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- 0:02Hello and welcome to the show. I'm your host, Tavi Shima Ayede.
- 0:06This is definitely going to be a noisy episode because I'm at the
- 0:08car wash, so expect to hear interruptions in the background
- 0:11and today is a very windy day. If you'd love an opportunity to
- 0:15connect and to see what opportunities that you and I can
- 0:18explore, then call me on 08064662140 or you can WhatsApp
- 0:25me on the same number. The country code is +234 for
- 0:29those of you who are not Nigerian and for social media,
- 0:32you can connect with me on LinkedIn.
- 0:35So today we're going to continue with how to build strong
- 0:38relationships with decision makers.
- 0:40The reason why I'm going back to that topic, even though that's
- 0:43what we did yesterday, was because yesterday it looks like
- 0:48I went over and over why it is important that you should build
- 0:52relationships with decision makers.
- 0:54But I didn't actually tell you guys how we should go about
- 0:57doing that. So today I'm going to tackle
- 0:59that part of the equation. So today we're going to look at
- 1:03relationship building tools. Essentially, when you're dealing
- 1:06with people who are decision makers, if this is your first
- 1:09time of listening to the podcast, you don't know who a
- 1:10decision maker is and you don't know why that is relevant to
- 1:13what it is that you do. Then after you're done listening
- 1:16to this episode, listen to yesterday's episode and you're
- 1:18going to get caught up to speed. Now, since people are in the
- 1:24business of providing secrets to success, let me go on and
- 1:28provide secrets of my own. I'm just being tongue in cheek
- 1:31here because really, I don't believe that anything is a
- 1:33secret when it comes to sales or business development success.
- 1:36The answers already out there. So First off, if you want to
- 1:39build relationships with decision makers, you have to
- 1:42identify their concerns. Now, I know this might sound
- 1:46strange to you guys because if you're thinking about
- 1:48relationship building tools, I'm sure you are thinking about how
- 1:52to talk better, how to laugh better, how to smile better, you
- 1:55know, and stuff like that. But remember that this is
- 1:58business, you know, we're not about making friends.
- 2:00We're about building our bank accounts and making some money.
- 2:04And we are about providing value to the people that we're sitting
- 2:08across on the other end of the table.
- 2:10And so even they are not here to make friends.
- 2:13They are here to solve a problem.
- 2:15So it doesn't matter what business you're involved in,
- 2:17whether you're a wedding photographer or whether you own
- 2:19a car wash, like where I am right now recording this
- 2:22episode, whether you're an accountant, the person that
- 2:25you're having a conversation with is not looking for a new
- 2:28friend. The person is trying to solve a
- 2:30problem. If you're an architect, the
- 2:33person is trying to build a house and build a house on the
- 2:35budget. If you're the car wash, the
- 2:37person wants his car to be clean and let me see what else.
- 2:42If you're with a wedding photographer, of course the
- 2:43person wants their wedding covered in a very nice,
- 2:46sophisticated, stylized way or whatever it is that their taste
- 2:50happens to be. So when we're talking about
- 2:53building relationships with decision makers, we're not
- 2:56talking about coming here and making friends.
- 2:58Nobody needs new friends. Everybody already has enough
- 3:00friends, so they're trying to solve the problem.
- 3:02You're trying to make some money.
- 3:03So let's keep the focus on that. So First off, identify these
- 3:06people's concerns. I'm trying to figure out what it
- 3:10is that they're trying to solve. So if you're the architect
- 3:12trying to build a relationship with the people on the other end
- 3:15of the table is first of all, trying to figure out exactly
- 3:17what it is that they're trying to do.
- 3:19Do you understand their artistic vision?
- 3:21Do you understand their timeline for when the house is going to
- 3:23be built? Let's see what else?
- 3:27Oh, forgive me, I'm not an architect and I'm not in the
- 3:29building space, so I'm not sure exactly what it is that the
- 3:32architect does different from the draftsman and what the
- 3:35draftsman does different from the site engineer.
- 3:38So I'm just freestyling that, but you get my point.
- 3:42You want to figure out who this person is, what they're about,
- 3:44what it is they're trying to build, what's the timeline, what
- 3:47are they trying to achieve? That is the beginning of
- 3:49building relationships with decision makers and people on
- 3:52the other end of the table. Because if you're able to
- 3:55understand what it is that they're trying to do and you're
- 3:58able to align your needs with theirs and show them how you can
- 4:01bring their vision to fruition and help them get the results,
- 4:05then that's the beginning of everybody being all nice and
- 4:07happy. If you don't believe me, think
- 4:09back to the time when you had a Carpenter to come and do some
- 4:11work at your house and the Carpenter did rubbish.
