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- 0:00Speaker 1: My name's Aatasha Bamblet. I'm a proud First Nations woman
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- 1:07Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
- 1:10Speaker 3: that lets you be pervy about other people's money stories
- 1:13Speaker 3: for educational purposes of course. Welcome back to another one
- 1:17Speaker 3: of our money daries, where I get the absolute pleasure
- 1:19Speaker 3: of sitting down with one of our Shees on the
- 1:21Speaker 3: Money community members and talking to them about all the
- 1:24Speaker 3: nitty gritty details of their money story. Let's jump straight
- 1:27Speaker 3: into it, because this week I got an email and
- 1:30Speaker 3: it sounded identical to this dear she's on the money.
- 1:34Speaker 3: I started working at fourteen, and then I met my
- 1:37Speaker 3: husband at sixteen. We skipped uni, went straight into full
- 1:41Speaker 3: time work and saved hard. We were living at home
- 1:44Speaker 3: and desperately wanted our own space, So at twenty two
- 1:48Speaker 3: years old, we bought our first home. Then we rented
- 1:51Speaker 3: it out while we spent four years overseas on the
- 1:54Speaker 3: ultimate working honeymoon. We came back, sold that house and
- 1:58Speaker 3: eventually settled into our dream home, and now we have
- 2:01Speaker 3: two babies. We never thought we were quote good with money,
- 2:05Speaker 3: but maybe we've done all right after all, money diarist, Yeah,
- 2:10Speaker 3: you have done all right after all, haven't you.
- 2:12Speaker 2: Yeah, looking back over it, yes we've done pretty good.
- 2:16Speaker 3: I am so excited for this money story, like it
- 2:19Speaker 3: just feels oh. I also just love love, Like I've
- 2:22Speaker 3: just got so many. When people are like, oh I
- 2:24Speaker 3: met my partner or my husband or my wife or whatever,
- 2:27Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, tell me, Like I want the pervy details.
- 2:29Speaker 3: This isn't like you know, money questions, but like I
- 2:32Speaker 3: need the dirt. So let's jump into it. Before I
- 2:36Speaker 3: ask any more pervy questions. I want to know if
- 2:39Speaker 3: I asked you to give yourself a money grade from
- 2:41Speaker 3: A three to F, what would you grade yourself?
- 2:44Speaker 2: I would say a B minus at the moment, B minus.
- 2:47Speaker 3: All right, let's go with that, And now can you
- 2:49Speaker 3: tell me a little bit more about the nitty gritty
- 2:51Speaker 3: of your money story.
- 2:52Speaker 4: Yeah, so, I guess the first kind of memories of
- 2:55Speaker 4: money I have is probably as a kid.
- 2:59Speaker 2: We came from a well, I have two sisters, and
- 3:03Speaker 2: my dad worked.
- 3:04Speaker 4: Mom was a stay at home mom, and from stories
- 3:08Speaker 4: that they've told us, they worked and saved really hard.
- 3:12Speaker 2: But as kids we wouldn't have known that.
- 3:15Speaker 4: They instilled that if you want want certain things, you
- 3:21Speaker 4: work for it, save up and then you can purchase
- 3:24Speaker 4: it with your own money. So we had chores and
- 3:27Speaker 4: pocket money and stuff. But it wasn't until I really
- 3:31Speaker 4: wanted a mobile phone that I guess they put their
- 3:35Speaker 4: foot down and the only way to get a phone
- 3:38Speaker 4: at that point was to be able to pay for
- 3:41Speaker 4: it myself. And so I was actually sixteen when I
- 3:45Speaker 4: started work, but started working at the glamorous McDonald's.
- 3:50Speaker 3: No sorry, that's a great first job.
- 3:53Speaker 2: It is a great person job. And yeah worked therefore
- 3:58Speaker 2: would be nearly eight years or something like that, but
- 4:02Speaker 2: mainly to be able to pay for a teeny tiny
- 4:06Speaker 2: Samsung flip phone.
- 4:07Speaker 3: I was about to ask, what phone did you want?
- 4:09Speaker 3: Because you're thirty five and I'm thirty four, so I
- 4:10Speaker 3: feel like we're on the same page about what phones
- 4:13Speaker 3: we wanted. So Samsung flip phone. Was that the one
- 4:16Speaker 3: with the little screen on the front that had the time? Yes, yep, yep, sexy,
- 4:20Speaker 3: I love it.
- 4:20Speaker 4: Yes, So yeah, I bought the phone had the prepaid
- 4:25Speaker 4: credit on it. One of those friends where you freaked
- 4:27Speaker 4: out if you accidentally hit the internet.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Because it would suck it all up.
- 4:31Speaker 3: Oh yeah, don't do that. That's expensive. Yep, yep, yep.
- 4:34Speaker 3: And also only text your friends after eight pm because like,
- 4:37Speaker 3: we're not spending fifty five cents on a text, eh, exactly.
- 4:41Speaker 2: And then I was always a saber. I've always put
- 4:45Speaker 2: money aside into savings.
- 4:47Speaker 4: When I finished school, it was the goal was by
- 4:53Speaker 4: a car, and I did that. We went and got
- 4:57Speaker 4: a personal loan. It was like a we maybe did
- 5:00Speaker 4: it as like a ten year personal loan or something,
- 5:03Speaker 4: and it wasn't a huge amount, probably like eight thousand.
- 5:07Speaker 4: I mean not a huge amount.
- 5:09Speaker 2: At eighteen, it's a huge amount, eight thousand dollars.
- 5:11Speaker 4: But I paid it off within like two or three
- 5:15Speaker 4: years because everything went to that and I was living
- 5:19Speaker 4: at home still with mum and.
- 5:21Speaker 2: Dad at that point.
- 5:23Speaker 4: Had started dating my now husband at eighteen, and yeah,
- 5:30Speaker 4: so everything went towards saving and paying off the car loan,
- 5:35Speaker 4: which we did really quickly, and then it was working
- 5:39Speaker 4: with my husband to save up for a house. We
- 5:45Speaker 4: both school was not our thing, so we both deferred
- 5:50Speaker 4: UNI and then got the taste of full time work
- 5:53Speaker 4: and full time income and both decided.
- 5:55Speaker 2: We weren't willing to give that up ever, So we.
- 6:01Speaker 4: Lived between our parents' houses for two or three years. Well,
- 6:07Speaker 4: we saved up for a house. We actually never lived together,
- 6:12Speaker 4: I guess officially lived together until we bought our house,
- 6:16Speaker 4: but we did do some house sitting to test the
- 6:21Speaker 4: waters see if we could live together.
- 6:23Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good thing to do. So did you
- 6:25Speaker 3: meet your husband at school or at your job?
- 6:28Speaker 4: So we met at McDonald's at the age of sixteen,
- 6:31Speaker 4: working together Maca's Love Stories it is.
- 6:35Speaker 2: And then started dating when we were eighteen.
- 6:38Speaker 3: Oh my god, so you knew each other for two
- 6:40Speaker 3: years before that happened. I need to know, like who
- 6:42Speaker 3: had a crush on who first? Like did you have
- 6:44Speaker 3: a crush on each other the whole time? Or like
- 6:46Speaker 3: how did it become We knew each other for two
- 6:48Speaker 3: years and then we started dating.
- 6:50Speaker 4: Yeah, so I think we were just in like the
- 6:53Speaker 4: same kind of friendship group at McDonald's and then it
- 6:56Speaker 4: just blossomed from there at some point.
- 6:59Speaker 2: I can't really remember who had a crush on who first,
- 7:04Speaker 2: but that's cute.
- 7:05Speaker 3: And then tell me a little bit more about that.
- 7:07Speaker 3: So you like bought your first house, Like when did
- 7:10Speaker 3: you get married, because you said that, you know, you
- 7:12Speaker 3: went on the ultimate working honeymoon. How old were you
- 7:16Speaker 3: when you guys were like, okay, let's get married.
- 7:18Speaker 4: Yeah, So we bought our house at twenty two back
- 7:20Speaker 4: in twenty eleven, just before he turned twenty one, and
- 7:25Speaker 4: then we decided to get married in twenty fourteen. Because
- 7:30Speaker 4: the plan was always to travel, the timing of it
- 7:35Speaker 4: was never certain until we decided it was better to
- 7:40Speaker 4: get into.
- 7:41Speaker 2: The property market first. So we actually actually got that
- 7:45Speaker 2: advice from another McDonald's manager when I was out on
- 7:49Speaker 2: a course and he was like, no, get into the
- 7:51Speaker 2: property market first, then rented out and travel And so
- 7:55Speaker 2: I took the advice of a random maca's manager.
- 7:57Speaker 3: You know what, sometimes it works sometimes.
- 8:00Speaker 2: And it worked out beautifully.
- 8:02Speaker 4: So we rented the house out from twenty fourteen to
- 8:07Speaker 4: twenty and eighteen, and in that time we spent two
- 8:11Speaker 4: years living in London jumping about Europe. The rent covered
- 8:17Speaker 4: the mortgage plus a little bit.
