mary: But before we dive in, here's something you need to know about Michelle.
- 3:37Mary: Michelle Dwyer is a health coach and nutrition consultant with a Master of Science degree in Health and Nutrition Education from Hawthorne University, and she trained as a Hormone Cure coach under Dr.
- 3:49Mary: Sara Gottfried, now Dr.
- 3:51Mary: Sara Szal, of Hormone Cure.
- 3:53Mary: She's a professional member and board-certified in holistic nutrition with the National Association of Nutrition Professionals, She's been recognized as a top health coach by Coach Foundations, one of the biggest names in the coaching industry.
- 4:07Mary: She empowers clients to feel their best by guiding them through their journey towards greater wellness, energy, and vibrancy.
- 4:14Mary: Her holistic approach means you will look at all aspects of your health, mind, body, and spirit.
- 4:21Mary: Mm.
- 4:21Mary: I just love that Please join me in welcoming Michelle Dwyer to the Menopause Disruptor Podcast.
- 4:27Mary: Welcome, Michelle joining me all the way from Oakland, California.
- 4:30Mary: but her clientele are all around the world.
- 4:33Mary: So happy to have you here, Michelle.
- 4:35Michelle Dwyer: Ah, thanks for having me.
- 4:36Michelle Dwyer: I'm so excited to be here.
- 4:38Mary: let's begin.
- 4:39Mary: What is the main, message or area of your expertise in your profession that you want to educate women on?
- 4:46Mary: And then bring us back to your why, why that has become your focal point in your career.
- 4:51Michelle Dwyer: I would say, for our conversation today, empowering ourselves around these next chapters in our lives, that's my big why, right?
- 5:00Michelle Dwyer: How do we, get the information that we need to make sense of our bodies, to appreciate our bodies, to love our bodies?
- 5:07Michelle Dwyer: And one of the ways, there's a lot of different ways, but one of the ways is looking at blood sugar because I feel like for so many perimenopausal and menopausal women, there's sort of this like, "What happened?" Like, "I did nothing different, and everything's changing, and this feels harder, and suddenly I have pre-diabetes" or, "My triglycerides are going up" or, "There's this weight in my middle.
- 5:30Michelle Dwyer: What happened?
- 5:31Michelle Dwyer: I'm, I'm doing...
- 5:32Michelle Dwyer: I thought I was doing all the right things." And so I like to reduce the overwhelm.
- 5:36Michelle Dwyer: I like to bring clarity and really just, like, acknowledging, like, there's global things that are happening to our bodies as we're moving through perimenopause and menopause, and we're also just individual bodies moving through perimenopause and menopause.
- 5:49Michelle Dwyer: So yeah, so my big why, I mean, I would say empowering women to be in charge of their own health and wellbeing, but also recognizing we don't have to do this alone.
- 6:00Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 6:04Mary: a pain points that lead us to this journey.
- 6:06Mary: your journey into health coaching began through a long and difficult health struggle.
- 6:11Mary: So can you take us back to that time?
- 6:13Mary: was really happening to you physically and even emotionally?
- 6:18Michelle Dwyer: So, um, so I've been in practice for 13 years, and approximately 15 years ago, uh, I would say, you know, we all have that sort of dark night of the soul where we're like really in the, in the depths of the belly of the beast.
- 6:35Michelle Dwyer: so I can tell you the exact day that I got sick.
- 6:37Michelle Dwyer: I woke up one day with a cold, and it didn't go away.
- 6:41Michelle Dwyer: It just kept getting worse.
- 6:43Michelle Dwyer: I had a chronic cough.
- 6:44Michelle Dwyer: I was getting chronic sinus infections.
- 6:47Michelle Dwyer: I was doing all the things that I thought were supposed to do, and I wasn't getting better.
- 6:51Michelle Dwyer: Went to the doctors, they're like, "You're fine." And I think...
- 6:54Michelle Dwyer: I'm thinking to myself, I'm a, I'm an active person, a high energy person in my late 30s.
- 6:59Michelle Dwyer: I can't walk up the stairs and you're telling me that I'm fine?
- 7:02Michelle Dwyer: So it was really hard, really frustrating, and it kept going.
- 7:07Michelle Dwyer: I got sick in middle of October, and it just kept going past the holidays.
- 7:11Michelle Dwyer: I would say the darkest moment was in February.
- 7:14Michelle Dwyer: There was a weekend where my husband was out of town visiting family, and I was too sick to go, so right there, right?
- 7:20Michelle Dwyer: Like, missing out on opportunities for family and connection.
- 7:24Michelle Dwyer: And I barely left the couch, and I definitely did not leave the house for the four days that he was gone, and I didn't see another soul.
- 7:32Michelle Dwyer: And I'm a, I'm a people person, so I thought, "This is, this is not okay." And so thankfully, I found a great health practitioner, a naturopathic doctor, started to heal my gut, heal my immune system, deal with food sensitivities.
- 7:45Michelle Dwyer: And on the other side of that, I was like, "This is what I wanna do." I wanna support people through their own deep, deep challenges and, and not feel so alone and not...
- 7:57Michelle Dwyer: 'Cause it was very isolating, you know?
- 7:58Michelle Dwyer: Anybody who's dealt with a health challenge, even if you have a great community, it can just feel really scary and overwhelming and very isolating And this was even 14, 15 years ago, you know.
- 8:09Michelle Dwyer: I'd go onto the internet trying to figure out how to support myself, and there's just, like, this overload of information.
- 8:15Michelle Dwyer: And so again, that's, the support and the clarity is just so important to me when I'm working with my own clients now.
- 8:22Michelle Dwyer: And on the other end of it, I felt better than ever.
- 8:25Michelle Dwyer: You know, once I started to heal and repair my body, it literally was like the phoenix rising from the ashes.
- 8:30Michelle Dwyer: And I thought, "Oh, my gosh," you know, "I'm this whole new level of optimal health and wellbeing, and then now how can I support others through their own experience?"
- 8:41Mary: what was the turning point where you realized that this was menopause, the perimenopause journey?
- 8:48Michelle Dwyer: So that actually wasn't...
- 8:49Michelle Dwyer: I was in my late 30s, although who knows, right?
- 8:51Michelle Dwyer: Who knows if that's what was the case.
- 8:54Michelle Dwyer: But I would say, you know, a little bit about my own perimenopausal journey.
- 8:58Michelle Dwyer: I'm still in perimenopause.
- 8:58Michelle Dwyer: I'm 52.
- 9:00Michelle Dwyer: Here we are.
- 9:01Michelle Dwyer: I'm in the chaos stage.
- 9:02Michelle Dwyer: Um, the thing that I will say as a practitioner and as a, as a person going through it, I got trained, uh, with Dr.
- 9:11Michelle Dwyer: Sarah Gottfried, now Dr.
- 9:12Michelle Dwyer: Sarah Szal, gosh, 12 years ago in the hormone cure, became a hormone cure coach, was supporting women, through diet, exercise, supplements, mindset, all the different things that I...
- 9:26Michelle Dwyer: were in my wheelhouse.
- 9:27Michelle Dwyer: And, you know, I was probably in perimenopause or early perimenopause at the time, but oh, boy, I did not know what was coming down the road.
- 9:37Michelle Dwyer: So I just know that, um, going through this whole experience, I, I feel even more the embodied experience of, of what perimenopausal challenges can feel like, what the chaos can feel like, what the support can look like.
- 9:54Michelle Dwyer: and for me, again, it was sort of this feeling of I know a lot and I'm doing all the right things, and my body still is feeling really, really challenged.
- 10:02Michelle Dwyer: So yeah, it's sort of been like a second, um, like next level of how to best support my clients.
- 10:11Michelle Dwyer: And I always say, too, you know, I've been looking at hormonal health for, like I said, you know, 12 years probably.
- 10:19Michelle Dwyer: But the, um, the amount of information that I've really, like, dived more deeply into in the last four or five years is, you know, five times what it was before that, so,
- 10:34Mary: Yeah.
- 10:35Michelle Dwyer: right?
- 10:35Michelle Dwyer: So and thanks to, podcasts like yours, speakers like all the amazing speakers that you've had, right?
- 10:40Michelle Dwyer: I really just think we're this generation that's like, this is not okay, right?
- 10:47Michelle Dwyer: We're gonna do things differently.
- 10:48Michelle Dwyer: and again, like, how do we get the information that we need?
- 10:51Michelle Dwyer: How do we get the support that we need?
- 10:53Michelle Dwyer: How do we empower our own selves and just keep, making that happen as best we can?
- 10:59Michelle Dwyer: 'Cause we're not gonna just sit and suffer.
- 11:02Mary: Yes.
- 11:03Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 11:03Mary: to your illness your experience in the chaotic, tumultuous journey through naturopath and, and understanding that most of it was residing in your gut, and we'll get to that,
- 11:15Michelle Dwyer: Mm-hmm.
