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- 0:03If you think midlife means slowing down, think again.
- 0:07Today, I'm hanging out with Alicia Jones, who's got a knack for proving women over 50 can be stronger, healthier, and happier than ever.
- 0:18Quick heads up she once turned her 72 year old mom into the star of a fitness event.
- 0:24Yes, you heard me right.
- 0:26By the end of this chat, you'll find out exactly how that one epic moment lit a fire under her clients and how it can do the same for you.
- 0:37Let's dig right in.
- 0:40Alicia Jones, welcome to Create The Best Me, I am over the moon excited to have you on the show.
- 0:49Thank you so much for having me.
- 0:51I'm so excited to be here too.
- 0:53And the reason why I'm super excited is because you and I speak to the exact same audience.
- 1:00Women over 50.
- 1:03It is definitely I think, uh, we both have passion for that group.
- 1:08And I'm really excited to talk about it with you today.
- 1:11So Alicia, before we get into today's conversation, could you please tell the viewers a little bit about who you are and why you are so passionate about women over 50?
- 1:24Yes, so my name is Alicia Jones and since 2006, I've helped women over 50 with health, fitness, weight loss, as a means, through health.
- 1:33So maybe, if you are feeling like it's hard to move, it's hard to walk, you have a health condition, heart disease, your joints are hurting you.
- 1:42That's really what I mean when it's talking about weight loss not necessarily, you know, trying to fit into the smallest bikini you can possibly fit into.
- 1:49And, I started this because from a very early time, I was raised by my grandmother.
- 1:56My mother was, she was away.
- 1:58She was a single mother working.
- 2:00And so my grandmother was the main person that raised me growing up, but she had COPD, she had heart disease and she was ill.
- 2:07So even though she was the main caregiver and I loved her so much, we actually had to get in babysitters because she started to be too ill to take care of me.
- 2:16And that's hard, the relationship between a grandmother and a grandchild is really, really special.
- 2:23The bond can be very special and, I wanted her to be there and fully present, but she wasn't able to be at all times.
- 2:29And so years later, I get into fitness and health that was something that was very important for me.
- 2:35And I studied kinesiology and went to university for this.
- 2:38And, then my mother started to be around the same age that my grandmother was when I remember her being sick.
- 2:44But my mother was very different, she was very healthy.
- 2:48One thing about my grandmother is she grew up in a time when smoking was considered normal.
- 2:52She was a nurse and she smoked.
- 2:55And that was just the age and the era.
- 2:57But my mother was in the next generation when smoking was out.
- 3:01And you know, she rarely drank, she ate healthy, she did the fitness classes.
- 3:06And so around the age of 72, my mother was doing these fitness events with me and she ended up being the main mascot or marketing pitch for me and my clients.
- 3:17Because I'd have clients that were over 50, I'd say, let's do this event, let's do this thing.
- 3:22They'd say, I'm too old.
- 3:24I can't do this.
- 3:24I'm not going to do it.
- 3:26And I didn't really hold a lot of weight in that because I was a lot younger than 50 at the time, but my mother, she was in her seventies.
- 3:34And so I started using her as my main marketing thing.
- 3:36I was like, if she's 72, so can you.
- 3:39And so I started recruiting people because of my mother, because of her health.
- 3:43And it was then that I started to see this shift this difference between what happens when you're able to take care of your health, and you have the knowledge to take care of your health in a certain way.
- 3:54What does aging look like?
- 3:57How can that shift?
- 3:58And so for me, I see so much power in healthy eating and fitness and wellness that it can really shift your quality of life.
- 4:09And for some it can even shift the lifespan, but quality of life is most important because what's the point of living long if at the end of the day you don't have a good quality of life, right.
- 4:19And so I really started to focus on that over 50 population So you were kind of sort of thrown into that market per se, because of your mom.
- 4:31Because I think it was that difference.
- 4:33It was almost like I could see the shift like my grandmother at the age that my mother became the marketing piece for me.
- 4:41It was the CN Tower climb here in Toronto in Canada.
- 4:44There's a CN Tower used to be the highest tallest structure.
- 4:48And you can climb that as a fitness event, for either World Wildlife Federation or for, heart and stroke for certain different charity events.
- 4:57You can do this climb; but that's when my clients were like, no, we are not, we're too old for that.
- 5:03That was literally what they said we were too old.
- 5:05And to start to see this, oh my goodness, when you age, you can be healthy.
- 5:11You can climb the CN Tower or be bedridden sitting on the sidelines as life passes you by.
- 5:19And so to see that difference of what happens when you're able to do the healthier things and have the knowledge on what to do that can make you healthy versus, not being able to follow that path.
- 5:33I think, that for me was that big moment where I was like, this is all I want to, I have passion for this.
- 5:39This is all I want to study and research.
- 5:42And this is the only population I want to work with.
- 5:46So tell me, because you were young when you started.
- 5:49And so you had to learn how to adapt to your clients.
- 5:54How is, working out over 50 differ from working out when you're under 50?