- 8:19Speaker 3: Oh my god, how good.
- 8:21Speaker 4: Like I say, we feel really lucky, but we obviously
- 8:24Speaker 4: worked hard. I don't like to say we feel lucky
- 8:28Speaker 4: that the timing all just worked out really well, but
- 8:32Speaker 4: we worked hard to get to that point and then
- 8:35Speaker 4: it all just kind of fell into place, which was lovely.
- 8:38Speaker 4: So we had two years in London jumping about Europe
- 8:41Speaker 4: and then weren't ready to come home. So then we
- 8:43Speaker 4: spent two years in Vancouver, jumping about Canada and enjoying
- 8:49Speaker 4: life over there. The house was rented out. We did
- 8:53Speaker 4: get burned by a few tenants, but it all ended
- 8:58Speaker 4: up working out.
- 8:59Speaker 2: It was just the lidists of dealing with real estate
- 9:01Speaker 2: agents in a different time zone.
- 9:04Speaker 3: Yeah, so talk to me when you were living in
- 9:06Speaker 3: London and then in Vancouver. What kind of work did
- 9:09Speaker 3: you do?
- 9:09Speaker 2: So I was doing admin work. I'd actually done a
- 9:13Speaker 2: diploma of HR management because I thought that was the
- 9:16Speaker 2: career I wanted. Spoiler, it's not.
- 9:21Speaker 3: That's okay.
- 9:22Speaker 4: You were a baby, Yeah, I was a baby and
- 9:24Speaker 4: my husband was working for an Australian tour company which
- 9:29Speaker 4: very conveniently provided some discounted tours for us.
- 9:34Speaker 3: Oh, how good you guys? Had it worked out?
- 9:37Speaker 2: We did?
- 9:38Speaker 4: Yes, we were very very lucky with the timing of
- 9:42Speaker 4: everything as well, because after living in Vancouver for the
- 9:47Speaker 4: two years, we came back to Australia in October of
- 9:51Speaker 4: twenty eighteen, just before the world descended into mayhem.
- 9:56Speaker 3: I was about to say, what good timing to then
- 9:58Speaker 3: get to go into lockdown, But I feel like it
- 10:01Speaker 3: would have been more stressful to go into lockdown overseas.
- 10:05Speaker 2: Oh one hundred percent.
- 10:07Speaker 4: I look at it now and go, Thank heavens we
- 10:10Speaker 4: got the travel in that we did, especially for how
- 10:16Speaker 4: cheap it was to travel around Europe. Were used to
- 10:18Speaker 4: have a look at Skyscanner and go, oh, look there's
- 10:22Speaker 4: a ten pound flight to Switzerland.
- 10:25Speaker 2: Then you look around at work and go does anyone
- 10:27Speaker 2: want to go to Switzerland for the weekend?
- 10:29Speaker 3: Stop it? But that's so cool. Like my best friend
- 10:35Speaker 3: or one of my best friends, Rosie lives in London
- 10:38Speaker 3: at the moment, and she does like she's just come
- 10:40Speaker 3: back from Sardinia. Like I look at her. We have
- 10:43Speaker 3: such different lives, but I watch her on with so
- 10:46Speaker 3: much envy because she's like, yeah, like, my friend and
- 10:48Speaker 3: I are just going to go to Sardinia for the weekend.
- 10:50Speaker 3: I've taken an extra two days off work. And I'm like,
- 10:52Speaker 3: imagine if that was my reality, Like you can just
- 10:54Speaker 3: do that? And she's like yeah, yeah, yeah. We got
- 10:56Speaker 3: some cheap flights and we found a cute resort. I'm like, what,
- 11:00Speaker 3: like that would be my annual holiday.
- 11:03Speaker 4: It was something we had to learn really quickly in
- 11:07Speaker 4: terms of money, because we went from being paid weekly
- 11:11Speaker 4: here in Australia two monthly in London. And the first
- 11:15Speaker 4: few months we would go, oh, we are rich, and
- 11:19Speaker 4: we'd book all these trips and then the trip would
- 11:21Speaker 4: come around and.
- 11:22Speaker 2: We'd be like, oh, we're poor. We got nothing. We
- 11:26Speaker 2: got nothing to spend here in the country.
- 11:29Speaker 4: So we would stay in youth hostels and first time
- 11:34Speaker 4: it was we'd make a ham and cheese sandwich and
- 11:36Speaker 4: wrap it in a napkin. After a couple of months
- 11:39Speaker 4: of doing that, I just took a SnapLock bag in
- 11:41Speaker 4: my handbag and we'd put the.
- 11:43Speaker 2: Ham and cheese sandwiches in the snaplot bag, so lunch
- 11:47Speaker 2: was done for the day.
- 11:47Speaker 3: I don't know if you're following me on social media,
- 11:50Speaker 3: but yes, I still do that. My son, my husband
- 11:54Speaker 3: and I went on holiday to Bali recently and I
- 11:56Speaker 3: took his whole damn lunch box.
- 11:58Speaker 2: Perfect.
- 12:00Speaker 3: But I just feel like, you do what you got
- 12:01Speaker 3: to do to save some money. And don't get me wrong,
- 12:03Speaker 3: could I afford lunch like now? Yes, But old habits
- 12:06Speaker 3: die hard.
- 12:08Speaker 2: If you're not making the most of it.
- 12:10Speaker 4: So we came back and I found a job where
- 12:14Speaker 4: I am now as an executive assistant, and researched a
- 12:19Speaker 4: company that had good maternity leave because the plan was
- 12:23Speaker 4: always to start a family. Once we arrived back in
- 12:26Speaker 4: Australia and got settled back into the house that was
- 12:29Speaker 4: rented out, so October twenty eighteen to January twenty nineteen
- 12:35Speaker 4: we were living at my parents' place, which was a
- 12:40Speaker 4: shock to the system and we were ready to get
- 12:42Speaker 4: back into our own space by January and then so
- 12:48Speaker 4: worked for a year. The company I worked for had
- 12:52Speaker 4: I think it's a pretty good maternity leaf policy.
- 12:56Speaker 2: So I was able to do that and then and
- 13:00Speaker 2: we had our baby girl in May of twenty twenty. Congrats,
- 13:06Speaker 2: right in the middle of lockdown.
- 13:08Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that would have been a fun time.
- 13:10Speaker 2: Yeap. I came in and out of the hospital. I
- 13:12Speaker 2: had to visit it while I was in labor. Three times.
- 13:15Speaker 4: I went in and out from home and they like
- 13:18Speaker 4: checked my temperature and I'm like, I'm in act, like
- 13:21Speaker 4: I'm proper having contractions.
- 13:23Speaker 2: I've not been anywhere but home.
- 13:25Speaker 3: Oh my god. I don't know what I would have done,
- 13:28Speaker 3: like having now gone through labor and like the whole process,
- 13:32Speaker 3: like the idea that women had to go through that
- 13:34Speaker 3: and what girl, you are stronger than me. I think
- 13:37Speaker 3: I would have had a mental breakdown.
- 13:38Speaker 2: Oh I thank heavens. The hospital we were in didn't
- 13:42Speaker 2: restrict partners, so my husband was there. I don't think
- 13:45Speaker 2: I could have done it without him. And we were
- 13:49Speaker 2: really lucky in that for the majority of the pregnancy
- 13:52Speaker 2: there was no restriction on him coming to ultrasounds or
- 13:55Speaker 2: ob checkups or anything.
- 13:57Speaker 4: So he didn't really except for maybe the last like
- 14:01Speaker 4: four weeks. He didn't miss out on that experience, which
- 14:06Speaker 4: was good.
- 14:06Speaker 3: Oh, I'm glad because it's like not the case for
- 14:09Speaker 3: so many women, and like, I feel like so many
- 14:11Speaker 3: people in our community are still holding trauma over that,
- 14:14Speaker 3: and like that's just it's just rough, And whenever I
- 14:17Speaker 3: hear it, I'm like, I don't know how you got
- 14:19Speaker 3: through that, but I'm proud of you. So May twenty twenty,
- 14:22Speaker 3: you had a daughter. Did you go back to work
- 14:24Speaker 3: after that?
- 14:25Speaker 2: So? I took twelve months maternity leave.
- 14:28Speaker 4: I ended up going back slightly early for strategic reasons.
- 14:34Speaker 4: We were coming up to Easter an Zach Day, public holidays,
- 14:38Speaker 4: so I returned like two or three weeks early so
- 14:41Speaker 4: that I could ease into it with the public holidays
- 14:45Speaker 4: and get paid for those.
- 14:47Speaker 3: Smart girl. Yeah you a strategy, queen, Yes.
