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The Cost of Not Asking: Why Rejection Shouldn't Stop You · Sense Only

• 0:08
  SPEAKER_02: Greetings and salutations, I'm Alicia Mullings and this is the Sense Only Podcast.
• 0:13
  SPEAKER_02: This podcast is for those who are tired of the noise, distraction and disconnection in the world.
• 0:17
  SPEAKER_02: It's for those who know that we need to be the change that we want to see in the world.
• 0:21
  SPEAKER_02: Today it's a solo episode.
• 0:25
  SPEAKER_02: It's me talking to you, and you will see this episode on my birthday, which is also a whole year since I launched this podcast.
• 0:35
  SPEAKER_02: So I thought let me give you an episode of reflection.
• 0:41
  SPEAKER_02: So I feel really emotional.
• 0:45
  SPEAKER_02: So as you know, I'm always tearing up on this podcast.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_02: So uh yeah, you should be used to it by now.
• 0:53
  SPEAKER_02: This year has been an example of what happens when you get out of your own way, literally.
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_02: A year ago, I put myself out into the world and I didn't know what was gonna happen.
• 1:12
  SPEAKER_02: Um, I just really didn't even know what to expect.
• 1:16
  SPEAKER_02: But I knew that I had to, I just I felt like I had a call in.
• 1:21
  SPEAKER_02: I knew that I needed to do something.
• 1:24
  SPEAKER_02: Um I guess this has shown me what is possible when you stop hiding, basically.
• 1:34
  SPEAKER_02: Um this year has showed me the power of yes.
• 1:42
  SPEAKER_02: I have received so many yeses that it still blows my mind to this day, and there's so many layers to it.
• 1:54
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I think one of the things that really surprised me about the yeses was the fact that the podcast was as an infant, it was it was just in its infancy, and um I got told off about this by one of my mentors.
• 2:10
  SPEAKER_02: Shout out to Nella.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and because it's you know, I guess the quality speaks to itself, it's not about um quantity, it's about quality.
• 2:21
  SPEAKER_02: So the fact that I was getting so many yeses um speaks volumes.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_02: So I've learned that sometimes the biggest thing that's standing between you and what is what it is that you want is not actually rejection, it's actually your assumption that you'll get rejected.
• 2:44
  SPEAKER_02: And the truth is a lot of the time you actually won't, so therefore, is it the thing or is it us and in this journey that has really showed me that it's definitely a mindset?
• 2:57
  SPEAKER_02: Um, because I think I'm yet to have a no, actually.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_02: Now I'm actually having this conversation.
• 3:04
  SPEAKER_02: I don't think anybody's said no to me yet.
• 3:07
  SPEAKER_02: And you guys would have seen, guys and girls, would have seen how many absolutely incredible people have sat down and had conversations with me.
• 3:19
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and sat in this chair because I'm currently sitting in my guest chair, as you will know.
• 3:24
  SPEAKER_02: That background looks that's not her usual background, I'm usually on that chair over there.
• 3:28
  SPEAKER_02: For this, I'm sitting on my my guest chair.
• 3:32
  SPEAKER_02: And also the the guest chairs that I've had when I've travelled abroad as well.
• 3:36
  SPEAKER_02: So the main thing is the people who've had said who have said yes to me to have these amazing um conversations.
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_02: There was a point, and the point was actually very early on where I realized that this podcast was bigger than me.
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_02: This podcast has taken on a complete life of its own, and I can definitely say the first time that it actually really became apparent and really dawned on me was post the episode that I did um specifically on um black men's mental health, suicide specifically, and I interviewed my uncle Leroy.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_02: And after that episode, this is where I get emotional, the messages, that both my uncle and I received after that episode was enough for me to say I'm doing the right thing.
• 4:48
  SPEAKER_02: And to be fair, that episode I feel like I achieved everything I set out to achieve in terms of making change.
