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EP 253. Aligned Action — How to Stop Hustling and Start Moving with Purpose · Confident and Empowered Women

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  Let
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  me
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  take
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  you
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  back
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  for
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  a
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  sec
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  to
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  my
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  corporate
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  girly
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  era.
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  Picture
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  this,
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  it's
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  midnight.
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  I'm
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  in
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  my
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  home
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  office.
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  The
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  lights
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  are
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  looming.
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  A
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  cold
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  cup
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  of
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  coffee
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  beside
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  me.
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  That's
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  basically
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  an
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  emotional
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  support
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  beverage
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  At
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  this
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  point,
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  my
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  inbox
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  looks
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  like
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  a
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  crime
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  scene.
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  It's
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  total
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  chaos.
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  I'm
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  answering
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  emails
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  that
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  don't
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  even
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  matter
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  convincing
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  myself
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  that
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  this,
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  this
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  exhaustion
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  is
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  what
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  success
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  looks
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  like.
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  I
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  was
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  hustling
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  so
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  hard.
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  I
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  mistook
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  movement
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  for
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  meaning.
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  I
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  was
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  climbing
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  a
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  ladder
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  that
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  didn't
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  even
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  lean
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  against.
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  The
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  wall
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  God
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  built
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  for
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  me.
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  I
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  thought
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  I
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  was
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  winning
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  because
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  I
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  was
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  busy,
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  but
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  the
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  truth,
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  I
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  was
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  bone
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  tired,
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  burnt
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  out,
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  and
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  completely
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  disconnected
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  from
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  my
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  own
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  vision.
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  If
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  this
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  sounds
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  all
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  too
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  familiar,
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  remember,
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  hustle
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  isn't
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  purpose,
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  friend.
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  It's
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  distraction
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  dressed
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  as
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  progress.
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  We're
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  stepping
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  into
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  your
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  main
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  character
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  energy
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  so
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  you
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  can
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  stop
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  forcing
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  outcomes,
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  start
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  co-creating
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  with
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  alignment
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  and
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  lead
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  your
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  life.
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  Like
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  the
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  powerhouse
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  you
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  were
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  born
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  to
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  be.
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  Hey,
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  friend.
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  Quick
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  gut
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  check.
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  How
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  many
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  times
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  have
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  you
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  said
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  yes
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  when
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  your
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  whole
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  body
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  whispered?
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  No.
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  If
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  you
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  are
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  nodding
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  right
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  now,
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  you
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  need
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  the
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  sacred
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  no
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  script
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  packed
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  in
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  your
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  life.
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  It
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  is
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  your
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  free
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  set
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  of
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  done
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  for
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  you
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  main
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  character
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  scripts
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  that
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  make
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  saying
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  no,
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  feel
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  calm,
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  confident,
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  and
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  crystal
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  clear.
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  No
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  guilt,
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  no
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  awkwardness,
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  just
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  boundaries
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  that
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  actually
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  stick
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  because
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  in
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  the
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  life
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  that
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  you're
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  building,
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  it
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  needs
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  your
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  energy
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  protected,
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  not
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  drained.
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  Hit
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  the
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  link
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  in
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  the
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  show
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  notes
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  and
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  grab
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  your
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  sacred
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  no
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  script
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  pack
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  today
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  because
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  your
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  piece
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  is
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  waiting
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  on
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  your
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  next.
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  No.
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  Hey,
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  hey,
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  hey,
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  friend.
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  We've
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  made
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  our
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  way
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  into
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  a
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  much
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  more
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  mindful
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  place
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  so
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  we're
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  not
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  hustling
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  for
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  the
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  heck
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  of
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  it
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  anymore,
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  but
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  let's
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  be
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  honest,
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  our
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  bodies
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  have
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  been
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  trained
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  and
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  conditioned
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  to
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  make
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  running
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  on
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  urgency.
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  Look
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  like
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  your
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  typical
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  spa
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  day
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  at
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  the
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  Ritz
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  Carlton.
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  We've
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  romanticized
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  the
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  rush,
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  haven't
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  we?
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  We've
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  turned
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  exhaustion
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  into
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  achievement
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  and
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  urgency
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  into
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  identity.
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  Like
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  being
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  busy
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  somehow
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  means
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  we're
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  blessed.
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  But
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  what
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  if
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  I
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  told
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  you
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  that
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  alignment,
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  not
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  adrenaline,
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  is
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  where
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  your
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  real
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  power
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  lives?
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  Because
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  that
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  hustle
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  high
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  might
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  make
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  you
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  feel
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  productive,
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  but
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  it's
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  really
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  just
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  keeping
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  you
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  distracted
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  from
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  your
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  purpose.
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  And
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  today
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  we're
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  breaking
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  that
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  cycle.
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  I
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  used
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  to
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  wear
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  busy
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  like
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  it
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  was
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  designer,
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  convinced
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  that
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  the
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  more
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  I
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  juggled,
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  the
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  more
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  successful
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  I
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  looked.
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  I
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  thought
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  exhaustion
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  meant
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  excellence
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  and
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  a
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  packed
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  calendar
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  Meant
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  purpose.
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  I
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  was
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  chasing
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  validation
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  through
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  movement,
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  mistaking
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  momentum
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  for
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  meaning,
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  not
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  realizing
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  that
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  God
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  isn't
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  impressed
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  by
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  my
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  pace,
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  but
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  my
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  peace
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  during
• 3:12
  my
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  corporate
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  girly
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  era,
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  my
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  to-do
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  list,
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  it
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  was
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  always
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  screaming
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  at
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  me
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  and
• 3:17
  I
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  was
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  running
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  purely
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  on
• 3:19
  adrenaline
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  and
• 3:20
  ambition
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  I
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  thought
• 3:21
  I
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  was
• 3:22
  winning.
• 3:22
  I
• 3:23
  thought
• 3:23
  the
• 3:23
  last
• 3:24
  woman
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  at
• 3:24
  her
• 3:25
  desk
• 3:25
  was
• 3:25
  the
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  most
• 3:26
  dedicated
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  because
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  that's
• 3:27
  what
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  was
• 3:28
  modeled,
• 3:28
  right.
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  One
• 3:29
  of
• 3:29
  my
• 3:30
  great
• 3:30
  mentors
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  back
• 3:31
  then
• 3:31
  was
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  one
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  of
• 3:32
  my
• 3:32
  old
• 3:32
  directors.
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  We
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  used
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  to
• 3:34
  joke
• 3:34
  that
• 3:34
  she
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  was
• 3:35
  a
• 3:35
  vampire
• 3:35
  because
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  there
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  was
• 3:36
  no
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  way,
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  not
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  in
• 3:38
  Twilight
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  or
• 3:39
  real
• 3:39
  life,
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  that
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  she
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  slept
• 3:41
  and
• 3:41
  still
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  managed
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  to
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  respond
• 3:43
  to
• 3:44
  every
• 3:44
  email
• 3:45
  and
• 3:45
  put
• 3:45
  out
• 3:46
  every
• 3:46
  fire.
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  And
• 3:47
  of
• 3:47
  course
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  I
• 3:48
  did
• 3:48
  my
• 3:48
  best
• 3:49
  to
• 3:49
  try
• 3:50
  to
• 3:50
  mimic
• 3:50
  that.
• 3:51
  I
• 3:51
  thought
• 3:52
  that's
• 3:52
  what
• 3:52
  it
• 3:52
  looked
• 3:53
  like
• 3:53
  to
• 3:53
  climb
• 3:53
  the
• 3:53
  corporate
• 3:54
  ladder
• 3:54
  and
• 3:54
  to
• 3:55
  be
• 3:55
  seen
• 3:55
  as
• 3:55
  successful.
• 3:56
  But
• 3:57
  really
• 3:58
  I
• 3:58
  was
• 3:58
  exhausted,
• 4:00
  overworked,
• 4:01
  and
• 4:01
  completely
• 4:01
  disconnected
• 4:02
  from
• 4:03
  the
• 4:03
  very
• 4:03
  vision
• 4:04
  I
• 4:04
  said
• 4:04
  I
• 4:04
  wanted.
• 4:05
  I
• 4:05
  wasn't
• 4:06
  working
• 4:06
  towards
• 4:07
  my
• 4:07
  purpose.
• 4:07
  I
• 4:08
  was
• 4:08
  hiding
• 4:08
  behind
• 4:09
  productivity.
• 4:10
  Have
• 4:10
  you
• 4:10
  ever
• 4:11
  been
• 4:11
  there
• 4:11
  in
• 4:12
  one
• 4:12
  of
• 4:12
  those
• 4:12
  moments
• 4:13
  where
• 4:13
  you're
• 4:14
  doing.
• 4:14
  All
• 4:15
  the
• 4:15
  right
• 4:15
  things
• 4:15
  that
• 4:16
  you're
• 4:16
  supposed
• 4:16
  to
• 4:16
  do,
• 4:17
  checking
• 4:17
  every
• 4:18
  box,
• 4:18
  and
• 4:18
  yet
• 4:18
  somehow
• 4:19
  it
• 4:20
  still
• 4:20
  feels
• 4:20
  like
• 4:21
  you're
• 4:21
  running
• 4:21
  in
• 4:21
  place
• 4:22
  and
• 4:22
  not
• 4:22
  even
• 4:23
  getting
• 4:23
  credit
• 4:23
  for
• 4:24
  the
• 4:24
  calories
• 4:24
  you're
• 4:24
  burning.
• 4:25
  That
• 4:26
  night
• 4:26
  became
• 4:27
  my
• 4:27
  wake
• 4:27
  up
• 4:27
  call.
• 4:28
  I
• 4:28
  didn't
• 4:29
  just
• 4:29
  want
• 4:30
  to
• 4:30
  succeed.
• 4:31
  I
• 4:31
  wanted
• 4:32
  to
• 4:32
  succeed
• 4:33
  in
• 4:33
  peace.
• 4:34
  Back
• 4:34
  then
• 4:35
  I
• 4:35
  wore
• 4:36
  busyness,
• 4:36
  like
• 4:37
  it
• 4:37
  was
• 4:37
  a
• 4:37
  badge
• 4:37
  of
• 4:37
  honor.
• 4:38
  I
• 4:38
  told
• 4:38
  myself,
• 4:39
  if
• 4:39
  I'm
• 4:39
  busy,
• 4:40
  I'm
• 4:40
  valuable.
• 4:41
  But
• 4:42
  honestly,
• 4:42
  busyness
• 4:43
  is
• 4:44
  the
• 4:44
  cheapest
• 4:44
  form
• 4:45
  of
• 4:45
  validation
• 4:46
  in
• 4:46
  corporate
• 4:47
  America.
• 4:47
  That
• 4:48
  mindset,
• 4:48
  it
• 4:48
  gets
• 4:49
  celebrated.