- 14:52Speaker 4: And then so I returned to work on a flexible
- 14:55Speaker 4: work arrangement three days a week. I was doing thirty hours,
- 15:00Speaker 4: and because we were still in pretty much in and
- 15:03Speaker 4: out of lockdowns, the office wasn't fully opened, I was
- 15:08Speaker 4: able to work a couple of hours while my daughter
- 15:13Speaker 4: was napping on my off days to make up the
- 15:16Speaker 4: thirty hours rather than doing three ten hour days.
- 15:19Speaker 3: Good girl, I love that. And you said you have
- 15:22Speaker 3: two babies. When did number two come along?
- 15:25Speaker 2: Number two came along in July twenty twenty two.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Exciting. What age gap is that? That's like twenty two
- 15:31Speaker 3: years two months, two years two. I'm like twenty months
- 15:34Speaker 3: or twenty six months? Yeah, good job, how exciting? What's
- 15:38Speaker 3: that age gap?
- 15:39Speaker 2: Like? It was really hard to begin with. I think
- 15:44Speaker 2: my algorithm told me that going from zero to one
- 15:49Speaker 2: was harder than going from one to two. I don't agree.
- 15:53Speaker 4: Going from one to two was much much more of
- 15:56Speaker 4: a shock wake up call than it was zero to one.
- 16:01Speaker 2: But I did have a unicorn baby first, so she
- 16:05Speaker 2: slept well. She was very chill.
- 16:07Speaker 3: If you don't know that at the time, do you
- 16:09Speaker 3: just think that's parenting?
- 16:11Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, like I was able to
- 16:14Speaker 4: bake and exercise and have my rest and keep the
- 16:18Speaker 4: house in order.
- 16:19Speaker 2: And then two of them. I was like, yeah, no, this,
- 16:24Speaker 2: you need to lower your expectations. I love that.
- 16:27Speaker 3: I was talking to one of my girlfriends the other
- 16:29Speaker 3: day who has three, and she's always just been this
- 16:32Speaker 3: like superhero mum right like, and she's had relatively good kids,
- 16:36Speaker 3: and like she'd always say things like, oh my god,
- 16:38Speaker 3: like you know, I'm just really trying so hard to
- 16:40Speaker 3: be a good parent. It's really paying off forever. Her
- 16:43Speaker 3: third kid is now what eleven months old, and has
- 16:47Speaker 3: humbled her Like She's like, no, none of that was me.
- 16:51Speaker 3: None of that was me. We just had two really
- 16:53Speaker 3: good kids, and I was deluded into having a third,
- 16:55Speaker 3: and I love them to the edge of the earth.
- 16:57Speaker 3: But also, what the hell is this?
- 17:00Speaker 2: Yes, I can empathize with that.
- 17:02Speaker 3: I feel like that that sounds reasonable. Maybe I should
- 17:05Speaker 3: introduce the two of you to share some trauma. And
- 17:07Speaker 3: now take us up to today. Did you go back
- 17:09Speaker 3: to work after your second baby?
- 17:11Speaker 2: Yeah, so I went back to work.
- 17:14Speaker 4: So I'm back at work now full time, but I
- 17:17Speaker 4: have still on a flexible work arrangement where I work
- 17:21Speaker 4: full time hours in four days.
- 17:23Speaker 3: Oh nice.
- 17:24Speaker 2: Yeah, so we've kind of said it.
- 17:26Speaker 4: I had my set of values for how I pictured
- 17:32Speaker 4: mothering and parenting, and my limit for daycare was three days,
- 17:37Speaker 4: so I only wanted them in some sort of care
- 17:41Speaker 4: for three days at most. And we my husband and
- 17:45Speaker 4: I have worked together to make it that I have
- 17:50Speaker 4: one day off a week, he has one day off
- 17:52Speaker 4: with them a week.
- 17:53Speaker 2: Then my eldest is kindy age, so she is in
- 17:57Speaker 2: a kindy three days a week, and then my youngest
- 18:00Speaker 2: is at daycare two days.
- 18:02Speaker 4: And then we're very lucky to have the support of
- 18:05Speaker 4: our grandparents or their grandparents.
- 18:08Speaker 1: My parents.
- 18:09Speaker 2: The grandparents are around.
- 18:11Speaker 4: To look after them during school holidays and on the
- 18:16Speaker 4: one day that my youngest isn't at daycare, and my
- 18:19Speaker 4: eldest got that because everything was shut.
- 18:22Speaker 2: Down when she started daycare.
- 18:24Speaker 4: She actually had alternating days with the grandparents when I
- 18:28Speaker 4: first went back to work with her.
- 18:30Speaker 3: I feel like you've got your village sorted. That is
- 18:32Speaker 3: a good position to be in.
- 18:33Speaker 4: We have a really beautiful village of people who are
- 18:36Speaker 4: happy to jump in and help, not just family, but
- 18:39Speaker 4: friends as well. A little side story is so I
- 18:44Speaker 4: had a beautiful home birth with my second of really yeah, beautiful.
- 18:50Speaker 4: Loved it, everything went smooth, loved not having to get
- 18:54Speaker 4: in the car, was having contractions, and then six weeks postpartum,
- 18:59Speaker 4: my opinion.
- 19:00Speaker 3: Gave up or getting the bin.
- 19:03Speaker 2: It didn't go in the bin.
- 19:06Speaker 4: So it gave up and I had to rally the
- 19:11Speaker 4: troops basically to help because so she is six weeks old.
- 19:17Speaker 2: Luckily I had like a freezer supply of breast milk.
- 19:20Speaker 3: I was gonna say, were you breastfeeding as well, because
- 19:22Speaker 3: that would have thrown your breastfeeding into a spin, especially
- 19:25Speaker 3: with like all the medications and sedation, and like, oh
- 19:27Speaker 3: my god, no, like that's all my head went to.
- 19:31Speaker 2: Yeah, first thing I packed breast fun The nurses were like.
- 19:35Speaker 3: You're mad, I am, but also this is important to me.
- 19:38Speaker 3: And it's funny because before you said something that resonated
- 19:41Speaker 3: with me. You said I had this idea of what
- 19:44Speaker 3: I wanted my parenting journey to be like. And that's
- 19:46Speaker 3: exactly like me, Like there's no right, there's no wrong,
- 19:49Speaker 3: but like I'm the same as you and my husband,
- 19:52Speaker 3: and I've worked out how we both have a full
- 19:54Speaker 3: day off a week so that we can both have
- 19:56Speaker 3: Harvey that day. And like at the moment, he's still
- 19:58Speaker 3: only what like nineteen months old, so then he goes
- 20:01Speaker 3: to one of his grandparents on another day and then
- 20:04Speaker 3: he just does two days daycare And is that right
- 20:07Speaker 3: or wrong?
- 20:07Speaker 2: No?
- 20:08Speaker 3: But that's in my head what I liked the idea
- 20:11Speaker 3: of and you said, I liked the idea of three
- 20:13Speaker 3: days and pop off queen. But I love that we
- 20:15Speaker 3: can have these conversations because it's not like you know
- 20:18Speaker 3: the right thing to do is ex because there's no
- 20:20Speaker 3: right or wrong, but like, that's what makes me feel
- 20:22Speaker 3: comfortable as a parent.
- 20:24Speaker 2: Exactly, it's what's right for you.
- 20:25Speaker 3: And if breastfeeding while you're pumping while you're in the
- 20:29Speaker 3: hospital for your appendix is what you want to do,
- 20:31Speaker 3: pop off queen.
- 20:33Speaker 4: And so we rally the village had someone dropping off
- 20:38Speaker 4: newborn bottles.
- 20:40Speaker 2: Had lucky.
- 20:41Speaker 4: I have a friend who's a paramedic nurse, so she
- 20:44Speaker 4: taught me how to hospital because I didn't know. I
- 20:46Speaker 4: rocked up at the hospital and I was like with
- 20:48Speaker 4: my mom, I'm like, I don't know how to hospital.
- 20:50Speaker 2: Where do I go? What do I do?
- 20:52Speaker 3: I wouldn't know either, And also I don't like it either.
- 20:56Speaker 4: No, and so, and we had friends come over to
- 20:59Speaker 4: keep my eldest company, had people to come relieve my husband.
- 21:05Speaker 2: Like it was just it showed me how important it
- 21:09Speaker 2: is to have a village.
- 21:11Speaker 3: Good job. A good job. All right, So you've got
- 21:14Speaker 3: two babies. Currently you do four days per week, but
- 21:17Speaker 3: full time hours three days daycare village around you. Tell
- 21:21Speaker 3: me what do your husband and you do for work?
- 21:23Speaker 3: But you've got this great flexibility.
- 21:25Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm an executive assistant.
- 21:28Speaker 4: I mainly work from home at the moment, although I
- 21:32Speaker 4: think that will change at some point and I won't
- 21:35Speaker 4: be stoked about it because I love working from home.
- 21:38Speaker 2: But I get the job done and I do it well.
- 21:41Speaker 2: And my husband is a senior relationship manager.
- 21:46Speaker 4: Now he's just been promoted, which is awesome for a
- 21:51Speaker 4: finance company.
- 21:52Speaker 2: So hey, that's cool.
