Latest / The STA Clinician Podcast / Ep.292: 'It's Not the Person: Rethinking Difficult Conversations in MSK Practice' with guest Matt Phillips
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- 0:00You're listening to the STA Clinician Podcast, connecting clinicians across healthcare.
- 0:16Welcome to episode 292 of the STA Clinician Podcast, formerly known as the Sports
- 0:23Therapy Association Podcast.
- 0:24I'm your host, Matt Phillips, and as always, this episode is being recorded
- 0:28live on the Sports Therapy Association YouTube channel.
- 0:31I believe there's some issues with Facebook tonight, so apologies for that.
- 0:34We're sending out a message now for you to come over to YouTube if you want to join us live.
- 0:38I say I'm your host, actually, for this episode, as you may have seen in the
- 0:42advert entitled, It's Not the Person, Rethinking Difficult Conversations in MSK Practice.
- 0:47I'm sliding over to the guest seat shortly and handing over host duties to Gary
- 0:52Benson, who you can also see on the screen if you joined us live,
- 0:54founder of the STA. Gary, how are you?
- 0:57Yes, fine. Thank you, Matt. A little warm, but I've got surviving.
- 1:01We've decided if you can hear a little fan in the background,
- 1:03well done, tough. We'll edit that out of the podcast audio as well.
- 1:06But if you're joining us live, you're going to have to make do because I'm in
- 1:08Lansing, Rottie, and it's just, yeah, boiling here. And Gary,
- 1:11you and Lincoln, which is a well-known hotspot of the world. Yeah, it's important.
- 1:16So anyway, but before we do start with tonight's episode, thank you for having
- 1:18joined us live, and hopefully you're making do in the heat.
- 1:21Before we start tonight, as always, I would like to say thank you to the guests
- 1:25from last week, particularly, I would say that, particularly last week.
- 1:28Tim Allardyce was here, founder of Rehab My Patient. A lot of you will know Tim for doing that.
- 1:32And he recently summited Mount Everest, all 8,848 metres of it.
- 1:37To put that into perspective, I looked it up today, it's nearly as high as the
- 1:40cruising altitude of a jet plane. It's about 9,000 meters there.
- 1:44And last week, there was this moment where there's a photo of Tim on top of
- 1:47Mount Everest on the summit at the top. But the beginning of the photo,
- 1:49obviously, you need a photo there.
- 1:51And he was just describing how at that point, he realized he was the highest person in the world.
- 1:55There's no one higher than him with their feet on the ground, which is quite amazing.
- 1:59So yeah, as you can imagine, it was an amazing inspiration episode with Tim
- 2:04showing the highs and the challenges, massive challenges. It was amazing how
- 2:07he personally got and how he shared his emotions and everything.
- 2:11And the incredible grit it took to conquer the world's tallest peak.
- 2:14And the powerful story as well behind the charity funds that he raised along the way.
- 2:17So I would check that out. I would also check it on TikTok. I think there's
- 2:21a link in the notes, the show notes. There's some amazing videos he's putting out there.
- 2:25It's like watching National Geographic, but a mate of yours is actually doing
- 2:28it. It's just wonderful.
- 2:29I would, don't get hooked on TikTok, but definitely go over to see the videos he's showing.
- 2:33And you can listen to the podcast as always on all popular podcast apps.
- 2:36And the Sports Therapy Association YouTube channel.
- 2:39And just as a final reminder, if you have joined us tonight,
- 2:42and thank you very much, do feel free to leave questions in the comments and
- 2:47I can bring them up on the screen. For example, people have come through it
- 2:49already. Brian says, hi, hi, everybody.
- 2:52Sir Glenn Murphy is here as well saying, hi, Leslie Campbell.
- 2:55Hi, Leslie, how are you doing?
- 2:56Is here as well saying hello in that voice exactly. And Leslie is also reporting
- 3:01that Glasgow is not hot or even warm.
- 3:04Sorry. Well, actually, that's nice. This is the one time you can actually sit
- 3:07back and relax without having your feet in a bowl of water or something.
- 3:11So anyway, if you have joined us, then feel free to jump in and ask questions.
- 3:14It's lovely to have you along.
- 3:17Right then. So that said and done, as I mentioned earlier, we are going to swap
- 3:24roles, aren't we, tonight? That's the plan.
- 3:26So what I'm going to do is I'm going to, I'm going to vacate,
- 3:29I'm going to swap us over.
- 3:30There's a nice visual effect now for people who are watching live,
- 3:33you can get the seat there. I've changed my background. I'm all yours.
- 3:40Hi, Matt. Yes. Hi, everybody. Matt, I was trying to work out earlier how long
- 3:45we've known each other. And my best guess is around about 15 years or just over.
- 3:51And I know we both don't look old enough for that statement to be anywhere near true.
- 3:55So i measure it by summer i measure it by summer yeah daughter because the first
- 4:00time i met summer she was this tiny little world she's never tiny she's your
- 4:03daughter i remember she was like avoiding the cracks in the pavement she was
- 4:06like i remember it was like a six,
- 4:08six seven year old with a lovely smile and just skipping around ponytails and now,
- 4:12yes she's married she's in the raf she just recently graduated as top from her
- 4:18exercise rehabilitation instructor course at uh
- 4:21stanford hall the defense rehab center yes and she will be 26 at the end of
- 4:26this one so when you think where those 15 years gone there you go in there,
- 4:31yeah what a great testimony to 15 years absolutely brilliant what she's doing,
- 4:35so matt we we started this 60 plus year or 291 weeks ago really didn't we,
- 4:42as the let's talk about you know let's keep in touch during during covid it
- 4:46then developed into the STA podcast webinar and more recently,
- 4:52moved over to become the STA clinician podcast so after those 291 years given
- 4:59that you've been in the hot seat for the majority of those,
- 5:03what's it like being on the other side of the camera.
- 5:06It's kind of cool. It's a mixture of emotions without going on for too long.
- 5:10Because I mean, obviously being host, as you're probably feeling now,
- 5:13there is a responsibility with it. But especially when it's with somebody who
- 5:16you revere somebody and I love all my guests.
- 5:18And so often, if not always, there is a certain like, there's just a respect
- 5:23and a thanks that they've given up the time to come on to share their massive
- 5:25lifelong experiences and things. So there is a lot of concentration and responsibility
- 5:29with it. So it's kind of relaxing in that way.
- 5:31But then it's also not so relaxing, because it's kind of a vulnerability of
- 5:34Oh, my God, what's he going to ask and what we're going to answer so it's kind of,
- 5:38a double-edged sword but it's interesting you ask because this is this is all
- 5:42relevant to what we're talking about like about five months ago i was on a series
- 5:45of podcasts kind of life story podcasts probably just part of getting old people
- 5:49are saying oh come on a life story podcast and you realize there's a reason for that
- 5:52and it was wonderful hosted by fantastic educators i know you're aware of who've
- 5:55been on the show like michelle lyons and ben wybrow
- 5:58and mccauley andy thomas and and joe turner so it was a honor to be on their podcast,
- 6:03but i was answering their questions and listening to myself and realizing how,
- 6:08kind of unclear my whole identity and direction and focus was because most people
- 6:14know me as the one check live guy and the get analysis guy and and i did that
- 6:18heavily for like over a decade but for.
- 6:21For a good few years now i haven't been or for a few years i haven't been looking
- 6:25after runners directly a bit of consultation work online but i haven't been
- 6:29doing get analysis so i realized that i needed to update things and that was
- 6:33thanks to listening myself in a podcast so,
- 6:36so yeah that's where we are today everything's kind of changed with what now
- 6:38well not a massive change but definitely my focus means i can no longer be run chat live.
- 6:43Well i was going to say that everybody knows you from run chat live and from
- 6:47your online conferences and from your live edition down in brighton some years ago,
- 6:54more recently you know all of your branding has change to Matt Phillips' education.
- 7:00What, I know you just mentioned what prompted that change, but why the change and why now?
- 7:07It's interesting. It was kind of that. It was realizing that every time I send
- 7:10an email, every time I mentioned Run Check Live, I'm at from Run Check Live.
- 7:13Because the thing about social media and websites is it is your kind of your
- 7:16identity, unless you call yourself your name.
- 7:18It's kind of weird. If that's not you anymore and you're calling yourself that,
- 7:21or you're wearing the t-shirts and stuff, then it's just in your face the whole time.
- 7:26And even my gait analysis course, I realized, which I started probably,
- 7:30I think I was with Anna Maria and Mike Grice in maybe 2013 or something.
