Do you know what is harder than healing the fear of abandonment?

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship · Jul 16, 2026 · 20m

This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha gets into something she sees in almost every woman she works with: the fear of abandonment, and why she thinks people have it backwards about how hard healing actually is. 💛

Sasha shares the idea of insourcing versus outsourcing, and digs into the everyday patterns that are quietly harder to live with than the fear itself — the overthinking spiral after a disagreement, the urge to control every outcome so a partner never gets the chance to lead, the needs that get swallowed until they erupt, the standoff of waiting for someone else to reach…