- 21:53Speaker 3: And neither of you wanted to go to UNI.
- 21:55Speaker 2: No, no, none of us.
- 21:57Speaker 3: What kind of incomes are you earning?
- 21:59Speaker 2: What like?
- 22:00Speaker 3: As an EA, what do you earn? And then what
- 22:01Speaker 3: does your husband earn?
- 22:02Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 22:03Speaker 4: So I am on ninety eight thousand a year and
- 22:08Speaker 4: that's with twelve percent superincluded, I believe.
- 22:13Speaker 2: And then my husband, I think he's on about one hundred.
- 22:17Speaker 4: And fifteen full time, but he only works four days
- 22:22Speaker 4: a week, so minus twenty percent of that.
- 22:24Speaker 3: Yeah cool, Oh my god, I love this. So tell
- 22:28Speaker 3: me a bit more. Like you obviously have a good income,
- 22:31Speaker 3: You've got your two babies. You've had a very good,
- 22:34Speaker 3: like I would say, trajectory of like being able to
- 22:36Speaker 3: travel and come back and own your house. Like what
- 22:38Speaker 3: a little dream? How good? What are your next big
- 22:41Speaker 3: money goals? Cause, like, you're not planning for a wedding?
- 22:44Speaker 3: Are you two and done? Are we planning for more babies?
- 22:47Speaker 2: Like?
- 22:47Speaker 3: I feel rude asking, but then I'm also like, low,
- 22:49Speaker 3: it's anonymous. I can ask these questions without it being
- 22:52Speaker 3: rude because it's actually a finance one. Tell me about
- 22:55Speaker 3: what does the future money goal thing look like?
- 22:58Speaker 2: Yeah, so two we are done because we have purchased
- 23:03Speaker 2: a caravan with two bunk beds.
- 23:05Speaker 3: Okay, we're done. Yeah, we don't actually have any more
- 23:07Speaker 3: space on top and tailing there'd be too much fighting.
- 23:09Speaker 2: Yeah. So that was the.
- 23:11Speaker 4: That was aciding pact. And though we were always planning
- 23:14Speaker 4: to and done. So big money goal at the moment
- 23:17Speaker 4: is to save up for a new car.
- 23:22Speaker 2: That can toe the caravan a little bit easier than
- 23:27Speaker 2: the current car.
- 23:28Speaker 3: I was about to say, do you have a car
- 23:29Speaker 3: that can't toe the caravan you book, because that's kind
- 23:31Speaker 3: of low key funny.
- 23:32Speaker 4: No, it can toe, it works hard. We want a
- 23:36Speaker 4: car that can toe heavier so it doesn't.
- 23:39Speaker 2: Have to work as hard.
- 23:40Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe you can take luggage with you, that would
- 23:42Speaker 3: be good. Yeah yeah, the kids can come, yeah yeah yeah,
- 23:46Speaker 3: but until then sorry child free holidays only. What else
- 23:50Speaker 3: are you currently working towards?
- 23:51Speaker 4: So that and then I guess the bigger money goal
- 23:56Speaker 4: is I mean all the life stuff saving up for
- 24:00Speaker 4: just to give the.
- 24:01Speaker 2: Girls the choice of education, whether we go public schools
- 24:06Speaker 2: or private schools.
- 24:07Speaker 4: And the biggest part I guess of our money goal
- 24:11Speaker 4: is to save up to be able to do longer
- 24:15Speaker 4: trips in the caravan and explore Australia, because neither of
- 24:19Speaker 4: us have done Like we've traveled Europe, we've traveled Canada,
- 24:24Speaker 4: but we haven't traveled around Australia. And that's what we
- 24:28Speaker 4: want to do with the girls while they're on the
- 24:32Speaker 4: younger side of things, so that we can get those
- 24:36Speaker 4: core memories and just enjoy that simple family time.
- 24:39Speaker 3: And Australia is beautiful, like just there's so much to
- 24:43Speaker 3: explore in the fact that you can kind of pack
- 24:45Speaker 3: up a caravan and go, like what a dream. I
- 24:47Speaker 3: love this for you, so I.
- 24:49Speaker 2: Want to share just I guess how we were able
- 24:52Speaker 2: to purchase the caravan. Yes, please, because it's a bit unique.
- 24:57Speaker 3: I was about to say, like that we can talk
- 24:58Speaker 3: about debt, but also so tell me how did you
- 25:01Speaker 3: purchase the caravan?
- 25:03Speaker 4: So we purchased the caravan because we were given early
- 25:07Speaker 4: access to some inheritance.
- 25:09Speaker 3: Oh very cool. How did that eventuate? Is that something
- 25:11Speaker 3: you were like, hey, can we get it? Or were
- 25:13Speaker 3: they suggesting it? Or they so they suggested it. They've
- 25:17Speaker 3: helped two siblings as well. They wanted us to have it,
- 25:21Speaker 3: and I actually struggled with it for a while after
- 25:26Speaker 3: they'd given us the money, and I was like, oh,
- 25:28Speaker 3: what do we do?
- 25:30Speaker 4: Like should we be more responsible and put it all
- 25:33Speaker 4: in the mortgage or should we be investing it?
- 25:37Speaker 2: What should we be doing? And it was actually something
- 25:40Speaker 2: my dad said that made it feel like it was
- 25:42Speaker 2: okay to spend on the caravan. And that was he was.
- 25:47Speaker 2: He said two things.
- 25:48Speaker 4: Actually, one he said, I wish we had done more
- 25:51Speaker 4: big things as a family when we were kids, and
- 25:55Speaker 4: my mom and I looked at each other and we
- 25:57Speaker 4: were like, you're crazy.
- 25:58Speaker 2: We did lots as a family, so no, you didn't
- 26:02Speaker 2: need to do more.
- 26:03Speaker 4: But he also said, your kids won't remember you paying
- 26:06Speaker 4: off the mortgage early, but they will remember the holidays
- 26:11Speaker 4: and the trips that you do.
- 26:12Speaker 2: And he said, you know what, if you get into
- 26:15Speaker 2: a bind, you can sell it.
- 26:16Speaker 3: I mean he's not wrong, you see, he's not. And
- 26:19Speaker 3: I feel like caravans, like I'm probably not looking at
- 26:22Speaker 3: them as investment opportunities, but they do definitely hold their value,
- 26:27Speaker 3: like they're not the worst thing in the world. Like
- 26:29Speaker 3: I've I've had a lot of clients buy a lot
- 26:31Speaker 3: of caravans, and I've always been super shocked at how
- 26:35Speaker 3: much they can still sell them for. And like I
- 26:37Speaker 3: even had one client, actually two clients who have you know,
- 26:41Speaker 3: just added modifications like updated the like you know, backsplashes
- 26:45Speaker 3: in their kitchens and stuff in their caravans and sold
- 26:47Speaker 3: them for more like a couple of years later after
- 26:49Speaker 3: they're like, oh my god, like you know, we're over this.
- 26:51Speaker 3: The kids don't want to go anymore because I feel
- 26:53Speaker 3: like there's a period of time and like I don't
- 26:55Speaker 3: know about this because of my experience, but just from
- 26:58Speaker 3: other people's. Your kids when they're young love the caravaning life,
- 27:02Speaker 3: but like once they become like mid teenagers, they have
- 27:05Speaker 3: no interest in sharing a space with the parents. So
- 27:08Speaker 3: that seemed to be when parents started to go, look,
- 27:11Speaker 3: we're just going to get rid of the caravan. It's
- 27:12Speaker 3: more hassle than it's worth. But that's when they were
- 27:15Speaker 3: selling it for more, and I was like, what the heck,
- 27:16Speaker 3: this is not where I thought that you would get
- 27:18Speaker 3: extra cash from.
- 27:19Speaker 2: Yeah, very cool though.
- 27:21Speaker 3: And I'm glad that you're doing it while they're young.
- 27:22Speaker 3: How exciting.
- 27:24Speaker 2: Yes, it's very exciting.
- 27:25Speaker 3: All right, let's go to a really quick break because
- 27:27Speaker 3: on the flip side, I just have a lot of questions,
- 27:29Speaker 3: like I feel like you've got some good and bad
- 27:31Speaker 3: money habits, but I also want to know more about
- 27:33Speaker 3: this house, your debt on the house, any other debts,
- 27:36Speaker 3: and I want to talk about investments. So guys, don't
- 27:39Speaker 3: go anywhere. All right, money drives. We are back, and
- 27:45Speaker 3: I have been adoring your money story. I've like probably
- 27:48Speaker 3: been looking down to you the whole time. It's because
- 27:50Speaker 3: I'm taking obsessive notes and just making sure I'm keeping
- 27:53Speaker 3: up because I'm like, oh, this is a journey, okay,
- 27:54Speaker 3: And in twenty eighteen you did what all right? And
- 27:56Speaker 3: then from jan twenty nineteen, I'm like, Okay, cool, like,
- 27:59Speaker 3: I'm just key be in track, but talk to me
- 28:02Speaker 3: about investing. Like, I feel like you guys, for the
- 28:05Speaker 3: first half of your lives probably weren't that interested in it.