- 7:34And up in Lincoln, at Lincoln University with yourself as well that was a long long time ago,
- 7:39but I've noticed over the years how that changed from looking at the biomechanics
- 7:42looking at the kind of running injury patterns and all that sort of stuff more
- 7:45and more and more into the communication side of things and looking at,
- 7:49the conversations we're having and knowing that yes we can shift load by doing
- 7:54this and going incline or decline and changing shoes a little bit and all that but,
- 7:58more and more the course itself was morphing into but it's how we talk to our
- 8:02clients and it's whether the information is getting through and and it's whether
- 8:06they're capable of doing what i'm telling them so,
- 8:09that's been going on for quite a long time until eventually it got to the stage
- 8:12where i had to make sure in the in the gait analysis workshops which i still
- 8:16do in the course i have to make it quite clear that a lot of it is communication
- 8:20based a lot of it is looking at the biomechanics but,
- 8:24how to avoid the pitfalls of of eclipsing everything else and a lot of that
- 8:28everything else is the communication side of things so.
- 8:32So it's not a massive change in that sense it's not like i've totally given
- 8:36up it's just that i've got kind of got now more of a language to describe what i do,
- 8:41and matt phillips education definitely describes that really nicely it's more
- 8:44that should now be future-proof for forever hopefully and it was kind of necessary
- 8:49just to let people know yeah what i'm up to,
- 8:52okay so you picked the title yourself today It's not the person. What do you mean by that?
- 9:00So it's kind of, it's a lot of the work I do now, which I'm sure we'll kind
- 9:04of talk about is, is helping people realize that a lot of the time.
- 9:10So if you're a clinician, for example, I'm sure listeners and people who have
- 9:13joined us live kind of have had maybe today, or they know what it's like.
- 9:16And they say, oh, I've got such a difficult client. I've got such a,
- 9:19they're so difficult and you don't look forward to when they're coming and nothing's
- 9:23working and they're not doing the exercise you give them.
- 9:25And the same thing happens, I know, from experience as I work in further education
- 9:28that, you know, typically they're difficult students and talking to business
- 9:34owners as well. And I'm sure people can connect to this as well.
- 9:36Maybe you've got different difficult members of staff.
- 9:39And what I've realized over the years and definitely with my further education
- 9:42is a lot of the time, as soon as we call someone difficult, then we're kind
- 9:48of making the assumption that the problem is all with them.
- 9:52And a lot of the time that doesn't help the problem go away.
- 9:54Either they'll stop seeing you because nothing's being solved which is not a
- 9:57very good business model or in the process you'll get more and more irate and
- 10:01stressed and burnt out which is a problem a lot of clinicians face so that's not an ideal so,
- 10:06because of my history and education and looking into things and and my own personal
- 10:10experience i realize the benefit and a lot of the work i do is explaining the
- 10:15benefit of just pausing when you say oh they're so difficult,
- 10:18and realizing that maybe at the end of the day communication is is relational,
- 10:23there's always by definition at least two people involved so it's turning the
- 10:27camera around a little bit at yourself and at your clinic whether it's a classroom,
- 10:31or a clinic and thinking well hold on what else could be.
- 10:34Causing this mismatch if you like where this conversation is not working because
- 10:38there's something from both sides and when you do that when you stop kind of thinking,
- 10:43what's wrong with this person and instead kind of start thinking what's happening
- 10:47with this interaction then i think that can solve an awful lot of problems whether
- 10:51you're a clinician or a teacher or a manager or boss or something
- 10:55it just shifts the whole dynamic so that's kind of what i mean by yeah it's it's not the person,
- 11:00one of the anecdotes on a previous podcast from dr gary mendoza.
- 11:05About somebody attending one of his courses.
- 11:07And I think he was a personal trainer.
- 11:09And all the way throughout the course, he was saying, I've got this one difficult
- 11:13client, somebody I can't get through to.
- 11:15And Gary Mendoza was, it was the motivational interviewing course.
- 11:20And as this person developed on the course, he was frequently asked,
- 11:26how's it going with this difficult client?
- 11:27Oh yeah, they're still not listening to a word I say. They're still very defensive,
- 11:32until the end of the course.
- 11:34Passed the course and then got in touch with Gary Mendoza and said,
- 11:38you'll never believe it, but that client with whom I was having difficulty in
- 11:42motivating has suddenly turned the corner.
- 11:46And I remember you saying at the time, do you think it was the client who turned
- 11:51the corner? Was it the trainer who turned the corner?
- 11:54So, you know, I spoke to you previously about a difficult conversation I have,
- 11:58and I've done a lot of reflecting on,
- 12:00clients with whom I felt I wasn't successful and and not fully understanding
- 12:06them and and having some really clumsy attempts in the early days,
- 12:10of talking about pain science and and then meeting a friend,
- 12:14of this client several years later they said oh why didn't,
- 12:18you know natalie for the sake of her name why didn't she come back and she said
- 12:21well because you told her it was all in her head and when i reflected on that
- 12:25you know it was a difficult conversation i possibly hadn't understood,
- 12:29how to communicate with this person effectively.
- 12:33So if it wasn't the person when I was, you know, had this client in my room,
- 12:40what should I have been looking for?
- 12:42Yeah, that's, that's, it's great. And you've already done the first thing is
- 12:47just pause and think what else could it be? Cause that's something which we're not taught to do.
- 12:52So you've realized now and now, and once you realize that, I think a lot of
- 12:55it fits into place because you start just looking at the whole interaction.
- 12:58You think what else is going on here? Okay. If it's not in that person, what else?
- 13:02And that means that you start looking at the environment. You start looking
- 13:06at how that person might be feeling.
- 13:09You start asking yourself questions like are they potentially not feeling understood
- 13:14okay because this doesn't cross your mind because as clinicians we're taught
- 13:18to fix fix fix and just pour out the information great information we've got but often.
- 13:23A lot of the time we don't pause to think is this person really understanding
- 13:26it or are they worried about something else we don't even see their facial features
- 13:30or their their body language,
- 13:32and this is the thing a lot of the time and this is my work in,
- 13:36kind of working with neurodivergent individuals shows that sometimes you don't
- 13:39get the same body language which we're normally used to when somebody is stressed
- 13:44or somebody doesn't understand what you're saying or somebody's not able to
- 13:47concentrate because of something in the environment,
- 13:51so we interpret it always as resistance we think the problems with them,
- 13:54so once you stop and take a pause and start looking at everything else in that
- 14:00interaction that's going on from you from the environment, from the moment they
- 14:04signed up, from their journey getting to the clinic, from how they,
- 14:08felt when they were sitting at reception,
- 14:10then suddenly you've got loads more things to play around with.
- 14:15And like I say, because of my work in further education, like specializing in
- 14:18working with neurodivergent individuals, then I see it all the time.
- 14:21And it's probably that which has helped me kind of apply it so much to healthcare,
- 14:27I think there's a massive crossover of communication and getting through to people.
- 14:32And that's why, you know, like I say, we've got difficult patients and we've
- 14:35also got difficult students and difficult staff.
- 14:38It's actually, it's amazing once you get into it, you see people change because
- 14:42of what you're doing, which is, which is beautiful.
- 14:47You mentioned further education there. We've both got a history of working in further education.
- 14:53And I left in 2013. And I do remember one student who, at the time,
- 15:00I would have regarded as being difficult.
- 15:02And I hadn't recognized their learning style or the way that they learned.
- 15:08And I reached out and said, you know, what can I do differently to ensure you're
- 15:13getting the maximum opportunity here?
- 15:16And he said, you can take that ticking clock out of the room because that's
- 15:20all I can focus on, you know, so, so what things about the environment.
- 15:26Changed the way that you think about people or the, you know,
- 15:30the people in clinical practice or with whom you're teaching?
- 15:34I think you just nailed it. Absolutely nailed it. Cause you just asked the question.
- 15:38This is some people think that cause we're taught that to get better,
- 15:41we need to learn all these different skills and we need to know all these different
- 15:44special tests and things.
- 15:46But the biggest skill to have, and it doesn't come naturally at the time, is just ask them.
- 15:53What would they like? How are they feeling? What could help them concentrate
- 15:57a bit more? Is there anything you can do? And they'll give you the answer.
- 16:00Because even if you think you know everything, and this is the thing,
- 16:03if you try and set up the perfect clinic or the perfect classroom and you assume
- 16:08that you are like, you know, the
- 16:10king of inclusion and inclusivity and everything, humans are so complex.
- 16:15You can think you've done everything. But unless you ask that question,
- 16:18how's things? How do you feel in here?
- 16:20Are you feeling okay? Then they'll come up with something you never even dreamed
- 16:22of. like you said, the ticking clock.
- 16:24And in class, because you get used to, this is like everything,
- 16:27once you get used to asking the question, the same way as if,
- 16:29once upon a time as a younger clinician, we get embarrassed about asking certain
- 16:32taboo questions, whether it's to do with menstrual cycle or whether it's to
- 16:36do with pain during sex or anything like that, then once you've asked a few times, get used to it.
- 16:41And the same thing works when you start asking these questions and pausing before,
- 16:46just being a bit curious.