- 11:15Mary: what were you doing prior to this, this journey, this experience?
- 11:19Michelle Dwyer: Yeah, so I was in a completely different career.
- 11:21Michelle Dwyer: I was a high school English teacher, so it's, it's, it's kind of, um- It's really funny to me because I still feel like an educator.
- 11:31Michelle Dwyer: You know, I'm an educator by heart.
- 11:33Michelle Dwyer: It's just that now I'm educating folks around how to, you know, make sure they are taking care of
- 11:38Mary: their
- 11:38Michelle Dwyer: bodies how to have a proper mind and and to be in a state of love and kindness with our, our bodies.
- 11:45Michelle Dwyer: And I get to, teach and support, but I don't have to grade anybody.
- 11:49Michelle Dwyer: I don't have to tell anyone, like, "I'm gonna give you a B plus.
- 11:54Michelle Dwyer: Well, you ate your protein, but you only did your strength training once." Like, I don't have to grade anybody.
- 11:58Michelle Dwyer: I can just be fully in support mode, in cheerleading mode, in encouragement mode.
- 12:04Michelle Dwyer: So I, love it.
- 12:05Michelle Dwyer: it's great.
- 12:05Michelle Dwyer: I felt like I got to bring a lot of my skill set, and then also just serve in a completely different capacity.
- 12:11Michelle Dwyer: Do
- 12:12Mary: you ever have the feeling that the work that we did prior to landing on that one specific area where we're serving ourselves, our sole purpose, Yeah.
- 12:23Mary: Ever feel that that foundational work had to be laid first before you could really step into your power?
- 12:29Michelle Dwyer: Oh, 100%.
- 12:30Michelle Dwyer: You know, and I just also just recognize, like, me as a practitioner to be able to truly, hold space for my clients, to, be the support that they need while also taking care of my health and wellbeing, I probably could not have done that in my 20s and 30s, right?
- 12:46Michelle Dwyer: It really took me being in my late 30s through my 40s and now into my 50s to really, know that my health and wellbeing comes first so that my cup is full so that I can be really present with my clients, and my groups, and my workshops.
- 13:04Michelle Dwyer: Because if I'm depleted, if I'm tapped out, if I'm running on empty, I can't show up the way that I wanna show up.
- 13:11Michelle Dwyer: it's this kind of amazing field because, I'm taking care of myself because it's important so that I can do the things that I wanna do, and then I can also show that for my clients, too.
- 13:22Mary: let's talk about that work that you do as a practitioner.
- 13:25Mary: Obviously, it was a steep learning curve, but a fast and furious one,
- 13:28Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 13:29Mary: project to get all of your certifications,
- 13:31Michelle Dwyer: Yes.
- 13:33Mary: The Hormone Cure.
- 13:34Mary: Dr.
- 13:34Mary: Sarah Szal is one of our leading trailblazers, and,
- 13:38Michelle Dwyer: Absolutely.
- 13:39Mary: in the, in the ether that is really bringing to attention what conventional medicine has ignored
- 13:46Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 13:47Mary: education on.
- 13:48Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 13:49Mary: that is...
- 13:49Mary: That speaks volume to what you have to offer to women.
- 13:52Mary: So let's unpack that.
- 13:53Mary: A little bit about that type of work, The Hormone Cure, and why we have to have a better understanding about hormonal resistance, and how all the hormones work together.
- 14:03Mary: When there's one off, the whole system is off.
- 14:06Michelle Dwyer: Yeah, no, and I think she's so great about that.
- 14:08Michelle Dwyer: I think her, analogy for that is, like, the Charlie's Angels, right?
- 14:11Michelle Dwyer: which I really love.
- 14:12Michelle Dwyer: I also have to say I'm coming off of, the Live Long Women's Health Summit in San Francisco, where Dr.
- 14:18Michelle Dwyer: Szal was one of the speakers, so it was so wonderful to get to see her.
- 14:22Michelle Dwyer: so many of the big names in the perimenopause and menopause sphere, and I will say one of the things that was so affirming...
- 14:30Michelle Dwyer: I mean, I'll get into, the, the nitty-gritty of insulin resistance and why we're paying attention to our metabolic syndrome and all these different pieces.
- 14:37Michelle Dwyer: But to take a zoom out, I also just wanna say, in this conversation about HRT and GLP-1s, and wearables, and AI and, you know, all this technology, the takeaway that so many, even these, top, top doctors, doctors in the field is, like, do we have community?
- 14:58Michelle Dwyer: Do we have connection?
- 15:00Michelle Dwyer: Are we, finding our joy?
- 15:02Michelle Dwyer: Are we finding our purpose and mission?
- 15:05Michelle Dwyer: So even though I'm gonna nerd out in just a second around blood sugar, because I do think it's such an important thing to pay attention to in perimenopause and menopause, and all the different hormones affect it, I also just wanted to, zoom out because we can get kind of so focused on all these, pieces, which are important.
- 15:21Michelle Dwyer: But also, these big picture pieces are just as important.
- 15:24Michelle Dwyer: So, uh, I mean, uh, this was part of Dr.
- 15:26Michelle Dwyer: Szal's message and so many different messages is that, as we know, estrogen receptors are everywhere in our body and affect all sorts of aspects of our health and wellbeing, and that includes our blood sugar and how our pancreas is functioning.
- 15:41Michelle Dwyer: As we move through perimenopause and menopause, how well our body's able to manage glucose.
- 15:47Michelle Dwyer: And so I can't tell you the number of clients that I've worked with they say, "I haven't changed anything.
- 15:53Michelle Dwyer: If anything, I've been more thoughtful about my eating," or, "I've added in my strength training, and I went to the doctor and they tell me I have pre-diabetes," or, "Suddenly I have high blood pressure," or, my cholesterol has been perfect my whole life, but now I have high trig- triglycerides.
- 16:07Michelle Dwyer: What's going on?" And, I just wanna validate, right, that our bodies are changing, that estrogen is changing, and it's changing basically how we're converting all of our fuel.
- 16:20Michelle Dwyer: And so it's really understanding that, and, I think you're gonna appreciate this one.
- 16:25Michelle Dwyer: It's like all this talk in our sphere about building muscle, which I know you're passionate about, too.
- 16:31Michelle Dwyer: Well, guess what?
- 16:32Michelle Dwyer: The more muscle mass we have, the better our blood sugar is.
- 16:37Michelle Dwyer: Right?
- 16:38Michelle Dwyer: It's the storage, it's the place where we store this excess glucose.
- 16:42Michelle Dwyer: So more muscle, more strength.
- 16:44Michelle Dwyer: It's not just about our bone health.
- 16:47Michelle Dwyer: And there's so many reasons, you and I both know, there's so many reasons to make sure we have that muscle mass.
- 16:50Michelle Dwyer: But, but muscle mass, right, is about blood sugar regulation.
- 16:55Michelle Dwyer: We c- we can talk about sleep support.
- 16:57Michelle Dwyer: I know you've had some great people on about sleep.
- 17:00Michelle Dwyer: Well, guess what?
- 17:01Michelle Dwyer: When we don't sleep well, when we're not getting the rest that we need, it affects our blood sugar or it affects our cravings.
- 17:09Michelle Dwyer: We're craving the carbs and the sugar, and then now we're just on this, this cycle.
- 17:13Michelle Dwyer: Or we talk about stress, you know, we talk about stress and cortisol, which is such an important hormone to talk about, right?
- 17:20Michelle Dwyer: 'Cause the cortisol affects the, the other hormones.
- 17:23Michelle Dwyer: But st- cortisol also affects insulin.
- 17:26Michelle Dwyer: And so when we are stressed...
- 17:29Michelle Dwyer: I've seen, so we'll get into kind of like the wearables a little bit, but I l- I've looked at hundreds of clients' continuous glucose monitors, and I've seen them eat the same thing on day one as they eat on day two.
- 17:43Michelle Dwyer: Day two, they're totally stressed out, phone call comes in, they get in a fight with their husband, like some sort of stressful thing happens.
- 17:51Michelle Dwyer: Eating the exact same thing, their blood sugar can be significantly higher just from the stress.
- 17:58Michelle Dwyer: And again, we get another feedback loop, 'cause of course the stress can also disrupt our sleep, make us crave the carbs, right?
- 18:05Michelle Dwyer: So we get in these, we get in these cycles.
- 18:07Michelle Dwyer: So why I love talking about blood sugar is all these things that we talk about for perimenopause and menopause, the strength training, getting our sleep managed and quality of our sleep, working on our cortisol and our stress levels, why we need to fuel our bodies and eat well, the blood sugar is this really great visual marker for many people that can help us direct some of these other shifts and changes that we wanna make.
- 18:47Mary: So let's bring it right down to square one.