• 4:55
  SPEAKER_02: I received from the messages after that episode, I was like, my work is done, so therefore, everything that's come after that episode is literally a bonus, um, an incredible bonus to that because I feel like I've already achieved what I set out to achieve, um, which is making a difference in fellow humans in other people's lives.
• 5:18
  SPEAKER_02: One of the key messages that I received, which really shook me and really changed me, was from um a young guy who I know, um, well, youngish, because it's my generation.
• 5:36
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and he and I would I would never have guessed this, and he literally messaged me and was like, Leash, thank you so much for that episode.
• 5:45
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you so much to you and your uncle for that episode.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_02: He said.
• 5:51
  SPEAKER_02: He said that he himself had actually tried to take his own life, and that he had been so embarrassed by it that he's never spoken about it.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_02: So he really appreciated the fact that my uncle was so brave to come and share his story, and then me sitting there as his niece receiving and also then putting it out into the world as you know, something that needs to be shared.
• 6:19
  SPEAKER_02: Um as you can imagine, there were so many layers in terms of me receiving that exchange with him because obviously he's somebody I know.
• 6:29
  SPEAKER_02: I never knew this happened in his life, but also just the fact that it was received in a space where he no longer felt alone.
• 6:40
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and then there's all layers because I can't speak for other people, but what I can say is I definitely achieved major things from that episode, and then as I said, the evidence of it was the feedback that not only myself but also my uncle received.
• 6:57
  SPEAKER_02: So that was when I knew this podcast is doing different things.
• 7:02
  SPEAKER_02: Um, another key point or key moment when I knew this podcast was making changes for people was the episode with Kate, the lady, Kate Markland, the lady who um, first of all, the fact that she reached out to me, she's seen enough value in my podcast to reach out to me.
• 7:24
  SPEAKER_02: She messaged me.
• 7:26
  SPEAKER_02: Literally, it was a little I remember it was less than 24 hours after that episode went out, and she was telling me the levels of people who were contacting her and reaching out to her because they'd seen that episode, and the the places where that episode got sent to, I would never in a million years would have thought that that episode would have reached certain certain desks, so shall we say.
• 7:52
  SPEAKER_02: Um that I can definitely share is I know that that episode got sent out to all the journalists on Fleet Street.
• 8:00
  SPEAKER_02: Whereas if you don't know about Fleet Street, that's where all the major um newspapers and publications um for the UK are, and I guess probably the um the start of these scenes for the globe.
• 8:15
  SPEAKER_02: So yeah, and then other UN I don't want to say, but other people were reaching out to her who are in very high places because they'd seen that episode, and the fact that she just she messaged me and she was just like, thank you.
• 8:33
  SPEAKER_02: That episode has created such a shift that it's you know potentially making a difference in not only her life but also her son's life.
• 8:42
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, and um the list goes on.
• 8:46
  SPEAKER_02: So I didn't know that this podcast would be achieving these things.
• 8:52
  SPEAKER_02: I had absolutely no idea.
• 8:54
  SPEAKER_02: I just knew I received a call and I rolled with it, and this is what's happening, and these are the things that were happening very early on in um me publishing this podcast.
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_02: So uh yeah.
• 9:11
  SPEAKER_02: Oh gosh, the fact that it's had this much impact up until this point is phenomenal for me.
• 9:20
  SPEAKER_02: And there's so much more to come.
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_02: I think on a lighter note, I actually really appreciate the woman that um I have become and continue to become from this podcast.
• 9:40
  SPEAKER_02: Um, some key things that stand out to me that has been a major shift in my existence is that for one, I'm a very private person, and I'm I mentioned this on my episode with um one of my episodes in Atlanta.
• 9:59
  SPEAKER_02: Very private person.
• 10:01
  SPEAKER_02: Um, this podcast has obviously forced me to be outside.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_02: Uh outside in a more positive way.
• 10:13
  SPEAKER_02: I'm out here, I'm outside moving constructively and productively, shall we say?
• 10:17
  SPEAKER_02: And just the fact that I'm now traveling the world to interview people, different.