- 16:47So I mean, the thing that's spoilt me with,
- 16:51not sport me that's the wrong word sport in the sense of an amazing thing which
- 16:55gave me loads advantage was i do work with a lot of individuals in further education,
- 17:00who are there because mainstream education has let them down because of kind of,
- 17:06just societal norms which are placed without going into too deeply,
- 17:10but just like not everybody can concentrate in a classroom full of 30 people
- 17:16and with videos with no subtitles.
- 17:20Or they're not motivated by behaviorist approaches of reward or punishment.
- 17:24It just doesn't work. And there's loads of examples of this.
- 17:28And it could be something as simple as black font on white paper we assume that
- 17:33that's the norm everybody's gonna be good with that but we know and once it's
- 17:37amazing once you ask somebody particularly new divergent learners there's a very big
- 17:41connection between adhd for example and,
- 17:44and what was you know commonly called kind of color blindness but,
- 17:49the first thing we do with a with a pupil who either has been diagnosed with
- 17:52adhd or identifies as adhd
- 17:55or is suspected then it's just say have you ever tried color paper before and
- 17:59and it's not every single time but it's enough of the time for that sometimes
- 18:03particularly when they're adults just look at it and go,
- 18:05oh my god that is just what have you done there what's this all about no one's
- 18:09ever offered me that you know and it's just it's a beautiful thing and it spurs
- 18:13me on and it's been incredible,
- 18:15and also just helping people and you see it in their eyes just people who all
- 18:19of their lives have been described as like lazy or difficult or lacking confidence.
- 18:25And, you know, there's so many people.
- 18:28And it's not just because they're neurodivergent, it could be other reasons
- 18:31as well. But a lot of the case, a lot of the time it is because,
- 18:34depending on the estimates, 20% of our population don't fit into that neuro
- 18:38majority. And therefore, a lot of the conditions we put on in society don't work.
- 18:42And that goes for in the clinic as well. So it's all about.
- 18:47Changing that environment and just seeing how people who all of their lives
- 18:51have been told they're difficult suddenly reacting in a totally different way
- 18:56and personality changes i see are incredible sometimes and even though unfortunately
- 19:00at the end of the day they don't,
- 19:03like the idea of going to an exam because that's the way we test people at the
- 19:06end of the year and we're going to put all the pressure on you and if you get
- 19:08it right then you succeed if you get it wrong you're a failure i mean that in
- 19:11itself is one of the classic problems of the system but at least you get to
- 19:14the point where they get the confidence to open the book,
- 19:18to learn a little bit, to maybe be able to watch videos with subtitles or use the colored paper.
- 19:23And once they got that, it's very much like a kind of that pee in the snow kind
- 19:27of thing where it gets bigger and bigger because they get that confidence. They don't feel judged.
- 19:32Suddenly they're okay with working differently. It's not a taboo or an embarrassment
- 19:36anymore. It's all their life. And it's a.
- 19:42Actually I started doing when I had kids and I decided I was teaching privately
- 19:47massage and sports therapy and once I had kids and just you know you start getting
- 19:51a bit more altruistic and I started thinking these courses cost about seven
- 19:55eight grand or something and I'd love to give a little bit back to people who haven't got it
- 19:59not judging the people who have got the money that's great but I just wanted
- 20:01to give something a little bit back so,
- 20:03fortunately one of my clients running runner was involved in the college I work
- 20:07at and that's how I got in there originally teaching biology and then moving into English.
- 20:12And yeah, just opened my eyes because there's so many parallels between education and healthcare.
- 20:17And it should be because the more we evolve as healthcare clinicians,
- 20:20the more we realize that a lot of what we do is how we use our ears and our
- 20:24mouth and how we kind of give people confidence and listen to them as opposed
- 20:27to just fixing with our hands.
- 20:31If anybody listened to the news today, there was a statistic that came out and
- 20:35it said that Presently, there are 100,270 people who are claiming the personal independence payment,
- 20:46and their primary disability, as it was described, was ADHD.
- 20:51That represented between 5% and 6% of the total age group with disabilities.
- 20:58And what we're talking about in further education now is making reasonable adjustments
- 21:02to to ensure that each individual gets a positive learning experience that's
- 21:07quite easy i imagine to facilitate in a clinical environment when you're one-to-one,
- 21:12how do you manage that if you're,
- 21:16we don't talk about class sizes of 30 in that sort of demographic aspect but
- 21:20if you've got six or eight people all with enhanced needs or different needs,
- 21:25how easy is that for you as a as an educator,
- 21:29to make a difference to each person individually.
- 21:34I think a lot of it, and it sounds simple, but it's not how we're brought up. It's not how society...
- 21:42Kind of teaches us to act, especially when we're in a position of power or authority
- 21:47or kind of the clinician of the white coat.
- 21:49It's just asking people, there's a few things. First of all,
- 21:53you've got to have a curiosity and it's got to look genuine.
- 21:57Okay. So a lot of the time you go in these courses and they teach you to ask
- 22:00open-ended questions and kind of make sure you've got body conduct and change your position.
- 22:04And so you're mirroring them. And there's all these kind of little shortcut
- 22:07tricks, which are supposed to work. But I think we know as human beings that
- 22:12We know when somebody is actually listening and not judging and actually want to be there.
- 22:18Okay, it's not really something you might, as a clinician or teacher,
- 22:22you might be faking it a little bit for the first two minutes.
- 22:24But if you really believe in it, and if you're a professional whose identity
- 22:29is that, that's who you want to be, then you soon just go into it.
- 22:33And suddenly you really are genuinely interested in that person.
- 22:36And you're genuinely actively listening. and it's not that you're trying to
- 22:40remember and then repeating what they said back to them in a different way i
- 22:44mean that is a technique well not a technique that's an approach which we learn
- 22:46in motivational interviewing but it's
- 22:48it eventually needs to come naturally because if that other person maybe for
- 22:52the first time in their life is with you in a clinic
- 22:55or or a classroom and they really feel that you aren't judging them.
- 22:59That you are generally want to listen to them and they can see and hear that
- 23:04you're listening them it's such a powerful thing and i think this is this is
- 23:08a classic example, it's going to be extra powerful for somebody,
- 23:12not just neurodivergent, but it could be somebody who's disabled physically.
- 23:15It could be a woman. It could be an old person. It could be anybody who no longer is in the majority.
- 23:23And this is why what I'm talking about and what I love about the courses is,
- 23:27although a lot of the focus because of personal situations and experience is
- 23:31on neurodiversity and neurodivergent individuals, it's.
- 23:35I think this applies to everybody. And this is the idea of a modern teaching
- 23:40thing. I'm reading a great book by Dr. Gemma Williams at the moment,
- 23:44and it's talking about universal design, which I wasn't actually aware of.
- 23:48It was started with a great architect who suddenly thought from the United States
- 23:53and North Carolina, I wanted a universal design. I think I've got the word right. I only read it today.
- 23:59Yeah, universal design on buildings. And that's where, along with a social model
- 24:02disability, we started thinking we need to make doors wider.
- 24:05We need to have ramps, we need to have dropped curbs, you know,
- 24:07all these sort of things which came out of physical stability.
- 24:10And eventually that happened. And now people have got access and suddenly you're
- 24:14not as disabled by society as before.
- 24:16But this is where, this is what excites me about the kind of the eyes now on
- 24:22neurodiversity and neurodivergence, because these things will become a norm
- 24:28like the dropped curb and the wider door.
- 24:30Eventually all teachers and all clinicians will realize that,
- 24:34you have to take into account that somebody might need more support in getting
- 24:38to your clinic or they might need a quieter room once they get there they might
- 24:41need more predictability they might need the information given to them in a
- 24:45slightly different way than you're used to
- 24:47okay they might need reassurance by you checking more than you might feel is
- 24:51normal or natural whether they understand and and and show care and show non-judgment
- 24:56so the idea is eventually.
- 24:59And I'm applying this very much in further education, is it's a universal design
- 25:05for learning as well, where it's not that you're trying to spot people who need help.
- 25:09It's just your approach for everything, the way you set up everything,
- 25:12it could be a clinic or a classroom, it's all, it's there for everybody.
- 25:18And that takes quite a big twist on what we normally do, just because of history
- 25:23and society and kind of the world we live in.
- 25:26So, yeah, sorry, I've blurbed on there for ages, but I think there was an answer
- 25:29to your question there somewhere.
- 25:30Yeah, and it's interesting, really, when we make these reasonable adjustments,
- 25:35you know, the quiet space, you know, enhanced signage and directions to the clinic.
- 25:40Is it as simple, because we don't know the person when they book in initially,
- 25:45you know, is it as simple as having a tick box on your online consultation?
- 25:51Do you identify as being neurodiverse? us.