• 4:50
  You're
• 4:50
  praised
• 4:51
  for
• 4:51
  your
• 4:51
  long
• 4:51
  hours
• 4:52
  and
• 4:52
  late
• 4:52
  nights.
• 4:53
  The
• 4:53
  skipped
• 4:53
  lunches
• 4:54
  and
• 4:54
  the
• 4:54
  I'll
• 4:55
  sleep
• 4:55
  when
• 4:55
  I'm
• 4:55
  dead.
• 4:56
  Mentality
• 4:57
  like
• 4:57
  burnout
• 4:58
  is
• 4:58
  some
• 4:58
  kind
• 4:59
  of
• 4:59
  a
• 4:59
  bonus
• 4:59
  on
• 4:59
  your
• 5:00
  performance
• 5:00
  review.
• 5:01
  So
• 5:02
  when
• 5:02
  my
• 5:02
  coach
• 5:03
  said,
• 5:03
  Letitia.
• 5:04
  You
• 5:04
  are
• 5:04
  mistaking
• 5:05
  activity
• 5:06
  for
• 5:06
  achievement.
• 5:07
  It
• 5:08
  hit
• 5:08
  me
• 5:08
  like
• 5:09
  a
• 5:09
  divine
• 5:10
  truth
• 5:10
  or
• 5:10
  wrapped
• 5:11
  in
• 5:11
  tough
• 5:11
  love
• 5:12
  because
• 5:12
  the
• 5:12
  hustle
• 5:13
  trap
• 5:13
  isn't
• 5:14
  about
• 5:14
  working
• 5:14
  hard.
• 5:15
  It's
• 5:16
  about
• 5:16
  working
• 5:16
  hard
• 5:17
  on
• 5:17
  all
• 5:17
  the
• 5:18
  wrong
• 5:18
  things.
• 5:19
  It's
• 5:19
  staying
• 5:20
  busy
• 5:20
  so
• 5:20
  you
• 5:21
  don't
• 5:21
  have
• 5:21
  to
• 5:21
  get
• 5:21
  honest.
• 5:22
  It's
• 5:23
  doing
• 5:23
  more
• 5:23
  so
• 5:24
  you
• 5:24
  don't
• 5:24
  have
• 5:24
  to
• 5:24
  deal
• 5:25
  with
• 5:25
  what
• 5:25
  actually
• 5:26
  matters,
• 5:26
  and
• 5:27
  that's
• 5:27
  clarity.
• 5:28
  I
• 5:28
  had
• 5:28
  to
• 5:28
  ask
• 5:28
  myself,
• 5:29
  why
• 5:29
  does
• 5:30
  hustling
• 5:30
  feel
• 5:31
  safer
• 5:32
  than
• 5:32
  slowing
• 5:32
  down?
• 5:33
  Because
• 5:34
  the
• 5:34
  moment
• 5:34
  I
• 5:34
  stopped
• 5:35
  moving,
• 5:35
  I
• 5:35
  had
• 5:36
  to
• 5:36
  face
• 5:36
  what
• 5:37
  wasn't
• 5:37
  aligned,
• 5:38
  the
• 5:38
  parts
• 5:39
  of
• 5:39
  my
• 5:39
  career,
• 5:39
  my
• 5:40
  habits,
• 5:40
  even
• 5:41
  my
• 5:41
  identity
• 5:42
  that
• 5:42
  didn't
• 5:42
  fit
• 5:43
  who
• 5:43
  I
• 5:43
  was
• 5:44
  becoming.
• 5:45
  Now,
• 5:45
  don't
• 5:45
  get
• 5:45
  me
• 5:45
  wrong,
• 5:46
  there
• 5:46
  will
• 5:47
  be
• 5:47
  seasons
• 5:47
  of
• 5:48
  hustle.
• 5:48
  We
• 5:48
  all
• 5:49
  have
• 5:49
  those.
• 5:49
  Push
• 5:50
  seasons
• 5:51
  where
• 5:51
  you're
• 5:52
  gonna
• 5:52
  have
• 5:52
  some
• 5:52
  late
• 5:53
  nights.
• 5:53
  Those
• 5:54
  are
• 5:54
  the
• 5:54
  I'm
• 5:55
  building
• 5:55
  phase
• 5:56
  moments,
• 5:57
  but
• 5:57
  hustle
• 5:57
  should
• 5:58
  be
• 5:58
  a
• 5:58
  season,
• 5:59
  not
• 6:00
  a
• 6:00
  lifestyle.
• 6:01
  True
• 6:02
  success
• 6:03
  is
• 6:03
  harmony.
• 6:04
  It's
• 6:05
  being
• 6:05
  in
• 6:05
  rhythm
• 6:06
  with
• 6:06
  your
• 6:06
  purpose,
• 6:07
  not
• 6:08
  at
• 6:08
  war.
• 6:08
  With
• 6:08
  your
• 6:08
  peace,
• 6:09
  you
• 6:10
  can
• 6:10
  build
• 6:10
  the
• 6:10
  vision
• 6:11
  and
• 6:11
  protect
• 6:12
  your
• 6:12
  health,
• 6:12
  your
• 6:12
  relationships.
• 6:13
  And
• 6:14
  your
• 6:14
  joy.
• 6:15
  That's
• 6:16
  the
• 6:16
  real
• 6:17
  win.
• 6:18
  Success
• 6:19
  that
• 6:19
  doesn't
• 6:19
  cost
• 6:20
  you
• 6:20
  yourself.
• 6:21
  That
• 6:22
  realization
• 6:23
  changed
• 6:24
  so
• 6:24
  much
• 6:24
  for
• 6:24
  me
• 6:25
  because
• 6:25
  once
• 6:26
  you
• 6:26
  taste
• 6:26
  harmony,
• 6:27
  chaos
• 6:28
  stops
• 6:28
  feeling
• 6:28
  like
• 6:29
  home.
• 6:29
  I
• 6:30
  started
• 6:30
  looking
• 6:30
  at
• 6:30
  my
• 6:31
  calendar,
• 6:31
  my
• 6:31
  commitments,
• 6:32
  and
• 6:32
  even
• 6:32
  my
• 6:33
  conversations,
• 6:34
  and
• 6:34
  I
• 6:34
  asked
• 6:34
  myself,
• 6:35
  where
• 6:36
  is
• 6:36
  my
• 6:36
  energy?
• 6:37
  Actually
• 6:38
  going.
• 6:39
  It
• 6:39
  wasn't
• 6:39
  about
• 6:40
  how
• 6:40
  many
• 6:40
  hours
• 6:41
  I
• 6:41
  was
• 6:41
  working,
• 6:42
  it
• 6:42
  was
• 6:42
  about
• 6:42
  how
• 6:43
  I
• 6:43
  was
• 6:43
  showing
• 6:44
  up
• 6:45
  in
• 6:45
  those
• 6:46
  hours,
• 6:47
  and
• 6:47
  that's
• 6:47
  when
• 6:47
  I
• 6:48
  started
• 6:48
  tracking
• 6:48
  something
• 6:49
  brand
• 6:49
  new.
• 6:50
  Not
• 6:50
  my
• 6:51
  hours,
• 6:51
  not
• 6:52
  my
• 6:52
  output,
• 6:53
  but
• 6:53
  my
• 6:53
  energetic
• 6:54
  ROI.
• 6:56
  You
• 6:56
  see
• 6:56
  in
• 6:56
  corporate
• 6:57
  America,
• 6:57
  we're
• 6:58
  taught
• 6:58
  to
• 6:58
  measure
• 6:58
  performance
• 6:59
  by
• 6:59
  productivity.
• 7:01
  Whether
• 7:01
  or
• 7:01
  not
• 7:01
  you're
• 7:02
  in
• 7:02
  corporate
• 7:02
  America
• 7:03
  working
• 7:04
  in
• 7:04
  a
• 7:04
  leadership
• 7:04
  role
• 7:05
  or
• 7:05
  just
• 7:06
  the
• 7:06
  leader
• 7:07
  of
• 7:07
  your
• 7:07
  family
• 7:08
  or
• 7:08
  your
• 7:08
  own
• 7:09
  life,
• 7:10
  the
• 7:10
  question
• 7:11
  isn't
• 7:11
  how
• 7:11
  much
• 7:12
  am
• 7:12
  I
• 7:12
  doing?
• 7:13
  It's
• 7:14
  what
• 7:14
  is
• 7:14
  this
• 7:15
  doing
• 7:15
  to
• 7:16
  me?
• 7:17
  Because
• 7:17
  if
• 7:17
  it
• 7:18
  drains
• 7:18
  you,
• 7:19
  distracts
• 7:19
  you,
• 7:20
  or
• 7:21
  leaves
• 7:21
  you
• 7:21
  doubting
• 7:21
  yourself,
• 7:23
  costing
• 7:23
  too
• 7:24
  much,
• 7:25
  that's
• 7:25
  a
• 7:25
  withdrawal
• 7:26
  from
• 7:26
  your
• 7:26
  peace
• 7:27
  account
• 7:27
  and
• 7:27
  not
• 7:28
  a
• 7:28
  deposit
• 7:28
  into
• 7:29
  your
• 7:29
  purpose,
• 7:30
  but.
• 7:31
  When
• 7:31
  it
• 7:31
  fills
• 7:32
  you,
• 7:32
  stretches
• 7:33
  you,
• 7:33
  expands
• 7:35
  you,
• 7:35
  or
• 7:36
  just
• 7:36
  plain
• 7:37
  old
• 7:37
  feels
• 7:37
  like
• 7:37
  peace.
• 7:38
  That's
• 7:39
  a
• 7:39
  divine
• 7:40
  deposit.
• 7:41
  That's
• 7:42
  alignment,
• 7:43
  paying
• 7:44
  interest.
• 7:45
  I
• 7:45
  started
• 7:45
  making
• 7:46
  decisions
• 7:46
  based
• 7:47
  on
• 7:47
  energy
• 7:48
  over
• 7:48
  ego.
• 7:49
  Oof.
• 7:50
  That
• 7:50
  was
• 7:50
  such
• 7:51
  a
• 7:51
  hard
• 7:51
  one,
• 7:52
  no
• 7:52
  longer
• 7:52
  asking,
• 7:53
  does
• 7:54
  this
• 7:54
  make
• 7:54
  me
• 7:54
  look
• 7:54
  productive?
• 7:55
  But
• 7:56
  does
• 7:56
  this
• 7:57
  make
• 7:57
  me
• 7:57
  feel
• 7:58
  aligned?