- 6:02Yes, so there's a few differences.
- 6:04So what I always like to say is that it's really important to take the science of health and fat loss and strength and blend that with lifestyle.
- 6:14These are two separate entities, but you need to be able to blend them together.
- 6:18So from the science perspective, we know that the body is shifting.
- 6:21Hormones are shifting, especially around 50.
- 6:24Even earlier 45, 40 you start to go through paramenopause.
- 6:29Estrogen levels are starting to have dips and, rises.
- 6:32Progesterone levels are shifting as well.
- 6:34And then you get into postmenopause when your estrogen is really low this plays a shift in the way that you work out.
- 6:41One, we have to make sure that we're maintaining bone density.
- 6:45Estrogen was in charge of keeping our bone density at a certain level.
- 6:50Without estrogen we need to place demand on the bone to keep our bone density, to enhance bone density and lean muscle starts to decline without estrogen as well.
- 7:00Something else that starts to happen is cortisol shifts.
- 7:03Our adrenals try and help creates some estrogen and so there's extra demand and pressure placed on our adrenal system.
- 7:12So cortisol levels shift and they shift much higher for women than they do men.
- 7:16That is both because of going through the hormone shifts of perimenopause all the way to postmenopause but it also has to do with the lifestyle component because let's be honest in the 50 plus and even now in the 40 plus category; there is a lot of stress and a lot of demand placed on women as we age.
- 7:41You might have kids at home that you're still taking care of, or they're growing up, but they're still needing you.
- 7:47They need your help.
- 7:48You've got a job that you love or a career.
- 7:51You've got different passions.
- 7:53So you're pulled in all of these different directions.
- 7:55You're pulled in life directions.
- 7:57You might even have parents that you're taking care of.
- 7:59So you're the ''sandwich generation'' where, you are really in charge of doing it all for everybody still at this time.
- 8:06And that place a lot of stress on the body.
- 8:09And so the question is when you're joining the science and lifestyle, how can you start to shift the formula of your fitness, of your nutrition to match your hormone shifts, to match this decrease in lean muscle and bone density, but also something that you are going to be able to sustain with your life, with the level of busyness, with the demand that's placed on you.
- 8:34And with the amount of time that you can really honestly give and give yourself permission to do just what is needed.
- 8:43The quality that is needed instead of, you know, putting all of that guilt and pressure and frustration because you can't do two hours of exercise or you can't make every meal.
- 8:53Do you do what I mean?
- 8:55And, you know, I had, a prior guest say that, and maybe you can elaborate on this.
- 9:00He had mentioned that people get this impression that you can work out burn, I'm on this funky diet where I'm consuming, 1200 calories because I want to lose weight.
- 9:11I want to have my bikini body.
- 9:14And so they say, well, I'm going to work out and try to burn 1800 calories, so that everything's kind of lopsided.
- 9:23So that I can reach that optimal weight that I want to get.
- 9:27What he had mentioned is he says, that is not sustainable.
- 9:31There is no way that I'm going to be able to sustain that and lose the weight because it's, you just can't do it.
- 9:40Exactly.
- 9:40It is the whole idea of move more, eat less, and that's just not sustainable, especially with age.
- 9:48And especially when we're talking about lean muscle, we need lean muscle.
- 9:52It boosts our metabolic rate so that here we are sitting having this podcast and because of the workouts that we do you have more lean muscle, you're burning more fat, even when you're sitting down and at rest.
- 10:05It is in charge of your better quality of life to have that lean muscle as well.
- 10:09You need to fuel your muscle.
- 10:12And it doesn't mean you bulk up.
- 10:13I think that's a fear that many of the women come to me, oh, I don't want to lift weights, I think I'm going to bulk up.
- 10:18As women, we have 45 fold less testosterone than men.
- 10:22We cannot bulk up.
- 10:24You would have to be doing something behind the scenes that's pretty intense, if you were planning on bulking up.
- 10:32We can't bulk up.
- 10:33So I think it's just really important to understand you have to be fueling your lean muscle.
- 10:38You have to be fueling your body for the workouts that you do.
- 10:41And really at the end of the day, eating less and moving more, it's just going to cause more cortisol, more stress.
- 10:48Probably not sleeping very well at night because your body is underfed.
- 10:53And again, especially for women, as we're going through hormone shifts, that cortisol level, making sure that we have a proper good night's sleep and making sure that our cortisol starts to shut down at night so we can sleep well, that becomes valuable.
- 11:07If we start to do things like we're not eating enough and we're exercising too much, then we're disrupting sleep patterns we're not fueling the body properly and we're just creating an imbalance in our hormones to a greater extent.
- 11:22I know that, as you had mentioned our estrogen level drops and when our estrogen level drops, I think what people need to remember is that we really need that estrogen.
- 11:32Because estrogen helps us balance our stress.
- 11:36And if we are already running on empty or low, and we are, over depleting ourselves, we're inviting more cortisol.