- 25:55Can we do that and then do we then does that give us the the information we
- 26:00need to start making more reasonable adjustments to that client that's a really
- 26:04good question and i think,
- 26:07i like the idea that people want to include that as a tick box because that's
- 26:11great the same way as as other things need to pay on tick boxes just to remind
- 26:16us to ask a woman for example if we're treating a female athlete that we don't,
- 26:22make the wrong assumptions or gloss over things because we just think they're
- 26:26a little man and a little bit weaker and smaller so we're already aware of that
- 26:29the titboxes can really help,
- 26:31but ultimately i think that may be for some people the way to do it initially but i think the end goal
- 26:39needs to be to reflect and think, right, I'm not going to wait for someone to
- 26:44tell me that they are neurodivergent or I'm not going to wait for somebody to
- 26:49show me these characteristics that I suspect they might be.
- 26:51Because there's a lot of people who are diagnosed. They may well tell you that
- 26:54if you ask them. There's a lot of people who aren't diagnosed for multiple reasons.
- 26:58They might not have access to it. There's huge waiting lists.
- 27:01A lot of people haven't got the type of life or support in order to get that diagnosis done.
- 27:06And it can take years, even in this country where you've got the right to choose.
- 27:10So I think the bigger picture and what I try and be part of as an advocate is
- 27:16to just make tweaks in your clinic, which will automatically.
- 27:21Allow or increase access to everybody and it doesn't have to they're only small
- 27:25little tweaks to be amazed that we talk about this on the course and things
- 27:28just to set it up and what you say is totally right it's not just when they come in the clinic room
- 27:33because for a lot of people it's it's the information they got from your website
- 27:37were they able to get it from your website it's the conversation they had with
- 27:40the receptionist or maybe the automated ai thing which kind of makes me shiver
- 27:44a little bit because a lot of people
- 27:45you don't have to be neurodivergent i think a lot of people just don't feel
- 27:48that human connection and don't like it,
- 27:50okay and they might arrive already a bit irritated and a bit like i i haven't
- 27:54been listened to by a robot why am i gonna be listened to by you for example
- 27:57so there's an awful lot we can
- 27:59put in place before they come through that clinic door to make them feel
- 28:04less kind of hostile or more less kind of resistant or less trusted,
- 28:09so yeah i think i think it's not a case just waiting for them and doing a tick
- 28:13box it's looking at what you could do just to make it accessible for everybody,
- 28:19assuming we've adjusted our environment okay is it a potential barrier,
- 28:25a lot of people like myself were very reliant on a paper diary and a message
- 28:29facility to book an appointment but now we've got a plethora of of online booking
- 28:35platforms that that take away that personal element and.
- 28:40Is that a barrier to somebody from the neurodiverse community to actually booking
- 28:46and was in the first place? Do we have to make changes to our booking systems
- 28:50to accommodate their enhanced needs?
- 28:52Give me the exact, sorry, I was, I'm a great host, but I'm not a great guest
- 28:56because my mind just wandered off somewhere else completely.
- 28:59But what was the example you said using paper or something or?
- 29:02Yeah. So when, when I was in clinical practice, if anybody wanted to book in
- 29:06with me, they had to phone me up, leave a message or send a text.
- 29:09And i would put i would reply and i'd put them in my paper diary now we've moved
- 29:14away from that and a lot of people manage their clinic diaries with an online platform,
- 29:21how do we make sure that the online platform it doesn't become a barrier to
- 29:26people booking in the first place,
- 29:28because we're not usually in control of you know that i'll mention some rehab
- 29:32guru or jnap or clinico we're not in control of their processes so how do we
- 29:39ensure that we're not missing out on on those clients booking with us.
- 29:44Yeah, that's a really good question. I mean, with the online apps and processes
- 29:50of getting people to sign up, I'm thinking,
- 29:53when you look into it, there's a lot of ways that websites can be improved with
- 29:58regards to the amount of information on the screen and with regards to the color
- 30:02being used, with regards to maybe,
- 30:06font covering images that can often be a problem.
- 30:09And again it's not just for neurodivergent individuals because one day we're
- 30:13not we're going to stop saying neurodivergent individuals we're just going to
- 30:15realize that everyone's kind of got lots of different traits and and that's
- 30:18the way we're going to cater for everybody but but there are typical traits which make,
- 30:24life normal for like i say probably 20 percent of the population because it's
- 30:28fine for the majority but for other people it's looking at a screen and just
- 30:32losing it and and you might manage to muddle your way around
- 30:36but you might not you might not press that button, you might make a mistake.
- 30:40So there is kind of some 101 ways to make your website accommodating for people
- 30:46who don't fit into the kind of majority.
- 30:49But I think also it's just remembering that for some people,
- 30:55in order to have that predictability and that support, it's just having the
- 30:59options maybe of getting support from a human being, having that phone number.
- 31:04And I know that makes people think, that's not the idea. I just want them to
- 31:06click and join and not have to bother me. Otherwise, I can't be on the phone to everyone.
- 31:12But sometimes it's just putting it there and it's knowing that some people might
- 31:17use it. And when they do call, it's about not thinking, oh, I've got a difficult person.
- 31:23It's about thinking, right, this person's obviously not in a good environment
- 31:28when they're dealing with the websites and now I'm going to act inclusively
- 31:32and I'm going to give them that conversation, that time without judging them. So...
- 31:38Yeah, I've become more aware of this because we obviously have an annual CPD
- 31:42posse and I get regular messages and phone calls saying I'm really finding it
- 31:48difficult to fill in your form.
- 31:50So we've developed a simple form, a one page form.
- 31:54But now we've said, look, if you want to write it out in a notebook,
- 31:57get somebody to take a screenshot of it and send it in to me.
- 32:00I will do what's necessary to put it into your Dropbox folder and that will
- 32:04satisfy your CPD obligation. So I think there's a difference sometimes between
- 32:11a business model and a support model.
- 32:14And I like to think that the STA has a support model where we do recognize people have differing needs.
- 32:20So going back to the focus then,
- 32:24this idea of looking at the environment rather than trying to change the person
- 32:28is something that you're speaking about at the therapy show this year how did that come about,
- 32:35i'll get to that i just want that you you your comment just made me remind me
- 32:39of something we had some people on the show some people this terrible guest.
- 32:44Sarah Mihag and Rosie Sexton, who have just started NeuroFlect UK,
- 32:48they've produced, and we talked to them a while back, they've produced a reflective
- 32:53CPD journal, which I would definitely recommend people check out.
- 32:58Sarah's doing some talks, free talks about it.
- 33:01But that has got exactly what we're talking about. It's designed for somebody
- 33:05who is interested in being more inclusive.
- 33:07Again, it's not just going to help looking after neurodiversion clients,
- 33:10It's going to help looking after anybody who doesn't necessarily fit into that
- 33:13neo-majority kind of thing, which includes, yeah, so many people in society.
- 33:18And it's got tips of, and again, non-threatening kind of advice where it's fine that you don't do this.
- 33:26It doesn't come natural. So yeah, I'd recommend that. It probably puts into
- 33:29words, literally, a lot more information than I could concisely give now.
- 33:34So yeah, people should watch that episode. We'll make sure it goes in the show
- 33:36notes. It's got some great tips. So sorry, I just thought I'd mention that.
- 33:39Yeah, that's fine. We had Rosie. Rosie gave a talk at Mike Grice's conference
- 33:45in Ludlow late last month. So, yeah, I've known Rosie for equally a single amount of time for you.
- 33:51Actually it was me i think who asked you back years ago i said oh i didn't realize
- 33:55rosie sexton studied here do you think she'll be out for chat i think it was
- 33:59you or somebody who just said believe me you will never have a problem with rosie having a chat,
- 34:04and you were right and i met up with her like i think you know the week after
- 34:07and had about a four hour sit down with rosie yeah.
- 34:11And now i know why now i understand why we both so freely talk to each other
- 34:14for four hours but that was a really classic example of two people who are autistic
- 34:17i'm autistic rosie's autistic.
- 34:19And, and it was a great example of this kind of, this, this communication thing
- 34:25is, is, for example, you get somebody who is regarded as neurotypical.
- 34:30Okay. And so they're used to just operating in society and everything's kind of made for them.
- 34:34And then you try and have a conversation. They have a try and have a conversation
- 34:37with somebody, for example, who's autistic.
- 34:39And there's so many differences and expectations and ways of understanding and
- 34:43talking and feeling that,
- 34:45It just, it goes wrong. And that's, there's something called the double empathy,
- 34:49problem by Damian Milton.
- 34:50And that's where it kind of draws attention to the fact that when you do get,
- 34:54for example, an autistic person and a neuro majority person having a chat,
- 34:58it's, there's problems on both sides. It's a mismatch between two different neurotypes.
- 35:02But whereas traditionally autistic people were seen as being really unchattly
- 35:06and kind of they were said they had no empathy at all and they weren't interested in human beings.
- 35:10And that was how it all started off kind of thing before some wonderful people,
- 35:14before the internet saved it by allowing autistic people to say, hold on, I love a chat.
- 35:18But me and Rosie, I always look back fondly because it was two people who at
- 35:21the time actually didn't, we had no diagnosis, we were both late diagnosis patients.
