
What Separates A Value From A Preference
Most people think they are living by their values when they are actually just living by their preferences, and that confusion is the reason their lives feel inconsistent, scattered, and quietly out of alignment. Preferences are what feel good in the moment, what is comfortable, what is convenient, and what protects you from friction, while values are what you have decided matter regardless of how you feel on any given day. The problem is that when preferences run the show, your discipline collapses the moment something becomes hard, your standards bend the moment something becomes…
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