- 11:46And even though you're eating less, working out, and managing all these other personal things you're like adding more cortisol.
- 11:54And what happens is that you start to gain weight instead of lose weight.
- 11:58And then you're stressed out and you're more cortisol.
- 12:01Yes, and one of the main things that we tend to crave when our cortisol level is really high is sugar and carbs And there's a twofold to this one part is because if you're eating the healthy carbs, you can actually suppress cortisol a little bit when you do that like a buffering effect.
- 12:19So doing something like a no carb diet one of these ketogenic diets, you're basically allowing your body to stay in this stress zone for a long time.
- 12:28So we do need some carbs, but what ends up happening is when cortisol is high, that's basically a fight or flight reaction.
- 12:36Our cortisol runs high and when we were cave people, that used to be when we ran away from the tiger, the lion, the bear, whatever the case may be, we were running, we were actively moving away from whatever was causing the stress.
- 12:51So we needed to have really simple sugar to give us that energy to run away.
- 12:56So glucose, the blood sugar would start to rise we've released the blood sugar within our body in order to have the energy to get away.
- 13:04And we would also be able to store more of that, fat that's the easy, simple fat around the stomach in order to have that simple energy.
- 13:13And so those are things that still stick, even though we're not running away from anything now.
- 13:17You're more prone to being insulin resistant, having issues with your blood sugar levels when your cortisol or your stress hormone is running high.
- 13:27You could be storing more belly fat because of this reaction.
- 13:31It's not the only reason, but it is one of the reasons that some tend to get more belly fat around the stomach during that time.
- 13:40And so Alicia tell me, what you do when, you have a client that comes up to you and you start to fact find, find out who they are, and you discover that they are someone who is totally running on cortisol.
- 13:55How you get that person to be able to bring down their cortisol?
- 14:01Yes.
- 14:01So, again, it really depends on the person because everybody is very different on what they can do.
- 14:07And to take two examples into consideration, if you've got parents that are sick, like I have clients who have, both of their parents in homes, running back and forth from one home to the other because they're in separate homes.
- 14:19One may have Alzheimer's, the other one may have Parkinson's.
- 14:21They're not able to be in the same facility.
- 14:23This is a very high stress environment where you're doing your very best.
- 14:28And I think the first thing I would say, you're doing your very best that you can and there needs to be some grace given.
- 14:36Because, you're not going to be able to run a marathon at this time or make sure that every meal is pre-made.
- 14:44It could be incredibly hard, especially if you're going from one home to the next, trying to eat cafeteria food and figure things out.
- 14:52So I think it's the first thing I would do in that situation is give yourself grace, forgive yourself, and just, be in this moment.
- 15:00And do the best that you can and that is good enough.
- 15:03It's more than good enough.
- 15:06Just be with that.
- 15:07So that's what I would say in that situation.
- 15:10If it's somebody that's stressed, but they're trying to take their time back.
- 15:13And this is the other side that I see a lot.
- 15:15So it is somebody who is, a working, has the kids, maybe has one parent, that they're taking care of.
- 15:21It's not a full-time job, but are just running on empty because they're giving themselves too much.
- 15:27And they started to get to a point in life where, realistically, they don't need to be giving themselves as much.
- 15:33They need to start to take back their time.
- 15:35That conversation would be a lot different if I was starting with, that person.
- 15:39I'd say, listen, we need to find time for you.
- 15:43How can we do this?
- 15:44And what is realistic?
- 15:45And for some people, that's a 10 minute time period.
- 15:49That's all that they can commit to at that time because it is a hard change to have done everything for everyone else your whole life and to say, no, I'm taking back my time.
- 16:00And so that's where if people have come to me, they obviously want to work on their fitness and their nutrition and health.
- 16:07I say, okay, how about instead of an hour workout, what can we do for quality 10 minute workout?
- 16:14And actually in both situations, I'd say, can we do something that's, short, but very good quality.
- 16:21Because I think that's another myth that comes into effect, people think that they need to do long workouts.
- 16:26They need to do incredibly hard workouts.
- 16:29The more they do, the more they're going to get results.
- 16:31And truthfully, especially with age, it's more about the quality that you do.
- 16:35So if you're going to do weight training, are you going to do quality weight training moves?
- 16:39If you're, trying to eat a meal and you have to eat out, what are you gravitating towards?
- 16:44Is it more of the protein, for example, that we know is going to fuel your lean muscle and maybe some of the whole grain or healthier carbs or an apple, even you're just grabbing, that's going to fuel your body so that you're not completely depleted of carbohydrates and you're getting your fiber in.
- 17:00So it's small little things that all together accumulate into creating something that is sustainable for you at that moment.
- 17:09That's really good.
- 17:11You have a program, a 12 week program called ''Over 50 Fit And Fabulous''.
- 17:18Yes, Is that a community or is that a program where somebody just signs up, buys your workout video and nutrition program?
- 17:27And they're on their own.
- 17:28Could you tell us about that program?
