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Note 74: Girl, You're Not Getting a Sign. Go Build the Proof

Confidence doesn't show up before you act. It shows up after, built out of proof you collect by doing the scary thing anyway.

In this episode, Yaya calls out the advice she will never teach her clients, fake it till you make it, and replaces it with something more honest: acting despite the fear instead of performing a feeling you don't have. She tells the real story behind Slay Society, an idea she sat on for three years, and breaks down exactly what waiting to feel ready actually costs you.

Inside this episode:

• Why "fake it till you make it" is advice Yaya refuses to teach, and what to do…

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