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Boundaries Don't Work. Access Does. (Here's the Difference)
You keep setting boundaries and they keep getting ignored. That's not a boundary problem — it's an access problem, and almost nobody talks about the difference. This episode breaks down the abandonment wound underneath it and the one shift that actually works.
In this episode, Rosanna breaks down why "boundary" stopped meaning anything — and introduces the concept that actually works instead: access.
We get into:
Why you can't set a boundary on someone who never agreed to respect it
The difference between a boundary and access — and why access is the one you actually control
Why certain…
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