- 35:26We talked for four hours and had no idea of thirst or hunger or anything.
- 35:30It was like when the lights started going down, we thought, I've got to get my train.
- 35:34But that was a classic example of somebody who, I mean, I know for myself and
- 35:38I imagine, I think Rosie as well would agree that put with the wrong person, maybe.
- 35:43Maybe with a neurotypical person on your majority who is not on the same wavelength
- 35:48and you do naturally just feel this mismatch and you can't talk.
- 35:51And it just, you've come across as clumsy and you just shut down and you look
- 35:55like you're not interested and your eyes start looking elsewhere and that sort
- 35:58of stuff and you kind of fulfill the stereotype of an autistic person so,
- 36:02yeah i'm glad you brought up rosie because it's exactly what i'm talking about
- 36:05here we need to realize that the person in front of us whether they're neurodivergent or not,
- 36:10may have a different way of processing things of of needing things explained
- 36:15that's what's all about anyway i'm blabbing on in true fashion yes therapy show sorry,
- 36:20will you be weaving that kind of information into your talk at the therapy show in november this year
- 36:26definitely yeah i'm very excited about that we've been working really i mean
- 36:29the sda has been working with therapy show since it started and has been there
- 36:33since the first year i think you were there weren't you in 2013 in manchester
- 36:36i joined in 2014 and we've been there ever since so
- 36:39this year we're working very closely with them,
- 36:42myself and rosie and sarah and james duahaggart who are all from the face neurodivergent
- 36:47msk clinician facebook group we're working closely with them to try it's a hard
- 36:51task we're trying to make it at least a little bit more neuroaffirmative,
- 36:55in the setup, which is,
- 36:57I mean, very challenging considering
- 36:58we've got 3,000-plus people flocking through the doors of the NEC.
- 37:03What can we do to be a little bit more inclusive? But there's things we can
- 37:07do. There's things which will make people...
- 37:11Again, I don't want to say this 20% as if it's gospel.
- 37:15It varies a lot and it might even be more. But if you imagine out of 3,000 people,
- 37:1920% of that needs someone who can do maths, but that's kind of,
- 37:23you can work that out while I'm talking. But that's a big chunk of people who
- 37:25potentially could be going through those doors.
- 37:27And I think a lot of neurodivergent people are actually attracted to healthcare
- 37:30because maybe they just find it fulfilling in terms of healthcare and looking
- 37:35after people and kind of maybe it's the silence being able to,
- 37:39I don't or whatever it is.
- 37:39But I find a lot of my colleagues are also kind of neurodivergent and they're
- 37:44in the same industry. So maybe it's that. But yeah, we're doing a lot at Therapy
- 37:48Show this year to try and do that. And part of that is a couple of talks.
- 37:53And as you mentioned here, one that I am giving, I think actually just for the
- 37:57people who do like images on the screen, I know the YouTube viewers do like it.
- 38:03There we go there is changing the room not the person so very much fits in what
- 38:09we're talking about tonight neurodiversity and msk clinical practice i'm giving
- 38:13a presentation on that which i'm very excited about that's going to talk about,
- 38:18a lot of what we've been doing now and again although it's kind of focusing on neurodiversity,
- 38:24and neurodivergent individuals it still changes which will help everybody which
- 38:30will help a lot of people it just make turn into a person who just considers
- 38:33everyone instead of just,
- 38:35being rigid on the societal norms which we kind of grew up with,
- 38:38but as well as me delivering that but which was at let's have a look i can't
- 38:43actually see what time that was i think that's on day two isn't it 10 yeah day
- 38:48two 10 30 yeah as well as that also they've given us space to do a,
- 38:54panel which again was with rosie and sarah mehog and james duah we're going
- 39:00to do a panel discussion called Beyond Awareness, Neuroaffirmative Practice, MSK Care.
- 39:05Again, that'll cover a lot of what we're talking about today.
- 39:07And I do encourage people if they are listening, I get it that people are probably,
- 39:13tired of hearing about neurodiversity. And I get it the same way as people were
- 39:17tired about hearing about gays and pride.
- 39:20And at one point, people were tired about left-handed people and thought they
- 39:23were all freaks and forced them to become right-handed in schools.
- 39:26It's a natural reaction.
- 39:29And just as now things have changed after the explosion, now left-handed people
- 39:33get left-handed strong guitars and they get left-handed scissors and they're
- 39:37not judged and they're allowed to write like they want to at school.
- 39:39So we do get over the natural diversity we see. Biodiversity is there for a reason.
- 39:46In fact, it may even be the secret success of our species, having people with
- 39:50different kinds of strengths and skills if you do need to do something left-handed
- 39:54because your right hand has just been left.
- 39:55You know, it's like, obviously you can imagine a situation that would help.
- 39:59And the same thing goes for disability.
- 40:01And we're reaching that point now where we're realizing that as well as biodiversity,
- 40:05and we've also got neurodiversity.
- 40:08So I'm really happy to be working in it. And I'm really pleased that therapy
- 40:11show giving us a platform to talk about it. And I really hope that maybe people
- 40:15who know me and people who know Rosie and realize that we're not kind of like
- 40:19too freaky and just come along and listen. And.
- 40:24If you're in an industry where you want to help people for not that much money,
- 40:28which essentially is pretty much everyone I think I'm talking to now,
- 40:32then you have got an altruism and you deserve to be using a model which is going
- 40:37to allow you to help people get success and not get burnt out.
- 40:40So I really think that if you kind of show interest and turn up to a couple
- 40:45of these, then it'll help you as a clinician and it'll help you in all walks
- 40:48of life in relationships and everything, because it's just about celebrating differences,
- 40:53and not turning them into defects.
- 40:56Yeah, I think it was very interesting a few years ago when we didn't have the
- 41:00curtains around the theatre at the therapy expo as it was then and there was
- 41:04the introduction of the headphones and i'm surprised how much,
- 41:08positive feedback was received from people who said it just shut out all of the noise from,
- 41:15that could have potentially interfered with with the enjoyment of the session
- 41:19just by having the enclosed ear space rather than being in a in a sort of a
- 41:24group format but those those 600 people who you reference,
- 41:28from the neurodiverse community who are going,
- 41:31to the therapy show, let's hope that they're well catered for them.
- 41:35Thank you for doing the maths. Thanks for the maths. That's not my story.
- 41:39I worked out straight away. I didn't want to jump in. So let's hypothesize then.
- 41:44We've got a client in our clinic or a student in our classroom and the conversation isn't going well.
- 41:53We've worked that out. And the tendency might to be just to give more and more
- 41:58information. And Mike James was an advocate of don't give 10 exercises when
- 42:02you can give two really good ones.
- 42:04You know, so how do we change what we're doing?
- 42:08Rather than just give information and is it as simple as as gary mendoza said
- 42:12sometimes they just need a damn good listening to,
- 42:16i met out with gary recently in cardiff he's doing very well and it was it's
- 42:19lovely to meet him in a motivational interviewing a couple of days we had in
- 42:23cardiff i mean he was great he introduced me to mi so it's i mean there's a
- 42:26lot in that saying some people need a good listening to,
- 42:29it's really it's it's really interesting i.
- 42:34I want to start off by saying that it's not just another modality,
- 42:39which has got a recipe and a list of things to do and that leads to success.
- 42:43I think that's really important.
- 42:44And it's like MI, for example, I had the honor of meeting Stephen Wolnick,
- 42:48who's one of the co-founders of MI, and it just brought it all back to me about
- 42:52how MI is not a technique.
- 42:53And it's so important to remember that it's just an approach.
- 42:57It's a way of being. It's a mindset, which I think can be so healthy for the
- 43:02clinician and the and the patient or client but it's like.
- 43:08Yeah it's it's like i said before it's it's it's not necessarily difficult,
- 43:14in the sense of what you've got to do but it is a definitely a shift in a way
- 43:18of thinking and a lot of the forces in healthcare particularly like i said like we said before we are,
- 43:23we are taught and kind of molded into being these operators like Diane Jacobs
- 43:29and Jason Silvernell said in their paper, we're fixers.
- 43:32And it's all very well saying we need to be facilitators, but that goes against the grain so much.
- 43:37And like you said, if we are in a difficult conversation and it's not going
- 43:41well, our default is kind of thinking we need to give them more information.
- 43:45And guess what? We got so much information because all the CPD we do a lot of
- 43:49the time, depending what you choose, it's just giving you more information.
- 43:52So we are walking encyclopedias and we're dying to get that out because our
- 43:56identity is an information giver.
- 43:58And that's not really that's not what we're supposed to be doing it's great
- 44:01to have that information but we need to be much better
- 44:04at not just listening but also just being aware like i say of the environment
- 44:09and the whole interaction and taking everything into account and you know a
- 44:13lot of the guests we've had like matt lowe we had on and dave newell from health
- 44:17sciences university we're,
- 44:19they're all kind of touching on this now about the importance of context and the.