• 7:59
  And
• 7:59
  let
• 8:00
  me
• 8:00
  tell
• 8:00
  you,
• 8:00
  that
• 8:01
  shift
• 8:01
  right
• 8:01
  there,
• 8:02
  that
• 8:02
  was
• 8:02
  a
• 8:03
  true
• 8:04
  leadership
• 8:04
  glow
• 8:05
  up
• 8:05
  because
• 8:05
  leadership
• 8:06
  starts
• 8:07
  with
• 8:07
  knowing
• 8:07
  what's
• 8:08
  worth
• 8:08
  your
• 8:08
  energy
• 8:09
  exchange.
• 8:10
  Every
• 8:11
  email,
• 8:11
  every
• 8:11
  project,
• 8:12
  every
• 8:13
  person,
• 8:13
  every
• 8:14
  thought
• 8:15
  is
• 8:15
  either
• 8:15
  investing
• 8:16
  in
• 8:16
  your
• 8:16
  purpose
• 8:17
  or
• 8:18
  overdrafting
• 8:18
  your
• 8:19
  energy.
• 8:19
  So
• 8:19
  friend,
• 8:20
  if
• 8:20
  it's
• 8:20
  costing
• 8:21
  you
• 8:21
  your
• 8:21
  piece,
• 8:22
  it's
• 8:23
  too
• 8:23
  expensive.
• 8:24
  And
• 8:25
  I
• 8:25
  mean
• 8:25
  that.
• 8:26
  Now
• 8:27
  you
• 8:27
  might
• 8:27
  be
• 8:27
  wondering,
• 8:28
  okay,
• 8:29
  Letitia,
• 8:29
  but
• 8:29
  how
• 8:30
  do
• 8:30
  I
• 8:30
  actually
• 8:31
  know
• 8:32
  if
• 8:32
  I'm
• 8:32
  getting
• 8:33
  an
• 8:33
  energetic
• 8:34
  ROI?
• 8:34
  I
• 8:35
  don't
• 8:35
  even
• 8:35
  trip.
• 8:36
  I
• 8:36
  got
• 8:36
  you
• 8:36
  friend.
• 8:36
  Here's
• 8:37
  the
• 8:37
  real
• 8:38
  life
• 8:38
  litmus
• 8:39
  test.
• 8:39
  When
• 8:40
  something
• 8:40
  is
• 8:40
  giving
• 8:41
  you
• 8:41
  a
• 8:41
  positive
• 8:42
  energetic
• 8:43
  return,
• 8:44
  you'll
• 8:44
  feel
• 8:44
  it
• 8:45
  in
• 8:45
  your
• 8:45
  body.
• 8:45
  See
• 8:46
  it
• 8:46
  in
• 8:46
  your
• 8:46
  behavior.
• 8:47
  You'll
• 8:48
  notice
• 8:48
  you
• 8:48
  feel
• 8:49
  lighter,
• 8:49
  not
• 8:50
  heavy.
• 8:50
  After
• 8:50
  doing
• 8:51
  it,
• 8:51
  you
• 8:51
  have
• 8:52
  creative
• 8:52
  flow
• 8:53
  Instead
• 8:54
  of
• 8:54
  mental
• 8:54
  fog,
• 8:55
  you
• 8:55
  finish
• 8:56
  and
• 8:56
  feel
• 8:56
  satisfied
• 8:57
  or
• 8:57
  even
• 8:58
  proud,
• 8:59
  not
• 8:59
  resentful
• 9:00
  or
• 9:00
  depleted.
• 9:01
  Your
• 9:01
  body
• 9:02
  relaxes,
• 9:03
  your
• 9:03
  shoulders
• 9:04
  drop.
• 9:04
  You
• 9:05
  can
• 9:05
  breathe
• 9:06
  easier.
• 9:07
  That's
• 9:07
  a
• 9:07
  deposit.
• 9:08
  But
• 9:08
  when
• 9:09
  something
• 9:09
  is
• 9:09
  giving
• 9:10
  you
• 9:10
  a
• 9:10
  negative
• 9:11
  energetic
• 9:12
  ROI,
• 9:13
  it
• 9:13
  starts
• 9:14
  overdrafting
• 9:15
  your
• 9:15
  peace
• 9:15
  account
• 9:16
  immediately.
• 9:19
  You'll
• 9:19
  know
• 9:20
  because
• 9:20
  you
• 9:20
  keep
• 9:21
  dreading
• 9:21
  it
• 9:21
  or
• 9:22
  mentally
• 9:22
  negotiating
• 9:23
  with
• 9:23
  yourself
• 9:24
  to
• 9:24
  push
• 9:24
  through.
• 9:25
  You
• 9:25
  might
• 9:25
  feel
• 9:26
  tense
• 9:26
  or
• 9:26
  anxious
• 9:27
  before,
• 9:28
  during,
• 9:28
  and
• 9:28
  after.
• 9:29
  You
• 9:29
  notice,
• 9:30
  you
• 9:30
  start
• 9:30
  snapping
• 9:31
  at
• 9:31
  people
• 9:31
  that
• 9:31
  you
• 9:32
  care
• 9:32
  about
• 9:32
  or
• 9:32
  numbing
• 9:33
  out
• 9:33
  to
• 9:34
  recover.
• 9:34
  You
• 9:35
  feel
• 9:35
  like
• 9:35
  you're
• 9:35
  doing
• 9:36
  everything
• 9:36
  right,
• 9:37
  yet
• 9:37
  nothing
• 9:37
  feels
• 9:38
  right.
• 9:39
  That's
• 9:39
  a
• 9:39
  withdrawal.
• 9:40
  So
• 9:41
  here's
• 9:41
  your
• 9:41
  self-check
• 9:42
  question.
• 9:43
  Is
• 9:43
  this
• 9:44
  energizing
• 9:44
  me
• 9:45
  or
• 9:45
  emptying
• 9:46
  me?
• 9:46
  Now,
• 9:47
  if
• 9:47
  it's
• 9:47
  the
• 9:47
  former
• 9:48
  double
• 9:48
  down.
• 9:49
  But
• 9:49
  if
• 9:49
  it's
• 9:49
  the
• 9:50
  latter,
• 9:50
  pause,
• 9:51
  pivot
• 9:52
  and
• 9:52
  put
• 9:52
  it
• 9:52
  down
• 9:53
  because
• 9:53
  energy
• 9:54
  never
• 9:54
  lies.
• 9:55
  Once
• 9:56
  I
• 9:56
  started
• 9:56
  auditing
• 9:57
  my
• 9:57
  life
• 9:58
  like
• 9:58
  this,
• 9:59
  I'm
• 9:59
  telling
• 9:59
  you,
• 10:00
  so
• 10:00
  much
• 10:00
  shifted.
• 10:01
  My
• 10:01
  calendar
• 10:02
  became
• 10:02
  cleaner,
• 10:03
  my
• 10:04
  focus
• 10:04
  got
• 10:04
  sharper
• 10:05
  and
• 10:05
  my
• 10:05
  peace
• 10:06
  stopped
• 10:07
  feeling
• 10:07
  like
• 10:07
  a
• 10:07
  luxury.
• 10:09
  It
• 10:09
  became
• 10:10
  my
• 10:10
  baseline.
• 10:13
  Hey
• 10:13
  friend,
• 10:14
  let's
• 10:14
  talk
• 10:15
  about
• 10:15
  the
• 10:15
  version
• 10:16
  of
• 10:16
  you
• 10:16
  who
• 10:17
  doesn't
• 10:17
  wait
• 10:17
  for
• 10:17
  confidence,
• 10:18
  alignment,
• 10:19
  or
• 10:19
  clarity.
• 10:20
  She.
• 10:21
  Creates
• 10:21
  it.
• 10:22
  That's
• 10:22
  exactly
• 10:23
  what
• 10:23
  happens
• 10:24
  when
• 10:24
  you
• 10:24
  use
• 10:24
  the
• 10:24
  Main
• 10:25
  Character
• 10:25
  Energy
• 10:26
  Journal
• 10:26
  prompts.
• 10:27
  These
• 10:27
  aren't
• 10:28
  your
• 10:28
  basic
• 10:29
  dear
• 10:29
  diary
• 10:29
  questions.
• 10:30
  They
• 10:30
  are
• 10:31
  soul
• 10:31
  stirring
• 10:32
  prompts
• 10:32
  designed
• 10:33
  to
• 10:33
  shift
• 10:33
  your
• 10:33
  identity,
• 10:35
  ignite
• 10:35
  your
• 10:35
  confidence,
• 10:36
  and
• 10:36
  help
• 10:36
  you
• 10:36
  think
• 10:37
  move
• 10:37
  and
• 10:37
  manifest
• 10:39
  like
• 10:39
  the
• 10:39
  woman
• 10:39
  you
• 10:40
  are
• 10:40
  becoming.
• 10:40
  Whether
• 10:41
  you're
• 10:41
  starting
• 10:41
  your
• 10:42
  day
• 10:42
  resetting
• 10:43
  your
• 10:43
  energy
• 10:44
  midweek.
• 10:45
  Or
• 10:45
  getting
• 10:45
  back
• 10:46
  on
• 10:46
  track
• 10:46
  after
• 10:47
  a
• 10:47
  detour.
• 10:48
  These
• 10:48
  prompts
• 10:48
  guide
• 10:49
  you
• 10:49
  straight
• 10:50
  back
• 10:50
  into
• 10:50
  alignment
• 10:51
  with
• 10:51
  your
• 10:52
  power.
• 10:53
  Each
• 10:53
  question
• 10:53
  is
• 10:54
  like
• 10:54
  a
• 10:54
  mirror
• 10:54
  reflecting
• 10:55
  your
• 10:55
  next
• 10:55
  level,
• 10:56
  and
• 10:56
  every
• 10:57
  answer
• 10:57
  becomes
• 10:58
  your
• 10:58
  evidence
• 10:58
  that
• 10:59
  you
• 10:59
  are
• 10:59
  all
• 11:00
  ready
• 11:00
  her.
• 11:01
  So
• 11:01
  grab
• 11:02
  your
• 11:02
  Main
• 11:02
  Character
• 11:03
  Energy
• 11:03
  Journal
• 11:03
  Prompts
• 11:03
  now
• 11:04
  at
• 11:04
  the
• 11:04
  link
• 11:05
  in
• 11:05
  the
• 11:05
  show
• 11:05
  notes
• 11:05
  and
• 11:06
  make
• 11:06
  journaling
• 11:07
  your
• 11:07
  daily
• 11:08
  confidence
• 11:08
  ritual
• 11:09
  because
• 11:09
  your
• 11:10
  next
• 11:10
  chapter
• 11:11
  starts
• 11:11
  with
• 11:11
  the
• 11:12
  story
• 11:12
  you
• 11:13
  tell
• 11:13
  yourself.