- 4:14It was because the Carpenter didn't understand what it is
- 4:16that you are trying to achieve and they ended up producing
- 4:19rubbish. And believe me, if you remember
- 4:21correctly, that did not help the relationship between both of
- 4:24you. And that's the reason why you
- 4:25don't call that Carpenter again to do work for you.
- 4:28So the secret to building a strong relationship with
- 4:32decision makers or with clients on the other end of the table is
- 4:35to not obsess over building a relationship in the 1st place.
- 4:38Just come in there, identify their concerns, make sure that
- 4:41your needs are aligned, and then the relationship will take care
- 4:43of itself. Of course, if you listen to the
- 4:46episode that I did three days ago, now I was on relationship
- 4:51building. I can't remember, but I know it
- 4:54was about 3 days ago. So if you don't listen to this
- 4:56episode, skip back to episodes and then listen to that.
- 4:59I spoke about commonality or how you build rapport.
- 5:03That is also going to help when it comes to building
- 5:05relationships. So no need to be labeled that
- 5:07since we're already done that on another episode.
- 5:11I want to make sure that today's episode is not one of those 30
- 5:13minute episodes. Then there are also some
- 5:16frameworks to help when it comes to building relationships or
- 5:22trying to identify people's concerns and things like that.
- 5:24And one of them is from Victor Antonio.
- 5:28He is a sales trainer, mostly technical sales based out of
- 5:31America. Now, I cannot remember his
- 5:34framework entirely because he has lots of nice acronyms that
- 5:39he uses to explain some stuff. But going based off memory, let
- 5:42me just talk about a couple of things that he talks about.
- 5:45South Victor Antonio talks about identifying the management user.
- 5:48For those of you who are in technical sales, you know you're
- 5:50trying to sell IT or software, let's say.
- 5:55OK, I'm outside the Accountant General's office right now in
- 5:59Abuja. So if you want to go and sell,
- 6:04let me see, OK, let's say you graduated from Babcock and you
- 6:07studied computer science and then you have connects with guys
- 6:10in China and you don't have to supply Apple laptops at a good
- 6:15price. And then maybe your uncle works
- 6:17in Accountant General's office or Ministry of Finance and he
- 6:20has the hookup. He thinks he can arrange a
- 6:22meeting for you to say you can supply laptops to the whole to
- 6:25the whole building or maybe to a certain department.
- 6:28So this is the framework that Victor Antonio says that you
- 6:31should adopt. So first of all, if you think
- 6:33about the management user, management user basically just
- 6:36means Orga. You have to liaise with all the
- 6:39Orgas in the department because they have to be on board because
- 6:42orga has to know what's up in the department before any
- 6:44decision is made. So definitely you guys to align
- 6:47with the management user or the Orga, then you also have to
- 6:51think about the technical user. The technical user is the desk
- 6:55officer, the person, the very person who's going to be
- 6:58handling that laptop on a day-to-day.
- 7:01Because if you're trying to sell into Accountant General's Office
- 7:04and you think that Apple computers are the best in the
- 7:07world and everybody should adopt Apple computers, but the people
- 7:11who are in Accountant General's office or who are in Ministry of
- 7:14Finance or whatever are used to working with Microsoft Windows,
- 7:17then this is going to be a hard sell.
- 7:20Because if the Olga likes the vision, but the technical users,
- 7:25the desk officers say, Olga, we don't like this thing, we cannot
- 7:28use it. It doesn't work with our
- 7:29process. You know, this and this and
- 7:30that, and that is going to make your deal unnecessarily hard.
- 7:33So it's not just a matter of going in there and aligning with
- 7:36Olga. You also have to be cool with
- 7:38the technical users and aligned with them.
- 7:40Oh, sorry. You know, I told you guys it was
- 7:42a windy day and I'm out of the car wash.
- 7:43So that's what I breeze in the background.
- 7:47Then Victor Antonio says we also have to pay attention to the
- 7:51economic buyer. The economic buyer is the person
- 7:54who is going to drop the money at the end of the day because
- 7:58the management user or the is not the person who is going to
- 8:01drop the money. The technical user or the desk
- 8:03officer definitely won't drop the money.