- 44:27Even Greg Lehman was talking about this years ago, the ecosystem,
- 44:31he called it back then, of our clients. We need to be aware of that before we
- 44:35start giving them like two sets or 10 sets.
- 44:39And it goes against the grain because I can guarantee, and I can't guarantee,
- 44:42but a lot of the courses we do are still telling us, hand out this, do this.
- 44:45If this hurts, do this, blah, blah, blah, blah. We've got to stop doing that.
- 44:49We've got to start off by making sure the client feels listened to and non-judged.
- 44:56And we can't gloss over that. A lot of clients because of previous experiences
- 44:59or because of their lives, they won't trust us. And if they don't trust us,
- 45:03then they're not going to feel listened to and they're not going to feel understood.
- 45:06And we may as well be talking to a wall half the time because we can tell them
- 45:09to do something, but they're just going to take it as another warder from somebody who doesn't care.
- 45:13And this isn't just the difficult patient. I think most human beings are like
- 45:17this, especially when they come to see us.
- 45:19They're not happy. They're in pain a lot of the time, you know,
- 45:22and they're giving money to us and they probably don't want to give money to
- 45:25us some of them don't mind it but a lot of them are already arriving to us with this sense of
- 45:29i can't believe i'm injured again the last time i saw a physio or a sports therapist
- 45:34or a chiropractor i thought it'd been solved i felt great for three weeks and
- 45:37now i'm back here again so we've got to be aware that the human being in front
- 45:41of us is not in a good place
- 45:42so giving out information straight away is just not going to help,
- 45:46so we've got to look at this this interaction we've got to look at this relational
- 45:50thing going on and make slight tweaks to that.
- 45:53I think there's been, for far too long, there's been an emphasis on providing
- 45:56a solution for people. We can give them guidance and support.
- 46:01In some ways, they have to find their own solution.
- 46:05We can support that, but we are not magic hands. We're not fixers.
- 46:12So I had the privilege, Matt, last year of listening to your somewhat shortened
- 46:16talk at Anna Maria's conference in Exmouth, where the previous speaker,
- 46:22stole quite a bit of your information, if I remember, and you were talking about
- 46:26communication and behavior change.
- 46:29Did you create that course, you know, to be of assistance to clinicians,
- 46:37practitioners to develop these skills?
- 46:40Yeah, definitely. Like I say, it was born out of the gait analysis for a modern
- 46:46approach course, which I'm still kind of running, but it will eventually roll
- 46:49up because so much of my focus now is on the communication side of things.
- 46:55It's in everything I do. So yeah, it's, it's, again, I have to warn people in
- 47:01the description that it's probably not what they're expecting.
- 47:04It's not going to be, it's not another course where you're given a list the
- 47:07techniques to practice role play it boom there just use this you'll be fine
- 47:12because if that was what it was about you could just download the video and
- 47:14read the pdf and you'd be done,
- 47:16i mean there's a reason why day one starts off going back to 3 000 years bc
- 47:21with with socrates and aristotle and it sounds like what the hell is all that
- 47:25about but a lot of what we're talking about i think to really appreciate it
- 47:29and understand and get it,
- 47:32to allow that shift in thinking to happen.
- 47:35I take people on a bit of a journey for the first of the three sessions.
- 47:39And I do take them back to Socrates. And we look at Socratic humility because
- 47:43it's so interesting that back then, okay, there's a lot of things which
- 47:46weren't so cool in ancient Greece, but in the ways of thinking and the ways
- 47:51of looking at disability or different ways of thinking, there are far more on
- 47:55the ball than we've been since the industrial revolution, since kind of everything
- 47:59became about performance, performance, how much can you make?
- 48:01How much can you make me? We've kind Kind of, humans changed a lot when machinery started.
- 48:06And if we look back, then we see that our way of being and our norms were very different.
- 48:11So the course takes us through that and it tries to look at how humans used
- 48:16to be before kind of the Industrial Revolution, which is a long span.
- 48:19And we go through kind of the progression through evolution.
- 48:23Obviously it's only three sessions for like four hours or something so we have
- 48:27to we can't stop too many times starting with socrates but we'll go through
- 48:30people like descartes and obviously we get to freud and we look at
- 48:33behaviorism we look at skinner and then we move on to carl rogers and then eventually
- 48:38get to motivational interviewing and we stop for a while and talk about other kind of ways
- 48:42of communication and behavior change but it's only once we've been through that
- 48:47journey that i think what i try and do is get people to think oh wow
- 48:51people be doing this for a while. I get it now. I get it. I get it. I get it.
- 48:54And then on the second session, we start looking at some techniques because
- 48:58I think it's really important if you are going to be able to make these shifts,
- 49:02if you are going to be able to sit down with somebody and truly,
- 49:06make them feel unjudged and truly make them feel understood and show a genuine curiosity,
- 49:13there's a few little things we need to shift.
- 49:15We need to take off our clinician coat and step down from our box of authority
- 49:20and ability and actually get down to their level and as they say in mi we got
- 49:24to learn to kind of walk with them
- 49:26rather than push them into a certain place and that's what the course is all about and so far,
- 49:30we've got another one booked for february 2027 i'm not doing them too often
- 49:35because it's something which is so evolving with with my own research and my
- 49:39own kind of studies so but we've got another one coming up and i'd love it to be in person but again.
- 49:45Because it's a sign of the times it's much more inclusive these days sadly for
- 49:49people to be able to do it online and also from a point of just,
- 49:54being able to charge for it it means that if i haven't got to go anywhere that
- 49:57makes it far more accessible to people so hopefully one day when we all realize
- 50:00that we've lost so much by just doing online stuff then we'll meet up in person
- 50:05again and people realize that,
- 50:07my course needs to cover the instructor's fees for the train and the accommodation
- 50:11if he's going to go all the way across to the other end of the country But yeah, it's cool.
- 50:15Everyone who's been on it so far has kind of gone through the journey that I wanted.
- 50:19And it's on my website if people are interested, on mattphillips.education.
- 50:24For those who listen to the news this morning professor brian cox was on there
- 50:28and he's doing a tour at the moment three hours of information about physics
- 50:34and space travel and the black hole.
- 50:36And the universe and and he's he opens his his,
- 50:40uh talk with you know if you want the answers you know please go back to a reception
- 50:44and get your money back now because i'm not going to give you,
- 50:47and i feel that that's like every session that we have in clinic should be as
- 50:51well we're not going to give you the answers we're going to support you through
- 50:54this journey we're going to give you little pieces of information we're going
- 50:58to negotiate we're going to encourage we're going to motivate we're going to control,
- 51:02you know those people with unreasonable expectations about what we can do but
- 51:06we're going to be here we're signing up with you for your journey to support
- 51:10to facilitate some outcomes for you so you can be the best version of yourself,
- 51:16do you think we we we talk about cpd choice often do you think now because we
- 51:22were saying that if we move away from simply adding passive modalities to our toolkit,
- 51:28do you think if we just concentrated you know for this year for example on improving
- 51:33and understanding communication better,
- 51:36we would all be better therapists.
- 51:39Oh, I've got to say yes, haven't I? Otherwise, he's going to come along to my course.
- 51:43I think there's an awful, we've got to be so careful, it's a double-edged sword.
- 51:47People are talking much more about communication, behavior change and motivation interviewing.
- 51:53And I've seen this with guests of mine. but as always there's this thing that
- 51:57happens isn't there in our industry where suddenly the t-shirts start getting
- 52:00printed and kind of like suddenly,
- 52:04the do it in a day online or just sign up for this video thing and it just gets
- 52:10diluted and turned into a technique again so,
- 52:14there is some really interesting discussions going on and there's some great
- 52:17educators out there we've had them on the podcast.
- 52:20I think the work that Andy Hosgood and Andrew McCauley are doing with the Unbound
- 52:24Project is really cool about creating safe spaces.
- 52:28And I'm doing some work with them for that very reason.
- 52:32But yeah, we have to be careful because we love turning it into quick fixes
- 52:36and thinking it will solve anything.
- 52:38As you just said, I mean, which was a great quote from Brian Cox,
- 52:41like, if you think you're going to get answers now, then just get your money
- 52:43back from reception. Because I'm going to say, I'm going to say,
- 52:46Don't go on a CPD course. You should treat CPD courses the same way as you should
- 52:52be with your clients or patients in the sense that the answer to them getting better is inside them.
- 53:01And I think that's so important. If you can get that in your mind and do that
- 53:06little shift, then that can help a lot.
- 53:10And you should treat CPD the same way. If you go to CPD thinking they're going
- 53:13to give me some amazing information now and tell me how to fix my patients.
- 53:16Then you're going to be a little bit disappointed, I think, and that a lot of
- 53:20people are when they come back and they spend money and they think,
- 53:23this is great, this is great.
- 53:24And then they think everybody who's come to my clinic has got what we talked
- 53:26about. And then they start realizing, hold on, that can't be true.