• 11:18
  My
• 11:18
  breakthrough
• 11:19
  moment
• 11:19
  came
• 11:20
  when
• 11:20
  my
• 11:20
  coach
• 11:21
  asked
• 11:21
  me
• 11:22
  a
• 11:22
  question
• 11:22
  that
• 11:23
  stopped
• 11:23
  me
• 11:23
  dead
• 11:23
  in
• 11:24
  my
• 11:24
  tracks.
• 11:24
  She
• 11:25
  said,
• 11:25
  what
• 11:25
  are
• 11:25
  the
• 11:26
  three
• 11:26
  things
• 11:26
  that
• 11:27
  matter
• 11:27
  most
• 11:27
  to
• 11:27
  you
• 11:27
  right
• 11:28
  now?
• 11:28
  And
• 11:28
  listen,
• 11:29
  I
• 11:29
  did
• 11:30
  what
• 11:30
  every
• 11:31
  overachiever
• 11:31
  does.
• 11:32
  I
• 11:32
  started
• 11:32
  listing
• 11:33
  everything,
• 11:34
  career
• 11:35
  goals,
• 11:35
  fitness
• 11:36
  goals,
• 11:36
  family
• 11:37
  goals,
• 11:37
  revenue
• 11:38
  goals,
• 11:38
  color
• 11:39
  coded
• 11:39
  planner
• 11:40
  goals,
• 11:40
  you
• 11:41
  know
• 11:41
  the
• 11:41
  whole
• 11:41
  thing.
• 11:42
  I
• 11:42
  had
• 11:42
  a
• 11:42
  list
• 11:43
  longer
• 11:44
  than
• 11:44
  a
• 11:44
  CVS
• 11:44
  receipt.
• 11:45
  She
• 11:45
  cut
• 11:46
  me
• 11:46
  off
• 11:46
  and
• 11:46
  smiled
• 11:47
  and
• 11:47
  said,
• 11:47
  no,
• 11:47
  Letitia,
• 11:48
  just
• 11:48
  three.
• 11:49
  And
• 11:49
  that's
• 11:50
  when
• 11:50
  I
• 11:51
  froze
• 11:51
  because
• 11:51
  for
• 11:52
  the
• 11:52
  first
• 11:52
  time,
• 11:52
  I
• 11:53
  had
• 11:53
  to
• 11:53
  confront
• 11:54
  how
• 11:54
  scattered
• 11:55
  my
• 11:55
  energy
• 11:56
  had
• 11:56
  become.
• 11:57
  I'd
• 11:57
  been
• 11:57
  so
• 11:57
  busy
• 11:58
  chasing
• 11:58
  everything
• 11:59
  that
• 11:59
  I
• 11:59
  stopped
• 11:59
  prioritizing
• 12:01
  anything.
• 12:02
  So
• 12:02
  I
• 12:02
  took
• 12:03
  a
• 12:03
  deep
• 12:03
  breath,
• 12:04
  set
• 12:04
  a
• 12:04
  prayer,
• 12:04
  had
• 12:05
  a
• 12:05
  good
• 12:05
  cry,
• 12:05
  and
• 12:06
  finally
• 12:06
  got
• 12:07
  clear.
• 12:07
  One,
• 12:08
  do
• 12:08
  work
• 12:09
  that
• 12:09
  aligns
• 12:10
  with
• 12:10
  my
• 12:10
  long-term
• 12:11
  vision,
• 12:11
  not
• 12:12
  work
• 12:12
  that
• 12:12
  just
• 12:13
  looks
• 12:13
  impressive
• 12:14
  to
• 12:14
  others,
• 12:14
  but
• 12:14
  work
• 12:15
  that
• 12:15
  actually
• 12:15
  feels
• 12:16
  like
• 12:16
  purpose
• 12:17
  to
• 12:17
  me.
• 12:18
  Number
• 12:18
  two,
• 12:19
  protect
• 12:19
  my
• 12:19
  energy
• 12:20
  so
• 12:20
  I
• 12:20
  can
• 12:20
  show
• 12:21
  up
• 12:21
  fully
• 12:22
  for
• 12:22
  myself
• 12:23
  and
• 12:23
  my
• 12:23
  people
• 12:24
  because
• 12:24
  half
• 12:25
  of
• 12:25
  me
• 12:25
  isn't
• 12:26
  serving
• 12:26
  anybody
• 12:27
  well.
• 12:27
  And
• 12:28
  three
• 12:28
  creates
• 12:29
  space
• 12:30
  for
• 12:30
  creativity
• 12:30
  and
• 12:31
  strategy.
• 12:32
  That's
• 12:32
  where
• 12:33
  my
• 12:33
  genius
• 12:34
  actually
• 12:34
  lives,
• 12:35
  and
• 12:35
  that
• 12:36
  was
• 12:36
  the
• 12:36
  day
• 12:36
  I
• 12:36
  stopped
• 12:37
  letting
• 12:37
  my
• 12:37
  inbox
• 12:38
  dictate
• 12:39
  my
• 12:39
  purpose.
• 12:40
  I
• 12:40
  realized
• 12:41
  my
• 12:41
  inbox
• 12:42
  was
• 12:42
  just
• 12:42
  a
• 12:43
  list
• 12:43
  of
• 12:43
  everyone
• 12:44
  else's
• 12:44
  demands
• 12:45
  or
• 12:45
  an
• 12:45
  agenda
• 12:46
  for
• 12:46
  my
• 12:46
  time
• 12:47
  and
• 12:47
  if
• 12:47
  I
• 12:47
  wasn't
• 12:48
  careful,
• 12:48
  I'd
• 12:49
  spend
• 12:49
  my
• 12:49
  life
• 12:50
  answering
• 12:51
  everybody
• 12:51
  else's
• 12:52
  emails
• 12:52
  instead
• 12:53
  of.
• 12:53
  God's
• 12:54
  call
• 12:54
  on
• 12:54
  my
• 12:54
  life.
• 12:55
  So
• 12:56
  I
• 12:56
  flipped
• 12:56
  the
• 12:56
  script.
• 12:57
  Instead
• 12:58
  of
• 12:58
  starting
• 12:58
  my
• 12:58
  mornings
• 12:59
  buried
• 12:59
  in
• 13:00
  notifications,
• 13:01
  I
• 13:01
  started
• 13:01
  my
• 13:01
  day
• 13:02
  in
• 13:02
  alignment.
• 13:03
  Before
• 13:03
  I
• 13:03
  even
• 13:04
  looked
• 13:04
  at
• 13:04
  a
• 13:04
  screen,
• 13:05
  I
• 13:05
  got
• 13:05
  quiet.
• 13:06
  I
• 13:06
  journaled.
• 13:07
  I
• 13:08
  asked
• 13:08
  What
• 13:09
  truly
• 13:09
  matters
• 13:10
  today.
• 13:10
  That's
• 13:11
  when
• 13:11
  productivity
• 13:12
  stopped
• 13:13
  being
• 13:13
  pressure
• 13:14
  and
• 13:14
  started
• 13:15
  being
• 13:15
  purpose.
• 13:16
  That's
• 13:17
  when
• 13:17
  hustle
• 13:17
  turned
• 13:18
  into
• 13:19
  holy
• 13:19
  alignment,
• 13:20
  Now,
• 13:20
  here's
• 13:21
  the
• 13:21
  shift.
• 13:22
  When
• 13:22
  you
• 13:23
  move
• 13:23
  with
• 13:23
  clarity,
• 13:24
  you
• 13:24
  don't
• 13:25
  chase
• 13:25
  momentum.
• 13:26
  You
• 13:27
  become
• 13:28
  momentum.
• 13:29
  Friend,
• 13:30
  I
• 13:30
  see
• 13:30
  you.
• 13:31
  You've
• 13:31
  probably
• 13:31
  been
• 13:32
  the
• 13:32
  go-to
• 13:32
  girl
• 13:33
  your
• 13:33
  whole
• 13:33
  life.
• 13:34
  You
• 13:34
  show
• 13:34
  up,
• 13:34
  you
• 13:35
  hold
• 13:35
  it
• 13:35
  down
• 13:36
  and
• 13:36
  lead
• 13:36
  for
• 13:37
  everyone
• 13:37
  else.
• 13:38
  But
• 13:38
  true
• 13:39
  leadership
• 13:39
  begins
• 13:40
  when
• 13:40
  you
• 13:40
  decide
• 13:41
  to
• 13:41
  lead
• 13:41
  yourself
• 13:42
  with
• 13:42
  the
• 13:42
  same
• 13:43
  devotion
• 13:44
  because
• 13:44
  purpose
• 13:45
  isn't
• 13:45
  something
• 13:46
  you
• 13:46
  find.
• 13:47
  It's
• 13:47
  something
• 13:47
  you
• 13:48
  create
• 13:49
  through
• 13:49
  intention.
• 13:50
  It's
• 13:51
  not
• 13:51
  out
• 13:52
  there
• 13:52
  waiting
• 13:52
  to
• 13:52
  be
• 13:53
  discovered.
• 13:53
  It's
• 13:54
  right
• 13:54
  here
• 13:54
  waiting
• 13:55
  to
• 13:55
  be
• 13:55
  decided.
• 13:56
  So
• 13:57
  I
• 13:57
  want
• 13:57
  you
• 13:57
  to
• 13:57
  ask
• 13:58
  yourself,
• 13:59
  what
• 13:59
  does
• 13:59
  acting
• 14:00
  from
• 14:00
  purpose
• 14:01
  look
• 14:02
  like
• 14:02
  in
• 14:02
  this
• 14:02
  season
• 14:03
  of
• 14:03
  my
• 14:03
  life?
• 14:04
  You
• 14:04
  know,
• 14:05
  maybe
• 14:05
  it
• 14:05
  looks
• 14:05
  like
• 14:06
  following
• 14:06
  through
• 14:07
  on
• 14:07
  that
• 14:07
  dream
• 14:08
  that
• 14:08
  you
• 14:08
  keep
• 14:08
  putting
• 14:08
  off
• 14:09
  or
• 14:09
  slowing
• 14:10
  down
• 14:10
  long
• 14:11
  enough
• 14:11
  to
• 14:11
  actually
• 14:11
  enjoy
• 14:12
  what
• 14:13
  you
• 14:13
  prayed
• 14:13
  for.
• 14:14
  Maybe
• 14:14
  it's
• 14:14
  giving
• 14:15
  yourself
• 14:15
  permission
• 14:16
  to
• 14:16
  evolve,
• 14:17
  to
• 14:17
  change
• 14:18
  directions
• 14:19
  without
• 14:19
  the
• 14:19
  guilt.
• 14:20
  Self-leadership
• 14:21
  isn't
• 14:21
  about
• 14:22
  punishing
• 14:23
  harder
• 14:23
  because.
• 14:24
  Friend.
