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37 | Stop Earning Love: Redefine Your Worth
What if you've spent years trying to become the version of yourself you think is easiest to love?
I think a lot of women would say they don't believe love has to be earned.
But then we look at what it actually looks like in their relationships, and sometimes there's a very different story underneath.
In this episode, I’m digging into what happens when you stop auditioning for love and start asking a much more interesting question: What am I choosing?
We talk about:
How “earning love” can hide inside being endlessly helpful, understanding, loyal and forgiving
Why understanding someone's trauma…
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