- 8:05The person that will drop the money is the person who is in
- 8:07the accounting department or the human resources department or
- 8:11the procurement department or the purchasing department or
- 8:15whatever department it is that they have there.
- 8:17So for Victor Antonio, he says that when we look, when we're in
- 8:20complex sales, especially in technical and IT kind of sales,
- 8:24that is how we should think about breaking into this deal.
- 8:28Who are the management people? Who are the auger begin to align
- 8:31with them? Who are the technical users?
- 8:33Who are the desk officers? You need to be talking to those
- 8:36people. Who are the economic buyers?
- 8:37Who is the person that is going to sign on the cheque or
- 8:40authorize the transfer? At the end of the day, you also
- 8:42need to make sure you're talking to those people and bring them
- 8:44in on the deal. So once you know who the
- 8:46management user is, the technical user is, the economic
- 8:49buyer is, then remember what I said about identifying their
- 8:52concerns, what's important with them?
- 8:54Align your needs to theirs and then build some commonality
- 8:57along the way. Make sure you're a decent human
- 8:58being to chat with and you should be doing OK.
- 9:03Remember, if some of these terms sound strange, if this is the
- 9:06first time listening to the show, especially when I say
- 9:07commonality and rapport, rapport.
- 9:09After you're done listening to this episode, skip back 2
- 9:13episodes. The episode has trust.
- 9:17It has trust in the title. I can't remember what it was
- 9:19called. Anybody has trust in the title.
- 9:21If you listen to that, you only hear about the three CS and
- 9:23that's another framework from Tom Hopkins and that's
- 9:29commonality, credibility, and competence.
- 9:33Yes, commonality, credibility, and competence.
- 9:35So you guys will learn some more there.
- 9:36It's also going to be useful when it comes to building
- 9:39relationships with decision makers.
- 9:42Then also when we are trying to build relationships with our
- 9:47customers and decision makers, we also have need to offer
- 9:50insights. Insights just means important
- 9:53stuff that they have not paid attention to before.
- 9:58That is insight. For instance, I'm a member of a
- 10:00group, the African podcasters and voice actors.
- 10:05Something, something, something. So we have a water group and a
- 10:11couple of us, you know, it's our tan season and we work with our
- 10:13voice, you know, whether we're consultants or we do radio work
- 10:16or TV work. And so it's that time of the
- 10:18year. Some of us have started coughing
- 10:20and sneezing and, you know, things like that.
- 10:23And so I was just chatting on the group, like in like, hey,
- 10:26guys, you know, I'm supposed to collaborate with somebody.
- 10:28The guy is down with a cold. Even me, my, my throat is
- 10:30dreaming one kind. So like what are tips for voice
- 10:34care and things like that? Now, of course there are some
- 10:37usual voice exercises and voices and voice routine that people
- 10:42already know of. Well, then there are some things
- 10:44that are helpful but people did not consider like OK, that I
- 10:49told you guys before about how my father-in-law and my
- 10:51mother-in-law, every time this thing starts, they tell me I
- 10:54should just take warm water and I should mix it with lime and I
- 10:58should mix it with ginger and I should mix it with honey.
- 11:00And so they spoke about the honey thing.
- 11:03Some members of the group talk about the honey thing.
- 11:05He's looking as if this thing is an African remedy because even
- 11:07people in Zambia are talking about this, this remedy.
- 11:10So maybe I should try it out. When somebody said something
- 11:13about cold water and coffee, about how that restricts vocal
- 11:17cords. Now, you see, in my own
- 11:18situation, now that is something that is really, really, really
- 11:20insightful because it's important information, but it's
- 11:23not something I've considered before and I probably never
- 11:26would have considered. So you need to find ways to give
- 11:30insights to your customers. So like if you're selling into
- 11:34Accountant General's office, you want to sell computers to the
- 11:39whole department. If once in a while you call up
- 11:42the technical user and then you drop some knowledge on them,
- 11:46like hey my guy, I don't know, blah blah blah.
- 11:49I was just thinking, you know, since people use Windows system
- 11:53with this AI tool, you can integrate this and this and that
- 11:56and that. You should be able to help you
- 11:57to process this payment and process that payment.
- 12:00You know, I'll be how you see him and the guy will be like,
- 12:02ah, yes, it's true. Let me try it.