• 14:25
  The
• 14:25
  world
• 14:26
  is
• 14:26
  hard
• 14:27
  enough.
• 14:27
  So
• 14:28
  many
• 14:28
  things
• 14:29
  outside
• 14:29
  of
• 14:30
  your
• 14:30
  control
• 14:31
  are
• 14:31
  hard
• 14:32
  enough.
• 14:33
  It's
• 14:33
  more
• 14:33
  about
• 14:34
  perfecting
• 14:35
  how
• 14:35
  you
• 14:35
  honor
• 14:36
  yourself
• 14:37
  and
• 14:37
  your
• 14:37
  word
• 14:38
  to
• 14:38
  yourself.
• 14:39
  It's
• 14:39
  following
• 14:40
  through
• 14:40
  because
• 14:41
  you
• 14:41
  trust
• 14:42
  yourself.
• 14:42
  You
• 14:43
  can
• 14:43
  be
• 14:43
  gentle
• 14:44
  and
• 14:44
  consistent.
• 14:45
  It
• 14:45
  is
• 14:45
  saying,
• 14:46
  I
• 14:46
  do
• 14:47
  what
• 14:47
  I
• 14:47
  said
• 14:48
  I
• 14:48
  would,
• 14:48
  not
• 14:49
  from
• 14:49
  fear,
• 14:50
  but
• 14:50
  from
• 14:50
  self-respect.
• 14:52
  Every
• 14:52
  time
• 14:53
  you
• 14:53
  keep
• 14:53
  a
• 14:53
  promise
• 14:54
  to
• 14:54
  yourself,
• 14:54
  you
• 14:54
  build
• 14:55
  trust
• 14:55
  in
• 14:55
  your
• 14:56
  own
• 14:56
  leadership.
• 14:57
  That's
• 14:57
  how
• 14:58
  alignment
• 14:58
  becomes
• 14:59
  identity.
• 15:00
  One
• 15:00
  promise,
• 15:01
  one
• 15:01
  decision,
• 15:02
  one
• 15:02
  yes
• 15:03
  to
• 15:03
  yourself
• 15:04
  at
• 15:04
  a
• 15:04
  time.
• 15:05
  One
• 15:05
  of
• 15:05
  the
• 15:05
  most
• 15:06
  freeing
• 15:07
  lessons
• 15:07
  I
• 15:07
  ever
• 15:08
  learned
• 15:08
  is
• 15:09
  every
• 15:09
  yes
• 15:10
  carries
• 15:10
  a
• 15:11
  cost
• 15:11
  before
• 15:12
  saying
• 15:12
  yes
• 15:13
  to
• 15:13
  anything.
• 15:13
  Now
• 15:14
  I
• 15:15
  run
• 15:15
  it
• 15:15
  through
• 15:16
  what
• 15:16
  I
• 15:16
  call
• 15:17
  my
• 15:17
  decision
• 15:18
  filter.
• 15:18
  One,
• 15:19
  does
• 15:19
  this
• 15:20
  align
• 15:20
  with
• 15:20
  my
• 15:20
  vision?
• 15:21
  Two,
• 15:22
  does
• 15:22
  it
• 15:22
  move
• 15:23
  me
• 15:23
  closer
• 15:23
  to
• 15:23
  my
• 15:24
  goals?
• 15:24
  And
• 15:24
  three,
• 15:25
  does
• 15:25
  it
• 15:26
  feel
• 15:26
  light
• 15:27
  or
• 15:27
  heavy?
• 15:28
  If
• 15:28
  it's
• 15:28
  not
• 15:29
  a
• 15:29
  full
• 15:29
  body,
• 15:29
  yes,
• 15:30
  it's
• 15:31
  an
• 15:31
  absolute
• 15:32
  no
• 15:32
  because
• 15:32
  here's
• 15:33
  where
• 15:33
  it
• 15:33
  gets
• 15:34
  real.
• 15:34
  You
• 15:35
  can
• 15:35
  do
• 15:35
  all
• 15:36
  the
• 15:36
  right
• 15:36
  things
• 15:37
  in
• 15:37
  the
• 15:37
  wrong
• 15:38
  season
• 15:39
  and
• 15:39
  still
• 15:39
  end
• 15:39
  up
• 15:40
  exhausted.
• 15:41
  Alignment
• 15:41
  is
• 15:42
  about
• 15:42
  rhythm,
• 15:43
  not
• 15:43
  reaction.
• 15:45
  Saying
• 15:45
  no
• 15:46
  isn't
• 15:46
  rejection,
• 15:47
  it's
• 15:47
  redirection.
• 15:49
  Every
• 15:49
  No
• 15:49
  creates
• 15:50
  space
• 15:51
  for
• 15:51
  divine
• 15:52
  alignment
• 15:52
  to
• 15:53
  drop
• 15:53
  in
• 15:54
  every
• 15:54
  no
• 15:55
  protects
• 15:55
  the
• 15:56
  yes
• 15:57
  that
• 15:57
  truly
• 15:57
  matters.
• 15:58
  And
• 15:59
  if
• 15:59
  you
• 15:59
  were
• 15:59
  my
• 15:59
  client
• 16:00
  facing
• 16:00
  a
• 16:00
  decision
• 16:01
  this
• 16:01
  week,
• 16:02
  I
• 16:02
  tell
• 16:02
  you
• 16:02
  to
• 16:02
  pause
• 16:03
  and
• 16:03
  ask
• 16:04
  yourself,
• 16:05
  is
• 16:05
  this
• 16:05
  purposeful
• 16:07
  for
• 16:07
  who
• 16:07
  I
• 16:07
  am
• 16:08
  now
• 16:09
  or
• 16:09
  just
• 16:09
  habitual
• 16:10
  for
• 16:11
  who
• 16:11
  I
• 16:11
  used
• 16:11
  to
• 16:11
  be?
• 16:12
  For
• 16:12
  so
• 16:13
  many
• 16:13
  years,
• 16:13
  I
• 16:14
  thought
• 16:14
  leadership
• 16:15
  meant
• 16:15
  control.
• 16:16
  Control
• 16:16
  the
• 16:16
  plan,
• 16:17
  the
• 16:17
  people,
• 16:18
  the
• 16:18
  process,
• 16:18
  the
• 16:18
  outcome.
• 16:19
  But
• 16:20
  real
• 16:20
  alignment
• 16:21
  began
• 16:22
  when
• 16:22
  I
• 16:22
  stopped
• 16:23
  controlling
• 16:24
  and
• 16:24
  started
• 16:25
  co-creating.
• 16:26
  Aligned
• 16:27
  action
• 16:27
  is
• 16:28
  obedience,
• 16:29
  not
• 16:30
  overexertion.
• 16:31
  When
• 16:31
  I
• 16:31
  stopped
• 16:32
  forcing
• 16:33
  and
• 16:33
  started
• 16:33
  flowing,
• 16:35
  everything
• 16:35
  changed.
• 16:36
  I
• 16:36
  learned
• 16:37
  that
• 16:37
  the
• 16:37
  how
• 16:38
  isn't
• 16:38
  my
• 16:38
  job?
• 16:39
  The
• 16:39
  honoring
• 16:40
  is
• 16:41
  when
• 16:41
  I
• 16:41
  move
• 16:42
  in
• 16:42
  obedience
• 16:43
  to
• 16:43
  what
• 16:43
  feels
• 16:44
  aligned.
• 16:45
  God
• 16:45
  moves
• 16:46
  in
• 16:46
  orchestration
• 16:48
  and
• 16:48
  that's
• 16:49
  feminine
• 16:49
  leadership
• 16:50
  flow
• 16:51
  over
• 16:51
  force.
• 16:52
  Faith
• 16:53
  over
• 16:53
  frenzy
• 16:54
  co-creation
• 16:55
  ask,
• 16:56
  can
• 16:56
  I
• 16:56
  trust
• 16:57
  that
• 16:57
  what's
• 16:57
  meant
• 16:58
  for
• 16:58
  me
• 16:59
  doesn't
• 16:59
  require
• 17:00
  me
• 17:00
  to
• 17:00
  exhaust
• 17:01
  myself
• 17:02
  to
• 17:02
  earn
• 17:03
  it?
• 17:03
  That's
• 17:04
  when
• 17:04
  you
• 17:04
  stop
• 17:05
  white
• 17:05
  knuckling
• 17:06
  control
• 17:07
  and
• 17:07
  start
• 17:07
  living
• 17:08
  in
• 17:08
  divine
• 17:09
  collaboration.
• 17:10
  So
• 17:11
  here's
• 17:11
  a
• 17:11
  Main
• 17:11
  Character
• 17:12
  shift
• 17:12
  for
• 17:12
  you.
• 17:13
  You
• 17:13
  can't
• 17:14
  lead
• 17:14
  from
• 17:14
  dysregulation
• 17:16
  or
• 17:16
  dysfunction.
• 17:17
  If
• 17:17
  your
• 17:18
  nervous
• 17:18
  system
• 17:19
  is
• 17:19
  in
• 17:19
  chaos,
• 17:20
  your
• 17:20
  decisions
• 17:21
  will
• 17:21
  be
• 17:21
  too.
• 17:22
  That's
• 17:22
  why
• 17:22
  I
• 17:22
  tell
• 17:23
  my
• 17:23
  clients,
• 17:24
  don't
• 17:24
  reply,
• 17:25
  decide
• 17:26
  or
• 17:26
  declare
• 17:27
  until
• 17:28
  you've
• 17:28
  taken
• 17:29
  a
• 17:29
  breath
• 17:30
  regulation
• 17:31
  first,
• 17:32
  then
• 17:32
  revelation.
• 17:34
  Take
• 17:34
  a
• 17:34
  breath,
• 17:35
  ground
• 17:35
  yourself,
• 17:36
  check
• 17:37
  in
• 17:37
  with
• 17:37
  your
• 17:37
  body.
• 17:38
  Alignment
• 17:39
  always
• 17:40
  feels
• 17:40
  peaceful
• 17:41
  if
• 17:42
  it's
• 17:42
  feeling
• 17:42
  panicky.
• 17:43
  It's
• 17:44
  not
• 17:44
  purpose,
• 17:45
  it's
• 17:45
  pressure.
• 17:46
  You
• 17:46
  can't
• 17:46
  hear
• 17:47
  divine
• 17:47
  instruction
• 17:49
  over
• 17:49
  internal
• 17:50
  chaos.
• 17:51
  So
• 17:51
  before
• 17:52
  you
• 17:52
  act,
• 17:53
  pause
• 17:54
  long
• 17:54
  enough
• 17:55
  for
• 17:55
  peace
• 17:56
  to
• 17:56
  speak.
