Don't Let Your Love Die on a Napkin

RESONANCE · Mar 6, 2026 · 6m

My grandfather was six foot four. Always in a suit. Captain in the US Air Force. A man of very few words. Throughout his entire life, he never once told my father that he loved him. Not once.

That silence — the gap between what we feel and what we express — is the central wound of our time.

In this episode, I share the story at the heart of my book RESONANCE: what happened when my father decided to break a generational cycle of unspoken love, what my grandfather did with a napkin that said everything his words couldn't, and what I found in my father's desk years later during his final days.

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