- 17:30Yeah, it's a small group support program?
- 17:33Because again, we've talked about this it's the science is very important, especially with age on how you shift the way you eat and exercise with age.
- 17:41But so does whatever you are doing with that science it needs to match your lifestyle.
- 17:47And so for me, you have to have a program that has somebody like an expert, which is me.
- 17:52I'm there for it something called support seats.
- 17:55Every week we do support seats in small groups where you take the plan there's the workout that's already done.
- 18:02It's a membership site that you can do the workout.
- 18:05You've got the nutrition steps for the week.
- 18:08And I teach you how to tailor everything in that program, but then you've got the support seats where we're in small groups and I keep these groups small on purpose, so that we can, tailor and modify things even more to you.
- 18:23So in the support seats, for example, we talk about modifications to your workout.
- 18:28Some people have, especially with age, you know, frozen shoulders, really common for women, plantar fasciitis, knee issues, back issues.
- 18:35So we talk about modifications, how to ship the plan to you.
- 18:39We do talk about taking care of yourself, especially during busy periods.
- 18:43We talk about how to incorporate the foods that you love and still get results.
- 18:48We talk about macronutrients.
- 18:49We talk about a whole gamut of things inside of the group.
- 18:53It's a support system and you need to have a support system and a way of tailoring any program that you do because I think there's this myth.
- 19:02Yeah, we can just do it.
- 19:03We'll go in alone.
- 19:04It's fine.
- 19:05I should be able to do this on my own.
- 19:07But the truth is that we all have an area where we need to ask for help and we need support.
- 19:13If we could do that thing on our own, we would have done it already.
- 19:17So sometimes we just need help in certain areas and we need support in certain areas as well.
- 19:23So, that's where that program comes in.
- 19:25It's a three phase food and fitness formula for women over 50.
- 19:31You know and I was looking at your website, last night and I saw this amazing testimonial about a woman who joined your community and then had a bunch of life challenges that just hit her, with her mom and then her dad.
- 19:49When I'm reading this testimony, I'm thinking there's no way this lady can lose weight or even become healthy because she's got all these challenges and she's over 50.
- 19:59I can't remember her age exactly, but in her testimony, she talked about how valuable this community was and how she was able through all these personal life challenges and working with your community; to achieve her weight loss goal and become fit.
- 20:17Can you tell us a little bit more about Sharon?
- 20:21I'm going to guess you're talking about Sharon.
- 20:23Yeah, actually, what's so funny is, she was in the group for more than one period.
- 20:27So after the 12 weeks of Over 50 Fit and Fabulous, I give you all of the tools so you can do it alone after that, if you want to.
- 20:34You don't have to, there is a way of continuing with support seats, but I get forever access to Over 50 Fit and Fabulous.
- 20:42And I do that because sometimes it's going to take longer because life happens, right?
- 20:47I don't want this strict guideline.
- 20:49And then, you know, you're like, oh, I have to get it done.
- 20:51And I feel behind.
- 20:52I don't want people to feel behind.
- 20:54This is your life, you're going to get to that destination in the timeframe that is right for you and your lifestyle, right?
- 21:01It might take longer, like people don't want to hear that, but it might take longer than 12 weeks.
- 21:05It might take 26 weeks or it might take less time than you expected.
- 21:10Everybody is different and there's no judgment.
- 21:13And so with Sharon she wanted to continue with the support even after the program was done and just work the steps.
- 21:18She went through a lot her mother died when she just started the program.
- 21:24And her father died as well.
- 21:26So they were both in separate homes, actually we were just talking about you know, a lot of, the over 50 age group is taking care of parents and she was taking care of both of them in separate retirement, nursing home facilities.
- 21:40They both ended up passing.
- 21:41She was very close with both of them.
- 21:43She also had major hormone shifts.
- 21:46And remember when you're going through trauma and stress, and dealing with losing parents in a busy lifestyle.
- 21:53She is a nurse actually, although retiring now.
- 21:57Just this huge amount of stress and loss at the same time.
- 22:03And then you're going through menopause.
- 22:06I mean, talk about hormone shifts, fluctuations, like just on survival mode.
- 22:15And this woman showed up to every meeting.
- 22:19She did not have like, you know, quote unquote, perfect weeks at the beginning.
- 22:24You know, she just needed to know she was doing her best and you know what?
- 22:29She lost weight, she got stronger and recently actually, she just posted another picture of her, she had gone to Hawaii with her husband for their anniversary and she's back down to the weight she was when she was in her twenties when she was going to her college reunions.
- 22:47And she looks fabulous.
- 22:49She feels great.
- 22:50And I think when you're going through a lot, sometimes people are like, it's not the right time for me to do a program or to focus on myself because I have all of this going on.
- 23:00But that's actually one of the best times to do it.
- 23:02Because one, you get the support system, but two, you also get to understand how to manage and navigate your health, your wellness, your fitness, your nutrition during the times of the busiest, most stressful times.
- 23:18When do plans fail?