• 18:00
  And
• 18:00
  listen,
• 18:01
  friend,
• 18:01
  you
• 18:02
  don't
• 18:02
  need
• 18:02
  another
• 18:03
  to-do
• 18:03
  list.
• 18:04
  You
• 18:04
  need
• 18:04
  alignment.
• 18:05
  The
• 18:05
  Main
• 18:06
  Character
• 18:06
  Alignment
• 18:07
  Call
• 18:07
  is
• 18:08
  your
• 18:08
  personalized
• 18:09
  power
• 18:09
  session
• 18:10
  to
• 18:10
  stop
• 18:11
  forcing,
• 18:11
  start
• 18:12
  flowing,
• 18:12
  and
• 18:12
  get
• 18:13
  back
• 18:13
  into
• 18:14
  sync
• 18:15
  with
• 18:15
  the
• 18:15
  woman
• 18:15
  you
• 18:16
  are
• 18:16
  becoming.
• 18:17
  We'll
• 18:18
  ditch
• 18:18
  the
• 18:18
  overwhelm.
• 18:19
  Define
• 18:20
  your
• 18:20
  next
• 18:20
  aligned,
• 18:21
  step
• 18:21
  and
• 18:22
  make
• 18:22
  purpose
• 18:23
  feel
• 18:23
  peaceful
• 18:24
  again.
• 18:25
  So
• 18:25
  book
• 18:25
  your
• 18:25
  call
• 18:26
  through
• 18:26
  the
• 18:26
  link
• 18:26
  in
• 18:26
  show
• 18:27
  notes
• 18:27
  and
• 18:27
  let's
• 18:28
  get
• 18:28
  you
• 18:28
  back
• 18:29
  into
• 18:29
  your
• 18:29
  Main
• 18:30
  Character
• 18:30
  Energy.
• 18:31
  No
• 18:32
  hustle
• 18:32
  required.
• 18:35
  A
• 18:35
  really
• 18:36
  quick
• 18:36
  friend.
• 18:36
  Let's
• 18:37
  talk
• 18:37
  about
• 18:38
  the
• 18:38
  piece
• 18:38
  that
• 18:38
  most
• 18:39
  people
• 18:39
  still
• 18:40
  resist
• 18:41
  and
• 18:41
  that's
• 18:42
  rest.
• 18:43
  I
• 18:43
  used
• 18:43
  to
• 18:43
  treat
• 18:44
  rest
• 18:44
  like
• 18:44
  it
• 18:45
  was
• 18:45
  a
• 18:45
  reward.
• 18:46
  It
• 18:46
  was
• 18:46
  something
• 18:46
  that
• 18:46
  I
• 18:46
  had
• 18:47
  to
• 18:47
  earn
• 18:48
  after
• 18:48
  the
• 18:48
  grind,
• 18:49
  but
• 18:49
  the
• 18:49
  work
• 18:50
  was
• 18:50
  never
• 18:51
  done.
• 18:52
  That's
• 18:52
  when
• 18:53
  my
• 18:53
  coach
• 18:53
  said
• 18:53
  something
• 18:54
  to
• 18:54
  me
• 18:54
  that
• 18:54
  wrecked
• 18:55
  me
• 18:55
  in
• 18:55
  the
• 18:55
  best
• 18:56
  way,
• 18:56
  honey.
• 18:57
  She
• 18:57
  said,
• 18:57
  rest
• 18:58
  isn't
• 18:58
  a
• 18:59
  reward.
• 18:59
  It's
• 19:00
  your
• 19:00
  rhythm.
• 19:01
  And
• 19:01
  she
• 19:02
  was
• 19:02
  right.
• 19:03
  Rest
• 19:03
  is
• 19:03
  where
• 19:04
  your
• 19:04
  creativity
• 19:05
  blooms
• 19:06
  where
• 19:06
  clarity
• 19:06
  whispers
• 19:07
  where
• 19:07
  God
• 19:08
  speaks
• 19:08
  the
• 19:08
  loudest.
• 19:09
  Rest
• 19:10
  isn't
• 19:10
  lazy,
• 19:11
  it's
• 19:11
  leadership
• 19:12
  because
• 19:13
  rest
• 19:13
  is
• 19:14
  how
• 19:14
  you
• 19:14
  sustain.
• 19:15
  What
• 19:16
  you've
• 19:16
  already
• 19:16
  prayed
• 19:17
  for,
• 19:17
  it's
• 19:18
  how
• 19:18
  you
• 19:18
  stop
• 19:18
  operating
• 19:19
  from
• 19:19
  urgency
• 19:20
  and
• 19:21
  start
• 19:21
  operating
• 19:22
  from
• 19:22
  overflow.
• 19:23
  Rest
• 19:24
  isn't
• 19:24
  the
• 19:24
  opposite
• 19:25
  of
• 19:25
  productivity.
• 19:26
  It's
• 19:27
  actually
• 19:27
  the
• 19:28
  foundation
• 19:28
  of
• 19:29
  it.
• 19:29
  And
• 19:29
  in
• 19:30
  this
• 19:30
  season
• 19:30
  of
• 19:31
  your
• 19:31
  life,
• 19:32
  rest
• 19:33
  might
• 19:33
  just
• 19:33
  be
• 19:34
  the
• 19:34
  most
• 19:34
  purposeful
• 19:35
  action
• 19:36
  you
• 19:36
  can
• 19:36
  take.
• 19:37
  When
• 19:37
  I
• 19:37
  finally
• 19:38
  allowed
• 19:39
  myself
• 19:40
  rest,
• 19:41
  I
• 19:41
  realized
• 19:42
  something
• 19:43
  powerful.
• 19:44
  Alignment
• 19:44
  isn't
• 19:45
  a
• 19:45
  one-time
• 19:46
  moment.
• 19:47
  It
• 19:47
  is
• 19:47
  a
• 19:47
  daily
• 19:48
  maintenance
• 19:49
  plan.
• 19:50
  Every
• 19:50
  day
• 19:50
  we're
• 19:51
  faced
• 19:51
  with
• 19:51
  the
• 19:51
  same
• 19:52
  choice
• 19:53
  to
• 19:53
  move
• 19:54
  from
• 19:54
  peace.
• 19:55
  Or
• 19:55
  from
• 19:55
  Pressure
• 19:56
  and
• 19:56
  rest
• 19:57
  gave
• 19:57
  me
• 19:57
  enough
• 19:58
  stillness
• 19:59
  to
• 19:59
  start
• 19:59
  noticing
• 20:00
  the
• 20:00
  difference.
• 20:01
  That's
• 20:02
  where
• 20:02
  my
• 20:02
  self-love
• 20:03
  two
• 20:03
  Step
• 20:03
  was
• 20:04
  born.
• 20:04
  A
• 20:04
  two-part
• 20:05
  recalibration
• 20:06
  ritual
• 20:07
  that
• 20:07
  really
• 20:07
  keeps
• 20:08
  me
• 20:08
  aligned
• 20:09
  with
• 20:09
  peace,
• 20:09
  purpose
• 20:10
  and
• 20:10
  power
• 20:11
  no
• 20:11
  matter
• 20:12
  what
• 20:12
  life
• 20:13
  is
• 20:13
  throwing
• 20:13
  my
• 20:13
  way,
• 20:14
  if
• 20:14
  the
• 20:14
  old
• 20:15
  you
• 20:15
  equated
• 20:16
  love
• 20:16
  with
• 20:17
  doing
• 20:17
  more.
• 20:18
  This
• 20:18
  is
• 20:19
  your
• 20:19
  daily
• 20:19
  reset,
• 20:20
  a
• 20:20
  two
• 20:21
  step
• 20:21
  simple
• 20:21
  practice
• 20:22
  that
• 20:22
  helps
• 20:22
  you
• 20:23
  shift
• 20:23
  from
• 20:23
  hustle
• 20:24
  into
• 20:25
  harmony.
• 20:25
  Because
• 20:26
  self-love
• 20:27
  isn't
• 20:27
  just
• 20:28
  about
• 20:28
  bubble
• 20:28
  baths
• 20:29
  and
• 20:29
  saying
• 20:30
  the
• 20:30
  right
• 20:30
  affirmations
• 20:31
  as
• 20:32
  lovely
• 20:32
  as
• 20:33
  they
• 20:33
  are,
• 20:33
  it's
• 20:34
  about
• 20:34
  returning
• 20:35
  to
• 20:35
  presence
• 20:36
  and
• 20:36
  purpose
• 20:37
  before
• 20:38
  you
• 20:38
  move.
• 20:39
  So
• 20:39
  step
• 20:40
  one,
• 20:40
  pause
• 20:41
  to
• 20:41
  presence,
• 20:42
  shift
• 20:42
  out
• 20:43
  of
• 20:43
  the
• 20:43
  rush.
• 20:44
  Before
• 20:44
  you
• 20:44
  move,
• 20:45
  just
• 20:45
  pause
• 20:46
  and
• 20:46
  ask,
• 20:47
  am
• 20:47
  I
• 20:48
  acting
• 20:48
  from
• 20:49
  pressure
• 20:50
  or
• 20:50
  from
• 20:50
  presence?
• 20:51
  Close
• 20:51
  your
• 20:52
  eyes.
• 20:52
  Take
• 20:53
  a
• 20:53
  slow
• 20:53
  breath
• 20:54
  in.
• 20:55
  Feel
• 20:55
  your
• 20:56
  body.
• 20:56
  Your
• 20:57
  shoulders,
• 20:57
  your
• 20:58
  heartbeat.
• 20:59
  Before
• 20:59
  you
• 20:59
  answer
• 21:00
  that
• 21:00
  phone
• 21:01
  check
• 21:01
  in
• 21:02
  because,
• 21:02
  friend,
• 21:03
  let's
• 21:03
  be
• 21:03
  real.
• 21:03
  Sometimes
• 21:04
  your
• 21:04
  phone
• 21:05
  rings
• 21:05
  and
• 21:05
  you
• 21:06
  see
• 21:06
  who's
• 21:06
  calling
• 21:07
  you,
• 21:07
  and
• 21:07
  your
• 21:08
  body
• 21:08
  is
• 21:08
  giving
• 21:09
  an
• 21:09
  instant
• 21:09
  reaction.
• 21:10
  Okay?
• 21:11
  If
• 21:11
  it
• 21:12
  is
• 21:12
  feeling
• 21:12
  tense,
• 21:13
  tight,
• 21:13
  or
• 21:14
  rushed,
• 21:16
  or
• 21:16
  just
• 21:17
  the,
• 21:17
  oh,
• 21:17
  Uhuh.
• 21:18
  If
• 21:18
  it's
• 21:18
  giving
• 21:18
  you
• 21:18
  any
• 21:19
  of
• 21:19
  that,
• 21:20
  that's
• 21:21
  pressure.
