
Note 78: Okay, But What Do You Want?
Some women can tell you what everyone around them needs and go blank when somebody asks what they want. In Note 78, Yaya talks about how years of "I'm fine with whatever" quietly turn into feeling stuck, and how to find the woman you were before everyone needed something from you.
The episode ends with three questions to ask yourself and two small practices you can start this week.
Inside this episode:
How "I'm fine with whatever" starts as kindness and ends in a blank when somebody asks what you want
Where the habit comes from, including being praised for being the easy one
Why being needed…
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