- 18:50Mary: A
- 18:50Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 18:51Mary: comes to see you.
- 18:52Mary: They're, as you described, doing all the right things, blood sugar level is still high.
- 18:58Mary: Or even if they're not testing that, they've got the visceral fat.
- 19:03Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 19:03Michelle Dwyer: The visceral fat.
- 19:04Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 19:05Mary: appears almost overnight, and they in this, this spiral of, "Well, maybe I need to go harder on the treadmill.
- 19:14Mary: Maybe I need to lift longer, harder,
- 19:17Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 19:18Mary: days.
- 19:18Mary: Maybe I need to cut back calories," uh, going into a calorie deficit, almost a starvation.
- 19:24Mary: I mean, all the things that we thought we needed to do that was promoted in the '80s and '90s, right?
- 19:29Mary: And they're beside themselves, and now with the GLP-1s, with the go- Wegovy, Ozempic, all of them, they're thinking, "Oh, I'll just take some of these peptides,"
- 19:40Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 19:41Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 19:41Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 19:42Mary: An overnight fix and my stress will go down because I'm back in my skinny jeans.
- 19:46Mary: Of course, those are only quick fixes, So let's talk about what happens, whether the listener is on their own journey or a client coming to work with you.
- 19:56Michelle Dwyer: Yeah, so the first step is just understanding the biology, a little bit better.
- 20:02Michelle Dwyer: That there are shifts and changes, and that the drop in estrogen can affect your body's ability to make insulin.
- 20:09Michelle Dwyer: It can affect your ability to maintain muscle, so then things are not getting moved into the muscle.
- 20:14Michelle Dwyer: estrogen can affect even the, um, insulin kind of unlocking the energy to get the energy into the cell.
- 20:20Michelle Dwyer: And so there's just biological shifts and, and changes that are happening.
- 20:24Michelle Dwyer: So, one if of it is taking the shame and the guilt and the judgment out of it, right?
- 20:30Michelle Dwyer: That, that there is a biology to this, right?
- 20:34Michelle Dwyer: That you're not failing.
- 20:35Michelle Dwyer: This isn't a willpower issue.
- 20:38Michelle Dwyer: It's just that your body is asking to be fueled and energized in a completely different way, right?
- 20:46Michelle Dwyer: and again, you know, why I like the blood sugar and why I like using a continuous glucose monitor is that it can be very personalized and individualized.
- 20:57Michelle Dwyer: So I'll give you another example.
- 20:59Michelle Dwyer: Two different people can eat the exact same meal at the exact same time and have a completely different response into their blood sugar, And so for, some people, rice spikes their blood sugar.
- 21:13Michelle Dwyer: Other people, sweet potatoes, popcorn, pretzels.
- 21:16Michelle Dwyer: We don't have to guess.
- 21:18Michelle Dwyer: We're looking at data and going, like, "How is your body responding to these foods?" The other thing that I see a lot is what we're having when, right?
- 21:29Michelle Dwyer: So, uh, we're hearing all this talk about protein, and I believe that we do need adequate amounts of protein.
- 21:34Michelle Dwyer: Well, protein and healthy fats and fiber, right?
- 21:37Michelle Dwyer: We're also hearing lots about fiber.
- 21:39Michelle Dwyer: Slows that gastric emptying, allows your body to not break everything into sugar really quickly, and then your body has to respond.
- 21:47Michelle Dwyer: the quicker everything breaks down into sugar, the more your pancreas has to work.
- 21:52Michelle Dwyer: And then if we overwork our pancreas year after year after year after year, it gets tired, and it doesn't wanna work anymore, and that's when we move into that Type 1 diabetes, So if we wanna feel better in the moment, maintain better energy, better healthy weight, better even, you know- capacity and our strength training, whatever it is we're doing, our mood, our sleep.
- 22:15Michelle Dwyer: We can regulate our blood sugar, create this nice foundation, but it's also setting us up for success for later on for preventing some of these chronic diseases.
- 22:24Michelle Dwyer: it's, uh, almost like a in real time biometric marker that can help us navigate some of these things that we might be trying to bring into our, our capacity.
- 22:37Michelle Dwyer: But like you bring in, the undereating, right?
- 22:40Michelle Dwyer: Well, if someone's blood sugar tanks, and then they are like, "Oh my gosh, I'm so depleted," and then it makes them crave the sugar, then they're just on that roller coaster again.
- 22:49Michelle Dwyer: So it reinforces, I find, making sure we're eating adequate amount, making sure we're eating at the right times, that we're not, uh, stressing our bodies out by, you know, jumping on the treadmill on an empty stomach and then not eating for five hours, right?
- 23:04Michelle Dwyer: the body can't do what it needs to do if we're not giving it the resources that it needs to build that muscle.
- 23:11Michelle Dwyer: And of course, we know strong muscles means strong bones.
- 23:14Michelle Dwyer: I'm obsessed about our bone health, too, I love it as a, a beautiful center target because then we can ripple out sleep, stress, moving our bodies.
- 23:24Michelle Dwyer: one of my favorite little tips is if you like going for a walk after a meal is great, but if you're like, "Oh," say it's raining here, "oh, it's raining, I can't go for a walk," do some squats.
- 23:34Michelle Dwyer: They've actually, like, shown that that can be really helpful for getting that blood sugar to come down.
- 23:39Michelle Dwyer: Well, then it makes sense, right?
- 23:40Michelle Dwyer: 'Cause that glucose has some place to go, into those big muscles, So I love it 'cause it, it takes all these things that we're hearing, fiber, protein, strength training, sleep, stress management, all these different pieces that we're hearing so much about, and then we get to see why, and we get to see the effects that it's having on our body.
- 23:59Mary: Through our blood sugar levels.
- 24:01Michelle Dwyer: blood sugar levels, yeah.
- 24:03Mary: So
- 24:03Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 24:03Mary: woman who's not monitoring her blood, her
- 24:06Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 24:07Mary: the best approach that she should take?
- 24:09Michelle Dwyer: So I do think getting some lab testing is a good idea so you know where your markers are, and that, is certainly, most people are getting their fasting glucose, which is fine.
- 24:20Michelle Dwyer: I'm not a huge fan of the fasting glucose.
- 24:23Michelle Dwyer: It's fine, but what I have seen with clients is fasting glucose can vary even in the hours of fasting or day to day.
- 24:31Michelle Dwyer: So it is just a one-day snapshot of where the fasting, blood sugar is.
- 24:34Michelle Dwyer: But getting that A1C can be very beneficial.
- 24:37Michelle Dwyer: That's measuring your blood sugar over a three-month period of time, so it can give a better picture.
- 24:42Michelle Dwyer: But it's not always the best either.
- 24:44Michelle Dwyer: I've seen clients with low A1C, and then they wear s- a continuous glucose monitor and their blood sugar is spiking.
- 24:51Michelle Dwyer: So it's not always the best measure.
- 24:53Michelle Dwyer: Fasting insulin is another one.
- 24:56Michelle Dwyer: most doctors are not gonna do it, but it is something that you can ask for and is in the conversation more and more, which is great, 'cause that's kind of like the canary in the coal mine.
- 25:05Michelle Dwyer: looking at your lipid panel, looking at your triglycerides in particular can be very beneficial.
- 25:09Michelle Dwyer: But the other one that I love, good old-fashioned tape measure.
- 25:13Michelle Dwyer: Measure that belly weight.
- 25:15Michelle Dwyer: Measure that waist circumference, right?
- 25:17Michelle Dwyer: Because we want that waist circumference to go down.
- 25:22Michelle Dwyer: And I always say, especially if you're about to start a new, exercise routine, is measure your belly weight, measure that waist circumference, A, because it's a lot less triggering for a lot of women.
- 25:35Michelle Dwyer: I don't make my clients get on a scale if they don't want to.
- 25:38Michelle Dwyer: Weight on the scale is not always the best measure.
- 25:40Michelle Dwyer: What's going on with our muscle mass?
- 25:42Michelle Dwyer: What's going on with our bone mass, right?
- 25:44Michelle Dwyer: Losing weight, if we're losing muscle, is not the win, but if we see that waist circumference come down, that's great, So
- 25:53Mary: Hmm.
- 25:53Michelle Dwyer: it could be as cheap as just measuring your waist and seeing for most women we want that under 30 to be in that kind of better metabolic state.
- 26:01Michelle Dwyer: then if someone doesn't wanna wear a continuous glucose monitor, then I think definitely this is where if you're like, "I'm just gonna apply some of these principles," getting that protein in in the beginning of of, the start I find how we start our day sets the tone for the rest of the day.
- 26:17Michelle Dwyer: I'll give you another example.
- 26:19Michelle Dwyer: Now, this one's a male client, okay?
- 26:21Michelle Dwyer: So different body, but I still think it's fascinating.