• 21:22
  But
• 21:22
  if
• 21:22
  you're
• 21:22
  feeling
• 21:23
  grounded,
• 21:23
  peaceful,
• 21:24
  aware,
• 21:25
  that's
• 21:26
  presence.
• 21:27
  No
• 21:27
  judgment,
• 21:28
  just
• 21:29
  awareness
• 21:30
  that
• 21:30
  30
• 21:31
  second
• 21:31
  pause
• 21:32
  retrains
• 21:33
  your
• 21:33
  nervous
• 21:34
  system
• 21:34
  to
• 21:35
  lead
• 21:35
  from
• 21:35
  peace
• 21:36
  instead
• 21:37
  of
• 21:37
  panic.
• 21:38
  Because
• 21:38
  alignment
• 21:39
  doesn't
• 21:39
  come
• 21:40
  from
• 21:40
  pushing
• 21:40
  harder,
• 21:41
  it
• 21:42
  comes
• 21:42
  from
• 21:42
  moving,
• 21:43
  honestly.
• 21:44
  Step
• 21:45
  two,
• 21:45
  move
• 21:46
  with
• 21:46
  meaning.
• 21:47
  Act
• 21:47
  on
• 21:47
  intention,
• 21:48
  not
• 21:48
  impulse.
• 21:49
  Once
• 21:50
  you're
• 21:50
  grounded,
• 21:51
  ask
• 21:51
  yourself,
• 21:52
  what's
• 21:53
  one
• 21:53
  small,
• 21:54
  aligned
• 21:55
  action
• 21:55
  that
• 21:56
  honors
• 21:56
  my
• 21:56
  peace
• 21:57
  and
• 21:58
  moves
• 21:58
  me
• 21:58
  closer.
• 21:59
  To
• 21:59
  my
• 21:59
  purpose.
• 22:01
  Then
• 22:01
  do
• 22:01
  just
• 22:02
  one
• 22:02
  thing.
• 22:03
  Not
• 22:04
  everything.
• 22:05
  Not
• 22:05
  what
• 22:05
  looks
• 22:05
  good
• 22:06
  on
• 22:06
  paper.
• 22:06
  The
• 22:07
  one
• 22:07
  thing
• 22:08
  that
• 22:08
  feels
• 22:09
  peaceful
• 22:10
  and
• 22:10
  powerful.
• 22:11
  That's
• 22:12
  where
• 22:12
  the
• 22:12
  magic
• 22:12
  happens,
• 22:13
  where
• 22:14
  divine
• 22:14
  flow
• 22:15
  meets
• 22:15
  disciplined.
• 22:16
  Follow
• 22:17
  through
• 22:18
  this
• 22:18
  two
• 22:18
  step
• 22:19
  ritual
• 22:19
  reminds
• 22:20
  you.
• 22:20
  Peace
• 22:21
  is
• 22:21
  not
• 22:22
  the
• 22:22
  pause
• 22:23
  after
• 22:23
  success.
• 22:25
  Peace
• 22:25
  is
• 22:26
  the
• 22:26
  posture
• 22:27
  that
• 22:27
  creates
• 22:28
  it.
• 22:28
  All
• 22:28
  right.
• 22:28
  Now,
• 22:29
  let's
• 22:29
  zoom
• 22:29
  out
• 22:30
  for
• 22:30
  a
• 22:30
  second.
• 22:31
  When
• 22:31
  I
• 22:31
  make
• 22:32
  decisions
• 22:32
  these
• 22:33
  days,
• 22:33
  I
• 22:33
  don't
• 22:34
  ask
• 22:34
  what
• 22:34
  feels
• 22:35
  urgent.
• 22:35
  I
• 22:35
  ask,
• 22:36
  will
• 22:37
  this
• 22:37
  matter
• 22:37
  to
• 22:38
  the
• 22:38
  woman
• 22:38
  I'm
• 22:39
  becoming?
• 22:40
  Ooh,
• 22:41
  friend.
• 22:42
  That's
• 22:42
  that
• 22:42
  legacy
• 22:43
  energy,
• 22:43
  right?
• 22:44
  There
• 22:44
  and
• 22:45
  that's
• 22:45
  what
• 22:45
  turns
• 22:46
  small
• 22:46
  choices
• 22:47
  into
• 22:47
  soul
• 22:48
  level
• 22:49
  leadership
• 22:50
  because
• 22:50
  every
• 22:51
  yes,
• 22:51
  you
• 22:52
  give
• 22:52
  and
• 22:53
  every
• 22:53
  no,
• 22:54
  you
• 22:54
  honor
• 22:55
  shapes
• 22:55
  the
• 22:55
  woman
• 22:56
  your
• 22:56
  future
• 22:57
  self
• 22:57
  gets
• 22:58
  to.
• 22:58
  Thank.
• 22:59
  When
• 22:59
  you
• 22:59
  start
• 22:59
  moving,
• 23:00
  like
• 23:00
  your
• 23:00
  future
• 23:01
  self
• 23:01
  is
• 23:02
  already
• 23:02
  watching,
• 23:03
  you
• 23:03
  naturally
• 23:04
  rise
• 23:05
  to
• 23:05
  her
• 23:06
  standard.
• 23:07
  You
• 23:07
  make
• 23:07
  choices
• 23:08
  with
• 23:08
  vision
• 23:09
  instead
• 23:09
  of
• 23:09
  from
• 23:10
  vanity,
• 23:10
  you
• 23:11
  build
• 23:11
  rhythms,
• 23:12
  not
• 23:12
  just
• 23:13
  results.
• 23:14
  You
• 23:14
  start
• 23:14
  treating
• 23:15
  your
• 23:15
  time
• 23:16
  like
• 23:16
  it's
• 23:16
  sacred,
• 23:17
  your
• 23:17
  energy
• 23:18
  like
• 23:18
  its
• 23:18
  currency
• 23:19
  and
• 23:19
  your
• 23:20
  peace,
• 23:20
  like
• 23:20
  it's
• 23:21
  non-negotiable.
• 23:22
  Legacy
• 23:23
  energy
• 23:23
  is
• 23:23
  what
• 23:24
  happens
• 23:24
  when
• 23:24
  you
• 23:25
  realize
• 23:26
  you
• 23:26
  are
• 23:26
  not
• 23:26
  just
• 23:27
  working
• 23:27
  for
• 23:27
  success.
• 23:29
  You
• 23:29
  are
• 23:29
  stewarding
• 23:30
  significance.
• 23:32
  You
• 23:32
  stop
• 23:33
  hustling
• 23:33
  for
• 23:33
  worth,
• 23:34
  and
• 23:34
  start
• 23:35
  leading
• 23:36
  from
• 23:36
  pure
• 23:37
  wholeness.
• 23:38
  So
• 23:38
  I
• 23:38
  want
• 23:38
  you
• 23:38
  to
• 23:38
  pause
• 23:39
  and
• 23:39
  ask
• 23:40
  yourself,
• 23:40
  what
• 23:41
  does
• 23:41
  legacy
• 23:42
  look
• 23:42
  like
• 23:43
  for
• 23:43
  me
• 23:44
  in
• 23:44
  this
• 23:44
  season?
• 23:45
  Maybe
• 23:46
  it's
• 23:46
  protecting
• 23:47
  your
• 23:47
  peace
• 23:48
  so
• 23:48
  that
• 23:48
  your
• 23:48
  children
• 23:49
  inherit
• 23:50
  calm
• 23:51
  instead
• 23:51
  of
• 23:51
  chaos.
• 23:53
  Maybe
• 23:53
  it's
• 23:53
  setting
• 23:53
  boundaries
• 23:54
  that
• 23:54
  teach
• 23:55
  others
• 23:55
  how
• 23:55
  to
• 23:55
  love
• 23:56
  you.
• 23:56
  Well,
• 23:57
  maybe
• 23:57
  it's
• 23:57
  leading
• 23:58
  with
• 23:58
  grace.
• 23:59
  In
• 23:59
  a
• 23:59
  world
• 24:00
  that
• 24:00
  glorifies
• 24:01
  grind,
• 24:02
  legacy
• 24:02
  isn't
• 24:03
  just
• 24:03
  something
• 24:04
  that
• 24:04
  you
• 24:04
  leave
• 24:05
  behind.
• 24:06
  It's
• 24:06
  what
• 24:06
  you
• 24:07
  live
• 24:07
  right
• 24:08
  now.
• 24:09
  It's
• 24:09
  how
• 24:10
  you
• 24:10
  love,
• 24:11
  how
• 24:11
  you
• 24:11
  lead,
• 24:12
  how
• 24:12
  you
• 24:12
  listen,
• 24:13
  and
• 24:13
  how
• 24:13
  you
• 24:14
  honor
• 24:14
  the
• 24:14
  divine
• 24:15
  calling
• 24:16
  on
• 24:16
  your
• 24:16
  life.
• 24:17
  So
• 24:17
  close
• 24:18
  your
• 24:18
  eyes
• 24:18
  for
• 24:18
  a
• 24:18
  second
• 24:19
  if
• 24:19
  you
• 24:19
  are
• 24:20
  safe
• 24:20
  to
• 24:20
  do
• 24:20
  so.
• 24:21
  Place
• 24:22
  your
• 24:22
  hand
• 24:22
  on
• 24:22
  your
• 24:23
  heart.
• 24:23
  Picture
• 24:24
  the
• 24:24
  woman
• 24:25
  you
• 24:25
  are
• 24:25
  becoming
• 24:27
  confident,
• 24:27
  empowered,
• 24:29
  peaceful,
• 24:30
  radiant,
• 24:31
  and
• 24:31
  walking
• 24:31
  in
• 24:32
  purpose.
• 24:33
  Ask
• 24:33
  her
• 24:34
  what
• 24:34
  would
• 24:34
  feel
• 24:35
  aligned
• 24:35
  today.
• 24:37
  Listen
• 24:38
  for
• 24:38
  the
• 24:38
  whisper
• 24:39
  because
• 24:39
  that
• 24:39
  whisper,
• 24:41
  that's
• 24:41
  your
• 24:41
  leadership
• 24:42
  talking
• 24:42
  because
• 24:43
  when
• 24:43
  you
• 24:43
  move
• 24:44
  with
• 24:44
  legacy,
• 24:45
  energy
• 24:46
  alignment
• 24:46
  becomes
• 24:47
  your
• 24:47
  lifestyle
• 24:49
  and
• 24:49
  peace
• 24:50
  becomes
• 24:50
  your
• 24:50
  proof.
• 24:51
  Now
• 24:51
  let
• 24:51
  me
• 24:51
  pour
• 24:52
  into
• 24:52
  you
• 24:52
  real
• 24:52
  quick,
• 24:53
  crown
• 24:53
  on
• 24:54
  Queen.