• 10:26
  SPEAKER_02: Never would have predicted this.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_02: Just the fact that the fact that I'll be to America, specifically Atlanta and New York, twice in the space of like nine months to go and interview people blows my mind.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_02: And the fact that I've got interviews already like set up to go to the Gambia and Nigeria and wherever else are all coming in the future is incredible.
• 10:51
  SPEAKER_02: Because as I said, we're only at year one, and and I've got major things that it's funny, I keep ending up in America, where I'm literally going to the States um again in the next six months, and I'm not even gonna speak on that invitation right there because that's next level.
• 11:10
  SPEAKER_02: And um fact that this this journey has just made me have so much more courage.
• 11:18
  SPEAKER_02: The fact that I'm just approaching people that I really admire and having the courage to ask, I would never have imagined that I would be doing this regular, like it's now standard.
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_02: You don't ask, you don't get.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_02: Um, I'm really channeling that right now.
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_02: The fact that I'm just creating again, I I love, love, love because for so many years I wasn't creating, and I'm very much naturally a creative person.
• 11:47
  SPEAKER_02: I come from a very creative family.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_02: So um I've been in a corporate environment for a few years, so therefore was very much immersed in that, but not living in what would be my truth.
• 11:59
  SPEAKER_02: Um, so to be creating again means the world to me, and it's so fulfilling to be making change.
• 12:06
  SPEAKER_02: The fact that I'm publicly speaking is insane.
• 12:12
  SPEAKER_01: You could never have told me this over a year ago.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_01: I would be like you're chatting, you're gassing.
• 12:22
  SPEAKER_02: Um the fact that I'm the fact that I'm building teams is great because it's not only the team I'm building around the podcast.
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_02: As you many of you would have heard me talk about on um on the episodes, several episodes, I'm now documentary producer.
• 12:43
  SPEAKER_02: As you would have heard me mention on several of my episodes, I'm actually now producing um documentaries, and I say that in plural.
• 12:53
  SPEAKER_02: Documentaries is insane to me, but also a blessing that um people see enough in me to actually bring these projects to my door.
• 13:05
  SPEAKER_02: Um so it's great, but we've never predicted it at all.
• 13:11
  SPEAKER_02: And the biggest thing for me of the woman I'm becoming is being of service.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_02: That means the world to me, to be of service to not only fellow humans, but there's episodes that are coming up that's going to be demonstrating I'm being of service to this place that we call home and the planet we live on, you know.
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_02: Um and just using my gifts, my light and my energy in service to others means a lot.
• 13:47
  SPEAKER_02: So um there's a bunch of people, like there's there's several people that I'd like to give special thanks to who have contributed to me getting to this point with my work.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_02: I thank, I think anybody who's in my orbit in my world would have made a positive contribution.
• 14:08
  SPEAKER_02: Otherwise, you wouldn't be in my world because there's been a lot of people who have um I stay purging, I stay similar these people out.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_02: So whoever's still in my orbit, you're good people.
• 14:20
  SPEAKER_02: So I thank you all um for keeping my keeping my my space, my energetic space, my spiritual space, my mental space, um, my emotional space healthy.
• 14:31
  SPEAKER_02: You all contribute, and I really thank you for that.
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_02: I would like to give special thanks to my mentors um who are all in Atlanta, um Mr.
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  SPEAKER_02: David Chance of um the Social Proof Podcast, um, Mr.
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_02: CJ Quinney of Secrets to Success Podcast, and also Card from Secrets to Success Podcast, Nella, um, and also Jessica of Just Ask Podcast, multiple people.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_02: Um, because as tiresome as it is for me to keep showing off within my cohort, and show and shout out to my cohort as well because we all just hold each other together.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_02: It's so tiresome for me because I'm the only person who's international who's in my cohort, because as I said, it's based in Atlanta, so um I'm logging on at midnight to get some training.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_01: Oh um, but I show up and have been showing up for over a year.
• 15:41
  SPEAKER_01: I'm tired, but you know, this is what we do.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_02: So out to my accountability partner, Greg, Mr.