- 23:19They don't fail when everything is going perfectly.
- 23:22Everybody has no problem following that plan when life is smooth sailing.
- 23:27It's when the bumps pop up, if you don't know how to manage and navigate that and then you don't have a support system during that, that's when many fall off track.
- 23:36And I think that's what made Sharon so successful because she started all of these events were happening to her and she stuck it out and she learned how to eat and exercise around everything that was going on.
- 23:51And sometimes that was barely any exercise at all.
- 23:53You know, just again, quality, 10 minute quality workouts.
- 23:57Sometimes it was just prioritizing protein.
- 24:00Sometimes it was X, Y, and Z. It was all dependent on what was going on and it fluctuated a lot, but she got those tools to understand what to do.
- 24:08And she also got the support she needed.
- 24:11And I think another thing that's pretty important to point out here is that when we hit mid age or 50, sometimes it could be a lonely place.
- 24:21We find that we don't have friends anymore I mean, we do have them, but they're not as close as they used to be.
- 24:28Because our friends have moved on to other things in their life, or they are caring for their parents.
- 24:37And so having a community.
- 24:41is very important.
- 24:42And I think that's what helped Sharon.
- 24:44Get through the bumps.
- 24:46Yes, yes, definitely it did.
- 24:48And being able to discuss that.
- 24:50You know, I think there's a lot of apologies that go on.
- 24:53I'm Canadian, so we always say sorry.
- 24:55But, there are a lot of apologies that go on when we're, talking about vulnerability.
- 25:00And so when you say, oh, my day has been so hard.
- 25:04The first thing that tends to happen is, oh, I'm so sorry.
- 25:07I'm sorry I said anything.
- 25:08I'm sorry I didn't mean to bother you.
- 25:09I didn't want to bother you with my problems.
- 25:11And I think it's really important to understand that you need to be able to talk about that.
- 25:16You're not bothering anybody.
- 25:19That you need a supportive, place to be able to discuss what's going wrong, what's going right, what could be wins.
- 25:28You need a space where you can feel vulnerable without saying sorry.
- 25:32If that makes sense.
- 25:34And with people that are perhaps going through the exact same thing or have been there.
- 25:39Exactly! Yes, yeah.
- 25:42So your workouts in this a 12 week program, how long are they?
- 25:47Because a lot of people might say, well, I don't have time for that.
- 25:50Well, I'm so glad you asked that because they're anywhere from 30 to 45 minutes.
- 25:54However, on purpose, I created a bonus called "The Busy Lifestyle Backup Plan'', and it turns all of the workouts into 10 minute workouts.
- 26:02So you can do them in 10 minutes, and that's it.
- 26:05On top of that, what I really love to do is also give a handout.
- 26:08So once you've watched even the 10 minute version and you understand how to do the movements, you come to the support seats and said, hey, maybe I need to swap this exercise out because, you know, my knees hurt and so what can I do instead?
- 26:19Whatever the case may be, you've got this sheet.
- 26:22So you don't even need your laptop.
- 26:24You don't need anything.
- 26:25You can just download the sheet and you're like, oh, this is when we did this exercise.
- 26:29Oh, I'm swapping this exercise because Alicia said to swap and modify this exercise for a rehabilitative knee exercise instead.
- 26:37XYZ and you can finish even faster than the 10 minutes because you've got your own sheet there and you're not following the video.
- 26:43What I like to do in the video because you start with the foundation of weight training.
- 26:48You know many are really comfortable with going for a walk, doing a Zumba class, but weight training is still fairly new or it's something that people have dabbled in, but the form maybe needs a little bit of work or, understanding what size of weights you need in order to really give you those results.
- 27:07A whole plethora of reasons.
- 27:09Weight training still is just coming into being something that everybody is doing.
- 27:15So what I like to do is start people with the foundation and really understand how to move.
- 27:21And that is what we do, we do the fundamental movement patterns for the first four weeks, and then you retest and assess because that's a really important tool to understand if you've seen progress, what you need to do to shift.
- 27:34It's always about how you can shift and tailor things to you before you move on to the next phase.
- 27:39And so there are three phases, the discovery phase, adaptation and strength.
- 27:44And you go through each one of those phases.
- 27:46And because you have forever access, some people go through it in exactly 12 weeks and some people take much longer and they stay in each phase until they feel very comfortable and then they move forward.
- 27:56That was something that was really important to me.
- 27:58I think many programs, like this should have the capability of joining multiple times or having forever access because it rarely ever takes the exact time frame that is promised or given in the program.
- 28:15Yeah.
- 28:15And I think that's very important because the way you're doing it, because if people are focusing on form, there's less likability that they are going to hurt themselves, and so they'll be able to move on to the next phase.
- 28:30Exactly, yes.
- 28:31And that is so important.
- 28:33And we discussed that in length and we have different little challenges in the support seats that help with that as well.
- 28:40Each week in the support seats it's different based on what the questions have come up and where people are really either struggling or having great success and they want to share that success.