- 26:24Michelle Dwyer: So 75-year-old male wearing a continuous glucose monitor.
- 26:27Michelle Dwyer: He was highly motivated.
- 26:29Michelle Dwyer: He wanted to get off his belly weight.
- 26:30Michelle Dwyer: Men get belly weight too.
- 26:32Michelle Dwyer: And he was eating...
- 26:34Michelle Dwyer: And you're gonna, you're gonna laugh.
- 26:35Michelle Dwyer: He was eating Grape-Nuts.
- 26:38Michelle Dwyer: He was eating Grape Nuts with skim milk because he was trying to up his fiber.
- 26:42Michelle Dwyer: So he was doing something where he was trying to be good for his heart health.
- 26:47Michelle Dwyer: He's like, "I know I'm supposed to eat more fiber.
- 26:49Michelle Dwyer: You know, Grape Nuts have no added sugar.
- 26:51Michelle Dwyer: I'll do it with my skim milk." Well, it was spiking his blood sugar.
- 26:56Michelle Dwyer: You would have thought he had a pint of ice cream,
- 26:59Mary: And it would have had the same effect as a pint of ice
- 27:02Michelle Dwyer: Absolutely, the body doesn't know.
- 27:03Michelle Dwyer: The body doesn't know, "Oh, well it's Grape Nuts, so it's fine," So here's a perfect example where he's trying to do something good for his health, and And so starting the day with that good amount of protein.
- 27:14Michelle Dwyer: I always love if someone wants to add some vegetables at breakfast.
- 27:17Michelle Dwyer: That's always a bonus to get that good, start to the day.
- 27:20Michelle Dwyer: Making sure, for many of us, like, our biggest meal the middle of the day.
- 27:24Michelle Dwyer: I know it makes us feel like we're, like, our grandparents or something, but they had a wisdom.
- 27:29Michelle Dwyer: So making sure we're adequately getting our energy that we need to carry us through the day.
- 27:35Michelle Dwyer: paying attention to those afternoon blood sugar lows, So if you get kind of hungry at the end of the day, having, a nice healthy snack again that's got protein, healthy fats, those sort of things at the end of the afternoon.
- 27:46Michelle Dwyer: And then for most people, having their dinner on the earlier side.
- 27:50Michelle Dwyer: One of the things that I see that really affects a lot of people's sleep is eating too late or eating too close to bedtime, and then while they're sleeping, instead of their body doing all the things they need to do while they're sleeping, repairing, building muscle, building bone, clearing out all things from the liver and the brain, their body's trying to manage their blood sugar.
- 28:09Michelle Dwyer: And so, that's also not great either, right?
- 28:12Michelle Dwyer: Because your body doesn't need that energy, and it's gonna store it.
- 28:15Michelle Dwyer: So there are these really basic things that, we hear about, but I get to look at the benefit of hundreds of CGM data to be like, yeah, everyone's a little bit different, and also there's these commonalities, And so that, again, it's like are we eating enough protein?
- 28:34Michelle Dwyer: Are we getting in our fiber?
- 28:35Michelle Dwyer: Are we eating our...
- 28:37Michelle Dwyer: Mostly, I love mostly vegetables.
- 28:39Michelle Dwyer: Four and a half cups of vegetables.
- 28:40Michelle Dwyer: Maybe some fruits in there, especially those berries.
- 28:43Michelle Dwyer: Are we making sure we're eating throughout the day?
- 28:47Michelle Dwyer: Are we fueling our bodies for our strength training?
- 28:49Michelle Dwyer: 'Cause We're not gonna build that muscle if we're not giving it the energy that it needs to build that muscle.
- 28:55Mary: it's the protein dosing
- 28:56Michelle Dwyer: yeah.
- 28:57Mary: 'cause that's how the muscles stay fueled throughout the day with the amino acids.
- 29:01Mary: Exactly,
- 29:02Michelle Dwyer: Absolutely.
- 29:03Michelle Dwyer: And, you know, the other thing too from a digestive perspective is that, the body doesn't wanna digest, I kinda joke, like, a brontosaurus burger, right?
- 29:10Michelle Dwyer: Like, that's a lot for the body to, to digest all at once.
- 29:15Michelle Dwyer: So if we're dosing our protein throughout the day, not only is it supporting our, our muscle growth, but it's also keeping our blood sugar stable, right?
- 29:23Michelle Dwyer: So we're keeping things nice and stable throughout the day.
- 29:25Michelle Dwyer: Uh, but it's also not overtaxing on our digestive system too, right?
- 29:30Michelle Dwyer: Because, too much protein at one time might be hard for the digestion to manage
- 29:35Mary: There's so many different directions I could take this, Michelle, in terms of our food, nutrition, from our, fiber, the good carbs, our proteins, even our fats.
- 29:44Mary: of those three, and we- you did allude to the fact that proteins are significant for fueling muscle, and muscle being the most metabolically active in the body
- 29:53Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 29:53Mary: for a number of reasons.
- 29:55Mary: But women get confused.
- 29:56Mary: The ones that I speak with are just overwhelmed and confused, and they feel that one, one gram per pound of body weight is near impossible.
- 30:07Mary: It seems like an erroneous amount.
- 30:10Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 30:11Mary: let's zone in on that for a second we're talking about proteins, the right amount and how actually simple
- 30:20Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 30:21Mary: accumulate that amount
- 30:22Michelle Dwyer: protein's definitely having its moment, right?
- 30:24Michelle Dwyer: And I think there's a lot of pluses to that, and we wanna be...
- 30:28Michelle Dwyer: I, I kinda joke sometimes that, I'm kind of this practical nutritionist, right?
- 30:33Michelle Dwyer: We don't wanna add any stress to people's lives and we don't want people to feel stressed about protein.
- 30:38Michelle Dwyer: You know what I mean?
- 30:38Michelle Dwyer: that's not helpful either.
- 30:40Michelle Dwyer: so I base it on weight, but I don't go as high.
- 30:43Michelle Dwyer: Now, if someone wants to do one gram per ideal pound of body weight, great.
- 30:49Michelle Dwyer: I do have a client, she's able to get her 150 grams of protein in a day.
- 30:53Michelle Dwyer: She's figured it out.
- 30:54Michelle Dwyer: She's got her system.
- 30:55Michelle Dwyer: She's doing it, right?
- 30:56Michelle Dwyer: She's doing it.
- 30:57Michelle Dwyer: But for someone else, that might be a really big reach.
- 31:00Michelle Dwyer: So I'm a big believer in incremental steps.
- 31:03Michelle Dwyer: and first, we gotta track it, right?
- 31:06Michelle Dwyer: And I don't think we need to track it forever.
- 31:09Michelle Dwyer: I don't wanna track my food every day all the time for the rest of my life.
- 31:12Michelle Dwyer: That does not bring me joy.
- 31:13Michelle Dwyer: If it brings someone joy, great.
- 31:15Michelle Dwyer: Like, it works so well for people.
- 31:16Michelle Dwyer: But we have to start with- Well, how much protein am I eating?
- 31:20Michelle Dwyer: And I have to, I really have to come back to basics in teaching people look, where to look for the protein, what's considered a pure protein source.
- 31:29Michelle Dwyer: talking about varieties of protein.
- 31:32Michelle Dwyer: so it kinda comes back to some of those basics.
- 31:34Michelle Dwyer: Tracking it is a great place to start so we just know, like, where are we starting.
- 31:38Michelle Dwyer: And then I explain to clients the RDA minimum is your weight in pounds times .36.
- 31:47Michelle Dwyer: That is the minimum.
- 31:49Michelle Dwyer: That is the, like, we don't want you in a diseased state, and I will tell you, Mary Lee, so many clients are not even getting that.
- 31:57Mary: Yeah.
- 31:57Michelle Dwyer: So let's start there you know what I mean?
- 32:00Michelle Dwyer: let's start with those basics, and then we slowly build from there.
- 32:03Michelle Dwyer: And so generally what I find that can be a little bit more of a reachable goal is current body weight times, in pounds, times .6, right?
- 32:14Michelle Dwyer: That tends to be a little bit more reasonable, and for most women that I'm working with, it's somewhere in that 80 to 100 grams of protein, which tends to be a more doable marker.
- 32:27Michelle Dwyer: But again, I do like using body weight because, I have a client who's 100 pounds.
- 32:31Michelle Dwyer: She does not need to be eating the same amount of protein as my client who's 180 pounds, right?
- 32:37Michelle Dwyer: that just doesn't make sense.
- 32:38Michelle Dwyer: So I do like using weight as a starting point so that we're really kind of personalizing it, and then slowly building it from there, and then finding really easy ways to do it.
- 32:51Michelle Dwyer: Now, this is where it gets a little tricky 'cause I do work with a lot of plant-based clients, and certainly we can get our protein through plant sources, but it takes a little bit of extra effort.
