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Episodes 20-22 of the 30-Day Challenge to Maintaining Your Badassness! · Maintaining Your Badassness!

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  There is a demure power that anyone can have.
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  It enables you never to get mad at anyone else
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  for the rest of your life. This is the kind of
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  power that is soft, respectful and doesn't react
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  to anger, rejection or ignorance. It starts with
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  expectations. When you are expecting a certain
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  response or something to happen, your attitude
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  shifts when it doesn't happen the way you expect
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  it. And you become angry, bitter, and resentful.
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  Many of us react out of our own anger. Don't
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  let your mood become controlled by strangers.
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  Stop the acting to a hate. deliberate put -downs.
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  That's what they want you to do. Just let them
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  betray you and be fine with it. Everyone has
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  a choice and they made theirs out of selfishness.
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  Be better than them. So standing in peace is
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  more important than proving your point. Let them
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  do their evil and you walk away with a head held
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  up not losing any ounce of confidence. Stay self
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  -assured and remember silence will kill them
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  quicker this affirmation when you need to assure
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  your self -worth taining your badassness day
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  19 today we'll be doing the 20th 21st and 22nd
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  your homework for the 20th and 21st with body
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  recovery and check -in Do a 20 -minute stretch,
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  breath work, or bath. No productivity. So work
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  on your body. When you work on your body, it
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  will cross over into your mind. When your body
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  feels good, you feel good. What felt easier that
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  week? Write down what felt easier in the present
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  week. Say the things. Use observation. Impact.
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  To ask the one question you've been avoiding
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  in a meeting or chat. You know, in those weekly
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  meetings you want to ask this question. So bad!
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  Whether it is related to work or a situation
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  that happened at work. Ask it. Use your observation.
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  Read the room. And if the room feels like, okay...
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  Now is a good time to ask and your boss and co
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  -workers will be accepted. Ask it. Here's a way
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  you can tell. Read the room and feel everybody's
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  energy. These survey questions for Got Badassness?
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  We'll see at the end of this month what level
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  you're on if you're even on the scale. Question
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  58. How many people do you date at once? Are
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  you an exclusive dater? And let them know there
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  is about a relationship right now. I'm dating
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  a few people. Do you play the ex game? You know
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  what I'm talking about. Where you keep in touch
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  with your ex just to have a secure thing hanging
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  around. You know, the old standby. We'll get
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  into that a little bit later of why you should
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  not play the ex game. You need to be through
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  with that person. Do you exercise often? do you
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  self think? A lot of people group think and that
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  can be a benefit and a hazard. But how often
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  do you self think? Do you make time for continuous
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  learning? Not just at your job. Do you have back
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  pocket skills? I've talked about back pocket
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  skills a lot. Do you have back pocket skills?
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  Yeah, it's fine to learn for your job, but you
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  don't have to wait on your job. to allow you
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  to further your education? Do you strive to break
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  the glass ceiling if you are a woman or minority?
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  Do you get each night more than four, more than
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  six, more than eight? Do you find yourself worrying
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  too much? And the last question, do you get headaches
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  often? I played. Whenever you need to be reassured
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  of your self -worth. Which I read at the beginning
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  of this session. Listen to it again.