- 53:29So you should look at a CPD opportunity as where it's going to encourage you to reflect.
- 53:35It's going to provide an environment where you feel the same as your patient should non-judged,
- 53:41valuable not inferior to the person who's taking it where you've got stuff which
- 53:47is going to guide what the actual course is about and how it's going to kind
- 53:52of change across the day or two or something,
- 53:55the reason i ask that matt is because you know i have 70 plus calls a week with members and,
- 54:02and possibly half of those calls in the last last week or so have been about,
- 54:07people saying they're feeling burnt out you know,
- 54:10they are at their limit you know how can we become a sustainable therapist you
- 54:17know so we're not getting burnt out and and i agree that cpd should be be,
- 54:22directed by two things either you've got to be passionate about a subject,
- 54:26or it's got to be really specific to your main client demographic there's no
- 54:30point in doing CPD otherwise.
- 54:32And I have lots of conversation with STA members. I say, okay,
- 54:36if you feel that way at the moment, I'm going to waive your CPD obligation for
- 54:40this year. But what I want you to.
- 54:45About what and reflect on why you're feeling like this at the moment so what
- 54:49we're trying to do i suppose,
- 54:51we we're encouraging a modern a modern thinking critically reflecting therapist,
- 54:58um and and this type of training to me is where we should be focusing,
- 55:04Yeah, definitely. I mean, it's, it's, you do such a valuable job and I'm not
- 55:09just saying that to big you up or anything, although I've got obviously so much
- 55:12respect for you and what you do, but you get to hear the truth.
- 55:16A lot of clinicians think that all their other clinicians are sitting in this
- 55:19ivory tower, lapping up everything, making loads of money, totally happy without
- 55:24any doubt, without any kind of imposter syndrome or whatever.
- 55:27And you know, that's not true because you actually hear the conversations,
- 55:31you know, and you know how many members, you know, know for example we got in
- 55:34the sda you know what percentage of them what they're going through and people
- 55:37trust you and they feel non-judged so they open up to you so,
- 55:40you you've got a real kind of access to the truth which a lot of clinicians don't have,
- 55:46and so that's the first thing and the second thing was yeah i think it's burnout
- 55:49is such a problem across health professionals allied health professionals equal
- 55:54to sports therapists and and i think,
- 55:58yeah communication different the shift we've talked about tonight can really help,
- 56:03because, and this is the wonderful Joe Turner, who's been a guest on the show of mehab.co.uk.
- 56:10Explains this really well.
- 56:11But as clinicians, we, because we're in this fixing mode, we take on that responsibility
- 56:17of helping someone lose weight or help someone do their exercises,
- 56:20get over the injury, get their park run or whatever it is, their PP.
- 56:25And if it doesn't happen, then obviously we've got that responsibility in our
- 56:28shoulders and it gets us down and we might not think it does and that we get
- 56:31home and don't worry about it but it is soul destroying
- 56:34when you're putting so much effort and you think you're helping this client
- 56:37and then they don't do the exercises or they go out and
- 56:40run up that hill again when you've told them don't do any hills anymore and
- 56:44you take it personally you get angry and you get irate and this is what contributes to burnout so.
- 56:48What we've talked about tonight is basically about changing that dynamic of
- 56:53where you're not fixing the patient. It's not your responsibility.
- 56:58Okay, your job is not to make that person do their exercises.
- 57:04What your job is, one of your jobs and the foundation of your job is to listen
- 57:10to that person and help create conditions through trust.
- 57:16And like I say, a safe space, psychologically safe, where they are going to
- 57:20listen to you and they're going to start opening up and talking about what the
- 57:24issue is, talking about what is causing them to actually not do the exercises or to,
- 57:30go for PB every kind of Saturday or Sunday.
- 57:33And and between the two of you you stop thinking they're the difficult person,
- 57:37they start feeling unjudged they start opening up and telling you what the problem actually is
- 57:41and then you help what they want to actually happen by helping them help themselves
- 57:46and that's really where our skills should be and during this we can give them
- 57:50some wonderful therapy manual therapy we could help them feel
- 57:54safe and secure through touch which is a massively important thing i think that's one of the reasons,
- 57:59why touches can be so therapeutic and useful in helping communication because
- 58:03we're not just talking about using our mouth and ears we're talking about everything
- 58:05with touch is a massive part of that.
- 58:07But yeah it takes a massive weight off your shoulders if you stop being a fixer
- 58:11and and and yeah i think that's so important it's so sad as you see the amount of
- 58:16burnouts and people leaving the industry it's a waste because we've got some
- 58:20wonderfully altruistic people who want to help make a difference but they're using a model,
- 58:24which sadly has probably come from their training whether it's degree or through
- 58:28diplomas which isn't really setting them up for success in many ways.
- 58:34You mentioned in a previous answer about the Unbound Project.
- 58:39Can you just give us some insight into what that is, when it takes place?
- 58:44How can people get involved? Yeah, I'm glad you mentioned that.
- 58:47I mentioned it before. I've got so much respect. Andy Hosgood,
- 58:49people might know if they came to the STA conference in association with the
- 58:53Hands-On Hub in Exmouth.
- 58:54Andy Hosgood and Andrew McCauley set up this thing called the Unbound Project,
- 58:59which I've got so much time for because basically they're all about creating
- 59:03space for exactly these kind of conversations.
- 59:06They recognize that a lot of clinicians measure their success against this idea
- 59:12of what your competition is
- 59:14doing and this idea that everyone else is not having the problems you are.
- 59:18And they're trying to get clinicians to come together and trying to create a
- 59:22space where people do actually open up and don't see your colleagues as competition,
- 59:28but more as a chance to share problems and collaborate and find solutions to problems.
- 59:32And sometimes that solution is just realizing that the person down the road
- 59:35from you is not the enemy.
- 59:37And they may well have a great idea for you or simply just knowing that they're
- 59:40going through the same thing.
- 59:41And now you're going to talk about it is so powerful. So they create a lot of
- 59:45this at the moment is, well, it is, it's all just free.
- 59:47So they've already had quite a few meetings. Look up the Unbound project on Instagram or Facebook.
- 59:53We'll make sure link goes into the show notes. But yeah, they're all about this
- 59:57safe space and for clinicians to open up and talk things through.
- 1:00:00And this is so important because if you start doing that, if you start feeling the benefit.
- 1:00:06Of being in a safe space and being able to talk what your worries are,
- 1:00:09then you'll be able to create that same sort of scenario for your patient and
- 1:00:13client who ultimately a lot of them are looking for that as well.
- 1:00:17Because also don't fall into the trap of thinking that just because someone
- 1:00:19comes in and they all look kind
- 1:00:22of like, you know, confident and ready and without a care in the world,
- 1:00:26come on now, we're old enough and wise enough to realize that it's not just
- 1:00:30neurodivergent people who mask, you know, everybody masks, particularly when
- 1:00:34they're coming to like a healthy person who's supposed to be great at running
- 1:00:37or a strength and conditioning coach, everyone puts on a little mask.
- 1:00:42So don't think that just because that person comes in and looks like they haven't got,
- 1:00:46any weight on their shoulders open the conversation show curiosity and you realize
- 1:00:51that as human beings we've all got stuff going on and and part of our position
- 1:00:55is to help talk people through that and help them find the solutions so yeah
- 1:00:59the unbound project so i'm babbling on.
- 1:01:01Thank you actually you know a couple couple more minutes matt you mentioned
- 1:01:06you had your course dates up there if somebody wanted to attend your course
- 1:01:11i know you've spoken a little bit about content but,
- 1:01:14what what's the one thing that they'll be able to take away from today or equally
- 1:01:18if they attend your course.
- 1:01:21Yeah. So yeah, course dates, just go to mattphillips.education.
- 1:01:25I've put so much time into changing everyone's life.
- 1:01:29It's been ridiculous and I've just focused so much on it. So yeah,
- 1:01:33go along to mattphillips.education, have a little look through there and everything
- 1:01:36you can need for therapy showing that is on there in the course page or the
- 1:01:39end page and on the unbound project as well.
- 1:01:41But yeah, from the, from the course, like I said, it kind of brings together,
- 1:01:45I think speaking with Matt Lowe, we did one episode, which just kind of looking
- 1:01:51at philosophy. And philosophy, we kind of switch off that. We're like, oh, yawn, yawn, yawn.
- 1:01:56But again, this is why I go back to Socrates and go back to the great classic
- 1:01:59philosophers, because before psychology, it was philosophy.
- 1:02:02Psychology came along when it turned philosophy into a science and started measuring
- 1:02:06things. But philosophy is where so many of the answers are. So on the course,
- 1:02:10I try and bring together philosophy.
- 1:02:12And I think in future, healthcare is going to be very much linked with philosophy.
- 1:02:16It's not going to be a dirty word or something we feel that we can't talk about.
- 1:02:20And I think philosophy will help politics because politics and philosophy need to work together.
