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EP24: 80/20 in Relationships
What happens when a relationship slowly stops feeling emotionally safe?
Most relationships don't fall apart overnight. The shift is often gradual—a little less consistency, a little more tension, a little more uncertainty. Until one day, you realize you're spending more energy managing the relationship than enjoying it.
In this episode, Kimberly explores the idea of the "80/20 relationship" and why emotional safety depends more on predictability than perfection. She discusses how trauma, burnout, grief, resentment, attachment wounds, and survival mode can change…
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