- 28:08Speaker 3: But like, girl, you listen to She's on the Money,
- 28:10Speaker 3: so like, tell me about any investments you hold or
- 28:13Speaker 3: your thoughts around investing for the future.
- 28:15Speaker 2: Yeap, you are correct.
- 28:16Speaker 4: We weren't interested in investing earlier, but now we do
- 28:21Speaker 4: have a few investments. So since listening to She's on
- 28:25Speaker 4: the Money, I have opened a comsept Pocket account and
- 28:31Speaker 4: a Chasie's account and I've got some funds split across those.
- 28:38Speaker 4: The Sharese's is quite a range of things. I kind
- 28:42Speaker 4: of didn't really have a strategy. It was well, I
- 28:46Speaker 4: got a list from my dud's financial advisor of who
- 28:50Speaker 4: he has shares with and I just went, okay.
- 28:53Speaker 3: I'm just going to copy cool, no worries.
- 28:55Speaker 2: So did that. And then the comset Pocket you kind
- 29:00Speaker 2: of just pick.
- 29:01Speaker 3: One of their six ETFs that.
- 29:03Speaker 2: They are one of their few yeah, and I just
- 29:06Speaker 2: did that.
- 29:06Speaker 4: I was like, I think we've got some Australian ones,
- 29:09Speaker 4: some environmental ones.
- 29:11Speaker 3: Yeah, for those playing along at home who are like
- 29:13Speaker 3: maybe not in the investing market. Yet. Concept Pocket, I
- 29:17Speaker 3: would say, is more of a micro investing platform where
- 29:20Speaker 3: Comsec has chosen to create this like refined platform where
- 29:26Speaker 3: when you log in, I might be wrong with six,
- 29:28Speaker 3: but it's like between six and twelve ETFs that their
- 29:31Speaker 3: brokers have specifically picked that you can choose from, so
- 29:34Speaker 3: you have really limited options. It doesn't mean it's worse
- 29:36Speaker 3: or better. It just means you have limited options. And
- 29:39Speaker 3: a lot of people like that because they're like, I've
- 29:41Speaker 3: got analysis paralysis, but I want to invest, and I
- 29:43Speaker 3: also don't want to like pick from the entire share market.
- 29:47Speaker 3: And then shares Is, which we talk about on the
- 29:49Speaker 3: show all the time, is a full service platform, so
- 29:52Speaker 3: you have access to every single thing on the Australian market,
- 29:56Speaker 3: every single thing on the US market, the same for
- 29:58Speaker 3: New Zealand. Like an, I feel like that can then
- 30:01Speaker 3: be a little bit overwhelming. Is that why you're like, oh,
- 30:04Speaker 3: I've got a range, like because there's just so many
- 30:07Speaker 3: options or is that just because you're like I copied
- 30:10Speaker 3: my dad's financial plan or like what's that looking like
- 30:14Speaker 3: moving into the future.
- 30:15Speaker 4: Yeah, so some of them I was just say, oh,
- 30:17Speaker 4: I know this company, I'm going to buy a share
- 30:20Speaker 4: in it. So I've got things like Coke down a
- 30:26Speaker 4: EDI like NAB. There's a big range of shares.
- 30:32Speaker 2: It's not that much money.
- 30:34Speaker 4: Like we've only got two and a half grand in there,
- 30:36Speaker 4: and I don't put into it regularly. But I've just
- 30:40Speaker 4: realized that I want to now a bit more regularly.
- 30:45Speaker 4: With some of the money that I make from my side,
- 30:49Speaker 4: hustle will start. I think I'm going to start putting
- 30:52Speaker 4: like twenty percent of each job in there just to invest.
- 30:58Speaker 3: Yeah, no, love, love. And this is why asking questions
- 31:00Speaker 3: because I'm like, well, what does that actually look like
- 31:02Speaker 3: for you? How does that work? Because it's just different
- 31:05Speaker 3: for everybody, And like that's the frustrating thing because I
- 31:08Speaker 3: think once you start investing, right, like I feel like
- 31:10Speaker 3: all of us we go, I want to start investing,
- 31:13Speaker 3: and then you're just looking for the answer, and you're
- 31:16Speaker 3: hoping that the answer is like you'll somehow stumble on
- 31:19Speaker 3: someone that says you need to download Chaisias and then
- 31:22Speaker 3: you need to buy these two ETFs and then everything
- 31:25Speaker 3: will become clear. And that's just not how it works
- 31:27Speaker 3: because everyone has a different situation. And even if right
- 31:32Speaker 3: I said, do that one, I would be in breach
- 31:34Speaker 3: of my financial services license, so we won't be doing that.
- 31:37Speaker 3: But true, I know enough about the investing world that
- 31:40Speaker 3: that would be wildly irresponsible because what works for you
- 31:44Speaker 3: is not going to work for the next person and
- 31:46Speaker 3: the person after that. Like, it's just crazy how different
- 31:49Speaker 3: everyone needs to invest, and that's why you have to
- 31:51Speaker 3: invest time and energy in working out what you're going
- 31:54Speaker 3: to do. So what's the plan for your bigger investments
- 31:57Speaker 3: for the future? Like, talk to me about Superannua. How's
- 32:00Speaker 3: that tracking? You've been working since you were very young,
- 32:03Speaker 3: so I'm assuming it's looking all right.
- 32:05Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what is normal for someone my age,
- 32:09Speaker 4: but I did spend six years out of the workforce
- 32:13Speaker 4: as well. So my super is sitting at eighty two
- 32:16Speaker 4: thousand and my husband's is at ninety one thousand.
- 32:21Speaker 3: How old is your husband?
- 32:22Speaker 2: Thirty four?
- 32:23Speaker 3: So, like, the average balance for someone in their mid
- 32:26Speaker 3: to late thirties falls between seventy to ninety thousand dollars,
- 32:30Speaker 3: and you are just smack bang in the middle, even
- 32:32Speaker 3: though you took some time off. That might not be
- 32:34Speaker 3: how much you want to have in there for future planning.
- 32:37Speaker 3: But like, you're not far behind. And then men is
- 32:40Speaker 3: slightly higher than that, but we don't care so much
- 32:43Speaker 3: about their superannuation balances. I just care about bumping the women's.
- 32:46Speaker 3: So anyway, that's a good thing. Yeah, I love that,
- 32:50Speaker 3: and I love that you know your numbers as well,
- 32:52Speaker 3: because that's really really important. Talk to me about debt.
- 32:55Speaker 3: So you bought your house I believe you purchased that
- 32:58Speaker 3: in twenty eleven, rented it out, organized the income from
- 33:03Speaker 3: the rental was paying the mortgage and a little bit more.
- 33:07Speaker 3: What does that look like today? Like, give me the
- 33:09Speaker 3: nitty gritty. How much did you purchase a house for
- 33:11Speaker 3: in twenty eleven.
- 33:13Speaker 4: And twenty eleven, we purchased a house for four hundred
- 33:15Speaker 4: and thirty five. I can't remember how much the mortgage
- 33:19Speaker 4: was at that point, but we just scraped through not
- 33:22Speaker 4: paying lender's mortgage insurance.
- 33:25Speaker 2: And that was because we worked for a bank.
- 33:28Speaker 3: Does that mean that you got a ten percent deposit
- 33:30Speaker 3: and no l am I as well, because most banks
- 33:32Speaker 3: back then I think did that deal.
- 33:34Speaker 2: Yeah. I think we may have even been like a
- 33:37Speaker 2: nine percent deposit and no l am I. Yeah.
- 33:39Speaker 3: Money win, money win. It's just gotten harder from there. Yes, yes,
- 33:43Speaker 3: So this.
- 33:43Speaker 4: House I couldn't see past the color of it. We
- 33:46Speaker 4: nearly didn't buy it. We had to go back to
- 33:48Speaker 4: it three or four times, and in that time it dropped.
- 33:51Speaker 3: Girl the color. The color, Yeah, well the price dropped
- 33:54Speaker 3: because clearly it was a really bad color.
- 33:56Speaker 2: Yeah, the price dropped. And having looked at the history
- 34:00Speaker 2: of the house, I'm pretty sure they made a loss,
- 34:03Speaker 2: which makes me feel sad for them, But when for me?
- 34:05Speaker 3: So we're not mad. We're not mad. So hold on,
- 34:08Speaker 3: what do you do about the color? Is your house
- 34:09Speaker 3: still really ugly?
- 34:10Speaker 2: It got painted?
- 34:11Speaker 3: Yeah, see there go you can fix those things. We
- 34:13Speaker 3: need to look beyond the cosmetics.
- 34:15Speaker 4: Exactly the first time we walked in, though I could
- 34:18Speaker 4: not see past it, I said to my husand I
- 34:21Speaker 4: was like, nah, we we can't buy this space.