- 1:02:25But so, yeah, I bring together philosophy, communication, science,
- 1:02:29a lot of MI because I do love motivational interviewing approach and put it
- 1:02:33into clinical practice.
- 1:02:34Even though I'm not in clinical practice myself, I have done kind of 10 years
- 1:02:38at least in clinical practice.
- 1:02:39And like I say, in education, there's such a big crossover so but yeah in terms
- 1:02:44of like what are people what listeners to take away from today then i think
- 1:02:50it's i i do like the simple kind of phrase that.
- 1:02:54Most human problems aren't solved through better explanations.
- 1:02:59And I think if you look at your own life and look where somebody has tried to
- 1:03:03just explain to you what's going
- 1:03:05on, that hasn't made the pain or the distress or the anxiety go away.
- 1:03:10Particularly if it's at a time where you're feeling very vulnerable and you're in pain.
- 1:03:13It's having someone, I think, I don't want to generalize, but I think guys love solving problems.
- 1:03:19I don't know whether it's in our genes and I'm stereotyping a little bit because
- 1:03:22I know women who are great problem solvers, but,
- 1:03:25we know in relationships that wherever your partner is, if you jump in there,
- 1:03:29with a solution every time they're upset or distressed, you're probably going
- 1:03:32to get either a physical or mental attack of some form.
- 1:03:35And we need to treat our patients and clients in the same way.
- 1:03:40The clients who come to us in pain, maybe through injury or whatever it is,
- 1:03:45their problems are going to be solved better through understanding, okay?
- 1:03:50And when we're talking about patients, or it could be learners,
- 1:03:53or it could be the difficult staff member, change starts when people feel understood.
- 1:04:00And if you're going to make someone feel understood, you've really got to ravel
- 1:04:03it back and change a few chips in your mind.
- 1:04:05So that's why I'd like people to kind of, the listening and they're trying to
- 1:04:08take something way is just just bear in mind and we know the answers ourself
- 1:04:12that if someone comes to you with a problem an explanation is probably not going
- 1:04:16to help maybe eventually it will but not initially,
- 1:04:19i find it interesting that before before the advent of the internet and and
- 1:04:25now we're artificial intelligence,
- 1:04:28this has been around for for centuries you know the ancient greeks were the
- 1:04:32original ai weren't they everybody thought that they had all the answers uh
- 1:04:36some are proven and some are disproven, but that's an,
- 1:04:40interesting conversation for another day.
- 1:04:42Finally, Matt, you mentioned at the start of this podcast about identity.
- 1:04:49I'm in most people's phones as STA Gary. What would you like to be in people's phone as?
- 1:04:56Because I had you in my phone as Matt Runchat Live.
- 1:04:59That's changed now. But what do you want to be identified as?
- 1:05:04That's so cool. That's so cool. I think really giving up Munchet Live was hard,
- 1:05:10but I think eventually I chose Matt Phillips' education.
- 1:05:15I didn't like it initially because I think the word education sometimes takes
- 1:05:18us back to this idea of school the same way as the clinician standing over the
- 1:05:23patient and telling them what it is. But for me, education is not about that.
- 1:05:27And for me, education is about going on a journey with someone and sharing time
- 1:05:32together and going backwards and forth.
- 1:05:35And then probably both of you learning from the experience. That's the ideal
- 1:05:38form of education. So I went in the end with Matt Phillips Education.
- 1:05:42So yeah, if anybody wants to change my name in the, please keep me in your book,
- 1:05:45in your phone, in your book. How old are we?
- 1:05:48Please keep me on your digital device, but maybe from Matt Phillips,
- 1:05:52Run Chat Live to Matt Phillips Education. That'd be, that'd be wonderful.
- 1:05:56All right, Matt. Well, thank you very much for giving up your time this evening,
- 1:06:01and being in the hot seat and answering my questions.
- 1:06:05We appreciate all the work you do on the podcast and we look forward to getting
- 1:06:09back to normal next week.
- 1:06:12Thank you, Gary. Thank you for the opportunity. I am exhausted.
- 1:06:14And even this has been a learning experience because I realize how exhausted
- 1:06:17my guests must be now. It's given me a wonderful reminder of how exhausting
- 1:06:21it is to think of answers all the time. I'm gladly going to jump back into the hosting next week.
- 1:06:26So thank you, Gary, for everything you do as well. It's amazing working with
- 1:06:29the STA because of you, basically.
- 1:06:31So I'm glad we did have that conversation in a car park. That sounds a bit dodgy.
- 1:06:35What was it, a car park? 15 years ago.
- 1:06:39Around what car was it at the time it was an estate or something with a hatch
- 1:06:42over yes it was ngztt yeah british racing green if i remember rightly,
- 1:06:48it really was it reminds me of mine do it really was like an arthur daly dennis
- 1:06:52water can't shake over the bonnet sort of thing yeah it was it's it's great
- 1:06:57it was um definitely a celebrated time so yeah thank you right so yes,
- 1:07:02next week I will be back in the hot seat just before I forget thank you people
- 1:07:07did join us live I hope that wasn't boring thank you,
- 1:07:10podcast listeners I hope you've enjoyed this and Sir Glenn Murphy has said hey
- 1:07:15great chat guys thank you Sir Glenn every single show Sir Glenn turns up it's
- 1:07:19amazing and thank you for everybody who comes along we love recording it live
- 1:07:22it just makes it spontaneous,
- 1:07:24and we also appreciate everyone who downloads it as well,
- 1:07:27so yeah next week I am going to be back in the hot seat and I'm going to be.
- 1:07:34Book with Ruth Duncan, which is fantastic. We don't talk about names from the
- 1:07:38past. Everybody's had a book with Ruth Duncan on the front, haven't they?
- 1:07:41It's fantastic. And Susan Finley.
- 1:07:43So I'm so excited. And this is very much part of the collaboration which the
- 1:07:47STA is trying to spearhead. And it started, I think, maybe probably last year
- 1:07:51at Therapy Show when we all got together
- 1:07:52on a stage. But I remember we had concentrations. It was concentrating.
- 1:07:57But we had conversations at the STA stand with Ruth and Susan. And it was wonderful.
- 1:08:02And I'm very excited that they're going to be coming on the show next week to
- 1:08:06talk about examining the role of the General Counsel for Manual Therapies,
- 1:08:11which some of you will know better as the GCMT.
- 1:08:14Ruth Duncan is the chair of the GCMT and Susan Finley is the vice chair of the GCMT.
- 1:08:19So they're going to be joining me next week really as part of this collaboration
- 1:08:24and we're all in the industry. We're talking much more than we used to,
- 1:08:26which can only be a good thing.
- 1:08:28So it ties in nicely with the communication. So we're going to be looking at
- 1:08:30what the General Counsel for antiotherapies does.
- 1:08:33And we're also going to be talking about, there's going to be a little bit of
- 1:08:35a flavor this month of what we can do to help improve education.
- 1:08:39What are we going to do about some of the alternative forms that are being put
- 1:08:43out there, like the very short online courses, which hands on heart.
- 1:08:47We all kind of know it's not going to help you that much. There might be a place
- 1:08:50for it somewhere, but it's really taking over and it's not doing our industry very good.
- 1:08:55It's almost like doing the opposite of everything that Gary and I and people
- 1:08:59like Ruth and Susan have been doing for years. So we're going to talk about
- 1:09:02that and how we deal with it in a calm, listening way.
- 1:09:06So that's very exciting. And then the week after, I think we're going to be
- 1:09:09talking to Kate Williams of the Society of Sports Therapists and Sarah Catler
- 1:09:13as well from the STO is going to be doing it.
- 1:09:14We're going to kind of be continuing that conversation a bit looking at sports
- 1:09:18therapy and the differences between vocational degrees is it a,
- 1:09:23one against the other or is there room for everything and that sort of stuff
- 1:09:26so it's going to be collaboration as well so it's going to be a great couple
- 1:09:28of weeks coming up really excited about that.
- 1:09:31And you can be around for us as well gary aren't you we're not saying goodbye
- 1:09:33to you you're going to be yeah that's gonna be amazing so yeah that's what's
- 1:09:37coming up if you can join us then all you've got to do is come along to,
- 1:09:42the Sports Technology Association YouTube channel at eight o'clock,
- 1:09:44which is BST British Summertime.
- 1:09:47Or you can come along to YouTube. Sometimes technology did tonight gets in the
- 1:09:52way only about six out of 292.
- 1:09:55But I would, if Facebook does go down for whatever reason, then jump onto YouTube and vice versa.
- 1:10:01But we will be here in one form or the other at eight o'clock as we are every
- 1:10:05Tuesday on the STA collision podcast. So thanks, Gary.
- 1:10:10Again i'm totally inaccurate i'm so exhausted i'm looking at my guests in the
- 1:10:14ua now i'm gonna be very gentle with ruth and susan next week i'm absolutely wiped out
- 1:10:19right thanks everyone joined us live as well thank you very much the podcast
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