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Episode 605: How To Know If Your Ex Is Still In Love With You · The Art of Love With Lucia

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  Hi. This is Luke here with the art
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  of love. I'm a dating and relationship.
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  Experts specializing in helping you get your ex back or to get
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  over your ex this week. I want to talk about how to know
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  if your ex still loves you just because they broke up with you.
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  It doesn't mean that the love went away.
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  It just means that the Bad and the relationship outweighed, the
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  good and they didn't want to stay with you anymore.
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  At least not in the way you were together before.
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  Maybe they want to change the terms of the relationship.
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  But it doesn't mean they don't love you.
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  So I want to give you some signs.
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  And obviously, the more signs that you see than the higher,
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  the chances are that they still love you.
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  And if you don't see any of these signs then sorry they
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  probably don't love you. But before I do that, I want to
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  welcome back my beautiful. No contact Army.
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  Have you been a good little soldier and stating, no contact.
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  Well, if you need help staying in no contact.
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  manual, go to no contact, secrets.com where you can read
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  to free chapters before purchasing the book, okay?
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  So these are in no particular order.
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  So let's start with this one. They want to know what's going
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  on with you. So it's a way to A to feel
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  connected with you, even if you're no longer together and
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  this can even go so far as let's say that they just want to know
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  what city you're in. And what the temperature of that
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  city is, I know, it sounds crazy, but if you have
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  absolutely no contact with someone, if you're totally
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  avoiding them, then people they'll use any little thing to
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  feel connected to someone they're no longer connected to
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  So they are going to find a way to somehow stay connected Beyond
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  obviously, you know, social media, which I will talk about
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  in a minute. But if they find some other
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  strange ways to stay connected, it's a good sign.
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  They still love you. Another sign is that they want
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  to be physically close to you and they could do this by saying
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  they need to pick up things that they left at your place, even if
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  they don't even need them. But then they don't take
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  everything that way. They can come back or if you see
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  them at work or school, they may be trying to run into you or be
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  physically close to you. Another sign is that they have
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  extreme emotions for you. So if they can go from one
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  extreme to the other, that's a strong sign.
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  They're still in love with you. So one minute they hate you and
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  then the next they love you and you're like are they crazy?
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  Well, they might be crazy in love.
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  Hey and an extension of that is if they're being hurtful to you
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  remember the opposite of love is not hate.
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  It's what? That's right.
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  Indifference. So when you're no longer in love
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  with someone you, You are actually board or unbothered by
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  the thought of them. You're not going to bother to
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  say hurtful things to them. So if they are saying mean
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  things to you it's because they still love you and miss you as
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  crazy as that sounds. I know and by the way, if you
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  The next sign is that they are hot and cold, so they reach out.
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  But when you respond, they just appear if they weren't
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  interested, they wouldn't be this push-pull situation.
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  And if you're confused, it's very likely that they are too,
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  which is a good sign. Another sign is that they keep
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  reaching out even though you're not responding a client of mine,
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  who had been broken up with several times by the same woman.
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  He finally did what I said, stay tuned.
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  No contact, ignore the breadcrumbs.
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  And she's been reaching out regularly, she finally sets me,
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  so my significant after months and months, but she still kept
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  reaching out. She didn't disappear as he
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  thought she doesn't disappear. I'm like, yeah, I don't think
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  she's going anywhere. So that's a sign that they're
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  still love their. Another sign is that they're
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  very angry with you. Yes, this means that they love
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  you. And I've actually done a video
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  on this and why you should be happy.
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  If your ex is angry, and I'll put the link in the right hand
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  corner on YouTube. People are always afraid.
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  It's like my ex is mad at me. I'm scared, you shouldn't be
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  scared, you should be happy. Why would they get mad if they
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  didn't care if they still get mad?
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  If they're still mad at? They're upset with you.
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  Yeah, there's love there. I know it's crazy.
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  Another one is that they call from numbers.
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  You don't know. Or you pick up the phone and
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  they hang up. So a lot of people are saying,
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  oh, I just I keep getting numbers or calls from numbers
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  that I don't recognize. Do you think it's my ex?
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  Yeah, either that or it's a Spam likely one of those to eat.
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  See that your extra spam likely, uh-huh.
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  Okay. Another sign is that they're
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  still single after a long time, so if a lot Of time has passed
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  since the breakup and your ex is still single.
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  It may be because they haven't moved on from you because they
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  can't because they still love you.
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  Ah, another one is that they can't take their eyes off you.
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  So if you happen to run into each other, or you have to deal
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  with each other at work, or at school, their eyes seem to be
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  glued to you and they probably don't even realize that they're
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  doing this, but it's because they're so happy to see you that
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  they just want to soak you in baby.
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  The next sign is that they help you out.
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  So, if they reach out to offer assistance or are always
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  available, if you need help, that's a good sign.
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  That they are still in love them since they are still there for
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  you. Otherwise they wouldn't respond
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  or they would just tell you to find someone else.
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  To help you fix that flat tire. And this also includes being
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  eager to console. You, if they find out, this may
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  happen, if you're sad or upset about something, The next sign
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  that your ex is still in love with you.
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  Is that they stay in touch with your friends, and/or family.
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  Now, if you guys were together for many, many years, it can
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  simply be because they have a deep connection with them and
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  they don't want to lose that relationship.
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  That's certainly understandable. So the best way to know is to
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  see if they're asking about you and asking for updates about you
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  because if they never asked about you could just be that
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  they want to maintain that friendship, but if they're also
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  asking about you and asking for updates, yeah.
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  Good chance, they're still in love and here's the one about
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  social media. So they still follow you online.
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  Doesn't mean in and of itself, if that's all they do is just
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  follow you online. It doesn't mean they're not with
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  you. However, if you see a bunch of
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  other signs with this one, then that's a good sign.
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  So if they're still following you watching your stories, maybe
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  even commenting or reacting. Then obviously there's some
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  interest there otherwise they would just ignore you or even
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  worse block. Right.
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  And then finally they're not in a hurry to give you your stuff
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  back or to pick up. There's I get this question a
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  lot. They're like my ex broke up with
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  me, but they won't pick up their stuff.
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  They will make give me back my stuff.
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  Well then obviously that doesn't make sense because if they want
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  nothing to do with you, if they broke up with you, then why
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  would they not want to do that, right?
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  They want to make sure they got their stuff out of your place
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  and you got your stuff out of their place.
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  But if they're not doing that, what's with the Uh delay.
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  Right? Exactly.
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  It's because there's still something there, there are still
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  feelings there so that's a good sign.
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  All right. So now I want to hear from you,
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  have you seen any of these signs?
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  Which ones have you seen? Let me know in the comments
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