- 34:23Speaker 2: It's ugly.
- 34:24Speaker 3: Oh my god, that is quite funny. But also I
- 34:26Speaker 3: want to be like, look past it, look at the
- 34:28Speaker 3: bones of the house. I can buy you some damn paint.
- 34:31Speaker 3: You don't like the carpet, I can rip it up.
- 34:34Speaker 4: So that house we actually sold in twenty twenty one, Okay,
- 34:39Speaker 4: and how much did you sell that for? So we
- 34:41Speaker 4: sold it for seven hundred and forty two thousand, five
- 34:47Speaker 4: hundred stop it.
- 34:49Speaker 3: How good is that? And what did you then do?
- 34:51Speaker 3: So you had a nice amount of equity to play
- 34:53Speaker 3: with to maybe purchase another house, is that right?
- 34:55Speaker 4: We did, so we sold that house in we'd have
- 35:00Speaker 4: been around mid twenty twenty one.
- 35:02Speaker 2: We actually were homeless for about three months.
- 35:06Speaker 3: But flush with cash, so that's all good.
- 35:09Speaker 4: Yeah, So we had no backup, no property that we
- 35:11Speaker 4: had to offer on or anything, because at that time
- 35:14Speaker 4: properties were going like so quickly that we couldn't have
- 35:20Speaker 4: the condition of to sell that place to buy a place.
- 35:26Speaker 4: So we went through, sold it, lived with the in
- 35:28Speaker 4: laws for about three months with just a one year
- 35:32Speaker 4: just turned.
- 35:33Speaker 2: One chaos, yes, and all our stuff went into.
- 35:36Speaker 4: A storage container and split between the two grandparents' housand
- 35:42Speaker 4: and then we actually the house that we're in now
- 35:45Speaker 4: we bought privately off market, no real estate agents or anything.
- 35:51Speaker 3: Oh, how did you work that out?
- 35:53Speaker 2: So we did get shown through the property, and they
- 35:57Speaker 2: hadn't signed with the real estate agent.
- 36:00Speaker 3: Or cheeky, they shouldn't have shown you through the property.
- 36:02Speaker 2: They were trying to decide whether they were going to
- 36:05Speaker 2: sell the property. The owners of this one. We're trying
- 36:08Speaker 2: to decide whether they were going to sell the property
- 36:10Speaker 2: off market or put it on market because they thought
- 36:14Speaker 2: they could get more for it, but they were empty masters,
- 36:18Speaker 2: there was too much maintenance. They were ready to move on.
- 36:22Speaker 2: So they were still deciding, and we'd had a look through.
- 36:27Speaker 4: It was pretty much perfect for everything we wanted, except
- 36:31Speaker 4: it didn't have a pool.
- 36:32Speaker 2: But for what they had been asking for it, we
- 36:36Speaker 2: had enough aside that we could put a pool in.
- 36:39Speaker 4: And I rate them a letter and dropped it in
- 36:43Speaker 4: their letterbox and said, thank you so much for inviting
- 36:47Speaker 4: us into the house to have a look. Totally understand
- 36:51Speaker 4: that you've got to do what's best for you if
- 36:53Speaker 4: you do need to take it to market, but we
- 36:55Speaker 4: can definitely see ourselves growing our family and growing our
- 36:59Speaker 4: kids old here like a bit of a tuget the heartstrings.
- 37:03Speaker 2: And then the owner called my husband and we went
- 37:08Speaker 2: from there like it just it worked. It happened.
- 37:11Speaker 4: We ran into them again at a local park and
- 37:16Speaker 4: the conversation continued and they sold.
- 37:19Speaker 2: Us the house.
- 37:20Speaker 3: Oh that's so good. So what did you purchase for?
- 37:23Speaker 4: So we purchased this place for nine hundred and forty
- 37:28Speaker 4: one thousand and five hundred and the mortgage that we've
- 37:33Speaker 4: got at the moment is five hundred and seventy one thousand.
- 37:38Speaker 3: Oh my god, how good. And what year did you
- 37:40Speaker 3: purchase that in because you sold in twenty twenty one
- 37:42Speaker 3: and that was mid twenty twenty one, so like early
- 37:44Speaker 3: twenty twenty two, is.
- 37:45Speaker 2: That no, say September twenty twenty one we purchased Yeah.
- 37:49Speaker 3: How exciting. And then do you know what the house
- 37:51Speaker 3: is worth now? Because like, sorry, I know you're in Queensland.
- 37:54Speaker 3: I won't be more specific than that. And property in
- 37:57Speaker 3: Queensland since then has done relatively well.
- 37:59Speaker 2: Yes, so the high kind of value of the house
- 38:04Speaker 2: is one point five.
- 38:06Speaker 3: Look at you guys, go you got some nice equity.
- 38:09Speaker 3: I have to ask you said, oh, it doesn't have
- 38:11Speaker 3: a pool. So as a Melbournian, I interviewed a money
- 38:14Speaker 3: DRIs a couple of weeks ago and she was like,
- 38:16Speaker 3: oh my god, we have a pool. And I was like,
- 38:17Speaker 3: oh bougie. But I feel like most houses in Queensland
- 38:20Speaker 3: actually have a pool, so like that's fine, And that
- 38:23Speaker 3: also makes sense because you were like the empty nesters.
- 38:25Speaker 3: There was a lot of costs and I was about
- 38:27Speaker 3: to be like, is it because there's pool maintenance? Did
- 38:29Speaker 3: you put in a pool? Is that something you don't have?
- 38:32Speaker 3: Like it seems like the way you said it, there
- 38:34Speaker 3: was a value there that you were like, I want
- 38:36Speaker 3: a pool.
- 38:37Speaker 2: Yeah, we put a pool in.
- 38:38Speaker 3: Ah, how much does it cost to put in a pool?
- 38:41Speaker 4: So that was I feel like it was about sixty thousand.
- 38:47Speaker 4: But we got landscaping done as well, so we got
- 38:51Speaker 4: proper drainage under the grass and everything. And yeah, so
- 38:55Speaker 4: it's about sixty thousand for the pool, fence and landscape.
- 39:00Speaker 3: That feels more reasonable than I thought it would be.
- 39:03Speaker 4: Yeah, so that was back in twenty twenty one. I
- 39:06Speaker 4: think it's more well, No, it was early twenty twenty
- 39:08Speaker 4: two that it got finished. It got finished just in
- 39:12Speaker 4: time for Australia Day.
- 39:13Speaker 3: I think, oh, how good, so you could enjoy the
- 39:16Speaker 3: rest of summer.
- 39:17Speaker 2: Yeah, and then the landscaping got finished just before giving birth.
- 39:21Speaker 3: To my second So yeah, you don't need that type
- 39:24Speaker 3: of stress. So you purchased for nine hundred and forty
- 39:27Speaker 3: one thousand. Current mortgage is five hundred and seventy one thousand.
- 39:31Speaker 3: It's worth about one point five mil. Tell me, do
- 39:34Speaker 3: you have any other debts.
- 39:36Speaker 2: So we do have a solar loan that we got
- 39:41Speaker 2: purely we had the cash. We got it because the
- 39:45Speaker 2: interest rate was zero point nine nine percent and we
- 39:49Speaker 2: were like, well, we'll just keep that cash offsetting the mortgage.
- 39:53Speaker 3: And smart see strategy, queen.
- 39:57Speaker 2: Yeah, it does pay to know people in a bank
- 40:02Speaker 2: and remaining friends with them. But yeah, so we got
- 40:06Speaker 2: the solar.
- 40:07Speaker 4: There's about nine thousand dollars owing on that from what
- 40:11Speaker 4: was and it was like twelve or thirteen thousand, three
- 40:15Speaker 4: years ago, which we're not paying extra off on that
- 40:18Speaker 4: at the moment.
- 40:19Speaker 3: If the interest rate's good and it's popping along, your
- 40:21Speaker 3: money's working harder on your mortgage anyway, exactly.
- 40:24Speaker 4: And then we also have a credit card which gets
- 40:27Speaker 4: paid off each month like the total amount owing, so
- 40:31Speaker 4: there's no interest paid on that. It is just a
- 40:35Speaker 4: tool to pay for everything, get points, and have the
- 40:40Speaker 4: money sit against our mortgage for the extra thirty days
- 40:43Speaker 4: that it can.
- 40:44Speaker 3: Smart girl, tell me a bit more, because I feel
- 40:47Speaker 3: like all of this, like, you know, I met my
- 40:51Speaker 3: husband when I was like sixteen, started dating at eighteen,
- 40:54Speaker 3: Like we didn't go to UNI, like a money story
- 40:57Speaker 3: could have looked very very different, like it could have
- 40:59Speaker 3: just been not the way that it has worked out
- 41:02Speaker 3: for you guys, And you know you are clearly very intelligent.