- 12:03And then he tries it and then it works and the guy will heavily
- 12:06be grateful. And you know, when they're
- 12:09considering in the departments, you know which vendor to go
- 12:12with, it's one of the things that will be in your favour
- 12:14because everybody will think this guy is a correct guy or
- 12:16this babe is a correct babe. So yes, maybe she's young, she
- 12:19just graduated Babcock University two years ago, so
- 12:22maybe she's young, but she sounds like she knows what she's
- 12:25doing. She's been giving us correct
- 12:27insights that is improving the way that we work and things like
- 12:29that, you know, so we might as well consider her.
- 12:33So you see that these are ways that you can be building
- 12:36relationships with decision makers and it will help you move
- 12:39your house, help you move your business.
- 12:42Then let's see what else. Let me look through my notes.
- 12:46OK, I already mentioned that there's an episode that I did 2
- 12:49episodes ago on building trust. So what you do is just skip back
- 12:532 episodes. You listen to that or if you're
- 12:55listening to this on YouTube, what you do is just type in
- 12:58Tavishima in the search bar, type in Tavishima and then type
- 13:01in trust and then hit send. And then any episode that I have
- 13:05done with the over 970 episodes that we have for the show right
- 13:10now available on YouTube, any episode that I've done around,
- 13:12trust all the episodes will just be there and you can listen to
- 13:15them. Remember, like I said, when you
- 13:19are listening to any of the resources that I have on YouTube
- 13:22or you're listening to anybody's resources on YouTube for that
- 13:24matter, listen with a pen and a paper.
- 13:27The goal is you should be writing something down today
- 13:30that you can use tomorrow, 9:00 AM immediately to start moving
- 13:35your business forward. Don't just listen and say, oh,
- 13:37that was nice, that was nice. Keep a pen and paper handy.
- 13:40Don't annotate the whole thing. Just write down the thing that
- 13:43you know you can do tomorrow morning. 8:00 nine o'clock to
- 13:47move the business forward. Then of course, try and be
- 13:51personable and likable when you're talking to people,
- 13:53talking to business maker, decision makers and something
- 13:57that I cannot over stress, you know, be patient, but be
- 14:00persistent because when you're doing complex sales, these
- 14:03things take time. If you listen to yesterday's
- 14:06episode and you consider the examples that we spoke about,
- 14:10you see that these things take time.
- 14:13If you're going to sell computers to a department or to
- 14:16every single department in the accountant General's office,
- 14:20these things take time. You're not going to enter into
- 14:22that place today, meet with somebody tomorrow and then
- 14:25collect a cheque for hundreds of millions next tomorrow.
- 14:29It doesn't work like that. The patient complex deals take
- 14:33time, so there's a lot that can be said on the matter, but let
- 14:36me just bring it to a close today because I don't want to
- 14:40keep doing these 30 minutes episodes.
- 14:41I don't want to test you guys patience.
- 14:43So thank you very much for your time and attention.
- 14:47I'll catch you guys in the next episode and remember, if you
- 14:49would like an opportunity to connect and see opportunities
- 14:53that we can explore together, you and me, call me on O
- 14:56806-466-2140 or WhatsApp me on the same number.
- 15:02The country code is +234. For those of you who are not
- 15:05Nigerian because I noticed that 2% of you are Chinese.
- 15:08So please reach out to me. Are you guys really, really
- 15:10Chinese or you just happen to be Nigerian diaspora, you know,
- 15:13Nigerians who are living in China, you know, reach out,
- 15:15let's have a chat. Let me see what problems that
- 15:17you guys are facing. Let me see how I can help.
- 15:20And most importantly, let me see what you, you know, my Chinese
- 15:22brothers would like to know to help move your business forward.
- 15:28I was about to say something racist.
- 15:30So let me, let me just keep. Well, anyway, let me just say
- 15:32it's not exactly racist. DSTV is doing this thing where
- 15:36they're showing a couple of movies about Bruce Lee and Jet
- 15:40Li and who again. So please, my Chinese listeners,
- 15:44you know, Novak's, I'm not sure whether those guys are Chinese
- 15:48or Japanese or whatever, but it's, you know, we Nigerians,
- 15:51especially those of us who are like, you know, 70s to 80s kids,
- 15:55you know, we grew up watching all that Bruce Lee stuff and
- 15:59Jackie Chan and all that. So forgive me if it sounds
- 16:03racist. Well, you know, we got love for
- 16:04you guys. We like your cinema.
- 16:06So yeah, that's it. I'll catch you guys in the next
- 16:08episode. Yeah, that's it till tomorrow.