- 33:01Michelle Dwyer: even with my clients who eat meat, they're like, "Michelle, I can only eat so much chicken," and I'm like, "Agreed," right?
- 33:06Michelle Dwyer: So I do think variety is important.
- 33:10Michelle Dwyer: I'm- I love things like bone broth for the base of a soup.
- 33:14Michelle Dwyer: I love adding things like beans and legumes if- if the body tolerates them well.
- 33:19Michelle Dwyer: I love things like lupini beans, which are higher protein and lower carb.
- 33:23Michelle Dwyer: I like things like edamame, which also is, super high fiber and protein.
- 33:28Michelle Dwyer: If someone wants to be more plant-based, making sure they're getting the non-GMO organic soy or tempeh, and then if someone eats fish and eggs, you know, really kind of going for a variety of those sources.
- 33:40Michelle Dwyer: and then it's like a little building block, I like kind of a modular way of thinking.
- 33:45Michelle Dwyer: So if you're like, "Okay, I've got, you know, my chicken or my fish or my tofu," and then maybe I just increase that portion by a little bit, right?
- 33:54Michelle Dwyer: It doesn't have to, double in size, but just, like, a little bit.
- 33:57Michelle Dwyer: Oh, and then what if I added some legumes to that, or what if I put that in a bone broth?
- 34:03Michelle Dwyer: the biggest thing that I see is that when we add the protein and then we're making sure we're getting enough of our vegetables, which my recommendation is at least a cup per meal, If not more.
- 34:15Michelle Dwyer: When we get all that in there, there's not that much room for other things, right?
- 34:21Michelle Dwyer: And so we don't have to be like, "Carbs are bad," or, "Don't eat your carbs," or don- you know what I mean?
- 34:26Michelle Dwyer: Like, we don't have to do that because we've pushed forward our protein, we've pushed forward our plant, plant foods from our vegetables, and then, the little bit that's left on the plate can be your rice or your potato or your sweet potato or whatever it is you're going for.
- 35:29Mary: So how important also to add into the plate that we haven't talked about yet is our fats?
- 35:34Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 35:34Michelle Dwyer: Absolutely.
- 35:35Michelle Dwyer: Well, I'm a big fan of healthy fats, and I wanna say that as a recovering fat-phobic person, right?
- 35:43Michelle Dwyer: I'm 52.
- 35:45Michelle Dwyer: I grew up in the era of fat-free everything, that fat was the devil.
- 35:52Michelle Dwyer: and I'll tell you, Mary Lee, I mean, I'm 20 years old, eating my fat-free Saltines and my fat-free bagel and my box of, fat-free Snack Wells And I'm like, "I wonder why I have all these problems." Like, you know, I thought I was being healthy, I mean, as a 20-year-old, I could kinda get away with it, but I look back at that 20-year-old and oh my gosh, and I understand these other extraneous health things that were going on, why that was happening.
- 36:20Michelle Dwyer: So, healthy fat is so important.
- 36:23Michelle Dwyer: first of all, I'm gonna start with from the pleasure perspective, Fat makes food yummy, so let's talk about how yummy fat is, right?
- 36:31Michelle Dwyer: I think fat is also important for our brain health, right?
- 36:33Michelle Dwyer: 60% of our brain is actually fat.
- 36:35Michelle Dwyer: It's also satisfying and satiating.
- 36:38Michelle Dwyer: It also helps all of our fat-soluble vitamins get into the body.
- 36:43Michelle Dwyer: So those eras of our fat-free dressing that was full of sugar, and then we didn't put any fat in our salad, it's like we're not getting in that vitamin K or vitamin E or all these things that we needed 'cause we were so afraid of the fat.
- 36:57Michelle Dwyer: So I'm a big believer in bringing in the fat.
- 36:59Michelle Dwyer: Now, depending on each person's body or what they're doing, certainly if they're doing more of like a ketogenic diet, that's gonna be a way higher fat.
- 37:08Michelle Dwyer: If someone doesn't have a gallbladder, they might need to be way more mindful of their fat, right?
- 37:13Michelle Dwyer: So what fat looks like for every body, especially in perimenopause and menopause, is gonna look different, but at least some healthy fat on the plate is really important.
- 37:22Michelle Dwyer: I'm not saying it only has to be this, but I love the, plant fats, so things like avocado.
- 37:30Michelle Dwyer: I love tahini.
- 37:32Michelle Dwyer: nut butters.
- 37:33Michelle Dwyer: nuts and seeds.
- 37:34Michelle Dwyer: I like something that's giving us some other nutrition while we're also getting our healthy fats.
- 37:40Michelle Dwyer: So doesn't mean you can't get it from other sources that are animal fats, but I love that way.
- 37:46Michelle Dwyer: And it adds texture, It adds creaminess.
- 37:48Michelle Dwyer: It adds flavor.
- 37:50Michelle Dwyer: So that's, that's how I like to think about the healthy fats.
- 37:54Mary: one of the things I learned in the Girls Gone Strong coaching program, you can use your hand to measure.
- 37:59Mary: Palm Of the hand, grams.
- 38:02Mary: Of course,
- 38:02Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 38:03Mary: cottage cheese or Greek yogurt in there, it'll just spill over and seep through the cracks of your fingers.
- 38:08Michelle Dwyer: Yep
- 38:08Mary: Two fist bumps for your veggies.
- 38:11Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 38:12Mary: Double thumbs up for your fats,
- 38:13Michelle Dwyer: Yeah, exactly.
- 38:14Michelle Dwyer: I love that.
- 38:15Michelle Dwyer: I love that.
- 38:16Mary: an easy, it's an easy way to remember.
- 38:19Mary: Nevertheless, is one thing, quality is quite another, and I
- 38:25Michelle Dwyer: 100%.
- 38:26Mary: are afraid of not getting it right
- 38:29Michelle Dwyer: Mm-hmm.
- 38:29Mary: and perfect, which we're prone to do,
- 38:32Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 38:32Mary: and then failing and giving up.
- 38:35Mary: So what are the things that you can coach your clientele around?
- 38:39Michelle Dwyer: I think this is where we also have to keep in mind, availability and lifestyle and budget, right?
- 38:47Michelle Dwyer: So I think there's some really important, factors to keep in mind.
- 38:51Michelle Dwyer: I think you have access to it in Canada.
- 38:54Michelle Dwyer: There's the environmental working group every year puts out their clean 15 and their dirty dozen.
- 39:00Michelle Dwyer: So when it comes to our fruits and vegetables, if you can't afford to get all organic or you don't have it available to you or it's being shipped from, you know, Chile, right?
- 39:09Michelle Dwyer: Well, that, that may not be like the greatest option either.
- 39:12Michelle Dwyer: You can look at, that for the clean 15 for the fruits and veggies that it would be okay to not get organic, and then the dirty dozen, which is the, these are the ones that it's worth it.
- 39:22Michelle Dwyer: Things like strawberries and peaches and those sort of things.
- 39:25Michelle Dwyer: So that's one of my recommendations.
- 39:27Michelle Dwyer: as much as we can, eating a real food, whole food diet plan if we wanna feel vibrant and alive and juicy and luscious, that's what we need to be eating.
- 39:40Michelle Dwyer: I mean, we literally are what we eat.
- 39:43Michelle Dwyer: There's nothing else, right?
- 39:46Michelle Dwyer: other than if you take a medication that you have to take orally.
- 39:48Michelle Dwyer: We literally put food into our bodies, and it gets broken down and then becomes our bodies, So, I think that's really, really important.
- 39:58Michelle Dwyer: I would say with the proteins is, depending on budget.
- 40:01Michelle Dwyer: And I wanna just acknowledge the budget thing.
- 40:02Michelle Dwyer: our household budget for food is higher probably than others.
- 40:06Michelle Dwyer: we prioritize it and Even now I'm like, I go to the grocery store, and I'm like, holy moly, I cannot believe that...
- 40:14Michelle Dwyer: You know?
- 40:15Michelle Dwyer: So I also think, growing your own food can also be a fun way to kinda know where your food's coming from.
- 40:21Michelle Dwyer: And if you're like, "I don't have room to grow food," even just growing some herbs in your front, you know, front window or something like that, getting fresh herbs in.
- 40:29Michelle Dwyer: I love, the 30 plant variety, so that's kind of a fun way to do it, and that's a fun thing to do as a family too is trying to get, over the course of a week, 30 different plants.
- 40:39Michelle Dwyer: But, herbs and spices count as well, so that's kind of like a fun little thing to do.
- 40:44Michelle Dwyer: with the protein, again, getting in the best quality protein that you can afford, and looking at those ingredients lists, like the Michael Pollan, eat food, mostly plants, not too much.