- 41:05Speaker 3: You clearly have your heads like screwed on properly. So
- 41:08Speaker 3: you've made it not just work, but like you are
- 41:11Speaker 3: I would say, thriving in this situation. How have you
- 41:15Speaker 3: done that? What is your best money habit? What can
- 41:17Speaker 3: we learn from you? Because I think that there is
- 41:19Speaker 3: this narrative out there that to be successful you have
- 41:22Speaker 3: to go to university, and that's just not the damn case,
- 41:24Speaker 3: Like most of my team have not gone to university.
- 41:27Speaker 3: Like from my perspective now as an adult, it doesn't matter.
- 41:31Speaker 3: But the pressure is put on you when you're like
- 41:33Speaker 3: at school, what are you going to do? You need
- 41:35Speaker 3: a job that starts with an a, like you need
- 41:37Speaker 3: to be a doctor, a lawyer, a engineer or something,
- 41:40Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden, that's just not how
- 41:42Speaker 3: the world works. What's your best money habit? How have
- 41:46Speaker 3: you done so well?
- 41:47Speaker 2: Well, that's money habit?
- 41:49Speaker 4: I think just I don't even know because it doesn't
- 41:52Speaker 4: feel like we have that many good have many good habits,
- 41:57Speaker 4: But I guess it's just one looking for the best
- 42:00Speaker 4: deal or the smartest way to make the money work
- 42:05Speaker 4: for us, and talking to people who know more than us,
- 42:08Speaker 4: and being not afraid to ask for help or ask
- 42:12Speaker 4: the questions that might seem silly at the time.
- 42:15Speaker 2: And yeah, like literally, it's always looking for the best deal.
- 42:18Speaker 4: Like my husband is very good at finding He's much
- 42:23Speaker 4: more patient than I am. I am like, well, I
- 42:27Speaker 4: want it, we need it, just get it wherever you
- 42:30Speaker 4: can get it fastest, but he will look into it.
- 42:33Speaker 4: We do utilize marketplace a lot for buying and selling,
- 42:38Speaker 4: so I think that's something as well. Like we literally
- 42:42Speaker 4: this morning sold our pram because we don't need it anymore.
- 42:46Speaker 2: And so that was a nice little cash infusion.
- 42:49Speaker 3: Nice. How much what pram did you have? I need
- 42:51Speaker 3: to know? Was this a good investment?
- 42:53Speaker 2: Yeah? So we had the Bugaboo Donkey Gorge.
- 42:56Speaker 3: How did we like it?
- 42:57Speaker 2: Yeah? I loved it. Went from an.
- 42:58Speaker 4: Upper baby Vista to the Bugaboo Donkey because I couldn't
- 43:02Speaker 4: picture having two kids on top of each other.
- 43:05Speaker 2: I needed them side by side.
- 43:07Speaker 3: That's absolutely fair.
- 43:08Speaker 2: And I loved by Vista. I loved it.
- 43:11Speaker 3: See I'm a Vista hater. I'm a Vista hater. I
- 43:13Speaker 3: think that they're so big and so clunky and so heavy,
- 43:17Speaker 3: and I'm very lucky that I've never had one. But
- 43:20Speaker 3: I have looked after my friends and families kids who
- 43:22Speaker 3: have Vistas, and I was like, I'm never getting this pram. Like,
- 43:26Speaker 3: but you know what, once you have a Vista, I
- 43:28Speaker 3: feel like you join a cult and then everybody is
- 43:31Speaker 3: a Vista mam, and you're talking about your adaptations and
- 43:33Speaker 3: stuff that you can put on there and how much
- 43:35Speaker 3: you can fit in your basket, and I just don't care.
- 43:37Speaker 3: I got the pram that was most compact and I
- 43:39Speaker 3: could pick up and put in my car with one hand,
- 43:42Speaker 3: like sligh, because you can't do that with your Vista.
- 43:44Speaker 2: Can you. You can't. You can't do that with the
- 43:46Speaker 2: Donkey either. No.
- 43:49Speaker 3: But I feel like once you have two kids, you
- 43:52Speaker 3: just don't have a choice. You're going to have to
- 43:53Speaker 3: go down like the heavy pram route. Like one, you're
- 43:56Speaker 3: living a life of luxury. Two you do what you
- 43:59Speaker 3: got to do.
- 44:00Speaker 4: Yeah, that's exactly it. And yes, so yes, it was
- 44:03Speaker 4: a good investment. We bought it from marketplace. I'm not
- 44:06Speaker 4: actually sure. I think we may have sold it for
- 44:09Speaker 4: more than what we bought it for because I can't
- 44:11Speaker 4: remember what we bought it for.
- 44:12Speaker 3: Well, if you bought it secondhand, what did you sell
- 44:15Speaker 3: it for?
- 44:15Speaker 2: I put it up for five thirty five.
- 44:18Speaker 3: That's a good deal. And did they like bargain you
- 44:19Speaker 3: down or to just say it's great, I'll take it
- 44:21Speaker 3: for five thirty five.
- 44:22Speaker 2: No, they just took it.
- 44:24Speaker 4: And I mean we did have additions to it, so
- 44:27Speaker 4: probably overall we came out even.
- 44:30Speaker 3: Yeah, and I mean those things for those playing along
- 44:33Speaker 3: who maybe don't live in the pram world like us,
- 44:35Speaker 3: that's like a two and a half thousand dollars pram
- 44:37Speaker 3: after you add like the additional seats and like the
- 44:39Speaker 3: liners and whatever else you have to buy, Like she's Spinos,
- 44:42Speaker 3: So that's a good deal. I love this for you.
- 44:45Speaker 3: Are there any other ways that you've been injecting cash
- 44:47Speaker 3: into your house? I had a sneaky suspicion that there
- 44:50Speaker 3: might be one, because you know, I'm not going to
- 44:53Speaker 3: give her like identity away, but her email address has
- 44:56Speaker 3: UGC in it. So tell me about this journey.
- 45:00Speaker 2: Yes, so, oh, this is a journey.
- 45:03Speaker 4: So I started doing a side hustle of content creation
- 45:07Speaker 4: for brands in last year and it started because I
- 45:14Speaker 4: didn't really want.
- 45:16Speaker 2: To go back to work full time but couldn't afford not.
- 45:20Speaker 4: To, and started looking at ways to make money from home.
- 45:26Speaker 4: Fell for a few not scams, but scams, But there
- 45:32Speaker 4: was a light at the end of the tunnel because
- 45:35Speaker 4: going down and learning about this kind of icky side
- 45:39Speaker 4: of content creation brought me to the user generated content
- 45:43Speaker 4: side of content creation, which is working with brands to
- 45:48Speaker 4: create ads but as a user of their product, more authentic,
- 45:53Speaker 4: less polished. And so I've been doing that for a
- 45:57Speaker 4: year and a bit and love it.
- 46:01Speaker 3: It's fun, isn't it.
- 46:02Speaker 4: It's fun, and it's given me so much confidence, Like
- 46:05Speaker 4: for me to be here doing this would never have happened,
- 46:10Speaker 4: like a year or two ago when the first brand
- 46:13Speaker 4: deal came through. It was just like the silly, little
- 46:18Speaker 4: happy dance that I did when I got that email
- 46:21Speaker 4: and realized it wasn't a scam.
- 46:23Speaker 2: And from there it's just kind of keeps ticking along
- 46:27Speaker 2: and I really enjoy it and I've made like a
- 46:30Speaker 2: lovely community of people online.
- 46:33Speaker 3: Now, So what type of income do you make from
- 46:36Speaker 3: creating user generated content? Because it's a different space for
- 46:40Speaker 3: those of you who maybe are listening here going what
- 46:41Speaker 3: is that? So we all know influencers make content and
- 46:45Speaker 3: they post about let's just pretend it's like a skincare
- 46:47Speaker 3: brand and they post their skincare review. Now, influencers are
- 46:52Speaker 3: losing popularity because obviously we prefer much more authentic content
- 46:56Speaker 3: that's a little bit more organic, that's from mums and
- 47:00Speaker 3: people that you know, actually use the product give you
- 47:03Speaker 3: a genuine review, but maybe don't have a million followers,
- 47:06Speaker 3: maybe don't even have any followers. So the brands reach
- 47:09Speaker 3: out say to money diarst and say, hey, could you
- 47:11Speaker 3: just like trial our products and give us an honest
- 47:13Speaker 3: review and they pay you for it. But what type
- 47:15Speaker 3: of income are we being given?
- 47:17Speaker 4: Yeah, so it can definitely vary depending on your negotiation skills.
- 47:22Speaker 4: But so last financial year I made six five hundred
- 47:26Speaker 4: dollars because we've just done our tax So on average,
- 47:32Speaker 4: I would say like per job making between like my
- 47:37Speaker 4: minimum is two hundred.
- 47:38Speaker 2: And fifty dollars up to I think the highest I've
- 47:42Speaker 2: been paid is like five or six hundred dollars for
- 47:46Speaker 2: a job.
- 47:47Speaker 4: And that's maybe like when you add in all the
- 47:50Speaker 4: admin hours and like creating a concept and stuff, maybe.