• 15:49
  SPEAKER_02: Greg Langola.
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_02: Um I asked Greg at the top of the year when things started to get really busy for me.
• 15:57
  SPEAKER_02: I says I need somebody who understands what's going on business-wise, mentally, and everything else.
• 16:03
  SPEAKER_02: Will you be my accountability partner?
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_02: Greg showed up.
• 16:06
  SPEAKER_02: Greg said yes, he showed up for me, and we've been bouncing off each other ever since.
• 16:11
  SPEAKER_02: Um we've we've kind of let it go in the past few weeks.
• 16:14
  SPEAKER_02: Um, because I think we're just both in a space now where we can just kind of crack on individually, but nonetheless, Greg made a major contribution to keeping my head right, and also certain moves that I've been able to make have definitely been positive contributions from Greg.
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and you can see my episode with Greg.
• 16:36
  SPEAKER_02: I did an episode with Greg.
• 16:37
  SPEAKER_02: You can find that in uh on my on my um on my channel somewhere.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_02: Shout out to my mum, mum's always supporting.
• 16:44
  SPEAKER_02: My mum do my mum's do.
• 16:46
  SPEAKER_02: Um, shout out to my Aunt Anne for being one of the first people to contribute to my merch.
• 16:51
  SPEAKER_02: And I know some people would be like, yeah, it's family.
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_02: However, it still means a lot because you know I don't take support for granted.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and it's also putting a positive energy in that.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_02: So then all the sales that follow after, I know that my auntie was the start to it.
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you for that, Aunt Anne.
• 17:12
  SPEAKER_02: So many other people, my cause amica, for always keeping my head straight and everybody else, but my biggest thank you I knew I was gonna get emotional.
• 17:45
  SPEAKER_01: But it's happy tears.
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_01: My biggest thank you.
• 17:55
  SPEAKER_01: It's to my my big cousin my big cousin Derek my big cousin Derek, aka Flash to the man there on the street, my big cousin Derek.
• 18:12
  SPEAKER_02: Oh Derek has made the biggest contribution to this podcast.
• 18:22
  SPEAKER_02: Whoa Jesus, my cousin believed in me so much that August last year I was having so many conversations with my big cousin in the run-up to me wanting to start this podcast, and he believed in me so much and my mission and I want to achieve, and not even so much what I wanted to achieve because there was a certain degree where I didn't even know what I wanted to achieve, as I've said earlier in this talk, but he believed in me and how I show up in the world and my character.
• 19:04
  SPEAKER_02: Put his money where his mouth is and make sure I stepped out into the world of a standard that not only represents me, but also represents us as a family, which is the levels that we we step out into the world at.
• 19:27
  SPEAKER_02: My cousin Derek, this set, my cousin sponsored this set, sponsored me building out this set.
• 19:40
  SPEAKER_02: You know, he he dropped me the loan because at the time I didn't have the money to to do all this get that day job, however, I live in London, the struggle's real.
• 19:56
  SPEAKER_02: Um my cousin, he dropped cash on me that allowed me to build this out and was talking to me when I was going through everything I was going through just mentally in preparation for all of this.
• 20:18
  SPEAKER_02: But I say that to say, money aside, there's an energy in that.
• 20:23
  SPEAKER_02: There's an energy in somebody believing in you to the point where they would do that for you, you know.
• 20:31
  SPEAKER_02: And and my cousin, he he showed up for me like that, knowing who I am, because anybody who knows me in real life knows I'm not asking for nothing.
• 20:42
  SPEAKER_02: I and I don't I don't know I need to work on it, and I have been working on it with my pride holding back in certain things in life, you know, when you actually got a solid network and you should be tapping into it.
• 20:57
  SPEAKER_02: But me, I traditionally have not, and my family have been working on me for years to be like leash, ask that I'm doing better.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_02: So I say, but thankfully my people know me enough that they can read between what I'm not saying, and as I said, my cousin showed up for me because, and even then, when I was like buying things, like when I was choosing the seats and stuff, the set, and I was there trying to get like a when it looks good but it's a lot cheaper, and my cousin shut that down.
