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You Are Not The Problem—Naming Abuse Restores Power
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Fear doesn’t vanish in a blaze of glory—it cracks in a quiet moment of truth. We call that moment the reckoning: the shift from “maybe it’s me” to “this is abuse.” In this second part of our recovery series on domestic abuse and coercive control, we unpack how naming behavior restores power, why escalation can follow clarity, and how to protect yourself while you break the spell of gaslighting.
We get practical about language and boundaries. Kim shares how calling out manipulation in the room (“We don’t do that here”) models respect and signals to the survivor that her…
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