- 40:54Michelle Dwyer: If you look at a ingredients list and it just keeps going, going, going, going, you know, it's a turkey burger and the ingredients list is 20 ingredients long, maybe that goes back on the shelf versus you pick up a different turkey burger and there's, three ingredients and you're like, I know what all of those are, So I think just simple things like that can be really important.
- 41:14Michelle Dwyer: I'm a recommender for dairy if you can, getting organic, or grass-fed if you, if it's available to you and it's affordable to you, 'cause, whatever that animal was fed is gonna go into their milk and is gonna go into their flesh.
- 41:30Michelle Dwyer: But I know that's not available for everybody.
- 41:33Michelle Dwyer: being thoughtful about, you know, it's always, time or money, right?
- 41:37Michelle Dwyer: So if someone is like, "I don't have a lot of time and I wanna increase my vegetables," okay, well, then, get the pre-chopped veggies or get frozen veggies that are good quality, right?
- 41:47Michelle Dwyer: being very practical about that 'cause I would rather you get those than, buy a whole bunch of vegetables that just rot in the refrigerator, that's wasting money, and that's wasting food, and that's why I like, the baby steps.
- 41:58Michelle Dwyer: what's one little thing that you can add, or what's one little swap that you can do?
- 42:03Michelle Dwyer: What's one little switch that you can make happen?
- 42:06Mary: results and see how it lands in the body, how it feels.
- 42:10Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 42:10Mary: that as motivation to try yet another little shift, and
- 42:15Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 42:16Mary: of a month, you've made these pretty significant shifts
- 42:19Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 42:20Mary: eating healthy.
- 42:21Mary: But
- 42:21Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 42:21Mary: still fearful, and there's still so much...
- 42:24Mary: or there, not still, but there's more and more talk around the bad stuff in
- 42:30Michelle Dwyer: Sure.
- 42:31Mary: good
- 42:31Michelle Dwyer: Sure.
- 42:33Mary: to altering the wheat germ for preservation
- 42:36Michelle Dwyer: Yeah?
- 42:37Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 42:39Mary: know, chicken breasts are now puffed up to full size in six weeks versus nine months
- 42:43Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 42:44Mary: Which is
- 42:44Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 42:45Michelle Dwyer: Ah.
- 42:45Mary: we go grass-fed beef or can we just go for the grain-fed?
- 42:49Mary: Well, the grain is just as i- for the cow as it is,
- 42:54Michelle Dwyer: Right.
- 42:54Mary: would be for us.
- 42:55Mary: So how do
- 42:56Michelle Dwyer: and I'll say even from a blood sugar perspective, the fructose levels and the sugar levels of our fruit, even if it's not GMO, has increased.
- 43:07Michelle Dwyer: So the apple that we're eating is not our great-grandmother's apple.
- 43:11Michelle Dwyer: So we have bred fruit, not even as a GMO things, just like we've just made fruit sweeter and sweeter and sweeter And so, I'll have clients, and I don't like to demonize anything, but like I'll have clients eat a fruit and their blood sugar goes through the roof, and you're like, "What?
- 43:27Michelle Dwyer: It's a whole food.
- 43:28Michelle Dwyer: It's a real food.
- 43:29Michelle Dwyer: There's all this fiber," right?
- 43:31Michelle Dwyer: So even something natural, and I think that's where it can get really confusing 'cause you're like, "Well, it's chicken," or, "It's an apple," right?
- 43:38Michelle Dwyer: But if it's, if it's being kind of shifted and modified, you know, and this is definitely a conversation for another day, but this is, where, food policy and food dollars matter.
- 43:49Michelle Dwyer: Where we put our...
- 43:50Michelle Dwyer: What I like to say is we do also vote with our dollars, if you have a farmers market if you have a local CSA, uh, a community, sustained agriculture.
- 44:02Michelle Dwyer: If you have a local butcher, right?
- 44:05Michelle Dwyer: even if you can't do it for everything, but if you can get a l- just a little more informed or be a little more intentional, even just if it's just like one thing, right?
- 44:14Michelle Dwyer: Um, I think those sort of things can matter.
- 44:16Michelle Dwyer: Now, I say that as a person who lives in California.
- 44:19Michelle Dwyer: we've got so much agriculture Also, the weather's great.
- 44:22Michelle Dwyer: We have year-round farmers markets, right?
- 44:25Michelle Dwyer: So I definitely recognize that, I am in a, privileged space and place to have access to all of that.
- 44:32Michelle Dwyer: But that's where, again, it's like make that one small, tiny change, right?
- 44:37Michelle Dwyer: if there's just like one, one shift that you can do, you're letting go of the perfectionism.
- 44:41Michelle Dwyer: One of my favorite phrases is, "Good enough is best," right?
- 44:45Michelle Dwyer: So what is good enough for this week?
- 44:46Michelle Dwyer: And then we, like you're saying, build, build, build, from there.
- 44:49Michelle Dwyer: I don't ever want us to be fearful of our food 'cause I just think energetically that's not a great thing to do.
- 44:54Michelle Dwyer: However, there's legitimate reasons to be thoughtful and mindful about where we're getting our food.
- 45:02Mary: Yes.
- 45:02Mary: It's taking radical responsibility, not just for how we are treating our changing bodies and responding to the changing levels in our hormones, as we spoke about earlier, it's the radical responsibility that extends out into the community and to
- 45:17Michelle Dwyer: 100%.
- 45:17Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 45:18Mary: And in turn, know that you're getting perhaps better quality, not always gonna be perfect, but
- 45:24Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 45:24Mary: quality
- 45:25Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 45:25Mary: let's face it, even dining out.
- 45:27Mary: there's few companies that are the suppliers.
- 45:29Mary: If you got farm to table, wonderful,
- 45:31Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 45:32Mary: and check the menu to say, "We support
- 45:34Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 45:34Mary: farmers
- 45:35Michelle Dwyer: Yes.
- 45:35Mary: beef, or pork, or dairy," whatever that might be.
- 45:38Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 45:40Mary: suppliers are using those additives, preservatives, altered chemicals to ensure that those products...
- 45:48Mary: So even when you
- 45:49Michelle Dwyer: Absolutely.
- 45:50Mary: out,
- 45:51Michelle Dwyer: Absolutely.
- 45:53Mary: end, not always the best.
- 45:54Mary: And I would say that a lot of restaurateurs don't even recognize this either, so radical responsibility.
- 46:01Mary: But you're right, this is an entirely different conversation
- 46:04Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 46:04Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 46:05Mary: altogether.
- 46:05Mary: One I'm very passionate about, but nevertheless.
- 46:08Michelle Dwyer: mean, it, it does all, it does all matter, right?
- 46:11Michelle Dwyer: And again, if we're thinking about, our overall holistic health and wellbeing, you know, it is recognizing, when we're talking about hormones, we're talking about our endocrine system, and there are these outside things that are endocrine disruptors, right?
- 46:23Michelle Dwyer: That affect...
- 46:24Michelle Dwyer: So, again, it's like taking that personal responsibility.
- 46:27Michelle Dwyer: for me, it's reducing my pesticide consumption as much as I can, buying organic as much as I can, being thoughtful about what I put on my own body.
- 46:35Michelle Dwyer: Um, and again, I use the Environmental Working Group for that.
- 46:38Michelle Dwyer: So it's again, kind of coming full circle.
- 46:40Michelle Dwyer: So the first thing I said is empowerment, there's this delicate dance of, of being empowered and taking a step forward without the overwhelm, right?
- 46:50Michelle Dwyer: And feeling like it has to be done perfectly.
- 46:53Michelle Dwyer: any action forward is the right action forward, if that makes sense, right?
- 46:57Mary: Michelle.
- 46:58Mary: Thank you for bringing it back
- 47:00Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 47:01Mary: It's the empowerment.
- 47:02Mary: Knowledge is power.
- 47:02Mary: Feeling
- 47:03Michelle Dwyer: Knowledge is power.
- 47:04Mary: and knowing that even small steps, baby steps, can still be working towards a better healthy lifestyle.
- 47:11Mary: We didn't speak at great length about the wearables,
- 47:14Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 47:15Mary: if a woman was interested, or even men who are, listening to it...
- 47:19Mary: Now, personally, and I don't have to worry about blood sugar le- well, I never thought I did, but I like the pin prick one.
- 47:26Mary: draw a little bead of blood and beep-beep.
- 47:28Mary: and I did, I did that- Only because I want to have a better appreciation and understanding about blood sugar level.
- 47:35Mary: Dr.
- 47:35Mary: Sarah Szal is big promoter of the wearable.
- 47:38Mary: the arm.
- 47:38Mary: So let's just talk briefly about the options if one wants to track glucose
- 47:44Michelle Dwyer: any time we're deciding to measure anything, I was just having this conversation with a client.
- 47:48Mary: Oh.
- 47:48Michelle Dwyer: We always wanna be thoughtful So I run continuous glucose monitor groups.
- 47:52Michelle Dwyer: I do continuous m- monitors, with clients.