• 21:29
  SPEAKER_02: He was like, Listen, you representing this family, absolutely nuts, and um he showed up for me, man.
• 21:39
  SPEAKER_02: So yeah, and it's and it's beautiful because every time people step on this set and they give it all the compliments, and as much as I could be here taking all the glory, but granted I designed it, I can take that, but I'm like, as much as I could have designed it, I didn't want to pay for it, and um And that was when cause it really helped me.
• 22:02
  SPEAKER_02: You know, um, which yeah made a huge difference because um yeah, I get a lot of joy and um yeah could get all the things that well at the same time it's also an example of when you live good with people because that's something I always go by in life.
• 22:26
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and you would have also heard certain guests who know me would have said that before all of this was happening, I show up in the world as a as a person who I show up I show up for people and I treat people good, um, which is why when I started reaching out to my network, I got all the yeses to the point where you saw Andrew.
• 22:50
  SPEAKER_02: Hadn't how many episodes back, it would have been one of this one.
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_02: It was just like, yeah, I just got off the plane and reached straight around here before he even saw his children, like Z type of relationships.
• 23:00
  SPEAKER_02: And it's fascinating because I didn't even know I had these types of relationships.
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_02: Like I had all these fantastic people in my life, but you know, not saying that's taking anyone for granted, but it's not until now, because as I said, I don't ask nobody for nothing.
• 23:13
  SPEAKER_02: It's not until now that I'm actually like, I can reach out to these people, I can ask, and everyone's turning up is incredible.
• 23:21
  SPEAKER_02: And then also, as I said, complete strangers who have been on this podcast, them reaching out and turning up, also, and there's so many more to come.
• 23:30
  SPEAKER_02: So, um, yeah, tears aside, um, yeah, wonderful, thank you, huge thank you to my big cousin Derek for um yeah sponsoring this uh podcast.
• 23:43
  SPEAKER_02: This is my first sponsor sponsor have to pay back, but nonetheless, he's sponsored.
• 23:51
  SPEAKER_02: It's all good.
• 23:54
  SPEAKER_02: Um yeah, it's all good.
• 23:57
  SPEAKER_02: It's all good.
• 23:58
  SPEAKER_02: I um it's it's it's it's been amazing to see um to be seen.
• 24:07
  SPEAKER_02: It's been amazing to be seen.
• 24:09
  SPEAKER_02: Um and it's also amazing to um be a voice for the voiceless as well.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_02: These are the things that um mean a lot.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_02: So many things I can talk about.
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_02: So many things I've had to overcome.
• 24:28
  SPEAKER_02: Man, I've had to overcome serious levels of nerves.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_02: Wow.
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_02: Nerves.
• 24:36
  SPEAKER_02: It's been insane, and I know it's one of the things that really holds people back.
• 24:41
  SPEAKER_02: And I know, and I think also from being in my in the podcast community, I've learned how many, and just in life, how many people are frightened to step into their calling, especially if it's more of a um public calling because they're scared of like people bad mouthing them or trolls or whoever on the internet.
• 25:00
  SPEAKER_02: Whereas I feel like now it disencourages people who've not done anything yet, who need to do something.
• 25:08
  SPEAKER_02: I pray that you get to a point where I'm at now where I live for the trolls, you know.
• 25:14
  SPEAKER_02: As much as I appreciate positive encouragement and wonderful comments.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_02: I love it, it's beautiful.
• 25:20
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you so much.
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_02: When a troll comes for me.
• 25:27
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, man.
• 25:29
  SPEAKER_02: Appreciate you that.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_02: Appreciate you.
• 25:33
  SPEAKER_02: It's nice, it gets it allows me to stretch my mentals and to um stretch my vocabulary as well, and um stretch my uh my level of manners where I can still tell you about yourself, but I'll tell you about yourself so politely.
• 25:48
  SPEAKER_02: Love it, it's here for it.