- 28:50So, it really depends, but I give a lot to do with how to make sure that your form is doing really well.
- 28:57And I think another thing that happens, especially with weight training, is if something hurts, people just stop altogether.
- 29:03You know, if it's like ouch, my back hurt or my knee hurt.
- 29:07I'm never going to do that exercise ever again.
- 29:09And so what I like to do is I like to say, hey, why don't you show me what's going on first?
- 29:15Because a lot of times I can see imbalances almost right away.
- 29:18There tends to be certain imbalances that happen, especially with age, because we have done certain movement patterns or lack of certain movement patterns for so long, certain muscles aren't even awake anymore.
- 29:30So I like to see form and give exercises that complement that so that you are able to do that exercise.
- 29:38You might not be able to do it right away.
- 29:39It might take a couple of weeks.
- 29:41You rehab what wasn't working or wake up that muscle that has gone to sleep for a little while and then you move on to it.
- 29:47But I think that's one of the things like, oh, I should stay away from this exercise forever.
- 29:52And that might actually be a big mistake.
- 29:53It might be an exercise that is absolutely powerful for your quality of life.
- 29:58We just need to get you there.
- 30:00And you're not at that step just yet.
- 30:03So, Alicia can you talk about why it is important for women over the age of 50 to begin a workout routine and what will happen if they don't.
- 30:17Okay, so as of the age of adulthood, which according to some studies, at least it starts as early as 20; adulthood is 20.
- 30:26And then for every decade thereafter, you lose lean muscle.
- 30:31You're losing lean muscle.
- 30:33So if you lose lean muscle, think about it.
- 30:36Lean muscles in your entire body.
- 30:38It is in your legs.
- 30:39So lean muscle is in charge, as we talked about your metabolic rate, but it is also in charge of picking your legs up, so you don't shuffle.
- 30:47It reduces your risk of falls.
- 30:48It increases bone density.
- 30:51Cardiovascular exercise, which also with weight training, you can do a cardiovascular workout because if you're lifting heavy enough, your heart rate's not staying low, it's getting up high, high as well.
- 31:02And so it make sure that your blood sugar stays at a good level.
- 31:07You're reducing your risk of type two diabetes, cardiovascular disease.
- 31:12Now there's more studies coming out to say that blood flows to the brain because of exercise, can reduce your risk of cognitive issues such as Dementia and Alzheimer's.
- 31:22So exercise is so important for our quality of life with age to enhance lean muscle the whole gamut.
- 31:30And what ends up happening is if you don't work out, you are reducing blood flow.
- 31:35Brain shrinkage, you're increasing your risk of Dementia, Alzheimer's.
- 31:39A fall and of a break, a bone break.
- 31:42You're reducing your quality of life.
- 31:44We know that sitting and standing up out of a chair, that seems simple for some, but with age that becomes harder and harder if you're not using your muscle.
- 31:55So, you may see somebody, let's say that's 55 years of age that just jumps out of their seat, has no problem and runs to the kitchen, grabs something, and you could also see someone of that exact same age holding on to the side of their chair, grunting as they get up, barely able to get up or barely able to pick up a pen from the ground, really having to push themselves up.
- 32:18These are the two realities that we face.
- 32:22It's really about what reality you want.
- 32:25Do you want to be the woman that jumps up out of your chair that lives your best quality of life?
- 32:30And you know, really in the 50 plus, especially as you go towards retirement, you have this second chance, a second life that is in front of you.
- 32:41And you don't want to be sitting on the sidelines.
- 32:44You don't want to be sitting in a chair, barely able to get up.
- 32:47You want to be out there doing that thing that lights you up.
- 32:52And really for me, that includes having your best health and your best quality of life, being able to do all of those things instead of being stuck in a chair.
- 33:02Alicia, what are three exercises that you feel are very important that women should be incorporating into their regular routine daily?
- 33:15So, glad you asked because we just talked about standing up from getting out of a chair.
- 33:20So that's called a squat exercise.
- 33:22So again, if you're just getting started sitting down and standing up, doing a squat, just do it 15 times.
- 33:29So when you stand up to go to the kitchen, sit back down and do it again and again, and a couple of times.
- 33:35And maybe you don't start at 15, maybe you do two.
- 33:37And then the next time you do It you do three.
- 33:39So a squat is really important.
- 33:41If your leg strength decreases, we know from what the research shows that you're more likely to be at risk for falls.
- 33:50You're more likely to lose that quality of life, like things like getting up out of the chair.
- 33:55And I hope this isn't, vulgar and that's understandable, but think about going to the washroom.
- 34:01You need to be able to do that same movement.
- 34:04And I have heard horror stories.
- 34:07from people that were in public restrooms that were not able to get up and they had to call the fire department to get them out.
- 34:16And, you know, so I think a squat becomes very valuable at that point for quality of life and just for independence and, being able to do those things that we need to do as well as, want to do.
- 34:30Plank is another one that's core strength.
