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How-to feel Insecure and still act Securely: talent show life lesson

What if you could feel insecure without letting insecurity call the shots?

While planning a talent show for my kids' school, I've found myself in a very public position of doing something I'm wildly underqualified for, with limited time and plenty of opportunities to make mistakes. 😂

And it's been a fascinating little habit lab in noticing how insecurity shows up!

Sometimes it looks like over-apologizing, people pleasing, or self-deprecation. Other times it looks like defensiveness, control, blame, or making excuses. Different behaviors, but often the same underlying fear: What will people…

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