EP 688: Self Love in Action: You're Ghosting Yourself in Your Relationship

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice · Sep 25, 2026 · 22m

If you love yourself beautifully when you're single and then lose yourself the second you're in a relationship, this one's for you.

We're wrapping up Self-Love September with the question so many of you bring to me: what does it actually look like to love yourself while you're loving someone else? I spent years focused on becoming securely attached and attracting my person, and then I had to learn that staying me inside the relationship was a whole different skill. Because two, three, even seven years in, you can look in the mirror and not recognize who's looking back. Loving yourself in a…