- 34:32That's an exercise where you can hold yourself up and you're really working your core.
- 34:37When you do a plank exercise, all of the muscles surrounding everywhere from your back, all the way around to the front, they act almost like a corset.
- 34:45So if you exhale, like you're blowing out of a balloon, especially when you're doing this exercise, all of those muscles contract.
- 34:53So not only does it pull in your stomach, which many women say to me, how can I flatten my stomach?
- 34:59But it's also like a back brace.
- 35:01It is literally the thing that is holding your spine in good alignment, good placement.
- 35:07And so you can reduce your risk of a slipped discs, you know, issues with the back when we're talking about osteoporosis and osteopenia, the L4 and L5 in the back; so the low back, that low curve, that tends to be a major place where bone breaks happen.
- 35:23So if you can start to strengthen those muscles, remember, when you are strengthening a muscle, it's pulling on bone, it's creating that demand on bone.
- 35:32And so you're strengthening bone as well.
- 35:34So that's another really important exercise to be doing.
- 35:37And another one that I love is the row.
- 35:39It's a back exercise.
- 35:41Again, we're talking about big muscle groups with each one of these that we're doing, and the more muscle that you can hit, the more lean mass you're working on at one go.
- 35:51And the back, it's a postural exercise.
- 35:54So squeezing your shoulder blades together when you're bowed forward, like even just doing that sitting here, squeezing your shoulder blades together as much as you can.
- 36:02I don't know about you, it feels really good.
- 36:04It also, Yeah, doesn't it?
- 36:06And also, I don't know if you're really tight, if you've been rolling forward, if you've had bad posture for a while, or for all of us with driving and typing and everything else, we're always forward motion, right?
- 36:18So if you squeeze your shoulder blades together and you feel that tightness in your shoulders or in the chest, that's another reason to be doing this exercise.
- 36:27We are so forward all the time.
- 36:29We need to work the back, the, the back chain.
- 36:33So squeezing those shoulder blades together with weights, it's really going to start to help with posture.
- 36:39Help, even things out a little bit, reduce shoulder issues because honestly, as you roll forward more, your shoulder's not in proper alignment, your chest gets tight and your posture, your spine, your neck, it's suffering.
- 36:54So we need to be rolling those shoulders back and working the postural muscles with the row.
- 36:58So those are the three exercises I would give.
- 37:01Those are good.
- 37:02Those are good, especially the row, because I always, find myself to work, like you said, rowing forward.
- 37:07And I read an article, I can't remember where I saw it, but it said that women, when they're in their peri - post or menopause years, they usually develop frozen shoulder.
- 37:20Mm hmm.
- 37:21And so when you brought up the frozen shoulder, I'm like, oh, that's so weird.
- 37:24I read an article about that.
- 37:26And so doing this rowing exercise is great because it's building those muscles in the back to ensure that, hey, we're in menopause.
- 37:36We got a really good chance of getting frozen shoulder.
- 37:39It's kind of like saying, no, I got this.
- 37:40I'm in control.
- 37:41I'm not going to get it.
- 37:43Yes.
- 37:43Yeah, and I think so some of the reason that frozen shoulder becomes much more common during perimenopause into postmenopause is with those hormone shifts blood flow also decreases and shifts in the main joints or cartilage area.
- 37:56And so getting blood flow to those areas So we talked about the row your arms moving forward and back but, other movements, like even just shoulder rolls or shrugs, things like that.
- 38:07Think about how you can start to increase blood flow to the area.
- 38:11And it's not necessarily bringing your arms overhead.
- 38:14If you have frozen shoulder, you're probably not going to be able to do that to begin with, but it is about starting to increase the blood flow to those areas.
- 38:21And we know you've got to move the shoulders.
- 38:23It's not going to be the same way as if, you know, you're doing jumping jacks and your arms are going flailing, but you need to get blood flow to that area.
- 38:31And the row is one way that you could do that because of that shrugging, that squeezing of the shoulder blades together.
- 38:38Alicia, as per your website, the 12 week program is on a wait list.
- 38:44When do you expect to open that up?
- 38:47Well, actually, right now we are open.
- 38:50So, we've started a process of having it open more often, but you have to, watch the free masterclass in order to get access.
- 38:57So I can give you the link to the free masterclass.
- 39:00The free masterclass is called The Three Phase Food And Fitness Formula, Every Woman Over 50 Needs To Know.
- 39:07And at the end of that masterclass, I share all of the details of Over 50 Fit And Fabulous.
- 39:12Oh, great, because I also did see that you have a free challenge that's on right now.
- 39:17It's the 7 Day Starter Strength Training Slim Down Challenge for Women over 50.
- 39:23Yes, if you are just starting at basics with, everything with weight training and your nutrition and you want the lowest hanging fruit, you would do the seven day challenge.
- 39:35Just to get information on the Three Phase Food And Fitness Formula, that is the free masterclass.