• 25:50
  SPEAKER_02: Um and and and it's and it's nice the perspective that I'm in now in terms of miserable keyboard warriors who would never say whatever they want to say on the internet would never say it in your face.
• 26:04
  SPEAKER_02: It just gives me joke.
• 26:05
  SPEAKER_02: I think it's hilarious.
• 26:07
  SPEAKER_02: Um, it's nice when you get to the other side, when you get to that energy, it's it's so freeing, it's beautiful.
• 26:16
  SPEAKER_02: And uh I pray so many people get to that space when they uh step out and do what it is that they're supposed to do and step into their calling.
• 26:24
  SPEAKER_02: How I feel right now, I would only want for everybody else.
• 26:29
  SPEAKER_02: Like whatever it is that you're supposed to be doing, just do it.
• 26:33
  SPEAKER_02: We have one life.
• 26:35
  SPEAKER_02: Don't take it for granted, and don't make these people who you don't know dictate you having a fulfilling life and doing what you're supposed to be doing, what the most high has called you to do.
• 26:49
  SPEAKER_02: This journey has brought me so many surreal moments that are absolutely incredible.
• 26:56
  SPEAKER_02: Like, sometimes it may it makes me now feel sad that what would have happened if I had never started this podcast and if I'd never asked all the people who I asked, like all them amazing conversations that are out, all the incredible people that I've spoken to, all them episodes would that wouldn't exist, and the differences I've made that I've mentioned earlier probably would have happened, but may have happened differently, you know?
• 27:26
  SPEAKER_02: Everything happens for a reason, and um I'm proud of that.
• 27:30
  SPEAKER_02: I'm really happy for that.
• 27:33
  SPEAKER_02: Um it's been a trip.
• 27:39
  SPEAKER_02: I have had so many surreal moments that has shown me that the most height is all over this.
• 27:45
  SPEAKER_02: Um, as you would have seen in my my episode with AJ McQueen.
• 27:50
  SPEAKER_02: The way that that episode happened, and because Semi kind of mentioned it at the beginning of that episode, but I was like, and I said it to him before him and his team before we put on the cameras, I said, the fact that I was sitting in that room was wild.
• 28:03
  SPEAKER_02: Even the journey of how I got to that room was absolutely insane, but it was it was such a mess, it was such a blessing, it was crazy because as much as I was interviewing him in New York, the alignments, all the stars aligned from the week before when I was in Atlanta.
• 28:19
  SPEAKER_02: And you know what, I may have to do a story time.
• 28:22
  SPEAKER_02: I think once I once I start building a community, I'm gonna just share all the stories in the community because there's there's so many, but it was just it was next level divine intervention, and there were so many points in that journey up until me sitting in that room that were like, yeah, me sitting in that room had absolutely nothing to do with me, the way I got carried through life for that week, that week plus to get to that seat, it was different, it was different, and it was very special.
• 28:53
  SPEAKER_02: And the things that have manifested after that, that we will see on this podcast post that's to still to come.
• 29:03
  SPEAKER_02: Say the most high was it had hands all over that and it's a blessing, it's amazing.
• 29:08
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and just um so many things, so many things.
• 29:13
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, when I start a community, story all the story times, and then everyone would have access to actually just ask me as well when you're in the community.
• 29:20
  SPEAKER_02: So I'll I will start it soon.
• 29:22
  SPEAKER_02: And starting course, you know, because I've always had people tell me how like inspirational I am, and I've always kind of been like, oh no, it's alright, I'm just normal, regular, so we live.
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_02: The fact that I've kind of embraced that now to a point where, as I've mentioned in other episodes, I'm like, I've had the amount of people who try to come and pick my brain for information because they see something about me, would like to use it or duplicate it.
• 29:48
  SPEAKER_02: I'm like, that's fine now.
• 29:50
  SPEAKER_02: And that's why I've created the course to help other people just get this thing going and what they want to do, what they want to achieve.
• 29:57
  SPEAKER_02: So you'll be able to find the course on senseonly.com.