- 47:55Michelle Dwyer: Yeah, I love it as a group 'cause it's kind of fun.
- 47:56Michelle Dwyer: We get to all do this together.
- 47:58Michelle Dwyer: But the first page after I introduce who I am is setting An intention.
- 48:04Michelle Dwyer: Why are you doing this, right?
- 48:06Michelle Dwyer: Because I do think it's really important any time we're gonna measure anything to know what is, with the data that I'm going to get, is this, again, coming to empowerment.
- 48:16Michelle Dwyer: Um, is this gonna empower me to make choices?
- 48:20Michelle Dwyer: or is it gonna just cause fear, concern, or whatever?
- 48:24Michelle Dwyer: So I do think intention is really important.
- 48:26Michelle Dwyer: However, what I love about the CGM versus the pin prick, the pin prick is telling you in that one moment,
- 48:35Mary: Good
- 48:37Michelle Dwyer: moment.
- 48:37Michelle Dwyer: A continuous glucose monitor is 24 hours times two weeks, so we get to see all the variations.
- 48:47Michelle Dwyer: So even in just one hour, I can see a client's blood sugar going from 90 up to 180, right?
- 48:54Michelle Dwyer: So under 100 would be kind of a good blood sugar.
- 48:57Michelle Dwyer: 180 starts to be, like, too high.
- 49:00Michelle Dwyer: In one hour it could do that.
- 49:02Michelle Dwyer: And when did you do your pin prick?
- 49:04Michelle Dwyer: Did you do it when it was at 90, and you're like, "Hey, it's good," or did you do it when it was at 180, and you're like, "Whoops, that's, that's a little higher." So I love the continuous glucose monitor because you also get to see how high does it go, how long does it stay high.
- 49:18Michelle Dwyer: Also, you're not gonna measure your blood sugar in the middle of the night.
- 49:21Michelle Dwyer: You're not gonna be like, "Oh, it's 2:00 AM, and I just woke up.
- 49:24Michelle Dwyer: I should go check, check my blood sugar." And I mean this for someone who has, either pre-diabetes or is just, that A1C starting to creep up, or they're just perimenopausal and menopausal.
- 49:33Michelle Dwyer: This is not for people with type one or type two, so they're in their own category.
- 49:37Michelle Dwyer: Wanna be very clear about that.
- 49:39Michelle Dwyer: But most of us are not gonna wake up in the middle of the night and be like, "Oh, it's so weird I woke up.
- 49:43Michelle Dwyer: What's my blood sugar doing?" But if you have a continuous glucose monitor and you're like, "Oh, how interesting.
- 49:49Michelle Dwyer: I had that glass of wine at 8:00 PM, and then at 2:00 AM my blood sugar tanked.
- 49:56Michelle Dwyer: Huh, I wonder if there's a connection there," right?
- 49:58Michelle Dwyer: So we get to just be kind of curious about our bodies.
- 50:03Michelle Dwyer: and then again, whenever someone gets something that's a little bit higher of a blood sugar spike, I'm like, "Okay, do it again another day.
- 50:09Michelle Dwyer: Do it again another day," right?
- 50:11Michelle Dwyer: Because you wanna see, Is that just, like, a one-day time that that happened, or is this something that you're doing all the time, and every single time you're doing it, it's spiking your blood sugar?
- 50:20Michelle Dwyer: So that's why I like the wearable.
- 50:22Michelle Dwyer: It's only for two weeks, so it's a pretty low investment of time and energy.
- 50:26Michelle Dwyer: And, um, you know,
- 50:28Mary: we know that
- 50:29Michelle Dwyer: what
- 50:29Mary: we pay attention
- 50:30Michelle Dwyer: to, is, like, if we wanna shift or change something, we have to pay attention to it.
- 50:34Michelle Dwyer: So it just gives a nice opportunity to pay attention to it for two weeks, get some personalized data.
- 50:40Michelle Dwyer: I never have to tell anyone ever again to eat this, don't eat that.
- 50:44Michelle Dwyer: I'm like, "Hey, let's see what your body does."
- 50:47Mary: Yeah.
- 50:47Michelle Dwyer: so in terms of options these days, at this exact moment in time, there are the prescription ones that you need a doctor's prescription.
- 50:55Michelle Dwyer: those have some benefits in that they're, they're pretty accurate, but you have to kind of turn off a lot of things and adjust a lot of things 'cause they're designed for people with Type 1 or Type 2 diabetes.
- 51:05Mary: Okay.
- 51:06Michelle Dwyer: At this current moment, there are ones available over the counter.
- 51:10Michelle Dwyer: my personal preference, this is not an endorsement, I get no money, I am not an affiliate, I do not do...
- 51:17Michelle Dwyer: this is just what I like to use, is right now I'm preferring the Stelo, which is the, the Abbott version of the over-the-counter.
- 51:24Michelle Dwyer: This exact date and time, it's $55, so the price point's pretty affordable.
- 51:29Michelle Dwyer: When I ordered my last one, it came in a day, so for convenience, availability, ease of use, I think it's a great option.
- 51:35Michelle Dwyer: but there are other options out there.
- 51:38Michelle Dwyer: I think it can be a great tool in the toolbox just to get some clarity, to get some interesting data.
- 51:45Michelle Dwyer: And then again, the key thing is, What do I wanna do with this data, I have a client whose A1C was going up.
- 51:51Michelle Dwyer: She's menopausal, breast cancer survivor.
- 51:54Michelle Dwyer: really wanted to get her weight down, and wanted to do so in a very thoughtful, sustainable way, and she's done amazing.
- 52:05Michelle Dwyer: also started to see her A1C creep up, and was like, "Why didn't anybody tell me?" It had actually been creeping up for a while, but no one had talked to her about it.
- 52:12Michelle Dwyer: So she's wearing a continuous glucose monitor.
- 52:16Michelle Dwyer: She works at a high-end tech company, and they have delicious cookies for free every day.
- 52:22Michelle Dwyer: All the ones, all the cookies she could possibly...
- 52:24Michelle Dwyer: She loves these cookies.
- 52:25Michelle Dwyer: She's like, "You know what?
- 52:26Michelle Dwyer: It's spiking my blood sugar.
- 52:29Michelle Dwyer: What happens if I have a quarter of a cookie after lunch, after my protein?" And she can have it.
- 52:34Michelle Dwyer: Her blood sugar goes up, she goes for a walk, she has her little cookie.
- 52:37Michelle Dwyer: So it's like, how do we, still have the little bit of cookie and help her achieve her goals, So it's not, throwing any baby out with the bathwater.
- 52:45Michelle Dwyer: It's really getting intentional.
- 52:47Michelle Dwyer: It's not required, doesn't work for everybody.
- 52:49Michelle Dwyer: but it can be a really great tool.
- 52:51Michelle Dwyer: However, and I'm not saying this just so people join my group, 'cause there's lots of other groups out there, there's some great books out there.
- 52:58Michelle Dwyer: I do think it is best if you're going to wear a continuous glucose monitor to at least work with someone or do some research of, like, what is reasonable so you're not just freaking out and going, "Oh my God, this is terrible," when everything is fine, right?
- 53:13Michelle Dwyer: Because we don't wanna like, have misinformation about how to read it, right?
- 53:19Mary: Exactly,
- 53:20Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 53:20Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 53:21Mary: that note, Michelle, tell our listeners where they can find you, what your offerings are
- 53:26Michelle Dwyer: Thanks.
- 53:26Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 53:27Michelle Dwyer: So, uh, my website's very easy.
- 53:29Michelle Dwyer: It's healthcoachmichelle.com, and that's M-I-C-H-E-L-L-E.
- 53:30Michelle Dwyer: And I work with clients one-on-one, all around the country.
- 53:37Michelle Dwyer: I'm telehealth.
- 53:38Michelle Dwyer: I do run continuous glucose monitor groups.
- 53:41Michelle Dwyer: those are about quarterly, and I try to make that a really easy price point to come in so you get a lot of information, you get kind of the camaraderie of the group, and you walk away with some new tools in your toolbox.
- 53:53Michelle Dwyer: I also run a program.
- 53:55Michelle Dwyer: I'm the founder of Whole Life Nourishment, so it's looking at all aspects of our health and wellbeing.
- 54:00Michelle Dwyer: and that's a four-month group program that it's like really nourishing our body, mind, and soul.
- 54:05Michelle Dwyer: And then I also do, talks.
- 54:08Michelle Dwyer: So I love doing corpor- corporate wellness or wellness talks, either locally or, online.
- 54:15Michelle Dwyer: So yeah, Health Coach Michelle.
- 54:16Michelle Dwyer: And that's all my handles, too.
- 54:18Michelle Dwyer: My LinkedIn, my Instagram, everything's all Health Coach Michelle.
- 54:23Mary: Beautiful.