- 47:55Speaker 2: Like two or three hours of work per job, So
- 47:59Speaker 2: it feels pretty good.
- 48:00Speaker 3: I love that. I love that for you, And like,
- 48:02Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, like you know, you could get
- 48:04Speaker 3: bored of it at some point, but like I kind
- 48:07Speaker 3: of love it. And as somebody who I get to
- 48:09Speaker 3: play in that space, obviously more as an influencer, but
- 48:13Speaker 3: I have this I would say privilege because I already
- 48:15Speaker 3: own my businesses, Like I've got Sheees on the money,
- 48:17Speaker 3: I've got Zella. I don't have to do skincare stuff.
- 48:20Speaker 3: But like I love a little skincare moment. I love
- 48:23Speaker 3: trialing products, and I love being like giving my organic response.
- 48:27Speaker 3: It just feels special, Like it feels nice. I love
- 48:30Speaker 3: sharing with a community, and like just even creating it
- 48:34Speaker 3: gives you more confidence. And you've just said before like
- 48:37Speaker 3: getting me on your show would never have happened without it.
- 48:40Speaker 3: I love what it's given you.
- 48:41Speaker 4: Yeah, and it was something outside of being a mum
- 48:46Speaker 4: and a traditional work setting that like, at the moment,
- 48:50Speaker 4: it's a fun hobby. But maybe some point it could
- 48:54Speaker 4: become a job thing. I don't know, Like I don't
- 48:57Speaker 4: know what that looks like in the future. At the moment,
- 49:01Speaker 4: it's fun, and I don't. It's bonus money, like that's
- 49:04Speaker 4: fun money to play with.
- 49:05Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely. So let's flip with the narrative.
- 49:08Speaker 3: What's your worst money habit?
- 49:11Speaker 4: Sorry, I would say worst money habit is that we've
- 49:17Speaker 4: fallen off the track of like budgeting. I used to
- 49:21Speaker 4: go in and like go through the accounts every month
- 49:24Speaker 4: or even every week and go through life, what are
- 49:27Speaker 4: we spending here and there and make sure like we're
- 49:30Speaker 4: kind of putting money aside.
- 49:33Speaker 2: But life lives, and I don't make that a priority anymore.
- 49:37Speaker 3: So is it something you want to get back to? Yeah?
- 49:40Speaker 2: I think so.
- 49:40Speaker 4: We've tried like a few different ways of automating our
- 49:47Speaker 4: like transfers and stuff.
- 49:49Speaker 2: There's all of our money is our money. It's all
- 49:52Speaker 2: combined and.
- 49:53Speaker 4: Just gets shot out of the pay account on payday
- 49:57Speaker 4: and pays the mortgage and put money aside for like
- 50:02Speaker 4: the annual bills and the quarterly bills and stuff.
- 50:05Speaker 2: But I'm probably not as strict with it anymore.
- 50:09Speaker 4: Particularly grocery shopping is probably bad because I'm like, I'm
- 50:15Speaker 4: not setting a dollar amount to what we buy for groceries.
- 50:20Speaker 2: I want what I want, and that's what I'm going
- 50:22Speaker 2: to buy. I'm not compromising on that.
- 50:24Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And it's a slippery slope for right, I'm
- 50:27Speaker 3: going to fix it for you. I'm going to set
- 50:29Speaker 3: you up with my money masterclass so that you can
- 50:31Speaker 3: get back on track. And it's not necessarily about restricting,
- 50:34Speaker 3: Like I don't want you to have to set a
- 50:35Speaker 3: budget for your groceries, but I do want you to
- 50:37Speaker 3: go through your finances and be like, Okay, on average,
- 50:40Speaker 3: we spend X on groceries, and then you're really aware
- 50:43Speaker 3: of that and you're just across your finances and I'm
- 50:46Speaker 3: biased because I made it, but I think that the
- 50:48Speaker 3: spreadsheet in there is next level, So like all you
- 50:52Speaker 3: have to do is put in what things cost you
- 50:54Speaker 3: and what your income is, and then I split out
- 50:57Speaker 3: what bank accounts it should be in, how you would
- 50:59Speaker 3: divide that up, and what that would look like, so
- 51:02Speaker 3: that I do the hard work and you don't have
- 51:03Speaker 3: to do the planning because I feel like budgeting. Yes,
- 51:06Speaker 3: you can go into a spreadsheet and update it and
- 51:08Speaker 3: that's great and you've got visibility, but it's about that
- 51:10Speaker 3: next step of like, okay, but which bank account should
- 51:13Speaker 3: this be going into so that I don't dip into
- 51:15Speaker 3: my savings. If we've got this big savings goal, like
- 51:18Speaker 3: you're planning on another caravan holiday or something, we can
- 51:21Speaker 3: put that in and I know that we can work backwards.
- 51:23Speaker 3: So I go, well, when's the holiday happening and how
- 51:26Speaker 3: much do you need? And you go, yep, I need
- 51:28Speaker 3: two thousand dollars and it's happening in six months, And
- 51:30Speaker 3: I go, great, Well, this is how much you need
- 51:31Speaker 3: to put into that bank account each and every single
- 51:33Speaker 3: week or month or literally fortnite, depending on how you
- 51:36Speaker 3: set this up to make that happen. So I do
- 51:39Speaker 3: the hard bit, and then hopefully it will be like
- 51:42Speaker 3: maybe you have to do the work. I'm sorry, but
- 51:44Speaker 3: like it'll be like waving a magic wand and you'll
- 51:46Speaker 3: feel more on track. So I feel like I can
- 51:48Speaker 3: fix your bad money habit. That's a good deal.
- 51:49Speaker 2: That sounds perfect. Take the mental load part off.
- 51:52Speaker 3: I love it. Tell me a little bit more. At
- 51:55Speaker 3: the start of this episode, you said, I reckon I'm
- 51:57Speaker 3: a BS. Is it that budgeting piece that would take
- 52:00Speaker 3: you up to an A plus or what else do
- 52:01Speaker 3: you think you guys would need to do or change
- 52:04Speaker 3: to get there?
- 52:04Speaker 4: I think to become an A plus would be to yes,
- 52:09Speaker 4: have better oversight of the budget and more knowledge and
- 52:16Speaker 4: regular investing.
- 52:17Speaker 3: Yeah, fair, fair fear. Talk to me a little bit more.
- 52:20Speaker 3: Is there anything that you're doing at the moment to
- 52:23Speaker 3: work towards that or is that like, oh, like you
- 52:25Speaker 3: know we will at some point, or is that something
- 52:27Speaker 3: you're working on, because I feel like you're already working
- 52:29Speaker 3: on it, Like throughout your money story, you're talking about
- 52:32Speaker 3: your shares ease and your concept pocket up, and I
- 52:34Speaker 3: just feel like you're already doing these things. It's just
- 52:36Speaker 3: maybe time to get there.
- 52:38Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 52:38Speaker 4: I think time and just setting it up as a
- 52:42Speaker 4: habit to like habitually be putting money aside, whereas at
- 52:46Speaker 4: the moment, it's when there's a bit of extra cash,
- 52:51Speaker 4: we'll go, okay, well let's throw it in. So yeah,
- 52:54Speaker 4: making it more strategy, more strategy, and more like regular,
- 52:59Speaker 4: not so sporadic.
- 53:00Speaker 3: We need some direct deposits. We need to do our
- 53:02Speaker 3: budget and cash flow and understand that and know how
- 53:05Speaker 3: much free cash flow we might have, and then we
- 53:07Speaker 3: need a direct deposit that we set up every single
- 53:09Speaker 3: month or how often you get paid that just takes
- 53:11Speaker 3: it away from you and puts it in there so
- 53:12Speaker 3: you don't even have to think about it. That's what
- 53:14Speaker 3: we need to do exactly.
- 53:15Speaker 2: All right.
- 53:15Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad that we're on the same page because
- 53:17Speaker 3: that's what my money masterclass is going to do, thankfully,
- 53:20Speaker 3: But I'm really sad that we've run out of time.
- 53:22Speaker 3: I feel like you and I could keep chatting. I
- 53:24Speaker 3: just I want to talk more about just like everything,
- 53:27Speaker 3: but unfortunately that is not the reality of our situation.
- 53:30Speaker 3: Thank you so much for joining me, for having a
- 53:33Speaker 3: really good chat. I've taking six million notes because I'm like, oh,
- 53:35Speaker 3: this is cool, or she's any age, she does this like,
- 53:37Speaker 3: it's just so fun. I feel like it is such
- 53:39Speaker 3: a privilege to get to sit down with people like
- 53:41Speaker 3: you literally every week and be like, tell me about
- 53:44Speaker 3: your money story. How can my community learn from you?
- 53:47Speaker 3: So thank you so much, because I know the community
- 53:49Speaker 3: is going to eat this one up.
- 53:50Speaker 2: Thank you very much for having me Adore.
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