• 30:03
  SPEAKER_01: The fact that we even have a senseonly.com, all power to that as well.
• 30:09
  SPEAKER_02: Hey, um, I should talk about it actually, not even in joke and in jest.
• 30:15
  SPEAKER_02: Because senseonly.com now will be the home for all the things Sense Only, because Sense Only, as you would have heard, is not just it's not it's not simply a podcast anymore.
• 30:26
  SPEAKER_02: Um it's now going to be the home for the podcast, the documentaries, um, and everything else that's going on with the with the merch, the course, um, sense only travel, also, because as people would have seen from the episode that would have been out the day before this is out, um sense only travel, because people see me traveling all over the place.
• 30:53
  SPEAKER_02: Um I'm obviously setting myself up to get deals and get things cheaper, and I'm also putting that on there so all the people can you can go on there, bookie travel, get it cheaper, or you can work within that business.
• 31:05
  SPEAKER_02: It's up to you, do whatever you want, but that's gonna be on there as well.
• 31:08
  SPEAKER_02: Um, as well as any other updates and news and information that you need to hear about SenseOnly, I guess, as the brand will be on SenseOnly.com.
• 31:18
  SPEAKER_02: Uh yeah.
• 31:20
  SPEAKER_02: So I don't know where to start because there's literally so many things in the pipeline.
• 31:26
  SPEAKER_02: Um stay tuned in, so much more to come.
• 31:30
  SPEAKER_02: And I pray that other people who are watching this now um make a move and make let's all make difference.
• 31:41
  SPEAKER_02: This has taught me that we all have power to make difference.
• 31:47
  SPEAKER_02: Grab it, harness it, and let's make a change and let's let's get some more of you making change to the point where when you apply to common sense only, I see enough about what it is you're doing and how you're showing up in the world that you come and sit here and have a comment, come and have a conversation with me.
• 32:06
  SPEAKER_02: Let's let's talk about it, let's tell the world about it, let's put you out there.
• 32:10
  SPEAKER_02: You know what this podcast is turning out to be, it's it's turning out to like be a version of like what one of my favourite movies, uh The Green Book.
• 32:18
  SPEAKER_02: It feels like it's like as I've as I've said, I think anyone would have seen my welcome video on um on the channel and on my website is um I intended for it to be a hub and it feels like it's becoming a hub.
• 32:30
  SPEAKER_02: I want this to be the place that people, when they need certain information or to find certain people, they come on here and they find the people.
• 32:37
  SPEAKER_02: So um, yeah.
• 32:40
  SPEAKER_02: Might have to read rebrand.
• 32:43
  SPEAKER_02: I would never do that.
• 32:45
  SPEAKER_02: Everyone knows the history of it, it's amazing.
• 32:47
  SPEAKER_02: Also, amazing uh movie.
• 32:49
  SPEAKER_02: I urge everyone to go and watch it with one of my favourite actors, Mr.
• 32:53
  SPEAKER_02: Mahershila Em Ali.
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_02: Shout out to him.
• 32:56
  SPEAKER_02: Um yeah, great stuff.
• 33:00
  SPEAKER_02: So um here's to the first year of the Sense Only podcast, and um we're only just getting started, we're only just getting started.
• 33:14
  SPEAKER_02: There's so much more to come, and I can definitely say I absolutely love it.
• 33:20
  SPEAKER_02: I love it, even though I feel like I've got three full-time jumps right now um and hardly sleep, that's okay, it's fine, it's worth it.
• 33:32
  SPEAKER_02: Um, because I care about I care about you all so much, um, and this this work is very important to me.
• 33:40
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and as I said, it's of being of service.
• 33:43
  SPEAKER_02: So that being said, it's all good.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_02: So as I always say, subscribe, share, stay in the comments.
• 33:51
  SPEAKER_02: But the main thing is sharing, let's get um, let's get this out there, let's get let's get this work going, let's get more active, um and let's all make a difference.
• 34:02
  SPEAKER_02: So as usual, stay blessed.