- 54:23Mary: We'll get all those links in the show notes, but before we say goodbye, we're gonna go into quick lightning round.
- 54:30Mary: This makes it insightful and playful.
- 54:32Mary: So I'll fire the questions, and you give us your expertise.
- 54:36Mary: Tell us one thing you do for your morning ritual.
- 54:41Michelle Dwyer: Hmm.
- 54:42Michelle Dwyer: my favorite thing to do in the morning is to read.
- 54:46Michelle Dwyer: I love to read even just for about 10 or 15 minutes in the morning.
- 54:50Michelle Dwyer: I, I...
- 54:51Michelle Dwyer: it just sort of grounds me for the day.
- 54:53Michelle Dwyer: It sort of starts my day off joyfully.
- 54:56Mary: Beautiful.
- 54:57Mary: A food you'll never give up.
- 55:00Michelle Dwyer: Oh, goodness.
- 55:01Michelle Dwyer: Oh, that's so hard.
- 55:04Michelle Dwyer: Knowing how, how much my body has changed.
- 55:07Michelle Dwyer: You know, it's funny, if this was 15 years ago, it would've been cheese, and, uh, my body can't do dairy anymore, so,
- 55:14Mary: I
- 55:15Michelle Dwyer: been able to for 15 years.
- 55:16Michelle Dwyer: So, you know, it's funny how these things, I'm like, "Oh, I don't wanna jinx myself." Um, oh, avocado probably.
- 55:24Michelle Dwyer: I love avocados.
- 55:25Michelle Dwyer: Tell,
- 55:26Mary: was
- 55:26Michelle Dwyer: tell me you're a California girl without telling me.
- 55:29Michelle Dwyer: Born and raised.
- 55:30Michelle Dwyer: I love my avocados.
- 55:32Mary: Yeah, I would, I would agree with you on that one.
- 55:35Michelle Dwyer: Yeah.
- 55:36Mary: Most underrated health habit.
- 55:38Michelle Dwyer: Ooh.
- 55:39Michelle Dwyer: I don't know if it's underrated, but I love it because it's so important, is, is friends, community, connection, being with people, being with people that lift your spirit, people that fill your cup and, um, actually does so much for our health and wellbeing, so yeah.
- 55:59Mary: our brain health, dopamine, serotonin.
- 56:02Michelle Dwyer: Exactly.
- 56:02Mary: it.
- 56:03Michelle Dwyer: Oxytocin.
- 56:04Michelle Dwyer: We get those hugs in, right?
- 56:06Mary: All the good stuff, yep.
- 56:07Mary: and then what's the most overrated health trend?
- 56:11Michelle Dwyer: Oh, that's a great one.
- 56:14Michelle Dwyer: Anything that's designed for men's bodies, anything that is, like, based on research that has been done on a male body and not been done on a body that had a uterus or ovaries.
- 56:26Michelle Dwyer: overrated.
- 56:28Michelle Dwyer: we gotta call that into question.
- 56:30Michelle Dwyer: So I think, um, there's, there's a lot of things that fall into that category, but I'm gonna, I'm gonna put that as a general, a general statement.
- 56:38Michelle Dwyer: Hmm.
- 56:38Mary: before we go into the last two mic drops, one more.
- 56:41Mary: What are you currently unlearning?
- 56:48Michelle Dwyer: I would say personally, it's always people pleasing.
- 56:54Michelle Dwyer: Right?
- 56:55Michelle Dwyer: Letting, letting go of that, that people pleasing.
- 56:59Michelle Dwyer: And then I would say professionally, it's really keeping an open mind between data and evidence and foundational things that have served us for hundreds of years, right?
- 57:16Michelle Dwyer: So holding...
- 57:17Michelle Dwyer: The unlearning, I suppose, is staying in that state of curiosity and openness about what's new information, and this is helping us to move forward, and also, let's not abandon the foundationals.
- 57:29Mary: Okay, so finding that delicate balance.
- 57:32Michelle Dwyer: Mm-hmm.
- 57:32Michelle Dwyer: Discernment.
- 57:34Michelle Dwyer: Yep.
- 57:35Mary: Very good.
- 57:35Mary: Okay, Finish this sentence: True health is...
- 57:40Michelle Dwyer: Hmm.
- 57:41Michelle Dwyer: Holistic.
- 57:42Michelle Dwyer: Mind, body, spirit.
- 57:43Michelle Dwyer: It's gotta be.
- 57:44Michelle Dwyer: Otherwise, it's not true health.
- 57:46Mary: Next one: would feel so much better if they just stopped...
- 57:52Michelle Dwyer: Hmm.
- 57:53Michelle Dwyer: judging, shaming, guilting themselves.
- 57:58Michelle Dwyer: We cannot hate ourselves to health.
- 58:01Michelle Dwyer: We just can't.
- 58:02Michelle Dwyer: We cannot tell our bodies that we're hating them and then think we're gonna get to a state of vibrational health.
- 58:10Michelle Dwyer: And it's a daily practice.
- 58:11Michelle Dwyer: We gotta take that guilt, judgment, shame, overwhelm, whatever it is, and be like, "Okay, I see you, and I'm putting you in the compost bin," so.
- 58:19Mary: Love that.
- 58:20Mary: So good.
- 58:20Mary: I thought you were gonna say something like booze and sex, but
- 58:25Michelle Dwyer: The
- 58:26Mary: keep the sex,
- 58:27Michelle Dwyer: right kind of sex.
- 58:33Mary: Great.
- 58:33Mary: We're, we're won't go any further.
- 58:36Mary: We've had about
- 58:38Michelle Dwyer: That's for, that's again for another expert.
- 58:41Mary: topic, another day.
- 58:43Mary: Michelle, this has been great.
- 58:44Mary: We're gonna get all of your terrific links in the show notes to share with our listeners.
- 58:48Mary: I am so glad to have had you.
- 58:51Mary: and I thoroughly loved your energy, your enthusiasm, your expertise, and sharing your story, being vulnerable and sharing with us the journey, 'cause that truly is where connections are made.
- 59:01Michelle Dwyer: Thank you.
- 59:02Mary: Thank you.
- 59:04Mary: You can see now why Michelle has been ranked as one of those top coaches in her field.
- 59:08Mary: She has such contagious energy.
- 59:11Mary: Before we wrap up today's episode, though, I wanna leave you with a few really important takeaways from this conversation with Michelle.
- 59:18Mary: First, so many of the changes women experience in perimenopause and menopause are not about laziness, lack of discipline, or falling off track.
- 59:27Mary: Hormonal shifts, especially changes in estrogen, can directly impact blood sugar regulation, insulin sensitivity, your energy, cravings, sleep, mood, and even the way women store fat.
- 59:39Mary: And one of the markers we talked about was A1C.
- 59:43Mary: A1C is a blood test that measures your average blood sugar levels over roughly the past few months.
- 59:49Mary: It looks at how much glucose or sugar is attached to your red blood cells over time.
- 59:56Mary: So rather than it being a snapshot of one moment, it gives you a bigger picture view of how your body is managing blood sugar overall.
- 1:00:04Mary: And you don't have to have type one or type two diabetes to benefit from wearing a continuous glucose monitor.
- 1:00:11Mary: And why does this matter in midlife?
- 1:00:13Mary: Because rising insulin resistance and unstable blood sugar can contribute to a number of things: brain fog, energy crashes, increased abdominal fat, inflammation, disrupted sleep, and even long-term cardiovascular and cognitive health risks.
- 1:00:30Mary: Another huge takeaway from today's conversation is that blood sugar regulation isn't about avoiding sugar.
- 1:00:37Mary: It's deeply connected to muscle mass, stress and cortisol, sleep quality, our protein intake and healthy fats, movements, and of course, nervous system health.
- 1:00:48Mary: Michelle also reminded us that health doesn't have to be overwhelming.
- 1:00:52Mary: Small shifts like prioritizing protein at breakfast, building muscle through strength training, balancing meals with healthy fats and fiber, or simply becoming more aware of how your body responds to certain foods can have profound long-term impacts.
- 1:01:07Mary: And I really love her perspective that tools like continuous glucose monitors aren't meant to shame or control us.
- 1:01:13Mary: They can simply offer information and awareness so we can work with our bodies more intelligently and compassionately.
- 1:01:19Mary: And most importantly, this episode is a reminder that your body is not betraying you in midlife, it's communicating with you.
- 1:01:27Mary: And when you understand the physiology behind these changes, we can move from self-judgment into self-support and agency.
- 1:01:36Mary: So if today's conversation resonated with you, be sure to share this episode with another woman, a friend, a colleague, a family member.
- 1:01:44Mary: who may need to hear it.
- 1:01:46Mary: And as always, thank you for being here.
- 1:01:48Mary: for being curious, and for continuing to advocate for your health and your well-being