• 24:55
  I
• 24:55
  need
• 24:55
  you
• 24:55
  to
• 24:56
  hear
• 24:56
  me
• 24:56
  so
• 24:57
  deep
• 24:57
  down
• 24:57
  in
• 24:57
  your
• 24:57
  spirit
• 24:58
  when
• 24:59
  I
• 24:59
  say
• 24:59
  this.
• 25:00
  You
• 25:00
  don't
• 25:01
  have
• 25:01
  to
• 25:01
  hustle
• 25:02
  for
• 25:03
  your
• 25:03
  worthiness.
• 25:04
  You
• 25:04
  don't
• 25:05
  have
• 25:05
  to
• 25:05
  prove
• 25:06
  you
• 25:06
  are
• 25:07
  valuable
• 25:08
  by
• 25:08
  staying
• 25:09
  booked,
• 25:09
  busy
• 25:10
  and
• 25:10
  burnt
• 25:10
  out
• 25:11
  your
• 25:12
  alignment.
• 25:13
  Is
• 25:13
  the
• 25:14
  assignment
• 25:15
  your
• 25:15
  peace
• 25:16
  Is
• 25:17
  the
• 25:17
  power.
• 25:18
  You
• 25:18
  are
• 25:18
  allowed
• 25:19
  to
• 25:19
  move
• 25:20
  slower
• 25:21
  and
• 25:21
  still
• 25:21
  be
• 25:22
  in
• 25:22
  divine
• 25:22
  timing.
• 25:23
  You
• 25:24
  are
• 25:24
  allowed
• 25:25
  to
• 25:25
  lead
• 25:25
  differently
• 25:27
  from
• 25:27
  love,
• 25:28
  not
• 25:28
  from
• 25:29
  lack.
• 25:30
  You
• 25:30
  are
• 25:30
  the
• 25:30
  woman
• 25:31
  who
• 25:31
  builds
• 25:32
  without
• 25:32
  a
• 25:32
  breaking,
• 25:33
  who
• 25:34
  succeeds
• 25:35
  without
• 25:35
  sacrificing
• 25:36
  her
• 25:36
  soul.
• 25:37
  Because
• 25:37
  the
• 25:38
  truth
• 25:38
  is
• 25:39
  the
• 25:39
  more
• 25:39
  aligned
• 25:40
  you
• 25:40
  are,
• 25:41
  the
• 25:41
  more
• 25:42
  abundant.
• 25:42
  Your
• 25:43
  life
• 25:43
  becomes.
• 25:45
  So
• 25:45
  this
• 25:45
  week
• 25:46
  I
• 25:46
  want
• 25:46
  you
• 25:46
  to
• 25:46
  breathe
• 25:47
  before
• 25:47
  you
• 25:48
  begin
• 25:48
  and
• 25:49
  ask
• 25:49
  yourself,
• 25:50
  am
• 25:50
  I
• 25:50
  moving
• 25:51
  from
• 25:51
  pressure
• 25:52
  or
• 25:52
  from
• 25:53
  purpose?
• 25:54
  And
• 25:54
  when
• 25:54
  you
• 25:54
  feel
• 25:55
  that
• 25:55
  peaceful,
• 25:56
  yes,
• 25:57
  go
• 25:57
  all
• 25:57
  in.
• 25:58
  Because
• 25:58
  the
• 25:59
  life
• 25:59
  you
• 25:59
  desire
• 26:00
  doesn't
• 26:00
  require
• 26:01
  more
• 26:01
  hustle.
• 26:02
  It
• 26:02
  requires.
• 26:04
  More
• 26:04
  honoring
• 26:06
  purpose
• 26:06
  isn't
• 26:07
  something
• 26:07
  you
• 26:07
  have
• 26:07
  to
• 26:08
  chase
• 26:09
  or
• 26:09
  find
• 26:09
  out
• 26:10
  there.
• 26:11
  It's
• 26:11
  something
• 26:11
  you
• 26:12
  get
• 26:12
  to
• 26:12
  define
• 26:13
  right
• 26:14
  here.
• 26:15
  It's
• 26:15
  not
• 26:15
  a
• 26:15
  title
• 26:16
  or
• 26:16
  a
• 26:16
  destination.
• 26:18
  It's
• 26:18
  the
• 26:18
  intention
• 26:19
  behind
• 26:20
  how
• 26:20
  you
• 26:21
  live,
• 26:21
  love,
• 26:22
  and
• 26:22
  lead.
• 26:23
  Purpose
• 26:23
  is
• 26:23
  how
• 26:24
  you
• 26:24
  show
• 26:24
  up
• 26:25
  as
• 26:25
  a
• 26:25
  mother,
• 26:26
  a
• 26:26
  partner,
• 26:27
  a
• 26:27
  leader,
• 26:27
  a
• 26:28
  light.
• 26:29
  It's
• 26:29
  the
• 26:29
  way
• 26:29
  you
• 26:30
  love
• 26:30
  on
• 26:31
  your
• 26:31
  people.
• 26:32
  Pour
• 26:32
  into
• 26:33
  your
• 26:33
  passions
• 26:34
  and
• 26:34
  honor
• 26:35
  what
• 26:35
  matters
• 26:36
  most.
• 26:36
  So
• 26:37
  don't
• 26:37
  just
• 26:38
  be
• 26:38
  in
• 26:38
  your
• 26:39
  purpose.
• 26:39
  Be
• 26:40
  on
• 26:41
  purpose.
• 26:42
  Every
• 26:42
  word,
• 26:43
  every
• 26:43
  choice,
• 26:44
  every
• 26:44
  breath
• 26:45
  can
• 26:45
  carry
• 26:46
  intention.
• 26:47
  Purpose
• 26:48
  isn't
• 26:48
  a
• 26:48
  finish
• 26:49
  line.
• 26:49
  It's
• 26:49
  a
• 26:49
  frequency.
• 26:51
  That's
• 26:51
  how
• 26:51
  you
• 26:51
  lead
• 26:52
  with
• 26:52
  legacy
• 26:53
  energy.
• 26:54
  Not
• 26:54
  chasing
• 26:55
  the
• 26:55
  next
• 26:55
  big
• 26:55
  thing,
• 26:56
  but
• 26:56
  being
• 26:57
  fully
• 26:57
  present
• 26:58
  in
• 26:59
  the
• 26:59
  life
• 26:59
  you
• 26:59
  are
• 26:59
  building
• 27:00
  right
• 27:01
  now.
• 27:02
  You
• 27:02
  are
• 27:02
  already
• 27:03
  walking
• 27:03
  in
• 27:04
  your
• 27:04
  purpose,
• 27:04
  friend
• 27:05
  now.
• 27:06
  It's
• 27:06
  time
• 27:06
  to
• 27:06
  live
• 27:07
  like
• 27:07
  it.
• 27:10
  Ooh,
• 27:11
  friend,
• 27:11
  if
• 27:12
  this
• 27:12
  episode
• 27:13
  spoke
• 27:13
  to
• 27:13
  your
• 27:14
  soul,
• 27:14
  drop
• 27:15
  it
• 27:15
  in
• 27:15
  the
• 27:15
  group
• 27:15
  chat
• 27:16
  or
• 27:16
  share
• 27:16
  it
• 27:17
  with
• 27:17
  another
• 27:17
  woman
• 27:18
  who's
• 27:18
  ready
• 27:19
  to
• 27:19
  trade,
• 27:20
  hustle
• 27:20
  for
• 27:21
  harmony
• 27:21
  and.
• 27:21
  Step
• 27:22
  into
• 27:22
  her
• 27:22
  confident
• 27:23
  aligned
• 27:23
  era
• 27:24
  and
• 27:24
  grab
• 27:25
  your
• 27:25
  free
• 27:26
  Main
• 27:26
  Character
• 27:27
  Confidence
• 27:27
  Checklist,
• 27:28
  your
• 27:28
  go-to
• 27:29
  guide
• 27:29
  to
• 27:29
  help
• 27:30
  you
• 27:30
  stop
• 27:30
  second
• 27:31
  guessing
• 27:31
  and
• 27:31
  start
• 27:32
  showing
• 27:32
  up
• 27:33
  as
• 27:33
  the
• 27:33
  confident,
• 27:34
  grounded,
• 27:34
  unstoppable
• 27:35
  woman
• 27:36
  you
• 27:36
  are
• 27:36
  created
• 27:37
  to
• 27:37
  be.
• 27:38
  You
• 27:38
  will
• 27:38
  find
• 27:38
  the
• 27:38
  link
• 27:39
  waiting
• 27:39
  for
• 27:39
  you
• 27:40
  in
• 27:40
  the
• 27:40
  show
• 27:40
  notes
• 27:41
  because
• 27:41
  clarity
• 27:42
  is
• 27:42
  power,
• 27:42
  but
• 27:43
  confidence
• 27:44
  that's
• 27:44
  your
• 27:44
  crown
• 27:45
  queen.
• 27:45
  Don't
• 27:46
  forget
• 27:46
  to
• 27:47
  follow
• 27:47
  or
• 27:47
  subscribe,
• 27:48
  so
• 27:48
  you
• 27:48
  never
• 27:48
  miss
• 27:49
  an
• 27:49
  episode
• 27:49
  of
• 27:49
  Confident
• 27:50
  and
• 27:50
  Empowered.
• 27:51
  We
• 27:51
  are
• 27:51
  just
• 27:52
  getting.
• 27:52
  Started
• 27:53
  and
• 27:53
  the
• 27:54
  glow
• 27:54
  up
• 27:54
  of
• 27:55
  what's
• 27:55
  coming
• 27:55
  next.
• 27:56
  Ooh,
• 27:56
  it's
• 27:57
  all
• 27:57
  yours,
• 27:57
  friend.
• 27:58
  Until
• 27:59
  next
• 27:59
  time,
• 28:00
  take
• 28:00
  a
• 28:00
  breath.
• 28:01
  Trust
• 28:02
  your
• 28:02
  pace
• 28:03
  and
• 28:03
  remember
• 28:04
  alignment
• 28:05
  will
• 28:05
  always
• 28:05
  take
• 28:06
  you
• 28:06
  further
• 28:07
  than
• 28:07
  hustle
• 28:08
  ever
• 28:08
  could.
• 28:09
  Keep
• 28:09
  your
• 28:10
  crown
• 28:10
  high.
• 28:10
  And
• 28:11
  remember,
• 28:11
  we
• 28:11
  don't
• 28:12
  settle.
• 28:12
  We
• 28:12
  shine
• 28:13
  all
• 28:14
  because
• 28:14
  together
• 28:15
  we
• 28:15
  can
• 28:16
  encourage
• 28:16
  over
• 28:17
  everything.