- 39:41And I personally, even just to see what the Three Phase Fitness Formula And Food Formula is, where you blend the science with your lifestyle, I think the masterclass is the way to go begin there.
- 39:54And then at the end of the day, if you're like, okay, got this information, but I'm at the lowest hanging fruit, then sign up for the seven day challenge.
- 40:02Okay, so your masterclass is kind of like a sneak peek behind the curtain and see, is this something I want to pursue?
- 40:12That's right.
- 40:12And it goes through exactly how to cycle yourself through the three phases of food and fitness.
- 40:18So we go through, how you start with your weight training, how you move with your food into the next phase and the next phase so that you're aware of what you can do.
- 40:29So if at the end of the masterclass, you say, I'm not ready to join the program yet.
- 40:33You still have a Three Phase Food And Fitness Formula you can do.
- 40:37You just bring a pen and some paper and take some notes and you can at least get the basics of what to do.
- 40:44That's great.
- 40:45You're so generous.
- 40:46I was looking at your website.
- 40:47You have so many videos of showing, giving people bite sizes of different things.
- 40:53I think that's great.
- 40:55Oh, thank you so much.
- 40:56I really do think that it's all about just start really small.
- 40:59Just start with something, anything, and then once that starts to feel comfortable, if or when you're ready, when you're ready, because I know everyone will be eventually when you're ready, that's when you can dive into a full complete program.
- 41:13But you don't need to do a hundred different exercises and spend hours of your day planning out all of your meals and exercising every moment of the day.
- 41:23Just start where you are right now and add on a little bit from there Oh, I was gonna ask you, in your 12 week program, how difficult are the meals to prep or purchase?
- 41:36Well, I don't make any of the meals you don't make any of the meals I mean you are you're gonna make meals.
- 41:41But what I do is I teach you how to eat the way that you're eating now and make small changes to that based on your preferences.
- 41:49So I ask you to log your food, one, I get to see what you're eating as well as you.
- 41:54And during the discovery phase, when you log your food, it's just simply to see what you're eating, what the choices are, and we can go through that together.
- 42:02And then in the second phase, that's when we adapt nutrition more to your hormones.
- 42:07But I'm never going to tell you exactly what to eat.
- 42:10I mean, we talk about different foods that you can incorporate.
- 42:13And if you're really struggling and you don't understand what healthy versus unhealthy foods are, there are lists of healthy versus unhealthy and high protein foods, all of that sort of fun stuff.
- 42:23But what I want to do is teach everybody how to do that on their own, which means that at the end of the program, you know what you like to eat and whether or not that food is worth it, whether it's actually healthy for you.
- 42:41Whether you've been fooled into believing it's healthy.
- 42:44We go through labeling, like how to read nutrition labels properly, how to understand your food choices.
- 42:51The whole nine yards.
- 42:52So we even talk about emotional eating, willpower, how it's not a real thing.
- 42:57Hormones, there's the science and the lifestyle components all in it together.
- 43:01So you're armed with everything you need to eat the foods that you love, without having that restriction.
- 43:08Like once a meal plans over, it's done, right?
- 43:10That's it.
- 43:11And then you're like, oh, am I going to just follow the same meal plan over and over again?
- 43:14It worked, but you know, it's kind of boring at that point.
- 43:16No, it's about creating variety and fun and understanding how to eat so that you can make those choices, taking control of your food choices.
- 43:26That's great.
- 43:27Alicia, what is the one thing from today's discussion that you would want a listener or viewer to hold close to her heart and remember?
- 43:38Yeah, that you're never too old.
- 43:40It's never too late.
- 43:42And you do not need to be doing everything, all at once.
- 43:47It can be as simple as starting with a 10 minute plan and a few workout moves and just starting to find a little bit of time for you and build on that from there.
- 43:58Start small, lowest hanging fruit, and then work from there.
- 44:03Great.
- 44:04Alicia, this has been eye opening.
- 44:08This has been wonderful.
- 44:09Thank you so much for coming on the show.
- 44:11I will make sure to include all of your information in the show notes and the link to the masterclass that you spoke Perfect.
- 44:19Thank you so much.
- 44:21All right.
- 44:22Thank you.
- 44:23So now you know how Alicia's 72 year old mom ended up inspiring a whole community, and maybe that's just the spark you needed to jumpstart your own transformation.
- 44:36If you'd like to watch Alicia's free masterclass, The Three Phases of Food and Fitness Formula, Every Woman Over 50 Needs to Know, you'll find that link in my show notes or at CreateTheBestMe.com/ep101.
- 44:57After watching, you can decide if Over 50 Fit and Fabulous is right for you, because you'll get a personalized invitation to join her 12 week program and gain support from Alicia's amazing community.
- 45:13If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to hit subscribe, share and come back next week for another amazing episode created just for you.
- 45:23Until then, keep dreaming big, take care of yourself, and remember, you are beautiful and stronger and capable of creating the best version of yourself.
- 45:35Thank you for watching.
- 45:36Catch you next week.
- 45:38Bye for now.